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- Question: Am I overreacting for not wanting to chat with someone who took a screenshot?
- Question: How do I make friends easily?
- Question: What should I do!!!?
- Question: How to convice parents to let me mail?
- Question: Annoying friend? How to nicely get rid of her?
- Question: I want to kill myself?
- Question: I just need an opinion?
- Question: Ive been friends with a person for about 7 years but whenever we hangout or chat they arent as social as they used to be..?
- Question: Should I fight this guy after school from a last year problem?
- Question: How should I apologize to my friend?
- Question: Ive been friends with a person for about 7 years but whenever we hangout or chat they arent as social as they used to be..?
- Question: Neighborhood gossip don't know what to do? Former neighbors making my life hell?
- Question: What to do if I have been accidentally calling my friend a c*nt every week for a year?
- Question: Should I stay friends with someone who puts me last and doesn't really care if we're friends?
- Question: What do you think of this body paragraph? For Theme essay on guilt?
- Question: Why does my friend lie SO MUCH to impress people?
- Question: How do I make friends so easily??
- Question: Why do seniors hate freshmen in high school?
- Question: Is it bad that my friends never think of inviting me to hang?
- Question: Harry Potter or Twilight?
- Question: Do you think my friends are jerks?
- Question: Did you ever feel sad about the friends you have?
- Question: I have no friends, I'm very sad about it?
- Question: Friend is annoying the life out of me?
- Question: What should I get my bff she loves makeup singing and dancing and hanging out she is a very loyal and trustful leader what should I get her?
- Question: How to act more masculine??
- Question: Does my friend like me?
- Question: What happen to me?
- Question: Could my school expell me for marijuana?
- Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman?
- Question: My ex-best friend is heart-breaking?
- Question: How do you plan and make a funeral?
- Question: I can't speak to the girl I love anymore?
- Question: What should I do about my roommate?
- Question: So I have a "friend" that continues to call me boo, hun, b*tch, little pet names after I repeatedly asked her not...?
- Question: Why do I get told this by older people?
- Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman?
- Question: My best friend blames herself for my injury?
- Question: Is what I said jacked up?
- Question: Should I ask him if we are friends anymore?
- Question: Is this invalidity some one with a disability rights because something wasn't right?
- Question: Why do people who befriended you suddenly shy away from the friendship?
- Question: Is it worth having a friend if you argue half the time?
- Question: Is this world full of criminals?
- Question: While at school during homeroom my bf was sitting behind me and my other guy friends all around me and the teacher walked out of the room?
- Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman?
- Question: Who should I thank? It p s me off that they would make her do this. I hope they regret it forever?
- Question: How do i interact better with people?
- Question: Are these legit shrooms?
- Question: Do you think my friend will like me again!? I want him too! He hates ne sk my j for no re way aunt thing Fayeh colly rodtez?
- Question: Did I do the right thing in this matter? What would you have done?
- Question: My best friend is giving me a reason hard time about my fiancee and said whe isn't the right person for me. What do I do?
- Question: Is my best friend even my friend anymore?
- Question: Why do girls hang with jerks and bullies?
- Question: How much do you spend on your children's friends Christmas presents?
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- Question: Hey everyone, I really need ur help I'm 14 and I'm facing problems at school everyone hates me?
- Question: My friend never calls for my birthday and just texts a generic Happy Birthday. Please evaluate this situation to see if I'm overreacting.?
