Family: Question: Move with relative?

Question: Move with relative?

Posted: 08 May 2017 01:42 PM PDT

Hi, I am 14 and want to live with grandmother in Maryland. My dad and grandmother think I should because of the environment I'm in and how I feel. My mom is barley home and I just don't want to be where I live anymore without being depressed. I want a new home and school. Can I go over the summer with my mom's permission or no?

Question: Uninvited guest/ parents?

Posted: 08 May 2017 01:01 PM PDT

For years now my parents come over to my home unannounced and I'm ready to scream ( it's rude )!! Recently I spoke to my dad about this ( finally after 25 yrs of this ) and he got hurt and mad & didn't speak to me for 3 weeks ( it was heaven😀) but than started up again. I find myself so annoyed I don't even want to spend time with them. I realize their lonely but all their doing is pushing me farther & farther away!! I decided if they weren't going to listen I won't answer the door so now he text me telling me I know your home that's mean not to answer the door. EXCUSE ME IT'S RUDE COMING OVER UNANNOUNCED!! I need advice..what should I do..HELP!!!

Question: Should I call out my uncle?

Posted: 08 May 2017 12:55 PM PDT

My great grandma is near death. But she was never nice to anyone and was borderline abusive. When my grandma was young and heavily pregnant she asked for money to buy food, my great dropped a 50 dollar bill on the ground and made my grandma pick it up. Then when my mom was adopted my great grandma treated her like an outcast because she claims she's not really family. She went bowling when my uncle was born. She's really rich and my uncle has been sucking up to her for years. I want to tell him how he's making his family feel.

Question: Who is your worst family member?

Posted: 08 May 2017 12:40 PM PDT

My grandpa abandoned my dad and sisters in California. My great grandma went and rescued them. Years later my grandpa decided to be a dad again and married an ultra abusive lady. My aunt is deaf in one ear because she hit her on the side of the head so hard. When she potty trained my dad she shoved feces in his face whenever he couldn't do it. I hate her more.

Question: My 15 year old sister is annoying and has a bad attitude?

Posted: 08 May 2017 12:11 PM PDT

So I have a little sister who is annoying as all get out, she's 15 & i'm 19, she has an attitude 10x worse than I did at 15 (yeah I understand she has the teenage attitudes) but this past weekend I had a friend over and my little sister kept bugging us, I asked her nicely to please get out of my room and she got mad and slammed her door, my mom starts yelling at me and defending my sister, when I tell her my side of the story my sister lies and gets away with it, my sister caught an attitude with my mom and friend both, my mom let her get away with it, my friend ifnored her, yesterday we went to eat lunch and my sister thre w napkins at us and ran off to my mom, my friend again ignored her, then the other day my mom was fussing my sister and my sister yells "CHILL OUT!!" My mom did nothing to her,i if I would have talked to my mom like that, I would have got slapped, but any ideas on hos to get my sister to stop bugging me and having an attitude? Also yesterday a my friend and I went shopping and my sister invited herself to go, so I told her no and she got mad!! Help please!

Question: Any advice on how to deal with a Mother that doesn't understand technology?

Posted: 08 May 2017 12:05 PM PDT

As a tech person, in my experience when someone is having trouble with a computer or related device, 9 times out of 10 it's user error. My Mother embodies this. She thinks the annoying pop ups on smartphones and computers "stop," Her from doing things and She just doesn't get the concept of closing the notification or ignoring them. Therefore, to get rid of them She'll download what they are bugging Her about. This leads to constant complaints about Her phone(an android. Mind you my Father, who understands things more has ZERO issues like this with the same model of smartphone. After showing Her how to burn cd's on the computer about ten times(which She forgets) my cousins stopped helping Her. She doesn't retain information, and thus complains "No one will show me anything!" The bottom line is that we all know and believe She is stupid. Everyone realizes this except Her. So, I have to hear(or uselessly help) Her when Her phone "won't work." It's insane.

Question: I am suffering from child abuse , where to report it for proper action?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:58 AM PDT

I am 14 year old. So basically they are saying that I am spoiled and now they only give me $100 a week allowance, they are asking me to study and how dare they that I can't bring girls in my room. And They scold me everytime I swear. How the **** am I able to go through this for four more ******* year. I fell like commiting sucide. Should I report them or just live this living hell.

Question: My brorther Jared is a fool and I can prove it.Should I?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:55 AM PDT

Question: What fun stuff to do with sister?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:53 AM PDT

Next summer, my twin sister and I will get to hang out and see each other again. What is some fun stuff to do together?

