I am 31, husband is 33. We have been married 2 years now. Before we met I was single but had sex about 5 days out of the week. Before that I was in a relationship for 4 years and had sex multiple times a day. Then I met my husband and I was actually the one to take his V-card. We had sex about 3-4 times a week and I thought that was really bad at the time but understood we had different work schedules and didn't live together. Then we got married and now I have sex maybe once per 3 months. I think we might have had sex last year like 9 times or so. Also, when we have sex, he cums really fast and he doesn't ever help me out in anyway. He used to be way better at this, longer lasting, happy to make me happy. But now he just doesn't want to have sex. I have done everything I have read about doing. I have talked to him numerous times, I have gotten mad, I have pretended like he is amazing and the best thing ever (if it was a confidence issue), we have been to counseling (he just begs me to stay with him, he loves me, he will try harder), wearing lingerie to bed, etc. I now just no longer press the issue, I thought well maybe if I don't beg him for sex, he will want it more, nope, he plays xbox all night long with his friends, and when I ask him to just watch a movie with me, he gets mad and says this is the only time he gets to spend with his friends. Sadly it is also the only time he has to spend with me and he doesn't. I am just sexually frustrated and don't know what to do.

woman? A gigolo???

My Mom's family, riddled by scandal, has now been brought to their knees by Lisa-Gate. Lisa is the mistress my Mom set my uncle up with not knowing it would lead to sex, he is still married to his wife.

He had 2 children and was married for 3 years. It has been 2 and a half years, and now he are getting married. I'm scared that he won't be as nervous and excited on our wedding day as me, and won't be as apprehensive and overjoyed when we have a child as he was with his former wife since he has experienced everything before.

We didn't talk for a while so I stayed with my parents house. He came back after a few days and told me that he didn't mean that he wanted to divorce me. He said it out of anger. I asked him if that's what he really wants coz I can give it to him if he really wants it so bad. He keeps mentioning it to me and every time we have an argument. He told me I can't wait to divorce you once you get your citizenship or papers. but then I will stop talking to him because I get upset of what he says and he comes back and tells me, because he was very angry. Then tells me that so if you're angry you keep telling me the same thing and you mean it? I told him some of the words that I said many times I didn't mean. can someone tells me that when mentioning divorce many times by a spouse means that they mean it and they really want the divorce or it's out of anger? Thank you! We've been together for 10 years in a relationship. 9 months married now. SO we didn't actually rush the marriage. We've been together since 19 years old, we have one child, and now we're both 28. We were friends for 3 years before we actually became gf and bf at age 16.

I need advice on the best way to handle a spouse that is being a jerk. Specifically my husband. My 11 year old daughter brought home a 65 in math which I know she has been struggling with and I have tried to help her with. I have printed math sheets and went over her study guide and she would get a majority of the answers right on them so I thought she would be doing better. However she failed her final exam and made a 65 for first quarter. She showed my husband her report card and he was understandably upset. However, he calls me at work to let me know not only that she failed him but I did too and that I am a loser and we are going to do things his way now because I am a loser who failed her. It's very frustrating because I tried to help as best I could but did not push her extremely hard as I work a full time job and usually did not get home until close to 6:00 in the evening as well as donate plasma and work oncall. I have mentioned before wanting to hire a tutor like a college kid who would tutor for cheap, but I am always told we don't need that. When he gets upset he can be so hurtful and it does me no good to tell him it hurts my feelings using the "I" statement cause he just says that's not my problem you feel that way. I am so frustrated I don't know what to do.

