He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused

The bully had been bullying other kids for years but this time one of his target had a weak heart. The victim died. The bully didn't know the victim had a weak heart. He beat them up the usual way. Bully was arrested. What would be your verdict?

There's this guy in my Economics class who's really nice, funny and just an all round interesting person, and I really want to add him on Facebook so that we have a means of communication outside of class and I can get to know him better and hopefully become friends with him. By the way, I've known him since September 2016, we're always friendly with each other when we see each other in class and we have 11 mutual friends on Facebook, so it's not like I'm a stranger to him. However, I'm scared that he'll think that I'm obsessed with him and/or have a crush on him which is why I'm adding him first rather than waiting for him to add me, or even worse, he just won't accept my friend request, which would be so humiliating. So what do you think I should do? Should I add him or not?

I'm a girl and my friend is a girl too. We've been friends ever since the 7th grade, she never touched me inappropriately back then. But now I'm in the 8th grade and we've gotten super close to each other. Recently she's been playfully grasping my boob and I jokingly tell her to stop(not trying to make things awkward.) It soon progressed into her putting her hands beneath my thighs, or trying to put her hand inside my pants. She spanks my butt too. I feel very uncomfortable around her but I don't show it. It's also really weird because after she does these things she says "I'm not bisexual, I'm straight. Just in case you were wondering." Sometimes I ask her why she does this and he tells me it's because she likes to make me feel awkward and flustered because it amuses her. She really creeps me out Although I really do love her as a friend, I just don't know how to tell her to stop touching me in a nice way, without ruining our friendship.

The prof had emailed the whole class that we have to submit all outstanding assignments before Nov 3 or esle we can't start placements, and will have to meet with her and the placement coordinator to discuss progress. So what I did was I emailed the prof right away asking if my assignments that did not have feedback yet whether met expectations. The prof said one of them needs to be more detailed and so I resubmitted it right away before Nov 3. After Nov 3, another assignment was returned to me as INCOMPLETE because I did not have a page answering some assignment questions......but I misread it and did have answers within the essay itself, just not in an extra page. Now the prof wants to have the meeting even though I did submit assignments and just misread that assignment.

Could she like the guy?

A friend of mine invited me over to her house. She snuck me in her room and took me to lay with her in her bed. We laid talking and then she kissed my forehead and wrapped me in her arms, with my forehead touching her jaw. We stayed like this for 30 minutes. Then I had to leave so I woke her up slightly. She pulled my face towards her and kissed my forehead. "What was that for?" I asked. She replied "Because I love you." She was holding my face and was looking at me then she leaned in and kissed my nose and giggled. She sat up and said "I'm going to miss you" (as she's traveling in a couple days back to college) and hugged me tight and kissed my cheek and forehead. Then she stared at me and said "I want a kiss." I then kissed her cheek. And she got up to sneak me out. She held my hand and led me to the door and asked me to please come again tomorrow after her parents sleep. The thing is she has a boyfriend and we're both girls. I actually don't feel anything when this happens but Is this acceptable or not?

My roommate had to go to this percussion concert for one of her gen ed music classes. She bought 2 tickets and wanted me to go with her. I told her I would go, but said I thought it would be boring. This wasn't really how I wanted to spend my Friday night. Later that day my other roommate asked if I wanted to go to a comedy show on campus. I had been wanting to go, but didn't know anyone who wanted to go with me. I then asked my other roommate if she cared if I didn't go to the concert with her. I asked her twice and she said that it was okay. Later after I came back she seemed okay. Then she told me that she was going out to get something to eat. I saw her snapchat story that night saying that she eats when she is mad and then another said I'm still mad. This weekend she has hardly talked to me and it seems like she is avoiding me. I don't see why she would be mad at me though because I asked her twice if she was sure she was alright with me going to the comedy show. If she is angry then she is being a hypocrite since she's flaked out on plans a bunch of times. Like one time we got tickets to go to a football game two weeks in advance. Then the night before the football game she told me she didn't want to go and she went home for that weekend. I ended up going to the game by myself. Okay I'm ranting now. Could someone give me their opinion or advice on this please? Thanks!