Question: MY PARENTS WONT LET ME BUY MY OWN CAR WITH MY OWN MONEY?!?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:39 AM PDT

I ve been asking my parents to let me buy my own car for a while now and they said if I ever buy a car, I can move out and live in it. They say I have access to a car whenever. We re 5 at home, my dad has a pickup for his construction business so no one is allowed to drive it but him because he has commercial insurance. My mom has a car and there s another car too. So that s 2 cars for 4 people. One of my brothers work 30km from home so he gets priority on one car 3 days a week so that leaves 3 people for 1 car. I m 21, a financial advisor, make 19$/hour and work 35 hours a week, I have the income to pay for it, insurance gas etc. I do not want a single penny from them. I need a way to get to work other than them giving me rides everywhere and having to wait 20min because they forgot. I also go to university and need a car to get there (sometimes right after meeting clients and I don t have time to wait for mommy to pick me up). They say that I I have to save my money for school.... lol I made a profit last year on scholarships. I made money instead of paying the university. I presented all the arguments I have and their reply is I don t care, no is no, what should I do at this point?

Question: How do I handle this problem with my stepson?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:39 AM PDT

My stepson Mike is in the Boy Scouts. He really enjoys being in the Boy Scouts. He often tells his dad and me how much fun it is and how he likes the scout master. His dad is telling him he does not want him in the Scouts. The problem is the Scout Master is my former husband. I don't think this is fair to his son Mike. It is totally normal for scouts to like their Scout Master. I ask Mike if the Scout Master ever mentions me and he told me NO. Should I try to talk some sense into my husband that scouts are a good experience for HIS son or maybe tell Mike to NEVER mention his Scout Master to his dad. All advice would be greatly appreciated.

Question: Should teenage fathers face the same consequences as teenage mother?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:38 AM PDT

Explain

Question: Why shouldn't teenage fathers face the same consequences as teenage mothers?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:35 AM PDT

I think they should be allowed to complete school in order to seek employment to provide for their offspring. You can tell me your views on this statement, it is for a debate.

Question: Why does my brother want to know about my sex life?

Posted: 08 May 2017 10:14 AM PDT

Ok ever since I had a boyfriend he's been curious about me having sex and told me to tell him if I ever do it I said ok not that I will because I think it's weird and not that I'm having it but you know, and he told me stories not that I even asked I honestly though that was really weird to because it's not really any of my business just like my sex life wouldn't be any of his business. No rude comments please unless you been through the same thing.

Question: My sister made a mean spirited claim about me, how can I tell if she's right or just trying to manipulate me?

Posted: 08 May 2017 09:57 AM PDT

I'm 23 & an actor based out of NYC. I get just enough roles (broadway & indie movies) to keep at it, but not enough to think I'm going to really make. My biggest role was in a 2014 movie Fort Tilden that won a lot of indie awards & sold relatively well. The two leads are millenial girls on a desparate trip to find boys & happiness. At one point they show up uninvited for a beach trip 2 boys are going on, when they arrive the boys are already there with two girls. I'm one of those "other" girls and am in the scene for 10 minutes. Part of the point of the scene is how awkward it is for the lead girls to be surprised by us, and we are also topless throughout the scene (its a topless beach). The movie did well enough, and my scene was large enough, that its often gotten me auditions and even parts. My sister, in an attempt to convince me to quit acting, swears up & down I only got the role because i have large breasts, she used that claim to demean everything I've ever done. But I don't think its true. The scene did require nudity but (1) I was always fully clothed for the auditions (2) the other girl they cast had fairly small breasts & (3) none of the roles its led to me getting auditions for have included nudity. Her claim is really eating at me.What if it IS true? My biggest role, that gives me the most hope? Its not something I can really ask my agent (and expect a straight answer). I keep watching the scene over & over. I just don't know what to think. Thoughts?

Question: How do I help my brother?

Posted: 08 May 2017 09:57 AM PDT

My brother never studies but has great ambitions. We have lived with our grandmom since childhood as our dad works overseas and our mother never took us therefore we don't even remember her. MY brother is one year younger to me, he is 16 and has failed his tenth grade due to his extreme addiction to the internet and never listens to me or my grandmom. He goes as far as to hit her and curse her, she is turning 70 poor her. I try everything but they never listen to me. They always shout at each other, hurl abuses and when my brother raises violence I have to intervene. My studies are being affected due to this and my brother sits home all day doing nothing, what can I do?

Question: How do you get out of trouble with parents?

Posted: 08 May 2017 09:11 AM PDT

Once May hits, counselors will call parents if someone doesn't have enough credits to move on to the following grade. I'm a freshman in high school and my credits fell to 3.5 credits (we need 4 to move to 10th grade). I've got a 59, 57, and 21. I know that I can make it, but he called home to my mom and she is going to be furious.

Question: Help I don't know what to do!!!!?

