Im 16 and I'm a clepto and I don't know how to stop taking money from my dad, and how do I stop my mom from asking me where I get the money from?

I used to live with my aunt who was my mom and my cousins lived with her also. All my cousins would try to fight me and one time including many other times I ended up standing up for myself which only exacerbated things and getting into a fist fight. I never understood after me standing up for myself why they still attack me. This has been a battle for over 12 years now. I feel like after I left from there that they will find me somehow and interfere with my gf and her kid. The last time I left someone pulled something from their car and acted like they were going to shoot me and my gf...i almost feel like I m permantly scared and scarred.

A lady T-boned me and I had pot in the car. Court ordered me to Vasap alcohol classes in VA. Vasap sent me to counseling to see if I needed to take the 16 week drug classes. After 4 counseling sessions the counselor determined I did not need drug counseling and sent me back to Vasap to finish my vasap classes. The vasap guy said if I'm there in vasap then I don't need drug counseling. However the drug counselor keeps scheduling me for appointments, saying " I don't see why your personal injury claim can't pay for me.' He's also saying I need to go to the doctor so I can get a settlement. He started we're now meeting because of the accident, but I don't want to meet with him anymore and he's making it seem like I have to for court.

Like every teenager I just like to be left alone and I over heard my parents saying I'm never talking to them What do they expect. Mostly every teenager is anti social I am always watching a series or a movie am I doing something wrong?

Would you ever consider seeing your child again? My son married my grand niece (my half-brother's) granddaughter. He lashed out and told me they were distant enough. I despise her a great deal! I can't even look at her and refuse to speak to him. Am I wrong?

So basically my mom, my eldest sister and I live in the same house. My sister is home all day for two days a week, the other days she has work and comes home in the afternoon. My mother has work weekdays and gets home later in the afternoon. I have school in the morning and usually get home at 12 and I only have 3 hours to be home alone and I only get these three hours on monday, thursday, and friday. And when my sister and her kids AND my mom are home; There is no such thing as peace. So I started leaving my classes 30 minutes early so that I can have a little more time alone. As an introvert, I cherish my alone time and I have so little of it. Too long didn't read: my mother, sister, and nephews narrow the amount of time I can be home alone to 3 hours for only three days a week. So I leave class 30 minutes early to have more alone time.

This is the second time this has happened in the past six months. Should I take this as a sign or attempt to continue my habit? Both of my dealers were relatives of mine. I don't even know where to begin to find a new source. What's my next step here?

My father is finally becoming a citizen. All he needs now is a letter from his 3 baby mothers (including my mom) saying that he took care if all the kids. The other two are writing the letter because he actually did raise the kids but he walked out on me when I was four so that he can live with his other girlfriend and raise his other kids. I guess i'm just not good enough. And then throughout my life he would periodically come back to us for a couple of months and act like a dad but then disappear out of nowhere again. I kind of do feel bad that he won't be able to become a citizen because of me. What is your opinion, if you were in my mother's shoes would you write the letter?

My mom says nobody like fat woman and woman means beauty. She is in her 40s but on diet even she is already thin. Mom is OBSESSED with looking good, even if dad isn't cheating on her. Wheb i gained weight mom went berserk and she was agressive with me. Why mom has such negative attitude toward being fat?

Ever since I've been working, my dad has been bumming money from me left and right. Im 34 years old. I work 2 jobs and I live alone in a one bedroom apartment. Im doing pretty well financially but I find myself struggling at times because each week, my dad wants to borrow $400 here and $200 there. Tomorrow, Im supposed to loan him $300.00. He pays me back but I still find myself wondering why he wants to borrow money from me all the time. He works an 8 hour shift at this factory and he's almost retired. I dont think he makes that much money and it makes me kinda sad to see him bumming for change, trying to be secretive about it (not wanting me to tell my mom) He tells me that I need him more than he needs me but I honestly don't see how when Im doing a lot better than him financially. What do you think of this situation? Is it weird?

When I was overweight my mom hit me couple times and said u cow nobody will take u men don't like fat women. Mom is hard on herself to be in shape but Why Mom so aggressive?

There are many problems between my aunt and my uncle, but my aunt tries to make my uncle hate my dad and she use to cause problems between them. I think it weird, why would she do that?

Like wife works and husband works but they hide money from each otjer.

My mom use to regulate all of our food when my sister and I were young. I have a little side job and my mom works her job, well today she had me go to the store with her she had me pay for half the food she picked out and we were supposed to have sandwiches for dinner and we had to get the meat and guess who had to pay for it, I did so I spent 60 dollars on all this crap and she spent like 11 dollars. So we get home we have two large loaves of bread so I cut me a small piece of it for a sandwhich then my mom asks why didn't you just cut the whole thing in half so she takes the other 3rd of it and makes this large *** sandwhich while my sister comes down and eats the whole loaf of bread along with hella meat that she added to it because she knows nothing about portion control well she does but she claims she's happy with herself or whatever but she's really big and all she does is eat out and complain for me to get her food when her *** has no money but then when I bring food she eats everything then she'll blame it on something like her period of some dumb ****. Not to mention my mom takes money out of my account since it's a joint but she still has me paying for my sisters bullshit. I have to drive her every where and pick up her stupid friends and drop them off because my mom doesn't feel like it and claims that I don't do anything but when I did she still had me go get her she'd just let her stay out longer and then my mom looks to me like I have gas money to stick in it.