My name Is Thomas, and I had a lot of problems since December on Last year. I fell into depression and I began using drugs, my bestfriend Erika was by my side. But it made her mad when I would use drugs, eventually in June she got mad and walked out of my life. She said she was disappointed, and tired. But when she left, that was the motivation I needed to turn my life around. I'm in a better place now, do you think it's weird that one person changed my whole life?????? We are still not talking sadly

Hello, I have this friend who is absolutely amazing. I look forward to hanging out with them and when we talk we never run out of things to say. Well, they have told me they struggle with depression and there are times where they will dissappear when they are sad and then come back. They also advised that sometimes they get uncomfortable and completely push new friends away and never talk to them again. So there have been a few times so far where I don t hear from them for a few days. Now, it s been 3 weeks and I haven t heard back from them. The last response I received was "Hey, I m really sorry I ve been MIA, I m trying really hard because you mean a lot to me but it s hard sometimes. I m really excited to hang out, I don t even care what we do" Although that text was pretty positive, I m still scared that since it s been 3 weeks since that text that they might have pushed me away?

My girlfriend is 14 and she got raped by her dad. She told me because she trusts me and she made me promise I wouldn't tell anyone. I feel like I need to tell someone for her own good I just don't wanna betray her. Her parents are divorced and she's adopted. Her dad abuses her in many ways. I feel so bad I don't know what to do. She said that he said if she tells anyone then he will kill her. I told her she needs to tell but she said she just won't let it happen again. Please help!! She also tells me a lot that she "did tell" when she really doesn't... I'm a 14 year old girl too by the way.

Most of my friends say I'm stupid, foolish, illogical, and lots of other stuff. Recently, two of my closest friends said I was annoying, an idiot, and a piece of trash. Also, a different friend said I was too edgy when I was trying to ask him this question

He and I broke up 2 months ago and I started going to church and found him staring at me 2 weeks in a row so I texted him but he said he was offended which is why it wouldn't work and why he wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I didn't respond. I've been going to church since then it's been almost a month, i don't look at him and have given him a dirty look couple times. He literally doesn't take his eyes off me my family says...confused

It's something I've struggled with my entire life: being shy. It's not that I don't enjoy being around other people, but I just don't know what to say around them or act. I'd guess you could say I have social anxiety, or maybe that I'm a sensitive person. I've never been great around crowds, but one on one with a person, I'm okay. I just struggle with small talk, unless it's on certain topics (like for example, books or movies) but that may come across as be being stuck up or only talking about me. I want to try and break out of my shell a bit. I'm a little worried that people think me weird where I work. It could be that there are just cliques, and that's how it is in different departments. People in my department like me that I know. I am have a good working relationship with my department and I always try to make them laugh (sometimes I act a little too silly, so that is something I'm trying to work on). I am friendly (at least I think) and wave and say hi to other people, but there are just some whom I work with that are either ignoring me, or in their own world. I really can't be mad at them, I am in my own world a lot, but I would just like to get to know different people I work with, but that might seem weird since I've never done so before now. Is there any hope for me, or am I branded as a werido?

I've always wanted to help people. I am nearly finished my degree in social work. Earlier this year, I was deeply hurt by a friend who said some things about me that were not true. This girl was and is very vulnerable however she is also manipulative. She took advantage of me because she knew I would help her. Everything was always about her and the trouble she was in, always one sided. I'm sick of people taking advantage of my help because they know I'm too nice and won't refuse. However since the argument with this girl, I've put up an emotional wall. I'm sick of people, cynical of people and don't want to help them because I think they're only in it for themselves. I've lost my drive, my ambition, my charity and motivation to help people. My question is how do I break down this wall I've put up? I want to be the old me again. How do I trust people again? Has anyone ever had a similar experience? I'd appreciate the help.