Posted: 08 May 2017 08:26 AM PDT

I'm 19 I live in my moms apartment and they might get kicked out of the apartment for not paying rent they don't have the money to pay for it I live with my mom and my step dad and siblings I'm 19 I work in a fast food place part time now used to work full time overtime all the time for 6 months to make enough money to give back the money I owed my aunt after that I was left no money I was tired of work I wasn't doing anything with my life I asked for part time so I can do the things I liked I work 2 days a week now its been 2 weeks since I know worked part time and all of the sudden this bs happens !!! I wanted the free time to study how to drive a car! Idk how to drive and idk the rules! I wanted to go to the gym and get in shape! I wanted to work on making a gaming channel! I wanted to study English! Philosophy! Science! History! Physiology! Fitness! Computer science engineer! Mechanic! Ect...... But now this bs might happen where we get kicked out! Again not the first time but 3rd time we get kicked out for not paying rent in other apartments and we had to live in Cars for months! I don't want to live in my moms car again its embarrassing I'm almost 20 in August a grown *** adult! and I don't want to be insulted by my step dad for being a grown *** man and not having my own car place or anything! This is why I asked for part time to get my **** straight!!! I don't have ID, car, friends, family, place, nothing! now what am I gonna do if I don't have nothing

Question: Is it OK to give up on your children?

Posted: 08 May 2017 08:22 AM PDT

What if you have severe mental health problems and you couldn't cope? Is surrendering them to care ok then? What if that child got abused and forgotten about in foster care? Should the child, now adult, forgive the mother? What if the mother went on to have more children while you were in foster care?

Question: How to be a good big sister?

Posted: 08 May 2017 08:13 AM PDT

I just heard the news yesterday that i'm gonna be a big sister!! idk the gender yet, and i'm excited, so I want to learn to be a good big sis.

Question: A father threatening to hit his 24 year old daughter. Serious advice please.?

Posted: 08 May 2017 07:57 AM PDT

This is a friend of mine. And 4 days ago, because of a very minor issue, her dad threatened to hit her. And right now they live under the same roof and not on talking terms. Alittle about her family background: Conservative 5 member family, dominant father role in the family, the mother, she has 2 younger siblings, one of them 23 year old girl and other a 14 year old boy. So she had been having issues with her father since she started college 3 years ago. Right now, she is really scared and doesnt know how to handle the situation. Her younger sister tried talking to the father, but the father is reluctant to accept that he was wrong to threaten her given the issue was minor. [The daughter simply stood up for the mother in deciding about a family dinner plan, like i said a very minor issue] Following this, the father got angry, hit the wall with fists and threatened to hit my friend. She got a panic attack; second one in the past year and the first one was also because a situation involving her father. Thank you for reading this. I have advised her to see a psychologist. But i cannot force her. I will be happy to accept any advices that might help her in overcoming this problem. I understand its not a one step solution but anything will help. Thanks.

Question: Have you ever babysit daughter/kid openly?

Posted: 08 May 2017 07:40 AM PDT

Question: Why does it seem sometimes family sunder from eachother?

Posted: 08 May 2017 07:31 AM PDT

for example a mom has her kids and the dad basically very rarely ever sees them and so he decided to cut off from the mom in the family which leaves her with the kids. and then as time goes on the kids wonder who there dad is? and what kind of man he is and whats going on in the other half of the family as years go on? and finding out they have a new brother or sister they never heard of going on socialmedia you see these people who you found out are a part of our family because they live in the same town with the same last names as someone else who was cut off from them. they strongly resemble eachother your just told they live somewhere else and they have there own families. but then you always wonder if its a good idea to contact them? or be a part of there lives in anyway because you want to help the mom in this case find peace in her heart and have her family in her life that she never met through the parent who was cut off from her. i think its strange, i look at these pictures and i wonder why is there a line between us? what is really seperating us from eachother?

Question: Where am I wrong here?

Posted: 08 May 2017 06:09 AM PDT

So I paid my girlfriend so she could go get some beauty care products she wanted. I said one of her products was pricey, and she told me how much some other women spend compared to her and i said damn that is ridiculous. Then she made a reference to how much my Mom spent on them and that to me sounded like she was defending her when my Mom spent more on clothes than she did me and my brother when she was a kid. The amount she spent on clothing, jewelry, beauty fashion stuff was more than her total income. Not joking. When I said that my gf got mad at me and said that i was making this a personal attack on her interests? I said I simply stated the product was expensive, I didn't say you couldn't buy it and I offered her extra money so she would have enough to buy it. Then she said no I don't wanna hear it. I like make up, fashion, jewelry and if you can't respect that, then go find another woman. I literally just paid thousands of dollars just days ago for us to go on a vacation out of country, I have spent so much time and money on her. And I told her all I said is those women she mentioned and my Mom who spend so much on it were taking it too far. I told her if she insulted football and said people spent too much money going to games or whatever, that I would whole-heartedly agree and not take it as a personal attack. I don't spend my money on hardly anything but things to do with her. Where am I going wrong here?

Question: Would I exist if my parents had never met...?

Posted: 08 May 2017 05:57 AM PDT

Would I be born to a different mother or father?

Question: Was my sister out-of-line when I had a guy over to my house?

