I have a problem with a girl that everytime we do something, she always asks one of my friend to go along with us. It's gotten ridiculous to the point that when our friends go out as a big group and eventually part ways, she asks my friend to walk back with us to our apartment (my friend doesn't live there but me and the girl live there). There's absolutely no reason for my friend to walk back with us as his apartment is not there, and places him in an awkward situation. He asks me if I was okay with this and I said yes. My feelings on this is that the girl is uncomfortable being with me just the two of us. It's really starting to make me upset and disrespected and I'm not sure why. This is also weird that me and her also have significant other so it shouldn't be awkward like that. I don't want to be friends with someone who feels uncomfortable around me but we are in the same friend group, and we have to walk back to the same apartment after an outing and sometimes we have to plan stuff together. How should I handle the situation? Is this something that I should talk to her about? Thanks also when we go out to buy stuff, she always text my one friend to go with us even tho my friend doesn't want to and she doesn't even tell me beforehand. I don't know what her deal is.

So I don't like the concept of jealousy or using the word in regards to myself. I really am the nicest person around. I 've always been taught to treat people with dignity and respect. Its important. All my life i've had trouble making friends with females. I'm 20 now and I still don't have any true friends. Girls are just usually plain nasty to me and our relationship's don't last very long. Its very sad on my part. Because I just want a TRUE friend who understands me. I've always believed that i've never had any mates, cause I'm a bad person. So i've just had a realization, after moving countries , that its never been me, but them. Of course i'm no angel, but I have pure intentions for everybody. So my new friends at uni, were really nice at first, but now one of them especially hates it when I get attention from guys or talk about the amount of guys I'm talking to or wanna go out with me. She says that I'm 'guy obsessed'. I've literally never had a bf or been interested in doing so. She just doesn't like the amount of attention I get, when we go out. Especially to clubs. She always tries to put me down, saying a snide pessimistic comment. Sadly,I've had similar treatment from many girls and mates across the years. And they'll try and avoid me and cause a problem, like I did something bad. Like I'm a bad smell. This made me think theirs something wrong with me. Its sad because sometimes, I ask God to give me that one true friend. That's all I want. What's truly going on?

So this former college classmate and current Facebook friend sent me this video about s&m, saying it made her think of me. I know she said the video made her think of me but it had sexual content. I find her physically attractive but she said she's not interested in dating. She seems open to hanging out as friends. Her and I got to talking about the video. She said I shouldn't be ashamed of being into s&m. She said I need to find women who enjoy it too.

I was good friends with a girl and we had a big fight and we didn't talk for almost a year. We both have a signfiicant other and are friends. We recently started talking again and are on good terms. The problem I have with her is that everytime we do something, she always asks one of my friend to go along with us. It's gotten ridiculous to the point that when our friends go out as a big group and eventually part ways, she asks my friend to walk back with us to our apartment (my friend doesn't live there but me and the girl live there). There's absolutely no reason for my friend to walk back with us as his apartment is not there, and places him in an awkward situation. He asks me if I was okay with this and I said yes. My feelings on this is that the girl is uncomfortable being with me just the two of us. It's really starting to make me upset and disresepcted and I'm not sure how to handle the situation. I don't want to be friends with someone who feels uncomfortable around me but we are in the same friend group, and we have to walk back to the same apartment after an outing and sometimes we have to plan stuff together. How should I handle the situation? Thanks

I begin talking to this girl almost 3 weeks ago, she would text me all the time, and she would always tell me that she is always thinking about me... she would always send me hearts and kissy faces, eventually we became official boyfriend and girlfriend for maybe 2 days, on Wednesday she told me that we could only remain friends because there is this guy named Adrian who has been obsessed with her for the past year, apparently Adrian always sends her text messages out of the blue and she doesn't want there to be any problem between us, sooo she ended our relationship. Today I messaged her and her reply was " I'm dating Adrian now soo its better that you dont message me anymore."..........like what just happened???????????? Can I have some advice?????   I feel like a piece of Sh*it !!!!!!!!!!!! I could tell she was serious about me, and all the sudden everything ended

