I met my new step brother 5 days ago. He's perfect in every way(His grades, looks, body, style... Everything) I haven't seen a guy that is a gentlemanat this age.. I might have a crush on him. I can't stop fantasizing about him. What should I do ? I'm 14. He's 7 months older than me. He sometimes even flirts with me, but usually it's me. He always looks at my chest area and hugs me for whatever reason...

So I'm fourteen, and my step mom was doing work around the house. She was in leggings and so I started to record what I saw (her backside). I even proceeded to brush against her *** secretly with both my hand and, other part. Is this at all normal? What should I do. This is the only way I can relieve myself of this guilt but is there something I can do in order to prevent myself from ever doing this again?

My sister is dating this guy he's too old for her way too old. He's 70 something she's only 14. He's a prisoner he goes in and out of jail. She said she really loves him. They had sex twice since they been together she loves doing it with him she said he's really awesome and he's really gentle. When he comes over she and him are locked up in her room. He don't look like he's 70. I don't know how she met him or why. I don't wanna know. He said he was in jail for murdering someone. I don't feel comfortable around him I don't feel comfortable her being with him. She said he's really nice he's not the same guy as he was when he murdered whoever. He's got kids who are older than her. He probably has grandkids. She's never met his kids but he tells her about them. He hasn't seen them or his wife in years but he's divorced. She said she wants to have babies with him after they're married. He proposed to her because she thought she was pregnant but she wasn't but they're still engaged she's on birth control now. She feels bad for him she wants to stay with him she said shes gonna marry him when she's 16. Our parents are dead it's just me and her. She likes guys who are older anywhere from 20-80 will work for her. How can I help her ?

I am a big fan of our local sports team. I go to every game I can but I can afford only the cheapest seats. One day at a game, I heard someone say "Hello Ann". I turned around and it was John, my sister's ex husband. We talked briefly and he invited him to join him in his luxury box and I gladly accepted. I had never been a luxury box but they are GREAT. I really enjoyed the game a lot more from his box. He told me that any time I was at a game to come by his box and join him in watching the game. I did and each time I had a great time at the game. He had refreshments brought to his luxury box and we just talked. I had a wonderful time. He was the nicest person ever, very polite and never hit on me. We never talked about my sister, his ex. Sometimes his friends would join us in his box. They were all very nice to me and this just made it more fun. I have never told my sister about this so as not to cause her and me any problems. I don't know many details about their divorce. She never says anything bad about him at family gatherings. Should I tell her or is it none of her business as they are no longer married? Please tell me what I should do. Thanks.

My daughter at 17 got pregnant by an older guy. My husband and I have sacrificed alot to care for her child and help her so she could finish her degree. While raising our younger 3 kids. She is now 24 and doesn't help me pay the bills, doesn't have savings, a car or anything. She makes almost $800 bi-weekly and continues giving all her money to this guy. He is nearly 30 and living on his friend's couch while she is paying for his rent. He hes never held a job and does drugs. Now I have learned she is pregnant, she planned the baby with him. They say they are planning a family! I My husband and i have a 14 & 17 year old in highschool to support and my 22 year old is finishing up college.. I have been seriously considering kicking my oldest daughter out. I feel she is using us and I cannot afford to support her 2nd child

I was adopted at a young age and never had a good relationship with my parents. Yesterday I went onto my dads computer to finish a school project and I found he was sending emails to dating sites specifically Asian ones. It wasn't just sex sites it was like he was looking for a family, asking about their kids, why they got divorced and telling them that he would love them forever and shower them with kisses. The worse thing of all was I didn't care......I just smiled as I kept scrolling and I even felt a ping of happiness for my dad. I know his marriage with my mom is rough and they never have sex or anything like that so I guess of course he would cheat. But is it wrong that I don't really care? I'm a couple years away from graduating high school and I know a ton of people if they were put in my position would lose it so why don't I have any feelings about this? Should I tell my mom? Everything is in my moms name which means if they divorced my dad would basically be homeless and without a car. I don't want to have him be like that. If I keep quiet is that the wrong thing to do.

