And he is currently in jail for 4 months for a parole violation. When he gets out she is planning on continuing to be with him, how do "knock" some sense into her?

I was reading something and it said the main Couple were step siblings. Would that still be incest if they aren't technically related?

I'm 28, mum to my 1 year old son, ive been to university before in Portsmouth & been in job since for 5 years as a data analyst which pays well and is comfortable but I don't really enjoy it, I want to do radiography at uni for 3 years to try and help others & build a good foundation for my son. I have wanted to do this for a long time. My husband is very emotionally unavailable, very unreliable & not that helpful with our son i feel that we are growing apart rapidly which is upsetting & I just don't know how to make things better he puts me down & is very ungrateful when I do everything for him. I have no family in Portsmouth so have considered moving back home 3 hours away to study where my family can support me with my son. Am I silly to go through a career change at 28 where we will get by but struggle for 3 years & upon starting the new career I will be on less but work my way up or should I stay in current job? Also if all goes to plan I won't be where I aim to be until 35 & I am worried about prospect of not having more children. Am I unfair to move so far away to be with my family or should I try to study in Portsmouth close to his father even though he is at times very unreliable? I would be so grateful for your advice or anybody in same situation to tell me how they got on. Thankyou in advance!

I've had problems for years, starting when I was about 4 or 5. I watch my stepfather at the time abuse my mother. I've had problems being around men since then. I've also been very sad for the past 4 years. Ever since I was in 6th grade something in me felt broken. I wasn't as happy as before and I just stopped feeling motivated. I think this is strange because that was the only year I wasn't bullied. Anyway after that my grades dropped to Fs and I still managed to make it through the grade until I failed 9th last year. My mother is no longer married but I feel as though I can't tell her about this. I was a bit better in 8th grade when I had my cousin around but my mom got mad at me for 'talking about her' and I wasn't allowed to speak about that stuff with my cousin any more. It's getting worse and my mom is increasingly mad at me. I wan to talk to someone about what I feel but I can't let my mom know. Help? I'm not scared of my mom...just telling her. I think I could pay for it because I've had summer jobs and have a bank account that I don't ever use. Also I'm home schooled so I have no counselor to talk to.

My friend has been going through a hellll of a lot lately. I just got out of a procedure and she's about to go into one. She's been under stress and enduring so very much. I'm always sending encouraging words and checking in on her, sending her picture quotes and reminding her that she is strong and all will be okay. I even sent her flowers the other day to show I'm here for her. She shows he same support to me but I know she needs it more. Seeing her struggle is worrying me, I just want her to be well and have good health. I pray for her constantly. What more should I do? It upsets me seeing her go through so much. I want to call her before her procedure to check in on her. I'm definitely going to but am I showing too much care? I feel like it will make me look weird?

My sister is pregnant she loves to lay in bed and cuddle with me. She also loves sleeping. Why does she love this ?

He will not let me in his apartment. I've seen the outside of the building but in 6 months he's never invited me in. We can only stay at my place. He dates other women. I have seen him out on dates with other women. I've gone through his phone and seen messages to other women that he's dating. His car is a mess. It's old, damaged and he takes his plates off whenever he parks to keep it from getting booted. He sometimes ignores my calls and texts for days at a time. There are days when he's very attentive but then there are other days when he doesn't answer or call back. I've given him money. He got hurt on his job and his workman comp. wasn't enough to cover his expenses so I offered to do his laundry, and give me some pocket money. We have fought in public. I get mad whenever I see him with other women and I throw drinks at him and start fights. He often disrespects me by ignoring me in public and acting like he doesn't care. We still see each other behind closed doors occasionally but he doesn't invite me to hang out in public anymore

