Family: Question: Wife and sister are always fighting?

Question: Wife and sister are always fighting?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 01:34 PM PST

They share the house because I'm not a billionaire and can't buy them 2 houses. Also my sister is too young to be left alone. I want them to get along, I could do without the constant nagging. I have bigger things to worry about

Question: Needing advice?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 01:30 PM PST

my very close friend (she s 50 and I am 18) she s been an adult role model and close personal friend mine. She called to check up on me. Of course she asked how I was, if I was okay etc.. then she started skipping around subjects talking about her family, troubles, problems occurring, stories of when she was little, about how she misses her parents etc. her procedure. it was a great long talk, I listened and gave her all my attention. I understand people need to vent or need advice but why come to me? That day I sent her flowers to show my love and support. It s been stressing me seeing her go through so much, I want her to be alright and have great health. She s always so supportive to me. We both always send encouraging texts, she s always liking all of my social media posts, we send inspirational stuff to each other, etc.. We re very close. She s a very blunt lady and will tell you like it is. She s always giving me compliments, telling me how amazing I am, so I take it to heart. But she s never really said if I ve helped her. I do all things with love and expect nothing in return but I wish I knew if I was a help to her or if I am doing something good. Sometimes I feel useless like I ve done nothing good for her. Do you think I ve helped? Ive started to feel embarrassed inside, like I m being TO loving or caring and I feel she isn t liking it. So I ve been quiet lately and haven t talked to her much, save myself more embarrassment. should I just stop communicating?

Question: Is it possible for my father to be a bear??

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 01:30 PM PST

I've never met my father and I have very thick hair and also really sharp nails is it possible that my dad is actually a bear?!!??

Question: My brother goes into belligerent rages and it scares me what makes someone be the scary and mean?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 01:28 PM PST

He even does things like scream at my mother header and he's broken things in the house is 16 years of age I am 21

Question: How do I get my parents to let me see both sides of the family for the Christmas holiday this year usually we can only see my mom side?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 01:27 PM PST

Usually my mom is too selfish to let my dad visit his family so she only demand that he visits ours we live nearby both so I'd like to visit both how can I go about this and get their permission to iamb 15 will be 16 by Christmas

Question: Former friend keeps groping me...advice needed..?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:50 PM PST

Hi I'm Skylar but most people call me Sky. I have this one girl I used to be friends with but unfortunately we split our own ways. I still see her often around school and we even have several classes together. However although we're not close anyone she always finds a reason to grope to me. Like she will just randomly walk over to me and start running her hands down my shirt or rubbing my shoulders. She takes it as a joke but I never see her doing it to other people. She always does it from behind. She doesn't often touch me when I'm facing her but she walks up to me from behind and does these weird things...I dunno if she likes me or something but I really don't know why she's doing this... we're not close anymore and personally I wouldn't touch someone I'm not close to, let alone grope them when they were uncomfortable... Thanks in advance... I'm a girl so I find it really uncomfortable when she runs her hands down my chest....

Question: Urgent, my own sorry excuse for a "mother" is attempting to murder me. What should I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:41 PM PST

I've been suicidal for years. I've been hospitalized for it before! I've been failing classes, friendships, and work. I couldn't get myself to go out and I tried to go leave the house by going to a farmers market with her. I just wanted to walk around in a different place so it's less boring and depressing. Instead of helping me, she goes psychotic because I couldn't get ready fast enough BECUASE IM DEPRESSED! Instead of helping me!!! She wants me to commit suicide. Also, both my parents said they'd kick me out of the house if I tried to commit suicide again! Can you believe it? Why don't they care if I die? Do some parents only have kids to watch them excel at something? Are those kids worthless to them if they can't?

Question: My husband has shortened his visit for our house hunting, to run & spend time with his in-laws/niece. Is it me, or am I being put second?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:38 PM PST

Question: My husband seems to put in-laws first, before starting a family. Is this normal?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:36 PM PST

Question: My brother tried to look at me naked in the past, now I'm always paranoid? Is this normal? (Currently I'm a 19 year old girl and he's 16)?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:22 PM PST