Posted: 08 May 2017 05:11 AM PDT

Yesterday evening, my boyfriend was over, and we were cuddling on the couch in the living room. He's actually not officially my bf yet, but we've been seeing each other a lot lately. We met at college. He's 20, and I'm 19. Anyway, he was playing with my hair and scratching my back for a while. My sister (14) came in the room and was watching us. She started to get jealous and wanted her back scratched too. So she sat down next to us and he did her back too.

Question: Why are women so difficult?

Posted: 08 May 2017 04:54 AM PDT

So I paid my girlfriend so she could go get some beauty care products she wanted. I said one of her products was pricey, and she told me how much some other women spend compared to her and i said damn that is ridiculous. Then she made a reference to how much my Mom spent on them and that to me sounded like she was defending her when my Mom spent more on clothes than she did me and my brother when she was a kid. The amount she spent on clothing, jewelry, beauty fashion stuff was more than her total income. Not joking. When I said that my gf got mad at me and said that i was making this a personal attack on her interests? I said I simply stated the product was expensive, I didn't say you couldn't buy it and I offered her extra money so she would have enough to buy it. Then she said no I don't wanna hear it. I like make up, fashion, jewelry and if you can't respect that, then go find another woman. I literally just paid thousands of dollars just days ago for us to go on a vacation out of country, I have spent so much time and money on her. And I told her all I said is those women she mentioned and my Mom who spend so much on it were taking it too far. I told her if she insulted football and said people spent too much money going to games or whatever, that I would whole-heartedly agree and not take it as a personal attack. I don't spend my money on hardly anything but things to do with her. Where am I going wrong here?

Question: Ciao sono una ragazza di 15 anni e mi piace moltissimo il nuoto. Ma il problema è mio padre...?

Posted: 08 May 2017 04:42 AM PDT

L ho pratticato per 2 mesi e poi ho smesso poi per altri 6 e ho smesso poi altri 4 e ho smesso, e così via, per colpa di mio padre che dice che non ha i soldi per mandarmici...però intanto si compra i telefoni nuovi sempre a rate. Ma io dico: NON È LA STESSA COSA SE TI TIENI IL CELLULARE CHE AVEVI PRIMA (non era rotto o altro andava benissimo ma lui ha un ossessione cazzo!) E MI MANDI A FARE UNO SPORT??? Poi si lamenta che sto sul divano con il telefono ecc... e che potrei andare a correre, ma a me non piace lo vuoi capireeee? Mia mamma è daccordissimo sul fatto che voglio pratticarlo, e non 2 mesi si e un anno no, ma sempre, il problema è lui..... AVETE CONSIGLI???

Question: Mother-in-law charges us rent and then spends it on pills?

Posted: 08 May 2017 03:34 AM PDT

So my mother-in-law decided to let us live with her until we could get back on our feet. My husband was laid off shockingly after 3 years of working a great job. However he went through a temp service that would give him a job and then it would come to an end because it's temp. So needless to say it's been a really rough 8 months. I honestly feel uncomfortable in this home because she charges us rent and then blows it on random pills. We did not know she had this problem before we moved in. She always looks high... and is always grumpy. He has a job interview today and I pray he will get this because we want out of this place. I really would like to confront her about being a bad mother but don't want any unnecessary arguments. I don't have a job because I got out of college and cannot get hired any where. Plus she also started hoarding things like empty containers and soda pop cans. And has 10 cats that are starting to make me ill because of the smell of cat poop. Every single time I try to clean her house she will get mad at me and throw a fit. I have never met a person like this in my life. How would you keep the peace until you could move out? Please don't be rude because this is really stressful at the moment. She knows we have no food in the house and makes fun of us and will eat things in front of us. It's like she enjoys us being miserable. I just feel hopeless at this point.

Question: Is this normal sibling fighting?

Posted: 08 May 2017 03:12 AM PDT

My and my sister are very close and I respect her and Im nice to her and always have her back no matter what I even jumped in when a girl was beating her up once. Im on a antidepressant that makes me really calm and happy overall and she takes advantage of that because she constantly calls me names and tells me Im stupid, dumb, slow and not right from the head so yesterday I got tired of that and I snapped and I told her I dont deserve to be called so many names or be treated that way and then she just started hitting me and pulling my hair and I was just trying to get her off me I wasnt trying to hurt her back because I care for her and I didnt want to hurt her. do normal siblings fight like this or is she the one whos wrong?

Question: How sad is it that I really want to live close to my parents but my father is a alcoholic and So that wants me to move far away?

Posted: 08 May 2017 02:54 AM PDT

I'm 23 I want to live close to my parents but my father is a alcoholic and I just can't put up with him drunk. He's the best person ever sober and a great father but I can't set and watch him drink his life away. I rather not see him if he's drunk all the time. He won't accept help and he gets mad if I say anything about it. He says it's my way or the highway.

Question: My name is Debbie and I'm graduating from BS Information Technology. I'm finishing my Thesis but there's more problem other than this:?

