Let's say you're Facebook friends with a woman who is taken. She says that messaging you is crossing the line according to her boyfriend. But she replies to you when you send her messages anyway. Her and I get along well, she's way going. She's open minded too. Her and I talk about high school since her and I were in the same grade. She's given me confidence too by saying Im not ugly and I have a symmetrical face. I'm usually the one to start the chat. What could be happening?

So I help my friend babysit for a family with 4 kids under 5 (5,3,2 and 8 months) for 2 hours one day a week sens my friend has to go to class and I just can do it anymore I work 5 days a week babysitting for a family that I have been with for over 3 years (they are like family to me) and I said yes but it's on one of my days off and I just get so overwhelmed with the 3 after a week I need a brake so how do I tell my friend I can't help her anymore

I am a 27 year old woman whose a med student from India, who is studying in the US. I am 6'3 250 pounds, There is this handsome guy blonde personal trainer at the university gym. He is 22 blonde 5'10 180 pounds all muscle. I know that he's into casual sex and has hooked up with many women at the university. I signed up for personal training sessions with him so I could spend time with him and get physical. I came to the first personal training session in long dress and make up, to impress him. During the personal training session I subtly felt his muscles and tried rubbing my breast on him. He wasn't receptive so I decided to be more direct. After the session I went to the cafe, and sat right next to him. I started chatting with him and put my arm around his shoulder and my hand near his crotch and said. "You are a very handsome man I would love to have sex with you." He told me "it's not going to happen." I called him out for sleeping with other women at the gym, who were petite and white. He said that I am not his type. I said he was racist for not having sex with brown women. I also told him that hes a misogynist for not wanting to have sex with a taller woman. He refuses to admit that he is a bigot and says that im not his type. What I see as a preference is fragile masculinity for not having sex with a woman taller than him, and blatant racism.

My friend threatened to beat up my crush (he wasn't doing anything wrong) when I told her her behavior was unacceptable she told me she's all talk with no action she said she couldn't hurt a fly. I don't understand how she threatened to beat up my crush then when I called her out on it, she said she couldn't hurt a fly, she's all talk with no action. I don't threatened to beat people up just to threatened people. I don't threatened to beat a person up in general.

Do I just have to accept the fact that I can't make friends and just be pissed off for life while everyone has fun with their friends?

Hi so I know similar questions have been asked to this before, but last year for Halloween my friend and I had a sleepover at my house and she wants to do the same this year, but I hate sleepovers so much and she's always trying to get me to have them with her but I can't stand them, any ideas on how I can get out of it with out obviously lying?

This year in college I'm rooming with three girls who are already close friends. We all hang out and go out together but there are times when the 3 of them do stuff without me. Like they'll go to the store together and I had no idea about the plans and they don't ask if I want to come when they go. Maybe it's because I haven't asked in the past but I'm too afraid to ask. Their closeness intimidates me and sometimes I feel unimportant and invisible. It could be that my own insecurities are holding me back from really putting myself out there in the group but i dont know how to overcome my insecurities. I'm also very afraid of rejection. What are some things I can do to help make the situation better? What are some ways to get past my feelings that are holding me back? How can I get closer to them? It's already two months in and Im worried soon it will be too late.

So my friend Emma still is friends with my bully and I can't help it but feel sad/jealous/hurt cause my bully (lilly) said hurtful stuff to me and was fake to me and talked behind my back.This girl (lilly) said "your a loner, thats why you have no friends and no one likes you" "your hair looks stupid"and other stuff.Both my two friends(sally and emma) are friends with her and know what she said. Emma ask why she said that and kinda stood up for me while sally did nothing. After the incident they both still talk to her like nothing happen. Sally even invited lilly to her house and went to prom with her and didn t ask me to come. The next day emma text me she cant go to the store with me. But then i find out later she went to the store with lilly. I ask her why u went with her and not with me and she said i dont know i wanted to. And she got maf and said i was jealous of them. And she said im just her friend now and lilly is her best friend. I was very hurt by this. Then Emma just post on Instagram how lilly is such a good friend and how she s gonna miss her. I feel very sad and hurt like they don t care about what she did to me. Especially since sally didn t stand up for me. This happen a while ago but I still feel hurt and we still kinda talk. Any tips?

