I'm 5'5 and about 133lbs don't think i'm fat but not very slender. Every time there are family/friend get togethers I always get commented about my weight and it kind of annoys me. At my worse I was 150 lbs but that was a long time ago and didn't keep that fat on for long and even before that I was thin. So every time its some family member saying oh u lost weight! then i'm thinking didn't u say that the last time we saw each other? Do they really have no other topics, these are people who talk a lot.

Mi novio y yo tenemos casi 2 años juntos, nunca nadie me había demostrado tanto amor como el, nos amamos, resulta que conocimos a una chica que se integro a un grupo social comunitario al que pertenecemos, sentí como si mi novio estuviera coqueteando con ella y eso me dolió muchísimo, esa misma noche hablamos respecto a eso, de lo mal que me sentí y el se disculpo y me explico que solo intento ser amable pero que al parecer se malinterpreto, al día siguiente había una actividad de 4 días al que yo no pude ir, ´pero mi novio y la nueva chica si, cuando regresaron que yo fui a su recibimiento, los veía que hablaban muchisimo etc y cuando estaban enviando todas las fotos de la actividad en todas salieron juntos, en el grupo hay muchas personas y el es amable con todos, pero con ella yo siento que es mas que con cualquiera, ella es muy bonita, amable, simpática etc no tiene la culpa, ya he hablado con mi novio otra vez calmados y me dice que el no ha llegado a sentir ninguna confusión y que me ama, pero aun así siento como un presentimiento, que creen ustedes?

Ha ha this is so him

We broke up over a year ago, but saw each other about 4 times after. We broke up because he was a bit of a loner and not the relationship kind of guy. He's used to being alone. I saw a message he sent to a girl online who lives in another country & he told me he was just bored & it meant nothing. He never wanted to do much & after that I didn't trust him. When I said I can't see him anymore & that we're not together, he gets in touch with me every couple of months, asking how I am or making a comment. He's not seeing anyone. Why does he keep in touch? We were very close, but he was immature even though he's 33. When we broke up he says he still likes me. Why message me after all this time? After we broke up he still wanted to cuddle & hold my hand & kiss my forehead affectionately, but he doesn't want a relationship, in my opinion. So why doesn't he move on?

Okay so my friend told me every generation will have a war to fight, no matter past, present of future. This is what he told me(Major conflicts of the US army after WW2) : * World War 2/Korean War - My grandfathers generation * Vietnam War - My uncles generation * Desert Storm or Gulf War - My fathers generation * War on terror(Iraq and Afghanistan) - My brothers generation * World War 3? War in Syria? Korean war cont.? - My generation? Will a Syrian conflict spark a WW3 or border tension? My brother is 30, I'm 17

Should I dump him? I am 23 years old. My boyfriend told his friends he was single, I saw on his Instagram he looked up a girl I asked him why he told me my friend told me to date her. I would be okay with him just looking her up, but his friend told him to date her so he looked her up even though he knows what she already looked like. There is a lot more rude things he has said to me that make me want to dump him...what do you guys think is that a good reason?

I am 22. Everyone around me is getting engaged, pregnant, or worse lol. I think I look cute in this pic.

1st semester I moved into my first apartment (2 bedroom) and my roommate was terrible! Her boyfriend basically moved in with us, was smoking weed in the apartment every two seconds, etc. I talked to my roommate about it, she didnt care, so I went to the manager and they handled it kind of bad (don't feel like typing it all out). But the manager that was there at that time quit and the assistant manager (the one who handled the situation) is now the head manager. So I had to break my lease and move out 2nd semester b/c there was too much going on. Other than that, I LOVED living there! The other apartment complex I'm looking at now only has 3 and 4 bedrooms and the people I know there deal with it, they don't really like it though. My first apartment is the only complex that offers 2 bedrooms that are huge with decent rent. Would I look ridiculous if I tried to move back in there? only if I talk to them about who will be my roommate this time and such? be honest. and if you're wondering why I don't want to commute anymore, it's because taking an hour drive back and forth from campus to home everyday is killing me and draining my pockets. There's also not many apartment complex by my school, these two are the only options I have.

I posted like 2 pictures of myself in a bikini on Instagram. Which I didn't think anything of it ,l.but does it send the wrong message ...? I'm not a slut or anything lol I got a skinny body with big boobs . But I thought that if there was a guy ever interested in me does it give off the wrong message ...? 😳 Or am I just overthinking it I'm 22 btw.

