That happens to be my dad's birthday.

I decide to crapping when my gramdparents weren't home for a walk, so the crapper was clogged of my shìt even i flushed 10000 time, I started to panic and i grabbed the shìt i ran like a cat out of the house and i threw the shìt in the trees and the nature but I didn't realize that the cat was there!!! the cat Always run from me so i wasnt surprised..what do you think?

I've been on and off with my son's father. We had a rocky year, he started using drugs then spent the summer in jail then got out on a two year probation. As far as I can tell he hasn't been using but I can't seem to trust him anymore. We're not on bad terms, he still sees are son every now and again but he doesn't contact me as much now and I feel as if it's time to move on because he claims he's moving to California. The issue is that I'm worried that if I get another man in my life, my son will be confused or my new partner won't like him.

The situation: My older brother who is 30 moved out a decade ago from home, but because of his finance issues they live at home occasionally, but have no self conscious about how much he eat or drink and don't even pay for it. He reasoning it the same as a child - If it's available, I can eat from it, but pushing the reasons so far he even grab beverages or snacks from the parents room. We have THREE fridges, ones is mine because I used to live in dorm, but couldn't handle it due to medical reasons (which is why I live at home) but I pay for my own stuff and even try to suggest to buy extra to get rid of some of the burden of my brother. But it seems like my parents lost faith with situation of a spoiled grown up son, and keep refilling the fridges so they can also eat from it. Sometimes they spend like 100$ several times a week just because my brother eat everything up at night. My suggestion was to add a lock on my fridge and store the extra there as a back up. But they find it "unfair" or childish. I can understand if this was about a kid or teenager growing up, but my brother is in his 30´s and since I know it won't solving the problem by NOT buying the stuff (other people need to eat you know?), would you agree this suggestion would be childish? Yes my English is my second language. I'm 29 years old and pay rent (including food) as I've a medical condition (severe anxiety) but I'm not longer a "child". I am just trying to HELP my parents cause I'm also affected by it. ALL they do about the situation is yelling at each other, throwing threats like divorce, suicide etc just because they can't stop buying the extra as everyone in the house is affected by it. He also borrowed about 5000$ but waste his income on fast food and car fuel. It was my fridge I was suggesting to lock though. They borrowed it to store eggs and milk (like 10 packages, he drink 3/day).

They just wanted to finish their tv program and as I went to go upstairs they were like, oh that was good news wasn t it, good to hear. It was my masters degree from a top uni and they haven t really seemed to care. Am i being sensitive or expecting too much?

does anyone have any advice on what might help....perhaps someone who has been through this before

please don't judge me for asking this i just really lost right now. So i'm a teen nie but this happen when i wasn't even 10 yet. I was very young at the time. Atleast 6-9 i'm not sure ! I was at my cousin house. She had a bunch of kids. But they was all different ages, but i hung out with her 1 of daughter who was a bit older than me and her friends. After i was tired being outside with them i went inside. Her son who was older than me ask me come up stairs, so i did . I did because i use to hang around him sometimes because i thought he was a cool cousin to have . We was just playing on the computer and he ask me to come in this other room, and i did. Once we was in the room he opened the closet door and told me to get in. He said we was just playing a game. So i did, like the dummy child i was ;( . He told me pull my pants down. Remember he was older than me and i was very young. My mother at the time haven't taught me about sex or stuff like that just yet. I pulled my pants down and he did also. He told me just turn around . ... He enter inside me and that hurted. He did anal on me. He asked me did it feel good and i didn't say nothing. He stopped. It DIDNT last for atleast 1-2 probably. I'm not even sure if i can call it rape ! I'm so mad at myself because i didn't know that what we did was wrong! I really didn't ! I'm not even sure to call myself a virgin because of this sh*t!! I'm so upset !