My brother's done messed up stuff like when he was 12 he drilled a small hole in the bathroom door once and asked me when I was going to take a bath so he could watch me secretly (luckily I spotted it the first time) I told my parents about that and they shouted at him and he cried and promised not to do it again They filled it with clay temporarily till they could find cement to fill it up with and one week later when I was in the bathroom I saw a tiny needle make its way through the clay He was poking a hole through it again I told my parents again and mom was very hurt and dad was just shocked and he cried again promising not to do it Two years later I found a video on his phone of me bending over to paint something and my pant had slid down a little and you could see my underwear and he recorded it The worst part is we were talking to each other and making jokes normally while he was doing this I told mom and dad again they checked his phone and found lots of porn but no more videos of me so I was relieved the last incident happened less than 10 months ago and now im always paranoid, always checking for cameras in the bathroom or possible gaps in the door through which he might be able to see me im always worried about weather there's more pictures of me on his phone i don't know about I'm always paranoid and i dont feel safe in my own home what should i do? do i need help? How do i be less paranoid?I'm a mess pls help

Question: Why doesn't my dad want to spend time with me? I don't know if it's because got pregnant or that he rather spend time with my brother.?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:19 PM PST

Question: I think I'm paranoid, what should I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 12:08 PM PST

My parents are getting a divorce, they're starting the paperwork in January. My Dad doesn't care about my siblings and I, and it's fine. I've come to terms with it and don't mind. He stresses my mom so much that whenever shes at home she has anxiety attacks and trouble breathing. However, we've all been very close to my Mom. For about a year now she's been texting a man who she said is a good friend. He's helped her make decisions with issues my sister brought to the family. But lately she's been very protective of her phone, almost as if she has something to hide. Whenever she texts she turns her phone to the side so you can't see anything and she changed her pass code (that she originally had me remember in case of emergency) so that now nobody knows it. I don't like this man and have expressed my feelings to her. But she shuts down the conversations by saying "you just don't know him." And the last conversation about him made her really mad and she said "fine. I wont divorce your dad and Im just going to get rid of my phone." Whenever she leaves the house or works late, I get paranoid that she's out with him. What's wrong with me, am I paranoid? How do I fix myself and my relationship?

Question: My parents are always doubting me and think the very worst of me? What to do? help!!?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:59 AM PST

I'm 17 soon to be off college. of course nobody is perfect. I try very hard at school and am very motivated, but I got in trouble at school due to skipping my morning class 3 times and they're making a huge deal out of it. even after justifying myself, it's still not working, and got into a fight with them. i often pull an all nighter just to thoroughly study what I need to. It feels so unfair. they tell me that im not going to finish college, or that i'll somehow end up in drugs or teenage pregnancy. this hurts me very much and has caused me to talk back to them. they hate it when i talk back as every much every parent hates, but things got out of hand.

Question: Question for women?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:45 AM PST

My friend is gonna try to hook me up with my crush which I doubt will work she's a senior I'm a junior. Thing is I have gym with her right after the class they have together. I'm the only boy in the gym class we have together. If she passes on me its cool but I feel like a ***** if only because she's gonna see me sweating doing squats and **** for the next few months until classes are switched. But when we were doing a group activity we were supposed to switch members in our team each time but we both always ended up together on the same team. We also looked for our teacher together on the first day because we were lost that's the into interaction we've had with each other I'm kind of nervous. When we were in gym today riding bikes she left the one she was initially using and sat closer to me but is still had a couple bikes between us. My out of state friend who's never met her encouraged me and said he has faith she's going to be my girlfriend. And we were cooking today & I caught her looking at my side of the room but maybe that's me being stupidly in love and she was just zoned out. I should've up come up to her while she was playing basketball but I didn't want to embarrass her infront of her friend. Idk if I'm gonna do this but I've done crazier things i want to wear a Woman Crush Everyday shirt with her face on it. Maybe I can talk to her about my crazy life during gym? Idk

Question: My stepdad treats me like a piece of crap! Am I being too sensitive? What should I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:43 AM PST

My stepdad has been in my life for the majority of it. Since over a year after my father was murdered. (I never knew my father, he was killed a few months before I was born. So my stepdad is the only father figure I know.) My stepdad talks to me as if I'm stupid. As if I don't understand him, as if he is speaking a different language. He looks at me with such a loathsome stare. His eyes are large when he looks at me, firm, and piercing my soul. When he walks in from work, I'm never greeted or looked at. When I greet him he doesn't say anything. Every now and then he'll say a stern 'hi' as if through gritted teeth. I avoid him as much as I can. I'll go as far as not come home to eat. He's always mad it seems just to me. One day he I was trying to bond with him and make a joke. I must have not said it loud of enough for him to hear it. He turns to me and says 'huh, what?' Looks at me all over my face with a disgusted look. I mean...what gives? I'm afraid of him. I try to lighten the mood, but I feel it's better if I just disappear. I don't feel like he's accepted me. I'm an outcast at home. Am I wrong? I need advice. I have social anxiety issues and I've dealt with depression. I love him like a father. He's helped my family out and has been there for my mother. I just want to feel like I can talk to him and not feel like I could burst into tears everytime he looks at me. Hope this makes some sense.