okay, so I've been friends with her since middle school and I'm a sophomore in high school now. She's just been getting worse and worse over the years. Everytime I vent or say something bad about my life, she makes it about her or makes it not even important. Like, I'll say something really bad and she'll go "oh, yeah my mom forgot to pick me up from school in 3rd grade" (which isn't even bad compared to what i said. She also has a hard time picking her friends. She calls everyone her BFF (which she barely talks to half the people she says that too) She's just extremely insensitive to everyone's feelings. Also, this one girl that me and my other friend were basically bullied by and we don't talk to anymore, talks to that one friend. She even knows that the "bully" isn't our friend and we don't talk to her. Me and my friend will be talking to her and the "bully" will walk up to us and my "friend" will go leave and talk to her. ALSO whenever I have a crush on a guy, she purposely tries to make herself look better. BUT she lies about liking him and she thinks she's too good to have crushes. I only found out she liked all the guys I did when I accidentally found a "niche meme" of them on her private account. For example, she always brings up bad things about me in front of them, so that she can look better. If i knew that she liked them, then I wouldn't try to date them. theres a lot more, but yahoo wouldnt let me say everything I have a friend that I don't want to be friends with. I don't know how to unfriend her. I've slowly not been talking to her. I'll say the main reasons in the description of why I don't wanna be her friend anymore. Any Advice Please

I recently moved and need tips on how to meet new female friends as a guy. My female friends from my last area thought I was gay which made our friendships better and considered me just another friend. They thought I looked and acted feminine which is very true and why I relate to girls much better but I'm really really shy :( How would I go about making female friends?

I've never been interested in girls all my life only ever had boyfriends and never had any sexual interested towards girls until I fell for my bff. We're both in our early 20s and a few months ago I told her that I think I was crushing on her. She was okay with it and said she loves me but of course she doesn't like girls and I mean neither do I do a lot of confusion kicked in. I had always wanted to kiss her which doesn't seem normal but we had pecked a few times. Now, she says she likes me too but doesn't get it and she feels the same way I do. She doesn't like females but she likes me. We've been sexual towards one another such as kissing, making out, rubbing each other's vaginas, and squeezing boobs. We're both very loving people and very close so we don't find it weird because we're okay and comfortable with it. But the confusion is we can't date eachother because we can't ever be fully together since we still want to be with guys and one day have kids. But we are crushing on eachother too. I want a boyfriend but I also want her. She feels the same way.

I'm an RA at my university. I have a resident who I developed a unique friendship with. I thought/still currently think very highly of him, and I valued the connection we had. I did, however, notice his gestures towards me. It would be things like trying to touch my skin or making comments like "I wish I had a boyfriend" and emphasizing "him/he" if I ever made reference to a male friend. I never fed into it. Often appearing disengaged or uninterested in his perspective. He eventually was upfront about it and told me he liked me. I told him I could not pursue it for professional and personal reasons. I have since noticed the decline in our friendship and it's really unfortunate given its potential to have been something beautiful. I have going myself thinking about it a lot. Going over in my head why did it have to take a romantic turn when friendship could have blossomed enough? Our ages are 20 (me) him, 18.

My best friend and I got in a heated make out session with one another and he wanted me to undress him. He told me it was practice for when I got myself a boyfriend and we wanted to have sex. I told him that the only guy I wanted to be with was him and no one else. We continued to undress one another and kiss one another until he wanted to take me upstairs in which I knew we were headed for something else other than a possible cuddling session. When we got upstairs to his bedroom, he tells me never to ask a guy to unbutton his jeans that my hands should naturally go there at the door or inside after the door is shut. As for the belt if the guy has one on, slowly allow the belt to be undone (makes the guy want it that more badly). I don't think he realized what I said downstairs that the only guy I would ever want to have sex with was him and no one else because he was just too interested in telling me how to undress a guy that I was romantically going to be involved with.

To put it simply, I like my friends sister and she likes me. I've known them both for over seven years and this just sort of started over a month ago. After she graduated high school we just started to talk more often about anything, then we started hanging out (we didn't tell him) and now we're sort of going out. I didn't mean for it to happen and neither did she. I really like her and I know I'm crossing a line by doing this, but I don't want to let this go by. Should I tell him or should she? Or should we both? (I'm only two years older than her, so don't think I was waiting until she was 18)

I'm 11 years old and I have an autoimmundisease that is causing hair loss. I've been bald for a few months and kids in my class started bullying me 2 weeks ago. They call me names and say unkind things that make me really sad. I have had a hard time dealing with the hair loss but since kids started picking up on me it made everything alot harder. I just don't want to go back to school tomorrow. My mom is at rehabilitation for 7 weeks and I miss her so much, especially now that I need her. I would like to talk to someone about it but I feel kind of embarrassed about it. My dad works a lot and I could talk to my 18 year old sister but I feel so ashamed about it. Also, I miss my mom alot. I know that I'm old enough to deal with it but now that I need her, I miss her even more. I feel so defeated right now. What should I say to the other kids? Should I bully them back, or just stay silent? I've never experienced this before. Can you please give me some advice?