She's saying that YouTube, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Synthesia, and all apps are games. I've explained multiple times that they aren't, had other people explain it to her, but she says all apps are games. Is she an idiot? She's getting really mad about me thinking that those aren't games

my friends from high school & I are now graduating college. Several are artists & are getting work shown in small galleries. of course I like their FB posts about this and attend some of their showings. they like my general FB posts about my life, but all my artist friends ignore my post I made about getting screened in a film festival. In person they kinda act like they are belittling me, like they are artists now and I'm not cause I major in science and dont have much training in art, but they are being shown in small town galleries that their parents friends own while i am getting screened in a New England wide edition of a national art showcasing. I'm nothing but supportive of them idk why they can't be happy for me too.

So... I've known this girl for about 6 months and shes having a baby. Which is great! Happy for her. But, she is having a baby shower with an expensive registry and on top of that I have to bring $25 to the restaurant they are having it at to pay for my food. It really rubs me the wrong way...it just feels tacky. I have to pay for her gift and the food that I eat at her party. It honestly just feels like a "come to this thing to buy me something." I asked her why I had to bring money and she said that they don't have money to cater to everyone. She has told me that she cannot afford to buy everything for her baby so shes inviting a lot of people to her shower in hopes they will. She even told me she invited her mother-in-laws older wealthier friends hoping they will buy her crib and rocking chair. This whole event is rubbing me wrong. I would go if she was a friend who I've known for years and needs help but I don't really know her. On top of that she told me she is only inviting people she knows can afford the gifts she wants...it makes me feel like she is looking at me as money bags. While the four of us (her and her husband and me and my husband) are all 23 me husband and myself and lucky to be successful and to hold down great jobs. I have this odd feeling that she is looking at our money...What would you all do? How do I get out of this?

I'm in a sorority and I took a little last semester. I was super excited about being a big but at reveal she didn't seem too excited and ever since after activation she doesn't really want anything to do with me. I was hoping we would have a connection like my big and I do but it seems like she hates me. I just don't know what to do.

Okay so there's this boy, and I like him so much and I have liked him for 6 months, we was really good friends before this, and when I told him at first and asked him out he said "I like you but I don't think we should go out yet I think it's a bit too soon xxx" and then he started saying he doesnt know if he likes me and a few weeks ago my friend asked him if he liked me and he said no :( so we agreed on being just friends and I said I needed to try and move on if he didn't like me. but is he starting to come back? He's asking if I'm out quite often and I commented on his picture which is a pic of himself of Instagram and commented "Fave of ya❤️" and he never usually replies to comments he only likes them and he commented back "❤️" and one of his other friends commented and he didn't reply to her he just liked it. I don't want to go reading into this too much in case there's no meaning :( What do you think? Thanks xxx

Okay so I was putting on makeup, lotion and spraying on perfume in class. Then this girl and this guy both yelled at me about my perfume and they said it stinks. They were being rude and disrespectful about it so I yelled back at them, cursed them out, I said the most hateful and mean things to them so I can make them cry ( but they didn't) I also sprayed the perfume in their faces and I also said that I was going to bring a knife to school and stab them and then I started crying. The teacher didn't care about my feelings so she sent me down to the office and I had a talk with the principal and she was saying that I threatened them and how I was a bully. I'm not the bully they are. I have three days of in school suspension starting tomorrow. She even made me apologize to those bullies. She did have a talk with them saying that they should be more nice about it but they didn't get punished. She then proceeded to say to me that the girl was allergic to perfume. I hope she and her little boyfriend both die in a chamber with perfumes coming up there nose. I want to see them suffer and record it.

