21 years old, I hang out with about 5-7 people, all my really close friends. I used to have them over all the time to just chill or sometimes to watch football on Sunday. When they would come over I had 3 extra kids that I wasn't really friends with coming over just to hang out with them and to be nice. My Dad would either cook us or order us lunch every Sunday so we can eat and hangout to watch football. Once the regular season ended, these kids that I was being nice to stopped associating with me and a few of my close friends, they would never answer us if they wanted to hang out, they could never take jokes from us they would always freak out if we joked with them. They would always hang out with their girlfriends, would have people over their houses but NEVER me, the kid who always had them. Then a week ago, it was one of those kids 21st birthday party, of course, I wasn't invited, neither were 2 of my close fiends, these kids said that we can only hangout with them if we have girlfriends (even though single people were at the party). So we told them how messed up they've been treating us and we basically told them to screw off and that we aren't associating with them anymore. Now we have completely cut them off, they try to kiss our *** and apologize, but we just ignore. Do you guys think I did the right thing? I have no time for stupid pointless drama like this, these people literally used me for Sunday football, I believe I am doing right cutting toxic people off.

So I have a friend a few years younger than me whom I treat like my own younger brother I've known for a few years. He's an average B-C student, never caused any problems always at least tried to do right in school, until now. Let's just say, he's starting to give into peer pressure. The first time he skipped class I let it slide not thinking too much on it but I did warn him not to do it again. but now that I personally saw his "friends" convincing him to do it (he was hesitating to but still agreed) I ended up telling his older brother(older than me too) about what was going on. He didn't take the news lightly and asked for all the details saying he was going to have to have a talk with him, the thing I'm worried about is was telling his older brother the right thing to do? I would never want to get him in trouble with his brother(he's the kinda guy you look at and automatically listen to and respect) but I didn't know how else to get him to stop trying to change himself for his "friends". I know most likely he'll be really mad at me for what I did and others (most likely his "friends") would say it was only skipping but was what I did wrong or right?

It was morning before school started. There was a theme of where people pretend to be someone else going on that day and my brother and I thought it would be funny if we pretended to be each. We were outside school in a circle with some friends. After talking for about 10 minutes, my brother is like do an impression of me, which is giving the middle finger to people and our friends were laughing, and then he tries to do an impression of me. In the most idiotic voice he says "I'm [me] and I jerk off to cartoons!" Then everyone stops laughing and pretty much just walks away. My brother was the only one laughing. When I saw one of my friends later, they just avoided me. It wasn't the end of my life, but it really made me want to strangle my brother.

I'm 23 and unemployed right now because my job is in summer. My friend keeps bugging me to watch her baby Tuesday.because she has appointment and the dad has to work. And her whole family is busy. I just don't want to, I would have to get up early and it would be free. Is it bad if I just say no? She's the type that always wants people to do stuff for her but then forgets to return the favor.

I have Tourette's syndrome panic attacks anxiety and depression. I hate school I hate my life (but I don't want to end it either) Today this girl came up to me and was yelling threatening and cussing at me all lunch 45 minutes and she brought all her friends and my "friends" did nothing:( my sisters have no problem with school no metal illnesses just me out of my whole family no one has Tourette's syndrome. Why me? I thought they were my friends. What should I do? I can't be homeschooled here in Maui you can only get your GED it sucks! I tried to get up and leave and she said go ahead try see what happened your not ******* going anywhere! Also I promised a lot of people I wouldn't hurt you if I didn't your *** would be on the ground right now. And then this isn't the end this is the beginning and only one person can win, and it's me. And I just had to sit there the whole time with all her friends surrounding me my "friends" just sitting there talking to her friends and I gave it back to her it I wanted to cry bad. I have no friends I hate school what should I do? I already went and told my counselor

They are always talking to them. I invited them to a group event an now their boyfriends are just tagging along and I'm not okay with that. Help please!!

