Its any guy I talk to and it frustrates me because id rather no the truth than wonder! One guy lied about being single and than I found out and the next guy got distant so I asked what happened and he said he has brain surgery coming up but it turns out he was talking to another girl and he could have just told me than telling me it has nothing to do with me. What's the problem here? Thanks

ok so 2 days after my girlfriend broke up with me this random hot girl i had never seen before from one of my classes came up to me after class and was all like "we should study together" and i was like "ok". so we studied together a few times and it turns out that shes way smarter than me and doesnt need my help or whatever so idk why she wanted to study with me. we met up yesterday to work on a project for the class and she was dressed way better than she usually does and looked super hot. i took her out to eat later that night and she started talking about two guys in our class that she likes and she asked me who i thought was cuter and whatnot. is she putting me in the friendzone or whatever? HELP!

I think it may be time to end things.. i still have feelings for her no doubt but it's a very 1 sided relationship.. I've always loved her more and gave the bigger effort to keep the relationship going as long as it has, a little over 9 months. She broke up with me a couple weeks ago but came back a couple days later and promised she'd change, and I believed her and took her back. But things haven't changed at all... She makes no time for me anymore and isn't available when I need her most. Not to mention she doesn't do anything with me as far as a sexual aspect goes and hasn't for 3 months now. I keep trying and trying harder and harder hoping she'll give that effort back to me but I get what I need in return from her. Another thing that's always bothered me is that she doesn't let me talk to any other girls even if they're just friends, when she has LOTS of guys in her phone she talks to every day. I just don't know how worth it this is anymore. Please, any thoughts?

I want to the "jimmy can you hold" vine in my crush and I think it would work but he would be like wtf. Be should I do it

Like they're so irritating and they just get on your nerves, but they're also incredibly wonderful and so cute and you couldn't imagine your day without seeing their stupid dumb face and their precious grin? Is this normal?

Hey, im with this girl i really really like. she means the world to me. I'd do anything for her. We got together a while back and broke up. Since then we got back together 12 times and broke up 12 times. This not exaggerating or anything i would honestly do anything for her. shes all i have left. Rn she said she doesnt like me anymore and only wants to be friends. I agreed. I said i love her and would like to be more but im ok with friends. But she also said this 12 times too soooo idk help? btw we broke up cause she said i had no future.

I'm dating this guy for some months now and I told him I may want more kids. He has 1 kid and so do I. He's 40 I'm 30. I kind of hint that I want to have his baby and he plays along with my baby talk.. I wonder if he's serious or if he's just playing along. Do he think I'm crazy? Why do he bring it up himself sometimes? Does he like my crazy rants? Lol

Long story short, I was talking to this guy for a couple months. Nothing major, however I did want to get to know him & he gave off the same intentions- by constantly keeping in touch. A little later, I left for Spain for a week & we stopped talking for a bit. Before I knew it, he stopped responding & I eventually just stopped trying to reach out. Oddly enough, he texted me 2 days ago and asked about co worker of mine….inquired if I could put in a good word….. at this point, I'm thinking "WHAT?" but then again, we were never serious- so I had no choice but to respond with "sure".. despite my actual reaction. So I did it- & introduced them & he contacted me asking for tips & help etc.... CLEARLY, he does not like me. How would you deal with a situation like this? ** I DO, in a sense, feel disrespected. I've never had this happen to me before. What weirds me out is the fact that I was at the coffee shop with my co-worker while they met, & the fact that he messaged me afterwards "thanking me"..

Ok so a friend of friend from college told me that a girl thinks I'm cute. The problem is she's very unattractive. Ok, so i'm going to say right off the bat, yes I like personality.. but I also like the body.. This chick is literally UNFUCKABLE, very shy, obese and honestly annoying (not with flirting, but she keeps looking and staring at me every 5 seconds)... How do I get her off my back nicely.. I don't want to be an asshole.. This is me: http://imgur.com/a/7YiOW And this girl: http://i.imgur.com/oK6veYc.jpg Honestly she's looks like a pig. OINK OINK If she keeps staring me, honestly grr..... Seriously why the hell isn't she getting the message? She doesn't understand I'm out of her league? Everyone would be ashamed If he had an uggo chasing him all the time, let alone a hot successful, stylish &rich guy

You know, why do ugly people think we are created equal? Don't they know we could have their GF if we wanted? What gives?