My partner and I are in a poly relationship. She's hypersexual and because of my mental illness, it's hard for me to consistently be into/able to have sex. She/we just **** around in a small group of friends, but last night she went on a date with a partner's partner. I guess they vibed really hard and have a lot in common and really want to ****. My girlfriend told me today that they want her to sleepover tonight. Honestly I'm jealous and I'm trying to figure out why i feel that way. I don't want to be a controlling partner, but I have needs too and I feel like our relationship has been different the last couple of months. I'm trying to be a better partner but I think her needs are more physical, whereas mine are more emotional. I'm afraid to bring up being jealous to her because she broke up with her last boyfriend, who she was seeing when we first started having sex, because he was jealous(of course their were other factors but she said that the second he tried to be controlling, she was out) I love my girlfriend so much and I want her to be happy, but I'm trying real hard to be happy myself. I don't want to lose her but I don't know how to go about this. I don't even know what I want from this. I know I have to communicate with her, I just want to formulate my thoughts and feelings first. Can people with poly relationship experience let me know how they handle jealous? If this a valid way to feel? This is my first poly relationship and I'm still trying to navigate it.

My lovelife a bit disturbed coz my boyfriend is away on job and joins me only once a month. He was attracted to my sexy legs at the beach. He even cells me sexylegs. Now this nightmare of seeing scars in my legs is so disturbing coz I view it almost every 2-3 says.

My and my ex broke up around 3 years ago mutually due to 'losing the spark'. We were together for 3 years before we broke up. About a year after we broke up I found out that she had moved on, it broke my heart but I accepted it and I was happy for her. After 3years of barely speaking, we finally spoke on Valentine's Day this year and in that message she sent me a pic of a valentines present that I gave her almost 4 years ago and she said that she never knew how weird it could be to go from talking and seeing someone all the time to not talking at all, she also asked if I had met anyone I said no then she went on to say that she wonders how things would be if we were still together.After that she said that she hoped I can find someone that makes me happy because I deserve it.I was shocked but I just said the same back. It felt as tho we were close again, At the end of this conversation she said bye and told me to 'stay in touch'.After this I sent her a pic of a place where I used to take her and asked if she remembers she said yeah and asked who I was with.She remembers everything including my birthday in a few weeks and jokingly said that I should start thinking about 'settling down' bcos I'm getting old. I have tried to get over her but after 3 years I'm still not over her and after talking recently I'm beginning to think that she still might have feelings for me,we haven't spoke much since valentines as our conversations are mostly on and off,could there still be a chance?

Last weekend I was the unfortunate victim of rape by a female. I haven't had the courage to tell anyone because the situation is embarrassing and degrading, so I am putting my trust in the people of yahoo answers. Friday night I met up with a person from the app, Friendsy, which is like Tinder. I was only looking for friendship and this girl said the same, but she had an alternate agenda in mind. We both play Magic Cards and she invited over to her dorm to play a round of the game. She had a bowl of skittles on the table in her room and I ate some without questioning if they were safe. The next thing I remember, the lights were off and I was confused. My clothes were off and she was on top of me sucking my face like an eel. I wanted to scream for help but I felt paralyzed and didn't have the strength to push her off. I faded in and out of consciousness several times during her acts until finally I woke up and she was gone. I quickly put my clothes on and ran out of her dorm. I got back to my room and I was trying to put the pieces together but I don't remember much. I cannot even report her to campus security because I don't remember her name and she blocked me on the app. I feel like a used piece of meat and I haven't slept well since the event occurred. Some advice would be greatly appreciated, thank you everyone.

I posted an ad on Craigslist looking to have an affair with a lonely married woman who needed attention. I didnt want to commit my heart and feelings to anyone because of past relationships. Jacque replied to my ad. She had been longing for attention. She has been married for 20 yrs and had expressed to me that her and her husband were like "passing ships in the night". Her husband is a professional gambler that "plays" all night and sleeps all day while she does all the work around the house. She met me one day briefly when we first met. The next day she was in my room having unprotected sex with me. Very soon afterwards she told me that she wanted it to be "more than just sex". I agreed that it was! There, we basically committed to each other. She told me she didn't even sleep in the same room as her husband, said shed never had an affair before and would tell me how special I was. Things were absolutely WONDERFUL for the first few months until she started telling me I should find someone else that I can be happy with and go out and do things with. Then, her visits with me got fewer and fewer, her work schedule picked up a lot, she became very bitter towards me and argumentive and I have no doubt that she's been seeing someone else. She'd tell me she was "innocent until proven guilty" but I know that I didn't need to walk in on her ******* her new lover to know she was seeing someone else. Anyway, I've told her many times to just be honest with me and if she's been seeing someone else, just tell me about him and I won't "expose" her to her husband or interfere with her new relationship but if she doesn't and I find out, I WILL! Well, I think I've come very close to catching her a few times and she had realized that the longer she is with him and talking to me, she will for sure get caught by me because for one, her "stories" don't make sense half the time. I know she's seeing someone else, should I tell her husband? Please include your email so I can reply to you.

