Family: Question: Repeatedly Dis obeying Parents, how do I talk to them?

Question: Repeatedly Dis obeying Parents, how do I talk to them?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 01:35 PM PST

I have always disobeyed with my parents when it came to video games. And my dad has already broke one of two of my 3DS. He has taken the last one from me, but this week, he is out of town, and I decided to play on it, but immediately my mom found me playing on it. Now my parents get really mad at me when I play with my 3DS, and this is the last straw for them. How do I talk to my parents about it? They always get SUPER pissed and sometimes even spanks me. What should I do to have an easier time talking to them?

Question: Do you think 25 is too early to have kids?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 01:25 PM PST

I think it is the perfect age. My parents are around 35 years older than me which just seems weird. I want there to be less of an age difference than that.

Question: My parents keep telling me to stop worrying about my brother keeping weed in the house because it won't get me high or buzzed? They right?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 01:25 PM PST

Question: I just caught my little brother and cousin trying on my new Bras ! Should i wait and tell my mother and Aunt when they come home or?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:54 PM PST

should my girlfriend and I deal with this ourselves My mother always seems to let my brother get away with things saying boys are just kind of curious and crazy sometimes

Question: Why does my mom start arguments at every holiday season?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:52 PM PST

As predicted, my mom (adopted) and grandma have decided that they "have no use for" the holidays. Last year at Thanksgiving, my grandma began insulting my husband to his own father after dinner last year and my husband was mad (so was I). Whenever my grandma or mom come over, they clam up in front of the in laws and act like they are mad at them. Last year, my in laws decided not to come to MY Christmas party (at my house, not my moms, although she split the cost of groceries half with me) she is still mad and has vowed to hold a grudge on them. This year, I told her that if she and my grandma have nothing nice to say in my home, they can go to the local cafeteria and eat TG dinner. I decided to act like a Christian and invite them and offer to call a truce, which they declined in favor of still saying they hate the holidays and "that we dont want them at our house". My mom and grandma's drama makes it awkward for my in laws and kids and they also started this drama with my 1st husband's family as well. What can I do and why does my mom (late 60s) and grandma (mid 90s) start fights at the holidays like little kids?

Question: Is it okay to be afraid of the dark?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:48 PM PST

I get made fun of and bullied just for fearing the dark from my family.

Question: How to deal with a MIL who always follows me around at family events?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:48 PM PST

Every time I'm talking to others, even my hubby, she pretends to walk by and it's totally obvious she's eavesdropping. I stop and look at her and she'll leave right away. But she'll try it again and again. I find it super annoying and disrespectful. She follows me everywhere like a shadow at times or watches me from across the room when I talk to people. When I pull out my phone to look at it, she'll try to steal a glance at what I'm looking at. She'll try to sit next to me. Shes a hard person to have regular conversations with. She talks about the same subjects over and over. When I try to talk about something new she looks like I have three heads and she'll just stare blankly at me. I try to avoid her but she won't go away.

Question: My dad is so mean and always calls me names how can I stop this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:39 PM PST

I'm a 17 year old girl. My dad won't stop calling me names. I work at Hooters and everyday before I go to work he calls me a slut. He even makes fun of me in front of my friends. He calls me so many names. I just want a dad that cares about me

Question: Are first cousins close blood relatives ?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:37 PM PST

Question: What can i do if my mom is threaten to kill me?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:12 PM PST

I'm 19 years old and everyday i cook and clean the house and i watch my little brother who is 6 and everytime my mom complains that nothing is good enough for her and she literally calls me every name in the book and hits me. i have no car or a place to go thats why i need answers.

Question: I was looking through my mom's messages because she was hiding something and i forgot to close the tab what do i do ?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:12 PM PST

i told her i didn't and she doesn't believe me. I wasn't supposed to know about something and now im scared she knows i know help

Question: How do I make 64 dollars in a month if I'm 13?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:10 PM PST

I'm trying to get my brother and his girlfriend tickets to see the lumineers for Christmas. Since I'm so young it's hard for me to make money. The tickets are 32 each because that's all I can afford if I want "good seats" the problem is, I don't really get allowance and I really want to get him these tickets.. what do I do?

