My best friend of 17 years has turned against me. She s parinoid of people stealing from her. Now she says I stole from her. She keeps texting my husband who has been abusive to me. He believes her and continues to text with her, and does not treat me right. He does not respect me and is cruel to me. They are both narcissist s. She knows how he can be, but she still text him daily with malicious rumors that make him upset. He is getting angrier by the day. How can I make her stop? She doesnt care if I get injured by her disregard for my marriage and our friendship. Its distroying me physically, emotionally, mentally, and financially.

I'm 28 and my husband is 30. I'm biracial and he's white. He acts like a typical white man and annoys me all the time. We have 5 children the youngest is 6 months old. My husband works long hours and I appreciate him for that but he's so annoying. He leaves a mess wherever he is and makes stupid jokes. We have been together for several years now. I'm not in love with him and haven't been for a while now. It's just the same old every day he works I take care of the kids and cook. There's no excitement. I feel lonely because we moved because of his job a couple of months ago and I miss my mother and friends so I only have him to talk to here. I'm so bored of the marriage it's just the same old all the time. He always has to act in a silly way. I was 19 when I met him and still in college when I got pregnant. I never got to finish school or experience things I dreamed of and it's all his fault. He's selfish like all white men. He has his dream job and kids but I would have dumped him a long time ago and it's worse because I don't have my friends or family here. My husband always wants intimacy he has always had a huge libido but He just annoys me so much. What do I do?

I see these couples who are 22 getting engaged, they get married at 24, and have a kid by 26. That is a happy marriage right there. Most of the girls were nfl cheerleaders or pageant girls. I guess guys hate girls who are naturally pretty without fake boobs, make up, and veneers. I just don't want to look stupid at 29 still not engaged or found the right guy.

speaking in the sense of course if something were to happen to me. speaking in the sense of course if something were to happen to me.

My mother in law frequently wants my husband (her son) to join her as her date at work functions (she is widowed). Some of those functions are on nights when I am free and she does not think of inviting me as well even though I am his wife. Is this weird or rude behavior?

Edit I'm in college studying to hopefully work in the criminal justice system. I honestly don't care about love at this point. I have friends, we hang out a lot but that's enough for me. I don't think about looking for a girlfriend and hoping one day to marry her and have kids. I want to just focus on what I'm doing live in my house freely and live my life. Is that wrong to think that way? Is marriage actually worth it for me to try to pursue it?

My fiancée and mother of my two kids is spending the night in the hospital due to an ulcer apparently caused by stress. Before she got sick, we were fighting over the fact that she still refuses to plan our wedding even though I agreed to cancel the first time and gave her the six months she wanted after our second child was born. Recently she wanted to cancel again, and I just about snapped, because I don't understand what her issues are. She's always been this way with me even before I was unfriendzoned, but her behavior is to a point it's frustrating. She's a good woman beyond this, which is why I'm still with her, she keeps our home clean and our kids taken care of and acts like a wife except for when it comes to making it official. What woman's hands shake filling out a marriage license? Or gets sick at that thought of marrying me? I don't believe it's that I'm not good enough, orherwise she wouldn't bother doing all she does for me. She doesn't cheat, she didn't have sex until she was 26 and that was with me. I don't know what's wrong, the only thing she tells me is that she doesn't feel ready, even though we have two kids and a home. I love her and I don't want to lose her, but what can I do? Is it that she doesn't trust me? Or thinks I'm going to run out on her? If any woman can help me I would appreciate it. She isn't mentally ill, I just don't know.

This doesn't apply to me.

I m married for 6 years. My husband recently noticed I cheat on him with his best friend for 2 years. He wants to divorce. I love him. I don t want to end our relation, our couple. I don t want to break our family. We ve 4 children who need both of us beside them. We see a marriage counselor. Despite of the numerous sessions with the therapist, he always wants to divorce. How to prevent this?

My husband added women from work to Snapchat which was fine, then one sent a photo showing too much skin..I told him to stop snapping her so he got rid of thr account..well 4 months later I found out he is still snapping her on a different account!!!! What should I do? Why? Do u think there is something between them?

Hi everyone, we are a couple in early 40-s, finally have some time for ourselves, kids do not require high maintenance any more, we started taking care of ourselves (gym + jogging = weight going down, muscles going up baby!!!), and we would like to rekindle our sex life that was a bit let's say "ordinary and infrequent" in the last 10 years... anybody was in the same condition and has some ideas how to do this? I'm very open and willing to experiment, my wife not so much, but with the right mood she can get into anything... basically we are open to everything except bringing another person(s) to our bedroom. don't get me wrong, our sex is not bad, we just want to make it better by getting ideas from the good world out there... People, people, please read the question. We do have sex and it is good, we just want to make it better. We are not sexless or anything similar. Anyone noticed "we" in the question? My wife knows about this, and WE prepared the question together. And for "Anonymous" below, I sincerely pity you for your life experience and opinions, your answer has been reported for insulting me without reason.