Im really lost and confused, it all started about two months ago me and my good friend whom i've known for 10 years but just started getting close to about 3 years ago w'ere just hanging out doing the usual things we do like smoking weed talking about boxing etc. During the conversation i started to feel weird when we were making eye contact and then my heart started beating really fast and the thought popped up into my head that i like him, i brushed this off for that day and said there is no way that could be true im just overeacting. The thing is though i cant get rid off this thought and its really been bothering me to the point where during the first three weeks of this i didn't eat and couldn't sleep. Eventually i blocked his number and have lost all contact with him. The weird things is though that i dont genuinely feel like i like him. I have no sexual or romantic attraction towards him whatsoever. Its really frustrating because i really miss our friendship and all the fun things we did together. I just need some clarity in all this is it possible that i just manifested this all in my head or am i just confusing my feelings for a really strong friendship. Btw this is not a troll i really need help this has been causing great distress in my life

Okay so I know this isn't really a question but I'm really desperate for someone. I haven't had a good "friend" since I was 9 and I'm 13. I want someone who has the same interest as me like music maybe? Alternative,pop-punk? Youtubers.. Dan&phil? If anyone has kik you can kik me @ seyeonxoxo. Thanks to anyone who reads this,answers this, and messages me on kik. This is probably I dumb idea but I hope I hope I can make a friend.

There's this girl at college who I hate!!! She always makes fun of me being quiet (i can't help it), says I'm not good enough for anyone, always points out when I do something wrongs runs away from me at lunch times etc... What can I do about her. I'm gonna flip at somepoint and end up punching her in the face. Everyone on the course hates her and today they let the teachers know about it. They spent an hour reporting all of the things she has done and why we all hate her. I want to do something about what she's done to me though. It's really hurtful to me. I don't have much confidence and this has made it worse. Thanks.

My friend just had a baby a few months ago. He's cute and he seems OK. She wants to go out to eat soon, that's fine. But then she starts bringing up about going to the zoo and the park and all this other stuff when he gets big.... I'm not a huge kid person and I didn't have a kid. I'm single and in my early 20s. I just feel like she's trying to recruit me because the baby's dad is always working and doesn't seem to do much even when he is home. How can I keep the friendship without having to do baby stuff all the time? I have other kid less friends to hang out with so I can't just drop everyone nor do I want to. None of her friends have kids either.

Okay so today was the first day of classes and the 6 train was a ******* wreck. So i was stuck im grand central for 30 mins and then when i finally got on the 6 there were HUGE delays and we got stuck there too. Mind you its really claustrophobic so some girl behind me starts burping and she doesnt stop for a good 2 mins so i go are u okay n shes like yeah yeah im fine whatever. Then she starts gagging and throws up all over the place so i got out at the next stop which is 59th street. So im already late to my class bc of the delays n now i have remnants of vomit on my shoes and im running to my college. So i finally get there and i missed my ******* class. Now idk what to do should i email the prof and let him know what went down or will it just sound like an excuse and piss him off? Also its a discussion class so we meet once a week and im assuming it was just a syllabus day bc the class is only an hour long. Thanks and sorry for the lengthy back story lol

My best friend is very attractive. I always knew this and felt fine with it until we started going out to bars together recently. When we go out together, all the guys talk to and approach her and none of them come up to me, and it makes me feel awful about myself. The worst part about it is that she's extremely nice and never makes me feel ugly or beneath her, but her getting so much attention makes me jealous and not want to hang out with her. What should I do?

So before i begin this may seem stupid to you but its actually a big deal for me AND PLEASE READ THE ENTIRE THING. In the beginning of the year (8th grade) me and my 3 friends ended up at a pretty crappy lunch table with a bunch of gross creepy unpopular people. It's not possible to make friends with them because they pick there nose, do other gross things. I never liked that table but since my 3 friends were there it was bearable. However, its been 6 months into the school year and i have realized my so called "friends" are really strange. They LITERALLY will not talk about anything but semen, pussy, weight lifting, insulting teachers, how much they **** each day, and drugs. One of them even snorts powdered candy when dared. I really don't feel comfortable around them and i want to switch my lunch table. There's this one table i really want to sit at where 2 of my friends are but everyone else there doesn't know me. i feel like it would be weird that in the middle of the school year some random person comes to your table and messes up people's seats. Also i feel like people would feel awkward around me. WHAT SHOULD I DO???? sh*t as in the **** each day

I lived in the inner city but I had nice things growing up. I had travelled a lot and never had friends. In high school this girl hated me so much. She slept with my ex. Stolen my friends and told them I was jealous of her. She has probably never left the state. Get mad if someone asks what my vacations were like. She doesn't have much but I don't pick on her about it . People call her fat slob due to her weighing 275lbs and I am naturally skinny. Now she told all my old friends I envy her but I don't.