32 years old, turn 33 a day after thanksgiving - addicted to opiate pain killers for the past 8 years and have been on/off since 2005, but got bad around April/May 2008. It started with my left lower back, hip, knee and foot injury while serving in the United States Marine Corps2003-2007. I was discharged honorably for medical reasons and was prescribed 10mg Hydrocodone. I received 120 pills once a month. But they were mailed early and so I got them twice a month. I was in a lot of pain and built up a tolerance quickly, so I started taking more and more. I do have a past history of drug abuse while a teenager, before the Corps, and I quickly found myself addicted to the Hydrocodone. It progressed fast and was out of control before I knew it. I went from the Hydrocodones to Oxycontin. Because of all this, I lost my wife at the time, my daughter, my house, my job and my car. I have been in and out of jail for the past 3years and now am in college, but am failing due to the drugs. It made me a monster, when I didn't have any dope, I'd detox and be in terrible pain, I'd lay on the couch whithering in front of my daughter and my ex threw a glass of water on my face, that started an altercation where I slapped her and was later arrested. It's destroying me. Please give me some tips on how to stop. I can't go through the full D.T.'s because I have school. I just really need someone to talk to, help me. I really want to stop, I have no choice Update: am at the end of my rope. I've went from taking them orally, to snorting, to the lowest to me shooting them. I've not shot up in a while. But I am still hooked and the drugs are still interfering with my life a great deal. I've been given a gift from GOD that I feel I don't deserve. The Dept. of Veterans Affairs has paid for my tuition 100% given me a Dell laptop and 1k a month to attend school, and allow these drugs to destroy me and my life. If I dont stop now, I need help. I was a grunt , and served in Iraq from 04-05. I survived OIF only to come back and fight the worst fight of my life. The woman I loved and she loved me at one time is with someone else For 2 years now and won't even talk to me She really did love me back in the day, a lot has Changed and coping with the breakup by using more. It's sick She was my rock , she always mapped out our days before we had our daughter. She was so cute always like "morning babe! I made coffee for us! " I'll never find another like her. We traveled and she took care of me and vice versa. Even when I briefly sobered up I texted her to let her know and she said "please don't contact me other than when you need to speak to (our daughter)" and said she's with someone now and doesn't want me to catch feelings again, when my feeling never legt

I VERY embarrassed about it but I am also happy about it because she said "Nobody will ever call you SHORTY". Is that something not appropriate to say to her brother?

now iam in my room locked alone after my father physicly abuse me broke my hand and hit my mother and what should i do i called police but no answer iam in paine iam from tunisia north africa

It embarrasses me to hear that half of her classmates are married, engaged, or expecting while my child isn't. I had her when I was 19 and we did ok. She also has never had a boyfriend and I don't like it when her classmates mom's ask me why my daughter isn't settling down. Should I beg her to join a dating site? Here in Mississippi she is the only 20 yr old who isn't settling down and I think having a baby at 20 is better than 30.

1)My mom says that I say same thing 100 times: I say that because they don't listen to me. I informed my parents many times what type of laptop they should buy (which was cheaper and very useful) but they didn't listen to me and bought the different one where I can't do any of my work. 2) when they have to talk I listen to them even when they shout but when I have to talk about important stuffs,they dismiss me saying I get loud when they don't even listen to me properly. When I say that they are doing something unfair with me , I turn into a bad guy.

My 21 year old cousin is a bum that still mooches off his parents and never had a job or attempted school after high school. Well his mom gives me gas money every Friday to drop him off at the mall to hangout on my way to work. Last Friday I worked overtime so I called him to tell him I'm going in early so I wouldn't be able to give him a ride and he said " thanks a$$ hole" and hung up. I got pissed but just let it slide so things wouldn't escalate. Then he called me back calling me a jerk, a preppy douche and said if he wasn't so tired he would kick my *** and I snapped and told him I was on my way to his house. He kept going on about beating me up and stuff and I hung up. When I got to his house the cops were there. I talked to the cops and I think they were on my side because they just told me to leave. What bother me is what the hell is wrong with him? He constantly calls his father (Divorced, different house) a bully for telling him to get a job. He even called his own brother a Douche for having a degree. I honestly feel he might have a mental disorder It's like he's convinced he's still a kid. Even when other family members tell him to do something with his life he says " I'm still young, I'll worry about that when I grow up" He's delusional

They like to suck me into their petty arguments with their families and alienate me. My mother is the worst in the universe about this. My Dad just enables her.

Last year all my Mom's siblings came so it felt like good old times. The previous year was first year after my grandmother's death and was so sad (nobody came). This year we won't be seeing anyone and it will once again make me miss my grandparents significantly. Understandably everyone has their own families to do stuff with now that the elders have died but it still feels so sad. So how do I get over the sadness I will feel? The family we do see on my Dad's side (his sister and her in-laws who are close family friends) is fun to be with but I see them weekly so it is not the joy of seeing out of town family like we had last year. So how do I get over feeling sad by this? Same question if it happens at Christmas one year (this year my mom's sister will come to Christmas and my Dad's out of town brother and his son).

