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- Question: My “friend” is blaming me for breaking his laptop?
- Question: How would you feel if someone sent your friend this message about you on Facebook?
- Question: I owe my best friend money?
- Question: What to do if my friend kills herself?
- Question: Should I rethink my friendship?
- Question: What's going on with him? What does this mean?
- Question: I never want to hang out with my friend??
- Question: How can you stop feeling anxious before going out somewhere? Can someone give me advice please?
- Question: What does it mean when a person reads your messages, even though they are upset?
- Question: On a scale of 0-100 percent, what are the chances that I impregnated my new lover?
- Question: I don't respect my friend. Time to cut ties?
- Question: My future will be a lonely one?
- Question: Is this an introverted trait? Or am I just weird.?
- Question: How do I slowly end a friendship but in a nice way?
- Question: I need help with this please answer?
- Question: Why does it seem like brothers are less likely to offer emotional support to girls in a relatable way?
- Question: Can a guy and girl stay friends after being intimiate for months?
- Question: I want to go to a concert but my dad won’t let me go without an adult. Is this a good plan?
- Question: Why am I always copied?
- Question: I’m falling in love with my best friend...what do I do?
- Question: I have a friend at school that absolutely hates me and therefore i hate her back. what are some good ways to get revenge on her?
- Question: Is this really a problem with MYSELF or is it an issue with the people saying it?
Question: My “friend” is blaming me for breaking his laptop? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 05:55 PM PDT After he bought his computer he asked me to help him find an antivirus program so I sent him Nava Shield (which is a troll/prank program) to install just because I was bored and felt like pranking him. Shortly after that I get a Skype call from him and the guy looks like he's gonna cry and he's saying that I gave him a virus and he can't get out of the pop ups and he doesn't know how to stop it. He hangs up and blames me for it (even though It was a prank) |
Question: How would you feel if someone sent your friend this message about you on Facebook? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 05:33 PM PDT "Listen I have a question I want to ask you, do you by any chance remember an this particular girl from school? If so what did you think of her? Me I've thought she was two-faced, at times she can be really nice, down to earth & friendly and in others she can be very rude, snobby & stuck up, I really did like her a lot when she was in a nice, down to earth & friendly mood." |
Question: I owe my best friend money? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 04:40 PM PDT So, my (soon to be ex) best friend said to me he wanted me to build him a keyboard. Around this time, he was starting to turn into an asshole. I accepted and he gave me the money to do this. I thought that he knew I'm not that good at this. So I finished the keyboard and the escape key does not work. I worked for hours and hours trying to fix it (keep in mind I have no salary). He said that I now owe him the money back. He threatened me that he would sue me if I didn't pay it back. Around this time, he started to change. He is sensitive and always points out what me and my friends say are "mean", when we're not even saying anything mean at all. If i were to play a video game with him and point out his mistakes, he would consider that incredibly harsh and mean. However, he never ever cared about the words that came out of his mouth. He's been very mean to me and my other friends. |
Question: What to do if my friend kills herself? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 03:45 PM PDT A friend of mine killed herself before I woke up, and it hurts to lose a friend forever. What should I do? Should I kill myself, should I talk to someone? :( |
Question: Should I rethink my friendship? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 02:39 PM PDT We have been friends for over a year, he started the friendship with me but I think there are some problems. There will be no contact unless I instigate contact either text, email or talking in person. I always plan the hangouts and am always the one to make the suggestion and when we do hangout it is very brief and he always seems to be in a rush to get home. Will make time for other friends but tell me he never plans anything and everything he does is spontaneous and when I am spontaneous he tells me he is busy. I hope I am not overreacting, I know the world doesn't revolve around me but I can't help feel a bit pushed aside. I have minor social anxiety and it is hard for me to make friends so without this friendship I will have no one else. (I am not overreacting here) What should I do? |