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Question: Am I overreacting for not wanting to chat with someone who took a screenshot? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:41 PM PST I sent a snap of my boob to a friend from another country. And he screenshotted it. I felt so betrayed. Why would you want to keep that? Am I overreacting for not wanting to communicate with him anymore? |
Question: How do I make friends easily? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:34 PM PST I know it's long but please read... So in 5th grade I moved states so.. A new school and I was pretty much clueless on how to make new friends cuz u had been with the same people my whole life.. So I basically never spoke unless spoken to and I was really really shy and akward with new people.. I am in 9th grade now and I have ONE FRIEND IN SCHOOL! And I'm pretty sure she only talks to me because she feels bad cuz she only talks to me when I'm the only one there.. I know I made a horrible first impression and it'd be tooooo akward to try and become friends with people I had been with for 5 years but never spoke to so that's out of the question... There was a girl yesterday who was new to the school and she was really quiet.. And today I saw her with all the popular kids louder than everyone there like tf? How does that even happen I'm most likely moving to a new school because in moving and I want a complete personality makeover (I don't want to change who I am.. I just want to not be shy and quiet anymore) I'm not as shy as I used to be at all but still am a little obviously.. How does one become friends with someone so fast without making it akward like?... |
Question: What should I do!!!? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:31 PM PST So I told one of my friends, who I will call Victoria, that I was pansexual and word got out and this girl, well call her Kat, SO Kat found out and started asking people that already knew about it. She may have also told some people too. My friend was the one to tell me about this, well call her Hana. So Hana told me, and said Victoria was the one who told Kat (whom began the rumour) so I confronted victoria and she claimed she hates Kat, and that she would never hurt me or share that info. And TBH I'm starting to believe Victoria. After school, I dmd Kat and SHE claimed Victoria told her that. And she keeps saying that she never told anyone, but I know she did?!?! WHAT DO I DO?!? HOW DO I GET HER TO STOP? (Btw my parents don't know I'm pan, though I COULD say it's a lie..and I already told Kat that it was a lie even tho it isn't) |
Question: How to convice parents to let me mail? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:31 PM PST I have a friend and its gonna be her birthday soon. She lives in a diffetent state so I wanted to mail her something :I |
Question: Annoying friend? How to nicely get rid of her? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:28 PM PST There s this girl in my class who s beyond annoying. She is constantly asking me for candy (wtf?) and takes my phone on a daily basis (today she asked if she could borrow it for a whole day!) She wants me to have lunch with her tomorrow. How can I politely get rid of her? |
Question: I want to kill myself? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:24 PM PST pretty self explanatory. I'm 16, I texted all my contacts first so maybe I would have a friend to talk to.. but my "friends" don't like me and they don't answer my texts. I have no real friends and I transferred high schools so I could make some and not be lonely all the time, but my depression and social anxiety makes conversations with me a bit hard. I wish I could kill myself tonight without the backlash of hurting my family - they are messed up but they love me so much. There is nothing left in me to want to live, just that I don't want to hurt my family. I am so depressed I don't want to go on another day. What do I do? |
Question: I just need an opinion? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:24 PM PST My (kind of) friend has 2 brothers and 1 of them went to prison and the other when to a mental hospital... where do you think my (kind of) friend will end up |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:16 PM PST we usually end up cracking jokes for about the first 30 minutes we talk but after that they just stop conversation, even when im trying to interact with them they just gimme simple answers. Idk what it is they've been like this for about a year now.. Maybe they take some of my jokes to personal ,but theyre not the type to get offended we always used to crack jokes about eachother.. we usually end up cracking jokes for about the first 30 minutes we talk but after that they just stop conversation even when im trying to interact with them. Idk what it is they've been like this for about a year now.. Maybe they take some of my jokes to personal ,but theyre not the type to get offended we always used to crack jokes about eachother.. I dont know what to do just need some advice. |
Question: Should I fight this guy after school from a last year problem? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:08 PM PST Ok last year me and my old friend (not my friend anymore who wants that dude anyways) fought for 3 seconds, he knew the fight would last for 3 seconds because it was in school. He is a ***** and he knows it, I am trying to fight him after school, should I do it? It has been stressing me since and if I fight him all that stress lets go. I mean I might grow out of it but for 6 months it has been stressing me out, should I fight him? |
Question: How should I apologize to my friend? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 05:08 PM PST So this was about few weeks ago but my friend she's a girl, and she had a tampon and she wanted to give it to her guy friend and see his reaction. I told her not to and it was a bad idea so I stayed out of it. I watched her giving it to him at a far distance. When my friend got back she told me how he got really mad and he wasn't planning on talking to us ever again. The most important part is this guy forgave my friend but not me. Like I said I wasn't even there at that situation. He's really mad at me and I don't know what to do. My friend told me he'll eventually get over it, but I'm afraid that I might never be able to talk to him. I want to apologize again since I already apologized before but he won't even talk to me. When we're together with my other friends he would just ignore me and think I'm not even in this world or something. I really need some help advice, because I don't want to lose one of my friends so please help me. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:53 PM PST we usually end up cracking jokes for about the first 30 minutes we talk but after that they just stop conversation even when im trying to interact with them. Idk what it is they've been like this for about a year now.. Maybe they take some of my jokes to personal ,but theyre not the type to get offended we always used to crack jokes about eachother.. |