I've always hated him ever since I was a kid but now I literally can't stand him being alive and living in the same house as me. Unfortunately I still live at home with my parents. My stepdad has verballly and physically abused me for over a decade now. He's growing really old and weak now, while I'm 20 years young strong and fit. I could easily beat him to death. The only reason I resist is out of respect for my mother. But now I'm feeling more and more tempted to just kill him already. I'm very srs btw how should I handle this situation?

FAMILY. people age 30 and up really are concerned as how others think. They are outisde the home and usually starting put careers and work ahead of family. WE ALL KNOW THE USA IS INDEED AGING. the median age of whites is like 42 and blacks 35. but its older in some states like florida. young folks get their degrees and then focus on work, friends, social time, and thats it. fewer people in their 30s are having kids. but marriage rates dropping too SO, 30 IS IT YOUNG.

I think I need help. I'm living with my fiance. He has 3 kids (3-4-8 yrs old) I have two kids (2-8 yrs old). I work night shift and he work 1st shift. My kids are naughty and they are not perfect. His kids are soo naughty as well. Everytime I turned around one of his kids are climbing on something and pouring things on the ground. The house is a mess in less than an hour. I put them on time out they will yell and stooped their foot. When their dad is around they listen. I'm not their mom and they are not afraid. It's okay, it will take time for all of us to get use to one another. Lately it just feels like it's getting a little too much for me. I'm constantly cleaning and going out of my mind. I want to give up. But it'll be a lame to use that excuse for that reason. I talked to their dad but it seems like he's too busy and tired after work. I want to go live on my own. But there's really no point, might as well call it quit. If I can't handle them now, I won't be able to handle them in the future.

My child chews his toothbrush to the point where I am constantly buying new ones, one about every three weeks. I tell him to brush his teeth and when I walk past, he is just standing there chewing on it. They are completely destroyed because he wont just brush! His attitude is also "Oh well, just go buy another one because Im going to keep chewing them.". Would taking the price out of his allowance be too mean? He's 13. I just bought a 10 pack because he's ruining them all. Thanks.

That's me and my dad comparing our schlongs. Damn, I was a little intimidated when I saw his weapon. I was like, dad wtf is that a f*cking pvc pipe. We were laughing our butts off. And then later that day, I congratulated his gf as a joke. Hahaha. Not gonna lie, I'm a lil bit jealous, I wish I inherited his thickness. Haha. What do y'all think?

My step dad has been there for me since I was about 3 years old. Theres no hate or dislike in our relationship, he's basically my dad. I am 30 now and the one thing I have always been curious is why he keeps telling me not to date single moms? Wouldnt that mean he never wanted me or is he looking out whats best for me or is he just being a hypocrite? I wouldn't mind asking hin this question but he doesn't like being base off as a step dad vs a dad to me whenever we have our conversations

Generally she is a self absorbed person, unpleasant to be around.

Ever since my mom and dad separated, she's been different. She has been drinking A LOT lately (I remember she drank so much to the point where she vomited almost all night). She's also been having friends/relatives over, one of those people being her ex, which I don't like too much. He fusses at my 9 and 6 year old brothers because they're "too loud" and they "need to be quiet", when in reality, they aren't loud at all. My mom tells me that her ex is the only person she can talk to and feel comfortable around, and I simply nod my head and say "okay". The thing that makes ME uncomfortable is that she lets him sleep over in her room with the door locked (My mom and dad are still married while this is going on). My 9 year old brother even told me that he felt depressed because "mom is not mom anymore" and that she's "no longer staying with dad". I feel horrible, so I comfort and support him, as well as trying to distract him from the mess around the house. She's been having a lot of mood swings lately, too. One minute, she's laughing with us, and then the next minute she's fussing about how we "don't do anything around the house" and how we "don't listen". About half an hour later, she's crying and apologizing to us for her behavior. I'm beginning to think she has bipolar disorder. I ask her if she's okay, and if she ever wants to talk then I'm the person she can go to, but she rejects me and tells me that I wouldn't understand. Is there anything I can do? If this helps at all, I'm 14 years old.

Im 18 and i go to a community college full time. I go home and i do my homework, it sometimes takes me hours to complete and study for exams. I dont go out with my friends, I usually stay home. Now my parents think i dont do anything as in chores and stuff. Advice??