I was invited to go to homecoming with my friend, I currently attend a different school than her, but we use to attend the same school last year. I accepted her request and went with her. I wore a black dress, and she wore black pants, a shirt, and a silver tux. As a silly friend, I got her a boutonniere. Basically teasing her. But after that night, people have thought we are a couple (so basically calling us lesbians). We are not a couple, we are best friends who have been friends for a year. I also have people discouraging me from doing it again because it causes that appearance that you are saying "this girl is my "boyfriend". It was literally a simple joke but didn't know it would cause such a problem. Is it really that bad in society now that I cannot do a silly prank like this? So to end it, WHY IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO GET MY FRIEND A BOUTONNIERE AS

So a friend of my ex I originally had on Facebook and I deleted him off Facebook because we broke up. It just was easier to cope without seeing his friends on my Facebook. I scrolled through my "People You May Know" thing and saw him so I added him. He deleted the request so I can't send another one. Why didn't he accept me? Granted my ex and I had a bad relationship but it was only 3 months and it was over a year ago. My ex is with someone else now so don't see why it would bother him.

Ok so I have 2 best friends and one of them, kitty, is an extremely lonely person (I m her only friend). So naturally I wanted to try and help her get more friends because I care A LOT about her. I tell my other friend, giant, about her and he instantly thinks she s super cool and REALLY want to get to know her so whit her permission I give him her number, she thinks it would be nice to have another friend. So they text for a bit, turns out they don t live very far away from each other, so that very same day giant bikes down to kitty s house... and that s when things go downhill. I asked kitty how it went and she definitely wasn t happy, she didn t really want to talk about it but she described him as being very.. indiscreet? Close? I don t How to say that in english But something like that. Now it s very important to note that kitty is VERY sensitive to everything, for me to even get as close as I am whit her I had to be very careful whit her (a lot of it is mental health issues so she can t really help it). She advoids him after that and don t reply to his texts causing him to freak out and get mad at her, demanding to know what he did wrong. A while after my birthday party (where kitty showed up too) me and giant texted each other and he told be about how it tears him apart to not be whit her and he felt that there really could be something between them... despite only meeting and having a proper conversation over text once. Please help!! And thanks in advance.

I just started college (UK) and I just can't seem to make friends. It's been just under a month and everyone's already in their friend groups who they had been friends with since secondary.. I don't know anyone here. I have friends in my classes but once it ends they have friends to go to at recess and lunch time. I sit with someone at lunch but they make no effort to talk to me and get on with their own thing. It's not like nobody likes me, I just have nothing to talk about with to the people I'm friendly with. I had good friends all until now so it's really hard suddenly switching to somewhere where I'm alone Can someone give me advice on making new friends? There aren't any clubs for me to join so... And is it normal for someone to not have actual friends even after a whole month?? It just feels like it's gonna stay this way forever and I really don't want that.

I am a single mom working in an office of 9 people. I am the only woman in the office. My coworkers are the greatest guys ever and I love them dearly. They are always available to help me when I need help. I trust them completely. If I have to take time off for a school event or to take my child to a dr. appointment, they will cover for me. On the few occasions I have unexpectedly had to work late, one of them will pick up my child from school, take her to a restaurant for a meal and then take her to my home and stay with her until I get there. They will not take any money for doing these things for me. I was telling my female friends that I strongly believe in equal treatment of women in the workplace and that is what happens at my place of work. All pay and promotions are based on merit. They pointed out to me that all the things my fellow employees are doing for me looks to them like they are doing it because I am a woman. They asked me if I had ever done anything similar for the guys and the answer was no. Am I getting special treatment because I am a woman or is it because I am a single mom?

