I get supervised visitation once a week because I struggled with addiction in the past. I am clean now and intend on taking him back to court for the return of my shared custody very soon. My child is two and a half and his father refuses to let me call/FaceTime with my child. If I requested it, would a judge make it to where he HAS to allow my child phone time with me while he is in his father's custody? His excuse is "I pay the phone bill, if I don't want to call or video chat with you I don't have to." Even though I'm not asking to video chat with HIM I'm asking to video chat with my CHILD. He's doing it just to be a jerk and to strain the relationship between me and my son more than it already is.

Se que estuve mal pero mi novio dejo abierto su fb mi cel me gano la curiosidad y entre sus conversaciones no tenía nada malo, pero me dio por ver el chat con su ex, malamente hice eso es su pasado y son sus cosas pero me sorprendí que en Junio del mismo año que empezó a hablar conmigo (noviembre) todavía andaba con su ex bien, duraron 1 año y medio novios y como casi otros dos hablando antes de ponerse, la muchacha súper cariñosa y el también con ella, el nunca me a dado el motivo por el cual su relación terminó, el súper formal con su familia y con ella y ahora me pregunto tanto tiempo para nada? me irá a pasar igual??  Él tuvo algunos problemas hace dos meses y después ellos ya no nos podemos ver igual, nunca estamos solos tenemos 22 años y no hablo de tener intimidad sólo que me gustaría pasar tiempo solos y ahora yo podía y el prefirió dormir que verme todo eso me trae mal, no lo quiero asfixiar solo me gustaría saber que preguntarle o como saber si realmente le intereso tanto como dice porque lo mismo que le decía a su ex me lo dice ami que soy lo mejor que la más bonita bla bla todo dudare ya/:  Como final yo si lo amo con todo mi corazón es mi primer novio y mi primera vez en muchas cosas 

I've been talking to this guy, we would have our falling outs and then start talking again. I've known him for a little over two years and during that time period we stopped talking three times. First time he said we were moving too fast, second time he called me one of his "bitches", third time I felt like I he was acting distant. After 3 months pass he message me saying that he was thinking about me. We talk via SMS for about two weeks, then we go on a date and another date. Second date we did end up having sex. Everything felt so right at the moment, now I don't know how to feel. He rarely responds to my messages, I end up waiting 12-48 hours for a response. He's on Facebook liking all these other photos either of memes or girls, not once has he ever acknowledged me on social media. I don't want to overthink, but when he starts liking photos of girls that look nothing like me I do become insecure.

Listen, we're all adults here, there's no need to beat around the bush. I masturbate, as many of us do, and in the era before the plague, I would catch myself into a small but sufficient handful of toilet paper. It made things much easier to clean up post act, and we would buy so many rolls that taking one into the bedroom for personal use wasn't a big thing. However, now given that toilet paper had become such a scarce commodity, it is obvious that I can't be as frivolous as I used to be. Double however, I also find myself with quite a lot of time on my hands given I'll be out of work until this blows over. My partner unfortunately lives out of town, so to both of our dismays, their involvement and assistance is out of the question. I also don't have an in-building washer and dryer for spunked clothing, and a disposable income for a 100-count box of condoms is likewise out of the question. What do you suggest I used? (Photo is unrelated, just wanted something to fill the space)

Things like verbal, physical, and child abuse has increased since you are forced to stay in with these kind of people and you have no outside help from this.

When we met everything was fine, we did everything together, traveled a lot and I thought we had a future. I became pregnant and a few months before our son was born he started using drugs then he went to jail for 5 months, got out then moved to Mexico. It obviously became a **** show. He's been in Mexico since October 2018, I've been raising our son all by myself. I work my best to move forward, I've tried talking to other men but for some reason they bore me, I just don't feel comfortable speaking to them or they won't do the things my ex and I did. I'm aware that my baby daddy is NOT right for me, I don't want to be romantically involved with him whatsoever. But I'm always having flash backs of when times were better and it just stops me. I don't know what it is! I want to move on and find other people.

As a former pick selector, I put items in shipping containers called totes to be distributed to stores and pharmacies throughout the state of NY. Because I didn't want to be at work, to speed up the process for myself, I would keep pushing this woman's totes to get it done and over with. And she would try to reason with me and have much patience with me but I just didn't take it into account. Then one day, I tried to push her totes along with my own again and she asked me "what are you doing?" And I told her, trying to weakly rationalize what I did "I'm trying to finish all of these totes". And she said with a confused and simultaneous annoyed look and tone in her voice, "yeah......don't push my totes". And I said "okay!" defensively and offended. We did not speak for the remainder of the time working together. It was embarrassing and humiliating for her to not even say "please". Just "don't push my totes". I still remember it to this day, still fresh in my mind as if it's happening right now even though it has been over a year ago. If we both ever end up in Heaven I don't want to see her. I don't want to know her ever again. It's the worst feeling I've ever felt in my life. This is probably one of the worst things to ever happen to me. Everyday I go on thinking about, incessantly. That hurts!!!!!