Okay, so my "friend" stabbed me in the back, how should I get revenge?

Me&my BFF have been friends forever (shes always been insecure/threatened type inside and out),you can say she's ALWAYS been jealous of me example,she'd always get mad&annoyed that a guy she liked thought i was hot so she'd always tell them something like "but she said you were ugly" or something worse she'd also always try to find a way to bring me down physically&mentally.she has gotten over that from what i see for myself so NOW, she would say i dress to fancy/nice to go to a basic place& i would tell her that iam not basic i have to look good wherever i go and that she doesnt care about how she looks.She also has a bf now and he would give me compliments and she'd flip out on him.I told her that i wanted to die my hair blonde and like a month later she dyes her hair blonde and told her bf that i copied her when i finally dyed my hair blonde.She's always been the one to always complain that i'm conceited,I always would say"I'm THAT ***** but fast forward now she says that she has to look good all the time,she speaks like me,wears the same jewelry as i do,she use to complain about how long my nails were when i would get them done,now she gets her nails long,she trys to wear the same clothes as i do,copy my hair styles,she calls herself "that *****" now,she trys to be into stuff like i am,i am so big into fashion&shoes and she's trying to be the same way.if we go shopping and i say something is cute for me,she buys it,am i crazy or does she want to be me?i need your opinions one day she said "(my name) wants to be me" i honestly cursed her out because its totally the other way around. and she also says stuff like "(my name) taught me." and if a guy would get give a compliment she'd say "shes not all that" but of curse not to my face, behind my back.. is it jealousy?

I'm 16, and I miss him so much, and I can't even imagine how alone he probably feels right now. Is there any possible way to find out where he is right now?

Okay, so my "friend" thought it would be funny to send a picture to a very popular person in my school. The picture of me was taken off guard and I was flicking off the camera, I know I regret it. I don't want to tell my parents because the picture was bad. Now the person she sent it to is teasing me he's going to send it to everyone! Plus, he knows my parents and he can show it to them.

Every girl that I meet hangs with arrogant athletic guys who are loud smart aleck and rude and goes around acting stupid and trying to start stuff, They use the word gay a LOT I avoid these guys at all costs and that is the ONLY kind of guys that they know how to hang with? They'd bully you for no particular reason and you'd likely get beat up if you come back at them or more likely jumped,

If someone wants you in their life they'll make room for you You shouldn't have to fight for a spot Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your

A couple days ago, I had plans to hang out at my friend's apartment. On the way there, she called me sobbing and said she drank a fifth of vodka, snorted six Xanax, and cut her arm badly. I rushed there, called the police, and held her hand to lead her because she was stumbling so bad. She was incoherent and crying so I answered every question for the police because she was too heavily intoxicated. I rode in the ambulance with her and had to stay in the ER for a few hours. I called her dad and boyfriend for her but she was unconscious throughout most of it. I took all her personal belongings because they were very expensive and left them all with her father. I left soon after her dad arrived so they could have privacy and luckily her cuts were superficial. She was bleeding a lot and causing herself to throw up which I kept trying to put a stop to. She kept repeating that she wanted to die though. She has been dating this boyfriend for two months and they live together and she has been suicidal ever since. I feel as if he's a bad influence but I'm always kind to him even though he gets extremely jealous whenever she hangs out with anyone else. After this ordeal, I called & texted a couple of times to check up on her and messaged her boyfriend but got no response from either of them. I told her she needs to move back home away from all the bad influences and she says she needs space from me. She claims to have a great support system but I'm the only one who was truly always there for her. A few days ago (right after the hospital), bought her an expensive 100$ bouquet with a heartfelt letter that was delivered today and the delivery worker confirmed that it was received. But I didn't hear any thank you or compliment from my friend. I'm upset over this because why would she need space from me? Why does she choose a boyfriend that she's known for 2 months over her best friend that has been there for her for over a decade? And why didn't she thank me for the bouquet? Please just give me some advice. She also was turning it all around on me and I am not a bad influence in the slightest. I don't drink or do drugs. I finally got into contact with her and she knew get the flowers and said it was pointless and was spacing herself away from all her friends (i'm her only friend) but she still lives with this terrible boyfriend, I don't know what to do.

