Long story short: my daughter and I have had a very.. bad.. relationship. There was a time when we were good, even awesome! But that's like 10 years ago. She's now 20 and lives at home doing nothing (quit school + no job), anyway when she was a child my wife (her mom) and I fought a LOT, we're still married but our relationship is very estranged but anyway, and yes I did hit my wife but NEVER my daughter EVER even to this day. Anyway it got to the point where my daughter had to call police, and yeah this was when she was like 12~ so I know how traumatizing it could have been. As she got older in high school, we fought more and more and while I admit I have anger issues, so does she. She didn't make it into any good schools so whenever we argued I always brought up the fact (even if it's totally irrelevant to the argument) that she was too stupid to get into any good college and won't go anywhere in life. And now that she QUIT college I still tell her the same, and she has no social life, does nothing etc. but this is ONLY when we argue and let me tell you - she IS NOT INNOCENT!! She yells at me and constantly mentions me cheating, gambling despite that not being a reality for YEARS!! (Yes I've had problems before). Now she completely acts like I dont EXIST! No talking, no LOOKING?! Refers to me by my first name. I tried talking to her but she just says 'she lost all respect for me'..?! What can I do? i tried asking her why she hates me and just talking even about random topics to lighten the mood but she ignores me or tells me "i have no respect for you" "i hate you" etc. how am i supposed to fix this myself when she's HALF THE PROBLEM?! before our last argument she would at least have a conversation with me about topics like the news, my work, trending topics but nothing deep. NOW AFTER the latest argument, she acts like i just dont exist! treats her mom and sibling the total opposite.

Seems like my wife is waiting for me to make the move and I think it's due so that when our children ask her why are we not together she could put the blame on me....

I wish people those those didn't exist.

i am in my 45.My marriage with my wife is of 18 years,she is now 42 and stay at home mom on her own choice,i never ever forced her to do so.we have three loving kids aged 13,12 and 6.I worked too hard in my business to support my family,even sold my ancestral home to provide for our marital home.one month ago we were a happy family.but suddenly my wife told me to move out from our marital home,which is on my own name,i payed all mortgages.I had left 1 week later i had gone for business tour, after i came,i saw she kept all my stuffs in a small room packed and told me,she dont love me anymore,wants divorce.its a complete shock for me.it is really a heartbreaking moment for me,but more heartbreaking matter is that she is planning to marry someone after our divorce and live in this marital house with new husband,that house which i own,i payed and now suddenly i am homeless for no reason and childless for no reason,my kids are so sad about their moms act,but i am completely helpless.Is it really gonna happen?Is it really fair to a husband or father who was faithful and devoted whole life to support his family? I live in california

Any advice

So I pick my husband over my kids. Because they are out of controll. I don't no what 2 due.

What to do next to try and save the marriage? She's always so negative so it makes me always negative, she's always joking around so I don't take anything seriously when she tells me something, I have to ask her two or three times if she's being serious before we do anything because I don't trust her anymore

Is it ever okay to date a friends ex regardless of who broke up with who? If not, why?

Well I'm going to TRY to make this story as short as possible so I'll start off with how my dad all of a sudden has a new ring on his finger which is obvious he got married without telling his own daughter. And I'm more upset of the fact he didn't tell me rather than he got married. And to top it all off he told me something odd a couple weeks ago, He told me that If I had noticed a new kid in one of my classes because he's gonna be like an "older brother to me". And a couple of days ago I found out who he was and that he has 1 class with me. So I'm pretty sure he's my new stepbrother and I don't know how to handle this anymore. I'm upset and frustrated with everything going on. What should I do?

My friend was in an accident recently so the company pays her money stay home to heal for a while because it was their mistake. Me and my friend were over with her the other day then her masseur came this extremely HOT! 24 years old guy (she's 31). So we left. The next day she told us she always request they send him. He does her lower back and legs even the buttocks because it's a muscle too. Later on my friend was joking saying what if he just says that so he can rub her butt to cop a feel (she does have a nice butt lol). Then she said "yeah but he's hot so whatever I'm not gonna complain". BTW she married! Her husband is a jerk (and not a looker) but works in the day time and the MT comes during the day around 2-3pm the husband get home a 8 pm she told us he doesn't know about it so don't tell him. She thinks he won't be okay with this. I thinks she taking advantage of the situation I'm sure the masseur is professional but still seems wrong. What do you think? If there nothing wrong with what she is doing why won't she tell her husband?

I was once told that soul mates are people our soul remembers from a " past life " and you feel this instant connection with them. They can be friends, or strangers. I also heard you can have more than one. And if you do believe in soul mates do you believe that they will always come back in your life one way or another ( romantically ) if it isn't the " right" timing ?

I pay the bills

Married for 11 years, divorced for 6 months with 3 kids under 8 years old now in my full custody. The best way to explain is a list of reasons why I feel she is not fit to make sound decisions for the kids and seeking advice: -Cheated prior to our divorce with 3 men (to my knowledge in just a 6wk period), settling on the 3rd to live with 10 mos. ago -He has 14 arrests, including multiple DWIs & hard drug charges. -The few times I've seen her, she had obvious physical abuse bruises around her wrists, arms and face - Im too broke to change D papers, which give her 0 custody and visitation is at my agreeance -by her choice she has seen them twice in 6 months, lives 10 min away, works part time nearby -Shes brought guy to kids school, puts him on phone to talk to kids and encourages manipulation by telling them not to tell me (I started recording their phone calls) -She and him are the reason I had to get kids in counseling -He has made indirect threats to us through social media and random people have walked up to me to me to antagonize me -She hasn't provided a dime of support for the kids she was ordered to - They have moved 3x and living on a couch of friends currently, he has no job -drugs/alcohol related I think - Everyone says I should get her back in court since she has proven she does not want to prioritize the kids or co-parent (she no showed our divorce) I've tried to allow her opportunity but at my wits end after seeing children suffering from her

whenever i talk to a hot girl, she seems to lose interest when she learns i lost my job and i'm struggling for cash at the moment. and it doesn't help that i had to move back with my parents after getting kicked out of my apartment. is there a dating site where i can meet open minded women that won't judge me for my poor luck? also i need to meet a woman who can drive us on dates because i lost my license and car over a dui.