Posted: 08 May 2017 02:21 AM PDT

My mom works away because her boss assigned her to work there, but not that I'm against the boss' decision and me and my dad sometimes fight and I hate fights. I understand that my dad is always tired due to tasks he does every morning. I always love my dad and so does he to me, but family is merrier that my mom is with us because of the personalities she had that are special while my dad is always serious. Problems about me and my dad happens everyday in my life since six years ago and there were times that I want my life to end. Also there was a time that I hope I said yes to mom for working while schooling but I'm almost done with Thesis. Forgive me for the paragraphs I typed. I'm just tired of the same problems particularly my heart and my brain. I hope you could help me.

Question: How can I convince my wife s sister who is married to have sex with me who used to do sex with me earlier?

Posted: 08 May 2017 01:40 AM PDT

Question: I m 15 and I still have to sleep with a parent?

Posted: 08 May 2017 01:12 AM PDT

ok so I used to have my own room when my brother was out of the house for college and he would come back every now and then and I would let him have my room just for a couple days until he left. But one day he came back and never went back to college and kind of just took over my room. Now I have had to sleep with my dad because my bratty brother can t sleep without his mom and my mom doesn t want to sleep with my dad. (Brother is 9) I really want my own room again and my own privacy again. Every time I ask my parents about it they just say sorry just wait and I m sick of that excuse. My sleep has gone downhill and I m always tired. What can I do?

Question: How to get my 19 year old brother who lives at home to stop acting like a child?

Posted: 08 May 2017 01:01 AM PDT

Imm 16 years old and work 34 hours a week. I buy 5 chocolate milk bottles to drink for breakfast. He is so lazy and won t move out and keeps drinking my breakfast, and I told my mom to tell him to stop but he just doesn t learn. Not only does he drink my breakfast so I don t have breakfast, but he yells and screams at his Xbox all night and my mom doesn t do anything. At this point I m sick of feeding an adult when I can hardly afford gas in my car or afford time to relax, when I have work and school. I have also tried talking to him but he just tells me to "relax" when I talk to him and just laughs the whole time while I talk; he never gets the point. He doesn t check whos stuff is who s and he expects everything to be shared. Please help me I m really upset and angry.

Question: My dad punched me because i had a fit?

Posted: 08 May 2017 12:08 AM PDT

my mom and dad are separated so i typically stay around my mom a lot because she is kinder. Anyways my mom usually buys me M rated games even though im 13, and this time i decided to ask my dad what he thinks and i asked him can i buy the game? He said no. I was very confused by this and started crying because he has seen me play these video games before but now his mind suddenly changed? Anyways i got mad and threw towels on the floor and crossed my arms. My dad walks in and becomes angry and then punches me in the face 3 times till my vision became white. He then screamed at me and forced me to fold the towels that were on the floor. He typically never hits me he only screams. What should i do?

Question: If my grandmothers moms (great grandmother) sister is my boyfriends dads mom, does this make us related?

Posted: 07 May 2017 11:58 PM PDT

Question: My mom used to hit me and gaslights me any time I try to question her or ask her to do something, what should i do?

Posted: 07 May 2017 11:54 PM PDT

My mom has punched, kicked, choked, and dragged me across a rug. She has also crushed bones in my fingers. My family doesn't know and if I told them I would only get dismissed as an unruly child. I have planned to tell someone but my mom always convinces me that I don't know what i'm saying. Shes left giant bruises on me and i have had to lie about them to friends

Question: Is it weird for a 17 year old guy like me to miss my dead mom?

Posted: 07 May 2017 11:16 PM PDT

I feel like I'm being a baby by missing her and feel like I'm not being man enough about missing. I mean I lost her when I was six and never thought much about it. but for the past 3 years I've been thinking about how it sucks not have my mom when everybody else does. plus I'm a loner usually. I just greatly miss her and even cry a little when thinking of her and mothers day is coming up which breaks my hear because she is not here. I just feel others guys would take it better and would make fun of me for missing her so much, but at the same time I don't really care because I love and miss her and they can think what they want. but am I being a too much of softy about it and a baby? thank you guys for your input

Question: I feel like I don t make my parents proud.?

Posted: 07 May 2017 11:07 PM PDT

I m an only child. I m 15 and I can say I get good grades. My parents aren t very strict but they want me to get good grades and go to college so I can have an easy life. With me being an only child I feel like all the pressure is on me and if I can t get into a college my parents won t be proud of me. I know my parents are proud of me and they always encourage me but I don t know why I feel like I can t make them proud. They always tell me how proud they are of me but I don t know why I feel this way. I just want to talk to someone about it but I feel silly when I say this because my parents are so supportive and amazing. I don t know why I m feeling this.

Question: What to do about this situation? Please help 10 pts?

