Girlfriends parents are meeting my mum Saturday morning for breakfast with us. I don't have a dad really I'm not on good terms with him. I feel abused

My uncle has manipulated my grandma into buying alcohol drinks for him, when we were at a restaurant for him and his girlfriend, when his girlfriend has a job, she could've brought money. . Grandma would rarely get on to my uncle if they stream stuff 24/7 so loud you can hear it downstairs, but she'll get on to me, a few couple of times for 'loud' music, or something on my phone, but I don't do it on purpose . My uncle has ran up a bill, by streaming a lot, and expects grandma to pay for it . My uncle is an alcoholic person when he's around certain people, but he is a different person, when he is not drinking . My grandma cannot tell him no, in most situations, she can't even kick him out of the house. So what is going on here?

My fiance s sister is always throwing jabs at me for no reason and my fiance allows it. When I defend myself, he will just say "be nice to each other," as if I m the one at fault. I believe in treating people the way that you wanted to be treated, so I try to ignore her comments to the best of my ability, but sometimes it is hard, so I snap back at her. However, the other night I invited my aunt to go eat with us, but as my fiance was giving directions to the restuarant to my aunt, his sister yells out loud "Can we go now, I want to go!" In the rudest tone. So my aunt asked his sister what was wrong with her, but my fiance just said "oh, nothing is wrong with her." Instead of correcting her behavior. I told him that I don t appreciate her talking to my aunt that way, and he needs to tell her something, but he said "no." Which made me so angry. Should I be this mad about the situation? Also, his sister is 18 years old, so she knows right from wrong.

i would rather she spend her time with other girls so she won't get pregnant and ruin her life. my plans for her completing college will be dashed if she winds up saddled with a baby.

Last night, my dad and stepmom were in a car accident. My stepmom didn't make it, and my dad is in critical condition. I'm next of kin (I'm 26) so I was notified. Together, they have a 3 and 7 year old. Both parents have family that live outside the country, who my siblings have never met. They live in Jacksonville Florida, I live in Fort Walton Beach Fl. Because of my dad's condition, I'm concerned that I may need to raise my siblings. That's completely not a problem. My question is what is the process of doing this? My other parents live in North Georgia and have never met these siblings, so I'm not sure if it would be in the best interest of the kids. I'm just not sure how all this works and would appreciate any information. I'm going to speak with my manager about this tomorrow because I currently work 11 hours a day at odd shifts, and my husband works night shifts in the military. So of course, raising children this young with those hours will be difficult. I have considered quitting/loa just so I can get everything situated, but it's just a lot of moving parts and I want to be able to make this work

I've been dating my girlfriend for almost 3 years. She is great with my children and will do anything she has the power to in order to make life easier for all of us. My family used to like her and even employed her at their business until we found a place 20 minutes away and moved there. Now that my mother feels she can't control my life, she takes it out on my gf instead of me. She outright bullies her, but my gf doesn't say or do anything because she doesn't want to strain my bond with my mother. My mom even went so far as to try to tell her father that my gf said she didn't have one when everyone knows her dad is basically her best friend. Two months ago, we found out we're expecting. My family has offered me and the kids several paid for trips, but my gf can't come. I decided to eat Thanksgiving with her family this year when my mom called and offered me a chance to take the kids to the Caribbean. Once again, my gf is not invited. I said I'd think about it and my gf got mad. She feels that by going, I am giving my family permission to disrespect her further especially since they know she's pregnant and would have to spend the holiday without us. Now my gf is upset. How can I fix this without causing more bad blood and, most importantly, not hurting her?

last night she went out for drinks with her ex fiancé, she didn't come home and i had a softball game, two appointments in the morning. She didn't get home until 11am and i seen her walking up our front step porch with him and i locked myself into bathroom until he left. She made me miss my constellation for my wisdom teeth, and we barely made it to my chiropractor appt. She came to my game and i didn't talk to her at all. I feel no need to talk to her. Am i wrong for that?

I can't get a job im Anorexic

My husband's mother Joan (my mother in law) is beautiful and has a gorgeous figure. She sure does not look old enough to have a son my husband's age. Besides being beautiful, she is very smart, very talented, and very rich. I just adore her. She is a great friend, something my other married friends can not understand. They tell me "who is ever friends with their mother in law"? At least once a week she takes me shopping or to see a movie and/or then to a high end restaurant such as Ruth Chris for lunch or dinner. While shopping if I see something I like she will buy it for me. She will not let me pay for any of the restaurant meals we have. Next week we are going to Las Vegas to see a show we wanted to see and she is paying for the whole thing. I told my husband there is no way we can ever repay her for all the things she is doing for me. He told me his mom was the only girl in her family and she did not have any daughters so consider myself her adopted daughter. She is thrilled to have a female in her life to share herself with. He said she is happier that anytime in her life so just please continue to be her friend and if she wants to buy you things, let her. Please give me some advice on how I should feel about this. Should I feel guilty about all the great things she has done for me? Am I the luckiest wife ever?