Question: What's going on with him? What does this mean? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 02:11 PM PDT We broke up about a year ago because we were fighting and arguing and his tense family circumstances didn't help as his brother was diagnosed with kidney failure. During the fight he said i didn't know how to treat a man because my parents were divorced and i hadn't seen a loving relationship like his parents. I then went on to say that his mom had no voice in their household. He attacked back saying "at least she didn't come to church dressed in club attire, arms and legs showing" I then responded which I shouldn't have "your mom looked like she came from the stable, you never buy her new clothes." Fast forward two months I saw him staring at me in church so I texted him but he said he would never forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again because of what i said about his mom. I didn't respond. Every Sunday in church he'd keep staring at me but I gave him cold looks and avoided his looks. He started smiling and talked to me as I went down the stairs saying hi how are you. I saw him peek through a door crack as he walked past to see if i was still looking at him. The other Sunday, he walked past me and smiled and I smiled back and he winked at me. Recently I've been warm to him looking at him and smiling. I texted him the other day and this how the conversation went. I asked about his brother then he asked me about school and when I get acceptance letters. Is he interested? Why isn't he making a move? |
Question: I never want to hang out with my friend?? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 01:50 PM PDT I've had this friend for about 9 years, we met when we were young. now we're both young adults and hanging out with him is dreadful... i feel bad because we've been friends for so long, but now whenever he wants to hang out i try to get out of it or plan it out so its only a few hours long at most, when we used to hang out all day.. what does this mean? is this bad or did i just outgrow him? is it time to drop the friendship? |
Posted: 04 Aug 2018 01:24 PM PDT I always feel anxious on the eve of the day and on the day when I have plans with my friends. I've been suspecting that it's because I might be worried about bumping into a fake friend I had and a boy I liked that she started going out with when me and him started talking. This fake friend had already done me wrong before but I had given them a second chance. Now that they're together even though she did me a favor by going out with him I might be afraid of bumping into them somewhere while I'm outside without even realizing I'm worried. I don't want to feel anxious anymore as it isn't good for both my physical and mental health and I certainly cannot let them take over my life and basically control it. What can I do to stop feeling anxious and go out like they're doing without worrying about them? Advice please!! |
Question: What does it mean when a person reads your messages, even though they are upset? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 11:06 AM PDT I got into an argument with someone the person has been reading my messages but doesn't reply. What's the point of reading them just to ignore? They don't get a notification they have to actually login to read the messages. |
Question: On a scale of 0-100 percent, what are the chances that I impregnated my new lover? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 09:56 AM PDT She said she's not on birth control. We have been doing it off and on between the 1st - 31st July. I came in her on the 1st July, then 7 days after, then 11 days after then 4 times after that at 3 day intervals. My semen was running a bit low on those last 3 days though, because i go two rounds each time we do it. Anyways, on a scale of 0 - 100 percent, how sure are you that she is pregnant. Im 26 years old and she is 22. Maybe you can answer based on experience? Or maybe an intelligent guess. Lol idk. Please dont be angry with me for asking this, I just like to know other people's opinion. Thanks. |
Question: I don't respect my friend. Time to cut ties? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 07:29 AM PDT She's always putting men before anything else and they're usually losers. I don't respect her anymore :( |
Question: My future will be a lonely one? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 06:59 AM PDT I'm 47. Only person I talk to is my mother. My other family members and other people are so busy with their life... they don't have time to talk to me. They think family reunion which take place once every 2 years is enough. After my mom dies, I won't have anyone to talk to. People and strangers are so mean. Some are very toxic. And men just want me to suck on their pp. Drama drama, people want to fight with somebody. That is really sad. Volunteering to work or to help someone... Why should I tired myself doing all of that? I don't wanna go to some stupid church. So many naive and gulliable there. Only thing fun to do is the trip to Walmart in Mississippi. What would you do if you're in my shoes? |