My sister argues with her baby daddy every day. She lets her kid walk home by herself and she has a car. She treats my niece like ****. .she goes out of her way to please her baby daddy and if i ask her for something she has to ask for her baby daddy approval first. She's a sad person and it's sad because he did break her car window, hit her in her face in FRONT OF MY NIECE'S And he spit in my face. I don't like that guy and I NEVER will.

Ive been dating this girl since January. Shes in my class in college. This week is the last week of school. Theres this guy in the class who clearly wants her. So he might try and ask her for her phone number before school is done! She knows i dont like this guy. She tells me she doesnt like him at all either which could be a lie since she always laughs at his jokes/stories. And she always joins in on his conversations. He acts like a tough guy around her, tells bs fake stories, but she seems impressed by him. Hes a handsome looking guy too. I HAVE A FEELING shes attracted to him. I spoke to her about this twice, she said she doesnt like him, the second time i think she felt annoyed by me bringing it up. I must say, she is an extrovert, friendly to all. Im hoping she denies giving out her number. But she might do it. If she gives him her number, (which i HOPE doesnt happen) how do I react to this???? Should i break up with her? What should i say?

I've been growing up as a mama's boy and I never really had friends because my mother would tell me not to go out and not befriend any spoilt kids. Now I'm an adult and I feel stuck between these two settings. Life with my parents or without them. The latter seems so hard because I don't have friends and no job. I'm also the only child and they're getting older and less capable to take care of themselves. If I go out on my own now, then I'll feel sad that my parents are alone with no one to take care. But at the same time, I'm wasting my own life staying at home, doing nothing. I really don't know what to do. I can't just leave them here alone but I also don't want to waste my life sitting at home while I could go travelling and doing whatever else I want.

And what was it like when you finally found them? Just curious as I am in the process of trying to find my father's 2 younger brothers who were adopted together after their mother completely lost custody of them when my father was 6 and his brothers were 2 and 3.

My little sister, who is 14, recently came out as a lesbian. She only came out to our mother, who tried to be supportive. But, earlier this week, she told me that our mother has recently made her feel like she can t do anything right. She had a project, and our mother said she d help, but when my sister asked for a definition, our mom simply said "Look it up." When my sister told her that things like that were the reason she felt like she couldn t do anything right, our mother called it, pardon my language, bullshit. But, from the look in my sister s eyes, I could tell it was the truth. How do I tell my mother that she may be the reason for my sister s depression?

My kids are 22 and 24. My son and I moved to be closer to my daughter and grandson about a year ago. Things are always going wrong to the point where my son and I have been staying with my daughter for months. They don't get along... he's lazy, she's bossy, etc. There was a huge fight last night and my son and I left. We have a failing business in a retail shop that we are paying rent on and can't really afford personal rent right now. What do we do? We are staying at the shop right now but there is no shower. I'm sure this will all blow over, but they can't be in the same house ever again.

My mentor Stacy has become a family friend of mine, she was my mentor 3 years ago but we have grown to be very close friends. She just got a brand new pool and is excited about it. This coming week is her mothers 1 year mark since she passed away and she's been very devestated. Would I look dumb buying her a new pool float for the new pool and mailing it to her? (Like just a bed float you lay on?) she's an older person in the late 50's) I figured it would add a tiny bit of joy to he sad week. What do you think

I found out my24 yr old son lied about going to 2 semesters of college,I have paid for so many things to help him out thinking he was going to college.His father says nothing,he said well he's trying??? That's the easy way out. I have tried to set rules,,my son has to pay us back $700 for what we've paid out,,,no video games,a full time job,i took his car that we bought so he could go to school until he can now pay us for it,that was the deal if he finished his degree it was his if not he pays for it.My husband enjoys my son talking nicely to him and calling me terrible names.i'm here crying everyday because I was the one that encouraged my kids from the time they were young,their dad never did anything,Yes I am outspoken but it's time he grows up,,,,my husband said all I want to do is make it hard on him,,,,well???? ANY ADVICE PLEASE,,,I am in my own home feeling lie an outsider. it's easy when he's living at home,he can't learn if he has no responsibility well I can't just sit by and let my husband do nothing,my son needs to know responsibility,he has so many years to live life,,,we are 64 retired,,,,of course my son will take the easy way out he doesn't think well the years are going by and I need to get my own place and have my own life....

