I understand saying rude names for no reason, but if a woman is being so rude and ignorant , then why can't we call her a b*itch ( when she is totally one) , you are just siding with those rude people

Ok I'm not trying to move in with my boyfriend so soon in the first place we've only been dating since august ( 4 months) but he took it that way anyways I'm 22 and still live at home & hes 31 and lives alone with his dogs in a big house of his own I've met his whole family he spent the whole thanksgiving week with me he invited my family over for thanksgiving dinner at his house and now I know his whole family and they approve of me ! Anyways last night my mom found out about my raunchy YouTube channel and went crazy threatening to kick me out and I told him about it and joked saying if she did I'll sleep in his backyard and he didn't take it as a joke at all and said " if you think your gonna live here if they kick you off your wrong that's absolutely not happening!" I was shocked & speechless since he cleared out a spot in his bathroom for me bought me body wash & lotion so I could shower at his house and he was bragging to his WHOLE FAMILY about me just last week & I asked him if he sees a future with me he was like "hell yea why wouldn't I?!" Anyways I'm completely confused should I just leave ?!?

I unfortunately live with parents. And i am trying to move out. I called 911 because my dad choked me during an argument. already felt my dad hates me. I have told him how i felt. But it doesn't help anything. He doesn't seem to care about things that has to do with me. And is negative of me, no matter what i do. I try and do helpful things, but i'm blamed no matter what. My dad said he disown me. I already deal with depression and anxiety, this doesn't help anything. What to do? Dad hates son

My husband and I have been married for 19 years. He has always surprised me with gifts, cards etc. This past year, we hit a bump in our marriage, worked it out and it seems to be ok, but different. For Mother's day, he used to get me flowers, a Pandora Bead or a card and we would all go out for dinner. This year, nothing! He didn't even wish me a Happy Mother's Day until that evening and that's only because I was upset. For my birthday, I got my nails done and we went out of town to celebrate with my sister. He started a fight with me and ruined my Birthday. Now that Christmas is coming, I have ordered him stuff and he has seen the packages come in the mail. He would ask what it was and I would tell him it's his Christmas Presents. He tells me that I should just buy my own gifts and wrap them myself. I have told him what I want, but he just says go and get it. I am hurt! I've even told him that it hurts my feelings that I have to buy and wrap my own gifts. He just makes excuses on why he "can't" get them. He bought a Brand New Muscle car this year (right around Mother's Day) and all he does is shop to make the car better and faster. If he can shop for his car, then he should have no problem shopping for me, right? I am buying my gifts and wrapping them, but only because we have kids and I know if the kids see that I am not opening gifts up on Christmas, they will be upset and I don't want to ruin their Christmas. Am I being ridiculous? He seems to think so.

So.. my boyfriend birthday is officially tomorrow but my uncle bought him a birthday cake on Sunday and we sang him Happy Birthday mainly because my uncle works all day tomorrow and he was coming back home late. Today my bf told me that my family have a different tradition that why did we sing him happy birthday on Sunday rather than the day actual day etc that it 'ruins' it.. I explained to him it wasn't something planned my uncle just wanted to do something nice for you and be there to sing you happy bday and get you a cake.. Regardless I am making him a cake and singing him tomorrow as well and taking him out for dinner.. but now I feel bad I didn't think it was gonna be a big deal, I understand the concept was singing happy bday on your day but would you get mad if someone buys you a cake and sings to you three days before My official plan was to get him a cake and sing to him tomorrow which I am still doing but my uncle asked if it was okay if he buys him a cake on Sunday and I said sure just in case you're not home... since I am going to take him out to eat tomorrow for his b-day too. I just didn't except him to feel like we ruined it He's going through some personal things and doesn't have his close family near by I think that's the main reason why he's feeling down I just feel like I did something wrong because my uncle asked me and I should have just said no it's don't worry we will do it on the same day so its more of a surprise etc..

Example, if I ask "Do you think it's rude for someone to call me an ****** in front of a bunch of people?" A lot of people's response would be ...."well, you know, given the fact that words are words and we don't know your social security number, home address and relationship status, we can't quite determine the velocity of water if the ratio is 30 to the 10th power thus my answer would have to be that maybe you dererved it because i think you may be a pedophile" Thats what happens on here lol

The grass is cut, kids play outside sometimes. They keep to themselves.

