Makes me hungry when i'm next to my friend.

I'm in a tough spot. I'm happily engaged to a wonderful man, but I have no other friends and my mom (whom I was very close to) just passed away from cancer a few months ago. I tend to spend all my free time with my fiancé and even though we love each other and are happy together we do think it would be beneficial for us to have friends outside our relationship for better balance. He has a ton of friends and lots of family. I don't have any because I was homeschooled and my family moved a lot. I've always struggled with making real friends. Aside from when I'm with my fiancé, I feel lonely a lot and I know that makes me a little clingy and occasionally causes bouts of depression. It would be good for me and our relationship if I had other friends. I have one ex boyfriend, we broke up 4 years ago but ended up on ok terms with each other after a bit of time apart. Before we dated we were friends/co-workers. He was my best friend back then. Bottom line as to why we broke up is our lifestyles are not compatible and when we tried to move in together it became very clear, very quick we were not going to work. I've talked to my fiancé about this and although he finds it a little strange that I want to keep in touch with him he is also very understanding of my situation and says he trusts me fully and doesn't have a problem with it. I haven't spoke to my ex in a couple years. Do you all think it's ok for me to reach out to him?

I'm in the middle of my first semester of college, I'm doing really well academically however socially I'm really struggling. I kind of have friends but I always need to ask them if to do things, the whole group of them always hangout and never invite me I always have to invite myself. I want to make new friends but I'm so anxious I can barely leave my room and every time anyone talks to me I just stutter over my words and can't get anything else. To help the whole situation I have no friends from high school. Also I would join clubs but due to the kind of school I go to there aren't many clubs. At this point I'm just completely depressed and lonely. On top of this there's a lot going on at home so my parents are busy with that and they don't really have time to worry about me. I actually do go to the gym for like two hours a day because I have nothing better to do

I promised my friend that if I masterbated to anything on a screen I'd pay him 5 dollars, I'm a poor bruh so please help me find a technicalities so I can live my life again

So... I have this sorta friend, but as of late I haven't really liked her much... She started dating one of my boy friend (a boy who is a friend.) despite barely knowing him, and I think it was more a physical attraction. She has taken at least $200 from me under the pretense she would pay me back, which, despite constant prodding has still not happened, nearly two years later. She also asks to borrow my costumes (I cosplay) and has ruined 2 costumes and 3 wigs, with no apology. She's not a bad person, but she was raised in a divorced family with parents who aren't really there. Recently, she asked to borrow one of my favorite costumes for Halloween, and I refused. I know I should be more understanding of her situation I guess, but I can't keep losing money her. What should I do?

So I play on my schools JV team and recently our season ended but the varsity team was still playing. They were in the second round of county championships. I thought everyone's season was over but as I said varsity was still playing. I wasn't aware of this. Then we had a mandatory meeting where my coach was yelling at all of us because we didn't go support and she was yelling at me because I was keeping stats most of the season and I wasn't there. We have a remind groupchat but there was nothing said about the past two varsity games. They also have a separate groupchat with all the girls which im not in. I'm friends with all the girls but apparently they couldn't add me cause the groupchat was at a max of about 35 people. I tried to explain this to my coach and telling her that if I knew, I would have been there but she just kept yelling and saying she didn't want to hear excuses. She said that now next year it'll be harder for us to get on the team because we obviously don't wanna be there. I wanted to go talk to the coaches but I was so upset that I was almost gonna explode/cry. I don't know if I should just let it go or talk to them cause I've been treated this way the whole season. Any opinions

My former roommates accused me of something gross. Then a woman who's older, who's. about 40 started getting in on the drama that she wasn't even apart of and talking bad about me. Without saying anything I blocked her number and her and the other girl who started it began to harass me over it. I was only acquainted with this woman, we weren't close. And I wasn't willing to deal with an older adult who was involving herself where she shouldn't of.

I share an apartment with 5 people (6 including me) on campus, and one of my apartment-mates likes to sit in the living room and play music. While that is totally ok, sometimes her music is too loud. (I can even hear her music with my door closed). I don't know how to talk to her about it. All of us are paying about $9,000 a semester for this apartment, and she has the right to sit in the living room and play music, but I also have a right to study in my room without any distractions. I really don't know how to approach this situation.

