We don't really have the same friend groups or any classes but we got close because of the sport we play and we have lunch together and we always talk . If I asked her to hnag out on a Saturday Where should we go like the mall? Since we aren't super close yet

Not to brag but I'm way smarter than my friend: I get way better grades than him and he asks me for help on questions. I got a way higher ACT score than him and my ACT score kept increasing every time I took it but his score decreased. I have a higher GPA than him and Im in a higher class rank than he is. So, overall, im not the dumb one. But whenever I do need help on something and I ask him a question, he starts off by calling me dumb/stupid/an idiot. I never call him those even when he asks me the stupidest questions. It didn't hurt me the first few times he called me them, but now it is. Not only that, he tells other people how dumb I am and tells them what I asked him. Those people don't even stand up for me and instead just laugh and look at me. I've told him to stop so many times but his response always is "stop being so sensitive". It's really eating at me and hurting my self esteem. What should I do?

I have no family because I have grown up in foster care my whole life. I have no friends, everyone hates me. like everyone thinks i'm ugly and everyone judges me because my past. I try to make friends but everyone in the world hates me. I work but nobody there cares for me. I'm super lonely, you people answering are the only ones that I talked to without judging me. my life is so hard. I would move but I don't have no money. I have no experience driving so I can't get my driver's license. Even if I did I couldn't afford a car. I'm starting to turn atheist because there is no way a God like the one they describe could make me ugly, fat and poor! I just don't know what to do. Do you know?

I'm 27 year old guy who stays pretty much quite at work but I am single and there is this lady in my office in her late 50s close to 60s who keeps looking at me or gets in my view and when I look back she makes a mad or angry face. Also she points at me or whispers into other people's ears after getting my attention. My boss and other people kind of knows about this but I do not think they or even I think it reached a point where it needs to be taken to HR. Soon I am thinking about talking to HR

My life is flat out boring. It needs to change. All I do is sit at home playing Minecraft mostly all day. Pathetic, right? I only do because I have nothing better to do. None of my friends invite me to hangout or anything because they all just don't care if I'm around. I want to leave them behind, but I have trouble socializing. I want to be more social, I just can't because I'm too awkward while talking to people I do not know. Any advice? What should I start with changing?

A few close friends who you trust eminently?

So I hit my friends up to hang up, but they didn't respond/hung up. Anyways they posted on snap they were all together, and none of them hit me up? What do y'all think?

Well basically My friend called me over to his best friends house and we kind of did stuff. First off I wasn't sending nudes to the best friend, I was sending to MY friend that too because he ASKED for them. I didn't force the best friend to look at them, I didn't even know he existed. Then after promising he won't have intercourse with me, he proceeded to force me on his bed and literally forced my legs open and he was doing basic stuff but it hurt a lot and he was very rough. He even used lube, I was virgin and he took it from me, imagine he did anal with me and he says IM the one harassing him? Then the other friend tells me I'm pregnant with the dudes baby and my preg test is positive. I try messaging the baby dad on social media and he refuses to say we had sex and accuses me of harassment. The friend is still claiming it's his child but i'm not surer what more I can do since I ask him about the baby daddy and he just says if I go over to his place he will "do" me again. What's going on? It's my second month and he literally forced me and he's saying IM THE ONE who harassed him? I even begged him not to do intercourse and he said to use his body for myself and apparently he came inside me? What do you suggest? Am I alone in this? I lost my boyfriend because it's so stressful. I was in a committed relationship and it got ruined. And why would he throw away his own baby like that? Any advice? Thanks!!!

so while he was driving i rubbed his dick n he's my guy bestfriend is it wrong

I have a crush, who's brother is friend of my brother, and when I waveing to his father, he didn't want wavering to me, but my brother he want.But why? (Sorry for my bad English).

Her name is Courtney and we always had up and down with fighting first time she only got mad at me adding couple of her friends back on myspace so I stop doing that after facebook came along then she starting fighting with me again about few times then she apologize to my mom and my sister with apologize message saying she wasn't her self so now i tired to apologize her mom and she never had open or read it so i tried least 3 times and yesturday it was her birthday and i see she did a selfi and posted on her mom instagram do you think she controlling and helping her mom? last time on my old facebook she had blocked it. how do i get her mom to replie like she did to my mom? I revange or Karma on how rude she been to me by calling me names I know it her daughter but I want her mom least message me back like my mom did to Courtney

I'm going through a weird time. For around six months, I've noticed that i form an unhealthy obsession with one of my friends. I constantly get jealous if that specific friend interacts with someone else and think for a long time about that friend and give special attention to that friend only. This sort of obsession lasts for a month, at most. Then suddenly, i feel the opposite towards that friend. I start hating him/her and get annoyed whenever that friend is around or speaks. This has happened multiple times. What am i suffering from?

