Hello, my girlfriend and her husband are getting a divorce and there divorce is final dec 9 2018(as of today less then 3 months away), and now he want to change there cusdty agreement saying he wants 7 with us and 7 with him,but he gets her every weekend now but his job has him working every other weekend and we get her mon-fri bc my girlfriend works fri-sun, so she can do help with school and extra activities, he mentally abuses her and his living situation has her staying with his girlfriend and her 2 kids( one boy and one girl) and lives in a 2 bed apartment and diagnosed with bipolar and is not taking his medicine! Does my girlfriend and I have a strong case against him to fight back with sole custody

Been w my man 11 years. Well he had always told me "i haven't jacked off in years." And "i only watch porn before sex w u 2 get horny but porn doesn't make me *** idk y." I walked 2 our mailbox and there it was....Porn advertisments in a pamphlet w 1 800 numbers 2 call at the bottom. I asked him he told me a "porn site must have got his info somehow." When he knew i smelled bullshit he said "fine. I signed up 4 a free trial on pornhub." Porn is free why would he sign up 4 anything? He was so Embarassed as he had just proclaimed his innocence 2 me the day before. He told me he never got turned on my other woman or ever watched porn. I didn't ask him he willingly told me that randomly. I am so shocked... He was lying about signing up 4 a "free trial" on pornhub right? Why would he do that? He put his name and address down online on porn site and idk why he won't tell me anymore than that gets so angry turns it around on me! Is he paying 4 porn and wut kind? Y they send him this? He got caught!

I am stuck totally trapped in a marriage with a covert narcissist. Any of you who have experienced a narcissist first hand will understand how difficult it is EVEN to run away from a narcissist. I have too much at stake a toddler who he will make sure to take away from me through manipulations in court and other things to be able to sustain a divorce that he will make sure is high drama, malicious. He has framed and trapped me in many ways like how narcissists do. In hope that someone can give more than a generic advice how to escape from a malignant narcissist husband. Desperate for help and advice!

I feel sorry for them since they have children and have no romantic attachment to their partners whatsoever/ SOciety's attitudes towards homosexuality is pretty horrible still

One day out of no where, my husband went to jail, I got my son taken away, I lost my home and my job, all 3 days till Christmas. My husband best friend came over to make sure I was okay, but instead manipulate me into having sex with him. I trusted and cared for his man more then most cause he was a such a big part of my life. I always had so much emotional pain from cause of how much he hurt me emotional cause he took advantage me of during the lowest part of my life. So talked to my friend about it, she mentioned it was sexual assault seeing how I was not a state of mind to give consent. As to the law, it wasn't since we were both over age but as a person looking into from a outside view, it is. I wanted to see how other people viewed this. Was it sexual assault to a certain degree? Or should this guy just be awarded douche-bag of the year award? Again, I am not pressing charges what so ever. Also the charges to my husband were dropped, and we go out kid back. Everything else came back eventually as well. But that isn't the part of story that I want anyone to focus on.

Ex wife moved with courts permission to a state 17 hours away. My kids and I miss each other. We have 50/50 child custody, but because of the distance she has them for the school year and I have them for summer months. I was looking at a job that would allow me to be in the same city as them, but I'd have to move and start over, away from family. But the ultimate benefit is being in my kids lives more. What should I do? I'll be driving for a local cdl company.

People always talk about how marriage is a piece of paper. So is bills, a lease, money, a diploma, but it's still meaningful right?

My husband is always walking through the house grabbing my butt and feeling on my breasts when we're in bed at night. Last night we were in bed and he was slightly turned away from me playing on his phone. I reached under the covers and started grabbing his butt. It startled him and he jumped. So much so until it seemed like he didn't want me to touch him. Long story short he said that men don't really like to be grabbed that way. Was he right? I told him that his butt was mine to do what ever I wanted to since we're married. He doesn't think so. He said that he couldn't just grab me anytime or anywhere so why would I think that his butt was mine to do with what I want?

So we've only been married 3 months. I'm wondering if I should try to work this out or leave. I have fibromyalgia. I've been with him for two years. He knows my condition. I'm in pain every single day. It takes me a good hour just to feel normal in the morning after I wake up. On the weekends he wants sex the very moment I open my eyes. I'm very cranky from the pain so I tell him I need to wake up first so I feel better. So I just move around to allow my body to adjust from waking up. He goes to the kitchen to make coffee while I get myself together. Then, I go to hug him in the kitchen and he shrugs me off him. I ask what's wrong and he says that he's turned off now because I'm selfish and only want sex when it's convenient for me. I can't live like this in such an unaffectionate marriage. He doesn't want to hear about how I feel. He seemed so understanding before we married. Now he calls me lazy and a quitter. Can this be worked out? Right now my pride is hurt more than anything because I'm too logical to let abuse get to me emotionally. W just see it for what it is. Should I just leave? What should I do?

My moms final divorce decree says that the real estate that a business she owned with her ex gets sold and split,there are items such such as tools and supplies at the business that were never discussed in the settlement or final divorce decree,is it fair game for either spouse to take possesion of such items,she just doesnt want her ex to take all of it,her lawyer is out of the country so she cant ask him at the moment,thanks

Libertarian? Everyone minds their own business and they may interact should they mutually want to at that time such as long as ir doesn't take away consent or the rights of others? (aka roommate style) Totalitarian/Authoritarian? One person is the head of the household (either sex) and the other obeys their command and does as they are told, even if it is against consent and against their rights or self will? (aka toxic masculinity) Passive Totalitarian/Authoritarian? Same as above but it is unofficial and it's all done through emotional control and manipulation instead of through being bold and abrasive? (aka toxic femininity) Higher power? Both people serve each other because they are told to do so by a higher power such as God or the government and neither people are in control of the relationship but they are not Libertarians either because whether they have consent or not it doesn't matter because you're giving to the other person without expecting anything in return. Which could lead to one person giving more than the other and being taken advantage of. (aka egalitarian) Or some other one that you can explain in your answer?

I want a divorce and don't love him- he has no sense to understand I'm serious ! Anyways, his father is an executive and was very domineering to he and his mom and siblings. My grandma paid cash for my house and he was supposed to reimburse her and never did . He claims she "bought him the house as a gift and it's his house his rules and I am to obey". He tells me what I can and can't do what pets I can have what I can cook if he doesn't like it we don't have it. He often will eat Most of the food and demand to take the leftovers to work and I'll go hungry. Don't even suggest counseling they threw us out we are done with them. Is this normal? Why can't he understand I don't love him and don't want him?