I am not looking forward to explaining this. I am a 27 year old male and I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend (25) for the last 6 years. She is the most beautiful person I have ever met and while I would say our relationship is going great, it really isn't. I am just going to come out and say it: I am an ******* and the way I treat her, isn't right. I have issues, I'm not right in the head, and I do things to her that a man shouldn't do. Things she doesn't deserve. I have a lot of problems and when I get pissed off I tend to hurt her or the people around her that she cares for. I fight before I talk and I'm not someone who really puts up with a lot from other people, to the point that I make irrational decisions and she's almost always the victim of it. I have harmed her before physically, verbally, and even sexually and yet she always acts like it's ******* okay. It's not that I want make her life miserable, but I go through episodes of rage where I just snap. I have gotten into physical fights for other people talking to her, even with her brother and I have even threatened one of her male friends before. My father was the same way to my mother and she ended up leaving. I want her to do the same and go find someone better; I tell her every year, because I know she deserves it and yet she refuses to. She says she is content with our relationship. So my question is, how do I get her to leave, because she deserves the world and I can't give that to her?

I am already 22 and everyone my age is engaged but I am still single. I would love to get married while my granddad is still here.

My Eng teacher keeps calling me quiet in class. Whenever she hands out papers at the front or taking attendance, she always calls me by "Quiet Hannah". My heart beats fast whenever she says that and everyone in that class looks at me which makes me uncomfortable. It's not that I'm quiet, it's just that I don't have any friends in that class and I just prefer to do my work and listen to the teacher talking. I wanna do something to make my teacher stop calling me quiet so I won't get embarassed. I just wanna switch out of her class already. Help?

Ultimamente Siempre nos Peleamos y ya no sé qué hacer! Él me hecha la culpa a mí y quiere que cambie mi forma de ser el muchas cosas, a mí tampoco me gustan sus actitudes a veces pero no le digo nada porque así lo conocí! Tuvimos un pleito y apenas nos encontentamos Siempre fajamos y hemos tenido sexo oral pero no hemos tenido relaciones y siempre yo le hago sexo oral a él y él no me hace a mí porque no me gusta pero esta vez él me pidió que lo hiciera pero no quise porque me dolía la cabeza y la garganta y solo quería que fajáramos sin necesidad del sexo oral y como no quise él insistió y como me negué el ya no quiso hacer nada y se enojo conmigo y me hecho la culpa! ayuda! No sé qué hacer! Debo pedirle perdón?

Hi my name's Joseph and i'm 22 years old. Used to work as a collections specialist and was bound for a promotion until the company has decided to do some layoffs and well i was part of the list. So yep it has been almost 2 months now since i got laid off from my previous job. And here i am still unemployed who relies only on my separation pay and my savings to survive every single day. And to top that off my family who's supposed to support me in times like this has not been supportive at all and instead of support all i got was verbal abuse. As a matter of fact they have made the situation much more worse and now i feel like a total ****. Sorry for my words but yes instead of motivation all i got from them was verbal abuse they called me names and every creative words that they can come up with that directly translates to me being "Worthless". Sure i may have not chosen the path where they wanted me to go and grow. But i am trying my best to make a living out of the current path that i have chosen. But not once did i get any support from them and the last time i've heard them tell me that they were proud and happy to have me as their eldest son was way back when i was 11 years old. And since then it has been a life full of negativities coming from them. And to add up some more i also broke up with my girlfriend who i've been with for four years just a few months ago after i found out that she was cheating on me for more than a year and a half already.

Its no sin to be a goddess but it sure is lonely! I was in Kroger an I saw a couple of hansome men in the frozen food section, I smiled an one of them said something I couldn't hear an the other one said "OMG I know, right?" So I assume the first one said "she is so hot an beautiful, she is totally out of are league." I am so lonely, I haven't did sex since 2001 an that was with my asswhole ex-husbend! Their has been so many men in love with me on the internet, you wouldn't believe it, an not loosers, male models, a buyer, dignataries, singers, C.E.O.s an even the vice presedent of Smorgasboard! But there all ovarseas. All I want this year is for my life to be like one of them Lifetime movies. A rich, hansome man invites me to his ranch for a country Christmas (an my ex-husbend takes full custody of are son so he is not an embareassment to my new boyfriend), we ride horses an drink hot chocolate by a roaring fire, he introduces me to his family as his queen in the kingdom of love, he makes love to me passionately, gets me a 24 carrot engagement ring an pops the question. Is that to much to ask? Don't I deserve a little bit of happiness?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for over 4 years. We have been through so many ups and downs together. It's been hard because he is very family oriented, i am too but not as much as him. He is the kind of brother who holds hands with his 22 yr old sister which creeps me out. Anyways, his sister was diagnose with Bipolar disorder beginning of this year, she went to mental clinic and stuff, after week she went home and was normal. Now, she had another episode and has been sick for a month a half, I feel like I've been there for him since day one, but at the same time he doesn't give me time and tells me that i dont understand him and that im not there for him, his problem should be my problem. We are not married and live together for it to be my problem, i have my own problems and a family to attend to. Im always there but now I feel like he can't even dedicate a little bit of time for me, this past weekend we had a family get together and he didnt want to go with me because of his sister, yet his parents could have taken care of her share the chores with them. When his parents take his sister out, he is okay going out with me but when she is home he doesnt want to leave her alone. I wish he could understand how it also makes me feel too, sometimes he takes out his frustration out on me, it's not my fault whats going on, but i do wish that he can see how it's also affecting our relationship. Is he being selfish with me? We are both 29 years old,we are in a serious relationship.This is the second episode his 22 yr old sister has had and when it happens, he pushes me away and wants me to always be there as if i dont have a problem or family, we are not married or anything for it to be my problem, but i have told him i will try to be here for support, he just doesnt appreciate it the stuff ive done for him. I never see him except for once a week at his house. we have a busy schedule and cant dedicate time for me.

