Our daughter is 16 & we have encountered many problems with her. From drug abuse to being suicidal. She's attempted suicide twice when she was 14, 2nd time when she was 15. She was in psychiatric care for a while, she's out now & doing much much better. She smiles more often, takes her medication, doing well in school. & Yes, she's in therapy. I thought our family was fine until I found out my wife was sleeping with my boss. I was so heartbroken, & I was even more heartbroken when she called our daughter an embarrassment. We've divorced & I have full custody because my wife packed her bags & left the state once it was finalized. The other day my daughter asked me why she didn't want us anymore. It broke my heart. I'm just unsure of how to make sure her mental health is okay and how to care for her. My parents are moving in & said they're going to help, but I'm still scared. Please, someone tell me what to do.

I have posted on here before. Yesterday was my birthday and my brother is a truck driver. My husband planned a surprise for me involving our kids to sing happy b day and light the candles. My brother called me five minutes away asking if he can see our kids. My husband annoyed told me yes and I picked up my brother and brought him to the house. My husband was annoyed and barely acknowledged my brother saying he threw off the surprise but I didn t know. Come to find out my husband doesn t care for my family or making them comfortable since they only seem to as he says only care about their own convenience and didn t care about his comfort when my mom caused problems which is true. And he doesn t respect my brother due to him not making an effort for his own son but will always ask to see or talk to our kids. If I go without my husband with my kids he gets mad and will leave for a few days because my mom attempted to steal my kids from daycare . Neither my dad or brother would protect them and he stays away from home not wanting the kids to see him angry he has PTSD what do I do? He came up with the idea to have both sets of parents visit at the same time to balance out the irritants but my parents don t want to do that. But all the effort to visit my kids is us driving 5 hours to see them and my husband pays for the trip to only be irritated. My family has said sorry but he doesn t care they ve done that before (my mom) and continued the behavior..I m lost I m in the middle

This married man, that works at a dog shelter where I volunteer. I don't know if it's because he's bored but he always talks to me when he sees me. He's even told me he looks in the rooms where I sit with the dogs. He told me he was married, but never talks about her ever! He talks about his daughter a lot! We just talk small talk. I'm crushing on him, but I'd never pursue him. Guys if you were attracted to a woman wouldn't you stop talking to her if she was interested in you since your married. So he must find me unattractive huh?!

So I really like this guy. The problem is I'm married so I have to force myself to not like him. We were acquainted and nothing more. It sucks that I see him walking around and he has such an effect on me. It even sucks to know that nothing will ever come out of it and I'm wasting my breath thinking about him. I love my husband but this guy is such a pain. He drowns my happy moments with my family and he sometimes takes over my sex life (fantasies). It's been a year and I avoided every single place I might see him (very hard because he is a local). How long will it take for me to get over this stupid crush? I have no contact with him whatsoever, and I was never alone with him. Any advise helps.

Not EVERYTHING is "godless"! Damn I love my husband but I can't take her crap & DON'T go to church. I do believe in God & Jesus, etc. SOME people take it WAY too far!

My wife wants to divorce me because I lack communication and I have emotionally checked out due to depression and low funds. In last attempt to save the marriage, I suggested to re-enlist into the military to get back on my feet and change my ways and she stills says no. I founded out she gets $1000 in V.A. benefits and housing allowance ($1200) and some other funds verus my one pay check. I thought about getting benefits and she told me not to worry about applying for benefits and just go into the military. I'm thinking she'll divorce me while I'm in to get full custody, alimony and create separation from the kids. What do you think?

I was REAL depressed @ the time & just wanted to sleep all the time b/c for 6 mos we had to live@ his parents house. It was also summer & it gets VERY HOT in JULY & AUGUST. (95 105 degrees) so it was NOT pleasant.

We have been married 4 years . He is autistic , has torrets and adhd . He likes to play video games so when i want to do it he usually Wants to play his games instead . Sometimes its once a week , once a month or twice a week .is this good or bad and he is 25 i am 30

I've been with her for 9 months and My girlfriend won't have sex until we're married which I'm not exactly happy about. I'd like to be sure that we both satisfy each other before hand but she's thinks it doesn't matter. I've thought about breaking up with her but it'd break her heart because all she ever does is tell me how much she loves me and can't wait to get married so we can have sex all the time. She's beyond a wonderful person. She literally does anything for me, like one time I told her I have a foot fetish and I asked if I can play with her feet and she willingly gave them over to me which was very nice on her part. But what should I do? Should I stick it out?