Question: What's the best thing in a care package from home?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:42 AM PST

Question: Am I overreacting? Should I talk to my dad again?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:13 AM PST

Okay how to I start this... Alright so I live in Texas was visiting my dad in Colorado over the summer and we went camping in Sante Fe with my cousins. On the way there we were talking for a little bit and then we started talking about drugs and he was like "I don't care if you do ________(Cocaine/Pot/Heroine), as long as you're responsible". At the same time there is a sense of encouragement to do this stuff. At this point I'm in shock because I thought I would never hear that from a parent. Then he goes on to tell me how he met all 4 of his wives(my mom was the 3rd). He told me how he cheated on his first wife and then his second wife cheated on him, but when it came to my mom it really affected me. During this conversation he is almost braging saying he was a playa and other things I can't remember. Okay about my mom, so he told me that they met each other through work and about 3 months later she goes up to him and tells him she's pregnant. I didn't even bother to go into detail with that, since he told me they barely knew each other at that time.(Keep in mind my dad was 48 and my mom was 37 So then comes the shotgun wedding by the and by the time I was 6 months old they divorced. He told me that he has done what he could to provide for me and my mom, but tell me why when they divorced my mom told me that he told her to never ask for anything? Why did he over time get me less and less days during the week which turned into every other weekend which read down for the rest

Question: I'm 15 and don't know what activities can I do with my baby sister who's 3 months?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:07 AM PST

So my mom left to go pick up something quickly and told me that I had to babysit my sister, but it's kinda boring and I don't know what to do

Question: What should you do/not do when your daughter cuts herself?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:04 AM PST

Question: What the hell do I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 11:01 AM PST

I'm a Senior. My mom asked me if I wanted to join paddling because she wants me to go out more and socialize. But whenever I ask her if I can go out with friends, she says NO. So I have no choice but to be stuck at home. So I got the paddling forms and my dad said no I can't join which is weird bc he never says no. He would usually be happy about it. It's like their so bipolar about things it's BIZZARE. When I turn 18 it's gonna bite them in the *** bc I'm gonna move out. My family has no tattoos or piercings, I'm pretty sure I'm gonna be the first one to get those and their gonna be very disappointed but I don't care, my money my body

Question: My dad sends $700 to a "friend" of his that he hasn't seen in ages but when I (his son) asks for a couple dollars to buy food, he gets mad.?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:50 AM PST

He gets mad at me and forces me to just eat these tiny pieces of bread that is not filling and lacks nutrition. So ironic how he wants to save money and yet he gave away $700 to a person who might as well be a complete stranger now since he hasn't seen him in years. And apparently this "friend" of his doesn't have a job yet he's been offered many jobs, he's just too lazy to work. And here I am, his hungry, skinny son, and he doesn't want to spend a mere $10 for his son to buy a good meal.

Question: My family is so annoying sometimes!?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:50 AM PST

I just got back home lastnight from helping my family load up like 20-25 hefty trash bags full of clothes and things to take to the laundromat. I used my children's father pick up truck. The thing was to get them there which was a straight shot down the street from my moms house. It was my mom brother and grandma. My grandma drove her car to the laundromat as well. My grandma could have made multiple trips by putting the stuff in the backseat and trunk of her car. It would of probably took 3-5 trips getting the clothes to the laundromat and the same amount to get it back. The truck was a big help because it only took 1 trip there and 1 back. Once I dropped them off my grandma said are u going to come back I will put gas in the car. I had to see because my children's father is really busy and always needs the truck. So I was killing his time. So I came back to pick them up and drop them back off at home after the stuff was done. My grandma didn't mention gas money but instead can I do my moms hair this week and I just be so busy nobody understands because I'm a stay at home mom of 3 they feel I'm not doing anything!