At the beginning of this year I was having a lot of personal problems because of my past. My life was a mess, I fell into depression, I even had anger problems. I lost my job and the only person who was there for me was my besfriend Nicole. But one day I was so mad at myself that I screamed at Nicole and I took my frustration out on her. I put her though a lot and eventually she walked away, she blocked me on her social medias and she didn't talk to me anymore. But it's been 7 months and I was able to change my life, I have a better job, I bought my dream car and I'm more happy with myself. But I wish she could see me right now!!!!!! All I need is my besfriend to be complete, what should I doo??? I'm scared of reaching out to her

It's something I've struggled with my entire life: being shy. It's not that I don't enjoy being around other people, but I just don't know what to say around them or act. I'd guess you could say I have social anxiety, or maybe that I'm a sensitive person. I've never been great around crowds, but one on one with a person, I'm okay. I just struggle with small talk, unless it's on certain topics (like for example, books or movies) but that may come across as be being stuck up or only talking about me. I want to try and break out of my shell a bit. I'm a little worried that people think me weird where I work. It could be that there are just cliques, and that's how it is in different departments. People in my department like me that I know. I am have a good working relationship with my department and I always try to make them laugh (sometimes I act a little too silly, so that is something I'm trying to work on). I am friendly (at least I think) and wave and say hi to other people, but there are just some whom I work with that are either ignoring me, or in their own world. I really can't be mad at them, I am in my own world a lot, but I would just like to get to know different people I work with, but that might seem weird since I've never done so before now. Is there any hope for me, or am I branded as a werido?

Okay soo I work for a big company, and I've been there for 3 months and everyone talks to me. But this new guy Nick started working there, me and Nick used to go to high school together 5 years ago. But when I said "Hi" to Nick he just ignored me, but im scared he will start talking Sh*it about me because when I was In High School I was a loser. But everything has obviousLy changed but I just have big anxiety. I used to get picked on in school a lot, soo I'm scared he will say something to someone. Any advice please?????? Is it just anxiety??????

my male best friend knows im sad and i've went to him to cry and he's calmed me down, i appreciate that but the next day he acts like nothing happened and is distant i know he's not a therapist but isnt friendship about caring for each other

my male best friend knows im not mentally well and i've come to him and cried and told my problems to him before, he talks to me about it and seems to care when it happens but then he acts like it never happened and is slightly distant what does it mean

The seats are still wet and they smell like gas. Should I find his car and pour gasoline all over it and light it as revenge? I paid big money for this truck and I want to get revenge on this piece of shet

im hoping could some girl be my platonic friend atleast my id is vivek.win95@gmail.com

This morning I wanted to joke around and fart on her face because Women usually like male farts, so I said why not give her a treat. However, surprisingly she got mad and left the room. Why did she get this pissed?

Ok so we were all pretty drunk and I had my card in my purse. I don't mind getting some drinks, but she just came up to me and grabbed it from my purse. I trie telling her I don't have the money at that time but she walked up to the Bar and got drinks. ( I didn't even ask for a drink since I had one ) today , she claims she doesn't remember anything and I tried explaining to her that she just grabbed it from my purse but she's playing dumb I think cus she just said yeah I don't know how I got the card. Funny thing cus we left that one bar and went to this other one and I was hanging out side and apparently they bought more drinks and I just found that out this morning according to the bank statement. I know she does silly dumb things when she drinks a lot but it sounds like she did it on purpose to get drinks ? What do you think

I'm looking for a teenage female friend to unload my bullshit on. I also want to help her with her problems. Being a female teenager with no friends and only a boyfriend to complain to is really hard. Help. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 WHY CANT PEOPLE GET NOTIFIED WITH COMMENTS I am so lonely

This might be a little controversial. This girl I use to be friends with is constantly asking me or other people for things or money. She sent me two go fund me pages. One to fund her living while she is in school - she wants 11k. And another for her light bill, which is 600. Some people tell me I'm heartless for refusing to give into her. Her mother died and she had a child with a guy who she claims is abusive. Her father is trying to be in the picture but she won't let him. Besides money, she asks for phone cards, tires, rides, and other random stuff. The hard part is watching her ask for baby formula and diapers. She only works 4 hours a day 3 days a week. While the baby part is sad, I'm having a hard time justifying giving her money, it seems like she never does anything to improve her situation, it's like she wants other people to care for her. What's the right thing to do?