Question: Do you think it's fair of our dad to hold us to this bet?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 12:06 PM PST

I should begin by saying our dad is really good at sleight of hand magic tricks and stuff like that. That's how he was able to pull this off. Yesterday, my sister and I were having fun racing each other from one side of our rather large backyard to the other. We were catching our breath between races when our dad said something and made us jump. We hadn't realized he'd come up behind us. He said he'd been watching us race and said he wanted in. He bet us that if we won, he'd do all our chores for us for a week. If he won, we'd get even more chores. We agreed and took our mark. When our dad yelled "Go!" we took off running as fast as we could. We were halfway to the finishing point and ahead of him when we both found ourselves being jerked off our feet and onto our butts! Dad quit running at this point and just walked to the finish line. Turns out he'd tied a rope to the belt loops of our pants and during the race we'd run past a tree on opposite sides. I gotta give him credit, I didn't see that one coming! Thing is, we didn't think he was serious about us doing extra chores (given how he won) but he's dead serious! Do you think it's fair of him to hold us to this bet? If not, what's a good way to try and talk him out of this?

Question: Are my parents unfair???

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:46 AM PST

I was grounded for getting an 85 in an AP class. I was a bit upset, but I learned to accept it and I tried to have a good attitude. Later on my dad does two hours of studying with me and the next two days I was good, no arguing. Then, the third day I was confused and asked him to re-explain it and he just said, "You know what? You do it." And I said, "I can't! I have no idea what to do!" Then he said he was sick of my attitude and that's why I'm grounded. Now he's making me right a two page essay on the Bible. Right now, he's working with my siblings , but he seems extremely patient with them. I'm on the verge of flipping out and burst into flames because of this.

Question: Can u answer this with a useful answer plz?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:38 AM PST

*Before I start no saying useless answers So ok I have to borrow my parents computer and I am a YouTube who needs to make daily videos, but I have a brother with a pc addiction who uses the computer from when he comes back from school and until bedtime (9:00 pm) and I always try to ask nicely for it and setting time limits. But after the time limit my brother still uses it and to stop tantrums my parents let him continue. And when ever I try to say don't spoil him to my dad he says let him play for 30 more minutes (he played for 2 hours) so what do I do And remember useful answers

Question: Moms would you do this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:30 AM PST

I have to leave in a few minutes to go pick up my daughter at her friends house. I am at home now in my bare feet and since it is warm out and I am not getting out of my car I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes. I don't like to wear shoes unless I have too and I don't need shoes for a 30 minute drive since I am not going in anyplace.

Question: What should I do about this?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:26 AM PST

So my brother is upset with me for "Some" reason, recently I left my mom's house & I came back because the place I went wasn't what my mom & I thought it would be, but while I was away for those 2 months my phone was broken & I wasn't talking to him or my mom, I've been back home for 4 months now & he talks to everybody but me, he'll literally walk past me like I'm not sitting there, won't even acknowledge me & just a little while ago he came over with his kids, they spoke to me & so did his wife, as she always does & he took his youngest 10 month old from me because he was playing with his older brother & he tapped his head on the floor while I was sitting there watching him.. He didn't even cry, he's being so petty & my mom wants us to be close but I honestly don't have time for this.. I'm not kissing his ***.