If you had a friend that was not using proper grammar would you correct them? Or would you feel out of place doing so? Thanks in advance and will choose a best answer.

I have two roommates. One of them has become a very good friend of mine, and the other is still virtually a stranger. We just have different schedules to the point where i've gone weeks without seeing her. Me and my first roommate have an arrangement where she does all the dishes, I take all the trash out. however, roommate #3 is not privy to this arrangement. she has no idea i took it upon myself to be the trash person, and yet it seems to have never occurred to her once to take out the trash or do her own dishes. me and roommate #2 find it amazing. we're resigned to it at this point because we both have our respective jobs, but it baffles us how she magically assumes the trash fairy and the dish fairy will always do their jobs. here is the thing: she's started leaving boxes that won't fit in the trash bag by the trash. I'll take the trash bag out, but i'm not making any special trips for her extra items. I would think about it for a more considerate roommate, but not one that treats me like the maid and never considers to do things for herself the other thing: she uses the last of my paper towels and plates and never offers to replenish. so i want to leave the boxes by the trash can until she finally breaks and takes them out (or doesn't, i really don't care but i'm not doing it) and i buy paper plates and towels but keep them in my room. is that petty? i don't want to be a petty, passive aggressive roommate but i don't want to be a doormmate or enabler either. i don't feel like i can confront her directly, because i hardly ever seen her and have actually never held a full length conversation with her. and i feel like notes or a text message would come off as even more passive aggressive

Me and my roommate aren't too compatible, but I'm trying to get along. Yesterday she got mad at me because I forgot to throw something away. I apologized and asked her to stop yelling. She then seemed pissed at me for the rest of the morning, and later she texted me and was very confrontational about some things. We exchanged a few text messages, and eventually she sent a long text message telling me to grow up. She listed some things and basically told me I need to learn to deal with my own problems. These things she listed...they were minor frustrations nothing more. I don't know why she brought them up as I can't remember making a big deal of them. I do have bigger problems and am trying to deal with it. Trying to take care of myself. I think she feels as though I am being self centered for just worrying about myself. Well I feel that isn't fair to say, she should take care of herself too. She expresses her frustrations at things sometimes, and she yells at me and she's insulted me a few times. I try to avoid doing that, I try to stay quiet and keep the peace. So why is it a problem if I mention being frustrated with the internet and other minor things? I just don't think it's fair to ask me to grow up like that. I don't understand what I am doing wrong. Maybe I'm an idiot and missing it though...that's why I am here, do I need to grow up?

Let's say you're Facebook friends with a woman who is taken. She says that messaging you is crossing the lines according to her boyfriend. But she replies to you when you send her messages anyway. What could be happening?

I'm 18 and and I was on my board skating with my friends and there were also girls I know there and a lot of people I know and out of nowhere this 15 year old kid I barely know shoved me off my board and I fell to the ground and was in shock and felt and I just started bawling uncontrollably in front of everyone almost immediately, I couldn't believe it was happening so I couldn't stop and just kept bawling and everyone was shocked and confused and then he he got on top of me and me and I did nothingt and could barely speak and I ended up saying "I'm sorry, I'm sorry please get off me and he hit me in the face once and I just laid there screaming and crying harder and my friends threw him off after a minute because I think they were so shocked to see me like that and that I didn't even defend myself and then him and his friends ran off and I just couldn't stop bawling in front of everyone I was so humiliated girls were watching and friends who couldn't believe I was on the ground bawling and now I'm afraid of what everyone thinks of me. I could tell how shocked my guy friends were that this 15 year old caused me to be on the ground screaming like a ***** and that the girls who thought I was cute were turned off and now idk what to do

It's been going on for like three months now. Two days ago I posted a some pictures of me and my friend Kaylee at the beach and he kept posting comments like "very sexy" and even messaged me that he showed it to his friend at work. He's been liking all of my photos even ones on my mom's Facebook back when I was like 11 years old. I always thought that he was really creepy and like two years ago when he was living with us I woke up and he was sleeping on the floor in my bedroom after he took a shower and he was just wearing his towel. He posted a bunch of comments on my friend's pictures too and even tried to add them on Facebook and Instagram y stuff. I told my mom and she just said something about him thinking that he was still a kid and that he's just really immature. I don't know how old he is but I think he's at least 35 years and I don't think that my mom took me seriously. I wanna block him but last time I did that he actually showed up at our house and asked me why. What do you think I should do?