This is regarding the case in the news awhile ago, where a young woman bit off the penis of the man who was attempting to rape her. He had attacked her and was trying to force himself in her mouth, but she bit down hard. Over 90 percent of his penis was removed, and it could not be reattached. The article didn't give names, but said the woman was 20 years old, and the man 34 years old (who apparently had a history of sex offences). I was reading some comments online about it by guys, and they felt sorry for the rapist! They said he was wrong, but also that the girl went too far. They thought its unfair that he can't orgasm now (and that she deprived him of all future sexual pleasure, and he "has to pee, and feel, like a girl now"). 1. Do you agree, that she had a right to do what she did? 2. Do you feel sorry that he "has to pee, and feel, like a girl" now (& why)? 3. What do you think abut him being unable to have sexual pleasure now, or orgasm, ever again? 4. If you were the nurse who tended the rapist's "scar", what would you wanna SAY to him (using quotations)? .

i was in school today, talking to a girl from my class, and then one girl from another class that i don't know came, she said hi to us, and started talking to the girl i was with, and she told her that she looks pretty with that new look, and she's the only girl who's elegant and dress properly in this entire school, that she likes the way she looks, and then looked at me and went away, I don't know, but i think it was a little bit rude to not at least say something to me as well, I mean if i was her, i would compliment her outfit but when no one is around, It's like telling me "you're the ugly biiitch", and making me feel like i'm hated by her and that i'm nothing, I didn't react to this, but when asked my parents and friends why she did this, they told me that it's because she's jealous of me because i'm prettier and more elegant than her, (i don't mean that i'm the best, but the girl who was rude is ugly as hell, I'm not the best but at least i think i look better than she does), My brother told me it's a way to comfort herself, because she's ugly and she can't help it you look prettier, It was really mean from her, she waited me to be with her to say that, cz she never told her that when she was with another girl, Why do people hate me ? i feel so sad and depressed when things like this happen, and when people tell me indirectly that they wish i could just die, I didn't do anything wrong, i don't even know this girl or her name ??

What should I do? I was talking about one girl I don't like in my class and I was telling my honest, harsh opinion (about her having green looking skin and being annoying) and her friends overheard! I know it must sound mean for me to say that stuff, but it was only because my friend told me something that girl did that offended me. Her friends are giving me dirty looks now, and considering their nature, I assume they will tell everyone and be consistently horrible. I don't know what to do. Please help?

For the past few years I've been a little bit tired of life. But lately I feel so lost, I don't smile nor laugh anymore. I'm always tired/sleepy and just want to be alone with my music. I'm in 9th grade, It's my last year in school (I'm from Denmark and I'm 16) and I have no idea what to take as education ( I think about taking 10th grade - which is like a extra year in 9th grade, because I feel like I'm not ready to take an education) and my family keep saying what I want to do is really bad and I will regret it. And my friendships is going really bad too lately. I feel like my family and friends don't support me. I do a lot of things to make them happy and they give me nothing, they don't even accept or respect my opinions. And the fact that I get easily annoyed, is really hard to understand for them. When I get 18-20 years old, I really want to move out and forget them, eventually though I sometimes really love them.

Hello! My names grace I'm 14 and in 8th grade and white. I'm so tired of hearing about race in America. I wish we could all get along. Race should be a problem anymore. I'm not racist at all. And I'm tired of hearing about white privalage. I think that is real to. We should all have the snake privlage. But I don't think it's as big as people say it is but I thought thinks it's a real thing. And what's that show about I thought oj is bad? And the guy that got murderd sister said it was fictional. Thank you peace and love grace!

I sent a few people a Snapchat and they opened them but didn't reply please help I thought we were kind of friends but I have to see them soon and it will be so awkward and horrible please help

It s my second semester in college, I live at home, work full time, and I haven t seen my friends from high school in months. I didn t really talk to anyone last semester so I didn t make any friends but I want this semester to be different.

