I don't mean this to come off as conceited at all because I truly don't feel better or prettier than anyone. However, my whole life I feel like girls hated me for absolutely no reason. I remember friends telling me that other girls would say they hated me and they never had a good reason for it. I was never stuck up and I never picked on anyone. In fact, I stood up for kids that got picked on. I always smile at people and go out of my way to help them and it's never enough. I'm now in my 20s and in nursing school and it's the same kind of thing. I always help classmates that are struggling with concepts and offer to let people borrow my books, etc and yet I still get dirty looks, have girls look me up and down and flat out leave me out. I don't get invited to big study groups or events that people are doing as a class and I truly don't get it. I've never had someone tell me they didn't like me for a legit reason and my boyfriend, mom and few close friends always tell me not to take it personally, but that other girls hate me because I'm pretty and because I model. Is this a real thing? I just can't imagine hating another girl strictly because she's pretty. It's really sad and people think being pretty is such a great thing and it honestly kinda sucks sometimes. Any advice or thoughts?

I m currently a sophomore and recently, I came to the realization that I don t know much about anyone and no one knows much about me (this includes family). And so I wonder, what s it like to know a lot about someone?

My friend (roommate) and I are 20 years old (sophomores in college), and whenever we have a move night, she always want to watch a kid's movie. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE throwback movies, but she's into the newer kid's movies. I guess I sort of know why she doesn't watch PG-13 and rated R movies, because she mentions that she feels uncomfortable watching certain movies. However, one would assume that at her age, she'd be used to seeing people kiss or whatever

I'm an 18 yr old guy from Denmark in college and every time I'm not with my friends in school I feel like I'm alone and all the time I'm afraid to be excluded in things. For an example we had a school project and we had to make groups of 3 and my 3 main friends picked each other and I INSTANTLY felt like I had no friends, but I KNOW that I have friends, it's just the fear that they don't want to be with me. Also the other week I was in Ireland for a work thing and while I was gone they went to the cinema and didn't tell me. I know I shouldn't be worried but I'm so scared of being left out it's super difficult for me. The thought of other people thinking poorly of me is VERY frightening too. Sometimes I over think things to the extreme and in that way make a normal scenario seem scary in my mind. Believe me I'm not shy in any way, my social skills are excellent and having a conversation and keeping it going is no problem for me. I also feel like I'm good at keeping a convo interesting for the other person. I also have a very good first impression on people and making friends is no problem for me. But still every time I drive to school I just want to turn back and go home because I'm scared my friends will exclude me, even though I know it would just leave me more out of the social circle I'm in.

When me and first became friends she got me something for Christmas and my birthday and she got me something one other time after that but that's it and we have been friends for 2 years and I would always get her something for her birthdays and christmases but after that she stopped and she told me she didn't have time but I have always gotten her something every time for her birthdays and christmases but I guess I should stop to since she has. Is that ok for me to stop?

I have been friends with Kayla, since we were 16. We're 27 now. We're long distance besties and during the summer, I visited her. She lives with her brother and his family. The few times I spent around her sis-in-law, her SIL seemed really sweet and inviting. The very night after I got there, we played board games well into the night. We seemingly got along. There was card game we played that got a little raunchy and Kayla's brother said "______ is a freak!" (like a sexual freak), but SIL said nothing about it and didn't seem bothered. Literally the whole time I was there, she seemed okay with me. Not long after I came back home, I friend requested her. It took her a month or two to accept. She liked a post of mine and the next morning, I noticed she deleted me. i thought it was a mistake, so I added her back, to which she denied my request and marked me as "spam". What is her deal? Why did she delete me and seem to dislike me? I was great to them. I made sure to throw away all of my trash from their guest room, I made sure the guest bed was made up before I left and even thanked them for letting me stay there. What's her deal? She's in her early 30's. I've asked Kayla, but she's never told me the answer. She's always busy, though, so maybe she hasn't gotten the chance to ask her. I don't want to ask her. I want to be able to still stay at their house when I am there.

My son turned 5-3 months ago. He is literally the youngest kid in kindergarten. Plus he is also a only child and I was a stay at home mom with him. He has had some problems adjusting to school but my husband and I are doing all we can to help with this. However, my son is being left out and treated like a outcast. None of the parents will even engage with us. I feel horrible and I am scared my son will have a low self esteem and this will mess him up. What do I do about this? I have talked to the school and I am trying. Any suggestions? How is that desperation? Trying to help my son with his issues so he has a better day at school? I thought that was my job?