Question: Neighborhood gossip don't know what to do? Former neighbors making my life hell? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:52 PM PST I have former neighbors that continue to follow me were ever I move just to spread malicious gossip about me. They have been saying that I am stupid and that I am a hypocrite and a racist which I am not. The problem is my cousin knows these former neighbors. My cousin and don't get along and she has told them private conversations and private secrets that I told her when we got along. Such as I went to a psychic and she told me I needed a cleansing which I didn't believe. I moved in my recent neighborhood about a year ago and everyone starts laughing at me and calling me stupid because these former neighbors have told them to start a fight with me. I don't know what to do because eveywhere I move they are going to know where I live because of my cousin. I love my aunt and I have told her about my cousin but she doesn't believe her daughter could do this to me. My cousin will know where I move because my mom talk s to my aunt everyday and she is family, I couldn't keep my address from her. People in the neighborhood always making negative comments without even knowing me just because of my former neighbors gossip and the conversations I have had with my cousin before. I was laid off my job in June and when I told my aunt about it , my cousin told my former neighbors making my recent neighbors now I didn't have a job. I am tired of people making comments or knowing abou my life. What should I do? |
Question: What to do if I have been accidentally calling my friend a c*nt every week for a year? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:46 PM PST Every week we meet at a coffee shop to talk, and we only ever meet on Tuesdays. So every time she drops me off at my house, I say "I'll see you next Tuesday." and she laughs every time I do. I always figured she was laughing because I have a sort of awkward monotone voice. Only recently, after doing it every week for over a year have I realized that "C U Next Tuesday" is another way of calling someone a c*nt. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:38 PM PST I have this friend. She's really nice and friendly and listens to me but then she doesn't really talk to me. She prefers to hang out with everyone else but me and she acts like hanging out with me once and a while is mandatory. I do a lot for her, I go out of my way for her, I buy her stuff. But she never does the same for me. She never buys me things and she never goes out of her way. I try to talk to her about it but she just shuts me out. She cares so much more about everyone else and cares so much about her job, family, husband that I'm at the bottom of her list. Sure, maybe that's good for her but for me it makes me feel bad because i Don't have anyone else! Should I bother staying friends with someone who doesn't actively want to be friends with me and puts me last? |
Question: What do you think of this body paragraph? For Theme essay on guilt? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:36 PM PST A year later Tory decides to leave Stepleton because of all the drama, rumors, and the type of people in that town. After Tory moves to a new school a kid Leo goes to Tory to have a conversation and says " 'People used to say I was weird,' he said. 'I used to care. But I don't anymore. People shouldn't care, people shouldn't use words like weird once you hit junior year. Everyone's weird. That's the way I look at it' " (6) From hearing what he says, Tory goes back to remembering the guilt he felt when he found out he was part of the reason Chris left Stepleton. Now, Tory knows how he should be treating Leo. Instead of just telling Leo to leave and that he doesn't like him Tory decides to be nice to him. Since Tory doesn't want to end up having to deal with what he did last year all over again. |
Question: Why does my friend lie SO MUCH to impress people? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:17 PM PST So my close friend lies to everyone about the stupidest things you can think of. My friend and I are in high school and i guess in the "cool group" She lies about being a partier, getting high and drunk, and about having sex with random guys. These are definitely NOT true. Everyone knows she's a liar, but is she insane? Her lying is almost pathological; I can think of 100 lies off the top of my head she's has told me. Why is she lying about screwing random guys, frat parties, drugs, and drinking? |
Question: How do I make friends so easily?? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 04:04 PM PST I know it's long but please read... So in 5th grade I moved states so.. A new school and I was pretty much clueless on how to make new friends cuz u had been with the same people my whole life.. So I basically never spoke unless spoken to and I was really really shy and akward with new people.. I am in 9th grade now and I have ONE FRIEND IN SCHOOL! And I'm pretty sure she only talks to me because she feels bad cuz she only talks to me when I'm the only one there.. I know I made a horrible first impression and it'd be tooooo akward to try and become friends with people I had been with for 5 years but never spoke to so that's out of the question... There was a girl yesterday who was new to the school and she was really quiet.. And today I saw her with all the popular kids louder than everyone there like tf? How does that even happen I'm most likely moving to a new school because in moving and I want a complete personality makeover (I don't want to change who I am.. I just want to not be shy and quiet anymore) I'm not as shy as I used to be at all but still am a little obviously.. How does one become friends with someone so fast without making it akward like?... |