He hurt my mother this way also but she is still with him. He is not evil, but just very ignorant and for no reason.

My moms close friends son who was about 10 or 11 at the time lied and said I stuffed his face in my breast because he made me mad. At the time I was 17. I'm now 19 and it's been on my mind heavily Lately for some reason. He also called me a pervert when I tried to kiss his forehead and give him a hug when I saw him, I was just saying hello. It was no harm. I used to call him my little brother/ cousin. It makes me look bad he said this because it really never happened. I've been overthinking about it and been scared because I would hate for it to ruin my reputation. He is a bad kid, and they allow him to do whatever. I do suffer from anxiety and depression so I do think I'm overthinking about it but still. I kiss/hug everyone when saying goodbye or hello. I am female and he is a male. But I never stuffed his face in my breast. He also said I'm always talking about him and like to argue with him. I stopped talking to him after he said I did that. He will run up to me and talk about me or call me out of my name and say how much he doesn't like me. When I don't even bother him. I've been concerned about it because I'm worried they'll come up with another lie or try and say I hurt him. I'm also a babysitter for other ppl, I hate having my name lied on. My mom nor her friend thought nothing of it saying they know I'd never hurt him etc and dropped it right away. but I feel it makes me looks bad thinking about it long after because it never happened. It's been on my mind 24/7

An aunt has made out her will. She left my mother and myself and siblings nothing, and left all to my cousin. My cousin has been her favorite, that she s made clear through the years, but this cousin also could not care less about my aunt and does nothing for her. I was the one who cleaned her house every day, when my cousin came over and as I was washing the kitchen floor told me I d never inherit this house. I was shocked because that seemed to have come out of nowhere to say, and I told my aunt that, who told me yes my cousin was getting everything. Would you cut ties with this relative? I know it sounds greedy. And I suppose partly it is greed. But I also feel hurt for my mom especially who never did anything wrong to my aunt, but my aunt has been jealous of my mom even though my mom s been through cancer. My mom lives about 2 hours away and visits whenever she can. But now we want to cut my aunt out of our life because it hurt she d just not include us and for no reason. What would you do? She has no kids. This cousin is from my uncle - my aunt's brother. I think what has hurt us is that we have gone out of our way for this aunt and not for an inheritance but because we loved her. This cousin lives right down the street and won't even take my aunt, who does not drive, to doctors appointments or stores etc. I used to live in the same town and I would drive my aunt to these places, but I had to move for money reasons.

My fiance has full custody of his 9 year old daughter. The mother is completely out of the picture. I moved in with them a few months ago, and we are in the process of moving to another neighborhood. Sadly, this new neighborhood puts his daughter in a new school district. His daughter is excited for the move but has some hesitation about not seeing some of her friends from school. Since our place is currently overcrowded with moving boxes, I suggested having a sleepover once we get settled into the new place. The problem I have is how do I approach her friends parents to ask if they can come stay the night. Her father feels uncomfortable asking and wants me to extend the invitation. What is the best way to introduce myself and open the communication to extend the invitation?

Like they barely talk to you. They only talk to you if there is a funeral or family gatherings. They don't text you but you always have to text them to see how they are doing.

And what if she really is serious, and is going to tell someone?

My mom makes you feel like you're trash and it makes her feel good about herself? I have learned that its not me that's the problem but becuz she is a toxic parent I should love myself. I hit her with the silent treatment and she would force me to talk or destroy my computer? I want to run away from home and she wont let me becuz she says I cant live without her help if she pushes me too far I will do it to teach her a lesson but she will probably be stubbornly think she is the right one? My whole family has a problem with her Taurus tends to believe that they're better and deserve more than most people. They seem to think that what they do for their own gain is worth it because they're worth it. They lack the ability to empathize — if it didn't happen to them then they won't even bother to try to understand it. Taurus and narcissists both tend to be bullies who always want their way and who both have intense anger issues. They're master manipulators and can be shallow and materialistic. However, the most narcissistic thing about Taurus is their ability to talk people into doing things they'd never normally do. You need to be on your guard when dealing with a Taurus. I found out Taurus are the number one narcissistic which is ABOVE LEO the list goes like 1.taurus 2.leo 3.scorpio. 4.aquarius 5.virgo 6.aries 7.sag 8.cancer 9.gemini 10.libra 11.cap 12.pisces https://www.yourtango.com/2017306238/horoscope-most-narcissistic-zodiac-signs-ranked-most-least

my dad argues with me a lot, he yells at me, tells me to shut up, and said that "my opinion doesn't matter" and that it would be better if i "always kept my mouth shut". is this okay? he says he's allowed to say these things because he's my father and he is a higher authority, but if i say anything remotely close to any of that ^ he threatens me, starts yelling even more and yells i have no right to say any of that. is this okay?