For me Christmas is all about family My mother has toxic grudges towards family and so we aren't allowed to go see her family. I am an adult now and can but some years they accept a visit and other years they don't. I worry what this year will be. It is 50-50 and I have all this old pain open the years we don't see the extended family because I remember how sad and rejected I felt as a kid when my mother held us back and told us her family didn't like us (which turned out to be a lie). So how do I get over this constant fear of Christmas I have?

My toxic mother is full of bitterness towards my Dad. So she alienates me from him because he is an alcoholic. My mother's toxicity is her bitterness. She is far more hurtful then my Dad. However, my Dad is an alcoholic and hasn't done anything about it. I know it is a disease but he won't make the effort to fight to see me. I haven't seen him in 3 years. We drove past him once but my mother wouldn't stop the car to let me say hi, I cried for an hour over it. I am a teen and I know as an adult I can see him again but alcoholics die young so I don;t know if he'll live that long. So my question is what can I do to get him to fight for the right to see me. Asking him via email hasn't done any good. My mother would be wonderful if she weren't so toxic but her bitterness has ruined our friendship. Luckily she is remarried with two little kids so I can avoid her a lot since she is busy with the kids. THIS WAS MY EARLIER QUESTION AS ITS A FOLLOW UP QUESTION https://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20161110045836AACEeH0

My brother is 20 years old and I'm 22.He keep saying he is smarter than me and thinks I'm dumb or retard etc.Im in college taking up medical administrative assistant .I have 2 semesters left with a 3.5 GPA. He don't want to take up no more classes because he thinks the college that he goes to is stupid.He said he wants to dropout to get a job and tells people to don't go to college I tryed to help him but he just won't listen.He is so annoying and childish at times. Everytime I talk on the phone he comes in my room saying I watch stupid stuff on TV and get all loud while I'm on the phone talking to my friends.Sometime I act like I'm sleep so he won't bother me or lock my door that still doesn't help.My parents doesn't even say nothing when he acts like this towards me at all.They don't seem to care about me I do alot of stuff she ask I buy food for the house and pay bills I still get fussed out but not him.He don't do the things I do for the house he doesn't clean his room at all. I really want to move out after I take up pharmacy technician but that's 2 years from now.What should I do about this situation?

September 2008, when I turned 10, Our family's best friend, and my 2nd mother figure was diagnosed with breast cancer. 8 months later, she was responding well to treatment when the illness returned aggressively. This woman died aged 43 on the 13th of June, 2009. She'd have turned 50 this year, February 16th. She'd have had a huge party and invited all of her friends and family.. Every summer we'd stay at her place with her husband, Me, and my siblings were great friends with her nieces and nephews. I have a couple of them on Facebook. She was like a mother figure to us. My real Mum wasn't always home when she should have been. Ever since she passed away not a day has gone by where I haven't remembered her. 7 years later, should I have moved on by now? I looked up to her. She died when I was nearly 11. I've just turned 18. I've grown up. I'm driving. I'm in college. I cannot even see the word cancer without wanting to punch a wall. No one deserves to go through that. When she died, I felt as if I had lost a parent. I remember my Dad telling me "She isn't feeling well at the moment, but she'll be better, soon." I had no knowledge on Cancer, I didn't know what it was, I had never heard of it before. I heard a song on my 12th birthday. My whole childhood flashed back in my mind. I remembered her, as a person, she'd even drive 40 minutes out of her way to pick us up from home to take us to hers to make sure we were safe... She was our guardian angel, and best friend. No this woman was not family But she was so close to us it felt like she always was. I'm still finding it hard to accept she's gone...

This is probably a very simple question with a very simple answer but I just want to know other people's opinions on this. So, my little sisters were sick last Thursday and my mom and dad are working so neither of them can stay home with my sisters. My mom asked and my sisters begged for me to stay home but I really had to go to school. I had missed out on the previous two Fridays in a row and I wouldn't allow myself to stay home anymore. I really, really wanted to go to school so I wouldn't miss out, plus we had the Friday after that off. I did stay home, in the end, but I get quite bummed. Do you think it was the right decision to stay home and babysit?

