I deeply care about someone who just lost their father. I reached out when he was dying to offer my comfort and support to my friend and basically offered myself up as someone that would be at their beck and call for literally anything they need. The person was extremely thankful towards me and appreciative but declined my offers every time but one. Since then I have backed way way off because it just didn't seem like they wanted/needed my support. The problem is i dont know if their hesitance is because of our complicated history or because some people just isolate when they're grieving. Now that my friend's father has actually passed, I wanna reach out again...but i dont want to create stress for this person due to the nature of our confusing relationship, but I also dont want to just leave them alone in this. Idk what to say? what can I do? it just hurts so much not being able to be there for them and not knowing if they're handling this or slipping off into self-destructing thanks for any feed back P.S this person has really hurt me a lot and they know that, so theres an awkwardness there, but I still really care about them and if they would just let me be there for them I would gladly put all of that aside.

I telll her to stop but she stops for a day and starts again. I have to be with this person for a year in the same class. What should I do, be fake and stay as her friend. I get uncomfortable being with people I don't wanne be with. What should I do

I just moved schools and I'm a Freshman in high school and it's been really hard for me to make friends because I've got social anxiety and I can't make conversations easily. I just want to be able to fit in and have friends but I don't know how. My sister is a sophomore and she's been being a big jerk and she's made a lot of friends because she's out going but she's been being rude to me and telling me to make friends but really I'm doing nothing to annoy her and she's just an overall overreactive b**** who just want to be better than everyone else. Last year wasn't a good year for me mental-health-wise and I feel like I'm falling back into depression and I've been more suicidal. I just want to have close friends again and people I can confide in. Please help me

So I have a friend whom I can t call a friend anymore, cause obviously I left her and told her that I don t want to be her friend anymore. Her boyfriend keeps sending me things which u can call broadcasts but why does he keep on doing that??!!

so I'm making flyers and posters in search of band members but since I'm in highschool and i don't have a job yet, don't have the money to pay for a program. what should i do?

So, I have a friend who I like we have a lot in common we both have a 2 year old, but any time they hangout my son gets sick. Within 6 months he gotten sick 15 times after hanging with her son. She keeps asking to come over and I don't want to offen her but it's getting to a point where I don't even trust her because she Never informs me that her son is sick. And when I ask her if he is she says "he just has allergies" I have a new born now and I just want to protect them. But I also don't want to ruin our friendship, but I put my family first. I just don't know how to handle this situation or what to say without sounding like a total jerk. I have a feeling no matter what the outcome our friendship will end regardless. I hope not though.

So me and my best mate kinda had sex this morning, and we are both clean, we have had injections and all that so there s no risk of STDs or anything like that. And I wore a condom. That not what I m worried about, I m worried that if its illegal in England, or if my mum finds out she will kill me. I m not too bothered but I just don t want to get in trouble. She was 15 as well.

Is this area ghetto?

When I was a younger like 8-10 I had a friend who had 2 older brothers one 14 and one 17, one time when I was at her house I was helping her clean the horse stables and we where putting the stuff away, she and I couldn t reach the shelf that we had to put the bucket on so her oldest brother came out to help, he said he would only help if one of us played "horsey" my friend didn t want to do it saying he always makes her so me being young and not really knowing better I did it... < You see what s going on... i had to get on my hands and knees and he got on top of me, even after I said I was getting uncomfortable he said I had to do it for a little while longer before he would help... Well now that was years ago and I am no longer friends with her because I moved and I ve never told the story, but now that I m older I m wondering if that was sexual assault.

My friend was at my moving away party the other night. We had a house party and some people had tequila and whisky shots. My friend is from Kazakhstan and is 27. But anyways she never really has gotten that drunk in her life until she moved to the US this year for her masters degree. But she took way too many shots. She ended up dancing crazily and she blacked out at my party. She did not remember any of it at all. I was a bit mad and thought it was immature at 27.

I try being more social but most of the time have no clue what to say! Tomorrow is a step in the right direction I'm going to a bible study with a friend. Where most of his friends are.

So I had a group of friends and literally none of them were my actual friends. These are the type of people that would knock me and always wanna know what I was up to because they were in 'competition' with me. They would talk about me behind my back. Say some MESSED up stuff which I just found out one of them recently said I said something which wasn't true. Honestly, it's just toxic. They're all toxic. I feel my life would be way better if I didn't even have them on social media. Would it be dramatic to literally block them all? The thing is I actually re connected with 2 of them about 4 days ago and realized it was a mistake. But I feel I can't move on with seeing their name on my social media and such. I've moved on in my life and since hanging out with some of them recently, I realize they aren't on my level at all. They are doing the same ****, doing drugs(bad ****) and still wanting to know what I'm up to when I don't talk to them like that. I just don't want it to look weird since I reconnected with the 2 (meaning I added them) only to block them 2 days later. What should I do?