So my mom had us very far apart. I am 23 and he is 40 today. Ever since I was born he started getting into drugs and crime. He has been in and out of jail. He has 3 kids who were taken away and one of them (the oldest) lives with me. He has stolen money from me and our mom countless times. He stole my video camera, bluetooth speaker, my moms cancer medicine when she was dying. I'm not sure if he is on drugs currently because I haven't spoken to him. I dont hate him but I don't have anything to say. Hes an addict and besides that he is so entitled and non caring, selfish. But the family has banned him. He isnt allowed over my house per my grandfather (grandmother sees him sometimes because understandably, she still loves her grandson) he wasnt allowed to go to our cousins funeral this year. I dont exactly forgive him but I have sympathy for him. Our mom did everything for him growing up. They were best friends. She was a great mom and while his dad was a loser he didnt have a bad childhood. So it's his 40th today and if things were different I would want him to have a big party as it's a milestone birthday....but instead hes just working and that's it. I feel bad I don't want him to think hes not cared about....but he has made his choices. Idk why I feel bad I just do :( And no, nothing he has done was ok. Our mother is gone now and the sh** he did to her hurts me so bad....

Everyone at my school has been talking about this person.

Hey, so I'm a teenager for starters and I have bad problems breathing in hot environments. My mother is an alcoholic who's always cold(even in 75-80°). She turns on our heating system to 90° in the middle of the night despite being the only one in the house who's cold and she refuses to just put on a jacket or wear jeans instead of leggings. Since my room is small, it heats up fastest. I always wake up and have to get out of my room just so I can breathe because I just can't breathe so much hot air. She doesn't care about anyone's health or sleep. It's only just getting to 60° now and I really don't want to live with this cycle for another 6 months that she has declared "super super cold". Also, we live in a hot dessert environment and in high elevations. Please tell me what I should do, I'm so sick of this.

Ok I know this will sound odd to most of you and I expect to be insulted for it but was just looking for opinions/advice. Im 34, female and have always lived with my parents. Ive been studying for the past few years and Ive just got a job (as a physio). I pay my mum £70 per week and I know that people say you are never fully independent until you move away but I feel I do everything for myself I mean I barely see them as when I get home from work I go straight out training (in sports). They say they don't mind me living with them and Ive never had a strong urge to 'get out/move away' which is probably odd. Similarly I've never had many friends and don't mind being on my own, I do most things alone. I'l often go to the cinema alone which Im half ashamed of but half enjoy it in a way. At the moment Im saving up with an help to buy scheme to get my own place but then in the back of my mind I think why not just live with parents, save up more and buy a holiday home or holiday cottage to rent out/go to when I'm off work. But I wonder is this a bad idea? Is it 'sad' that I actually don't mind living with parents?

If you are a victim of verbally abusive words from your family members, including your parents and older siblings,What would you do to them, and how will you build your life again to recover it? My father was an alchoholic, and my mom was always dipressed one who spend time all her alone. My older sibling got me to the toilet, and she hit my head with her hand, when I was just 6 years old. The another sibling also treated me like those ways. She ignored me whenever I wanted to go out with her, a

They're boyfriend and girlfriend not married. He's a really nice kid but sometimes I don't know I mean he's a young man but he acts like a kid. She told me that he was paranoid that people were out to get him and that he told her he'd never want to cheat on her and that he's just scared. His friends get concerned too because he talks about his death and I know he confesses everything to his gym bro. He's not a bad guy he's really sweet but I don't think he's okay. I don't think he's all the way there mentally. He's a stand up guy but something is up. Its my sister's choice so I can't tell her anything but is it wrong if she leave him when it's this bad. I really like him but it's getting ****** up. Our parents like him too but posting videos on Snapchat talking about "if I die". He needs help, I'm worried about him because he's really a good guy.

I had sex with my boyfriend 3 days ago, we used a condom! Our sex did mot last lomg, at all. He wore it and we did it for about 5/7 minutes and towards the end he noticed the condom slipped off. (He has a pretty small penis so, I guess it slipped off. Although, during the sex, he wasn't even penetrating me inside he was aiming bad. The 1st time he pushed inside was with the condom, the rest of times he tried penetrating he didn't even get into my vaginaa. I took a pregnancy test the day after I KNOW TOO EARLY... it said negative. Im going to take another one in 6 days. Do you think I am pregnant? How lomg should i wait? I homestly feel that the sex was too bad and he didn't even get inside of me at all for anything to spread. Of course I know anything can happen but what do you think?

Hi, I just want to know how do I start a proper conversation with my dad...I suppose I have to share the situation first. Here I go, my mom and dad divorced three years ago, for the first year and a half we would have conversation every single day after he moved out. So when my mom got married, a year later we stopped knowing about him, he even changed his phone number. My brother was upset about it and my grandmother (My dad's mother) didn't want us to know anything about him. Now after year of not knowing anything about him, he appeared out of nowhere with the news that he was getting married, my brother is pissed since my dad is marrying my brothers ex girlfriend. They don't talk to each other, they've been having ugly arguments lately. I don't understand, I guess that's between them. I just miss dad and I want to have a healthy relationship with him. How do I start a proper conversation? I just, don't know how since he is very different.