This guy and I have been talking for more than a week now. He texts me everyday. I used to talk to him once in a blue moon on fb years back..but recently he has been texting me everyday, asked me on a date which is this friday and he really wants us to be bestfriends first and then build a relationship from it. I want that too but yesterday while talking he called me a name and it offended me...idk how to take it...he said he felt comfortable with me and called me the name without it meaning anything...he always says im a sweet girl etc...should i let this slide? He told me he thinks im too sensitive but after arguing about it he apologized. What do you think? The convo is at the bottom we were talking about being single and i said the sky's the limit when you're single" Him: "***** the sky isn't the limit how many times do I have to tell you? 😂" Me:"did you just call me a *****?" Him: "lol you got offended?" Me: "don't ever call me that"

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. Him and his sister are very close and it bugs and annoys me. I know it probably sounds like jealousy, and maybe it is, I'm just looking for another opinion so I know if I'm crazy or not. My boyfriend recently moved in with his sister as they are going to school in the same area and I'm going to school an hour away. He drives to see me every weekend because he has a job where I live, but because now we are not living in the same place, we talk on the phone and skype a few nights a week, but every time I call or Skype him his sister is in his room laying in his bed or on his couch. This bothers me so much because after a day of not seeing him I am always looking forward to talking to him but we NEVER have privacy. One time I called him balling about something at work to find out our whole conversation was heard by his sister as she was in the room. I'll call him to have him say can I call you back I'm hanging out with "my sister" & it makes me SO mad. They are constantly renting movies and watching them together, he makes her dinner and is always doing the things we used to do (going out etc) with her. And the way she talks about him is as if he's her boyfriend.I've confronted him about it and he tells me I'm messed for thinking that way but I can not stop letting it bug me, this is something that would drive a huge wedge between us and I'm not sure on what to do next. Any input it helpful! Thanks in advance!

This kid (matt) is in the same bio class as one of my friends (alex) and alex asked matt if his brother knew me. Matt but didn't know who I was but the next day I noticed him staring at me in the halls and I stared back. That day in bio matt said "that Amanda girl keeps staring at me she's like a frikin stalker" and alex told me and I was really confused and took it as a sign that matt didn't like me but he keeps staring at me and today in bio asked alex "how's Amanda doin?" Why would he keep staring and ask him about me when I'm "like a stalker"?

When he was taking to his friends he staring at me. I mean I was sitting in another table with guys and I think he was jealous. But dos he like me

I met this great girl who actually approached me. I like her a lot and she liked me too. The reason "like" is in past tense is because I'm not sure what her opinion is of me now. She doesn't really seem interested in hanging out with me anymore. She does text me frequently, but every time I invite her to something she comes up with some kind of excuse to why she can't. Her mom was just diagnosed with cancer, so I'm assuming a lot of the reason things changed with her is because of her mothers health. However, she does hang out with her girl friends often which kinda bums me out cause if she can make time for them, why wouldn't she be able to make time for me? Anyways, I do believe that with some increased effort I can get her to like me more. Efforts inscreased might be making her laugh more and face timing her instead of texting. Maybe there's something else I can do? The other option is to back off of her for a while and see if she comes to me. I really don't want to let this girl go.

We broke up 3 days ago. We dated for a month and a half, basically he wanted to have sex, I wasn't ready (i'm a virgin) We kept arguing about it, finally we both agreed we could never meet half way on the subject because I want to wait till marriage, and he asked me if this was goodbye, I said I was sorry, we hugged for a while and kissed and I left. A day before we broke up he said the girl that was his booty call before started talking to him and they were friends, she's suppose to be my friend so it bothered me a bit. After we broke up my boyfriend asked if we could work things out and he really wants to, and said he loves me and sent me little kissy faces. He asked the day after we broke up if he could hang out with the girl he used to have sex with, I texted back saying he can do whatever he wants, and he said back "Okay sweetheart" And he texted me this morning asking if I'd go with him to the parade like I wanted him to when we were dating this weekend, I said maybe. And he texted me tonight asking if it was okay for him to hang out with the same girl, I told him again he didn't have to ask me. He sent again ok sweetheart. And he texted me tonight saying he was home safe. I'm so confused? Should I hang out with and try to figure out whats going on? My mom said he's just trying to manipulate me. He told me after we broke up he cried all night, I'm trying to be nice, but can't we just take a break?

