Yes, I know. I never intended on developing feelings for him, but we've known each other for 2 months and get along so well. We just have such chemistry. The worst part is, I have a boyfriend while he has a wife. I can tell he's got the hots for me, too. He was training at my job's location to be a manager at his location and he left my location a week ago. He's literally been up to my location at least 3 times since he left. He even came by today on his day off to return some things he borrowed from our store and he borrowed some more stuff, so I know he'll be back again within the week. He seems to be jealous of my boyfriend. He has made it pretty obvious several times. Today, when he came by, my boyfriend just happened to be there as he showed up unexpected and got to eat lunch with me while I was on my break. The married guy kept an eye on us when he was around. Later in the day, I "poked" him on FB (by the way, I added him on FB the night of his last day and he accepted it immediately). I poked a couple other friends, so it wasn't just him. He never responded. This evening, I posted a status joking around that nobody "poked" me back. He commented "Poke" 15 minutes later. How do I stop being infatuated when he will undoubtedly keep finding reasons to come by my job's store? I am almost 28, he's 41. Hey Anon., my boyfriend knows me and this man flirt. Just saying. Also, the relationship is new. I've known the married man longer, to be honest. Of course I really like my boyfriend and care a lot about him. We aren't having sex because we have agreed to wait until marriage (despite the fact that we both have had sex before). I can't lie. I have a high sex drive, despite everything, and sure I'd love to have sex with this man, but I'm not going to.

I am tired . I live with my ex husband and I am a stay at home mom of 7 kids we currently live in a two bedroom trailer . Well my 6 kids go to school and I am home alone with my son who s 2 well I barely get any sleep cause I am up with one or more kids while he sleep he works 7pm to 7am and 7am to 7pm he gets home he ear shower and sleep I get maybe 2 hours of sleep and he expects me to stay up while I am beyond exhausted and watch if they get up in the middle of the night he bitched about the kids eating his snacks are soda but yet he doesn t even pay for the items and I have to get up every morning at 5am and get 6 kids ready for school and. Today my 2 year old son got into pancake mix and I cleaned it up. But get bitched out for the house being a mess I am trying my best but he called me a lazy *** and all he does is play on his phone playing game and doesn t help only care about his material belongs and I can t keep a eye on them 24/7 when I am trying to clean up but yet u can take my money every month and my food stamps card and rush me to go food shopping by giving me 15 min I can t keep going Threw this I need to get a place of my own for me and my kids

My mother in law decided she wanted to stay over for the week end. she lives in the city so she can come and go as she pleases. And when she comes she causes problems each time. we have 4 bedrooms. One for our new born, a guest room where my mom sleeps right now our bedroom and our son's room. My mom came from overseas And is helping with the baby. His mom lives in the city. and she never helps unless there is money involved. she was here the baby was just born and we were sleeping on the couch in the living room because it was comfortable for me at the time. he invited his mom over and decided that she would sleep on our bed and I was informed at the last minute. When she left I moved back to our room. This week she is coming back because her son won some money at those sports games(FanDuel). She says that she misses our kids. But he has the nerve to ask me if it was ok to sleep on the couch with our baby and let her sleep on our bed on her own. Just because he sees my mother in a room of her own. I felt offended and let him know I Would not allow that. At worst we could have shared the room but I was not going to go sleep on the couch and give her our bed when she lives in the city. she knew there was no space why decide to come here now? He compared it to the fact that it would be different if my mom was in that predicament but I made him understand that it was not the same. I'm not against her coming but why move us to the couch so she can sleep on our bed by herself?

Why are men who are the most controlling the least caring? If they don't care for their partner's feelings or have respect for them, why bother going through their phone or giving them a curfew or whatever other controlling behavior they do. I'm just learning now that "you belong to me and no one else" doesn't equate to passion. I always thought a super protective, obsessive man was a sign of affection and admiration. His car by my house or showing up at random places- these concepts STILL don't freak me out because it's engrained in me that it's love. I obviously know better but it's still bugging me that I believe it even now. How do I stop? How do I realize it's not love ?

I have asked him before not to do this he will pop up and use our child as an excuse to come here when he wantsalso I am now seeing someone he doesn't know that but he eventually he's going to pop up and the person that's going to be here in the ceilings are going to be hurt another thing is he has a pregnant girlfriend at home so I don't understand why he keeps popping up unannounced here using our child as an excuse telling me he loves me. What should I do and why does he keep doing this?

So I have this one teacher who is technically not my teacher anymore but he used to teach me , but anyways he is pretty young and he is married. He is a very Godly and preaches about Jesus ALL the time. However he has shown interest in me because during lunch he kept glancing over me and could not take his eyes off of me the whole time , which actually made me feel very uncomfortable although he is attractive . He would also constantly show up where I was and be at random places throughout the day where I happened to be , which I also thought was weird. I recently found out his wife and he are expecting which kind of took me by surprise. Ever since I found that out , I haven't seen him around. So can someone please explain that whole situation to me? Am I exaggerating this whole thing?

Some points they would make it obvious that they are hitting on me despite claiming that they are married. I'm not someone who dresses provocatively or acts in any way to welcome this type of behavior. I get that some people are unhappy in their marriage but it's strange when it happens on more than one occasion.