So, I'm an 18 year old female and I live in a dormitory next to my university. I'm standing my roommates here and a month now and I feel like I have nothing in common with them. They enjoy talking about boys all the time and they don't give a damn about studying. Furthermore, I need some time to write my book, paint and run or walk. I enjoy outdoor activities with my friends, while they hate staying outdoors. Today they celebrated one of the girls' birthday party and they said nothing to me about it. They didn't even say "hi" to me when I came back to my room after a few days away from them (I was at home this weekend). They believe I'm an alien in their peaceful environment and I must leave (when I first came here, they suggested that I could come and live with them in their room). So what should I do?

Is this a big age difference and will it cause problems Will people look at them in a weird way Why or why not?

So this year for christmas (I know it's way too soon) I would like to make my friend a gift that I hope she will like. I was thinking about taking random pictures of the 2 of us and then frame it into a collage or something. I'm willing to go to a professional photographer( I mean,I got a camera,I will go there just so that he can do a nice job with the collage) and then I'm gonna frame it and give it to her.Only problem is that while she likes taking photos of nature,she doesn't really like taking selfies and the few times I told her " Hey Sarah let's take a selfie" she was like " meh".. and she's like this with her girlfriends too so it's not me. So bottomline is :1) how can I "trick" her into doing a selfie without letting her know my plan? 2) Do you believe she will like it? I noticed that we don't have many pics together even if we hang out every day. We're seniors in high school. Advice? Janet: after high school I will be joining the US Marine Corps so we won't see each other every day like now

My bf is going to party of wife of his best friend. His best friend is in other country so he will not be there. My bf will sleep at house of wife of his best friend and her parents will be also there. Do you think that's ok? I'm working and I don't have time to go there because it is 4 hours from my city and that's why he want to stay to sleep there so that he doesn't need to drive back. I feel very upset about that

I have had this male friend for the past 4 years of my high school life. He is in our friend group of 8 people. Over the years I have considered him a good friend but recently, he's beginning to creep me out. When we were having a sleepover with all the other 8 people my friend told me he took a picture of me sleeping and when I told him to delete it he wouldn't. Regarding it as a "precious memory"!!. He always takes pictures of me while I am talking with other people and I tell him to delete them but he never does. Whenever I don't reply to his messages, he bombs my phone with messages and he won't stop until I reply. Whenever we sit anywhere he always insists to sit uncomfortablably close next to me and always pokes my sides and nudges me and picks my necklaces off my chest to "fix them". He always asks me personal questions which I always refuse to answer. He also has this thing where he has to rearrange my personal belongings until they are "perfect". Whenever I am in class I feel that he is watching me and when I am sitting at lunch I always catch his eyes on me. It's getting to the point where when I'm around him I feel repulsed and am beginning to hate him. I know this sounds terrible and I wish I didn't feel like this towards him but I cannot help it! If anyone could give me a opinion or anything really, I would really appreciate it please and thank you!!

Does it sound weird that my friend sounded like her dogs after they cried? Things have gotten weird with her anyway. She just says really weird things

My ex best friend and I stopped being friends because she was toxic and made me feel bad about myself on a regular basis so I ended the friendship (didn't really get a chance to tell her exactly why though). Lately I've been fixated on how sad I am without her and how much I miss her. Isn't it messed up to miss someone that made you feel so awful? She's getting married in a few months and I think a part of me thought we'd mend things before she got married but it doesn't look like that's going to happen. I'm really not sure what to do, I've tried to move on but it's getting more and more difficult. I feel like a huge part of me is missing and I truly think I'll have so much regret if we don't make amends by the time her wedding comes around. I have attempted to make small gestures but she wasn't very receptive. Everyone tells me to forget about her and move on because of the way she treated me but it's so much easier said than done. Why can't I let her go?

Today everyone uses social media. Instagram to be precise. I have this mutual friend who isn't friends on facebook with my crush. But I'm sure they're following each other on instagram. The thing is she has so many followers and it's hard to recognize him among them with an absent last name! Also, she won't understand how much I like him. She won't tell me his last name. How can I reach him?

I'm a male and out of self-consciousness, I took something my female friend said as to be judging/unfair comparison. I didn't think she respected me so I drew myself away from her and keeping distance. She noticed and wanted to talk to me about it. She asked me to have lunch with me and we both talked out our misunderstandings and we're okay now. I was glad she extended her self to reach out. But I'm a bit worried that she might be uncomfortable with me. She was telling me that if I feel uncomfortable with her, she'd respect if I wished to discontinue our friendship and wanted to know. But we're okay now and despite her telling me to talk to her if I need someone to talk to about anything, I'm still worried that she might be uncomfortable with me from now on.