Almost everyone says they left thier parents at 18, is this true?

Ok so we have 4 children and me being the third biggest. We are all in our late teens but for some reason my parents only send me around the house! They ask me to clean rooms, clean dishes, take out trash, cook dinner then wash those plates and even more! Meanwhile, my siblings are doing absolutely nothing and my parents don't seem to care. Even if I do what they ask, they still complain about how I didnt complete the task perfectly. This is driving me insane and nowadays I wake up in the worst moods ever because I'm just tired. I have have school to focus on and my hobbies. I am also doing meditation to calm my nerves but It's difficult to control this anger. Please help me!!

I know age is just a number and being 18 doesn t make me be all do whatever you want. But throughout my years of existence my parents never let me go out. I ve never hung out with friends, gone to the movies, or a date. It makes me sad that yet they dtill don t trust me. I am a straight A student and basically the president of everything at school. Is there anyway i can convince them that I m responsible enough to live my life? I don t know what to do.

So I just wonder, what would make a cousin like their cousin, as more than cousins of the same sex?

I am 15 almost 16. I have an aide at school (someone who watches me wherever i go and has to be by my side 24/5 AT SCHOOL!!!) Ive had an aide since 2nd grade. Please what should I do about my parents embarssment?

My mom thinks she always right and I'm always wrong. When we are in an argument she manipulates facts, pretends she never said the things she said, and then waves her hand at me and says goodbye as to dismiss me. She then trashes the whole family behind their back. When she is with my sister she trashes me and when she's with me she trashes my sister. She does the same thing to my dad. I am done with her drama even tho in her mind she's the victim. Am I wrong to feel this way?

My fiancé of 5 years told me he hates his mom, I am sure he did not mean it for sure. We just moved in together, and he lived with them before. We are well into our 20's. The thing is that his parents are so irresponsible. Both work, his dad works 24/7, and makes like 80k, his mom makes less than him, but she pays nothing except food, etc. She pays 0 bills. They have 0 money saved, and they are into their 50's close to their 60's. His dad never goes to the doctor for check outs, etc. They spend all their money in crap. They just refinanced their house like 3 months ago, and started from scratch with 30yrs loan. My fiancé worked to get his school paid, he graduated with 0 debt, and now got a great job as a manager. So we moved. The thing is that he has soo much baggage with his mom. 1. She stoled money from him, when he started working at 16 his parents started to make his taxes, and when we started dating they still did. His mom told him that he was getting no refund. He was shocked to find out his mom had been stealing from him since, 12k. She paid him 6k only. 2. He withdrew a few clases his first semester of college, and lost 1 semester because of financial hold, he was shocked when he asked his mom and she said she had no money, and she did have money. 3. His mom is obsessed with babies when his best friend & neighbor had a baby she called him asking almost begging cause his mom would go ALL the time there... everyday after the neighbor had the little girl. 4. He asked his dad support to start grad school and his dad said okay, but he told his mom to help him instead. The next day in front of my face his mom said no, that she could not help him. 5. They are foreigners, and they travel to their home country every year and spend all their money there. My fiancé cannot stand that because they have no close relatives there. They spent close to 15k in tickets, & gifts just in 1 trip. 6. His mom assumes that she can spend all she wants, and do all she wants because in the end HE my fiancé, has to take care of them. She has said it. 7. His mom acts as if he still lives in the house, rearranging his room and such. I tell him that he needs to be grateful because his dad pays my boyfriend's car & insurance. His mom don't pay him a thing, never not even his phone. He began working at 14 (something about a school volunteer related job or something) However, he cannot stand them because other people used them. His cousin would ALWAYS hang out with his mom because his mom buys gifts to everyone. If she meets a person, her first idea is to buy them something. My fiancé wants them to take care of themselves, and save. They won't listen. We are moving far soon because I am going to begin Dental School (fingers crossed, ) next June. The tickets are just 1k for 2 people.