Question: My life is falling Apart (I think?)?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:48 AM PST

I'm the only kid in my family without mental problems. My sister's both have depression and anxiety. Whenever they seem to be down, my parents comfort them and do whatever needed to help. Whenever I feel down, they tell me to " get a grip" and just let my feel worse and worse. I don't know what to do anymore. My sister's don't understand that my parents are two-faced and I'm starting to think parents have favorite kids, and I'm not one of them.

Question: Brother has been grounded over a couple song lyrics?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:42 AM PST

My 14-year-old brother recently discovered Knife Party - his favourite song is Internet Friends. He posted the lyrics: "You blocked me on facebook, and now you're going to die" and "I bet you're busy talking to some f**king sl*t. F**king skank. Is she hotter than me? Would you f**k me? Are you gay?" Our parents somehow saw these lyrics and had a massive row with him. Because of it, he's grounded for 2 weeks. He explained that they're song lyrics, and they even listened to the song. but they were like "It's still no excuse", "You still deserve to be punished" and "You're such a potty mouth". Does he deserve to be grounded for it?

Question: What is the new music video where little girls parents fight and dad is drunk and abusive and then she becomes her parents sung by girl?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:41 AM PST

Question: Why does Daddy wear Mommy's clothing?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:24 AM PST

Question: What do you feel about having a housewife? do you feel you would want her to work?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:17 AM PST

Question: How could I gain my parents trust back?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:16 AM PST

I am 17. I lost my parents trust and they took away my keys, my phone, my I pad and I can not go anywhere. They told me I have to work hard to gain their trust back. How could I do that if they aren t supporting me. I feel like I should get my stuff back and show them I am trustworthy. Please give me advise.

Question: Why do not you like Latinos?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:12 AM PST

Question: Do you take a shower every day? The Americans take a shower ?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:11 AM PST

Question: My ex-wife's mother is pregnant with my baby?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:06 AM PST

My ex-wife's mother, Linda, is 42 and I am 23. My ex-wife, Macey, is 21. She and I both share a handsome 5 year old son named Caycen. Now, that you've got information about the people involved in this relationship, let me tell you the story. I met Macey in middle school but our relationship budded in freshman year during high school. We shared our first everything together and when she was 15, she was pregnant with my baby. I stayed with her through thick and thin and I eventually married her once she turned 18. Sadly, our relationship didn't work out (we just weren't compatible living with each other and she started to get annoyed by me) and she wanted a divorce. I was devastated when she told me this and tried everything I could for her to stay with me but she insisted on divorce. Linda talked to me and tried to cheer me up. I somehow got attracted by this and started to develop a bit of a crush on her. One day, I just kissed her. I immediately pulled away after realizing how inappropriate this moment was, but I was surprised when she kissed me back. Well anyways, we did end up sleeping together and we continued to do so every other day when I would come over to her house. I've gotten to know her very well and I've found that we've shared lots in common. I am attracted to her. Just a couple of days ago, she called me and told me she was pregnant with my baby. She's keeping it. How do I tell Macey this? How do I tell Caycen that his step-brother is his uncle? Is this wrong?

Question: My parents are ruining my life. help?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 10:03 AM PST

So I'm a 16 year old boy and I seriously question my life right now. My parents don't allow me to have a social life and after a couple of years as a teenager it's starting to get to me. They're both uneducated and don't know much about raising children (I have 3 older siblings). I'm not allowed to do anything outside of school, but I still manage to hang out with my friends for a little while when I finish early at school. Sadly, lately my friends don't bother asking me out to stuff anymore as they know I won't come anyways and that puts me in a bad spot. I'm not sure why my parents don't want me to do anything, but they've done it to all my siblings. I know if I disobey them I will hear them scream at me for days or even weeks sometimes, telling me I'm useless, waste of space etc. My dad will also sometimes attack me physically, but it doesn't really bother me anymore as I've been training alot lately, focusing on the spots he hits me so it doesn't hurt that much. I've tried finding a job so that when I'm old enough I can move out, but they won't let me so that I have to rely on their money. I have good grades in school, even though I don't like it and want to become something else, I still want something to lean on if things go wrong. It hurts for me to live like this and with a little over a year until I'm 18 I don't know what to do. Please help if you can thanks

Question: Worst kind of incest example (parents, siblings) ect?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:54 AM PST

Question: Moms would you have done this?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:39 AM PST

I just got home from taking my daughter to her friends house. Since it was warn out and I did not get out of my car I drove barefoot and did not bring my shoes.