Okay, here it goes.. well it seems like most of my friends fall for me..?(female and male) I kinda feel horrible cause I don't feel anything romantic towards them though.. so I just continue being friends with them knowing how they feel and fuuuccckkkk its lowkey kinda awkward. Here's the thing though I feel like when they lose interest in me they do as a whole person, they stop being friends with me and keep talking to a minimum.. I don't wanna keep losing friends like this!! Maybe I'm giving off the wrong vibes? I'm very flirtatious towards my friends.. ahh **** seems I've answered my own question lol I have now realized I am indeed a horrible person 😂 damn what was I thinking leading them on like that :(

I'm not one to have a pity party for myself, but I don't understand why I'm just left behind, I swear its all my friends. People that I've known for more then a decade. I've been almost completely shut out by a friend of mine I've known for just about my whole life, I've contacted that person, Im just ignored. I've been there for just about everything for that person I don't wanna seem self righteous but it's true, I've been unbelievably close friends with this person for years how could I not be. And recently I was just ghosted by my best friend I've known for even longer, just cut off. I don't even know what I did. People I've trused my life for have been talking **** behind my back that I've done nothing to,no animosity in the past, not even a bit. I don't get it, I just feel like I need to vent cause right now I feel like punching the someone in the ******* mouth. Been there for people in times of need, I've lend money, favors, my trust to people with nothing in return, only their loyalty. I feel like a ******* idiot. Honestly, I don't think I've felt this alone in a long time. If there's anyone with a similar experience I'd like to hear, thanks.

I'm a male and out of self-consciousness, I took something my female friend said as to be judging/unfair comparison. I didn't think she respected me so I drew myself away from her and keeping distance. She noticed and wanted to talk to me about it. She asked me to have lunch with me and we both talked out our misunderstandings and we're okay now. I was glad she extended her self to reach out. But I'm a bit worried that she might be uncomfortable with me. She was telling me that if I feel uncomfortable with her, she'd respect if I wished to discontinue our friendship and wanted to know. But we're okay now and despite her telling me to talk to her if I need someone to talk to about anything, I'm still worried that she might be uncomfortable with me from now on.

I'm 13 year old girl. When you're 13, the only thing that really matters to you is school and friends. But over the past year, I've started to realize that the people who i surround myself with, probably don't like me. For example, the first 2 girls I became friends with in 2nd grade when I moved to the town I currently live in, don't bother to ask to hang out anymore. I ask and they never respond. But, I'll see them on snapchat or instagram, post pictures of them hanging out at one of their houses or something (which by the way are just a 5-minute walk from mine). But it's not even that. ONe of the girls on the others birthday, made a whole instagram post thanking her for being her best friend. But on my birthday, she didn't even bother to shoot me a text. It hurts a lot knowing that everyone at my school when asked the question "Who's your best friend?" will have an answer besides me. Nobody calls me their best friend which I now is something you're probably rolling our eyes at but it just hurts. It sucks knowing that you're never someone's first choice to hang out with outside of school or text. Now I came to yahoo answers of all places because I don't want to tell someone about my issues for them just to say "It's just teenage angst" or "get over it." I'm beginning to just feel like a burden to everyone in my life.

Or am I being taken advantage of? Or is it too good that it may be bad weed I never brought before this is first time

I was talking to my friend on the phone and she is much older than me and we are both females by the way and the other day and her dogs were crying and then she started sounding like them. Isn't that weird?

Every time I try to connect or talk to people normally they make fun of me or social cut me off?

Is it ok for me to think that having friends just really isn't important anymore? I've just come to a point in my life where I think that. I don't have to have friends b cause they have their own lives anyway

I'm a male and I have a female friend who has said something, which I took it personal and jumped to conclusion. I had my reasons but there had been a misunderstanding and I started avoiding her out of self-consciousness. She noticed and she wanted to talk to me about it so she had sent me an invitation to catch up. I apologized to her about it and she also apologized and did not mean it to be personal/targeting me. She seem to wants to stay friends with me but I feel that she is also self-conscious about the fact that I wanted to avoid her without talking things out with her and thinks I may be uncomfortable around her. She has told me that if I feel uncomfortable around her and want to discontinue our friendship, she'd also respect that. That's not what I want... but now I'm worried she might feel uncomfortable around me despite her wanting me to talk to her about anything if I need someone to talk to. I want to ask her to have coffee but now I'm afraid she'll say no.