I was supposed to be a brides made in my best friends wedding on the other side of the country. With ticket and everything I am literally spending everything I have to be there. I also had my father, grandfather pass away and this has been the worst year of my life so far. Anyways 2 weeks ago I lost my job and I have to choose between her wedding and paying rent. She got upset with me when I told her I I lost my job and that I could not afford to attend. I am literally going to be homeless and unemployed in Alaska. I feel really hurt as I thought she would at least understand.

I have best friends with the bride since high school and family friends ever since. I would like to get something nice for their wedding that would involve something in their main hobbies of hunting, mudding or snowmobiling. Their wedding is 6 months away. I was thinking of the gift being somewhere in the realm of a completely paid for gift certificate that would involve them being able to go do one of these fun things that they could cash in at anytime. For geographical reference they are located in new hampshire

I have been best friends with the bride since high school and a family friend ever since. Their wedding is a few months away and I would really like to get them something nice like a trip to go do something. Hunting, mudding and snowmobiling are their biggest hobbies so something in the realm of like a gift certificate to some event to go off and do one of these things at whenever it fits their schedule For geographical reference they live in new hampshire

My fiancée and mother of my two kids is spending the night in the hospital due to an ulcer apparently caused by stress. Before she got sick, we were fighting over the fact that she still refuses to plan our wedding even though I agreed to cancel the first time and gave her the six months she wanted after our second child was born. Recently she wanted to cancel again, and I just about snapped, because I don't understand what her issues are. She's always been this way with me even before I was unfriendzoned, but her behavior is to a point it's frustrating. She's a good woman beyond this, which is why I'm still with her, she keeps our home clean and our kids taken care of and acts like a wife except for when it comes to making it official. What woman's hands shake filling out a marriage license? Or gets sick at that thought of marrying me? I don't believe it's that I'm not good enough, orherwise she wouldn't bother doing all she does for me. She doesn't cheat, she didn't have sex until she was 26 and that was with me. I don't know what's wrong, the only thing she tells me is that she doesn't feel ready, even though we have two kids and a home. I love her and I don't want to lose her, but what can I do? Is it that she doesn't trust me? Or thinks I'm going to run out on her? If any woman can help me I would appreciate it. She isn't mentally ill, I just don't know.