This person is nosy, stupid and kinda crazy (and I f. knew it). I told this person some bad stuff about my mother when I was really peessed off at her. And now she's telling everything but not at once just to make everything worse. My mother is hurt and can't feel comfortable around her. What would you do?

today my mom just grounded me for a month because I was sitting "infront" of the tv??? literally every single day after I come back from school my dad is sitting there and watching whatever he watches and my mom never complains?? wtf how can they get this dumb I am so triggered my dad was sitting in the same seat I was sitting btw

She says she gave me a ******* last week and wants to raise money for more!

my parents checked my grades online and this is what I have Earth/space science 95 Algebra 2 honors 91 American history 84 English 41 Economics 83 PE 37 Most of these grades are good, only 2 are bad. 1 is only in gym, who cares if I fail gym? I'm failing english because of all the reading and some of it is old english, which makes it worse. I learn much better with lectures than reading.

His mom hates me ...my mom hates him...we are both in our late 20s. I got a little medical assisting degree for us to go out more but it's still not enough to move out . He is unemployed still. His mom don't like me for reasons like I got an abortion , because at that time I didn't even have a medical assisting degree. Another thing is because she throws parties everyday and I'm not used to that with my family so she notices I secluded myself more like say hi but go to his room . He never tried with my family , they didn't like him from the start and he just never came over so I had to go to his but now his mom doesn't want me over. I'm trying to stay afloat in this relationship. It's really hard, we can only see each other out of the house. It's uncomfortable if we just want to rest SOMEHWRE . Why do families make it so hard ?..

My daughter has really discovered her voice and has started screaming when she is tired or angry. When I say scream, I mean like she's in the worst pain in her life and anyone who hears probably thinks we are burning her with hot coals or something . She's not; but I think she's learned that her dad and I are apt to pick her up faster because the scream is horrid. I can handle crying, but this new screaming is deafening. She woke up last night after being asleep for only an hour and started screaming. I picked her up and cuddled/shushed her for several minutes but ended up giving her a small bottle and she calmed down. I don't think she was genuinely hungry because she ate before bed. Please tell me this is just a phase :( She has a bedtime of 7pm so she's not getting overtired. I can do a few minutes of cry it out but can't handle much more than that (if that's part of a solution).

Hello everyone. So I have a few issues with my husband that I need advice on. Just tell me what you would do or say. Thank you in advance 1.) He makes me do all shopping alone, won't tell me anything I should get, and won't help me even carry the groceries inside or put them away. I have asked him many times to go with me. His reply? "You got it. I'm good." I feel like this is somethint couples do together and it would be nice to get his help. 2.) he's just flat out lazy. I do most the chores myself. I ask him to do things, he will do them days later or not at all. I went grocery shopping yesterday, there was a sink of dishes waiting to get done. All he did was play video games, I was gone 2 hours. 3.)He lets his father harass and emotionally abuse me. Ever since I met his father, he hasn't liked me sinply because i'm in the military. He will say things like that my family doesn't love me for "letting" me join. That me being sexually assaulted is funny. That all military is brainwashed idiots, etc. just lots of mean, hurtful things to me constantly. I tried to talk to his father about it and he called me a spineless little girl and told me to get the f over it. My husband does not ever defend me and sees nothing wrong with how his father treats me. Sees its hurting me but continues to justify as to why its acceptable. Advice please. Thank you