My former friend and i had a falling out last year. I was at fault. I sent a letter almost a year after and got word she received it but i was too impatient and then blew up my chances of a reply by messaging her again. I later realized in the end that the reason she stopped being my friend was because i was depending too much on her to carry my problems and did not give her room to grow. Now i want to send a different apology by mail because i can't reach her or should i email her? and just tell her what i realized. i do not expect an answer back from her, i just want to know what your thoughts are. thank you.

I was texting with my best friend last night and me and her have not hung out in awhile and I told her I was upset because I didn't know if we could ever hang out again but she said I just have to make some time for you. Did she sound obligated to hang out with me by her saying that? I don't really want to ask her because I probably need to let it go but I was just wondering what she meant by that. It's hard for me to know what people mean sometimes

I have a close friend of mine who is in the ARMY Reserves and has nothing but harrasment and threats from his NCOs since this January. He has not been to drill for the last 2 months due to his car breaking down and he was sent to the hospital because of his leadership. He is trying to get a unit transfer but he was told by his 1SGT that his pt failure might hinder that process. His unit is at least 2 hours away one way and he shares one car with a family member. He said his car broke down again recently and it's getting to the point his drive to the unit is becoming a hassle. His hospital bill is over $5000 and his unit is not paying for it. He figured he would get an immediate transfer especially how bad it has been but as of right now he isn't. He has drill coming up soon but also has a doctor appointment about his palpitations and the 120 heart rate he had from his leadership. They have been trying to send him certified mail but he is unable to pick them up due to his work schedule. What should he do? Thanks in advanced

When I texted him he played the hurt card and cast blame on me. I said okay despite all that i tried giving you the doubt but you're still stuck in the past bittnerness and resentment. He said Ok I'm not going to argue with you enjoy your trip( i was going on vacation). I'm back now and at church this Sunday he keeps staring at me and he passed by me and winked at me but why does he text me? What does this mean?

I'm a white/Western female and I found out one of my male friends (who is also white) has a 'thing' for Asian girls (specifically Chinese girls). One of our other friends told me. I did notice that he had some sort of fascination with Chinese culture - well, now I know why. I know it's none of my business, but honestly, I was developing some feelings for this guy. I did like him and now I feel awkward. Discovering he has a fetish for Asian women makes me uncomfortable and I don't really want to be around him much anymore (but I have to be as he's in our group). I know I sound like an awful person. Yes, I have a crush on him, but I have to accept that he'll probably never like a white person like me. Ugh, why do I feel so uncomfortable?

with these people??? Why do they always have to follow you across the street? Are they that stupid and ignorant? Can't they take a hint? Leave me alone, moron! I DO NOT WANT TO TALK TO YOU! They're so selfish, only thinking about their own selfish needs! Why are there so many sad, lonely, needy jerks like that in this world who don't seem to have anybody else to talk to??? Why does that give them the right to bother strangers who want to be left alone? How do you get these creeps to stay far away from you and stop following you around? Where are the cops when you need them!

If your friend had a mental disorder (bipolar) and she starts problems with your other friends for no reason or because she may be jealous. She makes it seem like they are the problem when it's really her. This pertains to a girl who I had to isolate myself from because of her friend. Whenever she asks me to do something on the weekends I tell her I'm busy. I rather communicate with her at work but outside of work I can't be around that messiness. Tell me your thoughts!?