Question: Is this an introverted trait? Or am I just weird.? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 02:05 AM PDT I have this issue where I don't like hanging out in groups of three. You know the saying, three's a crowd? Well, every time I get invited out with friends, unless it's just two of us I usually say no. I find myself making excuses to avoid hanging out. Especially if it's with new people, or friends I'm unfamiliar with. Does this mean I'm not confident? Insecure about something? I'm just not a huge fan of making new friends. I'm perfectly content with the group of girls I already have. So, letting anyone new into my circle is tough. Mind you I'm 28, but most of the time i'd really rather stay home and watch Netflix than go out to drink at a bar. I like dogs better than people. I kinda find myself more boring as I age. But, I think mostly I just enjoy the attention of friends, and hanging out in larger groups tends to pull the attention away from me. Does any of this make sense? Why am I like this? Is it normal to be anti-social? |
Question: How do I slowly end a friendship but in a nice way? Posted: 04 Aug 2018 12:19 AM PDT |
Question: I need help with this please answer? Posted: 03 Aug 2018 11:27 PM PDT Okay so I'm a 26 year old female and I have a friend that's much older than me and I haven't been texting her first when she would text me because I have been depresssed so she texted me this morning and then I texted her back tonight and I told her I was sorry for not taking to her and for pushing her away and she said ok and that she said she was just giving me space and time but why did she say that when she was the one texting me first? And she's really busy and I feel like she's too busy for me so the next time she texts me i'm just going to tell her that I need some alone time. Is that okay to say? |
Posted: 03 Aug 2018 10:07 PM PDT I notice that girls in all-boys households are more likely to have that adventurous, fun relationship with the brothers. However, they don't seem to confide in certain things that sisters would. Most brothers do not talk about the "popular clique" in middle school or how they got through the drama. They don't explain first crushes in a way that two sisters would. The relationship is less personal, less relatable for some people. Instead, the girl is more likely to have those talks with their parents or with friends. |
Question: Can a guy and girl stay friends after being intimiate for months? Posted: 03 Aug 2018 08:19 PM PDT So I've known this girl for 7 months. I met her in college. We hooked up and messed around a good amount. She admitted into liking me several times and giving me hints to ask her out but I never did. She went to study abroad for a month and I kind of only reached out to her once while she reached out to me more. When she got back we got lunch and she gave me 2 gifts. Then we got dinner and i noticed she was a little distant so I decided to ask her out. She told me she could only offer me her "pure friendship" right now. And that when she was away she realized she wants to be alone. She told me she still thinks im attractive and that she's not talking to any guys. And she told me it sounds cliche but its more her not me. And just a month a prior (while she's in europe) she drunk texted me bascially saying she wants me... so thats just a little confusing. She told me she's not the type of girl to do friends with benefits. Which makes sense because she told me she isn't as sexual as most girls. Which is true because she is very inexperienced. So now were just friends I guess. But if we hang out just as "friends" wouldn't something happen? Especially because all weve been thru? And weve been thru/saw each other quite often. While she was telling me she doesnt like me anymore too she was holding my hand and resting her head on me... something she always did when we were together. |
Posted: 03 Aug 2018 07:57 PM PDT So basically I want to go to the shawn mendes concert with my friends but my dad won't let me go without someone who's 18. I will be 15 by next year and most of my friends will be 16. I have never done drugs or alcohol if that helps. So my dad is buying an extra ticket and I have to fill that ticket with someone who's 18 by next year or he said he would sell my ticket which I don't really think he'll do. So I made a plan: I never told him how many friends were going so what if I told him 1 less person and I use that extra ticket for myself and give the others to my friends? If that makes sense. Is this a good plan? Because I know it's great I'm just not sure how well he would react to me lying to him about the amount of people. I just wanna go to a concert with my friends and no adult. |