so my boss and i have been having an affair for about a year now. at first, it was super awkward but i liked it and as we got deeper into it, i genuinely care about the guy. im not in love with him. i just like him. his wife is a crazy psycho *****. she cheats on him and treats him like **** which has driven him to be with other women. he stays with her because they have kids. and even though she cheats, she doesnt want a divorce. which ultimately led to him cheating and finding happiness in other places. im definitey not the first affair, and i know i wont be his last. so one time about six months ago, i told him i couldnt do it anymore. it was making me feel guilty. she followed us one time and found out where i lived and tried stalking me. it was stressing me out. she wanted him to fire me. it was just bad. so anyway, he told her he wasnt going to fire me and lied that he wasnt sleeping with me and tried to get me to keep doing it. eventually i caved and we still sleep together to this day. i finally told someone and they went off on me about ruining his marriage (even though its already clearly ruined) and then contributing to his children having problems when (if) they find out that their dad was having an affair. basically putting me down saying i was a horrible person. i just dont feel like i care about his wife. if his wife was a sweet lady that worked on her marriage instead of putting him down when he tries to bring her flowers or take her places or listen to her (hes an awesome person, shes a brat) then i would definitely have a problem sleeping with him and i wouldnt do it. but shes not. shes crazy. she doesnt deserve him. i make him happy. she doesnt. he would be with her instead of me if she didnt drive him away. thoughts? please dont be rude either. i know i need to stop this affair because it is getting to me. have any of you had an affair before? what happened? why did it stop? did you feel bad? how was the wife? thank you ladies.

Hi all I am 23 years old and recently ended an affair with a 33 year old married woman, with two young kids. The affair lasted for 7 months and was very intense. We both worked together in the same department. There was a lot of talk about being in love and lots lots of sex. There was a pregnancy and abortion as well. I was single throughout the relationship as well. Basically the relationship got too intense for me and I realised that I was not going to get much more out of the relationship besides sex, so I decided to end it after a heated discussion. It was very hard as we were goodfriends and we had told each other everything. I knew it had to end because I started to get jealous that we was also having sex with her husband. I knew this was a sign that I had fallen for her. She ende up telling her husband everything, including the abortion. I spoke to her husband as well who told me that we all needed to deal with it and he knew that she was in love with me. I told him that I would not contact her and I hope she would stop too. I confided in a mutual friend who has now told everybody in my ex workplace. She still works there. She continued to contact me just to abuse me. Still till this day she calls me on private number to abuse me and call me a child. She says that her husband is a real man and that I am nothing but a child. She goes around telling people that the sex was better with her husband. I don't really care at her trying to take shots at my ego, but I don't understand her need to continue to contact me and be abusive. I have changed jobs and tried to move forward with life, but she has managed to find out my new numbers and emails. I feel so hurt by it all, someone that claimed to love me so much is now calling me and telling me that everyday with me was ****. The sex was ****. She hates me and will never forgive me till the day she dies. We did end up having sex about two weeks ago, which her husband found out about and endded up calling my parents on my home phone and telling them everything. From what I know they are working things out and moving forward. I dont understand why she wont leave me alone. I really just wanted to end things as they were and move forward. I wasnt expecting anything more, but I hoped maybe we could of been friends after the feelings had subsided. Now it feels strange. She calls to say she hates me. I get an email every sayings that I am a child. If I tell her to focus on her marriage, she tells me that I could not bring up her husband who is a saint of a man and would never betray her. I dont understand what happened to everything. So hurt and needs someone to just help me through this. What could she possible get out of hurting me. She has her loving husband. Why does she not let me just get on with my life. My parents are now involved for no reason. Please help.

so my little sister has a field trip today and she really, really wants me to come with her. like she'll start crying and whining if i tell her no. and like, she asked her teacher if it was okay and her teachers evidently said yep not a problem. but here's MY problem, what if it isn't okay? like im 19, not 21 and i think u normally have to be 21 to go with them, right? i dont think my sister told them my age and i dont want it to be awkward for the teachers. i dont want to hurt my sisters feelings but…this doesnt really feel like its okay?