So my husband and I went to longhorn for date night. The food wasn't that good to be completely honest. Anyways, after our meal we went home. My husband asked my if I wanted to have sex. I said no because, well, it's that time of month (you know what I mean). He sighed and said "Goodnight babe". I fell asleep, but was awoken by the faint sound of grunting. My husband wasn't next to me, so I got up. I went to the bathroom where the noise was coming from. "Oh yes" my husband said in a deep, previously unheard voice. "Ohhhhhhhhhohohohhhhhh" he moaned quietly. I went to bed and I had a dream that he turned into a goblin. I think it may have been true though. HELP!

I am a 27 year old woman and i have health issues Chronic Fatigue Syndrome that makes me so weak, i struggle to get out of bed at times Anxiety disorder, i used to suffer bad panic attacks but better now Hypochondria, i always used to think i am ill. Now i am lesbian and i am married to a wonderful woman who i love very much, she stands by me no matter what, when we first met i.told her about all my illnesses, yet she still stayed with me and we dated, lived together and we married, my health hasnt affect my relationship. She helps me and looks after me very much -She wakes me up an hour earlier to give me time to get up when i have to, because i really struggle in a morning -She always carries a bottle of water with her when we go out, in case i need to take my anxiety medication, if i start to feel bad -My hypochondria makes me think i am ill a lot, so she has driven me to the Doctors many times and turns out there isnt anything wrong with me, but she doesnt mind at all. Can illness affect a relationship?

My husband of 8 years left me for another woman on labor day 2014, I was getting past it, although it hurt, I was still trying to salvage my marriage. In mid 2015 I find a text on his phone from a woman he worked with (different than the first one) we argued about it and he broke his phone but we didn t split up. Now, here I am at the end of 2016. I ve had a lot happen this year: My dad has stage 4 brain cancer and he doesn t have very long to live, my sister has stage 2 cancer in her ovaries and stage 3 in her uterus, my grandfather died of stomach cancer, my 14 year old chihuahua drown & on top of all that i still have this resentment towards my husband for leaving me and cheating after we reconciled. Now to the part that s confusing me- I m not even sure I love him, I think I moved on with him right next to me. I could honestly walk away right now but I m scared I m having a mid life crisis and I will regret leaving him. I have never before in my relationship had a crush on someone but I do, so much of a crush my husband called me out for it, but I cAn t help it. That isn t normal! I put 8 faithful years into my marriage, I stood by him when he was at his lowest and have told him every detail of my life. It feels like I wasted my youth. (I m 24 and was 16 when I started dating him) So my question is, #1) will love return in timeout is it gone? #2)do I leave my husband and pursue this other man?

My husband is the best man in his brother's wedding and his soon to be wife's friend is her matron of honor. They were paired together at the rehearsal and i was paired with one of his friends. i am very upset because i would like to walk with my husband, since you know he is my husband. I am very worried that my husband will fall in love with this girl and dump me. How do i convince the bride that i would like to walk with my husband?

I went on my wifes Amazon, there was a pop up of New Chapter Prenatal. That was a week ago, when I went back on her Amazon & see what she views, it shows New Chapter Bone Strength also Zyflamend whole body now. Does this mean she was lookin at the bone strength & whole body stuff & that's why the PRENATAL show up in the ads or does it mean she also viewed prenatal as well? 99 percent when adds pop up it from what you view. Shes away I can't call her at the moment, please need answer. We have 3 kids, 3 dogs, she takes care of her sick father. A month ago she called me over, she said "look at these shoes aren't they cute? I love this stuff becuse once they get older that's it". Then she said "it's so cute Megan came up to be & said mama & gave me a hug" I can't remember if this was at the beginning or end she said "since Megan is the last baby" or "since she's the last one (or) baby" She won't stop sayin how she can't believe our daughter is turnin 6 soon, (like she's losin her baby)& the other will be 8. She says to our kids I can't wait until you guys get married & your husbands have to deal with you. Shes been workin out, really been on her looks, her hair etc. She looks at her friend thats a few years younger & sees since she all had her kids at the same time that now they are all grown up & her friend is still young & is now able to have much more time to herself. Where my wife is 41 & has two little ones & a teen. So she feels by the time they grow up she won't be young