So, I became friends with this girl in 6th but close to the end of the year and in 7th grade a new student (girl) joined the school and ended up being friends with her too and another new person came to the school in 8th grade and they all became friends. Ever since they've been friends, I've felt left out. For example, the other day we were in class and the teacher told us to pick 1 partner. I faced the friend I met in 6th grade and she instantly faced the girl she became friends with in 7th grade. What should I do if this keeps happening?

M best friend just got into a relationship and as petty as it sounds i feel really replaced and need to get over that, how do i do this?

I just want to make sure I'm not the only one. I'm a hard of hearing college sophomore who is having trouble finding friends. I know how to reach out and meet new people, I have better than average social skills, but I'm always deathly afraid that I won't be able to hear new people or come across as awkward and miss out on a good first impression. It feels like it takes at least twice as much effort for me to make friends as it does for other people my age who have no hearing loss. I also have a REALLY hard time finding good advice for people like me. I can't find anybody with the same kind of problems as me and it makes me feel even more lonely. for example, people with divorced parents or problems with poverty/money or dealing with grief or not having a good home life can easily find other people to relate to, but it's so rare for me to find young people who also have hearing loss who can actually give me good advice when it comes to stuff like listening fatigue.

when I asked her about it, she told me that she does not tell people everything she does?? What does she mean?

This is gonna need a lot of background: I'm a girl and a sophomore in high school. I switched schools this year hoping for a nice, fresh start. I had to leave my old school because I had no friends, people weren't nice, and it wasn't a good social situation at all. I had friends up until 7th grade, but they all turned on me and I haven't had friends at school ever since. I mean, I have friends but they're all either from online or I met them outside of school and they live far away so we can never get together. Now, I am almost a full term into the school year and I still have no friends at my new school. Shyness/social anxiety messes with me so much and I feel like I'm almost unable to talk to and form relationships with my peers because I don't relate with them and they're always judging me. People think I'm weird and I don't talk and no one likes me. A few kids from grades above reached out to me and we hung out once, but now they don't really talk to me. I can't go to clubs or anything because every time I try I get too anxious and can't talk to anybody. I try to act like I don't care about my social situation because all I want is good grades and an education but it's just so hard to not mind. I'm lonely, miserable, and suffering and no one seems to care. Every weekend I wish I was hanging out with friends, but I'm stuck in my room alone. My birthday is coming up and I already know that I'm going to be spending it alone and miserable. Anyone have any advice???

So all my brothers have there own car but there older vehicles then the one i have but there always asking to borrow my car and in two different occasions they crashed my car. So i told myself that i wasn't going to let them borrow it anymore. But i feel bad when i tell them no everytime they ask. Should i feel bad?

My mon convinced her friend Helen to buy a computer so they could communicate with email. Mom asked me to train Helen on how to use the computer. I agreed to do the training. I went to Helen's house on a Saturday and started her training. As I was leaving Helen's husband, Al told me he did not want me coming back to their house. I said OK but I ask him why. He said he did not want his wife around other men. The next Saturday, Helen called me and wanted to know what time I was coming over. I told her I could not come back and what Al had told me. She was outraged. She said "That is the last straw. I am filing for divorce Monday morning from that control freak of a husband. About a month later I got a call from Al. Helen had kicked him out of the house. Al wanted me to call Helen and tell her he was drunk when he told me he didn't want other men around his wife and that he did not mean it. I don't know if he meant it but he was NOT drunk. I told Al I was not getting involved their martial problems. In fact I don't want to have any contact with either of them EVER. Please tell me if you think I did the right thing in this matter?