Say she randomly texts you and you've liked her for a while but she has a man.

Like when you tell someone their boyfriend is only with them only for your money and everyone knows it, they get all defensive and hostile towards you.

im a 21 year old woman and ive been at my work for 3 years, but I need to fill in this form to update history or something and it says 'marital status' now I don't know what to put, Im not married im a lesbian living with my partner who is a woman what should I put? we intend to have a civil partnership, were both feminine women and proud of our sexuality and love so what should I put under 'marital status' in this form? I filled in a similer form 3 years ago when I first joined, but its changed since then cos when that happened I lived alone and had just started dating my partner, now we live together so what should I put?

Boa noite, eu queria saber uma opinião. eu tinha uma namorada que ela quis larga-me de um momento para o outro pk eum desconfiava sempre dela e era um chato isso de o que ela dizia de mim e metia sempre os amigos ao barulho, nos andamos 1 ano e meio, mas ela está semana quis acabar comigo de vez sabendo eu bem que ela me ama, ela disse que já não sente o que sentia por mim, e ela agr comessou a ir para o café com a maltá da terra raparigas e rapazes, e nestas últimas duas semanas ficou estranha disse à frente dà malta da terra dela que já não tínhamos nada haver um com o outro, mas depois disso ainda voltamos uns dias até que agr assim do nada eu ia no domingo para estar com ela e ela no sábado à noite disse-me para não ir mais fui igual, ela estas semanas mal me deu atenção ignorou as minhas mensagens e dava para ver que ela estava online, e no domingo acabamos tudo só que ela hj enviou uma mensagem a dizer que me ama e essas coisas, eu queria a vossa opinião para saber se ela me trajudar um não? Eu desconfio que sim e ela até jurou por Deus mas mesmo assim não acredito

I was in an abusive relationship for a short time. I was in love with this man who was sweet some times but then controlling and would stalk me and then blame me for not being able to trust me even tho I NEVER cheated on him or even thought about doing it. I broke up with him with pain in my heart because I still loved him but his behavior was damaging. I kept the stuffed animals that he gave me but now, one year later, I am moving to a new apartment. There is a little girl who I babysit and I gave her one of the stuffed animals. The mom, who is friend of my friend, just took it without asking any questions. The little girl was playing with it for a week. But next week my friend came and asked me, did you buy that stuffed animal for her? and I didn't know what to say. My friend knows the whole story because she was friends of both of us. I mumbled something, but I am sure it definitely sounded like a lie. I came to babysit three weeks later and the bear was no where. I just want to ask moms out there, is it not good what I did? Should I have told her?

Long story short i have a Twin Flame and we are completely telepathic. With that being said its been over a year and we still are not together physically. Can someone give us some advice on how to you came into union with your Twin Flame?

I could tell my manager was kind of having a bad day and I told him don't be mad because we were all behind on things and he was like I'm mad and I was like why and he should me the times on the screen and I joking said something like you keep talking **** about me and he was like I'm not talking about you, I'm talking **** about myself and then he started telling me how he wanted to be GM but I guess they didn't let him or something and he said he was like the GM's ***** and went like do this, do that, and I told him to tell them to eff off and he was like I can't, I'm not you something like that. Does it sound like he trusts me? Or just felt like complaining because he was mad

I'm in an adjoined AP Language/History and I have a really casual relationship with the AP Language teacher. It's not inappropriate or anything, and I think he's attractive and young (31), but I certainly don't have a crush on him (ironically, I have a huge crush on his partner, the AP History teacher). I mean, I always hang out in his classroom before school and we tease each other all the time. He told me that if I don't learn how to dance I wouldn't get along in life. I told him he's sloppy. I guess I'm more personal with him than other teachers. I recently had a dream that he put horseradish on my food and told him it as a joke. He thought it was hilarious. I feel like if I had a problem I could go to him with it and he would help me out. I ask him for advice on a lot on the upcoming AP exam and he's plain and straightforward with me, and told me he thought I'd do well. My sister thinks that I have no boundary with him and says its "scary". I disagree. I am very honest and perhaps very relaxed in conversation, but its not inappropriate. Neither of us has, by actions, suggested inappropriate behavior (I playfully ruffled his hair once, which could have been perceived wrong, but he only told me that he needed a haircut). Thoughts?