Question: I m 17 and my parents are very religious/conservative. They don t condone premarital sex and I just recently had sex with my boyfriend?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:33 AM PST

I want to be able to wear cute underwear and bras but there s no way I would be able to convince my mom to let me buy them. My dad has very high standards for me and says that my boyfriend will prevent me from achieving my aspirations in life because "temptation of the flesh is evil". I don t regret giving away my virginity. How can I get past this and let my parents realize that at this point in my life- I know right from wrong and they should let me make my own desicions and face the consequences on my own. I am on A honor roll and have never done anything to let them not trust me, but they still don t trust me

Question: Witnessed abuse of boyfriend's brother?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:29 AM PST

My bf and I are seniors in high school and have been together for 8 months. Last weekend he invited me to go with his family to meet his grandma who lives 45 minutes away. His dad was driving with his mom in the passenger seat. We were sitting in the middle and his two little brothers (13 & 8) were in the way back. They were goofing around and playing the entire trip but after like 20 minutes the 8 year old starts crying and the 13 year old starts apologizing like crazy. All of a sudden my bf's dad pulls to the side of the highway coming to a screeching halt, jumps out, and pulls my door open and tells me to get out. I jump out and he throws my seat down reaches into the back and pulls his 13 year old out. He then punches him in the stomach twice really hard and picks him up and shoves him back into the car. The trip was totally silent after that and nobody said anything. All you could hear was this kid softly crying. When we got back I tried to talk to my boyfriend and he said it wasn't any of my business so I let it go but a couple days later I brought it up again and he said "Well my dad won't hit them when they get big enough to defend themselves trust me." he told me to never bring it up again but I just can't let it go and I don't want to be around his dad anymore

Question: Am I being a panic Mom?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:28 AM PST

I take my two boys to my Brother Jeffs house to visit on the weekends. I am friends with their only neighbor who have a little girl that my boy's made good friends with. Brenda is 7 like my youngest (our oldest is 8). At first I did not see this as an issue. When I first met Brenda and her Mother.. She came over holding Mommy's hand wearing just her sweater and white underpants after coming home from church. Her Mother lets her wear her panties as bottoms to play in if she wishes. The boys did not seem to care or notice when she in her underpants and honestly I think she looks cute! The issue is last weekend Brenda got in trouble. When the boys went to the door her Mother told them she had been a bad girl and could not play. Boys are boys and they were nosy. They peeked around back where they could see in the window that Brenda was flat across her Daddys lap getting a spanking with her pants off. I yelled at them to get back over here and don't look at that. Later when Brenda was allowed to come out to play I heard the kids talking about spankings! They asked about her if a spanking (not a whoppin like my boys each got a few times) feels worse She said it "feels like a bee stinging her in her panty" Should I have told Brenda that it is not ladylike to talk about spanking with boys? . I may sound silly but is there an issue with any of this???

Question: I dont like my kids what should I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:27 AM PST

My year old daughter bores the crap out of me with her boring stories My 13 year old daughter is just plain retarded, the girl cant even spell her name or do basic math What should I do?

Question: What do you think of a mother like this?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 09:17 AM PST

What do you think of a single mother who spoiled her child all of his childhood didn t really parent him was more of a friend than a mother moved around alot had a lot of boyfriends come through in and out of the house alot found out her son has autism didn t really do anything about it just dropped out of highschool she didn t say anything about it now this kid is an adult now with no direction and all his mother does is bark orders my question is do you think the mother did a good job at parenting? And what should the kid(now adult) do to better his life?

Question: Girls would you do this?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:54 AM PST

I will be leaving soon to ride with my dad to go pick up a pizza. He is driving and going in and I am going to sit in the car. I am at home now in my bare feet and since I am not getting out of the car I am going for the ride in my bare feet and I am not going to bring my shoes.

