This week was end of the quarter and we were getting our final grades back. My teacher handed me my report card and I had a freaking C+ even though I had an A before. I told her this and she said my effort was low so she docked my grade. I explained several times that's not true and I put a lot of work into this class but she didn't care. I called her a jerk and said im reporting her and she slapped my face and yelled "manners!"

First read relatives are ones that are part of the family social Circle, second rate or ones that we leave out and we only see at family reunions and funerals and maybe bump into you at on rare occasions to say hi. Third rate or relatives that we just don't know at all or relatives we hate the passion. Nobody hates me with passion or doesn't know me but I do fear of being second rate in my generation since I'm older and my mom made me a strange from my aunts and uncles and cousins for seven years when I was a kid. I am OCD so I overthink this. Apologies on any major grammar errors I'm talking into my iPhone.

My grandma took my 6 year old daughter to the store and left her on the bench in front of the store while she shopped for about an hour and my daughter told me what happened and I was furious at my grandma and yelled at her but she said it was fine because my daughter knows not to talk to strangers. did I overreact?

I'm afraid that by putting down the wrong information, I will receive some penalty in some form. They are steadfast and won't budge. We've had multiple conversations about the matter, and they reiterate every time that "they don't want the college or the government to know how much they make"(yes I get this is a stupid argument but I can't convince them it is). All their financial info is accessible through a password only they know. What do I do? 

I share a home with my sister and father, we share expenses. My father is the homeowner. My sister is telling me to move out, as she plans on having a family and wants to marry her bf and stay in the home we currently live in, she claims that "I am taking up space". I was not planning on leaving yet, but I don't plan on marrying yet either.. Should I leave?  I am putting my dad in a difficult position, he understands both our points of view, but there isn't enough space in the current house for more people..  She wants her kids to grow up near my father, and possibly have him babysit as well. 

Why would one choose alcohol over his wife and kids? His wife and daughters say they feel like he is having an affair and the bottle is the mistress. He also has a son. My mother covers up for his drunkenness and is the enabler.

My wife's mother Billie is staying with us for a few weeks while her house is being remodeled. She is a wonderful person that we both adore. She has a great personality and is just a joy to be around. I was brushing my teeth in the bathroom and Billie walks in, takes off her robe and gets in the shower. WOW. What a beautiful body. I had to get out of there fast so I would NOT get a b0ner. Guys, can you imagine how I could explain to my wife if I had got a b0ner for her mother. I think I would be in BIG TROUBLE (gals would I). Luckily it did NOT happen. This happened a few days ago and it apparently is no big deal for Billie. She never said a word about it. Should I tell my wife what happened and/or just lock the bathroom door every time I an in it and forget this ever happened? I am afraid if I tell my wife, she will be mad at me or mad at her mother or mad at both of us. Since nothing happened wouldn't it be better to just forget about the whole thing and not cause a family fight?

What do I do if everyone is saying I'm the bad person that called my mother in law a ***** after she stepped her boundaries by calling me a ungreatful ***** because she feels like I'm turning on her with my family. I do not play when it comes to my family and If she was in my shoes she would've said the same thing thinking I didn't hear her when she said it. I would like to hear what everyone's comment is because my family is like you didn't do anything wrong and others are like you are wrong. Please help me understand. P.S she was there for me but by her saying I'm a ungrateful ***** she was talking about me taking up for my mother like I'm gonna say she doesn't need to be in my child life like she's the mother and I'm not. I've been quite the whole time after what I said and she keeps saying **** out of her mouth like I don't hear her smh

I have a 2017 5K Retina 27 inch iMac and i was working on it and i noticed it was getting kinda hot but i kept working and it got so hot i saw smoke coming out of the vents and flames and i poured water on it to cool it off but now it doesn't turn on at all. what to do?

I've had a crush on this girl for 7 years and we're in 11th grade now and she's homeschooled as of this year due to some mental illnesses and we started messaging and it was going well then i found out this other boy also has a crush on her and she told him she would date him. i can't stop crying i loved her so much and she broke my heart

We've been together for 2 years and I loved her a lot and we did everything together and i know this sounds like a joke but it's completely serious... we were watching a movie in bed on my tablet and suddenly she farted really loud and it smelled horrible i was gagging and it was just horrible. i yelled at her and forced her to leave my house and i blocked her on everything and haven't talked to her sense. i don't know whether to break up, this is serious because after what happened every time i think of her i remember the fart and it just turns me away so much...