Hi i'm a 7th grader. I have known this girls for 5 years. She is sort of immature (but i guess all girls at this age are) and she can be very bossy, loud and obnoxious sometimes. On the other hand I can also have the best time with her. i don't see her as often as i used to since i moved. She insults me alot but I don't know if she means it, or at least its not supposed to make me angry, which it doesn't. We don't fight often, pretty much never actually, but every once in a while we do imma girl just saying....

this girl's in another state but over the border, 45 mins away. i met her in her city at a concert a few weeks ago, then we texted back and forth on msngr after meeting. i sent her some of my songs. with that, i made a silly comment about her, i told her i see that she's very poetic in her last post and that shows that she should keep up with her music. (because shes also a singer) she didnt reply til 10 days later. and said "thanks a lot, i have a lot of inspiration :)" i answered, ok cool... then she replied "do you have it too?" i told her i have so much that i have to share it. then she said please share it with me ;)" ... idk how to respond. and idk what kind of inspiration she wants me to share with her. in what context she means cause it's a vague response... like idk what inspiration she means. if it's something about music, then if so what what inspiration exactly? or is she trying to be flirty and mean something different.. i because when i met her it was some flirtation between us. nothing much.just little touching, her initiating conversations with me. i was feeling like she's interested. then she see my message and doesnt respond til 10 days later, which makes me assume she's not interested, then gives a vague response like "please share it with me" so im confused what she wants from me

this girl's in another state but over the border, 45 mins away. i met her in her city at a concert a few weeks ago, then we texted back and forth on msngr after meeting. i sent her some of my songs. with that, i made a silly comment about her, i told her i see that she's very poetic in her last post and that shows that she should keep up with her music. (because shes also a singer) she didnt reply til 10 days later. and said "thanks a lot, i have a lot of inspiration :)" i answered, ok cool... then she replied "do you have it too?" i told her i have so much that i have to share it. then she said please share it with me ;)" ... idk how to respond. and idk what kind of inspiration she wants me to share with her. in what context she means cause it's a vague response... like idk what inspiration she means. if it's something about music, then if so what what inspiration exactly? or is she trying to be flirty and mean something different.. i because when i met her it was some flirtation between us. nothing much.just little touching, her initiating conversations with me. i was feeling like she's interested. then she see my message and doesnt respond til 10 days later, which makes me assume she's not interested, then gives a vague response like "please share it with me" so im confused what she wants from me

So my best friend (friend A) is getting married and when we found out we were all super excited (group of 3 girls) Friend A tells Friend B and I she doesn't want bridesmaids only her sister who will be the maid of honor of course we aren't mad or sad or anything we totally get it ! Fast forward a few months I had surgery and couldn't leave the house much so of course Friend A and B hung out a lot without me which I'm fine with I understand but now a few months later I find out that Friend A is having Friend B in her wedding! I'm a bit shocked and hurt tbh I know it's not my wedding and she should have who she wants in it but why didn't she tell me herself instead of me hearing through the grapevine

It's my teacher's birthday today. To honor her birthday, I baked her chocolate muffins (her favorite kind), and my older brother decided to attempt to steal one from the given, but my mom swatted his hand away before he could eat one. As we got onto the school bus, my brother told the driver (to whom he has a friendship with) that I wouldn't let anyone else have any, but I was prepared, because I baked an extra one for him. But as my brother tried to swipe one, I held the box away from him. He started calling me names such as a "little eggsucker", a "sniveling toad" and an "honor's student". Later, the other girls were teasing me for being such a suck-up when I gave the box to my teacher. Do I sound like a suck-up to you?

Im a very over jealous person. Whenever i see a family member or friend get things or get married i go numb and stay in my room for days. I wasnt born with any looks talents or smarts so all my life its been like this. Once i see someone doing better than me in life i dont talk to them again

They twist words, or 'misinterpret' what you say. They retort your opinions. They make your opinions as though as they have no importance or they attack your opinions. They are ready for fights. If you say any little thing to them they fly off the handle or try to guide you into getting into a heated argument with you. You never can seem to be at 'peace' around them.

Call it one of my deep rooted flaws, but I'm very extensive when it comes to my image, because I want people to have a high opinion of me. When I go with my friends, I can be a bit uptight. If they end up swearing, or arguing in public, I either clear my throat to drown them out or leave to spend some time alone. I also try to hush them up when they start making obscene jokes about the strangers we pass by. I do this because A. I wouldn't like it if I heard someone say stuff about me, and B. I don't want to be associated with that behavior. My words end up falling on deaf ears, each time I beg them to stop. Am I being too snobby, or do I actually have a point? I want my family to be known as a respectable, and from what I've learned, these actions are considered "vulgar" and "rude" to others. Am I doing something wrong? Should I stop worrying?