Question: How can I explain to my mom that I'm a teenager now and a different person than her?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:19 AM PST

I'm a 15 year old guy. I'm argumentative. That's healthy and that's normal. But my mom thinks that I'm a four year old kid and just thinks I'm EXACTLY like her in every way. I have a different personality. I do things differently. And I'M NOT FOUR. So I think everything I do needs a reason or there's no point. Like, if my mom asks me to come, I say why. Then she YELLS at me for ASKING WHY. And I don't clean my room because I hate cleaning my room. Normal, right? And she just bursts into my room (literally, she throws my door open; there's a hole in my wall from the knob from when she does this) and just screams and screams at me. And she is a complete idealist, I'm a realist. She thinks the world should just be PERFECT and everyone should just get ALONG, just BECAUSE THEY SHOULD. I say people should disagree and argue to get a good outcome and only do things for a reason. And she yells at me. And I like doing things MY WAY, because I know how I work. And whenever I do something she tells me to do MY way, she screams at me for like ten minutes. She says people who don't take others' advice are the only stupid people. I say stupid people are the only stupid people. Like her. She doesn't UNDERSTAND the SIMPLEST things like I AM DIFFERENT THAN HER. SHE doesn't listen to ME at all. Complete hypocrite. How do I get her to STOP treating me like this?

Question: Does my step mom hate me??????

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 11:06 AM PST

So my parents have been divorced since I was one year old and now I'm 19. I am my dadams only child and my stepmom cant have kids at all..He met my step mom when I was 3 and he got married to her at that time.I remember when I was small my step mom would mistreat me and I would tell my dad and he would never believe me... However we get along good but I feel like she secretly hates me... She doesnt let me ask my dad for money , she doesn't let him help me out.. But he still helps me out behind her back.... If he gives me $100 he has to give her $100, me and him can't go out to eat as daughter and father cause she gets jealous & angry... My dad has to pay more attention to her or else she'll start getting moody.. Also my dad bought her a 2016 car when I haven't even gotten my first car yet and I see all my friends parents buying them cars. Because of her I just feel like moving out already /: I just wished my parents would've stayed together so I wouldn't have to put up with tbis lady... Why do you think she's like that .?? Is she jealous of me ?? I have never done anything wrong to hurt her..

Question: I feel like my step dad kind of took advantage of Me as I was unconscious but my mom won't lissen to me. Plz help?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:40 AM PST

Ok, so I have sezuirs sometimes, it a medical condition that I've always had. And a few days ago I was home with my to brothers and my step dad was out side. I had a seizure and they where to young to help so they just watch. If you don't turn my on my side after I will choke. But they did get my step dad after like 3 mins. "We have a home security sistem so I watch everything after". My step dad came in and kind of felt me up and then he stuck his figer in my mouth. THEN HE PULLED OFF MY SHIRT AND BRA. Showing my boobs to him and my little brothers. Witch is so embarrassing. Then he gave me mouth to mouth but he had no respect for my personal space. It looked to me like he enjoyed it, but since he is a fighetfighter emt everyone thinks it was fine. But I don't I feel molested. He didn't even wrap me in a towl after he was done with the CPR. I was just there shirtless until the ambulance camea nd then they put a blanket over me

Question: When can you start doing things on your own in life?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:29 AM PST

I just turned 18 this year and my life is nothing but controlled. I really want to learn how to drive a car still,but my parents still refuse to let me learn or get my permit. I'm still a bit upset no one will let me drive or at least get my permit so I can possibly get the money to pay for lessons myself. I've also wanted to get a job during my Senior year,but my parents won't let me do that. There are a few places within walking distance, but no is the answer. I can't even hang out with friends or go places because my parents won't let me. Does anyone know when I can start doing things on my own without my parents saying no to everything I want to do or at least attempt on my own?

Question: Family Problems - What Should I do?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:27 AM PST

I'm 16 years old and living with my parents and brother who I all have problems with. My parents want me to work with them at their restaurant, but the time working with them gets in the way of my time for studying and doing homework trying to get past the rigorous honors program at my school. My parents would rather me work than focus on school which they say I spend to much time on, but I have dreams of going to a good college and becoming a doctor. I do spend a lot of time studying and when I study I spend all the time laying down in my bed which I know to be unhealthy, but I need all that study time because I don't want to fall behind at school. At work I constantly get pressured to do better, but I can't and only makes me feel useless and not worth living. My brother is physically and mentally abusive towards me and is always out to get me. The moment I do something wrong he tells my parents so I can get in trouble and hits me even if I am passive towards him. The only time I feel safe is when I am at school or in my room by myself(and in my small room I again only lay down in my bed). I don't think I have ever felt depression before, but I think this is it. The stress from school combined with the my demanding parents and my abusive brother are just to much for me. This isn't everything that's wrong but I felt the need not to mention everything here. If you need any more information just ask. What are your suggestions on what to do?