Posted: 07 May 2017 10:37 PM PDT

Okay so I know this was stupid I don't need to hear that, for the answerers of this question i would prefer you to put yourself in my shoes and tell me what you would personally do. I'm 19 and live with my boyfriend who is 20. We both have 2 jobs and are very close to getting our own place but at the moment have been living with his parents. I'm going through a very tough time in my life and wanted to smoke some herb to relax and get the stress off my mind. My boyfriend's family is cool and like me but they are against weed though they do know me and my boyfriend smoke. It was very early in the morning and I had woken up in the middle of my sleep and had been up for a few hours but I didn't know if anyone was awake and did not want to take the chance of them seeing or hearing me go outside at such an early time because they're the type of people to ask lots of questions and there's only 1 door, so I Sat on the outside of the bathroom window sill and smoked a bowl pack. I don't know if a neighbor told or the wind blew some smoke inside but somehow his mother found out and said something to my boyfriend. I've only seen her once since and we didn't speak and she didnt even look at me. This was this morning. What should I do? I know it was wrong and I feel guilty and I know I should apologize but what else? I know she will also tell her husband and brother who also live here and now I just feel awkward even leaving our room. What should I do?

Question: I'm ashamed of the year I was born, anyone else?

Posted: 07 May 2017 10:23 PM PDT

Hi, so I am 13 years old, so unfortunately I was born in 2004. I have always hated the year I was born, I am ashamed to be apart of this generation. My sister who was born in 1995 always makes fun of me because I was born in 2004, she says I'm apart of the "iPhone generation" which I agree does suck, I hate the generation in growing up in with all the iPhones and memes and stuff, even my own parents make fun of me for being born in 20004, they say anyone born in the 2000's will not live a real childhood, I wish I was born in like 1983 or something. I hate being a 2010's kid, and my cousin who was born in 1998 makes fun of me to, I feel like my whole family does. I am the only person in my whole family who was born in the 2000's, does anyone else ever feel like they were born in the wrong year? I am depressed now.

Question: My sister isn't ready to be an adult?

Posted: 07 May 2017 10:16 PM PDT

okay so basically my sister is mentally unstable, can barely care for herself. she depends on my parents for pretty much everything, whenever something doesn't go her way she cries and my parents fix it for her and they treat her like a baby. she dropped out of high school, and hasn't had a job for longer than 2 months. her and her best friend JUST turned 18 and are all excited about being legal adults (even though they both act like children!) and are moving out together! my whole family encouraged against it because they both can barely keep a job (she always quits her job like a week after having it and she just started working again so we.'re worried she'll quit soon). it's too late now because they signed the lease and i'm just worried my parents will end up having to pay her rent each month or buy her out of her lease (which we don't have a lot of extra money!). on top of ALL of this, they're getting 2 cats and a dog!! she's literally neglected all of her past animals, my mom ends up taking care of them or if it's a small animal it starves to death and it's horrible. i'm so worried for these animals. she literally just smokes weed all day and can't keep any responsibilities and we all KNOW she's not ready to live on her own but my parents never want to make her upset and they wanna prove that they believe she can be an adult. i can't talk her out of anything at this point (trust me i've tried!) but is there anyway i can help her besides literally doing things for her?

Question: How to tell mentally unstable father that his daugher has passed away?

Posted: 07 May 2017 10:05 PM PDT

So the father of my four children is mentally unstable and currently living in a prisoner psyche hospital. He had another set of four kids before we were together that he left for us. I understand that is terrible and I always tried to get him to go back to his kids but their mother is extremely abusive and he was afraid something bad might happen if he did. Well his first born who was 21 just died and she was basically his favorite child. I have no idea how I am going to tell him this. When he hears this, he is going to lose it. Every ounce of sanity he has left may be gone when he hears his daughter is gone. What do I do?? My children can't lose their sister and their father simultaniously.

Question: What do you think?

Posted: 07 May 2017 09:58 PM PDT

My mentor Stacy has become a family friend of mine, she was my mentor 3 years ago but we have grown to be very close friends. She just got a brand new pool and is excited about it. This coming week is her mothers 1 year mark since she passed away and she's been very devestated. Would I look dumb buying her a new pool float for the new pool and mailing it to her? (Like just a bed float you lay on?) she's an older person in the late 50's) I figured it would add a tiny bit of joy to he sad week. What do you think

Question: I don't have friends or family. I live by myself. How to not feel so lonely?

Posted: 07 May 2017 09:26 PM PDT

The only human interaction I have is at work, which is why I enjoy working. But my co-workers have families and don't want to hang out with me outside of work. When doing things like applying for jobs, they ask for "emergency contact" so I make up a fake name and phone number to not feel embarrassed. I used to eat at fast food places often hoping someone would start a conversation with me but I gave up on that. I have also failed on dating sites. I'm thin, but just have an unattractive face.

Question: Yahoo! Answers, I'd like your input. Am I overreacting in this situation, or is this a bit unfair?