Hypothetical(I'm writing a fan fiction story and one of the characters has parents like this). Age 10- their father has bipolar and starts beating him this goes on until age 18. Age 13- both of the parents start ignoring him, this goes on for a while. Age- 14 gets taken out of school, starts isolating himself. Now is home schooled. Age 15- Starts sneaking out walking places, gets taken in by police multiple times for walking on the road/ no sidewalks around/ age 15- again stuck at home, rarely sees friends, parents refuse to drive him anywhere. Age 16- he asks if his parents will teach him how to drive and drive him also to get a job. Parents say no. Age 17/18- goes into a depression, feels lost and unwanted, doesn't talk, keeps to himself. How will this guy turn out say when he is older like 25 and up? Again this is fanfiction and not real. What kind of parents are those(even though these in my question are fictional ones)?

So, my parents are always fighting because my mom is very fierce and always angry and moody. A few days ago, a maid quit because she just doesn t suit my dad s cleanliness standard and discipline. And my parents are always fighting because of this maid problem. My mom is naturally fierce and has become more moody and angry as she gets older. Please give me advices to make my parent s relationship better. Thankyou... PS: my parents are living in Indonesia, where maids are cheaper. And its a developing country. economy is not as advanced as the USA or Australia or whtvr. Indonesia is in ASIA.

I won't let her bring a stranger into my life. I don't believe in ''blended families'' She was excited about some guy but I immediately shut her down and made it very clear how I feel. She stopped talking about him to me but still texts and talks to him and probably even sees him without my knowledge as she's out awfully a lot lately. Now please save the lectures on how I can't tell my mom what to do bla bla bla. She should put me before herself and her feelings. She can't make me uncomfortable. I hate her for this and most probably will cut her off after moving out. I at least don't want her to re-marry until I leave. Am I wrong? I absolutely can't stand the blullsh*t of ''Blended families'' and find it so repulsive. If everything goes well, it will at the least take about 4 or 5 years for me to move out as I'm very young. Don't want to mention my age. Why did she stop caring about me after meeting this new guy? Why do selfish people like this have kids then if they can't always put them before themselves?

I feel trapped in a place I don't want to be. I have looked into it, and apparently my mother shows signs of being emotionally abusive. I hate exaggerating things to the point where they aren't true, so I'm very unsure if this is just my mind being hormonal. I feel like my childhood was wasted. I was never allowed to leave the house and play in the yard. I wasn't allowed to be upset about anything, or my mother turned it around on me and made it my fault. Now I'm ten years older and I feel like I'm still wasting my youth. My mother cuts me off from the rest of the family and won't feed me if I stand up for myself. I feel like I have to put up with it for our family. My parents are on the brink of divorce. My mother tries to mold me and my brother into people she likes. She has hit both of us out of anger. Not hard, but still has. I have food and a nice-ish house to live in. I am constantly told that my mother "Works very hard and gives me more than I deserve" But I feel that parents providing food, clothes, and a ride to school are mandatory parent things and should not be considered a luxury. I'm not trying to be a "Rebellious teen", I just want to be happy with myself. In the end I'm going to die anyway and no one will remember me, so I want to make the most of my youth while I can. For a clearer picture, more info, or details, please ask.There's a lot I didn't type. Please tell me If I am just an overdramatic teenager or if I should try to break free from some of this?

I recently got in contact with him after not talking to him for 12 years because I was adopted by my step dad. Now I'm 19. He wants me to go see him and his family and I want to too. I asked my half brother who lives with his mom about my dad and he said that dad has never been aggressive or anything and btw he use to live with my dad for 2 years. However, he has a history of a abusive relationships with women and almost killed my mom and raped her before she was pregnant with me. He also abused my half brothers mom. There's all criminal records of this.Should I go visit him and his new wife of 7 years and his 2 step daughters and one real daughter? I really want to meet him but am also concerned for my safety.