So there is this girl and shes in 11th grade . Im in 9th im average sized and she's a little big . Anyways she gets on my nerves so mf much , i fr cant stand her . Like today i was taking a picture of me and my friends shoes && she assumed i was taking a picture of her . Then we had this full blown argument. And apparently i was trying to act big and bad for standing up for myself ? Okay another thing that happened today was that i had just got out of gym and it was hot on the bus , so i had the window down . She was doing the most because i didnt want to put it up, like not everything is about you . She not only argues with me but with all the smaller kids on the bus . Like she got in a physical fight with an 8th grader on the bus && argued with my bestfriend again on the bus like a week ago . She needs to get over herself.

I don't have any real/close friends, but I don't want my parents to find out. My mom was asking me why I never go out and my dad was asking me what's going on at school, but I don't want to tell them I don't have any friends because they might make me transfer to a new school, and I want to give this school a chance. Please help thanks

I'm in high school in northern Indiana, and I'm a huge bluegrass music fan. All my friends just listen to mainstream pop, hip-hop/rap. A couple of them ride home with me in my car regularly, and I always have bluegrass playing. They make fun of me, and wonder why I don't like "regular music". They always call bluegrass "stupid hick music". Since bluegrass is the sweetest and most beautiful genre of music ever to exist, why would they not like it?

My parents are really strict, and make me study most of the time. And most of the friends I have usually don't wanna do anything or don't invite me at all I'm hoping I'll have more freedom in college, and do those and things that are cool, like learning to surf, hunt, or sky dive. Maybe even make a movie I also still don't have my drivers license

So a while ago me and my friends went to this girls house (see is all of our friend) and we had a fun time but there was a lot of arguments and stuff like that. But I never really mentioned it until today. I said, "We should all go to your house again" She looked at her friend in a serious face and told me about what her parents said. She said her parents said to her that they don't want me to go over there again(pretty much banning me from their house). She said they overheard me joking about one of their Christmas decorations. But we all were, why would they say that only to me?? I didn't mess with their house or anything!! And I'm really nice

This Friday, after school, I'll be going to my best friend house. We get out of school at 2:20 PM and I think I'll leave her house at around 5:00 PM, whenever my mom picks me up really. I'm excited because I rarely go to her house (not really allowed to, strict rules) but it's been 3 months so I convinced my mom. Of course her mom has to agree with my mom or else it's "rude." My question is, what can I do at her house?? My list: -Play with her birds and give her advice about them (I'm a bird expert, I own 3 myself) -Sing her a song, It's called "Count on me" by Bruno Mars. It's a lovely song, and I thought it would be perfect to sing to my best friend. -Make a weird new food, like strawberry with peanut butter with egg and bread or something lol! (And of course eat it... and record it..) -Just sit on her floor and talk and laugh and enjoy!! -Have a "spa" day. I'll do this by TRYING to make face masks (lol) and giving eachother manicures and doing eachother's hairs and... I think this is the most fun thing on this list :-) What else should I add to my list?? Help please, I want to have the best day ever with her!! :)

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Unfortunatly all my friends start to distant themselfs from me. I don t want to come off as douche but I am quite succesfull for my age and have achieved alot. I am running my own IT business. Furthermore I am handsome. I don t tell these things to brag or to boost myself here, really. I give this information so that people can make a better picture of the situation. But unfornutally with all good things the bad things follow. I have to deal with alot of hate from strangers just because i happen to be handsome, and they don t even know that I am also succesfull in my business. So it makes it hard to socialize with people because I always have to be extremly nice otherwise they start hating on me, say i am gay, arrogant and such things. Thats one problem. But the other problem is that since am starting with my business alot of my old friends distant themselfs from. Not answering my calls nor invite me. I asked them whats up and why they don t answer my calls anymore. They just search for excuses and don t tell me the true reason. But I suspect it has something to do with my new company. Maybe its to much to handle for them. I have to say that most friends I have are still studing or have an average job. But I never said it was bad what there were doing, the oppsite was the case i encougared them and tried to help them everywhere i could. But still ... So my question is what can i do in such situation ? * Losing all my friends slowly @Pat where did i say i don't change myself? I always want to work on myself. I am not talking about myself all the time with my friends! But I honestly have no intresst to talk about sport and the wheater. I like to talk about books, politics, philosphy and business ideas. But now I realise that my friends are not intressted in such things. They want to drink at the weekend and work like a donkey over the week! NOT ME! I dont think I am better then them nor did i said that! You are projecting. @Pat You are projecting like all people like to do it. When someone mention he is succesful and handsome he is an arrogant prick how thinks he is better then all people. I am thankful for what good gave me but I also can see that its not all good. Everything has it downside, which you FAIL to see, because you never was or will be in this situation.