Posted: 07 May 2017 09:03 PM PDT

Recently my in-laws purchased homes for my husband's two brothers (not just mortgage, they paid for entire house). My brother-in-laws were not even engaged yet when they were given the homes. My husband and I are married with two young kids (their only grandchildren thus far). When he inquired about whether they would be able to help us with the downpayment of a home for our family, they said there was no money left. I know it's their money to do whatever they want with, but I'm a bit upset.

Question: I am in college and i have to be brought everywhere and 18?

Posted: 07 May 2017 08:16 PM PDT

Am I wrong to be not mad or angry but more on the side of pushing my dad to buy me a car (i dont care which car just a functioning car) which I doubt he will. It is because without a car or liscence which he doesnt let me because it's 'expensive." He has money trust me my parents make probs like 150,000 per year. All my friends at college have cars, and everytime i ask my parents to bring me somewhere they always grunt and say 'ohhhhh again?' or wathever and its not like its everyday so i told them the other day about that a car can fix that and they said well we can bring you whenver but besides the point that they are full of **** is that I waste probably all day at college waiting for my parents to pick me up where I waste my whole day, and I still workout and study a ton, so i just stay at the library wasting hours instead of working or training at the soccer field or hanging out with friends which other friends with cars my age would be doing

Question: Parents reactions to you smoking weed?

Posted: 07 May 2017 08:12 PM PDT

So my second mom (bestfriends step mom) knew something was wrong when I walked in her house one day. ( I wasn't high, I was just not OK) as soon as I walked in I didn't even say anything she said what happened. Was hesitant but eventually told her that I was smoking weed before. She didn't freak out or anything like that. She just asked if I liked it.. I said yes. And she just talked to me. Asking why I was so scared before to tell her because she doesn't judge or yell or anything. What was your parents reaction to finding out you smoked weed? ( I'm 15 btw)

Question: Do you ever look back on times when you were mean/rude to your parents & it makes you sick to your stomach?

Posted: 07 May 2017 07:58 PM PDT

Question: My parents are getting a divorce?

Posted: 07 May 2017 07:53 PM PDT

Question: Would you Go to Jail for this?

Posted: 07 May 2017 07:38 PM PDT

If you found a bag of 100k somewhere & one of your family members like your aunties or somebody in your family trying to tell on you to the cops. Story: I found a bag of 100k with no id verification or any type of verification & I believe someone must of dropped or something but I kept it for myself like finder keepers loser reapers. I come home & I told my mom & brother what happened. Then I told them to not tell anyone because I do have family members that like to be stingy. Well my stupid *** brother ran his mouth. One family member like to throw out hints. The next day 1 of my aunts came to my house thinking that I suppose to give her some. She was like "I heard someone found some money & they better give me some." I played it off like "Who found money?" She was like "I heard that you had found 100 g's and I want some of it." I was like "If I DID have 100k I wouldnt share with you." I do have family members that like to come up excuses. She was like "If you dont give me some of that money GIRRRL that Im GONNA CALL...THE COPS & that IF I cant have any that YOU CANT EITHER." It really be pissing me off. Then she continues " THE ONLY thing you gotta do is just give me 20k out the 100k like its no big deal." ........ ..... my mom was like "She dont have to do it. Now when we was trying to make ends meet that you never ******* help us out." My aunt was like "Well if you dont give the 20K that I WILL prosecute to the FULLEST & I will NOT regret it." My mom was like "That's a shame like what you gonna tell them because you sound so stupid." My aunt was like "Im gonna tell them THAT IT'S DRUG MONEY." My mom was like "Yeah go ahead and do it because this will be the last time you'll ever be in this family." ...... So I was wondering if can you go to jail if someone lied & said that the money you had found was drug money?

Question: Do you think it is your responsibility to take care of your daughter in her twenties when she is sick, why or why not?

Posted: 07 May 2017 07:00 PM PDT

Question: How long does it take to get over loss of sister?

Posted: 07 May 2017 07:00 PM PDT

I am a 36 years old man and I recently lost my older sister. She was 49 and in seemingly good health. My mother had been trying to contact her all morning and a good part of the afternoon. Finally she decides that we need to go check on her. So we go to her house. She gets out and knocks on the door and rings the doorbell. She comes back to the car and tells me to go inside and check on her and her dogs. As soon as I get close to the carport a feeling came over me that I do NOT want to go inside. I beg her to not make me go inside but she insists. I finally open the door and immediately see something isn't right because the kitchen was a mess. I enter the living room and see my sister on the sofa with her legs on the ottoman. Her eyes are open and her arms are up on her chest. I call her name. No response. I call her name again. Still no response. I walk up to her and tap on her arm to get her attention. And her arm was hard. I knew she was gone and I panicked and ran out side to my mom. She ran inside and confirmed what I feared. My sister was dead. I don't know what I'm going to do without her. It's been a little over a week and it isn't getting any easier. I close my eyes and I relive the moment I found her. Yes we were 13 years apart in age. And yes we had our bad arguments. But I loved her. She was my big sister. I feel like a part of my soul is missing. Nothing makes me happy anymore. This all feels like a bad dream that I cannot wake up from.