My Mum told me that my friend of over a year now will always be in my life. She wasn't joking, she said that she knows these things. Then she said that we were both ''emotionally connected'' and told me that the only thing holding my friend back from going further is his shyness. What does all this mean?

She tries too hard to convince me that i am ugly....

I became their friend two days ago, I have their number, but I wanna be with them again. What the hell is wrong with me

My friend and I have been together for over a year now. Me and him have kissed recently and held hands while walking together when walking at beaches, our friendship is starting to turn into a love bubble. He told me he would love to live with me sometime. His family are a different culture to mine. He is obviously at least bisexual, I am openly gay. He still tells me he isn't even bisexual. He told me his family would not approve if they did find out and is still in denial. He knows I am back on Facebook but refuses to connect with me. His entire family and parents are on his Facebook account. He wont give me a reason as to why he wont be friends on Facebook. Its very strange. Its like he's hiding something major. Last-night, at a bar, he told me he's in love, but wont tell me with who and then tried changing the subject.

serious question. idk why but from male associates or friends, they have said a few times that I'm a good looking guy. or at parties a friend would sometimes joke that I'm gonna go pick up the girls. or asked me if i had any success with girls that night. i am a music artist. and i was on stage. and a guy i know was announcing the artists before getting on stage.and the guy announced me with saying a line about "and the ladies love him..." idk why guys think that im getting girls when im not. thats why it pisses me off. when girls never compliment me or show me that they are interested.thats why im still a virgin at 23. but no one knows im a virgin. but i just wanna know why guys say stuff like this about me and girls, when no girls like me.

I recently moved into a shared house where two other people lived, who have lived there for a significantly longer time than me. The place is pretty dirty and gross, and there doesnt seem to be an established cleaning routine. How do I go about trying to establish one? How to I bring it up? I feel that its a bit passive agressive if I just clean it all without warning.. Should I just endure it for a year?

Long story but I'll try my best to explain. I had a friend in high school who I felt very attached to. I really felt like we could talk to each other about anything and everything. In high school we talked a lot, but as high school went on we started to talk less due to work, college preparation, school, etc. We ended up only talking when it was convenient and she would want to talk late at nights (go on late car rides together, texts late at night, that sort of thing). This didn't please my girlfriend and I was forced to make a decision as my girlfriend (who I'm still with) didn't like this late night type of "shenanigans." Of course, I wasn't doing anything and I ultimately told my friend at the time about the situation. It ended up badly, and we haven't spoken since that incident. It's now been 4 years since this happened. I have tried apologizing to her over the phone, texts, and even through a friend who worked with her. She ignored getting in contact with me, and claimed she had forgotten about what had happened. I of course let it be, but I go through waves where I really think of her (my friend). I wake up in the middle of the night thinking of her at times, have dreams of her, and it is something I don't want to bring up. I would love some tips or advice on just how to move on, or do I need to share my feelings with this friend, or what? Let me know, as this question has been getting at me for years now.

Basically, I voluntarily switched schools because I had issues regarding some people I used to be close with. At the time, I couldn't stop obsessing over what had happened and felt that it would be best if I left the environment and started anew. However, my current school life doesn't measure up to the expectations I had at all and now I keep obsessing over what could have been if I had stayed there, as I still had 1-2 close friends that cared about me. One of them includes a girl who's also part of the volleyball team at my old school and also takes art with me, even though we weren't as close when I was still at my old school and never really hung out on a regular basis until now. I keep feeling like now that I decided to switch schools, I'm missing out what could have been her constant companionship, which was something I really craved as I had lost almost all my friends. I keep obsessing over what could have been if I had stayed at my old school, even though I know that I'm probably idealising it. Does anyone have any tips for me on how I can stop ruminating over the past and think ahead? Thanks very much in advance.

I'm falling in love with my best friend. He's drop dead gorgeous, sexy body, and he's to die for. He's smart, humble, carefree, loving guy and he can cook. I've asked him in the past why he doesn't go on any dates with any women but he always has a comeback as to why he don't. His latest is "oh I'm interested in this girl but I can't get up the nerve to ask her out on a date. All I know is dirty jokes." I tried to refrain from laughing and told him to call her and ask her out. Now I'm afraid he's moving on to a girl that doesn't want him like I want him or would treat him right. He's had a lot of girls break his heart, but he's always come back to me in the end. What should I do?