She used to be really nice to me and she was allways there for me but she is so rude now. She literatully has no empathy for anyone she doesnt care if she hurts them. She used to listen to me and my problems,now i cant even tell her my problems because last time i told her she just said "mah its gonna pass". She started drinking and smoking and doing drugs. And please dont tell me that she probably has problems too I know her so well and I talk to her mom. She doesnt have any problems at home or at school or outside. Her mom loves her more than anything. She has an amazing life, she is rich she has friends. She became really slutty she ***** around all the time and she met this guy a day ago and she is already planing on going to his apartment. I told her that its disgusting what she is doing but she doesnt realize that. She isnt there for me anymore. She likes to play with peoples emotions. I have pretty strict parents and she constantly rubs it in my face that she can go out at any time. She keeps braging "ohh i havent been home for like 2 days i stayed over my friends house" and besides that she keeps trying to make me jealous by mentioning her other good friend. Because she likes me being jealous. She lies for attention all the time. She told me her mom was starving her. And then i saw a message from her mom "i made pizza for you when you get home". I really dont know what to do with her anymore. She keeps encouraging me to do drugs and to be slutty

I don't actually get offended by this or think these people are using me. One of reason I find this weak and needy on the other side who can't have fun themselves so they need someone else. Second of all I'm not entertaining anyone, I like my space and thirdly if I'm only fun person when energy is alike.

Also, how can we stay in touch and continue our friendship?

My best friend since 10th grade have not talked to each other since April. We've been friends 10 years. It all started after I didn't show up to her daughter's 3rd Birthday party. I was tired after work and was not up to go, then we just stopped talking. She has done this in the past and I'm sick of it. I'm at the point now where I am sick of trying to talk it over about small stuff. I'm done with it. What should I do?

I notice my wife she often talks to other men in work she doesnt flirt with them nor talk private stuff but she considares them as a friend she even goes for a coffee at coffee bar with her "friend" male coworker. She says she doesnt go to their house its not a big deal nor she talks about private stuff she just gets on better with guys than females . Should i be worry ? Yes i nay be probably jelous type and my marriage life do have lot of downs we argue a lot . She been like this for over 1 year now but we have been married 4yrs

So we were working in class in a group of friends she says : (ryan not my friend what did you get) and then touches me because I wasn't looking. She said it loud enough so everyone in the group could hear it. I am confused what she means by this? Also she compares me to a celebrity and tells me I am way cooler than them also one day we finished the lab and she going to study with a friend and she said (ryan can come if he wants) loud enough that I could hear is she leading me on or I am getting the wrong message? my name is ryan. Let me know what I should do ?

The guy brought in a picture of his mother. He hasn't seen her since. he was 15 she disappeared. He had a picture of her but it was in glass. He brought it to school for a class that is supposed to relax us. (Controlling stress is The class) The teacher went to the bathroom and from there it got worse. One of the boys messed with my friend he took the picture and teased him that his mother was dead. Then he took the picture and smashed it on the floor and it completely shattered. My friend has been in a few fights and he can fight very well. But instead of punching him. He just cried he was called cry baby and sissy and he didn't say anything. He just stood there and cried. The teacher came back and I informed her on what happened. Emotionally he is really strong you can do alot to him and he still doesn't get mad. Poor Red I've never seen i guy cry before what should I do? So sorry about the grammar mistakes not very good in English class

I'm an introvert, and find it complicated talking to people in school. Most of the time it's because I do not want to talk. For whatever reason people take it as I don't like them but the reality is that they're not interesting to talk to. Whenever I try to make friends in school, it just seems awkward and they're not easy to talk to. Or perhaps, I'm not easy to talk to. But I don't think that is true because I can talk easily with other people. I know right from the start I'm not going to connect with you and if we do not connect, I don't talk to them ever unless I have to. I feel like a friendship would come naturally and not forced. What do you think? Am I just stuck up? Also I find it very annoying when people ask me why am I so quiet or why don't I talk to people. Why do people think that I am obligated to talk to people? I don't care for a social life. I know that in some ways it'll benefit me. However, these kids at my school I do not care for. I'm just there to get an education and go. School is annoying and depressing. I always think often why am I in school if we all die and preparing for a "future" a few years from now that probably won't exist, life is full of surprise so who knows? Idk just gathering my thoughts life seems like a joke to me.

Quick back story ive known my friend for years since we were children. I have been diagnosed with social anxiety and ever since ive been young i been called boring or too quiet. My friend was the main one saying Im too quiet and I just sit there. And would just beat me up about my personality. Fast foward to us being adults now she asks me to hang out more. When it come to her friends she wants me to hang with them fo their birthdays and gathering but if I ask her to hang with a friend of mine its so many questions like what are we gonna do. Will it be super fun? or will we just sit there and talk. It really pisses me off I never ask any of those questions who she asks me to hang out. I asked her to go with me to another best friend bday party she said no ill pass Lol but now she wants me to come to Vegas for her friends bday. What do yall think?