Started getting feelings for a good female friend of mine. We were very flirty with each other, touching and so on. ever kissed her or such. We were very close. A month ago she met a guy and they started dating, and since then she barely speaks to me. Every time i tried to ask her to do something she ignored me or avoided the question. She still asked me to lunch and to go out twice now. The last two days she started texting me again on her own. Asking how my day was and saying things like "You're awfully quiet today". And I am quiet with her. i want to get over my feelings and it's working but I'm losing the friendship too. I never told her how I feel, only once that I find her attractive and wouldn't mind having something physical with her(we were high at the time). I'm sure she strongly suspects it though. What do i do? Do i talk to her about it? Or do i just suck it up and hope I don't destroy the friendship before I'm over her?

Hiya, I m at university and thought I had a good strong group of friends. Since around October they have been treating me as second best, coming to my dorm only when none of the rest of the friends are in. I text them to do stuff but they make excuses or they tell me yes and then make plans with someone else accidentally . Since October this has happened so many times. They do upset me once a week by not including me in things and leaving me out, I ve spoken to them all on five different occasions but no one seems to care particularly on how I feel as the way that they act doesn t change. I ve been keeping a diary recently and reading over it, they do so many little things to upset me. Today alone they have done 3 different things that has upset me... Should I maintain friends with these people??

I'm going to graduate soon from college and I also have to admit that I feel alone. I met my two best friends in kindergarten. We have tried to stay in touch since high school, but over these last years, things have changed. One of them has changed so much, it feels like he isn't the same person anymore. My other friend has stopped contacting me, I don't know why. We haven't had any fights either. I have met new people in college but I have so many good memories with my old friends. It has been hard for me to go on without them. They have always been there for me in both good and bad times. I don't know how this happened, how do you replace your closest friends?

I'm always listening to other people and am told that I'm a "good listener." (Not sure if that's supposed to be good or not though?) Whenever I try to talk to people about my problems they never listen though. I get the fact that sometimes it takes a little while to explain or read if it's over text. But that's because I've been holding a lot of it in for like over a year. I can't explain what's going on and get good advise if I'm only explaining the last month. It drives me insane. I'm sensitive too so things can really get to me so I can be beating myself up about something that happened or questioning things, but have no body to talk to. I feel like even if I made new friends that they wouldn't even want to listen. I don't know what to do anymore... I like to compare explaining a story like a picture. You can zoom in and look at the pixels and study them closely, but you don't fully understand the whole story until you zoom out and look at the entire picture to see whats going on and really understand. Maybe you should walk in my shoes for a day before you call me "selfish." Maybe you're selfish and trying to hide it by putting others down. That's usually how it all starts.

My group of friends have nicknames for everyone and we want one for Jess, I m Beth and my nickname is bethalina, Courtney s is co, bethalina and co :P, things like that please

I know it will sound stupid but i'm really anxious about it. I recently started Uni and i've had a hard time making new friends. My old school friends keep talking about their big friend groups and it's making me uncomfortable since I've only "bonded" with 2 other girls. So the other day, one of my highschool friends(let's call her B) asked why I never talk about the girls i've met in uni and she jokingly said "You DO have friends,right?" which really hurt me, considering that I do have problems meeting new people. I answered yes and then she asked me where they're from, and I didn't wanna make it sound like I have only 2 friends, so I talked about some other girls that I've met, with who i've only hanged out like twice. And it turns out that one of these girls(let's call her K) comes from a small town, which also happens to be the hometown of a girl that B met at her uni, so B said that she'll ask her if she knows K. The thing is that she probably does know her because they are the same age,their hometown is really small etc. I'm worried that if/when B talks to her friend about it, her friend will talk to K about this, which will be weird and awkward for me and K, since I don't really know her enough to be calling her my "friend". I'm afraid B will learn about this.I don't know what to do.Yes, I know that what I did is really pretentious and problematic but let's not focus on that.Help? (In case you got confused, B:my old friend from highschool. K: the new girl from my uni