A bit over a year ago I changed, but not in a good way. I'm constantly dissasociating, I'm just not there. I don't have passions like I used to, I don't find music entertaining anymore and music was my only outlet all of my life, now I just feel nostalgic and sad. I've lost all of my friends - and a lot of it is my boyfriend didnt like them for numerous reasons. But even so, I couldn't be myself around them. My humor is gone and all I want to talk about is how miserable I feel. I dont know how to talk to new people, I'm awkward and I feel like I'm not even there when I'm talking to someone. I was always open and outgoing, but now I don't even know how to talk to people with questioning anything I say and thinking I sound like an idiot. This started prodominently when I started abusing alcohol and ever since I haven't been the same. I feel miserable and I miss the old me.

I was once bullied and after the bully left my aquaintance said you should make fun of the bully back. When the bully was there she didn't do anything though

I always desired to talk to them(four ladies and two guys in a group-cool people) back in high school 2011-2013. We had science academy together so we had same classes sophomore to senior year of high school. I was so nice to them but they were fake *** ****, and always gossiped behind my back. They knew i liked one of their friends the last two weeks of high school and than they decided to talk to me and get to know me but this time I didn't want to. Now forward, five - six years later the main popular lady from the group contacted me and says she wants to hang out. Im like **** her dude, why waste so many years, causes me anxiety and depression. I just don't want to see their faces. I know that they have hard time in life now but thats not my problem. What do you ladies and gents think?

Me and my cousin went to Chuck E Cheese s the other day. My cousin is in sixth grade and is 11 years old. We were in the middle of playing games when she had to use the restroom. So I went with her, but I didn t go in the bathroom with her since I am a boy, and since it was one of those "family" bathrooms, I was able to hear her flush the toilet. She then walked straight out without washing her hands and they were completely dry. I don t want to be rude to her about this since she is my favorite cousin and she is one of my best friends. She is always fun to have around.

I don't have any friends left, I cut my family off since all of them either did not care or we had a toxic relationship. I don't do church, I never joined a sorority, and I don't even fit in with the culture at my job. I feel like I am out of options because I don't know where I can belong where I feel passionate about it. Please help.

I met this boy at school, (we're both 17), and we hung out the day we met right after school. (I'm not looking for a relationship bc i think i'm not ready but he acted liked he wanted something more). Anyways, I drove bc he got his license taken away from his dad. All he did was complain about things and try to pick arguments with me. He kept telling me I need to make up my mind and to stop copying him. He also keeps telling me that I'm not funny and I should talk more. When i was dropping him off at home he stood at the car door arguing with me for 10 minutes bc i didn't wanna come inside to hangout with him. (i told him i was tired and had to pick up my sister.) He seems a bit conceited bc he told me straight up that people say they wanna be him. I didn't text him back the other day ( he told me i should text him bc "most boys aren't respectful like he is but he also said he can be disrespectful if i'm gonna be disrespectful) so i tried to avoid him at school bc he makes me feel uncomfortable but we ended up talkign after school. He tells me i broke his heart when i didn't text back bc "everyone texts him back".

I have gone out of town twice recently and have met up with "guy friends." They've come to my hotel and have both said "wow, you have it all set up in here and stuff." They had looked in the bathroom and saw all of my hygiene products, makeup, etc. all perfectly lined up and organized in the hotel bathroom. Is this something guys view as negative? Do they think I was overly organized, etc.? I sometimes think guys get intimidated by me...or think I'm too stuck up/uptight.

The boss in the department I work for took a 3 week vacation and appointed me to take his place while he was away. I thought there might be a problem having a lot of men working for a woman (me) but that was not the case. We all had a nice working relationship. On the Friday the day before our boss returned from vacation my coworkers brought in a cake for me to share with everyone. The cake had this written on it. "You were a great boss and the most beautiful boss we have ever had". The Human Relations guy told my co workers not to do that again as it was a sexual thing to do. The next Monday when our boss returned from vacation my co workers told our boss what the Human Relations guy had told them. He said "Screw the Human Relations guy". "I agree 100 percent with what was written on the cake". I am not sure how I should feel about this. Should I tell my boss and my co workers thank you for the compliment? Did my co workers do something wrong?

BUT THE FACT THAT SHE SAYS SHE WANTS TO BE KOREAN IS SO MESSED UP! Anybody that is denying their own race and wants to be Asian because of K POP, anime, etc is just so creepy.