I recently got in contact with him after not talking to him for 12 years because I was adopted by my step dad. Now I'm 19. He wants me to go see him and his family and I want to too. I asked my half brother who lives with his mom about my dad and he said that dad has never been aggressive or anything and btw he use to live with my dad for 2 years. However, he has a history of a abusive relationships with women and almost killed my mom and raped her before she was pregnant with me. He also abused my half brothers mom. Should I go visit him and his new wife of 7 years and his 3 other daughters? He seems settled down and has a big house and very successful careers. I don't think he is abusive now since my brother told me he has never been aggressive. I will be staying in his house for 3 days and he will be flying me out there.

My family comes from a really long line of engineers, so naturally, my parents want me to carry the tradition. The only problem is, I'm a disappointment. I suck at math. I used to be good at it in elementary school, but then it got extremely difficult and impossible to understand in middle school. Now I'm a really confused freshman in HS. I really, really want to be a filmmaker. I love the thought of spending my day with a camera. I loved taking theater, so I know it's right for me. Math, however, makes me miserable. There is nothing about it that appeals to me. No, Mom, you're wrong. I'm not "playing with numbers" whenever I do a math problem. It's not fun. In fact, it's frustrating and stressful and whenever I see a math problem I want to have a knot-tying fest with a piece of rope and hang myself with it. I'm not kidding. Math made school so demanding and stressful to the point where I have actual suicidal thoughts whenever I think of disappointing my Mom and Dad with the news that I, their only child, am not smart enough to major in engineering. But whenever I think of movies and the short films I made a few months ago, I get a little bit happier. I'm aware that making movies won't make life perfect. It'll still suck, but it'll suck a whole lot less than it would if I were an engineer, not a filmmaker. I'm barely pulling a D- in math. No self-respecting engineering school will take me. I want to make my parents happy, but I know I can't if I'm not an engineer. Thoughts?

Whenever my sister has her friends over, I don't associate with them. I give them space and mind my own business, and so do my parents. But when I have MY friends over, my sister will ALWAYS bother us. She will NEVER leave us alone. Like... she's MY friend and I want to spend time with her. ****FOR EXAMPLE: I went to Turkey this summer to see family and friends, and I haven't seen my friends in 2 YEARS. I go by the seaside with them to have some fun, but what do you know!! It's my sister. Like, I wanna spend my time with my friends and tell them secrets or whatever that I don't want my sister blabbing onto my parents or even KNOWING. When I tell my mom about it, she tells me I'm being a bad sister and i should let her hang out with us. But??? I don't want my little sister hanging out with us???? I don't get it, i ALWAYS giver her space, but she never gives me space. When I tell her to give me space she tells me she doesnt want to. I honestly don't know what to do anymore. What should i do?

My older brother takes the job of going out every morning to go fight with the lobster next door and doesn t come back until one of them is unconscious, and if he s the one unconscious, the lobster comes back and takes one of us to their house. Currently half of the neighbors family is living in our house and no one seems to be questioning this. What am I to do about this?

My mom has been telling us to do things since we were little. Understandable, she's my mom. But whenever me or my sister have friends over she tells THEM to do housework too. Like last week, my sister's friend came over and she made them vacuum the dining room, kitchen, and living room. She usually asks either A.) Very nicely so you will feel bad if you refuse or B.) In a "I won't let you come over ever again if you dint clean my house" way. Then she always complains that SHE does all the work in the house and tells people that we do nothing. She also manipulates her friends a lot and I'm really worried for her. Like a few days ago, her friend came over and they were talking about sewing and my mom's friend said that she knew how to sew and showed her a hair tie she sewed. My mom then took advantage of her and said "Oh you're very good at sewing! Can you sew my dog a tie? I haven't been able to buy one lately..." And my moms friend was in a position where she had to say yes, otherwise she would look like a bad person (also, my mom went as far as making the poor lady groom our dog and chauffeur my sister to and from her volleyball practices). I keep telling her she needs to stop, but she gets all salty and says that people love doing things for her. What should I do? I'm really worried about her...