Question: My dad tries to control my life and I'm sick of it. What should I do?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:38 AM PST

I'm currently 22 years old. I graduated college in May and just got my first full time job. Yes I know I have not been in the adult world for a long time, but I'm starting to get annoyed with my father. Instead of giving me advice, he tries to control my every move in life,and when I try to tell him he's wrong he gets defensive and tries to argue. For an example, midway through my job search I decided to change my resume completely because I included words like "responsible for" and obviously I wasn't getting any interviews, and he got on my case, saying "the only important thing on your resume is that you have a bachelor's degree, that's it" (not true, and I started getting interviews after I change it). He even told me that I needed to factor in a grade that I got at community college into my college GPA - I told him that my university doesn't factor in grades from other colleges and that it would be considered lying and what if a future job ask for transcripts. He got all defensive again, saying "oh that's what I did" or "you paid money to take a class at the community college so it should get factored in". Now that I have a full time job I thought he wouldn't be on my case. He just stopped by my room and told me to call my credit card company, tell them that I just got a job, and ask for a credit card because I need to buy a bus pass. Who said I wanted a credit card from them? Who said that I was taking the bus? UGH he's so annoying. What should I do? Mind you, he only talks to me when he wants to discuss school or anything job related. Or else, he just goes into the basement and doesn't talk to anyone all day. I haven't heard from him in TWO WEEKS - I didn't even tell him about any of my interviews. He doesn't know what's going on in my life at all. So I can't just "sit down and talk to him" about it.

Question: Why does my 2 y/o sister constantly throwing items? In addition, how to stop this?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:23 AM PST

This is a serious situation, and I am completely shocked by my mothers actions. Just when the baby gets angry, shouts, cries and she starts to throw objects in her vicinity. My mother gets angry and I am always shocked to see her emitting all the rage around her. Just recently, 2 year sister has gone mad couple of times and mother went even more mad, cried too. She drags the child with one hand furiously, slaps her. I am just there in shock, I immediatly move to my room. I really do not understand this behaviour, who would do this? It makes me want to leave the house. From my standpoint, If I had kids I would be the calmest parent. Are there any suggestions to educate a two year old to stop throwing items? It s getting out of control. I need serious help.

Question: My mom is hurting me mentally. She won't let me cry?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:21 AM PST

Hi lately ive been really sad at home because my mom is mentally bringing me down in all aspects. Whenever she catches me on the floor crying she just tells me to suck it up and that I have nothing to cry about. But all I really want is a shoulder to cry on. She says me crying doesn't benefit her in any way, but sometimes it not about her. She is always yelling at my dad for no reason and it makes me so sad since they are always fighting. I came out to her as bisexual last week and she thinks what caused this is me hanging out wiith my best friends too much who are twins, one of them is (seen as) gay and the other is transgender. I asked to hang out with them this weekend and she won't let me but they are the shoulders I can cry on. I was obviously sad about he telling I couldn't hang with them and nodded at her decision and just cried a little to myself about it. She caught me being sad and said I should cry over such **** things and that I couldn't go to their house ever again. Now I really sad, I feel alone. I can normally talk to my brothers but their gone for thanksgiving break. I'm not allowed to get away and sleepover at a friends house anymore since I'm bisexual. And I can't talk to my school counselor since we just got off Thanksgiving break. Please help me how do I deal with this, I feel miserable.

Question: My mother who usually alienates me from family did something kind for family. How can I further encourage her on this and does this fix all?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:16 AM PST

I have asked a number of questions on here over the past few months about handling my mother who restricts my access all she can to her family (her siblings). My Mom did something very kind this weekend for her siblings. It also allows me to see them pre-Thanksgiving even though we can't go on Thanksgiving. So how do I reward my mother for this to encourage further kindness rather then her usual hostilities towards them? Also does this make things all better or am I right to feel that I will reward her for this but still express hurt times she alienates us from them? Her kind deed is having them over tomorrow for her late mother's birthday (Nov. 20th) and so sort of an early Thanksgiving though I still sadly miss out on seeing my cousins other then one who might come.

Question: Bad naughty step sister?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 08:10 AM PST

I think she stole my spermatozoa. Kid is six. Family stopped inviting me to do things a long time ago.. I think they know... My step-sister sister is hot.. if she did this i just want to know if she must think I am attractive or a have good genetics if she did this, right? You wouldn t steal an unattractive mans sperm?? And second part of the question... Is it possible to have sex with a women and completely forget,,, or to have vague memories like it was a dream but it really happened? Please answer both: if she thinks I m sttractive/ good genes,, and possible to forget sex. (Won't let me upload pics)

Question: I'm 18 and Filipino, my parents are the typical Filipino parents (conservative, quite attached, strict)?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:49 AM PST

I'm planning to go to S.Korea for my first solo out of the country trip. I've been very independent, I always go to places alone and i'm more comfortable without company. In short, i'm an introvert. I am detached from my parent and i don't like having conversations with them. I am afraid that they won't let me go to S. Korea so I'm planning to buy tickets and get visa by myself and without their knowledge. Of course, I'm paying for everything, i have an impressive savings account. I have everything planned. I understand Korean and Hangul. I'm a girl. Is this okay? Will they let me go, if i already prepared everything? Any advice?

