volunteer for an organization and have been part of one of their event committees for the past few years. The co-chairs quit earlier this year (one from the organization entirely, one from the particular committee) and nominated me to take over. The one who is still involved with the organization has seemed to take the attitude of "not my problem" on the unpleasant side of dealing with things (and rightfully so) but has also been going behind my back to choose the people she wants to have do things, working with a friend of hers "takeover" a portion of it while trying to keep me out of it, poke fun at the way I m doing things, etc. and it s driving me crazy. This being a volunteer organization, and so many people still seeing her as the "lead" (as she was for so many years) it would be difficult for me to straight-forward tell her to knock it off because I would lose a lot of support. No one there HAS to participate in the event. What do I do?

So this guy I work with invited me over to drink with him even though he's a got a girlfriend. I joking said you drinking tonight and he was like yeah and that's he's off tomorrow and that he's got scotch whisky at home and I love whisky too so I was like I want some and he randomly said come over and I told him that he lived really far and then he asked me what my favorite whisky was I said jack daniels and he was I love jack Daniels w/ coke? and I said yeah and that it kinda effs me up and then mentioned that I should bring some to his bday party which he kinda invited me too. Anyway I don't know if I am going to go to his bday party cause of his girlfriend and also cause I really like him but yeah did it mean anything?

This might sound over dramatic and it probably is but I'm not the best in these situations. I recently started talking to someone through tinder, I don't really use tinder a lot but it was a weekend night and my buds had it so I fired the app up. I matched with someone throughout the night and I've been talking to her for about 2 weeks now. I'm not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, I'm just trying to get my degree and have some fun here and there. From previous mistakes and experiences I've learned not to lead people on, and that's the last thing I want to do here. She messages me a lot, and I message back with equal enthusiasm. I made plans with her to meet up next week, after my finals but I'm getting cold feet. She lives about 30 miles away from campus, and a few hundred away from my home where I'll be staying in the summer. It's gotten to the point where I cant ghost her because that will be a douche bag move. My parents might come up and help me move my stuff out which will get me an excuse to get out of the plans. I would make sure to tell her that right away, but I don't want to her feelings at all. Sure, we're not in any serious thing, we haven't met in person yet but I've been talking to her for a few weeks and I want to end things properly without being a douche. Tldr Met girl thru tinder, been talking a few weeks made plans to meet up,don't want to anymore because of summer and distance but don't want to be a douche and cancel and ghost her.

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Would I be born to a different mother or father?

Es un compañero de trabajo que entró hace un mes, a los pocos días que nos presentaron se me queda viendo mucho y fijamente a los ojos, cuando entra a mi lugar por agua me ve mucho, sonríe y platica cosas personales. Hace unos días pregunto que tal mi fin de semana y le dije que bien, le pregunte que tal el suyo y me dijo que se la pasó arreglando su carro, después menciono que tiene novia. El viernes mi jefe me pidió ir con el a ver unas cosa al cuarto de sistema vs incendio, ya estando ahí se me acercaba mucho, luego fuimos a comer pero nos fuimos en su carro y me fui adelante con el, así que cambiaba muchas veces las estaciones del radio y de repente me dijo que pusiera la música que yo quisiera, de regreso hizo lo mismo, nos subimos y me dijo que volviera a poner mi música. En la tarde me dijo que si lo acompañaba de nuevo porque se le olvido ver unas cosas y estuvo platicando y nuevamente se me acercaba mucho y menciono su novia. No se que le pasa o que quiere, porque hasta un compañero ya me dijo que su forma de verme y tratarme no es normal

Is this true? My mom told me that it's my fault I'm sad because of bullying and that I shouldn't have let it get to me so this is all my fault now-is this true or is it just my mom?

Will explain. Basically: Website called Chaturbate accidently popped up on computer. Don't know if the website recorded me or not. Was I recorded? Was on a Chromebook. Please explain. Thank you.

Explaining What is Chaturbate? Does it record you if you accidently access the website? Explain please.

Edit Conoci a una chica lindisima en el gym, hemos estado entranando juntos diario, me espera o la espero si alguno de los 2 llega mas tenorano, platicamos nos reimos en cada oportunidad que tengo le rozo el brazo muy casual y ella no se nota que se incomode, el problema es que dice que tiene novio, la forma que lo ha mencionado es la siguien, le digo a mido tanto ella dice mi novio mide eso, peso tanto ella mi novio tmb pesa eso, y le digo lo que pienso de algo que me platica y dice mi novio tmb dice eso, las veces que lo ha mencionado hasta pareciera que somo identicos, tambien ma platica que le ha dado el numero a otro chicos pero pues los ha bloqueado y asi,(porque da el numero si tiene novio??? a mi si me dio el numero pero para ponernos de acuerdo en llegar al gym) he estado pensando en invitarla a comer o cenar y platicar conocerla mas y ahi preguntarle si realmente tiene novio? porque me interesa, pero si tiene novio la verdad respeto mucho eso.