Question: Why do seniors hate freshmen in high school? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:49 PM PST I'm a Canadian freshman girl and the seniors at my new school are rude! I was friends with everyone no matter what grade and so were the other kids in elementary and middle school. We would help out anyone who's being bullied or even the 5 year old who fell off the playground. They're more arrogant and mean than when we were when we were the oldest students of our schools. First of all, they roll their eyes at us and tease us for no reason and it's not just at my school - I've seen over 10+ questions from freshmen on this site having the same problem and my friends from other schools say the seniors act all high and mighty too. They make excuses for teasing younger people like how we're so loud and obnoxious and how we cry in the hallways over getting lost or breaking up with a boyfriend. I rarely even do that and I know drama happens in the hallways - in fact I've seen a few seniors crying in the hallways too and yet they say we do that "alot"? I can imagine how they'd feel when they become college freshmen and they don't know anyone but right now they act all grown. Why is it specifically them that dislike us? Some of them are more noisy than us and one day this grade 12 girl came up to me and said that we 9th graders parents give us better phones than them because we're babies? The teachers said the seniors were always tough on the freshmen every year and there's at least one issue per year related to senior and freshman bullying/drama It's been almost three months since high school started. |
Question: Is it bad that my friends never think of inviting me to hang? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:48 PM PST Don't get me wrong they're all really nice and all good friends but they just never invite me. If I ask to come they usually say yes, unless other people idk are there. Maybe they don't invite me cuz they all smoke and I don't? Don't ****** say "get new friends" because I'm not saying their bad. |
Question: Harry Potter or Twilight? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:44 PM PST I know the answer of course but I'm trying to prove a point to my friend. Also I am willing to debate any of you |
Question: Do you think my friends are jerks? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:44 PM PST My friends always imitate what kids with down syndrome and autism do. Like they call them retarded and talk stupidly and make weird faces and other stuff. They only do it in front of friends which is good but I feel like it's so rude. My parents always say the word retarded is the worst word you can say so I feel like hanging with my friends is making me adapt to their vocab and saying these words a lot but I don't want to. |
Question: Did you ever feel sad about the friends you have? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:44 PM PST This may sound selfish, but I am so disappointed in the friends that I have. They are not the type of friends to throw you birthday surprises, or the type you can call anytime you really need to talk. Heck, most times it takes weeks for them to reply to text messages. My best friend recently came out and even before then, she has never behaved like a best friend. She now spends all day and night with her girlfriend, who is a mutual friend and who I am sure doesn't really like me. I get a bit jealous when I see other best friends doing so much for each other.. I mean, did you ever feel this way about your friends? |
Question: I have no friends, I'm very sad about it? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:38 PM PST I'm a lonely boy, everyone in my school has their friends, and only I have no friends. I feel that I am in depression because my parents are doctors, they work at night, and do not have time to stay with me. I live in Seattle, as it's always cold here, I'm always in the house. My parents actually are from North Platte (Nebraska), we moved to Seattle in 1999, since then we have not kept in touch with our family members. I was 8 months old when we moved to Seattle. I am currently 17 years old. |
Question: Friend is annoying the life out of me? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:28 PM PST I have this friend (who I've known for only 2 years) who always asks for help on everything school-related. In fact, our friendship began like an arranged deal where I would write her essays and/or assignments and she would kind of buy me lunch (sounds odd but it was just something that worked for us). A few months ago, after getting really fed up, I suggested that I no longer like this arrangement and that I can help with small things like if she has questions, but I will no longer be doing her work for her. But even after that, she constantly tries to make me do things for her, be it small or big assignments, and when I am straightforward with her, she gets insanely angry and says it doesn't hurt to help others.. like are you kidding me?! How much I have helped you in the past, no one would do that for her. She's getting me so irritated, and I told her I always help people, but it's time they do their own work. I guess I have this need to please people all the time, so I feel a bit upset when she stays mad at me. Is there anything I can do to ensure she's not mad but still not do her work? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:25 PM PST what should I get my bff for Christmas she loves beauty sing & dancing she is loyal and a truthful leader what should I get her?????!!!! |
Question: How to act more masculine?? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 03:15 PM PST So I'm 13 and I'm a boy. I want to act more masculine because girls treat me like a gay friend. I'm not gay at all and I never really had a father figure in the house. Today this dude bumped into me on purpose and I pushed him back but I didn't push him hard because he was just playing and I knew him. It was a gang of girls behind him and he said "That dude weak and gay" and he started shaking his head. It kinda got to me. I notice people don't take me serious either. I don't have too many guy friends and I want to change that. I can't get a girlfriend because people think I'm too friendly and nice. My voice is somewhere in the middle. I don't talk that much. I wear Jordan's (shoe company) everyday. Can someone help me and give me some tips. Please don't say "be yourself" because this is who I want to be. I'd really appreciate it. Thanks |
