I was friends with benefits with a guy from June to August, things ended because he wanted us to become exclusive and I didn't want that at that time & things had just become complicated. Even after things ended he would text/call me everyday to apologize for how things ended and telling me that he wanted to be with him, I would write back occasionally but for the most part I would just ignore him. In October I received a FB message from a friend of his telling me that he left for the army and that he would like my contact information. I received a call from him about two weeks ago, the call was short but he was telling me that he missed me and would like to keep in touch with me and that when he comes back home he would like to see me, I kind of brushed it off but I do miss him, I'm thinking of writing him but I'm not too sure.

Me and my husband rub our butts together to make baby, but it no working?

I've never had a job in my life and I am 32 years old. I've been a stay at home wife and mother to our 3 children for the past 11 years. My husband moved in with his girlfriend and said he will continue paying the lease on our house until the contract is up in 4 months and said its up to me whether I want to renew the lease and pay for it myself or find a new place to move into. He said he wants to have 50/50 custody of the kids. I'm so lost and confused. First of all I don't want my kids being around his girlfriend. I don't want them living with him and HER half of the time. Second of all, I don't know how I'm going to afford to renew the lease on this house. The monthly payment is $2,200 and I am unemployed. I will probably end up having to move in my with parents but they live in a tiny one bedroom apartment which is not suitable for me and my three children. I've been trying to look for a job but no one wants to hire me because I am 32 years old with NO previous working experience at all. I also don't have a college degree so the best job I could get at this point is a minimum wage job which is not enough to raise 3 children. Even if I get a job, I don't know what to do with my youngest child who is only 2 years old and needs me there. I don't want him to be raised by a baby sitter. I can't even afford a babysitter or daycare. I'm sooooooo stressed and depressed right now. I've seriously contemplated suicide. I feel so lost, But I need to keep fighting for my kids. Help?

My husband passed away 3 weeks after our wedding. I haven t been able to change my last name to his the last year dealing with everything after his unexpected passing. Can I still take his last name?

My wife and I have been married 5 years and have a 1 and 2 year old. Back in 2010 when we had no children I wanted to go to college so I can open doors for us later on, but she wasn't with it. Then in 2011 I tried to get a job as a truck driver making $700 a week but she didn't support it cause I'd be gone 4 days out the week. Later I decided to do school anyway and am a few weeks from graduating for my associates degree. She does not give me time at all to go study whatsoever. At least not since I've gotten this new job where I can come home at the same time as her. Since she doesn't support me in the time I need to study should I pursue the rest of my education? Am I asking too much?

I have to leave in a few minutes to go pick up my husband at work. I am at home now in my bare feet and since I am not going in anywhere and only going to be gone for about a hour I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I don't like to wear shoes and I don't need shoes to drive since I am not getting out of my car.

But he keeps begging you back? Also he doesnt have a car, his own home, has bad credit and kids with 3 women.

My girlfriends been acting a bit odd these last few weeks and I dont know what to make of it. A few weeks ago we had both of our first times. To date we had both been waiting until after marriage, but I brought it up and we decided not to anymore. In the 3 weeks since shes started wanting to spend all of our time together. Like on a level thats just really possesive. If i dont call her by 6 (the time im usually done with class) she'll text and call immediately and want to know what I'm doing and who I'm with. I know this may not sound like a lot, but she didnt used to be like this????

I know this is going to come off as selfish. Ive had a rough life. Dealing with neglect, depression and abandonment, see, im married now and have been for 3 years BUT... I still talk to another guy online. Sexting and promising a future but he has no idea im married and we never met in person. My husband on the other hand understands why i do it and trusts that ill never meet up with the online guy or divorce him. .. I just like to feel wanted, cared about and loved. It also brings some excitement back into my life. I love my husband and ill probably never leave him, but i do feel alittle guilty leading this other guy on. He is so nice to me and i admit, i have some feelings for him too. My question is.. Should i let the other guy go and fall back into depression, or hold onto him for a selfish self esteem boost even though i feel guilty?

We definitely have a lot of stress right now. On our third child and financially unable to provide. I m finishing school and trying to stay home with the new baby and raise our toddler and 1st grader. I m always the ambitious one, if I don t find a solution to our financial issue he won t. If I don t look for a job for him he won t. I found him a part time job but with child support coming out for our additional son (my step son) and backed up bills, he s taking home nothing. We ve been seeing a marriage counselor who diagnosed him with depression. But I don t really see that as an excuse. I feel that he s comfortable with procrastinating long enough for me to solve the problem. I m so miserable. I don t want to hit rock bottom because we have kids to care for. Any one been in this situation with a husband that won t try financially? All he does is play video games. He does tons of research on that but can t research how to get a good paying job. His excuses: he doesn t know where to start (I help by showing him) he doesn t know what he wants and doesn t want to go back to the same dead end jobs (I try to give advice on different career options and he s unresponsive or seems uninterested). Am I being played here? Please help and no negative comments please.

