I notice more and more my fiancee and I tend to be that couple that sometimes can smother each other with every detail about our day and telling each other our exact move and when we will be home and all that stuff. I read constantly about how successful couples tend to be independent and do their own things while still being with their partner and having a healthy relationship. Anyone have any tips on how to be independent and yet have a healthy loving relationship?

I'm 24 even though I'm in my "middle 20s" I do not want any kids anytime soon and I know things happen but I will never get pregnant in my 20s at all.. And if a men wants that from me than that's not my problem..next year will be my last year of school and even after that I plan to move away and find a well paid job..I don't find anything that cute about "having babies" some of my peers only did it because they were so "in love" but that's dumb to me because a baby does not mean love getting a man to marry you does..if you have no money, no education besides high school..I don't believe in rushing to have kids in 20s..is this bad?

My husband and i have full cusdoty of his two children. His ex wife has been on the minimum pay me of 35 dollars a week for two years (Not that she even paid that). Now she has moved to another state, she never sees thekids. But then even when she lived in the Same town she never saw the kids. Unless it was to call them with upsetting drama. My question is, how do we raise the child suport amout if we dont even know where she is???

Some nights me and my husband like to shower together. I like showering every night but he gets in with me at least once or twice a week. Is this normal ?

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we are making a will. We bring different assets into our marriage, her, a pension that she has just lately rolled into another IRA, and, she just lost her parents and looks to gain a sizeable amount from the will. My father is still alive and I will get no where near what she is getting when he passes. I brought about an eighth of the money that she did when we married. I have a retirement pension that I have been receiving all of our marriage and I work at a job that, both of my checks together, actually total a few thousand more a year than she makes now. We both will be retiring in 3 years. I realize that she started our relationship with more. I have one grown child and she has two...how do we split the assets when one or both of us die? Is there a "normal, legal or fair" way that this is handled? Just wondering if anyone has any ideas before I sit before an attorney. Thanks to all who share their thoughts :)

No rude comments please: Okay so my husband and I have been married for 3 years/together 4 years. We have 4 kids. His 2, my 2 we adopted each others last year. Before We met he had a fling and she was stalking him while we were dating and saying she was pregnant with his child. Then would say she is miscarrying and bleeding. Only to say she was in fact still pregnant. Well, she did have a child who is 5yrs old now. She is contacting us asking for money. NOW THIS IS KEY, my husband DID file a request for a paternity test with the Ohio court where we live. HOWEVER is was DENIED because she is apparently married and has been for the last 7yrs. Even though they don't live together. The courts will not grant him a test. They deemed it to be a "violation of the sanctity of a marriage." And will not allow A paternity test of a child conceived and birthed inside of a marriage unless she agrees. Which she did not. The child looks some what like my husband, but she has told us she is too afraid of him being "recognized as the legal father" because she fears he will go after the child for custody. she wants my husband to pay her child support money. Which, my husband refuses without a test confirmation. He is convinced the child isn't his, because she denied him the paternity test and wants nothing more to do with it. As for me, my mind wonders if this little girl is in fact my children's sister... has anyone ever been put in the situation and if so how do you emotionally deal with it?

I had the misfortune to bump into a married woman that plagued me with her marital life. I told her i couldnt care less and that she should solve her issues with him ( if there really are any issues ). Plus they got 5 kids. At this point i think she just wants to annoy me. She is always seeking attention, blames everyone and everything around her and plays the victim all the time. Is she insane ? Or all married women are like that ?

There is this girl I know who tutors me in college and we always run in to each other and chat and I am so attracted to her in every way. She is the girl for me. But she is engaged to another man. This makes me so sad and angry. How can I get her to be with me instead. I can't stand I'm not with her and I will do anything. She is 31 and I am 25 by the way. I think she might like me to me too since she is rather touchy-feely always patting me on the back or shoulder. I don't talk to many people especially girls and she is the only one that has given me non school related attention (since she actually likes to chat with me)I have to be with her. I wish her fiancé would die. If it wasn't illegal I would kill him violently like stabbing him to death Don't tell me to get over it. It's been five years and I cannot. I want her

Me and my wife have been married for two weeks. She's 5 months pregnant with our daughter. We have sex about once or twice a week or whenever she wants it. She's been wanting it a lot lately. How often should we have sex ?

Never had an issue with his size, he's short has a three inch penis but quite fat, we always have good sex Until....I went with the girls to a private birthday party they had strippers who were gorgeous they came round to each of us with their large erections and some girls sucked them. The one who came to me had a very fat 8 inch or so penis rock hard I am prudish but couldn't resist squeezing and striking the monster my fingers wouldn't go right round. I was so wet my panties were soaked and ever since I want that in me just to try it Anyone else had these feelings?

And is pornography the reason why divorce rates are high in America?