Question: Why am I always copied? Posted: 03 Aug 2018 07:45 PM PDT I am a twenty six year old woman and I've experienced this my own life. Why do other women copy me? Or people in general. I know this girl who copied everything I did from the way that I talked, dressed and my interest even my social media. Even popular woman have done the same thing. I know this incredibly popular girl that has a boyfriend who saw me, and he tries to do everything in his power to make her look like me. I always wear my hair in a bun.... now she wears her hair in a bun. I have a natural beauty mark under my lip.... now she wears a fake beauty mark under her lip. This girl and guy is popular, I'm a refusal person... what do they need to copy me for.... isn't having a big following enough. At work the females used to talk so much **** about me wearing makeup and coloring my eyebrows in....... now they are obsessed with make up. Smh This is weird I feel like I'm in the twilight zone. How do I handle this, it's annoying. Smh |
Question: I’m falling in love with my best friend...what do I do? Posted: 03 Aug 2018 07:33 PM PDT He's 14 I'm 15 ( I'm a sophomore he's a freshmen) we've been friends since we were 2! And over the past year I've really started to catch feelings for him. I want to be more than friends soon... but I don't want to tell him to soon and ruin the amazing friendship we have. We always hangout alone cus we have none of the same friends cus were in separate grades.Recently we went on a family vacation together because our families are good friends. We spent a lot of time together and I felt like our connection was kind of stronger then ever.When should I tell him how I feel? And what should I say? I'm just scared of the outcome and could use some help... |
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Question: Is this really a problem with MYSELF or is it an issue with the people saying it? Posted: 02 Aug 2018 12:57 PM PDT I've had 2 people tell me I'm "vague". One is one of my best friends. They've got in the habit of always trying to "correct" what I say. It feels like I rarely say the "right thing". They will say I'm being vague, tell me to elaborate more, or say I didn't word something properly (and then give examples of why what I said was "wrong" and how "everyone" views it the way they do). I can say absolutely NOTHING wrong and be pretty clear about whatever topic is at hand, yet they act like this. It often happens at random too and sometimes even causes them to start an argument with me. I hate arguments, so I usually just back off when that happens and avoid talking to them for awhile. A newer friend I haven't known long told me I'm vague a lot, act "mysterious" or jump between topics. I don't see what they mean really. Yes, I know sometimes people can get off topic. You might be talking about something, then one of you makes a comment and you start drifting into a different subject. That isn't always bad. But I don't purposely change a topic. I have no idea how I'm "mysterious". There are some things I just don't want to talk to certain people about. Since this is a newer person, I don't share a whole lot with them right now. Funny enough, another one of my best friends doesn't seem to have any issues with me. We have always been able to talk perfectly fine over the phone and in person. They've never "corrected" my wording or told me I'm vague. I was just wondering if I really do have bad communication skills, or if these two people are just being rude. I try to be careful about how I text people. I know it can be annoying to send super long, detailed texts all the time and I know "over-sharing" is not always welcome or appreciated. It makes me feel bad about myself though. I've always thought I had perfectly fine communication skills and no, not ALL the people I know say this. I do sometimes use "they", "she/he", etc. but so do other friends of mine. I try to make it clear who I'm talking about though. I usually only say "he/she" or "they" AFTER I've already previously given a name or something. My best friend I mentioned first in the description can be really rude at times in general for no reason and they tend to automatically assume EVERYTHING is somehow directed to or about them. It can be really hard to talk to them because of that because I don't want to say... … "the wrong thing". With the new friend I mentioned, they have some cognitive problems. They can have a very hard time understanding certain things, remembering things, etc. I think that may be why they have said some of the things they have, but I can't help but kind of wonder if I'm bad at communicating because of the one best friend who says things like the examples I gave. With me, I just have some basic anxiety at times. I'm overall an understanding person who is considered smart (I was... … in advanced classes in school for example). I'm also really good at giving people advice (people come to me for a lot of things - even for suggestions as to what to write inside a card). I've had many people tell me I'm very good with words too. So I was just wondering if there was something "wrong" with me since a couple people in my life (primarily the first best friend I mentioned in the description) seem to really "disapprove" of the way I communicate on the phone. |
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