My wife has chronic fatigue syndrome and depression. I was never told about the chronic fatigue syndrome until after marriage. She's depressed because she's not working ATM and she's a stay at home mom pretty much. We don't share any kids together. For almost 2 years I've been the financial backbone for her and her kid. I've sacrificed so much but I don't feel that I'm getting anything in return. Yes she loves me and takes care of me and money can't buy that. I'm 24 and she's going on 30 and we don't have sex anywhere near where I'd like to. And her fatigue and depression isn't helping. It's like I have sacrificed my whole life for them two. My wife doesn't stick with school or have any ambition. She just does what she needs to in order to survive. I find that depressing. She talks about how she treats everything she has as mine too but she doesn't have anything to put in the pot ATM. I know she's trying to get a job but it's not right that I'm taking care of them both. I just feel like I have given up my life in order to be obligated to be a provider for her and her kid. I'm not ungrateful that I have her. I'm just not satisfied. Sex sucks, she's always tired, and she's depressed. She's a decent house wife but that's about it. I'm just tired that every ******* decision I make has to be for those two. I didn't get married in order to be loved and to take care of a wife. We talked about our expectations before and she hasn't held to it. Dropped outta college twice in 1.5 yrs

There are no faithful good women. Not in this society. The problem is that women's youth and beauty is their best asset (definitely not their minds or personalities). But a woman having youth and beauty is like a serial killer having an assault rifle. These qualities turn any woman who has them into a selfish, manipulative, unpredictable, demanding, hypergamous *****. So the only faithful good women out there are the ones with neither youth nor beauty -- basically women past 40 and unattractive women. And if these women had their youth and beauty, they would be exactly the same as the rest. The best compromise for a man is to be extremely careful about his choice of partner or romantic interest. Most men are fools who hopelessly idolize beautiful women even if these women are completely unattainable to them. I'm not ashamed to say that in this respect my sex is dominated by drooling idiots. A beautiful woman learns that men are essentially creatures of convenience, like a race of servants. An intelligent man would NEVER pursue a beautiful woman for a relationship -- his only goal around those women should be a quick fxck to relieve himself in the sperm toilet, followed by ghosting them before they have enough time to screw him over in some manner. A man should choose a plain-looking woman he can trust, knowing that she can't magically become beautiful and dump him. If you look at highly accomplished men with good family lives, you'll find that they rarely marry stunners.

when my husband has his friends over to watch football I go crazy inside seeing one of his friends.I cant stop thinking of him and what he would do t me in bed. I go up to my room and get naked with door slightly open and begin to masturbate hoping he would walk in on me. will this ever go away?

So I just found a video about a guy I liked in 10th grade. He died in Iraq in 2004 and I had a crush on him,I think it's a beautiful video and it brought me to tears,especially since he left so soon,however should I show it to my husband? Plus,what do you think about the video itself? link of the video: https://youtu.be/qSUHfktPsvg @anonymous: What did you personally think about the whole video? @My husband knows I knew him but doesn't know I had a crush on him @dude,first believe it or not I didn't make the video,if you want to believe I made it then you're free to believe that,second: don't tell me only kids seek for advice on yahoo answers and show some respect about a fallen Marine while you're at it Love big words: Yes,I definitely should,but from an outside prospective what did you think about the video itself? Godless Goddess: Because he knew him and so did I. It's like seeing some old friend's stuff. Like there's a pic where they're together,basically to remember him

what is the method to seperate from husband

Newlywed husband and I have a joint account. We both work, I waitress part time and take care of the house/walk the dog and he works concrete inspections 40-60 hours per week. We both get paid biweekly on alternating weeks so there is a paycheck every week, although mine is half of what he makes. The main issue is my cousin's big wedding coming up on our one year anniversary. He just got paid a decent amount and he is sending $500 right off to his parents who pay his $800 monthly student loan bill. He is telling me to go to the wedding by myself because it's going to be way cheaper. I'm really hurt, I carefully planned out a way to pay for the trip by paying for lodging with one check, car rental with the next, and someone to watch the dog/food with the last paycheck but he said no before I could even explain this. It really means a lot to me to go and celebrate our own relationship and have a small affordable vacation (total cost just about $500) but he doesn't care and only wants to stick to the basic needs and keep working to make money.