My friend told me he fears me from God and still try to bring conversation about God from a non-religious point of ciew. Does this mean they accept me for who I am? How do I know I'm not making the mistake of confronting them about this? Is this simply them expressing themselves or trying or hoping I would change and this makes me uncomfortable. Am I wrong if I bring it up, making a big deal out of it, or should I talk to them about it? And how many chances do I give them as I talked to them before and they still ask me things like did they slund like they were pushy with this certain thing they said? Infeel like every conversation becomes a debate and N find myself in a defensive position trying to defend my values and I don't want that. I want to be able to talk about my life with someone openly esp if they are close. How do I know if I am not making a big deal out of it?

I have a friend whose financial status is getting worse every day. Recently his phone got stolen. Then his father fell sick, causing them to pay even more for a surgery. Not to mention his college fees. He is currently living under very tight economy. He is eating instant noodles/porridge everyday to save money. He won't even take public transportation. But when I offered to give some money to him, or even buy some of his unused stuff, he rejected and said, "I don't want to be indebted to anyone." He keeps saying he can handle it but at this rate he's gonna die from eating too much of that. What could I do to make him accept my offer? Thank you

I've known these people for ages, but always felt like they can't stand me. Their attitude towards me is usually cold: they seem to block me out in conversations. They make virtually no eye contact with me and only focus on the other people, even if I'm talking and trying to join. Their facial expressions and tone towards me can sound quite "ugh, do I HAVE to?' They do have their own problems, but there is a difference in their energy towards me vs other people. Some of which is obvious, the rest is just a gut feeling, even if they are being pleasant that day. Other examples: - They always respond to each other's events on FB, but never mine. On my 21st birthday, none of them responded, and when I posted that I'll be cancelling, they liked that post. - Every time one girl was upset, I would offer comfort/an ear to listen, but she ignores me and accepts it from others. I asked them about this, and I brought it up with my ex when we were together (they are his BFF's) and I was always assured that I'm wanted. Even after we broke up, they still told me they wanted me to visit more. But I don't feel it at all, and never really have. I've never felt that way with anyone else. I know that people will respond negatively if you portray a negative attitude. But I have been making as much of an effort as I can to stay motivated. Why can't they just tell me if they don't want me around? And if I honestly am just being paranoid, why do I feel this way around them and nobpdy else?

I m not sure what is going on. My guy friend and I have been friends for 3 years. There was attraction at first, but we ended up being good friends. I told him I was going to be in town for a few days, and he said we should go to dinner. I arrive in town, and I didn t hear from him. I was sad, but I let it go. I was upset, and unfriended him on social media. I felt bad, and apologized because I didn t want to lose my friend. He accepted the friend request, but then unfriended me 24 hours later. I deleted him from snap chat, because he stopped talking to me there. I think he has a girlfriend now, and I m really happy for him. He s never acted like this before. I miss my friend. How can I make things right again ?

I am in so much pain... everyone in my life leaves and I am completely and utterly alone. I have no friends and a high schooler. I just want to experience high school fun, get a boyfriend, go to parties but I can not because I have no one. People use me, and when they do not need me or their real friends are around they will act like I do not exist. I am very caring and would take a bullet for anyone but I always seem to be the second choice and it hurts me so bad. I just need someone in my life, anyone. I have no family life, no social life, no nothing and I am going crazy because I love people!!! I am the girl who loves too much and doesn t get anything in return. I hate mysself so much someone plz respond

How far should a parent be involved in there kid's or teens social lives online?? Like passwords knowing who there talking too,etc.knowing what sites there signed up on.. Approving of friendships,etc..

A person who is consistently mean, angry, negative & obnoxious or A person who is really nice, friendly & down to earth at times and rude, snobby & stuck up in others.

My friend s best friend just left her because all she ever talks about negative things. It sounds bad but after being her friend for a little while more I see what she means. She only talks about boys or chisme and its really weighing down on me because I just want to talk about something else. She talks alot but never listens.

Ok so we were selling items for $500 online and she wanted a $100 just to post it .. I was thinking $25, 50 tops. What sounds fair to you ?

I live with mother, I'm a 58 yo male, no friends or lady friend, I work from home as an accountant so I never go out, please assist me