Sometimes my wife rips a nasty fart and I forget things.

isn't that what "waiting for marriage" means? you're supposed to wait until you find the "right" partner, and then only have sex after you're married? what if you never meet the "right" person? do you remain a virgin your entire life? people today marry much older than earlier generations. smart people spend their youth building their careers and don't marry until late in life. some might not marry until their 50s. some even later. are they expected to remain virgins during what should be the most enjoyable and sexually active years of their lives? are they supposed to wait until they're past menopause with no libido, or suffer from ed, before finally engaging in their first sexual experience? what if you've been waiting for the "right" person your whole life, then wake up one day, middle-aged, and so fat, old and ugly nobody wants you anymore? or the only partners you can attract are other fat, old ugly people you would never want to sleep with? you will have wasted the best years of your life which you can never get back with no way to make up the time you lost.

5.5 inches by 4.6? Can you have good penetration with that i mean women dont seem to like that size much. Bigger is better?

I was in her office leaning over her to show her something on the computer and I accidentally rested my hand on hers thinking it was the desktop I guess and she jerked it away very quickly. Was somewhat offensive. We are from very different cultures, she is Catholic and white, I am Arab but semi westernized. Also we are both married. So was her reaction racist or is the Catholic culture very against any physical contact with married women? She's more traditional than my wife. For instance, she changed her last name immediately after getting married and my wife still hasn't. We are more progressive than she and her husband it seems.

then he took out another used rubber and poured the semen on me,he said its a white guys . is this wrong?

How do I confront that I've discovered texts discussing meetings from sex?

I'm curious for opinions on this. Is it possible for a man to fall in love while he still gets sad/ stressed at times about the breakup of his marriage? Let me clarify.. he is not in love with his ex, he doesn't want the relationship back. But, gets sad occasionally that it didn't work out for the kids. This is obviously a new divorce & these feelings will likely subside. I'm looking for male feedback

i had an argument with my jewish wife ( we have been married 11 years plus 3 children) and i called her a KIKE! and did hit her!!! but i cant take back my anti semitic rant for her thats hurted her more than i hit her and broke her face

With the thought that if you get along enough you'll marry each other

She isn t trying to throw subs at you about your stamina or anything she just wants to do it for fun.

Not s clue no evidence kissed me goodbye every morning seemed so happy sex great communication great Then wham she's been fvcking him most weekdays for two years he was married too When I asked her why? She said she never loved me I am heartbroken and depressed how do you keep that a secret for two years how do you fvck your husband most nights knowing another c ok was pumping those same holes a few hours before? Whore complete fvcking whore

This has never once happened before. We've been nothing more than best friends since middle school. She knows my wife and we've all been to high school together. I'm 34, my wife's 33. So over the years I've realized that my wife and I have nothing in common. She's boring, she played me a lot when we were still dating. It was just physical attraction at first but now we're already married and I am trapped. She cheated on me, in January when we had a fight and I went to stay with my brother for a few days. My daughter's birthday was on Friday. After the party was over, my wife returned home with our girl while I went around dropping off the guests who arranged with us for drop off. Of course, I wanted some alone time with my friend so she was my last passenger. I admit, seeing her in a dress really turned me on, it was almost distracting. When we got to her place, we just hung out for a while and caught up properly. For some reason, I told her about my wife cheating and that was when she suggested something I didn't know I actually really wanted to do. And we did. I enjoyed it but the guilt of doing something like that on my daughter's birthday will always exist. What's even more crazy is that we were both sober. I'd do it again any day but not on my daughter's birthday. My wife doesn't know yet, but I feel like I betrayed my daughter more than I feel any remorse for my wife.

I thought true unconditional love is something that exist only between two people but I was wrong that was a false lie that was nothing but an illusion created by society Humans were not meant to be monogamous , humans are capable of loving and having sexual relations with more than 1 partner at a time and a lot do in the form of cheating and affairs And there are people who are in relationships think about cheating but don't so they torture themselves In that case what is the point of even being in a committed relationship anymore or committing yourself to one person What is the point of even getting married anymore What is the point of a man and woman having an exclusive relationship living together anymore If that's the case Are we not all better off single ? I've lost all faith in humans in humanity You've all convinced me I was wrong what I believed in about love and romance was all a lie a false illusion and it's been shattered to pieces my mind has been blown apart by your answers At the end of the day humans are animals your all just evolved apes monkeys animals F ing around from one sexual partner to the next It's clear to me now Animals don't have a moral conscience that's all a lie and an illusion a social construct created by society too There goes my hopes and dreams of love and romance and marriage and having kids with one man and Having one man all to myself I don't even know what to think anymore I don't know anymore I'm just so confused T~T well i hope you ppl are happy you have shattered an innocent girls world view and blown her mind apart and made her lose all faith in humanity and all faith in humans and relationships T-T i hate all of you !! I can't believe i am saying this but Grande Armee, STEVE, and the rest of the MGTOWs were right the whole time Monogamy between man and a woman is a false lie it's an illusion monogamy is dead marriage is dead

I don't want to work. I want to be free to do whatever I want, whenever I want. I am the type of person who thinks a man should provide for the household and lead. While the wifey is the care taker. Am I delusional or should I hold on to my belifes?