Any tips for big back of women?

Personally I think both are not OK

Me and my friends got our husbands a ticket to go watch the Dallas Cowboys but they are mobile tickets. Any suggestions on how to surprise them with a mobile ticket?

I went to go visit and help a friend. While doing so he had not come home but his wife was being courteous and invited me in. However I have an unwritten rule that I do not hang out til the hubby gets home. Not that ANYTHING would be instigated or happen, its just out of respect for hubby. Is that over the top?

I thought we should split it she was annoyed because I invited them for dinner I only invited her

About 1.5 years ago he started working with a new woman in his department. She is about 20 years younger than him. (He is 50 she is 30). About a year ago, they started getting close. They email at least 2-3 times a day, and usually more -- sometimes even ten times a day. Within the past six months, they have also starting texting, but it's not frequent. They have lunch or coffee together at least once a week, and he has started driving her home the past couple of months. She shares a lot of her problems with him and he is more than willing to try to help her. Are they too close emotionally?

Me and my husband have four children, three are biologically not his but he is amazing at treating them as his own, we got together when I had already established their discipline but our forth child obviously hasn't yet got those rules in place. Husband has anxiety and gets really grouchy and snappy at times. I have always done the "naughty step" when little and it worked amazingly with the other three. But our youngest is just reaching two and husband is really struggling to see its effectiveness because he doesn't stick to it enough. It's getting to the point where we are considering splitting up, because he keeps snapping and arguing or shouting at them, slamming doors in temper etc. I don't know what I can do to help him. I've suggested we both go on a parenting,anger management course but have to find one yet. The reason it's splitting us up is he says I'm patronising and "high and mighty" I don't mean to be but I don't know what I can do to sort this out. It's not my fault I have worked with children and brought three up single handedly so have the experience, and them being brought up right is important to me, I don't want them shouted at all the time or used as an outlet for his temper/anxiety. It's not right. I'm far from perfect and everyone loses their cool now and then it's hard work bringing kids up but for the most part adults should be in control of themselves right. I don't know what to do

The spouse IS the owner of a property, if they bought it while married. Under the law, one of the spouses died and they are legally widowed which is a form of divorce, automatically. But the homeowner never died. The homeowner only died, when both spouses die. Is this accurate?

What should I do do i divorce my husband? I am not speaking to my husband. He snapped at me because I was handing him a large slice of pizza with one hand. I did this because if I put my plate down my cats would go for it. He got pissed said I'll do it go my god! I dropped the pizza said not to snap he said then don't disrespect me. He said how would you like if some one had their grubby grimy hand all over your pizza and the topping where falling off.he said i buy you pizza and you can't even set down your plate to hand me a pace. He does this a lot spoils me but acts like that is enough to hold his attitude and hold his spoiling over me. I am thinking about divorcing but not were. He went do counseling he thinks nothing is wrong with him What is wrong with me?

What should I do do i divorce my husband? I am not speaking to my husband. He snapped at me because I was handing him a large slice of pizza with one hand. I did this because if I put my plate down my cats would go for it. He got pissed said I'll do it go my god! I dropped the pizza said not to snap he squid then don't disrespect me. He said how would you like if some one had their grubby grimy hand all over your pizza and the topping where falling off.he said i buy you pizza and you can't even set down your plate to hand me a pace. He does this a lot spoils me but acts like that is enough to hold his attitude and hold his spoiling over me. I am thinking about divorcing but not were. He went do counseling he thinks nothing is wrong with him To be honest I get nervous when helping him afraid I will mess up I have no self esteem

I am not speaking to my husband. He snapped at me because I was handing him a large slice of pizza with one hand. I did this because if I put my plate down my cats would go for it. He got passed said I'll do it go my god! I dropped the pizza said not to snap he squid then don't disrespect me. He said how would you like if some one had their grubby grimy hand all over your pizza and the topping where falling off.he said i buy you pizza and you can't even set down your plate to hand me a pace. He does this a lot spoils me but acts like that is enough to hold his attitude and hold his spoiling over me. I am thinking about divorcing but not were. He went do counseling he thinks nothing is wrong with him

We have been married 14 years together for 19. I m completely lost and feel incredibly broken. He snaps over the stupidest things. He doesn t want to talk he walks away from me when I try to talk to him and all I ever hear is sorry. Kids make him mad he takes it out on me, he had a bad day he takes it out on me. He doesn t physically hurt me but mentally I am drained. Sorry has become a word I can t stand. He snaps I snap back and it s a downhill spiral from there. I feel like he wants me for sex and that s it. He has had several jobs where he goes to work and talks horribly about me. I often find out because he pocket dials me and leaves voicemails of him and his coworkers talking about how bad I am. I try so hard to please him and I am truly at a loss. I know I need to work on not snapping back but when he walkes in the door snapping it s really hard. Especially when he can get a phone call or someone stops over and he acts like nothing happened. He s so friendly to everyone but me. I am to the point I want to run. We have 5 kids and I love him dearly, if I didn t, I wouldn t be here now. Need advice please.