Or i guess a better question is when do their eyes develop better to follow you?

I am a seventeen year old girl in highschool and just started dating my friend four days ago(bf now) We hooked up four times at parties and stuff and talked all the time. Then he started asking me to hangout and we went on three date-ish hangouts and hooked up twice. We have not acknowledged to eachother since he asked me out that we are gf or bf and have not really done any coupley things. No kissing hello or hugs goodbye. Am i supposed to be doing these things? This is my first boyfriend. Any advice how to ease into it?

I just mentioned to my family that Im moving to an apartment with my girlfriend and everybody was happy for me except Riley.. He said " NO! YOU CANT LEAVE ME! I WILL MISS YOU TOO MUCH! I-I LOVE YOU!" then he ran upstairs crying his eyes out and slammed his door and locked it. What should I do? He wont come out. Has this ever happened to any others before? Im his 20 y/o brother and we have a really strong bond but why is he so upset about this?

So my dick "friend" (both r guys) always calls me a girl. Like literally. Or gay, and stiff like that. I really need a good roast for when he says im a woman.

so i am four and a half weeks according to my doctor. me and the dad are not together but we have been talking for almost 2 years now and have dated befofe but hes always talking and flirting with other girls. I love him but he doesn t love me sadly. He is hard to figure out though. before i got pregnant he would tell me to move on but then would block on my phone who id text and tell me im his so i was always confused. he use to tell me if we had a baby he wouldnt be in its life or sign the certificate and that he is ok with that. he wants me to get a abortion but is ok if i keep it but probably wont be in the childs life. i just wqnt him to stop focusing on other girls and pay attention to me and maybe we,vouod work out like before but he is too blinded by them to care for me. What should I do? my mom doesn t know im pregnant either. 22 and still live with her. She won t be happy.

I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend. if you know me, i am an easy-going nice person. my boyfriend is the complete opposite. he is a jerk, is rude and discriminates almost all different groups of people. I used to be patient but he is such a jerk i started hating him.I stayed with him because I believed he's misunderstood. he is emotionally tearing me apart but not intentionally. One of my biggest problems with him is his addiction to porn. we had a talk about how it's affecting me. when we are intimate, I treats me like an object. he doesn't wait for me to have an orgasm and he's degrading towards me. he was in denial and ended the conversation. the next night, he was in the shower for 40 mins. I walked in on him becasue i thought he was hurt but caught him jerking off in my shower. I felt so betrayed and cheated on because he would jerk off to some paid actress then make love to me. i flippped out I couldn't control my actions. i told him to leave my place and started beating on him with punches and kicks. I hated him so much I wanted to inflict pain on him. I wanted him to feel the pain he was putting me through. I am so remorseful for my actions. I left a bruise on his leg and a scratch on his face. he hates me and probably will never forgive me. why do I feel like he caused it but in the end it was my fault? please I need any kind of advice or criticism. I know beating him was out of line.

Ok so i have been dating my current boyfriend for about 3 weeks now, he is very shy but handsome and he has lots of friends. All we do is hug when we see each other in the hall and smile at each other, he doesn't reply to my texts anymore or answer my calls, i called him earlier and he texted me for the first time in like a week and said "I'll call you later". He doesn't compliment me but he was my first real crush and he does like me because he came to my house to introduce himself to my mom and older brother and they seem to like him. But Im kinda shy around him even though we've only known each other for two years. So basically what im trying to say is all we do is hug and nothing else but i know we both still like each other as more than friends. Ok so today a guy i've know since 3rd grade told me he likes me and i think i like him too but i think he's moving too fast because i told him i have a bf and he said "maybe he doesn't like you" me and him dont usually talk but today i asked for his number and he called me and said i always look very pretty and he's liked me for a month. I think i like him he's nice and compliments me and he's also good looking too. He told me how other girls used to cheat on him and stuff but on the phone and then he said he loved me just once. What do i do? He's done a lot more with me than my boyfriend in one day. He talks to me without hesitation and we dont usually talk to each other unless we pass each other in the hall. I told my mom and she told my older brother and they went looking through my phone because he called 10 times in like 2 hours. And texted me to call him when im free like 5 times and sent kissy emojis. They said he might be obsess but idk. He's just hyper. but he is very respectful and he's from Miami but i think he's hispanic or something but idk what to do about the I love you because he hasnt said it again because all i said was ok. He said he didnt want to interfere with my realationship because he didnt want to get in a fight with my bf. But i dont want to break up with him because he's sweet but doesnt do anything but hug me when he sees me. And the other guy calls and texts me and talks to me and compliments me. He's very sweet but i think since he's not from here maybe they say they love each other or stuff but i asked where he was from and he said Miami. I want to know what culture he's from to see if they say that. Im not cheating thats for sure but idk what to do or say. He said he wont tell my boyfriend that he likes me though. Please help!!!!