Ok I know I shouldn't have been snooping around but I saw an email from 5 years ago between my husband who was almost 16 and some girl. In it the girl had wrote asking if he could ever see them dating and he said no because since she's way older than him she could get in a lot of trouble and that wouldn't be cool. And she replied that they wouldn't get caught. Later emails they're talking about stuff they had done. Should I confront him about it? He should turn her in if she coulda gotten into trouble shouldn't he since it sounds like she's old?

I'm a married man. We are in our 30's and have been together for 12 years and married for 7. When we were dating and engaged fellatio used to be something that happened every week or so and it is something that I really enjoyed. It made me feel really special and close to her, not just the thrill of it. That all but stopped once we got married. Recently we started having oral a bit more during foreplay and I enjoyed it, but life got busy and we sort of got back into our quickie missionary rut. So it got me thinking. How often to other married couples do oral stuff? If you wouldn't mind, when you answer, could you include your approximate ages and how long you've been married... Thanks in advance. Sorry for the anonymous. She just wouldn't want me putting her BJ habits on blast...

is saying that in anyway helpful?

This isn't a new thing I have to deal with we are married 6 years and by now you'd think I'd be used to it but this time feels different and I'm struggling to deal and not cry knowing he'll be gone. I work in the fashion industry and have done for 8yrs, it has always been my passion but I work incredibly long hours something my H hates but accepts because I love my job and I want to be the same way for him. He leaves on the 14th till Dec 11th so this is my last weekend with him but my boss has told me she needs me to work all day Sat so I only have one full day with him before he goes and I am beyond annoyed about it, I asked if I could swap days with another only to be told that she needs me far more than husband does and that given my crazy schedule I should have thought twice of marrying. I love my job and worked hard to get were I am but I love my husband more and I've thought multiple times about quitting but never follow through because of how hard it was to get where I am. All I want is to be with my H but I feel torn & I don't know how I'll cope. Any opinions/advice guys?

This isn't a new thing I have to deal with we are married 6 years and by now you'd think I'd be used to it but this time feels different and I'm struggling to deal and not cry knowing he'll be gone. I work in the fashion industry and have done for 8yrs, it has always been my passion but I work incredibly long hours something my H hates but accepts because I love my job and I want to be the same way for him. He leaves on the 14th till Dec 11th so this is my last weekend with him but my boss has told me she needs me to work all day Sat so I only have one full day with him before he goes and I am beyond annoyed about it, I asked if I could swap days with another only to be told that she needs me far more than husband does and that given my crazy schedule I should have thought twice of marrying. I love my job and worked hard to get were I am but I love my husband more and I've thought multiple times about quitting but never follow through because of how hard it was to get where I am. All I want is to be with my H but I feel torn & I don't know how I'll cope. Any opinions/advice guys?

My wife loves "aggression" and being "taken advantage of" I have no experience with sex otger than with her and I m a soft spoken person that s more of a slow passionate style per say. Can any woman tell me how to drive her crazy with what I ve told u. **** this is wierd but worth a shot. Thanks ks in advance

I'm a mother of two who became acquainted with a young single father at the gym. We would talk about anything and everything but I cut it off when I started thinking of him more often. It's been really hard. I still see him around but I try to avoid any type of conversation with him. I usually leave to not make it awkward. I miss talking to him but I know I should keep it this way. It turned worse yesterday for me. I broke down. How long will this infatuation last? I haven talked to this guy in over two months and the last time me I caught a glimpse of him was two weeks ago. What gives? I love my husband hut I feel broken hearted about this do- called friend :-( . We never went out, never exchanged phone numbers, and we're not in any social network together.

I met this girl online who I've been chatting with for the last month. She is perfect in every way possible. She is a 10/10 physically aside from her colostomy bag (which is not her fault). She is sweet, compassionate, smart, funny, she doesn't eat meat and she's helping me become vegan. I can imagine raising a family with this girl. She is bringing out my romantic side. I feel butterflies every time I talk to her. I feel like a giddy teenager who is talking to his crush every time I receive a text message from her. But she hates Donald Trump and she voted for Killary Clinton. She is also disappointed in me for voting for Trump. She said she lost a bit of respect for me. Well I lost a LOT of respect for her for voting for HELLary. Could me and this girl ever be compatible? Is there a chance for us? How can I get over her horrible political views and convince her to raise our future children conservative?

She is earning more than me. Her salary is enough to manage my family. But Guy can be a house husband?

We've been together for three years and really, really love each other. Is there any way I can marry the love of my life? I know I'll outlive him, but we both really want this. It's all he ever talks about anymore.