HI IM 14 IM IN 8th GRADE AND IM IN LOVE WITH MY 35 YEAR OLD TEACHER WHO IS TURNING 36 ON AUGUST 22, 2017. YES I KNOW HIS PERSONAL INFORMATION BECAUSE I SEARCHED HIM UP THROUGH VOTING RECORDS AND FOUND HIS STASH OF INFO. I SAW THE VIEW OF HIS HOUSE ON GOOGLE HES A BEAUTIFUL ITALIAN MAN AND I FANTASIZE HAVIBG SEX WITH HIM, HIS HARD MONSTER COCK DRILLING MY WET PUSSY, THEN ME KILLING HIM AND WATCHING THE BLOOD SLIDE OFF OF HIS BEAUTIFUL SKIN. MY FRIENDS SAY THAT I NEED HELP AND THAT I SHOULD HANG OUT WITH EMO KIDS BUT IM NOT EMO IM IN LOVE AND I HAVE NEEDS. TERRIBLE GNAWING NEEDS OF THAT COCK.

(Same person posting about people knocking on doors, ringing doorbells and turning the knob and pushing on the doors) Anyway I see people in my neighborhood through a streamline of tennis shoes and other varieties on the telephone line. These shoes are really nice. But cannot understand why these people are throwing them on the telephone lines? Are they wet?

In our neighborhood my sister said something about people going around and knocking down mailboxes with a baseball bat. We had ours knocked down once, other people in the neighborhood had their mailboxes laying down on the ground also where someone presumily knocked it down, What fun do people get out of doing this? I live in a house, low income neighborhood,( is the same guy that posted about people knocking on doors, ringing doorbells and turn handles and push on the door)

To me, it's a sign that a person is exerting power, domination and control over you. To me, it's like I'm somehow weaker than the person. It speaks vulnerability and I hate that.

The only thing that helps me not kill myself is the love for my family and friends, but lately those things aren t helping as much as they used too. I feel like my parents don t love me as much as they used to and my best friend has others that she can look to. At this point I m just a burden. Im always like a spot of negitivitey in my family and friends life. And my parents would be able to save so much more money without me and finally be able to get a house and pay for better presents to give to my siblings. My friend could finally stop worrying about how I m bringing down her popularity in school and can stop paying for my meals when I can t afford them. I don t know what to do now please help.

Conoci a una chica lindisima en el gym, hemos estado entranando juntos diario, me espera o la espero si alguno de los 2 llega mas tenorano, platicamos nos reimos en cada oportunidad que tengo le rozo el brazo muy casual y ella no se nota que se incomode, el problema es que dice que tiene novio, la forma que lo ha mencionado es la siguien, le digo a mido tanto ella dice mi novio mide eso, peso tanto ella mi novio tmb pesa eso, y le digo lo que pienso de algo que me platica y dice mi novio tmb dice eso, las veces que lo ha mencionado hasta pareciera que somo identicos, tambien ma platica que le ha dado el numero a otro chicos pero pues los ha bloqueado y asi,(porque da el numero si tiene novio??? a mi si me dio el numero pero para ponernos de acuerdo en llegar al gym) he estado pensando en invitarla a comer o cenar y platicar conocerla mas y ahi preguntarle si realmente tiene novio? porque me interesa, pero si tiene novio la verdad respeto mucho eso. Que dicen ayudaaa porfaaaa.

Hola amig@s, espero me puedan ayudar. Hace unos días estaba con mi novio y queríamos tener relaciones, pero el problema es que no teníamos protección. Él me dijo que se podía venir fuera de mí y que ya no iba a haber embarazo, pero yo había leído que el liquido preseminal puede contener semen y que había un riesgo de quedar embarazada. El caso es que al principio acepté y me penetró, pero a la hora que lo hizo yo me quedé muy inquieta y le dije que no, así que se puede decir que ya no lo hicimos, sólo fueron como dos veces que lo hizo y ya. ¿Creen que pueda quedar embarazada? Ya sé que me escucho como niña, pero la verdad aún no tengo mucha experiencia en estos casos. Doy 5 estrellitas a mejor respuesta, besos.

I always act bold with my guyfriend who I love n every time I do smth he questions me like do you do this with all guy etc.. he is my first love. Why does he keep asking me such questions. Don't u like these things?

I have a crush on a shy guy that likes me but has never spoken to me. I want to text him but was told not to cause I'm a girl..