-22 (F), virgin I watch porn atleast three four days a week I don't do fingering or insert any object. Just watch a video for 5 to 10 min until I reach orgasm and then I close my laptop. I think I have a very high sex drive. The problem is my family is religious we believe in sex after marriage. I can't control so I watch porn. I know watching porn is a sin too but for now I don't have any other option. What should I do to get rid of this habit? I can't marry anyone just to have sex. Plz give me some other advice.

I have a successful career, a healthy dating and romantic life, I travel, I've done it all, but I just turned 30 and still no husband. I feel like it's time to start a family, but there are NO MEN AVAILABLE! This is getting old. My friends tell me to stop taking the pill and just let a guy get me pregnant and don't tell him about it, but that would defeat the purpose. I want a husband as well because I need to be able to take a break from working. In fact, I'm ready to stop working all together cause my job is stressful. But none of my dates are interested in marriage, only sex. And don't even TRY to discuss children with these guys! They won't even answer your text after you mention the C word to them! Where can I find a man who is ready for marriage that isn't already married?

How can I do this anonymously without getting caught? He is very mean to me if I'm not paying attention to him. He is stalking me from a Google voice number.

While out at a hunting camp years ago, he and I were alone for 3 days. One night while waiting to fall asleep, he put my hand on his hard dick and I started stroking it. He immediately asked me to suck his dick which I did and liked it. This started a one year sexcapade between he and I. I was his bottom because he was big down there. Never did I feel gay nor was I attracted to men. He and I just had a close bond and we both had racing hormones. We are now both married with kids and never had sex with any other men and we are both still attracted to women. I do fantasize about how nice it was to feel him inside of me. It was some of the hottest sex i ever had. So my question is, HOW COMMON IS THIS WITH TEENS getting each other off?

I been dating another girl for 11 years and we both are very happy we got together very young. I would like to propose but I do have in mind her parents are against gay people and her parents are gang members. Do I have to ask her parents for permission or can we just let them know and have a peaceful marriage on our own?

I don't want to get married or have kids or be in any form of any sexual relationship.

I found out recently that my husband would get me off during sex than he would masturbate 2 porn secretly. I had no idea for months on end. He would not lock the door or disappear. He would sit on the couch in the living room w a blanket covering his penis and masturbate. I had no idea. But he prefers 2 finish 2 whatever the hell is on his cell phone instead of me. What is it? Porn or an actual woman? Told him i knew bc i kept finding towels and he says he was never masturbating 2 porn and denies it. He has my mind so messed up over this. What is he doing and why?

My wife and I have a shared checking account but she is better with the bills ans so I never saw it and my wife is my partner and I totally trust her. Now she changed to a bank in which I have my own account and I am now linked to this shared account and can now where the $$$ os going and there are some questions I'd like to ask her for example she is paying some of my son's bills- true he needs help but she could have told me . Does she have a right to know I can see this account now or should I keep my mouth shut.

So my dad just joined FB, he's 55, so no other social media. I think part of the reason he did it is because him and his gf have a baby on the way, so it'll help with showing pics off and stuff like that. I noticed his top 5 friends are 1) his current gf Rita, whom he's having a baby with. 2) His oldest daughter Joleen, who's married and has 2 kids. 3) The last woman he had a baby with back in 2016, Melissa. 4) Katie, the woman he had a baby with in 2013. 5) Jill, his second wife, whom he has two kids with (my half sisters, they're 17 and 16 and he divorced Jill back in 2005. I had asked someone else why aren't his other kids like me not on there. They think its probably because he has child support to pay to those two other women and the kids he has with them are younger and he likes to keep up with them.

For those who don't know my story I'm going to do a tl;dr sum up real quick: Met online, pregnant before marriage, married and had 1920's style marriage. Stuff went down, she became disillusioned of marriage and gave ultimatum, I obliged but became disillusioned too. We love each other but all that fairy tale stuff that childhood primes you to believe in is gone: no "in love", no tension, no admiration, no fondness, no magic, nothing. It's all objective with absolutely no fantasy/subjectivity. Our marriage is a partnership to survive objectively, despite having two children now who both are very creative and subjective in their approach to life (being primed for that fairy tale ending like everyone else). Anyways, so since we figured out that marriage is a social/economical/government construct and it's real role is supposed to give this feeling of a milestone progression towards heaven or "success", and ever since the ultimatum, our marriage has become all about the children. My wife doesn't want a relationship. She wants to raise our kids, go travelling, and retire so she doesn't have to work any more. I'm not even in the picture except to help raise the kids, pay for her travelling (and sometimes go with her), and to keep working while she's retired. That's not much of a life for me. So I guess what the question here is: Should I allow creativity and subjectivity and the lies of social constructs back into my life/marriage? Everything seems so meaningless without it.

She is divorcing him and he is playing victim and seeing someone now.

He always accused me of being the one who is cheating. We've been long distance almost half a year now. Months later he was in a suspicious situation but said nothing happened. I believe him because he is an honest man. But I couldn't help but feel betrayed. Which caused me to stray, I started getting attention from a male in my similar situation. Fast forward to today he just told me he cheated yesterday and that we're both doing "our own thing". He texted me saying have fun with the next man, peace. I feel so stupid, but I don't want to lose this man & we have only been married for 2 months now. We have been arguing for almost a month now, over me being accused. & how "untrustworthy" I am. What should I do.

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