Okay, I'm a junior in high school, and my regular English teacher recommended me for AP English Literature. I told my parents about it. My dad was very proud of me, but my mom refused, saying that I was "too stupid" for AP English. She emailed my teacher and told her to put in regular English. Now, each week, she gives me extra English homework to do. For example, each week we have to read 50 pages in our novel/book, answer questions, do a grammar and a vocab lesson, and occassionally do some simple research. My mom makes me answer more questions and watch online videos relating to the book we read. And what sucks is that I must do the homework she gives me first, and then do my school's homework. Please help me convince my mom to let me switch over to AP English. I took the diagnostic AP Lit exam, and I would have scored a 46/100, considering most of my peers in ap lit only scored a 29/100. @Pearl L you write really generic answers, shut up or help me with my f*cking problem

Family is driving me crazy!

I have been dying for five years now. I have come to hate this life in this system of things. I have come to have no hope. Remember the real Michael and not this loss soul. He is 16 and has OCD, Aspergers and Generalized Anxiety with Depression.

Her father and I separated just over 3 months ago, he has sole care of his son who lives with him who my 5 year old daughter adores. She adores her father and loves being at his 2 nights a week. She never wants to come home to me though. I've tried so hard over the last few months to make staying with me as fun as possible (taking her to theme parks, lots of play dates, buying her things, re decorating her room) but it's just not working. She cries every time she comes home wanting to go back to her dads. I feel to give up. I feel so useless and helpless. She told me once she wants to go back to her family (meaning her father and stepbrother) which made me think who am I then? Do I give in and let her live with him? Or do I carry on fighting for her love?

As man. Cause I'm a mama's boy. I still want to be seen as her baby

For financial reasons my mom and I moved in together to split the bills. That seems to work well for both of us. The problem is I have activities I do such as quiling groups; I teach crochet classes; Dr assortments; and church activities. I m gone from the house about 3-4 days a week. When I m gone it s for about 4 hours. My mom nags at me that I m always gone blah, blah, blah. She acts like she wants me to stay home with her all day and watch TV with her. It s not that she wants to go to because I invite her. I ask is she needs the car and she says no. She just wants me to stay home too. I don t understand what is going on about that.

I have toxic parents. My dad drinks almost every night. My mom and I often end up fighting because she is extremely critical and puts me down a lot (has called me fat, a moron, etc.) and my patience is short after a long day of studying (i am in med school and stay on campus until as late as I can so I don't have to go home- i don't feel comfortable there) it becomes a yelling match with harsh words (things never get physical). My dad (who's drunk remember) gets mad at my mom because she's being mean. My parents start fighting and then my mom blames me for my parents fighting ( you don't know when to keep my mouth shut, look what you did now- is a typical response). I have to live at home because my parents are paying for my schooling and i am grateful for their financial support, i don't get much else from them. at 23 my mom still says "let me look at you" before i leave the house almost everyday "because she wants to hug me goodbye" but always ends up looking me up and down and often with a comment (don't wear that headband, put your hair up/down, whats wrong with your makeup, you name it). she is most critical of my appearance and also my schooling. she makes me feel guilty that my parents sacrifice a lot to pay for my school and i am ungrateful, not getting good enough grades (I am passing all my classes), make me feel bad if I'm ever not studying, etc. I still have to ask permission if i want to go out even though I'm an adult. i know this is a lot thank you for reading sorry this is long but any thoughts/advice is appreciated. I have told them i am severely hurt by them (crying to them many times) and my dad blankly looks at me like I'm crazy and my mom gets mad and yells and says she loves me but she's trying to help me IT DOESNT HELP!!! I have suffered a lot of emotional consequences because of our relationship even before i moved back home but i thought i could deal with it "now that I'm an adult they'll respect me" NO. HOW DO I DEAL WITH THIS AND SET BOUNDARIES THEY DO NOT LISTEN TO ME OR RESPECT ME