12 year relationship ended (he left me) we have a beautiful child together, 5 years since its been over he is happily married for over a year I ended up a happily single, single mom.... why o why is my baby's daddy full of utter hate and disdain towards me... its been difficult for me my ex along with his wife cheerleader is constantly badmouthing me and doing what he can to hurt me... his wife (she has no kids) has made him a shitty father and she makes sure our son is his second priority, its very sad and very confusing

My best friend of mine, our friendship is special we've been through a lot. She has helped me so much through my problems and is always calling to check on me or send messages (vise versa). She called 3 weeks ago saying sorry for not being on social media as much and that she's been overwhelmed and stressed. She vented some of shear stresses and asked how I was doing, that i was on her mind. Although she's gotten very quiet, she always randomly blowing up my notifications with "likes" on my posts. I sent her a Thanksgiving message thanking her for helping me all the time and how thankful I was for her being a friend etc. I wasn't expecting a huge response but all she put was "Happy Thanksgiving to you too" Do you think I've annoyed her? I wanna check on her but I'm afraid I'll annoy her more. I wanted to send a Christmas gift but I don't want to be more of a bother. What do you think is up?

It's a really long story but basically, a few years ago I was really jealous of this girl online and she was gorgeous and had this super close friend group and I wanted that SO bad. (This girl who I was jealous of, knew me - we had spoken a few times but I felt like she didn't really like me.) So anyways I looked online for pictures of pretty girls. Basically from there, I made fake ask.fm and IG pages of different girls to make it look like I had a close group of friends. I'd comment on my own instagram posts, etc.. (Btw, I was using real pictures of myself but everyone else was fake.) Over time I gathered about 15 'friends' and actually had (real) people tell me they wish that they were as close to their friends as I was. So, goal achieved. Now I am having major regrets - I basically stopped all of the accounts, deactivated them all... all other than one. This one girl who was my favourite 'friend' (or character.) She was everything that I wished I was. I still have all of her accounts now, and I've even catfished family and friends from real life and school etc. I don't know what to do because I think some people (especially from real life) have figured out that I'm catfishing them with this other girl and that she doesn't really exist and **** I just don't know what to do... help. If I tell people, I (as myself) will lose every single one of my friends. And it'll be a huge embarrassment to tell my IRL family and friends.

A el siempre le he gustado, a empiezo de marzo yo le empeze hablar en fc porque quería enamorarme y el siempre estaba para mi. Entonces lo vi guapo aunque mis amigas me jodían diciendo que es feo. En julio(2016) nos pulpeabamos y le dije que me gustaba y el tmb me dijo igual aunque no me creía porque siempre jugaba cn el y quedaba como tonto dice, término creyéndome y era vrd a mi me encantaba es mi todo. En la 2da cita el me dijo idiota de juego y yo me la crei y me fui y el vino a mi atrás y me jalo pero no nos hablamos y en fc me dijo inmadura bla... Y me dejo en visto.En agosto perdí mi dignidad hablándole por fc y nos vimos a finales de agosto y no quería irme de su lado pero el andaba frío porque sabia que me iría de viaje. El me llego porque se demoraba en contestar mi mensaje, después yo me demore 2 semana y el hasta ahora no me contesta. El esta en planes con otra y yo estoy en planes con otro. Su amigo me dice que cuando hablan de mi el se sonroja y que yo no le dejo de gustas hace 4 años . En2° me entere que le guste En3° sus amigos me jodían con el y el me dijo que el quería estar conmigo aunque sabia que yo no En4° lo desbloquie y me siguió diciendo que era linda En5° andaba frío pero al empiezo pero cuando le dije que me gustaba se volvió cursi y cuando le dije del viaje 'frio' Pdt: nacimos el mismo día mes y año y el un time quería ser piloto y yo aeromoza :(. Pdt: en la prom. Pienso decirle todo lo que siento Pdt: su mama vive en el país que iré Que hago?