Question: Does my friend like me? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:59 PM PST Me and my friend have been friends for five years. But recently he has made another friend who hates me. This friend is always trying to separate me and my friend. And always follows my friend around. He is constantly bad mouthing me and making sure I can't see my friend. Now I feel uncomfortable talking to my friend and I am worried that my friend no longer likes me. Like today I was talking to him on the phone and he didn't seem happy to talk to me. Is my friendship with my friend over. What should I do. How do I talk to my friend. Please help me I am struggling to get through my life right now |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:58 PM PST At one point i didn t give a **** at what people thought about but now the little as things break me apart i cant be myself around people and i feel like nothing right i try my best to be like i used to be back in the days a out going person who used to be cool but know i cant be my self i drop all of my friends and i rarely come out. |
Question: Could my school expell me for marijuana? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:11 PM PST Me and my two friends from school would occasionaly go to a park and smoke a little bit and play some basketball. Something happened to my one friend and then he went home and it's been about more then a week and he still is not at school. My other friend was here two days ago but now is not at school. I got called down to the office and was questioned. My principal starts off by saying that there's been talk of drugs and who to get it from and this and that and your name was mentioned. I was confused because I wasn't a dealer or anything to them. We talk a little bit more and he asks "Have you ever tried or experimented with any drugs?" I tell him that I have before last school year because of a very bad family situation and me being an EXTREMELY anxious person I tried marijuana. He goes oh ok that's probably why your name was mentioned and he sent he back. Well today rolls around and I get called to meet with one of my teachers because my principal is away for a week. He talks to me about how there were texts and he knows about the park, so I know they ratted on me too. I tell him yes we would go to the park and play basketball and that it did happen up there. He said "Right and that lined up what they said, and I know this wasn't an ongoing thing" then that was it. I'm just worried that they will expell me but I don't know. Anyone have similar experiences or stories? |
Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:11 PM PST What does that mean? Why would he have sex with a black woman on several occasions if he only likes Caucasian women? He's black but says he only likes white women. Yet he's had sex with a black woman on several occasions. Yes I know sex is sex but why would you have sex with someone you don't like? Don't you have to like the person in some way to have sex with them? |
Question: My ex-best friend is heart-breaking? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 02:09 PM PST So, I knew this girl for about 4 years and we were so close, but she was an attention-seeker. I had to stay up every night to calm her down when she said she needed my help and she would use me to her advantage, (because I'm kinda a pushover)- homework, someone to rant all her problems to e.t.c, but she never did ANYTHING kind for me or asked me how I was. She was emotionally manipulative and honestly the worst person I have ever met (and it had nothing to do with her depression, just her personality is vain and egoistic). So then, she drifted away from me, leaving me heartbroken. After all I helped her through, she left me! Anyway, now I have got the best friends I can wish for, but my friend is saying that my ex-best friend has changed and is asking me to forgive her. I just can't do it- one night a few months ago, I was crying over her and my parents cheered me up, but I will never forget how she ripped my heart into shreds. I have never truly hated someone until now, because I realise how selfish she was. I dont know what to do, I have three classes with this girl |
Question: How do you plan and make a funeral? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 01:59 PM PST My best friend from my childhood Derek past away today, he died from stomach cancer. I want to make a funeral and honor him. I will seriously miss him, like we were friends since kindergarten. We're 35 |
Question: I can't speak to the girl I love anymore? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 01:26 PM PST So there was this girl who absolutely meant the world to me, and I adored and admired her so much, but listen. I ****** it up by talking about her all the time, and she got majorly creeped out. After about 6 months of feeling awful about the fact that I'd made her feel so uncomfortable, I tried to kill myself, and while I was in hospital, I messaged her to ask her to tell my friends where I was, since it was the middle of school and she was the only person I know who has 4G. She was so upset she was crying and crying to her parents and all her friends because she thought it was her fault because she was 'mean to me' apparently. After that, her parents told the police to tell me I wasn't allowed to contact her. The police didn't get there in time and I messaged her, after my best friend, who she was very close with, told me how upset she was. I'd already deleted all my social media, so the only way to tell her what I wanted to say was for my friend to screenshot my message to him and send it to her, which he did, and she said she was going to show the police. At that point I just gave up. I can't even talk to her anymore. When you read the title, you thought she was moving away, huh? No, it's so much worse than that. Help, please. Damn guys those answers legit made me cry. You just made an already suicidal 14 year old kid cry Thanks, I'd delete this question if I could |
Question: What should I do about my roommate? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 01:26 PM PST you see, im not a very big fan of my roomate. shes loud, obnoxious, and a manipulative liar. she tells her sorority big that I bully her?? I dont start anything... but i do defend my self. most of the things she starts up are online. she tweeted "omg i need a room switch" (we live in dorms) so i replied with "OMG same." she always subtweets about me and my friends but gets mad at us when we dont include her (she subtweets about that too) . what should i do?? am i in the wrong?? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 01:18 PM PST time after time Ive asked her not to call me any type of pet names however she ignores my request and continues to do so....Im learning about personal boundaries and I feel as if she doesn't oblige to them. She tells me thats how she talks and she can't change the way she talks...Im a little unsure what to do in this situation because yes it annoys the crap out of me, she won't stop ( fails to look outside her bubble), and she's my roommate...i neeed a little advice on how i should handle this situation... what would be the necessary thing to do in this situation? |