Hey, so I am a 26-year-old guy and I think I may be slightly depressed, but let me explain why. In January of 2017 I met my current girlfriend and we have basically been together for almost 2 years, and we have had a rocky relationship simply because of a lot of things that I've done and now she is pregnant by me. I've known all of my life that I wanted to be a dad, and just the thought of that makes me happy, but I'm not happy. I'm not happy because our relationship isn't in good standing, her mom hates me, her family hates me, and she might even hate me. On top of that I can't hold down a job for the life of me, and I was evicted out of my apartment earlier this year and forced to move back in with my parents at 26. Plus right when I finally get a really good job, I then do something to get myself fired from that one too. Now I'm broke, back living with my parents and have a baby on the way, and my relationship with her is really crappy. I get even sadder because I just hate being back with my parents. I really just don't wanna be here. I wanna have my own place again but I'm an idiot that can't keep a job and has an eviction on his record now so it's gonna be super hard to get an apartment anyway. I just don't know what to do. I feel like I've failed at everything and at this point I don't even know how to pick myself back up. I have a baby on the way and that's motivation for me to get things right. Stop losing jobs and take things more seriously. I don't know anymore.

I'm ******* 17 and my little brother has started to sleep with me again! It's not my decision it's my moms and there is nothing I can do about it and it gets me mad... so it's getting cold where I live and my dad always sleeps in the inside porch (It's like a storage room) (because it's nice, big and cold there) and because my mom sleeps alone, she makes my little brother sleeps next to her. But now that it's getting colder outside and the porch doesn't have a heater my dad doesn't want to sleep there anymore and wants to sleep with my mom but the problem is that she then sends my little brother to sleep with me. I'm ******* 17 why can't I have my own ******* privacy and that's not the worse part since her excuse is that "It's his room 2" she puts stickers of minions around the room and there is toys all over the ground and my bed sheets have minions on them like WTF CAN I ******* DO I CANT HAVE FRIENDS OVER BECAUSE MY ROOM LOOKS LIKE A 7 YEAR OLD ROOM I LEGIT ONLY HAVE LIKE 3 THINGS THERE AND THE REST IS ******* TOYS AND **** IT LOOKS LIKE A ******* DAYCARE THE CLOSET IS FILLED WITH TOYS AND HALF OF HIS CLOTHES PLEASE HELP ME IM TIRED OF THIS I CANT INVITE MY GIRL FRIEND THAT I REALLY LOVE OVER BECAUSE OF THIS!!!!! I'm sorry for that, I'm just so ******* mad and yes, I am very thankful to god that I have my room and stuff but c mon man, this is unbelievable idk what to do and again I am thankful for my stuff but what do I do? Please help pleaseeeeee

Me and my cousin are arguing about it smh

Ever since my mother went through menopause her personality has completely changed. She has no patience for anything (Gets angry waiting in lines or a package to arrive), gets into this grouchy moods where she snaps at everyone insulting them. She'll have episodes were this is magnified ten fold. She has thrown things at my father and brothers (we're all legal age attending college) and has tantrums we're she'll sit in bed hysterically crying demanding we do something for her (go shopping or do half of the laundry for her) and then scream for hours while we're doing what she asked and after we're done doing it. These episodes can last for hours or days. She wake us up to scream at us calling us drug dealers and prostitutes for talking on the phone or arriving from school a little late or my dad when he comes home from work. My brothers have gotten sick of it and refuse to do anything more until she stops screaming at everyone. My father is of the idea that this is something due to her menopause since this started with that and we should just do what she says as a means to support her despite all the verbal abuse. The same day he said this my mom threw her keys at him for coming home 10 minutes late and accused him of cheating on her and threatening to call his job and tell his boss. I think my brothers have the right idea that her behavior has a limit and this needs some intervention. My dad thinks their being unsympathetic to our mom and should just deal with it.

So my mother fairly recently separated (not legally divorced yet) from my father after 25 years of marriage. My father and mother had been having marital problems for the last 2 1/2 years. One night, my mother had enough and she just up and left. She told my father that she regretted starting a family with him and regrets having her children. All I know is that she got an apartment and hasn't visited my brother and I for months. She doesn't call, either. I don't think she doesn't want to be in our lives. I just think she feels like she let us and our entire family down. When I'm with my younger brother, who doesn't understand what's exactly happening, I don't talk to him about her. Should I contact my mother, or should I let her have space? What do I say to her when we inevitably talk? How do I also deal with the dulling pain in my heart?

What would you do and how would you feel? I do not condone any act of violence.