i really dont want him to because i feel like he is gonna keep them and never give them back and then keep taking my clothes to borrow and end up leaving me with nothing. i dont want that to happen which is why if he does somehow lose his clothes i am not letting him borrow my clothes at all. I dont care if my grandma tells me i should let him borrow my clothes because its the right thing to do. they are not her clothes they are mine so she does not get a say in it at all. i mean there is no way for sure my uncle is gonna lose his clothes and then come borrow mine but there could be a chance and i dont want that to happen at all again because he might leave me with no clothes and wont return or give me back the clothes. i really dont get though what would be so hard for him to just get a job and get money and buy his own clothes cause to me that sounds a little bit lazy to borrow someone elses clothes when you can get a job and buy your own clothes instead of stealing someone elses.

he also keeps getting angry when I say he and starts screaming about equality but I was there when the doctor said he would be a boy could his mother be lying to him? Or is this another gang/ drug thing?

Or how do I sway him to take her to court? I am getting punished cause of their hate for each other and my Dad's supposed mistake. My Dad denies having an affair, my Mom says he did. This is the first year I have hated Christmas and I am 15. They broke up in January after fighting all through last Christmas over a woman my mother says my Dad has sex with, he says he does not and that my mother is a liar. I have not been allowed to see my Dad since my grandfather's funeral in April.

They make such accommodations for my sister but force me out in the cold. It hurts my feelings. How do I cope? This is at the family vacation house, I live on my own as I am 48 but when on vacation in the summer. 

I grew up with a toxic emotionally abusive mother. She had a lot of problems with herself and took them out on me. Growing up I experienced Guilt. Fear. Negativity. Etc. During crucial times in my first year of college she would solidify her place as an opponent in my life. I was then forced to remove this cancer from my life. I made the decision at 19 to move out on my own, 900 miles away. I'm 26 now. I've done my best in the real world and have enjoyed some success but sometimes I really struggle.  I talk to my family rarely. I don't join them for Christmas. I've had extended family tell me I should reach out to my mom because she gets depressed. I recently got a text from my mom that said "is there a reason you choose not to talk to us?" I told her all the answers to that question before I moved out yet they are still playing these passive games and expecting things. I decided I'm going to have to go to Thanksgiving this year and confront my mom about this. Tips? I believe she has worked on herself. And more importantly I think she is ready to take me seriously and listen to what I have to say.  I'm at a point where I wish she would leave me alone. But I will make an effort to communicate these things so that if she felt compelled to make an apology, the reasons would be perfectly clear.  And general tips on how someone in my shoes can be successful in life? One of the hardest things for me is when I hear people say things like "family is everything."

Ok so for some context. I have severe depression and social anxiety. It's something I'm not proud of (I'm working on it) and I honestly want almost no one to know about it, as every time someone finds out I have ether been made fun of, or the people that now know look at me differently and treat me differently. I don't want that. My parents have not been the most supportive people in my life and I know now that I grew up in an extremely mentality abusive Household it has gotten better through counciling, but here is my dilemma.  I don't know what a normal family is. I don't know what's normal for a parent to do and what's not.  My mom told my extended family that I have depression. I felt she overstepped boundaries as it isn't something that I wanted people to know about and there was no reason whatsoever to tell them. But she thinks she has done nothing wrong, and is trying to make me feel guilty for thinking she's wrong. And I don't exactly know if this situation is ok, should I feel guilty? And if I should, do I do anything about it? I don't have anything to compare this situation to and it's upset me enough that I've had to turn to a stupid yahoo ask thing(no offense) to get resolved. I'm an anxious mess just wanting answers.  ( Sorry for any and all grammar and spelling mistakes )

She already had two sons of her own she shouldn't care about the gender of my child  Wtf she already has two sons 

I rarely get to see my brother because he is in a different state. I was thinking about staying home from school because Wednesday is his last day that he is at my house. Is this a good reason to stay home?

I'm 22, and when I turned 18 after high school my parents sat me down to tell me that my dad wasn't my biological father. I told them it was okay and I genuinely didn't care to meet him or anything bc idk him. Last year, I spent the summer in my hometown & my biological father stays there and was eager to get to know (he didn't know I was there he was just anxious I guess) so before my mom left, she filled me in on a little more about this man giving me his name. And sure enough I searched him and I saw I had a pending friend requests from him from like over a year ago. I have a tendency to not respond to the spam requests. Needless to say, we've messaged sporadically over the course of now a year and a half. The other day I had a dream about him & I can't help but wonder if I should maybe meet him? Someone pls help 

May be our way to detox then ramble and vent so we can be chill,  I mean women have reality scripted television why do some not all women claim their men are not grown cause they don't talk about their day. I don't believe  in  telling my feelings all the time I need to play wwe 2k18  and tomn stone pile drive 5 times to release my tension 

I have told my mom pretty point blank that I'm hurting because of her choices and actions, but she gets defensive and doesn't listen. It's just the way she is and has always been, never listens, only defends herself. What she does respond to is outward signs... due to everything going on, I've lost some weight. She noticed that quick and got concerned... call me terrible, but I need my mom to know what this is doing to me. I've distanced myself from her and that is also bothering her... not enough to change, but it's a start. Is there any outward action or way of giving her a glimpse of my emotional downfall to get her attention and give her a wake up call?