Question: Why do I get told this by older people? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 12:49 PM PST Majority of older people I come across always mention how they wish they were me when they were my age (18). They always say How I'm wise beyond my years and so brave. But why? I guess I don't think that highly of myself but why would anyone want to be me? Should I take that as a compliment? |
Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 12:07 PM PST What does that mean? Why would he have sex with a black woman on several occasions if he only likes Caucasian women? He's black but says he only likes white women. Yet he's had sex with a black woman on several occasions. Yes I know sex is sex but why would you have sex with someone you don't like? Don't you have to like the person in some way to have sex with them? |
Question: My best friend blames herself for my injury? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:48 AM PST So me and my bestfriends went bike riding and her front bike tire hit my back bike tire. This caused me to lose control and runinto a tree. We where going really fast down hilI. I broke my neck, legs, and fractured my arm and back. So I'm in a wheelchair. My friend keeps blaming herself even though I told her I'm not mad. She won't believe me and is now harming herself to make me feel better. What can I do to convince her I'm not mad at all, it could have happened with out her even there. |
Question: Is what I said jacked up? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:43 AM PST A former friend of mine made fun of me for being short (5'4) so I made fun of him for not having a mom that loves him. |
Question: Should I ask him if we are friends anymore? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:30 AM PST I have a "friend" if you could say, and we use to be best friends. At high school, he was shy but I decided that he seemed cool and had lunch with him when I saw he was alone. I introduced him to my group of friends and he has been part of our "gang" ever since. My best friend and him were shipped by everyone and I had a crush on him but gave up on it. When I was depressed and tried killing myself, he was the friend I called when I gave up. He was the friend I relied on and soon he developed a crush on me. Before the feeling could get any further, I told him I wanted to just be friends since I can't love someone when I don't even love myself. After a incident, I was kicked out by my group of friends that he and I were in and am now hated by them. (I still don't know what I did wrong) After that, he avoids me and every time I try to make plans with him, he turns me down even though I know he is free. When we see each other in person though, he seems nice and still talks to me. Should I ask him if we are even friends anymore? Can you consider it that we are even friends? |
Question: Is this invalidity some one with a disability rights because something wasn't right? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:23 AM PST I'm upset and concerned ahoy this girl who between the ages of 21-26 she said high funcatoning and lives Indpenty and I charge of her own health care but there was some one she had last year was so bad she basically took over her psychial like signed all her fourms and told them stuff that wasn't even true and she told them thst I actually was sexuality expirementing with her forcefully and I been getting my friends involved to help me have sex with her when that never happen she got them to ask her at her gyn annual well woman visit Infront of a pre med class I know because my best friend texted me about it because she was one of the Med students and she was so upset after they got every one to leave and she calmed down my best friend showed her a picture of me And she answered who that she kinda looks fimliar but I don't really know her I was so upset she said those things I found she did it became other people told her and she wanted her to talk about every thing when she shy and dosent feel comfortable talking about every thing she also told them she been going out bars and hard partying and that not true either because I m a bar tender at a few those places she said she goes to I have never seen her there and she believed also false rumors about her having sex with a guy and how she played him all because he mad because won't date him and she went through her phone too luckily her parents got her out her life but still this was wrong and mean She also made her feel depressed and not worthy of any thing and parents had to fix it and thank god the primary care place is so Intued to her and things are slowly getting better but should I make a report or no |
Question: Why do people who befriended you suddenly shy away from the friendship? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:20 AM PST What might be the reason? New friends to-be, hit it off and all of a sudden: one of the partners decide to become distant, withdrawn or not interested at all. Suddenly they don't know what you're talking about when they were the ones who come up with plans and invite you. I just don't understand it's mostly adults I see this in. |
Question: Is it worth having a friend if you argue half the time? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:14 AM PST We were close at one point, but now we don't see each other much anymore. We talk just through texting and such. But now I see many of the conversations we have are just us arguing or having some kind of disagreement that can't be settled. Plus, this friend is somewhat of a bad influence. Should I ditch him? |