Question: I have PTSD from my parents divorce and am being treated for it. How would you suggest handling emotions when a trigger opens?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:49 AM PST

Family events are triggers for me but I really enjoy them so it is not a situation where I would skip them. At the same time when I miss one all the wounds of the divorce open as my mother made the mistake out of her anger and hurt of restricting our access to our Dad and so he had to go to court. Holidays are another trigger like next weekend as sometimes we just see our mother and her family (like next weekend) and it reminds me of when a kid and I had no access to my Dad and felt responsible. I'm an adult now so like next weekend is just the inabilty to be two places at once (not anything where I am being restricted) but the anxiety from the trauma opens.

Question: My mom only cares about how I look?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:41 AM PST

I seriously want to punch her. I get great grades, I don't party or do anything teenagers do, I do whatever she doesnt want to do because her lazy *** is just looking at Facebook all day and yet all she cares about is how I look. I look like a decent human being yet no, I have to look good in front of her friends. My hair is naturally curly but she wants me to straighten what SHE gave to ME. She days I'd get bullied when she doesn't know anything. She literally slapped me just now because I refuse to straighten my hair. My classmates say they love my wavy hair yet she doesn't listen. She's the one that's bullying me! She called me fat and laughed at me when talking to her friends saying my size even though I just have fat on my stomach and I'm not unhealthy or anything. She told my sister "Whenever I look at your face I feel depressed." like what the hell. And even though I try to explain to her why she's wrong she never accepts it. She has hurt me physically and emotionally. I'm only 14 and I can't wait 4 more years. I can't explain anything to her without getting beat. I literally can't have a different opinion than her. I can't take this anymore I cry all the time what do I do?

Question: I want to cry?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:39 AM PST

My father is getting married today, and he ran away from us when I was 11, stealing my mom's car. However, my mom put her and his name into the property and car. Tomorrow is my birthday and he's getting married today. I don't even know what to do, I've never cried during a lot of things, but it's become to the point where I don't know what to do but cry. How can I help myself?

Question: Is it normal for a grandmother to tell her son that she doesn't feel the same way about her grandchild because it isn't her actual child?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:39 AM PST

My soon to be ex partner said that when he asked his mother why she's acting like she has a lot less interest in our child,she told him it's different because he's actually her child & ours isn't.When he told me her response he didn't think it was bad Because she's from Peru & was insinuating that's how all Peruvians feel.I just wanted to know if anyone thinks this is normal or if they are Peruvian does that make any difference of why you'd feel Any less about your grandchild just because you didn't give birth to them?

Question: Why do people say that "staying together for the kids" is the "right thing to do"?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:35 AM PST

Sometimes if a marriage doesn't work, I hear people preach "You should stay together for the kids and be a family, it's the right thing to do." or "if it's broke, do what it takes to fix it." I worked hard while my wife was a stay at home mom for our 2 kids. Once they got into school, my wife started sleeping around, now that she has more time on her hands. I confronted her each time I found out, and gave her another chance. When I caught her the 3rd time, I decided enough was enough. I am working hard to feed this family, and she's off running around. I deserve better. So I initiated a divorce. People are telling me that it is ME who is ruining the family, and that I should have paid more attention to her. Are you f***ing kidding me!? Cheating is a CHOICE, and I deserve someone faithful.

