So my dad and his 28 yr old gf Rita, went on vacation to Hawaii. She posted some pics of them. In some of them she has a bikini on and has a pretty decent body. They're not R-rated pics or anything bad. There are a couple more of her with some other women and one of her in a bikini at what looks like a pool party. My dads ex gf whom he has an 8 yr old son with just got all bent out of shape with him seeing those pics online. I told her it's nothing bad, just a good looking woman in a bikini!

So he has this disease where sometimes not enough blood will go to his brain and he'll momentarily forget how to speak. Well it go to the point where he won't be able to speak ever again. So he's now mute. What do I do?

I live in a house with my hubby, a female friend, and for the past 5 months, her bf. Back in spring, her and this guy hung out a bit, and he slowly started spending more time at the house till they were officially a 'couple'. At that point, he lived at our place full time. He doesn't pay rent or even part of it and has 3k in savings, and only buys pot if she halves the bill...and she is not allowed to smoke without him otherwise he accuses her of wasting his money and doing things without him (but he smokes hers without her if she purchased it). The same sort happened when I took her to a concert for her birthday...he texted her over and over about how she abandoned him, how he wasn't invited. How she is a bad person. She was a mess the whole concert cause of it. Recently he had the idea of buying a Cajon for her son who he says looks like he has ''autism'' and needs a ''musical outlet''. My roommate told her bf that ...in time, it'd be a good idea, but not now. Her bf bought it anyway despite what she said, gave it to her son, and then told her that she owed him $$ for the Cajon... Recently I was looking for a top that I knew ended up in her laundry. She had texted me from work saying to "look over the door in my bedroom". When I did, her bf asked if he could help, and when I told him that she said it was in her bedroom he went "wait.. she said HER bedroom? Not OUR bedroom?!" I had to quickly fix it to "the" bedroom so he wouldn't freak. The next day he talked about how, because he doesn't have a lot of stuff, he won't help his gf pay for a storage unit and said the reason is cause "I live by the modo 'don't do for others what they can do for themselves''. So skip to last week. Me and my hubby got a UHAUL to move my roomies furniture into the unit. It was raining, and it was night. Her bf claimed he was too ill to help, and didn't want to risk hurting himself since he didn;t have insurance..so me and my husband helped her load (FYI, he was perfectly healthy for a week after, active, energized..but claimed he was still severely ill with a fever and chills) That night he posted publicly on Fb (verbatim) "someone wanted me to move their furniture in the freezing cold rain while sick with a fever. Well it didn't work. Some people can be so f____g stupid". That set my husband off, which doesn't happen often, so he replied "someone should be grateful that they are living in a house rent free instead of out in said freezing cold rain. Some people can be so f____g stupid" Skip to last night, me and my husband saw that my roommate was sleeping on the couch and her bf was in her bedroom. I didn't assume anything till I asked her the next day and she told me that she accidentally fell asleep on the couch while watching TV. She then, in the middle of the night, woke up, went into her bedroom to sleep (with him), he wasn't there, she laid down, he came back to bed and saw she was laying in his spot, he then laid on the couch instead. When he woke in the morning, he came to the bedroom to see she was putting on her socks over his side of the bed and he freaked out and left. 10 min later he showed up at my roommates place of work, demanding to see her so he could give her her keys. The coworkers said they would take her keys and for him to leave (they had her back). She peeped her head out of hiding from the back room, he saw her, and in front of all the customers he yelled "see? this is what you get you f___g b__h" and then threw the keys at a coworker and left. He immediately started texting mutual girl-friends before he even left the mall for hook up. He proceeded to text her about how she is selfish, only thinks about herself, doesn't put out when he wants to be affectionate with her, how she is the "only person in the world with problems" (pretty sure he repeated that phrase over and over ) and she would refute the claims or apologize only for him to use her responses as proof that he is right. He then blocked me, my guy, and her..however found out through various friends that he proceeded to trash talk her all over FB. Posting screen caps of their convos to prove to others that she is insane..just relentless stuff that is spreading like wildfire. He is now messaging her in a more ..controlled, mature, and concerned tone telling her that he cares deeply about her well-being, but she is too broken for him to deal with...but he thinks that she needs professional help because of her 'mental illness', and posts links to help-hotlines and websites. What a d__k. I understand this is a long rant, and I am sorry. But I am hoping that you guys will read this and give me feedback cause I genuinely care about the fact he is doing this. He is physically gone, great, but he the fact that he is doing this is NOT okay. Why would he do all this only to talk to her in the end like she is some pitiful broken person who needs some TLC?