Question: Is this world full of criminals? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 11:03 AM PST 2 month ago I got mugged and they took my smartphone. 5 month ago one of my friend got jumped by 5 dudes and they beat him to unconscious and stole his phone. 4 month ago my brothers shoes and jacket got stolen in school. 2 month ago my little 7 year old brothers psp got stolen by one of his friends. 9 month ago , someone stabbed my friends dad with ring knife(something sharpe in ring) at his face and stole his stuffs. Just freaking today someone stole my bicycle ,I had secured it, I had put securities ,I had put it in proper place but still got stolen. I can't believe anyone anymore. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 10:34 AM PST For quite a while. I was wearing sweatpants pink socks with tennishoes and a tank top belly shirt. My bf decided to grab my waist and start tickling me. I just shook him off and stuff and then he tickles my butt!!!!! I started laughing out loud and screaming. Then the teacher calls me up front and makes me tel other class what happened. Well now everyone knows I'm ticklish and somehow they even found out my worst spots. Belly feet butt boobs thighs and armpits. I hate getting tickled so what should I do about guys coming up and trying to tickle me. It's no big deal just curious on how to stop it |
Question: If a man says he only likes Caucasian women but he has sex with a black woman? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 10:23 AM PST What does that mean? Why would he have sex on several occasions with a black woman if he only likes Caucasian women? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 09:51 AM PST Due to people being mean to my best friend she took her life and I will no longer see her. I hope everyone who treated her like $#!+ regrets it. Even people on the Internet. |
Question: How do i interact better with people? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 09:39 AM PST I just want some advices . There's this friend , we were both part of a group of four , the four of us were friends but only when we're together. One of us is studying abroad at the moment, so it's just us three. We haven't seen eachother in a year and now we started hanging out . One of them asked me to hang out with her , and the other can't go so it's just the two of us . We're not that close but she's a close friend. I think I'm a bit awkward when I'm alone with someone and i just don't know how to be fun , people keep telling me to be myself but I don't how and my real self isn't that interesting. How should i be when I'm with her ? Also , I'm not really that good at deciding what's appropriate to say and what's not . How do i be fun around her ? If you could just give me some tips or pieces of advice i would be sooo grateful . Thanks. |
Question: Are these legit shrooms? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 09:34 AM PST https://www.amazon.com/Dried-Black-Trumpet-Mushrooms-Cornucopioides/dp/B00BMDTQBS/ref=sr_1_6_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1480484805&sr=8-6&keywords=shrooms Hey! So me and some friends were wanting to try shrooms/ acid. I was just curious if these are legit orrrrr what? Kinda confused at the fact shrooms are being sold on amazon lmao That s I m curious if I m thinking of the right shrooms or not lol Thanks! P.S. please don t give opinions on whether or not shrooms are good or bad for you/ whether or not I should take them or not, Everyone s bodies are different and each individual knows what is and isn t good for their mental and physical beings. So please no judgements (-: |
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Question: Did I do the right thing in this matter? What would you have done? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 09:26 AM PST I was at the beauty shop talking to a women I had seen there before. She asked me where I worked and I told her the XYZ company. She ask me if I knew John Doe who worked there. I told her he was my boss. She asked what I thought of him as a boss. I told her he was the best boss ever and a really nice guy. I and the rest of his employees just adore him. Then she said he was her ex husband. I though to my self "That was probably not something I should of said but I had told her the truth". Much to my surprise she said "I have come to realize that he is a great guy and I made a BIG mistake divorcing him. I really want to get back with him. Would you ask him to call me?" I did not say yes or no. I got out of there as fast as I could. I knew I could not go back to that beauty parlor as she might be there. After giving it some thought, I decided to NOT tell my boss about this and to stay out of his love life. It is none of my business. Please tell me if you think I made the right decision. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 09:11 AM PST Okay so my girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 years since 2012) and I'm quite happy for her. I mean she admitted to me that she kissed another guy unexpectedly. She told me the guy kissed her and she didn't kiss him. I told her the relationship is over and I didn't wanna go back with her. So she tried wo many things to get me back. For a while I couldn't forgive her or accept it at all. She wrote me a special song at a party and asked me to give her another chance. So I decided to give her another chance and that was two years ago (2014). Then I proposed to her earlier this January and she said yes so we set up a wedding date for next month which js the 10th. My best friend who is the best man doesn't like my fiancee now and he things I'm making a huge mistake. We were doing wedding plans and my best friend wanted to come along and help. He kept interrupting us when we tried to choose, but mostly keip interrupting Madison. Madison have had enough and asked why my best friend is giving her a hard time. I told him to let is choose and he said, "Adam, as your best friend I HAVE to tell you straight up! She isn't the woman for you! She cheated on you and you stupidly crawled RIGHT back to her just because of a stupid song, She's using you for money!" Then he, said, "She doesn't care about you! She isn't the right woman for and she broke your heart. If you get married it's going tobe a disaster and you'll end up in a DIVORCE!!!! I'm just looking out for you and refuse to see you hurt again. Not on MY watch!" I told him that I appreciate him looking out for me but I love Madison and we're getting married either he likes it or not. He's wrong about her. He said, "Fine! Get married!" Don't come crying to me when you get divorced!" "I'll prove to you that she is a user. YOU'LL SEE!!!!" And he stormed off. We all make mistakes and she said she's not with me for my money. She never was. He does NOT like Madison at all but I dont care. I love her. |