Hey guys So there's this one girl lets call her A and there s this other girl lets call her B So A while ago me and B werent friends anymore because shed betrayed me And now I m friends with A which I know wasn t good news as if always know A was a two faced fake person. Last week when I was at my piano lesson A decides to spread rumors Such as I m selfish and want A (her) for myself and that I hated the people of the group which Im currently in (shes in it too) (heard that from a friend)so I started ignoring her. Today A and B are found together talking behind my back and eavesdropping on me and a friend.As I was complaining to the friend that I m really angry that they were talking behind my back and that they were probably made for each other. Im pretty sure A and B heard that as they returned in less than 10 seconds time. Later on in the day A texts me and asks why I m ignoring her so I said I wasnt in order to prevent drama. She says well shes just checking and that if I was then she wants me to leave her friends and wants me to find new ones.A is very unpopular and not liked by many people B has been trying to bring me down by telling people that I hate them. And now they working together.A talks behind Bs back and I don t think B likes A that much. I feel so sad because A has told me to find new friends and she makes me sound like I only have them.majority of my friends are in that group.Any ideas on what I should do? I feel like I'm going to break down tomorrow

Okay, so I go to a really small school (400-500 people, Pre K-12th) and I have gone to this school almost my whole life. And I live in a really small town. Recently a couple rumors have been spread about me by some people I thought were my closest friends. I have been friends with these people ever since I got to this school and we used to be best friends up until this year. I met a guy in a town about 15-20 minutes away and i really liked him. Turns out he wasn't the best guy for me because i went to go stay the night with him without telling anyone including my mom, where I was going. (Yes, that was stupid I know) Anyways i found out he doesn't hang out with the best people either. We went to his friends house and there was a bunch of people there that I did not really know. Well, my mom soon found out where I was and asked one of the friends to go get me then after she picked me up she brought me back home. That Monday at school she started telling people I was doing drugs that night. All of the people who I thought were my best friends stopped talking to me, posted stuff about me on Instagram/Twitter, and blurred my face out of it just to show they didn't like me. I was tired of it so I texted one of my friends asking why they didn't like me. She started telling me I was a skank and she didn't want to ruin her reputation by hanging out with me. I just really want to move schools because I have all classes with them and our classes are really small (15-20 people) HELP!

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don't know what to do right now, because this week my anxiety has been playing me up. there is a girl who I can't go near because every time I do, I make a complete idiot of myself. for example on my bad days I don't like people in my space because I feel very upset and nervous when they do this. so this girl she is walking by me and as soon as I see her I feel sick and shaky and completely out of control. it is normally this time when I focus on my breathing and try and walk past in a straight line. but then my head takes over and I start to pace and dither about. she sees me and before I know what I'm saying I'm yelling 'keep away from me'! which I figure isn't the best way to talk to her. my problem is if I see her I can be very rude! now I have a habit of if she walks near me I will say 'keep away from me' or 'oh great what she doing here?'. if she is coming through a doorway I'll get anxious and barge through. I hate being so rude so I decided I wanted to talk to her and explain why I've been so unfriendly. I asked her friend where I could find her and she told me after a bit of persuading. so I turned up and waited around when I saw her I froze up and couldn't move! I was still staring at her for 5 minutes straight and she got a bit nervous and smiled at me - clearly hoping I'd just go away. I went into panic mode and my breathing started to g e t heavy and I went all dizzy and sick. I knew I would collapse if I stood there any longer. then I felt someone behind me and it brought back nasty memories and I completely freaked out! I didn't think my leg shot out -hardI didn't stop till 20 mins later and I struggled to control myself. I screamed at the person to keep away I turned round and it was one of the girls friends! I bolted charging through the group of girls and nearly running them all over

I work with my best friend, she and I have been friends for 15+ years. She referred me to this position with our company and I have been working for the company for almost a year and a half now. At first we didn't work closely together, we saw each other once or twice a day and she did her thing and I did mine. Then I got promoted about 4 months ago, and now we work very closely together. Normally this is fine, except recently she has been much more lazy about her approach to work; coming in a few minutes late each day and slacking on completing deadlines. I've tried talking to her and she has a poor attitude about it and seems bitter towards the position. It's beginning to be noticed our managers, and coworkers I don't want her to be disciplined for something that could possibly be fixed. To compound the situation everyone in the office knows that we are friends so I'm afraid that if she does not pick up the pieces it will look bad for me too. 3 questions. 1. Should I tell her what everyone else is saying or should I wait for my boss to talk to her? 2. How could I with out hurting her feelings or being as gentle about it as possible.? 3. How can I make sure that this doesn't reflect poorly on me? For clarification: we are equals I am not above or below her in the hierarchy of the company.