Question: Not really a question, but please hear me out?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:31 AM PST

.....can't help but think what if I end up nowhere in life? what if I don't have a career or a house or job or happiness? what if I never get out of this situation? my mom says I won't. She says my, 8 year old,sister would turn out to be more successful than me and a better person. I was one of those kids that idolised my parents. Valued, respected and extremely loved them. Since the past few years my life decided to do a 180 on me.... ever since my mom and siblings had to move away to our home country due to some financial problems; my mother's attitude has changed. My parents always had a shaky relationship but they both loved me tremendously unfortunately I don't feel that anymore. Mommy dearest now abuses, hits, insults and emotionally abuses us in anyway she can which has left me depressed and anxious to the point where I began self-harming. I had always been strong, nothing ever got to me unless it was from my parents. Now I just feel insecure all the time just like when I had asked a question on this forum regarding college applications I had been told by a number of people, "If you can't do such a simple thing you shouldn't even be in college" which disheartened me... I mean there are not wrong, right? I should be able to fill it out without help. I want to get away from my mother, so I was thinking about applying to the US, however, it stated that I need atleast $18k in the bank.....another blow cause we don't have that much. I just don't know what to do anymore.

Question: My fathers sisters daughter, married my fathers daughters son, what is their sons relationship to my father?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:30 AM PST

Question: Why does my mom expect me to see her when I move out?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:22 AM PST

After the way she treated me she would rather have everyone else happy then me you are supposed to love your kid more then anyone else and I am always the third wheel when her and my brother are around me they get in their moods so they ignore me or bring me down by criticizing me if her attitude changes I'll probably still see her but would you still see your mom after she treated you like that? One of the things she did was body shamed me that's just one thing..

Question: Who is in the wrong?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:20 AM PST

I am 53. I tell my son and daughter all the time I am not their father and they are embarrassments to me. I am their biological father though, just I do not consider myself their father. I have been beating son and daughter with my hands and belts for 11 years. They are 17 and 18, I have had them in online school for 12 years. No outside person knows of my ahdh and bipolar. My son and daughter say they hate people because of what I do to them. They refuse to leave as we live on interstate/highway with no sidewalks on them and they refuse to walk with cars behind cars. I get joy out of seeing my kids hurt I do not know why when they cry(after I beat them in face for few minutes) I yell at the them to shut up. Can I legally stop allowing son and daughter to eat and use my airconditioning if they refuse to leave my house?

Question: What kind of parent abuses you?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 07:04 AM PST

What kind of parent abuses you(physically, mentally) since you were 3 years old, yet the other parent has never stood up for you? And you can't fight back as this parent is obese(230 pounds) and when you try to you just get hurt(physically more)?

Question: I've just discovered that my mum and dad aren't called mum and dad. They're called Delia and Anthony.?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 06:50 AM PST

I can't look at them the same way. I don't feel like they're my mum and dad anymore. It feels fake calling them mum and dad. I'm genuinely upset about this and feel parentless. What can I do?

Question: Should I let my mom see my dick when she stays at the door until I get up?...(when she asks/yells at me to get up that instant?)?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 06:49 AM PST

My mom barges in my room sometimes when I sleep in and yells at me to get up out of the bed, the problem is I sleep naked..only below the waist..so If get up she'll be so shocked that my divk is out right in front of her. noe what I'm afraid of is that she'll tell other people about it, and we have "gatherings/partys" for birthdays, holidays and mostly special events, so my thing is that all these people will look and say things to me(IF she tells them. So my qiestion is, Should I just say to myself "**** it" and next time just get up and let her see my dick out? B.T.W I'm 16 and am just above average...😎😄😋)

Question: I kind of like my cousin?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 06:31 AM PST

He's not my full cousin, he's my half cousin (I don't actually know the proper title for it, I think it may be second cousin?). My grandfather was in a relationship with somebody else and had my mother, then had kids with another woman, and one of his daughters had my cousin. Yeah. So basically, all I'm asking is; is it wrong? and how do I overcome this desire or "stop liking" him? Thanks for all your help. Please don't be rude. :c

Question: How do I develop a good sense of humour and self-confidence?

Posted: 19 Nov 2016 06:27 AM PST

Basically, I just want to be a generally good person to talk to. In a few months, I'm moving across the country where all my mothers family is. They're literally all so funny, loud and they appear as though they have good self-confidence. Me? I've always been SO shy. I'm not a good person to talk to, because when somebody talks to me, I start to run out of things to say REALLY quickly, and I start looking away from them because I don't know what to do, then it just becomes really awkward and unpleasant. I want to be like my family, so that I can impress them. I'm 13 years old, and all of my cousins were raised together (they're basically just a giant pack of brothers and sisters) except for me. I was raised on the other side of the country with my brother, mother and part-time dad (who literally only left us a few days ago). Thank you for all your comments. I really appreciate your help! <3