My fiancé took me and my dtr to the movies, he stated he will pick us up because he wasn t interested in the movie and he had to run earns so he stated that me and my dtr should have our time together since we live together, however when the movie was over I called him and no answer, I texted him to let him know the movie was over and he can pick us up, no answer... I called Uber to take us home when it s my car he was driving, I came home and he wasn t passed out drunk and the house was a complete disaster. I love him deeply but I can t stand for this behavior

Everyone is saying I should. But he's shy. Why does a man have to make the first move? I don't understand why my friends are lowering my self esteem when I willing to make a move...I just want to text him but they're saying that's just desperate cause I'm a girl.:

we re very close friends and talk every single day. i m very much in love with her. she told me she loved me just last month. we flirt very often. she gets mad when i don t answer her. again, we flirt mutually a lot. she hasn t said she loved me since the month before, but that doesn t mean the flirting doesn t mean anything. she told me about this new guy she s talking to and how she s developing feelings for him. i called her out on what she s done and she doesn t fully get it. i know she s never really fully loved me. she did apologize, although it was sort of a BS apology i guess, but now i still have no idea what to do with myself. i don t want to stop talking to her because then i know i really don t have any chance at all. not talking to her will just make her mad at me and make her and that guy get closer. but talking to her now makes me sick i m so confused, please give me advice <3 how do i cope with being led on?

Okay I don t know why but i want to get my boyfriends mom something for mother s day, i just feel like I should thank her for my boyfriend pretty much because she made him who he is BUT we ve only been dating for 3 months and on top of that i haven t met her AT ALL meaning i ll meet her that day. I was thinking flowers and a card ??? but I don t know. Thoughts? (we re 17 btw)

He's shy. I won't see him anymore so I want to text him. I'm not in class this semester. Should I say, "hey, what's up? Are u back in school?" Again we have never spoken but he does have feelings for me and knows who I am.

our first year, we afrgued a lot. I mean he wouldn't talk to me when he was with his friends...even though I tried to socialize, they would speak in a different language. It was very awkward. It happened twice. His friend even asked if we were together. When I went to give him a kiss he took his hands and turned my head around....I just thought maybe he didn't like PDA. That's normal right? He put me down for 2 years. Calling me mental for being depressed and crazy. He also checks out girls in front of me. Is that normal? We haven't fought for a year. I can't tell if it's because I'm being passive..

I seen on this movie this man lost his whole hand from frostbite is this possible or fake

There's a guy that works at this cafe I go to pretty often. He only works in the back room cutting up food/cooking and every time I go, he watches me from the window in the back. Whatever he's doing he just stops and stares at me and he'll make sure I know he's looking at me by standing by the door. It never bothers me but he just always does it lol

A guy is 30 something and married with two little girls. He constantly cheats on his wife and brags about it even saying he can give married women what their husbands can't. He stays out all night drinking and gambling and tells his wife he found a temp night time construction job. Wait, it gets worse... He has two dogs which are scared to death of him and run away when he enters the room. He kicks them and shoots them with a BB gun for fun. He bullies you with personally insulting jokes when others are around. You and him like the same girl. He wins then comes to you in private and says, "I ****** her and there's nothing you can do about it." Weeks later this girl comes to you crying and saying this guy is a jerk. So...(and this is the morally questionable part) you kick his *** in front of his friends. Not bad, just enough to teach him a lesson. You know, no words or lecturing would ever have any effect. But this did. Sometimes people don't learn how to live in a civil world or respect for others. Sometimes, sadly it does take force. They have to be confronted with a consequence they can't escape and this is better than some husband catching him in a bar. In this case it did seem to make him a better person in that he seems to respect other more now. People say, we should mind our own business, no matter how others act or what they say or how they treat others. Is whacking in a little right or wrong?

They believe that tough and scary gets someone respected. They don't give a lick about different personalities and lifestyles, If they just find you generally annoying in their presence they would either bully you, beat you up or try to start an all out physically fight with you, scheduled fight. They don't seem to be afraid of policemen.

So I'm 18 years old and I've been thinking, all my life I've been struggling because of my parents, I had an abusive mother when I was little which resulted in me being taken away from her, which resulted in me living with my father, one day he just decided to move across the country, from Ohio to Washington (just me and him) to so call "make our lives better" but really he has been struggling to keep a roof over our head and we've even been homeless a couple of times, this resulted in me getting behind in school and etc. I really don't know if it's my fault the way my life is the way it is or not, I'm really just an unfortunate soul just existing. My life is ****** because my parents have been irresponsible and they treat me like **** because of it. Am I a **** up or is it my parents fault?

So at school there was a huge scandal about a male vice principal having an affair with a female teacher. The teacher got suspended for the remainder of the school year and I believe that the vice principal got fired... or he also got suspended.. but I'm pretty sure he got fired. Anyway, the teacher was married and she had a kid with her husband. The vice principal was single, never married. Anyway, a lot of people were blaming him for the affair and saying that he deserved what he got and that the teacher's treatment was totally unfair and "poor teacher." Anyway, do you think it was fair that the vice principal might have gotten fired and the teacher only got suspended for like 2 weeks? In my opinion, I would have fired both, just to be equal. Besides, she also knew what she was doing, and she was married and he didn't force her to have an affair with him. What would you have done? And do you think the consequences for both of them were equal or unfair? Do you think that it was right for them to get reprimanded, or was it okay for them to have an affair, since it is their private life? Thanks :)