I have a friend who I made at a church young adult group that accepts friend requests on Facebook of these fake profiles of beautiful women. My friend is not 100 percent there. I get those friend requests through him. I know this is a personal question but someone please try and answer because I'm thinking of messaging him and tell him that they are fake and to remove them

So this former college classmate and current Facebook friend sent me this video about s&m, saying it made her think of me. I know she said the video made her think of me but it had sexual content. I find her physically attractive but she said she's not interested in dating. She seems open to hanging out as friends.

my best friend and i met 3 years ago when i was in 6th grade and she was in 4th. countless times, ive asked for her to come over and my mom tells me to find friends my own age. i never thought bad about my best friend and i but my mom is making me feel bad about it and i was wondering if anyone else thought it was weird? im 14 and she's 12. thankyou

I have had a bestfriend that I've know since pre-school almost 13 years now and over the past 2 year we have gotten extremely close. We texted everyday and FaceTimed almost everyday. Ever since junior year in highschool began we haven't talked as much. Now she won't respond to my Snapchats and opens them hours later. When we do ft/ hangout she's really mean to me calling me out my name. I'm not sure if I offended her or did something else to set her off. I am aware that she might just be busy with school as I myself am. I understand as you grow older the dynamics of relationships change and I know you don't need to talk to someone everyday for them to be your friend, but things feel really different and I'm being to feel like I'm loosing my best friend. I have been trying to give her space, but I'm not sure where to go from here.

I'm quits young. I'm 18, ongoing 19. I'm a severely empathetic person and I use it to my advantage. I've helped so many people through suicidal times. But lately, I can't do it. My boyfriend attempted. I've already been in an aloof state, but this set me over the edge. I told him how I felt hours before the attempt and he called me manipulative. He attempted and I can't stop crying. I lashed out at my best friend, losing her. She's tell her boyfriend which is my best friend and my ex. I've talked to my doctor's and it's nothing medical; it's all from stress and depression overload. I don't know what the hell to do. I'm so lost and empty. I'm numb. I don't believe love is real anymore. He was my boyfriend for three years by now and he doesn't care anymore in my opinion. I don't like how I'm becoming. I need advice.

So I was invited to a pool party and I really want to go it sounds like a bunch of fun but I feel like I'm going to be super uncomfortable when the time comes for me to take my shirt off to get into the pool. I am overweight however I have been working on that and I have a lost a lot of weight but I still have a gut and man boobs... also I have a lot of body hair... I look in the mirror or down at my body all the time and get unhappy and disgusted by it... I also feel like leaving my shirt on would be even more weird as well... all of my other friends that are going to be there are skinny and in shape witch doesn't help my case either... so I guess how could I make my myself think to just be ok with taking my shirt off and just try to have fun...

I've never been interested in girls all my life only ever had boyfriends and never had any sexual interested towards girls until I fell for my bff. We're both in our early 20s and a few months ago I told her that I think I was crushing on her. She was okay with it and said she loves me but of course she doesn't like girls and I mean neither do I do a lot of confusion kicked in. I had always wanted to kiss her which doesn't seem normal but we had pecked a few times. Now, she says she likes me too but doesn't get it and she feels the same way I do. She doesn't like females but she likes me. We've been sexual towards one another such as kissing, making out, rubbing each other's vaginas, and squeezing boobs. We're both very loving people and very close so we don't find it weird because we're okay and comfortable with it. But the confusion is we can't date eachother because we can't ever be fully together since we still want to be with guys and one day have kids. But we are crushing on eachother too. I want a boyfriend but I also want her. She feels the same way.

I have two really good friends, we'll call them Jason and Todd, and we all use to be friends with this other girl, Tasha. Me and Todd have been best friends for awhile and we meet Tasha through Jason. We all use to go to parties together but Tasha would never want to hangout unless we were getting drunk so the rest of us would just hangout all the time. Me and Tasha got into a fight because she went behind my back and said really nasty things about me. Both Jason and Todd agree that what she did was wrong and had said they don't want to be friends with her anymore and none of us have hung out with Tasha since but she's away at college so no one would be able to even if they wanted to. Now she's back home and she texted Jason saying they should hangout then she said we should invite Todd too so now they're all gonna hangout tomorrow and I'm pretty upset. I just don't understand why they want to hangout with her when they don't like her (and they're always talking **** about her and make fun of her) and she was super mean to me. I know if the roles were reversed I wouldn't go out with her. Am I being unreasonable?