my mom is a very rude person to me and my older brother. for years shes been making very what most would call stupid decisions for us and herself. whenever i try to correct her about her mistake she would tell me to shut up and threaten to hit me, she would also call me a ***** and tell me to stop talking back when all i do is try to get her to reconsider her choices. i have a natural sassy tone to my voice and i understand why she might mistake it for me being rude to her but i never tell her off or anything. i dont insult her but sometimes i might call her a bro or man because i say that all the time to my friends. she isnt always mean to me though, sometimes we get along but otherwise she s angry and wants to hurt me somehow and always insults me after she tells me and sometimes she used to hit me, like one time she complained about me not being able to fully clean the bathroom because i was hurt from a biking accident and she struck me hard enough to make me fall down and called me an annoying ***** and told me to go to my room. what should i do? im finally seeing how she s abusive and i dont know how to deal with the issue.

My sister is having her period she hates it. She has an iud in for the cramps and headaches she gets headaches once in a while. She thinks having sex with her boyfriend will help. She said she just wants to be with him right now. I don't feel comfortable with her being with him. One he's a prisoner he's been in and out of jail a lot. Two he's 70 something he doesn't look like it but he is she's only 14. I don't know how they met or fell in love I don't wanna know. She says age doesn't matter to her she feels bad for him being in jail she loves him and wants to help him. It's sweet she wants to help but 14 year old girls shouldn't be with 70 year old men. Also he's got 4 ******* kids of his own. He comes over a lot I don't feel comfortable around him even though he's a nice guy he's pretty nice for a killer. He said he's not the same person he was when he killed whoever but I don't trust him. When he comes over he's always in her room they're always in her bed fooling around they already had sex twice. Good thing that IUD is in her if he got her pregnant I'd kill him or send his *** back to jail. Seriously I don't know why she likes older men. How can I help her ? Also just to make sure can she get pregnant with an IUD in ?

I'm very close an older friend of mine, we are very close, she is like an aunt to me. We are always messing around and having fun, although she always calls me "silly girl" why? She will be like "Where is my silly girl" or I will be doing something funny and she will just giggle and say "silly girl" why? Is it bad ?

I feel horrible because I can t hold in feelings about my mother s critisisms. She critisizes my husband, kids, me. I m 36 and have been married for 11 years to "the man she didn t want for me". So she constantly does and say things to out us down. After a while I burst and tell her what she needs to hear. She always finds a way to make me feel guilty. So I m going to pretend from now on as if I don t have a mother as she has told me many other times that she is forgetting thst she has a daughter. Should I feel as terrible as I feel because I m willing to get as far away from her as I can?

what do i do my mom suggests me not going w/ my sis & bro since they're only getting a 2-room apartment and she wants to move to another country to live for the rest of her life and find peace and im hanging should i ask a friend to stay w/ him/her or what what should i do im only 16/sophomore im stuck i plan on graduating and going to college im not going to screw up like most kids and btw she suggested that i find a friend or someone to stay with until i finish hs & go to college

This is her blood nephew.

My dad is in a wheel chair so we are unable to do the dance, but i still want to have that special moment with him being that me and my dad are really close soo anyone have any ideas.? I was thinking about a slide show with pictures of us from my birth up until my wedding but I'm not sure, any ideas will be great!

One of my besties, she's like the average girl here but when she leaves to the FSM her family gets treated like royalty since her granddad was a high chief in the island they're from. High Chiefs are the highest political position a man can have in their islands (traditionally speaking) & there's others with that title- there's just not a lot of them. I think this is cool af 👏🏼 It's like she has two different identities. To be honest I don't really know if they do consider them real royalty there but they treat them so. It fascinates me how she can be so quiet and under the radar yet she's a big deal in another country. She's one of those people who can sometimes go the whole day without talking to anyone but her best friends (besides me, she only has like two) and her cousins while everyone around her is socializing. Sometimes it STRESSES me out thinking about how she is because she's LITERALLY like royalty but she stays quiet and she doesn't even mention that when she talks about her family to others which is a really important factor, she can't just miss that. If I was her I would want people to know about my family. they treat it like it's no big deal 😫 Both her and her cousins. Even her bf knows but he doesn't even care about that. I love them but I don't understand them.