so lately i have been so tired and stressed with my classes that whenever i have time i just want to stay in my room and do nothing. I have a friend who always asks to what lunch or dinner together and we always do the same thing so it is also kinda boring but i want to stay home and sleep but when i tell him that he gets mad and asks over and over even when i said i cant.. if i tell him im too tired or i want to sleep he seems to see me as a rude person but i also do not want to lie.. we already had an arguement about not hanging out often and how it is my fault for trying to distance our friendship.. i think he is too controlling and only thinks about himself. i worry about him asking me if we can hang out.. and i feel like im being forced to sometimes.. i still want to be friends.. but if i keep telling him im busy or too tired he will stop being my friend? i know you will think.. that i should look for other friends.. but he really helped me overcome difficult times and he is my one of my few friends here.. i want to maintain our good friendship.. but i just do not like it how he is really controlling.. and wants to hang out everyday and im a girl and when i stay home i do not wear makeup and i look like a mess. it takes me about 1-2 hours to do my makeup and hair.. i would never go out without makeup.. he won't understand this lol.. so i wish he can tell me like few hours before.. not 10 minutes before.. or else i wont go and when i tell him also i am hanging out with my other friends he gets really salty about that and tells me i should tell them that im going to hang out with him which i think is so selfish of him? and i mean last year we hung out everyday because i had no friends and i did not have as much work.. but this year is a little different and i do not think he is used to the "new" me?

Lately I've been really upset and I'm always really awkward. I've been pushing myself away from everyone and becoming really quite. I don't want my friends to think I hate them. I kind of just wanna start over with my friends and try to stop pushing myself away from them. I don't know if any of this makes sense. But I feel like if I say sorry to them for acting weird lately it'll make me feel better. Would that be weird to just randomly tell them sorry? It's not like we got into a fight. I just simply wanna apologize for me being off lately.

We went to dinner the other night just the two of us. While he was driving, he looks over for a quick minute and says "stop worrying. You can't let it bother you." He knows I've been stressed about not having any hours at work and bills are coming again. He grabs my hand and rubs the top with his thumb and says "Something will come before bill #1 comes. You're a smart girl and this happens to millions of people daily." For being just a friend he nailed it on the head but what I didn't know was what came later on after dinner. We went to this Mexican restaurant and ordered a enchilada that feeds two people for sure without going back for seconds. Before it came out, he put his arm around my shoulder and kisses my forehead but says "I love you and I know things will work out for the best but right now you're in a spot of reevaluation to think about life period." We smiled at one another and then the enchilada came out. We both got full fast on it and left the restaurant. When we got to his truck, I said thanks for dinner. He leans over and we start kissing like full on kissing. He pulls away and starts the engine but as he's starting the truck he says "I care about you and life is not easy for anyone but we deal with it and move on each time. I know one thing...I'm in love with you and you will get your dream job and meet all your goals for life." I didn't know what to say so I said that I loved him too.

i forgot to put info so this girl she thinks my friend is her friend but my friend is really not her friend and this boy told her my friend was moving and she was like "NOOOOOOOO" and it really got on my nerves because this girl is a brat and i dont know why it is making me so mad?? like she is MY FRIEND NOT YOURS. this girl literally only likes my friend for her trampoline!!!

Okay so I started a new school and I have a really close friend there who also started this year. She has a best friend in the school and they hang out a lot. But we're also best friends and she invited me to sit with the group she sits with. But then she began leaving with her best friend to talk to other people leaving me with a group of people I barely even talk to. Then this group began spreading rumors about me(including her best friend) and I don't sit with them anymore. I'm new to the school so I haven't met any other crowd so I sit alone. Anyway now this friend is acting weird and distancing herself from me. She barely talks to me and doesn't call me and sometimes even ignores my calls( though she used to call me all the time) and I thought we were good but now I have no idea what's wrong

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I'm a hard worker and in my early 20s. I've noticed at work, the workers in their 50s are always very nurturing and helpful if I have a question wheras the workers in their 30s so far seem really harsh and unreasonable with new, young workers. They're just like, "why don't they figure it out?"

so I m having a small get together with 3 people and friend#1 gets uncomfortable around friend#2 so I m trying to uninvite friend#2 but I m not sure how to go about it with out seeming rude

I'm a guy, she's a girl. We had to work together. I always say nice stuff to her online, type support if she's depressed. She messaged me a month ago asking for help through feeling a friend died. After that we exchanged numbers I gave mine first. I've texted her twice a week or so since then. It's always me first though starting the convo . She will text back. Talk about her life, etc...I said I was bored at home most of time and she said if I want to hang out on weekend I should text her to do lunch or dinner. We haven't talked about chilling since then a week ago first brought it up. If I comment on her Facebook stuff she'll like and put hearts on my comments. I mean, was she just being nice or does she really want to hang? She said she's mostly a home body and friends don't call her much