I 18yrs old I went up to my step dads work last night so he could look at my car after he was done he was like well I am thinking about getting a hotel room. I was so tired and it was so cold last night like 53 degrees and I drive a very old car i also had to drive 1 hour and half back to my moms with know heater I figured I would just stay too well once we got up to the room it was only one bed I figure I would stay on my side he could stay on his well he ended up having his arm all around me I was all the way to my side as close as I could to the edge I pretended to be asleep for awhile but the he started rubbing my belly and the hole time my eyes are close while he's on too of me! After he was done I laid there and cryied I don't know what to do I could really use so help please. Btw he's 50yrs old so its not like I wanted this to happen or anything I wish I could have just sucked it up last night and went home but I didn't now I am dealing with is and I feel awful and I have no idea what to do I am almost on the verge of taking my own life in that's not the awnser but I wouldn't have to be here to go thru this please nothing rude I have already been thru enoff this is just what happened between us you have know idea what else I have gone thru in my life. Any help is appreciated!

My dads had a lot of problems in life. He was married 3 times and most of the women he was with he just met at parties. Even though he's well educated he acts like a child and treats his wives like ****. He's arrogant and racist. One of them couldn't even speak English. Now he thinks that because he has a big company that he can run for president and now his ego is so big that he's the US presidential candidate. what do I do?

My friend has been going through a hellll of a lot lately. I just got out of a procedure and she's about to go into one. She's been under stress and enduring so very much. I'm always sending encouraging words and checking in on her, sending her picture quotes and reminding her that she is strong and all will be okay. I even sent her flowers the other day to show I'm here for her. She shows he same support to me but I know she needs it more. Seeing her struggle is worrying me, I just want her to be well and have good health. I pray for her constantly. What more should I do? It upsets me seeing her go through so much. I want to call her before her procedure to check in on her. I'm definitely going to but am I showing too much care? I pull it make me look weird? It's stressing me seeing her like this, help?

Last year all my Mom's siblings came so it felt like good old times. The previous year was first year after my grandmother's death and was so sad (nobody came). This year we won't be seeing anyone and it will once again make me miss my grandparents significantly. Understandably everyone has their own families to do stuff with now that the elders have died but it still feels so sad. So how do I get over the sadness I will feel? The family we do see on my Dad's side (his sister and her in-laws who are close family friends) is fun to be with but I see them weekly so it is not the joy of seeing out of town family like we had last year. So how do I get over feeling sad by this? Same question if it happens at Christmas one year (this year my mom's sister will come to Christmas and my Dad's out of town brother and his son).

They are very strict (Wont let me get snap, wont let me have more than like 4 sneakers at a time, they track my phone, messages, search history, friends, calls, dm's, kik,) they even use this think called TeenSafe. EVEN tho i dont have a terrible "record" theyre soooo strict. All I want to do is be a normal teenager haha. Im almost 15 y/o

I got up at 9:00am today and I was home alone. I had to make my own breakfast. I was happy. Still my parents think I'm lazy. This isn't my usual day. I get up at 9:00. I eat breakfast and study till about 1:00pm. I go take a bath then. After that, I study again till like 5:00pm. I rest for an hour or so.Then I study till 8:00pm. After that, I have a little time where I do things I like. At 9:00pm we have dinner , after which we prepare to go to sleep. Sometimes, I stay up studying till midnight. My life is hell but my dad still thinks I'm useless because I didn't help with the housework. Help !

I am mad at those who hold me back but I have no choice I am told. I am 14. I want to know him even if he is an alcoholic. My mother says she is protecting me but I think she is punishing me. I don't get to know his family either whereas all my cousins have two sets of grandparents but me. How do I get over feeling so sad about this? Especially since it will be holidays soon and my grandfather who was the only father figure I had died in March.

My sister is pregnant shes been acting crazy the last few days. Yesterday her friend said that she broke down crying at work she was really tired when she got home last night. Today she's excited and can't wait to get to work shes been running around singing that stupid spongebob I'm ready to go to work song. Its about ready to drive me crazy. Even though she's been really upset and depressed the last few days she seems to be better now. This is not like her. What's wrong with her ? Is it normal for her to act this way ?

I am here legally but there are 62 of us and I don't know if a few might be illegal or not. Is Donald Trump going to round us up into a concentration camp type place and send us all back even the legal ones? Will we lose work rights because we are Latin American? And do we have any rights anymore (the ones that are legal). We might all be legal but I am afraid to ask. I heard from a teacher and some friends that Trump was going to put us all in a concentration camp not like Hitlers where we get killed necessarily but where we have no rights and can't leave (like jail). None of us are addicts or rapists or murderers but he thinks we all are. IT'S 2016----I don't mean camps where we are starved like Hitler did, but camps that are jails for illegals like my teacher said.