My husband and I went on a date night this past weekend. I personally have never been to an adult club. We were enjoying our sex life as newlyweds and are trying new things such as nudist places, adult clubs, role playing in the bedroom ,love shops etc.We have never ever discussed swinging and we didn't have any conversation prior to entering the adult club about dos and donts. Me personally I'm all for role play and looking at others however touching is always off limits That's crossing the line.Yes we were drinking. Anyway in this adult club it's total sexual freedom . Peoples are making out and having sex everywhere. As the night progressed we were making out next to another couple. My husband asked the guy did he want to switch partners. I pinched my husband and said no and he switched anyway. I watched him as he put his hands in between this females legs and he gasped with excitement and she moaned with pleasure. I got up and left pissed. We went home and fought to the point where my daughter woke up 3am concerned about what was going on. I'm repulsed by him now and have lost all respect for him. I don't know how to move forward with my marriage I feel disrespected on so many levels. He has 3 kids and I have a daughter. We all live together. I love him but I don't know how to forgive him or even if I should. I can't stand to look at him . I'm horney but I would rather die horney then sleep with himWhat should I do?please help me with honest advice thank you in advance 😔

Hello! Over the past few months, I ve noticed our son, he's been seen by his lead PCP because he hasn t really hit most of his milestones. He hasn't ever called me Momma, he hasn't asked for Dad, he just doesn't talk & other things. If he does he'll spit gibber-gabber every now and then. I am trying to remain as calm as I can because I have an older son who is and has been diagnosed with Autism, he's now 10! :D His in school, doing the best he can and following his routine like a champ. He loves to read, he loves to call people on the phone, he is talking soooo much than ever before. Even though he knows Carter hasn't been meeting his milestones, I've had to be the one to push him to schedule doctor's appointments to get him the help he needs, even if it's possibly just speech therapy. My husband is very angry when I talk about taking Carter to see a specialist. He says that take, that the PCP doesn't even think Carter has autism and why spend all this extra money and time on tests that aren't needed. He thinks he is always right and it makes me feel so sick, to my stomach because if he is thinking like this about Carter not even having been officially diagnosed… what does he really think about Cole?  He doesn't want to go to these doctors' appts, with me to see how the specialist works with Carter? He says he has to go to work, when he's been there for years, and has plenty of unused vacation/sick time. What should I do? Please help! Thanks!

I ve only been married for less then a month and I ve brought this up before marriage. I wanted to go from a full-time to a part time job and go to college to become a teacher. She told me to get a better job first and save some money. I ve looked for a better work, but couldn t find one. The job I work at now is 45 min away and I work 12hr shifts. I only get paid $10.96/hr. I m a security guard and my job is super up tight even though the work I do is redundant and unfulfilling. I sit at a computer for 12hrs waiting for people to come in and serve them. All the so many empty hours make me think so little of myself and wonder what I m doing with my life. I m not able to do anything, but act vigilant and play on my phone when no one s looking. I know the real reason my wife doesn t want me to quit is because she doesn t want to be the only one paying bills. I don t want to resent her, but I also don t want to make it difficult for her by pushing the issue and letting her take care of me. I ve looked for a better job for nearly a year now, but couldn t get one. I just want to settle for a part time position and go back to school. What should I do? I m 24 years old and I don t want to wait too long to start. I just know if I keep up the fake smile at work for her that I ll get more depressed.

My significant other and I made a crazy discovery today. our parents got married on the EXACT SAME DAY. same day, month, year. what are the odds of that??

I was sitting on my porch and saw my neighbor go off to work. We waved goodbye. I saw another woman show up two hours later at my neighbor s house. He was all dressed up and I followed them to a resteraunt and they kissed Should I tell my neighbor about this? I took a whole video of the whole thing. I couldn t imagine going through this but i would want to know especially since she talks highly of her husband

As a very young man I fell in love and married only to have my heart broken ending in a divorce soon after. As a result I made sure not to allow my heart to ever become so vulnerable to a woman ever again. At the time I didn't realize doing so would also prevent me from finding love again not realizing I had become the poster child for "intimacy issues". I would see women describe what they were looking for on internet dating sites say specifically they weren't interested in men with intimacy issues and stupid me thought they were talking about sex (certain there was no problem in that department for me). But with each relationship I had, it could only go so far because I kept them all at arms length from my heart. It wasn't until I was 37 before I figured out my error and by that time couldn't find anyone right for me that I almost gave up trying. Then in my late 40's I meet someone who I do fall in love with and am finally ready to take it to the next level, but just as that occurs I realize there is still an emotional hurdle to overcome, but this time its not my fault. I came to realize she is the one with intimacy issues and it becomes apparent simply by asking the right questions. So now I am on the opposite side of the problem and clueless as to what to do. Is there a way to over come your partner's intimacy issues or is it heart break all over again?