Question: What nicknames can you use for someone named Monique? especially if she's older than me?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:26 AM PST

Question: Is it wrong to be embarrassed about your 20 yr old niece being 7 months pregnant while working at Walmart?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:23 AM PST

The baby daddy is an e1 private and he wants nothing to do with her but will be there for his son.

Question: Is my first cousins son or daughter my second cousins or is it my nephew or niece ?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:10 AM PST

Question: Why is my 23 year old daughter so rude?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:10 AM PST

She's 23, still lives at home, she is in an online college and she spends too much time on it. She is nice and well-mannered to everyone except for her father and I. If we ask her a question, she rolls her eyes and responds with an attitude. For example, her dad asks her "Do you want to go for a bike ride?" and she says in a sarcastic tone "No, I'm doing my schooling." If she's working on her computer and I ask her "do you want to do the dishes for me?" she says "ok..." in a slow drawn-out "not really" sort of way.

Question: Are all you cousins blood to you? Who's the closest blood to you and genes ? First second or 3rd?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 10:10 AM PST

Question: Why is my mom so angry all the time?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 09:33 AM PST

Okay so I am 13 and my mom is constantly angry. She s always yelling about me not doing the dishes. Now I understand she works but she always says she s tired!! What she doesn t understand is I m tired too. I m in accelerated classes this year and they re really stressing me out. School is just as tiring, and I have to study all week for testing but she she says "stop it s just an excuse"

Question: Can i get my dad arrested for ruining my game?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 09:32 AM PST

so i have a lot of homework to do. its due tomorrow and i got to draw 3 diagrams, fill in a table and write some crap about some stuff. but at the same time im tryna increase my slayer level on runescape. so i got my 6 yr old sister to play the game while i homeworked. all she had to do was click on monsters to kill them.& click on fishies to eat when my health was going down too much. so we were just doing that for like 30 minutes &she started complaining she was bored and tired. i toad her she'd get bored!! but she agreed to do it for some cookies i have. i said id give her 1 for 1 hours work. well suddenly she decided that deal wasnt so great. you cant back out of a deal. its like agreeing to a mortgage and then be like ''i dont wanna pay anymore wahh wahh''. anyways she started complaining really loud. my dad heard. had to butt his stupid nose in again. saying leave my sister alone. what does it have to do with him?? hes so annoying. he forced me to give my sister 3 cookies for her 30 minutes work. he cant even do that. it shouldnt be allowed. im so annoyed. i toad him to never come into my bedroom. i dont even want him in the hallway outside my room. i reminded him of that and hes all like ''its my house''. so what! and he was all like, ''you only have that laptop because i paid for it, blah blah.'' SO WHAT. ovizly he have to pay for my stuff. hes my dad. you dont have kids and then not pay for their stuff. i want him arrested he act like i bullied my sister.i didnt

Question: My parents won't let me see extended family for Thanksgiving and Christmas how do I do things that Will get my mind off the pain?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 09:29 AM PST

I was bullied and made different in school so not seeing extended family on a holiday makes me feel different like school and since my mom will brag she does not have to see her siblings that will add to the pain knowing I'm an outsider.