Its been 3 or so weeks since she ended things with me. My first relationship and my first love and I just can t do anything to feel happy. I have tried doing what I would usually do, meet friends, even met a girl for a date and my mind just keeps going back to her. I haven t been in contact with her as she completely erased me from her life and the last time we spoke she admitted that she probably wasn t in love with me, even though she said it first and said it even a few days after she ended it. I feel like I m hitting an all time low and really can t handle it. My body is restless, my heart hurts, my mind is telling me to do things I d never think of doing to myself and I just wish I felt different. Any advice really would be helpful, I m clutching at straws now.

I was able to call out of work today no problem. I have two days where my neighbor asked me to walk her dog and she is paying me $15 a walk. Anyways, i have to walk today and was able to call out of work. I have sick hours 27 which would now be 22 on my next check and I do not mind using them (my job been screwing me over lately all my co workers been telling me ). Here is the problem my neighbor asked me to walk her dog 10/12 6pm-8pm and 10/14 between 6pm - 9pm. I didnt realize I was working. Normally I get fridays off but not anymore since a coworker transferred to another store location since she moved. My dad offered to walk the dog on Friday but this is my problem and I want to figure this out on my own. What do I do? Im not trolling here i really need help as this is my problem. My neighbors already left to go on vacation and i know their daughter is home but she wont be home the times I was asked to walk their dog. Should I call out again those two days coming up or see if I can get a coworker to either take my hours or I switch with them? I work part time retail. I didnt know the hours would conflict. I am used to Fridays off and working Sunday mornings but not anymore I guess.

I feel like I don t owe her an apology and she s just a big brat and my dad deserves much better. My dad says I should be the better person and just apologize for the sake of it.

My boyfriend & I have been dating for ~1 year & a half. I love him a lot, but dont feel emotionally satisfied. To him, not contacting all day, not calling 2 at least say goodnight, not saying kind things once in a while to to keep the romance are not a big deal. He thinks he can do bare minimum but its ok cuz "I should know he rly loves me" But I need better communication/romance! Particularly cuz we r doing lost distance for a period right now Ive had NUMEROUS sit-downs w/ him explaining my expectations for a partner & hes great for ~2 weeks then goes back to his ways. Ive acted upset, but the most it lasts is half a day. I ALWAYS pick up, give in, & forgive him immediately. Got 2 the point that he joked around once saying "you would never leave me!" 2 days ago he went another few days w/ bare minimum contact & same excuses as always.."work was crazy/came home & crashed" (He is a surgery resident doctor. I understand he isn't lying & a loyal man. The surgeries do wear him down) But in a relationship, you cant constantly neglect your partner due to work Last night I finally said "i am done." He wouldn't allow it. We compromised to have a break so I can think I dont want to leave him. Just scare him so he gets that he might lose me & take my emotions more serious. He gave me a day & called again. I didnt answer. We are in day 2 now How long should I wait & how should I go about it when I finally talk to him? I dont mean to be immature, but he needs a little shake

My family doesn't like my uncle because of things he does. I'm not allowed to talk to him My aunt's and mom doesn't let there kids talk to him either. I talk to this guy because I pretty much like everyone i don't really have anybody that I don't like or anybody who really doesn't like me. I'm the only person that talks to him out of my family. I've been told to not talk to him countless times. My mom said to stay out of grown men's face because I am a child. Lamest excuse i can go to any one else in my family that is grown and she has no problem with it. I'm also going to grow up to be a man so, I don't know what the problem is. He invited me to a movie night with his kids . I can come over. I want to just drive to his house and hang out with him. I don't have to tell my mom but that is dishonest and kinda like lying. What should I do?

Like people who are above me.