So this year hasn't been so great for my family a bunch of things had happened just one after the other. Long story short my parents separated and my Grandma passed away 1month after that so my mom and I had to move out of our house 1 month ago and We were living with friends and my Husky was living with my sister we just got our own apartment. While I am thankful we found somewhere that would take our dog I just can't get over the fact that it's so different from our old house and I actually hate going to the new place ! It's a really nice apartment in a great neighborhood but I feel like I can't adjust to it! 1.its much smaller I had to give away over half of my clothes and other things ! 2. I don't like design of the place 3. I feel like I don't have any privacy ! 4. Constantly hearing the neighbors! I know these things seem trivial but how can I adjust better I feel so bad because my mom worked hard to find us a place to stay but when I get there I feel like I have an attitude and she definitely notices it

Just wondering if other people do this lol, it's pretty normal in my family but some say it's kinda weird so

Im not sure how to start this off, but I'm a very impatient person and angry. uh i got with my wife 2 years ago she had a 1 month old baby at that time. (But I love them both so much) And I know most of you are about to say "well why did you get with someone who had a kid" or some crap like that. But When he starts crying or being a fussy I get impatient and angry. I'm not sure why I'm like this , i was never liked this before until 3 months ago . I really don't know what triggered this but i need help maybe professional I'm not sure. But i can't keep living like this i can't keep being a complete jerk . I'm not looking for negative comments or smart a** comments. I'm just looking for any kind of help please,I'm desperate.

For personal reasons I no longer wish to carry my father's name. I will start the process of changing my last name in early 2019. What last name do you like the best? My current Surname is Moses What I'm thinking of: Moorehart Martinez Matthews Middleton First name Darren. Thank you in advance!

I've been crying nonstop. I am 14 years old so before I start, no I cannot move out (someone always suggests that). I do not receive much attention from my parents. Instead I am usually left behind all weekend while they spend time with my brother instead. They don't value my opinion or feelings at all. They make empty promises and insult me until I start crying. Just today me and my dad started fighting because I confronted him about it, and he told me that i basically was a loser and had no life or friends, etc. I started BALLING it in the car, tears were practically shooting out of my eyes I was so upset. Ever since that fight I can't stop crying in my room. I don't feel like eating. I don't feel like moving. I don't feel like doing everything. I've never felt so broken and hurt in my entire life. I know how he truly feels about me, and it makes me want to throw up. Please somebody help me or give me advice on what to do? I honestly have no idea what i should do about my parents or my feelings. (sorry if i made typos i had forgotten to fix them)

I want to leave the house. I have a problem of her just getting into my personal business a lot. Telling me what I should do or not do. Get married and blah blah. I told her I am planning to move to another state. She's making a big deal about it by crying and saying that why am I leaving her alone in this city? What the hell is wrong with her?

So I broke up with my bf I was with for a year cause he was abusive and started hanging with my friends and dating a new guy.My ex recently started lying about me causing everyone at school to hate me and I can't vent to my friends or new bf cause they're "busy" every second of everyday.My mom is the only one I can talk to but she recently started working so now I have no one and am starting to get depressed.I recently started thinking my aunt in Texas and about moving there with her so I can have a new start and be away from all the drama.So how do I convince my mom to let me move in with my aunt?And how do I convince my aunt to let me stay?

I have four brothers and I am the only daughter my mom has. My dad died when I was 1 years old and my mom decided to stay single and raise her kids as a single mom. Now all my brothers are married with kids. Instead of being happy with her life. She is after me finding someone. Of course I want to find love and settle down in life. But don't rush me. Mom acts like that is her only dream in life. Can't she find another dream of hers now. Does she think me getting married will give her happiness? she is still going to be lonely in life because she don't have a partner of her own. So I don't know why she's obsessed with my own life of settling down. How to tell her to leave me alone? Actually her pressure is even making me put off and don't even want to settle. She's trying to hook me with her friend's sons and all that. How to tell her that she's getting on my last nerve now?

I am an adult guy 31, have faults and flaws. Criminal background. But i try and be helpful, i am generally nice. No matter what i do, i am hated and blamed. If he ask me to do something, i don't say i can't. He yells if i disagree and defend myself. Though he doesn't say it, he is ashamed of me. I generally keep to myself. He sometimes randomly talk to me. If i talk to him, he isn't concern. Though i do live with parents, but if i call him, he ignores my call. And if he don't ignore my calls, he doesn't want to talk. And tells me he has something else to do. I deal with anxiety and depression, try and be happy. He talks to me when it's convenient for him, but if i need to talk to him he ignores me. He also holds grudges. He also left family at a point. I don't trust him, and though he doesn't say it, he hates me.