Back at the beginning of the year I was involved in a big fallout with my best friend and another really good friend.I had accusations thrown at me that weren't true,but my friend believed them.Anyway,we had barely said ten words to each other for almost a year but last week we started talking again,like old times.We've spoke everyday since. I guess my question is...is this my only chance to fix this friendship before it goes away again?

I've asked this before, but wanted more feedback: It's something I've struggled with my whole life. It s not that I have self control, it s just my personality is a bit on the silly side. My close friends like it, and some of my coworkers do, but I've noticed how some people at work don t interact with me or ignore me. I d say I m a friendly person, by nature. Very shy, until I get so know someone, but in the end I just want people to get to know me. I'm pretty bad at conversation too, so that could be why those coworkers ignore me. It could be a click as well, but I'm not sure. I'd like to act "normal" but then I'm boring. Should I just act normal or dial my weirdness back, then maybe the people in different departments (where I work) will talk to me or interact with me?

Ok, I have met a guy in London in a restaurant during my trip back in August. I was seated next to him but happened we got into a conversation after asking him if he has been to this restaurant before in central london and I wasn't too sure what to order since I haven't had Korean food before, anyways then we started talking and so on for like more than an hour. Then it happened to be we were the same ethnicity which was funny because my ethnicity is not very popular. He asked me if I was visiting and then asked where my parents were from or where I'm from and my ethnicity. We actually took pictures I have like 3 or 4 pictures of me and him and thankfully they are clear images. He took images of me and him from his own phone as well. Thankfully I have pictures of us too . I didn't get his name sadly or any info I just know some basic info about him like where his family was from but is there such thing for something online where you can buy or for free try to find someone based on my image I have of him. Thankfully its clear images but I want to reconnect with him as friends. It is so sad he asked for my email but I just said I don't really use it cause at first I wasn't too sure about giving him my info I found it to be so stupid of me to not ask for his info or Facebook or whatever to reach out to him. NOW i want to find him and reconnect I am hoping my pictures will help me reach him. Please let me know what I could do anyway. Thank you so much it would mean a LOT to me.

So me and my friend have had ups and downs in the past that almost ended are friendship then. But now she gets mad at me for everything. 👁 was supposed to hang with her Friday but things came up. Also my family wanted to see me more. 👁 told her 👁 was sorry and 👁 like to reschedule and she replied with ok. Which she says when she mad. I've gone out of my way to hang with her in the past multiple times. One time 👁 waited 3 hours in the driveway with her guest ( got them all here) for her to get ready for her birthday and many other times like that have accured over time. But I'd im a minute late she freaks out at me. Also she doesn't offer much of her time to hang and 👁 always have to come to her. 👁 love her but I'm tired of this and don't know if it's worth it continuing. What should 👁 do?!?!

His mon posted happy birthday on his wall ,i know he saw my happy birthday comment bc he is on facebook like 24 /7 . I said happy bday ,thanks for helping us move love you and got him a 20 dollar gift card but he says thata just from my huaband and i dont count ( my husband doesnt know he said this ) i hardly see him ,he liked and answered everyone else . He got mad at some post i posted like 4 years ago . If its over that he needs to grow up and be 23 right ??? Im trying to be nice but should i not any more

We are from different classes but we've had eye contact for few times during hallways. And recently he sat beside me at the computer lab even though there's other options...but he didn't say anything.

Im in 9th Gr. and me and my friend have been talking about leaving for an adventure for weeks Obviously I know we are little kids so we can't live out there forever. we plan to be gone for less than a week. Both of are parents are great to us we have a good life. But sometimes we feel like This is it, this is our life and this is all we get. Don't get me wrong its a good life, I feel greedy for wanting more. My dad is a police officer so if we disappear one day after school there will be an amber alert and police looking all over for us so I want to know if it can hurt his job. we plan to do it after school. we will meet each other at our lockers and call our parents. My friend will tell her parents she is coming over my house and I will tell my parents I'm going to hers. we will then leave our phones in our locker so we don't get tracked go 2 the bathroom change to clothes we never wear that our parents didn't see us leave the house in,put our old clothes in our locker (our lockers are on a side of the school that doesn't have cameras. we will leave out the side doors where the cameras wont see us) School ends at 2 so We have to be home by 6. When I don't get home at 6 my parents will go to the my friends house and then our parents will realize we never went to our friends house.This means we have to be as far away as possible by 6. So I want to talk to someone who can relate to me or just simply help with what to bring. I need someone to talk to and share my thoughts with