Question: Are 3rd cousins blood to me?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 09:06 AM PST

Question: Am I blood related to my first cousin?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 09:02 AM PST

Question: MIL dies trips to see husbands brother then assumes we are spending time with her after. Never plans with us. How do I stop this cycle?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:52 AM PST

Question: Is this reasonable of me?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:50 AM PST

I am 53. I don't consider myself a father, and I haven't for 15 years. My son and daughter are 17 and 18, I've had them in online schooling for 11 years. They have had very minimal contact with any outside person for 11 years. They don't know how to drive, they refuse to teach themselves. They claim it is illegal as they have no permit, license or car. We live off of a highway, and if they really want to go somewhere they'll have to walk in the road with cars. There are not any sidewalks. My parents taught me to drive and got me a driving instructor when I was 16, but I don't feel as if I have to do that for my kids. I just want them to leave, except they can't drive, have no car, or a job. They refuse to leave because of that, why are they messed in the head? I refuse to drive them to apply for a job and drive them to jobs as that is not my job and a huge waste of time for me in my opinion. We live in the south, so it is not like they can get public transportation around here. Is my request for wanting them to leave reasonable? I want them to leave together.

Question: Parents always yelling at me and telling me I'm not good enough?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:44 AM PST

I'm a sophomore in high school (right now it's the beginning of the school year, but it's a really difficult school and I work hard for my A's). My parents are already yelling at me about preparing for the SAT subject tests, that I need to be studying 7 hours extra per day, etc. My mom frequently compares how poorly I do to how she did when she was my age, and my dad constantly yells at me and says I'm useless and good for nothing and all I do is eat up his money, which makes me really sad. Maybe it seems a bit dramatic, but it hurts to hear those words from your own dad-- even though he says he doesn't mean it after he's calmed down-- especially since I (secretly) struggled with severe depression and suicidal thoughts only a few months ago. How do I cope with this?

Question: Omg I am DONE with my little sister!!! ***PLEASE READ****?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:37 AM PST

I'm 15 and my little sister is 12 and she's the biggest brat I have ever met! She had to go to religious school today (I don't have to go anymore cause I already went for 7 years!), and she refused to get dressed and she wanted me to play Lego Friends with her today but I told her I'm not playing unless she goes. So she stomps into the bathroom and sits in there until she had to LEAVE!!! My mom got so pissed and stormed into her room and I'm so pissed because we were going to put the Christmas tree up together and actually have a nice day but I guess that isn't happening! We know my sister needs meds but we don't have the money for them! I wanted to walk dogs to make some extra money to help them and give them some presents for Christmas that they deserve, but people on Yahoo Answers are saying I'm too young and I probably don't weigh a lot so I'd only be able to handle small dogs, which is as stupid as they come because I 140 lbs and I walked my neighbor's dog for 3 years without ANY problems and we became good friends! I'm so stressed and pissed and I want to KILL my sister! WHAT CAN WE DO TO STOP HER FROM BEING AN ASSHOLE?!?!?! Thanks!!!

Question: Why do I feel very different from my parents and completely disconnected from them? Help?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:25 AM PST

I don't share the same vision with my parents and we can't engage a good conversation at any level. I don't have siblings. I am outgoing and friendly. Even though, my father was very physically and verbally abusive towards me, and my mother was in denial - I already start to forgive them and trying to move on, however, it is just strange to me that I can't feel any connection with them and I never feel happy to talk to them, I get frustrated almost every time I try to communicate with my mother. What should I do?

Question: 20yo. I NEED to move out of my parents house.?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:21 AM PST

My mother is very emotionally abusive. My older sister moved out at 18 (and not lives across the country). It s so emotionally draining living here - one day everything great and the next I m a horrible person. I have 12k saved up, how much more should I save until I leave? I just got my AS in college and I don t know if I should stop here and work until I ve saved enough or what. I also have a 8 month old puppy. I don t know what to do and I feel like such a failure if I keep living under these circumstances.