When people say, ''I dare you.'' I feel like I should do it.

i have smoked before but thats when im with my older brother. I am not really into doing stuff like that like drinking and smoking, i only do that once in a while when im with my older brother because i trust him and he knows more about smoking and drinking than i do. I am 18 and my friend wants to hangout and smoke. my mom knows that i smoked before and trusts me, she told me not to smoke or drink with my friends because 1. i am always the one that has to drive them places 2.if something happens to them we will be legally in trouble. I respect my parents and dont want to smoke and stuff but i also dont want to look like a little ***** or something if my friend brings weed over. what do i do? i wanna respect my parents rules but i also want to have fun with my friends. (i have 2 older brothers and when i asked them what to do they said they used to smoke and drink and party when they were my age so i should do it too but im not like them, im like the good little daughter that follows the rules)

Okay so in maths today I could barely focus on my work. And why? Because this retard kept of throwing rubbers and stuff at me, and the teacher was so retarded as to not notice! For a while I just ignored him, although didn't get much work done. At the very end of the lesson, he threw a rubber and it landed in my hair! So I lost it and threw the rubber back, it went in his eye and I hope it hurt!! But then the teacher noticed and guess what? She told me off and gave me a warning, but didn't tell the bully off, just because she didn't see him! WHAT THE F**K?! I know I did manage to hit the bully back, but because he pissed me off so much, it's not over there. I want revenge! But any revengeful method without violence. How can I get back at him? Can I hide his book when no one is looking? There is a jug in the classroom, can I setup a tripping method? Please help!

I work at a warehouse with my mom. Once I dropped something off where he was at and he said it s fine just leave it here and he didn t look at me but my mom said when I left he started grinning acting funny laughing then stopped when he saw how she noticed. Another day I came to work alone I see him arrive with a friend with food and I m walking towards him on the side and he looks to the side and is staring looks away then stares again. I swear I doubt there was anyone behind me.his friends in the area where he works are super nice to me and sometimes try to talk to me. Also when I was about to clock out he was talking to the manager that was next to me and I turned back to glance at him and we both made eye contact for two seconds then he looked back.but his expression was a confused serious look with what the manager was telling him.i doubt he's shy becuz he's sociable.one of his friends asked for my name too n if I was going to b working there more often.Or is he just creeped out n I'm ugly

They're constantly making fun out of me, making fun of my body, my skin, my makeup, my fake tan... My sister was stabbed a few years ago, so they know how sensitive I am about knives, yet they always make jokes about stabbing other people 😓 they know what my family has been through, yet they seem not to care.. Should I ditch them? Or should I stay with them. Cuz tbh, they're isn't anyone else I can go too, so if I left them, I wouldn't have anyone else, and I'd be a loner 😓

I'm a new college student living on campus. I was first assigned to an apartment style dorm on campus (meaning I have my own bedroom, but share a bathroom and kitchen, with three other girls). My issue lies in that the three girls here are juniors and were already living here before I moved in so they've all become friends over the past semesters that they've been here. They were nice to me at first, but now I feel left out and sad as they constantly hang out in a room together, but lock it and don't ever invite me anywhere. They also tend to be a little messy and can be loud at times. Open room change happens on the 3rd for freshmen and I can choose to move to another room. I'm a little conflicted because I do enjoy having my own room and a kitchen available and if I move I might lose that as not all the buildings are set up like that. I also don't want to move and wind up sharing a room with somebody really annoying or sloppy. I do want to be somewhere though with other new students so there's more of a chance of us becoming friends. What would you do in my position?

There s this one guy that s a problem for me and I need to take care of it soon. I m trying to confront him. Please I need to track him where there s nobody around and where I could get away with what I m doing. I m in high school and I already tried to confront him alone after school but the teacher was there. So nowhere inside the school. What is some method,ANY method that I could use to get him alone so I can confront him and not get caught whether it be by way of tracking by phone or catching him in the back of the school where the parking lot is etc. ANYTHING. I d truly appreciate it.