People are uncomfortable seeing me in my Mom's family because of the damage my mother has caused. They feel I guess that I am a reminder of her. bluebellbkk----Sorry, I will cut back on asking them. My Mom is the one at fault, not her family. Apologies on asking so many I have seen some asked by someone else so it is not only me in this situation, but I do ask one or two a day. Apologies.

Last year all my Mom's siblings came so it felt like good old times. The previous year was first year after my grandmother's death and was so sad (nobody came). This year we won't be seeing anyone and it will once again make me miss my grandparents significantly. Understandably everyone has their own families to do stuff with now that the elders have died but it still feels so sad. So how do I get over the sadness I will feel? The family we do see on my Dad's side (his sister and her in-laws who are close family friends) is fun to be with but I see them weekly so it is not the joy of seeing out of town family like we had last year. So how do I get over feeling sad by this? Same question if it happens at Christmas one year (this year my mom's sister will come to Christmas and my Dad's out of town brother and his son).

I had a procedure done recently (I'm okay.) so my friend Janet (she's 45 and I am 18) calls to check up on me, FYI we are very close, she's been an adult role model and close personal friend of mine... anyway she never calls. Of course she asked how I was, if I was okay etc.. then she started just skipping around subjects talking about her family, recent troubles of hers, problems that have occurred, telling stories of when she was little, about how she misses her parents who past etc.. even about her procedure coming up and what the doctors wanted to do. don't get me wrong it was a great long talk, I listened and helped any way I could, giving her all my attention. I understand people need to vent or need advice but why come to me? I'm just an 18 year old. Or at least that's how I see myself.. I later that day sent her flowers to show my love and support. I plan on calling her before her procedure to make sure she's okay. But why would she tell me such personal things? .. should I call her before her procedure ?

Before I start, I would like to point out trying to convince me to not do this will only waste your time. I won't read the whole answer if you try to talk me out of it. Now that that's out of the way, I'm terminally ill. I have cancer. I have no more than 4 months to live, and I wouldn't want to live even if I could. I am fortunate enough to live in a state with physician assisted suicide, and I will be euthanized later this month. I have no idea how to tell my family, or if I should at all. They're highly religious and have a hard time tolerating different views. They would not be able to accept that I'm choosing to end this way. They would do everything in their power to force me to stay alive and let me die drugged up in a hospital. I might tell them over text the day that it's going to happen, or maybe not at all.

This child is not familar with and has only met me once before and is a close relatives child. Examples when we are travelling with the parents especially the mother, this is a three year old by the way who always hold my hands instead of following her or through busy transport. This child also has a twin who doesn't do this, she is done something strang,e when I was reading on the sofa next to her and siblings, she then wonderes and came back crying on the sofa, I didn't anything that was done to upset her so I held her she stopped crying, then I left to play but she came back to sit on my lap. I am not really into kids, do not want to get attached misleading them. When I got to the bathroom, she will stand outside instead of playing with her siblings , she even opened the door when I was in the toilet,she also opened the door. When I'm walking around doing toiletries

I'm 13 and my mom always compares me to my other classmates if I have low grades. I don't get low grades all the time but when I do I GET COMPARED. I try my hardest to have the highest grades in the class. Whenever my mom compares me I feel discouraged and sad. (I'm an honor student)

My mom drinks minimal 5- 8 beers a day for the last 17 plus years , sometimes she'll drink more & add hard liquor to the mix. But she still gets her sh*t done goes to work bills taken care of but refuses to see a doctor hasn't seen a doctor in 10 yrs I believe. Weve got in so many arguments because of it but nothing changes & I feel helpless because I want her to be around as long as possible but she doesn't hear me. She has 3 daughters youngest is 10 , I'm the oldest 23 I feel like more of the mom for my sister which is no problem . My mom is 50 ive noticed shes been losing alot of weight recently shes always been thin but she looks an unhealthy thin shes always in pain . Any advice on how to get her to see a doctor . Could this drinking habbit really shorten her days?

People are uncomfortable seeing me in my Mom's family because of the damage my mother has caused. They feel I guess that I am a reminder of her.

I m 21, my family s great I ve got older siblings with kids a mom & dad but there s a problem. I m not suicidal I ve just lost interest in living. When I pass I don t want my relatives to feel sorrow. I ve been distancing myself for years and it just makes sense to leave though I don t know how.