Question: Why does my relative keep bragging about herself?

Posted: 07 May 2017 06:38 PM PDT

First of all, she is in no place to brag. She is not even close to being successful. My relative is in her late twenties and still lives at her parents house with her kid. However, lately, She has been constantly tooting her own horn and lately its becoming excessive. She brags about how she wants to become a physician assistant and how smart she is etc It would be appropriate if I asked her, but I didn't. She just randomly shares things with my relatives and I in a group chat (and no one even asked her). She shares things about getting an internship and she even sends us her text messages of the person she spoke with for an interview. I am beginning to think she's really insecure or bragging makes her feel better about herself? What do you all think ? She also flunked out of a nursing program not too long ago.

Question: My brother does no school work.?

Posted: 07 May 2017 06:25 PM PDT

He refuses to clean his gross room and do any school work and is failing every class. He is on a bad path. How can I fix him? Don't tell me I can't because I need too.

Question: ¿es pecado besar a mi tía?

Posted: 07 May 2017 06:05 PM PDT

Ya se que la Biblia prohíbe relaciones sexualidad entre familia, pero ¿los besos en la boca también son pecado? Yo soy cristiano, tengo 15 añis y mi tia 60 y quería saber si un besito en la boca entre famili a Es pecado. Pues miren la otra vez estaba mi tía(quien también es cristiana) vino a mi casa y yo le ayude con las maletas y después el día siguió normal hasta que en la noche estábamos platicando cuando me pregunto si tenia novia y le dije que no Hasta que supongo que los dos nos calentamos y en ese momento me acerqué a su boca y la besé apasionadamente y ella siguiente igual y admito que me gustó porque mi tía se ve bien porque a pesar de su edad tiene buen cuerpo y no es fea de cara y ya me venía gustando desde hace tiempo, pero estoy preocupado porque no se si sea pecado porque solo fue un beso y ya. Tampoco me acosté con ella pero me preocupa por si es pecado o no y no se si Dios aborrece eso. PD: mi tía también es cristiana

Question: Is she okay?

Posted: 07 May 2017 05:47 PM PDT

My grandma, 75 y/o has one lung with holes all through it due to smoking since she was but 10 years old. She was on oxygen for the last two years, breathing treatments for the past 10 or so years. Miraculously she doesn't need her oxygen anymore. Doesn't do her breathing treatments. She seems fine in that aspect but she claims to see a ghost. She said he used to be mean to others but now he's nice. She loves him, he's her lover and he breathes in her ear. She said he sounds sexy. She asked him not to show his face so she doesn't know what he looks like. He showed up a couple weeks ago when she got really sick, he told her she had a sickness that used to be common in his times. He told her she couldn't eat or drink unless he said so and he chose what. If she needed to go to the bathroom she had to ask and if he didn't want her to then she had to mess on herself. She said he flushed her insides out and healed her. She said colors she had never seen before came out of her. At night it gets really bad. Her caretaker, my aunt said she stays in her room and laughs hysterically all night long. The other day she was waiting for her in the kitchen with a butcher knife, said she thought she heard something and had the door wide open and she has never been at home alone before in my whole life with the doors unlocked let alone open. A couple of nights ago she was sitting in the living room staring at the ceiling laughing. Is this dementia? Or is the ghost real? Could she be possessed?

Question: Boyfriend is holding me back?

Posted: 07 May 2017 05:38 PM PDT

Hi all, I'll keep this short. I've been with this guy for about 3 years. I'm a recent college grad and he's almost 30. Currently we live in a house with our 2 dogs. I have a well paying full time job and hope to go to vet school within the next few years. I love him to pieces, but there is a lot that I don't love about him. He doesn't seem to have any desire to move forward or get a better job (he's making minimum wage, doesn't have a car and has hurt me emotionally in the past..etc). I know he tries and came from a bad household but he has 0 motivation..we can barely save money..all my hard earned money goes to bills and what not. I make double his check every week. I hate to say it's all about money...but..everyone tells me I have so much going for me and that he's holding me back. I hate to say it, but it's true. If I was living at my parents home I could save for school, pay off some of my undergrad debt and actually have extra money for some fun. I feel like I'm too young for this right now. My parents door is wide open, I just feel bad leaving him :/ Should I feel guilty? I want to follow my dreams, but living with him isn't helping me get there.. :/ I really want to go back to school :( I care about him a lot and we have talked about me moving back home before and he calls himself a loser and gets upset and actually cries :( I don't know what to do T_T I hate making people feel bad but I want a comfortable and stable future...which means getting into vet school :/

Question: Can I move in with my 25 year old sister at age 15?

Posted: 07 May 2017 05:27 PM PDT

Long story short I ve had enough of this house its not the same anymore and I want to live with my sister because I wont have to deal with this anymore and I had enough. Thanks everyone, they are not abusive to me, but Ive just had enough you know?