Once a week, I have my Parents and my brother over for dinner, finding something unique to cook. So I also invited my cousin over for a while. However, I stopped inviting him over, because three times in a row, he said he could come over and then the night before sends me a text cancelling last minute after I had bought the right amount of food to accommodate 5 people(well extra, because he eats so much). So I dont invite him over anymore, after constant cancellations. I have noticed that my cousin has seemed irritated and giving me the cold shoulder.

I'm only 20 years old in college and living with my mom. Long story short, my stepdad and I never got along and he does all he can to make my mom and siblings turn against me. From being isolated for so long from a loving family, I've been having intense baby fever and the want to get into a long term relationship for months now. I have never felt like this or wanted either of those for the sake of focusing purely on school and work since I'm so young. But I sat back and realized one day that the reason for these feelings of me wanting to settle down and have a baby already is because since I don't feel like I'm a part of my current family that I need to create my own family. What are your thoughts on this and is this normal?

Her husband is a piece of ****. I didn't want him to think that I approve. Anyway, I don't want her to be mad. How do I make it up to her?

HELP! My Sister is such a smart ****! She disrespects our parents and ignores any comment and when she is told off, she storms off screaming I HATE YOU!!! She bullies me and my dad, and when she is given dinner, and mum says 'what do you say?' She will respond with I Don't know, or if mum says the word is thank you, she would say 'your welcome' she hates dad too. She says he hates her but he loves her. She does everything she is told not to do. On top of this, my ADHD makes it to intolerable. Each night, I cry and cut myself but mum does not help. She says she does, and so does dad, but is has gotten worse over the 2 year period. PLEASE HELP! I can't talk to mum, I have tried. If I talk to my sister, she cries and calls me rude and my dad calls me a baby. I feel sorry for my parents and myself. What do I do

So my dad just told me to switch his contacts to his new phone. I was going to transfer them through sd card. I went to contacts, chose transfer to sd card. It said no space in sd card. so i go to pictures to delete some pics (there were alot of blank pics) but then i saw a video i clicked on it and it was a video of a girl sucking a guys d in the shower. i thought it just downloaded by accident(sometimes videos just appear on a phone) so i go to chrome i see there are 80 tabs open, i look thru them and none were p0rn sites. so i went to history and there was alot so i searched for p0rn in the search bar and 40 results came up, it was all kinds of p0rn, from in the bus to in the hottub. i then got scarred for life. i transferred the contacts and gave the phone to my dad. i didnt say anything. i cant look at him the same. he 's been married for 20 years!!! should i say anything???

I'm 20 year old girl in university studying pharmacy. I have lived my entire life without proper friends and far from family, so I've always been alone because my parents and I are not living in our own country but in a different country and the people in this country are racist so it's complicated. However, ever since I turned 20, I've been telling my parents about my life goals and what I plan on doing in the next 10 years but they aren't happy with it. I simply plan on completing my degree, then only will I start to get to know guys but that I'll have to do when I visit my own country because I highly believe in marriage of same culture. I plan on doing that early because I know nobody except family in my country and it would take time. Once I complete my masters degree then maybe I can get engaged, then only while I'm studying PhD or after PhD will I get married...I should be around 28 years old by then. Is there something inappropriate with these decisions? You see, I have always been worried about finding a guy because of my situation of being far away and only visiting once a year and I don't like the idea of just meeting and then marrying, I'd rather get to know the person for long while. My parents want me to marry after age 30. I don't like that as it just didn't fit with my life plans. There is already a guy I know back in home country and we both like each other but by the time I finish my masters, don't you think he'll move on? He's a med student by the way.

Example:keep taking classes even though you know you will fail or give up and face the disappointment of your family?

Many of my relationships fail because the woman want children and I don't.