Let's suppose your mother found you a girl. The daughter of her friend or whatever. So you got involved with that girl and after a couple of years, you decided to get married. Is this an arranged marriage?

my new wife doesnt think its ok that the company treats us to lunch on birthdays. her problem is that there are women and men at the lunch what do you think

I have friend who I've known since kindergarten. I'm getting married next June and we have obviously went our separate ways since high school. I went to university and got my degree and have been working as a consultant for a firm. She had a baby at 19, another one at 24, and just recently got her bachelors degree and wants to get her masters. She works as a project manager at some construction company. She just recently got married to a guy who is not the father of her kids and wants to have ANOTHER baby soon. So she will have a 13 year old, 8 year old, and a new baby. Her hubby is an engineer. Since we have different lives, I just disagreed with her choices she made to keep both of her kids. She was not in any position to have them so young. I just feel above it all. Should I even invite her to my wedding? Or just play nice and be fake for a night?

Mia is my wife she is 32. We where having sex a couple of nights ago and she said this to me. "Spank me like you spank our kids". So I hit her butt once. She said that's not how you spank Emma or Drew harder. So I hit it my hardest that I've done on Drew I've spanked drew the hardest out of my 2 daughters. She said I'm sorry daddy. I was confused is this normal from your wife?

My husbands "friend" Erica tells him who she s having sex with? I was unaware of the relationship my husband even had with Erica. People around town say he had an affair. We ve been married almost 20 years. Who would this woman be telling my husband about her sexual encounters if they were just friends?

I know my friend's husband is cheating. I am a 27 year old woman and my friend is 30 and has been married to this man for a few years. My wife and i always go to this club every Friday night and we have seen him there with women, usually the same woman, it is clear they are more than friends as he is always kissing her and more, we seem him there almost every friday. He has always disliked me for being lesbian, i am worried that if i tell my friend he is cheating, he will try and make it out that i am lying because i want her and am trying to split them up, Which is completly untrue, i love my friend as a friend and i am very happy with my wife. Should i tell her that he is cheating? How can i tell her so that there is no doubt, so that he cant make excuses and say i am lying etc, this is one of my closest friends and i hate to see her made a fool of by him. What should i do?

I am married for 5 years and our sexual life was great, with passionate sex and having lots of fun with each other. But as we progressed, things started to become routine…to the point where now it is boring. Mostly she is always excusing herself for sex, and when we have it (mostly in the same position) she seems to be doing it to get over with it. I feel like I should look for excitement elsewhere (in other words, cheating or watching porn and masturbating). Is it even possible to find ways of exploring hidden, uncultivated desires and discover newfound pleasure possibilities.

My wife said it and I didn't know what to say is it a compliment

At the beginning of our marriage we made the mistake of talking about our ex's. I have always felt that he was extremely hurt by his ex leaving him. One time I had the urge of asking him a silly question if he loved his ex more. Ever since he would give me the silent treatment whenever we mentioned the ex. He will never ever assure me of his love to me and he'll never answer my questions. Is this so because he loved her more and doesn't want to answer me and hurt me or is it his way of controlling me.

She said they met at her work they where just friends

My wife every morning and evening after coming back from work, or when i am leaving out i always love to hug her and lip kiss her naturally. Often, most of the time always while doing so or leaving home, she give same arguments and get angry on me whenever i am leaving home or coming back to home from outside. Wife same girly comment: "eeuuuwwww with angry face: how many girls i have seen/will see today at office with blond hair, short skirts, lipstick on bla bla nonstop" what does it mean? does she loves me? or feel insecure? or very jealous about other girls? to not get involved with me? or like warn me not to even think about other girls at all? Can you please explain?

My husband and I have been together for 15 years. We have an 10 year old daughter and 6 year old son.The other day, I caught him (on security cameras) secretly using our daughter as a slave. She came in to sit on the couch after school. When she sat down,she started doing her homework as while I was at the store getting our dinner. My husband interrupted her and said "Sweetheart,do you mind untying my shoes? I have trouble doing it." My daughter said sure and did it. I thought it would end here, but it continued. After his shoes being untied, he asked Lilly (daughter) to slip off his shoes. Her being kind agreeded. As soon as they were off, he let out a sigh of relief, then set his feet on Lilly's lap. She said how they were sweaty and stunk to get them off. He put his feet up to her nose and told her to sniff. She said no and held her breath. He knew she had to breathe sometime, so kept them there. Eventually, my daughter took a breath and started coughing. Husband laughed and said "This is punishment for you getting a bad grade." He then let her have a little break as his feet rested on her. Then,he took a foot and started rubbing it against her vaginia area. He continued this and she was forced to remove her pants. He then forced Lilly to suck his penis. She tried running away, but he grabbed her. He sat on top of her on the couch as she sucked on his penis for 20 minutes. Could this be considered child abuse, should we divorce?