I feel frustrated that my 22 year old boyfriend will not get a real job! He always manages to burrow some money from his parents or by working a couple odd jobs every now and then to just barely have enough for his share. No matter how many times I ask him to get a real 9-5 job he always has a world of excuses that includes how he s working on getting one (it s been a year...) I m feeling fed up and slowly resenting him. How do I talk to him ?? He constantly has excuses !! My dad lives with us to since I take care of him and he constantly finds a way to use his health as an excuse for not leaving the house for work.

He says "I love you" she freaks out He asks her to dinner she freaks out He mentions living together she freaks out These are big steps, and I get that. But do you really have to analyze what you feel for everything?!? More often than not, when she freaks out, she goes into self destruct mode and does something to throw the relationship into a tailspin while she figures out where she stands.

Freshman year of high school this boy liked me and I did not like him back. He sat behind me in English class and I was told he would always stare at me and stuff and I would not notice. His friend who sat next to us would always joke around and be like "ooh he wants you blah blah" and I would get angry. Then one day, he wrote a letter for me in spanish, a love letter. (I do not know spanish) At the time I was a rude person (I've matured and grown and I'm nice now) But at thte time I threw the note away and said some harsh stuff. I can tell I hurt his feelings. Now fast forward its senior year and we have a class together. We sit far away but exchange looks every now and then. How do I apologize to him or make up for what I did in the past. I feel so bad. I now i think he is attractive but when i was 14 i said i would never date him! helpppp!!

This one night while I was on vacation with my family for my birthday I was in Orlando FL and I was staying at a hotel and I went to the pool and it was pretty empty except for this one girl Katie Feller I think it was she was 16 my age at the time and we hit it off we had a lot in common her life was shitty I think something happened to her parents and it was just her and her brother she was adopted and her adopted mother is ******* awful to her and her and her older brother were just in it together you know she was pretty like she was like no other girl I've seen she was real and not like you know fake she wants afraid to be who she was she didn't lie about herself you know she was just different hard to explain she had like black highlights in her hair we had fun and I got so caught up in that I forgot to get her contact info like her number or anything and I was so devastated cause we checked out and I never saw her again all I got was her name and I have a photographic memory of what she looked like I searched thoroughly through Facebook for anything on her I'd know her face when I'd see it i thought maybe if I spelled it different ways maybe her last name wasn't Feller it was Heller I'm not sure but I definitely know it what Katie something a long those lines I've searched google images to no avail it's like I met such an amazing person and I blew it you know I probably will never see her again and I'd give anything anything to see or hear from her why can't I find her

so, my ex was previously dating this guy. named dylan. they dated for two years till dylan cheated on her multiple times and lied about it. they stopped communication for four months until i came along. we dated for a short amount of time, it would have been longer but she still loves her ex, dylan. he messaged her on instagram last week and said he will forgive her for everything. she is so caught up in him she doesnt realize that 1) she will get hurt again, and 2) she has nothing to be forgiven for, HE cheated on HER. that being said, we connected very quickly and deeply when we met. i feel like i stand a reasonable chance of getting her back if i can show her that i am more valuable than she is. she is making small efforts to get away from him, she blocked him on instagram and such but he is still very much on her mind. what are some things i can do to show her i am better for her?