my husband and I got in a fight yesterday. I dont yell and scream and call names. I just ignore and stop talking. my husband all of a sudden got upset that I didn't go to the salon (i go to get wax/eyebrows) and told me I dont care for myself as I used to. Which really set me off. first of all, I shower and shave my legs and down there every single day. there are times where if I sweat after cleaning I shower again. there's no smell from my sweat but I hate having sweat on my body. I always fix my hair, makeup, perfume, brush my teeth, mouth wash, dress nice for my husband. I wanted to go yesterday but couldn't because I got caught up with my family and i spend over an hr in the salon so i didnt have time. I got upset and told him his way of talking to me is ridiculous and just plain rude and then stopped talking to him when i realized he doesnt care . he went out after our argument and when he came back home he didnt even look at me and ignored me the whole time. so i also ignored him. Next day and the same stuff. I wake up before 5am to make my husband breakfast, iron his clothes, prepare the shower and see him off to work. today I did all of that but my husband decided to wear different clothes , refused to eat my breakfast i made and didnt bother to say goodbye. he came home i put him food and juice and he refused to eat again. I do this for him out of love but I feel he has disrespected me and these actions are just making it worse.

He wants to live with his parents forever and he has problems with sex . That's 4 years of no sex so far . I'm only 27. I need to live independently with or without hubby . We have a spark but I'm about to break it . Is that a good reason ?

Is that selfish

So me and my wife been married for a year but been together for 12 years and got 2 kids. We went out to a bar the other night with some friends and I happen to put my hand on her lap to grab her hand to hold and was shut down. She was drunk by the way. So I happen to lean back and see our one male friend and her holding hands and her hand on his lap under the bar. I got up and left. Well next day I confronted her and she's like I'm sorry I did wrong. I feel so bad. Then she tells me that last time we all went out the guy was doing the same thing touching her and begging to go outside the bar to make out but she told him no. I am just so upset with her now. Like why not pay attention to me. What did I do. Does she still love me. And what if me and the other friends were not there. She said nothing else would happen

Divorce? Just that's it? Shouldn't s/he be punished, since cheating is a crime?

I am out of town on business for 3 months, and a couple days ago me and my wife were having a minor argument over something. Later that night, we had made up and were texting back and forth. Then, around 10pm, she stopped responding. I figured she had just fallen asleep. We have our snapchat settings so we can see each others location. When I went to check her location, I noticed that the map that shows up when click on her name had completely disappeared. Not even that she wasn't showing up on the map due to inactivity, the map was totally gone. She remained inactive until 12 hours later when she responded and said she had just woken up and didn't know how the map had just disappeared. She said her settings were still set to showing me her location and she said she uninstalled and reinstalled the app at which point the map reappeared and showed her at home. Should I be worried she is lying? ya I was just up in the middle of the night thousands of mile from home alone with my own thoughts with no one to talk to. If I could delete this question I would. Dude who called me a fool was quite correct. thank you. I honestly just needed someone to tell me to stop being an *** and go to bed

@Petter true.... prostitutes gets paid.... at least prostitutes gets paid....

My spouse locked me in a room overnight twice. Locked me in the house once and locked me out once. My spouse also admitted to going to the pharmacy to pick up drugs to slip into my food and drink after I gave food to a beggar and walked away after my spouse was screaming. So this happened after only 3 weeks of marriage. I stopped talking to my spouse even though they called to apologize. My father wired 30k usd to my spouse for the wedding. They never gave me access to the account. Also they apologized to my father for their behavior before they apologized to me- I live in the US and they live in India. I went to India to be spiritual and didn't care about getting married my family admitted too putting drugs in my food while I was living with them. I really just need some encouragement to get out of this 5month marriage