When I was in highschool my best friend always got picked on and bullied because he was socially awkward and had bad acne, and yet the only ones that ever defended him were me and other guys, while the girls hung out with the biggest bullies and also bullied him. So much for women having empathy... can you at least explain why you love bullies do much?

please rate each females eyes from 1-10 for their beauty? or can u say which one you think has nicer eyes...the first one or the second one? tks and will choose a best answer

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, but she didn't let me move on properly. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a phone call where she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I tried to get in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was really nasty to me and said all kinds of cruel things. I finally confronted her about the times she used me as a spare while she played the field, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups with random people. But at the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. I wonder if she was just going to use me as a spare/security blanket while she played the field again. Her past behavior exemplified this. Even though she said that the relationship (when we were officially a couple) because we were 'young and naive', yet she 'really cared a lot about me' and couldn't seem to let me go and feeling devastated when I finally said goodbye. Was she just trying to keep me on hold until she was done playing the field? On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you,' and she came onto me sexually, andI rejected her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call. You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

I just feel confused about is behavior when I last saw him. He wouldn't look me in the face. I had **** his advances down. I liked him but I didn't feel like had what it took to make him happy. I wasn't confident is all. I know I hurt him and I regret the hurt I caused. I ran into him a while back he wouldn't look me in the face. Could he still hurt? It has been years sine that happened. I can't help but wonder if feelings are still involved. Even if he's with someone else. This is the impression he gave me. Any advice is welcome. Thanks in advance. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.04 I've never dealt with anything like this before. I thought this was in the past. Completely baffled.

My friend is obsessed with herself and her looks, she is posting stuff on social media for attention and acts like she's all depressed and has mental illnesses when she really doesn't and I know that. I tried to talk to her about it but she doesn't care. Should I give her up?

Apart from the sports teams I was on and a school project, I hung out with people outside of school less than 10 times in 4 years. Some years I didn't even hang out with anyone, like during my junior year. It was how the world treated me. I'm black and it didn't matter if others were white, black, Asian, or etc. A few people would talk to me when bored at school and ignore me otherwise. My confidence took a huge hit and it affected me academically. It affected me literally into adulthood and I'm in my early 20s now finally feeling empowered to be an undergrad and go after my career dreams. That is literally what fuels me to live each day because while I'm still bad at friendships and relationships, due to my lack of experience, at least I can try to make a positive impact in this world. I just wonder what people would think if they knew my true background. It's frustrating when people assume I must not have had problems or whatever. I was a bit overweight, but not obese. Much bigger girls than me had no problem with friends and dating, though. Now that I lost weight from eating healthy and dress up more it's like.. people make assumptions that are so far from the truth. Like my boss assuming I have a boyfriend and some girls even being intimidated by me when I have my guard up with them, due to being hurt so many times in my most vulnerable years Never went to prom or homecoming cause I didn't even have a single friend who wanted to hang out it has me, much less a date And when I say I was nice I mean to literally everyone, even people that appeared to not me. I feel like I was forced into being an introvert. I wasn't happy at home everyday. I wanted to hang out with friends, party, and do other normal teenage things. I can't even stomach tv and fiction in general anymore because it all seems fake. All experiences I can't relate to

My friend's sister just went off to college out of the country and won't be visiting until a year from now and my friend is really sad. She said she cries every night and we had a sleepover and she cried in front of me. What should I do! Sometimes she is a little over emotional around me, but l I don't really mind. I tried to hug her when she cried but then she screamed and that was a little unexpected.