Question: Is my best friend even my friend anymore? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:57 AM PST i've known this girl for almost five years and we've been best friends for more than 4 years, we already graduated from highschool and she's now in university, after all we still keep in touch, hang out and all, but lately i've realize that im the only one keeping in touch lately, she doesn't talk to me unless i talk to her first, and after a couple of messages she doesn't even answer me anymore, when we make plans to go out she cancels at last minute or doesn't even answer me anymore about that. i have no idea what to do because i already talked to her and she apologised and said we are still best friends and that she misses me, also tags me on quotes of bests friends or true frienship stuff but she keeps ignoring me, i have no idea what to do, i don't want to be salty telling her that she's a terrible best friend or that i don't even know if she's my best friend or even a friend at all, but it's also killing me not closing that, what should i do? |
Question: Why do girls hang with jerks and bullies? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:46 AM PST This is the only reason why I avoid and shun them, Seems like that is the only people that they hang with Does anyone know the reason why? |
Question: How much do you spend on your children's friends Christmas presents? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:30 AM PST Earlier, I was speaking to my 14 year old daughter and 13 year old son about Christmas presents for their friends. My daughter was really bothered and had spent hours trying to find something for her friends, especially her best friend. I think this is lovely as she has never been very popular and I'm pleased she's beginning to become closer to people. My son on the other hand isn't bothered about buying presents for his friends, but thinks that he should get whatever money I give his sister as it's 'only fair' and he should decide what to do with any money given out. Firstly, how much should I let my daughter spend on her friends? (She has 2/3 friends and a best friend)? And should I give my son the money he wants? |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:29 AM PST I am always going where my friend wants to go and things he wants to do then he blames me for all his problems and says we always do what I want to do and he is just willing to stop being friends with me and other friends even if he feels third wheeled for a second... He s ignoring me and my friend for that reason and I think we re just done being friends but Im wondering to know what we should do. And I feel I can t leave him because he s suicidal and last time I just left because he tried a ultimatum and I said **** you I m done trying and left. He calls me telling me not to kill myself and I m thinking wtf is he talking about but I ask him if he s ok and he says if I don t comeback he s scared for his life and ****. |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 08:16 AM PST because I tend to defend myself in tough situations everyone always says I start beef and they hate me because I defend ppl they don't like I really don't know Wat to do everyone in school hates me and they say I've got no friends tbh I only have one friend I trust everyone else thinks I'm horrible anyone I try to talk to disses me or tells me to go away it really upsets me that when I back myself up everyone Hates me but when someone else says something they get credit |
Posted: 30 Nov 2016 07:55 AM PST One of my friends always texts me Happy Birthday for my birthday, while the rest actually call. Nothing wrong with texting bc that's our usual form of communication and mist of my friends live out of state. However, for birthdays, it's appropriate to call the person bc it's a special day, so more effort should be put in. So with this friend I got pissed off bc all he did was text a generic message. Yet whenever he is going through something, needs advice or just feels like talking about what's going on in the media, he sends multiple page texts. In response, I always give detailed replies and follow up days or weeks after to find out how things are going. On the other hand, when I need advice, vent, etc., I don't get thorough feedback from him or he doesn't give answers that equate to my questions or comments. I'm always left wanting more substance like I give to him. Plus, he hardly ever follows up with me on heavy issues going on in my life. So back to the point, am I overreacting to his generic texts? Shouldn't I expect him to actually place a call on my birthday, especially since it was my 30th, like all my other friends? Pls helo. |
Question: My classmate texted guys through my phone? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 07:35 AM PST So there's this one classmate at my school who constantly asks for my phone, when we have like free lessons or during the breaks. I didn't mind it when she was just scrolling through Instagram or watching people's snap stories, but recently she started to add random people on my facebook, and she even started to text them through my facebook. I couldn't even see what was she saying. I didn't tell her anything because I want to be a friend with her but yesterday she asked me to give her my fb password so I said no way. Like what is she thinking?! I don't know what to say the next time she wants to use my phone. Help :( |
Question: Should I stay out of this conversation? Posted: 30 Nov 2016 07:34 AM PST A friend Linda who works in the same large office building as I do ask if I could drive her home as her car would not start. At her home, we were met by her daughter Cindy who I had met previously. Linda ask me to stay for a dinner she would cook for me. As Linda was cooking dinner Cindy ask me if I would help her with her homework which I did. After we finished her homework, Cindy ask me if I thought her mom was cute. I told the truth, her mom was cute. Then Cindy ask me if there were guys that would want to date her mom. I told her with her mom's great beauty, yes there were lots of guys that would want to date her. That is as far as I wanted to take this conversation. However Cindy wanted to go farther. She said she wanted a dad and asked me to encourage her mom to start dating. I told her this was a conversation she should be having with her mom not me. Even though I was her mom's friend, the subject of her mom dating is none of my business. Cindy told me she would be the happiest girl in the world to call me dad. Would I ask her mom for a date? I told her that her mom was 10 years older than I was and probably would want to date someone her age. I again urged Cindy to talk to her mom about this. Mothers (and others) did I handle this situation correctly and should I tell Linda about this conversation. |
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