So I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks. His name is Derrick. So Derrick and I went on a date and he took me to get some food. We hit off right away and he seemed very sweet and kind of nerdy and I really liked him. After we came back from break we were talking and he invited me to his house to cuddle and watch a movie. I went over there and it was just very awkward and I felt like something was wrong since we didn't even cuddle or anything. So I texted him about it and he ended up telling me he has Asperger's syndrome and that the whole thing made him feel uncomfortable and that's why he didn't try to make a move on me or anything. I texted him back saying that it was okay and I didn't judge him or anything and I still wanted to see him. He never responded to me and I'm just wondering if I should message him again and if so, what should I say? I'm trying to be very gentle with him.

I want to change for someone. I want to be someone they enjoy to be around. Someone that they can look past the flaws of. Maybe there is some big flaw I have that they pretend I don't but are secretly annoyed by. It's not really about romantic feelings because I can't identify what that feels like. It may be romantic. Who knows. Even if it was romantic I wouldn't want to make things awkward. Not only that but I don't want to put them in such a stressful situation. I don't know what to change. Where do I start? What do they like about me? What if I change something they like? Also, I know people say to "change for yourself", but I'm so flippant with my feelings toward myself that I would end up in an endless cycle of change! I once lied about my feelings towards them which makes me feel like scum. I said I "used to" have a crush on them when I still do. I think that hurt them and I'm sorry. I don't know what to do. Nothing about this is urgent. Just... What would someone normally do in this situation? No... What would be the best thing to do in this situation?

She is supporting, encouraging, and sharing in the slander of me by means of my ex. I don't think she's doing it maliciously like me ex, she's just easy to manipulate. However, I no longer trust her and will cut her out of my life for her disrespectful actions. Should I tell her she disrespected me (I doubt she will do anything about it) or just cut her out without saying anything? She's moving hundreds of miles away in 2 weeks and I doubt I will ever see her again, as I don't intend on ever contacting her and replying to contact.

There is this guy i always thought that was cute and he s friends with my old friend from 3rd grade, Luke. When i first found out about him "Hating" me was because if Luke saying he said he did. Just because im "annoying". Later on me and him got into a small arguement about his "hate eachother" thing when we saw each ither at a carnival one night and we accidentally got on the same ride... We called each other and talked it over. I got his number who suprisingly was his cousin that was in my class that year, We agreed to be friends and we had a discussion abot how we felt to each other and i started liking him... A year later, He ignored me but he exchanged eye contanct once a while he would act really shy when he knew i was watching him while he was walking (idk why) But Omw yo leave scool he d talk about me to ithers in not very positive ways like "im annoying" or "Im creepy" Byt after school when we both got out at the same time to leave he would shyly wave back to me when i said bye like we re all friends! Whaaaa!!?? Does this guy hate me? His class is across from mine and we see each other often, im not sure what ti think; And to be honest i made a thousand typos soz

I dress nice, wear a gold watch but still they wont look at me but they will look at those black thugs, white thugs and hispanic thugs with their tattoos and saggy pants. I also think that they dont want to look at me because I am Indian because all women are racist and shallow

Ok so I met this girl in band and she was really cute, but she was older than me, and she would only talk to me in my section, but ever since another girl started talking to her, I got jealous and told the cute girl I liked her, but she never talked to me after that. So once our contests were over, and we still had to do football games, I could hear her talking crap behind my back with the girl I got jealous of. And yesturday I sat right next to both of them and they didn't talk, but as soon as I moved they started talking. Do I confront the girl I use to like?

ok so the guy i like is supper into baseball like he's really good and already committed to a great school (were sophmores in hs). so anyway i wanna talk to him about something ik he likes so ANYTHING BASEBALL PLZ. can u give me like the basics of the rules of the game and maybe some of the current mlb teams and stuff idrk. Like just whatever you would want a girl to talk to about baseball wise cause i have heard that baseball guys LOVE it when a girl can talk baseball with them. OK PLZ HELP ahaha thanks

I really like this girl and her boyfriend(they were together for over a year) broke up with her a little over a week ago, she also said she was done with guys for a while(she doesn't know i like her) and i dont really know what to do. Idk if i should move on or just wait? This girl though makes my heart just race when ever were together or when were talking and she just makes me feel some type of way that no other girl has ever made me feel

I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I kinda like this freshman and I think he likes me too. If I dated him would that be weird? He's a few inches shorter than me (I'm 5"9, he might be 5"6/5"7ish) I don't know how I feel about being the taller one. Do you think he'll get taller or will he stay about the same height? Is this relationship weird?