My 10-year-old little brother (mischievous a lot recently) wants to live with our two brothers in Georgia. I am the oldest in the family and I left the house two years ago. I have had a lot of drama with my mentally abusive mother for years which is why my brothers left to live with Dad in hopes of a less toxic environment (no custody agreements are present). Recently, my little brother has told me that Mom told him she doesn't want him anymore and to call our father because he will live with him. And so, he asks me for Dad's number and he does exactly what he's told. During these past two weeks I have been preparing for his transport until today when our mother is in shock things are going this way, and gets mad at me as if she wasn't aware of his leaving. Fingers are pointed at me saying that I'm causing problems and it's kidnapping etc. I'm basically blamed because of Mom's choice of words that she suddenly seems apprehensive about. Year she's always back and forth about things. She kicks us out of the house yelling nasty angry words and then most likely cries about everyone leaving her. There have been 3 ACS cases that she slipped through and psychologically, the kids are being affected and are angry in similar ways to our mother. That needs to stop. My brother wants to go and I feel he has a decision I can support. Do I still take him down south or  do I leave him with Mom?

My parents and brothers are causing me so much stress! I just wanna die. My dad is constantly shouting at my mother for stupid reasons. Causing her to be in an bad mode and be rude to me. And my brother's are constantly provoking me causing me to attack them. And then my parents will literally hit me. I've recently saved up $100. 

I don't know what is wrong with me. My parents got divorced at the beginning of middle school and my parents argued and yelled at each other a lot. I think my dad turned me against my mother. Whenever he talks about her it is in a slightly negative way. My mom never has done this. My sister stopped talking to my dad and I think he only really cares about me now. My sister is 6 years older than me so right before she graduated high school they got divorced and she was really angry. Then I had to deal with this crap by myself and whenever I think about the past I can only remember all the bad memories I have. I have low self esteem and anxiety. Ever since I graduated high school a couple of months ago I have started to feel the most depressed I ever have. I only have one friend back home, none in college I'm at. I don't know why I don't really care about my mom or sister because they have always been nice and caring towards me. I'm not a sociopath, I feel as though I am the opposite because I have crippling low self esteem and I don't want anyone(strangers) to not like me. I feel like I am being judged in public. I feel like a shitty person for the way I feel towards my mom and sister and I don't know why. What is wrong with me?

My boyfriend is a construction worker. My mom asked him to do some work at her house and he agreed. They set up the appointment for the following day. The next day, I tried to call my mom, but I couldn't reach her. So, my boyfriend and I decided to swing by her house. She wasn't home, but my boyfriend went a head and measured everything. We left from there to the hardware store to get the material he needed to do the work. My mom still hasn't returned my call. My boyfriend said to text her and tell her that it'll be $300 for this job. I did, and she still didn't reply back. Then, we picked up his brother to help do the job because she had a lot of windows to do. After that, we went back to her house so the  guys can start working. She was home at that point, and she looked surprised to see us. When they were almost done with the job, I let her know that she needs to pay him $300, and she basically told me that she isn't gonna pay him. I told her that my boyfriend spent $80 on the caulk out of his pocket, so the rest of the money was for labor ( $100 for him and $100 for his brother) she decided to reimburse him for the caulk he used, but that was it!  My boyfriend was upset about it and feels like he got ripped off. He doesn't want to work for her again.  I think she had this planned out and did it on purpose. That's what I didn't hear back from her before we went to her house.  I think it was wrong. What would you do if you were him?   She AGREED to the appointment because she texted back yes please. She was also home the whole time they were working, But waited until they were almost done to say that she isn't paying She was informed about how much it was going to cost and didn't say anything about it and kept her appointment. I think she saw the text about paying $300 and ignored it on purpose to get the work done for free  Lesson learned. Hopefully, she pays the next guy she hires Someone on here mentioned getting "paid" with food. Well, you can't "pay" the landlord or the water company or the light company with food lmao it is dumb as hell to be upset with someone for trying to work for money. That's what adults are supposed to do. It appears that some of you missed that part lol And my mom isn't family to my boyfriend, so she CAN be charged 🙂