We had a party at a winery and she got drunk. My boss asked me if I can take her home. However, his wife made a pass at me in my car. She told me that I am really hot and started feeling me up and kissing me. Anyways, we had sex and then I took her home. I am going back to work tomorrow and I'm not sure if his wife kept her mouth shut. What should I do?

i was involved in an affair with an older man but i got out of it because i felt used. I am in my mid 20s and I'm glad that i made the choice of getting out because he is married and I think he was only using me for sex. but we never had sex as i didn't allow it and he still wishes we had intercourse, still never happened. he would use excuses like 'I'm bored' or he would say things like he is not excited about doing this stuff w/his wife, he gave me gift cards to a spa but i never used them as I don't want to bring any memories of what we did together. He would also say to me that he loves me which figure he probably didn't. We met at a church that i no longer attend. But luckily i was never caught for having the affair w/him. I'm' glad that i never got caught doing something like this. Now I'm in college and i work as a cashier at a grocery store and loving it. I am glad i made the choice of getting out of it but any of you had a relationship before but you felt like you were being used?

He has a wife and I don't feel we should be touching, kissing, eating out, hanging out, etc. Esp if he has a wife. I have rejected numerous of times, but he won't take no for an answer. Ikr 1st answerer... I refuse to meet him in person

This guy that I see twice a day, during my commute. He calls me "dear" or "my dear". He is friendly and say's "hello" to everyone. But to actually hold a conversation with someone. I realized he chooses who he decides to do it with. Prior to him starting to call me this names, he always looked and stared at me like he wanted to talk too me. The past two weeks, I was sitting down and looking down on my phone and he got close to my face and pretended to look at my phone too see what I was seeing/doing. He also pat/rubbed the back of my shoulder as i got off the train/subway and told me to have a "good day, my dear". I noticed when he speaks to other women, he doesn't speak to them in a soft or worried voice like he does too me. Today, as I got off he said "there you go babe:. Most recently he I was sitting down listening to music. When he walks up too me and kinda tucks/touches my little hair bun. Than proceeds to sit across from me too talk. Though he is 10-16 years older than I am. Any meaning why he will do that too me? I am little worried about or as to why he will be acting around me this way, since he does have a ring on his right hand and not on his left hand. Though, he has said twice already that "his ex wife this" and "that why he isn't married anymore". Taking it as he is no longer married. So please any idea.

Any Military vet that don't know this is a stupid moron for sure. I don't see the usual trolls that like to refer to others as "stupid" or "morons" answering, because they're stupid morons themselves, the only thing they can do is troll and call people names.

This guy that I see twice a day, during my commute. He calls me "dear" or "my dear". He is friendly and say's "hello" to everyone. But to actually hold a conversation with someone. I realized he chooses who he decides to do it with. Prior to him starting to call me this names, he always looked and stared at me like he wanted to talk too me. The past two weeks, I was sitting down and looking down on my phone and he got close to my face and pretended to look at my phone too see what I was seeing/doing. He also pat/rubbed the back of my shoulder as i got off the train/subway and told me to have a "good day, my dear". I noticed when he speaks to other women, he doesn't speak to them in a soft or worried voice like he does too me. Today, as I got off he said "there you go babe:. Most recently he I was sitting down listening to music. When he walks up too me and kinda tucks/touches my little hair bun. Than proceeds to sit across from me too talk. Though he is 10-16 years older than I am. Any meaning why he will do that too me? I am little worried about or as to why he will be acting around me this way, since he does have a ring on his right hand and not on his left hand. Though, he has said twice already that "his ex wife this" and "that why he isn't married anymore". Taking it as he is no longer married. So please any idea.

Ok so I have asked this before but I am not sure if it gets through. I am a married woman that just experienced her first interracial lover (with my husband's permission) and it was nothing short of amazing! I never realized how large these men are nor how amazing they are sexually! My question is this, how many other women have tried this? What were your experiences like? Should I do it again? I can not stop thinking about how wonderful it was physically and how I want to feel so completely full again

Not sure what to do. I hope she knows it was a 1 time deal.