I am the guardian of the groom and he is getting married indoors in a private home. I'm not sure what I should wear?

I invited 30 people to my wedding and everybody backed out on my wedding the only people showed up was 5 of my friends and 3 other guys i dont no but there my sis frien. The other 2 showed up late On my wedding we waited 20 more minutes for the rest to start and no one showed up so we started with out them when it was done we took pictures and then after we have a after party and one girl that came said she gotta go but as soon as she heard my other friend was staying she stayed ??? she said shes gonna leave but not come to the after party but after she relize my other friend was gonna stay she stayed bc she relize she was gonna be by herself bc she brang no friend ok so fast forward to the. Wedding party Out of everybody that came i only recieved 3 gifts out of the 10 people that came to my wedding if yoy go to a wedding arent you supposed to show respect and bring a little thank you gift for the célébration of our wedding i dont no but how can tou go to a wedding with out a gift and im not talking about the guest i didnt no but the guest that i knew wich were my friends. What would you have done if they never brang a gift for you and your love one I kinda felt like well did they only come for the food

I absolutely love my fiancé! He's really awesome and sweet! Also, we get along great together. We could have a party by ourselves! However, I am the one that pushes him to get things done. I have to remind him, push him and tell him to do things. If I keep doing that in our married life, will he feel emasculated? For him, it's important to be treated as a man. He's not a tyrant, but he comes from that type of upbringing. I feel that if I'm not pushing him then nothing will get done. I love him, but the pushing can be exhaustive. Also, I'm the one that pushes me. I have dreams and goals but it's me that keeps me on the path. He's okay with whatever. What to do?