Question: Does anyone know who else?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:17 AM PST

Does anyone know who else I can stay with? I'm 31 my mom passed away in December. I'm staying with my oldest uncle for a short while. My aunt doesn't have room in her house. I'm not trying to sound ungrateful my uncle makes me drink milk every morning. He was kind of pushy about me making a doctors appointment which is an hour and fourteen minutes away we go food shopping early morning before breakfast. I'm trying to get into a housing program which has apartments it"s taking a long while. I could talk to my dad and my moms friend for suggestions where else I can stay. My only disabilities are I'm hard of hearing and epilepsy which is well controlled I feel as if I'm able to be alone my family doesn't think so which makes me mad sometimes. My oldest uncle lives in a retirement home I'm the only young person there.

Question: Dad is choosing his dream over me?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:03 AM PST

He wants to be a film star, even though he is 33 years old and the chances of that happening are lower than a gangsters pants, and he is pushing me aside for it. About 5 months ago, he left to california to personally give his headshots to the president of Paramount Pictures. Obviously, he failed at doing that. Anyway he came back with another idea. He was going to start a broadway themed restaurant and he would preform there every night. I never see him,like we don't talk or whatever and I feel like my life or presence doesn't matter to him. I think he would genuinely kill me if it meant him getting famous. Idk I just sort of with he could spend more time with me. What should I do? I just kinda wanna know i matter to him. Is that dumb or somthing?

Question: How do I get my son to stop drawing innapropriate stuff?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 08:02 AM PST

My son is currently an 8th grader in middle school. I personally have a rule against drawing innapropriate stuff in my household and ever since he was 10, I've caught him drawing stuff that is innapropriate in one way or another.When he was ten I caught him with a drawing of one of his favorite cartoon characters on the toilet, I immeadiatly tore the drawing to shreds and he threw a huge fit over it. When my son was 12 I found him with a drawing of the Budweiser dog, I burned this drawing in front of him hoping the rules would get through to him, but just yesterday I caught him smoking in his room but what passed me off was he drew a picture of the columbine shooters smoking with the phrase "Natural Selection" next to it. I'm wondering is there any way to get the rules through to my son or should I just ignore it

Question: I feel like a burden to my mom?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:54 AM PST

My mom outright told me I was annoying yesterday. She talks about I'm the only reason she married my dad and she hates living with my dad. I know I wasn't planned and my mom has even told me she cried when she found out she was pregnant with me. I feel sometimes like I ruined her whole life or something but then she'll say something about how I'm one of her only reasons to be happy. I feel depressed sometimes because of these things and I don't know what to do about it.

Question: My in laws are vile and I don't want them around my daughter?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:35 AM PST

My husband applied for a credit card and was denied, when asked why he was told he had an unpain school loan. We freaked out bc he had no idea, and thought the case was identity theft. He told his mom and she informed him she took out a 4k loan in 2014 bc his parents didn't qualify for grants/waivers. This was a lie, when we looked up his reward summary my husband received everything, it added up to 11k, for community college!!! He asked her about it and she said it was his fault bc he must have not finished the school year, or dropped sports, also not true. And he asked why she never told him he had a loan to pay off she didn't say a word, nor did she offer to help pay (his parents are very bad with money) I asked him where that 4k went and he said he didn't know, that financial go to his mom and she would handle payments (I know, bad on his part, but it doesn't give her the right to pull this off) and when pulling up his bank statements all he received that year was 1k that his mom deposited. When going to his siblings for support they say his mom probably did it on accident, or its his fault for trusting her. My husband feels betrayed and abandoned and seeing their treatment of him, im livid. I don't want them around my daughter, I dont want that bad energy around her, I don't want them influencing her and most importantly I don't want her to ever see them belittle her father. My husband for now agrees with me, is it too much, to cut off ties?

Question: How can I get the wifi back?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:28 AM PST

A few months ago, my parents decided to take all of my electronics at nine o clock (sometimes 8) and turn off the wifi. Why? Because few of my grades are low. I understand that this is a valid reason to be punished but I think this is going a bit far.. I go to a school that has iPads so most of my assignments are online and have to be submitted with wifi. I really don't find it that fair and they said that the only way they would turn it back on is if I showed them responsibility. I don't know what they mean by that. Also, nighttime is the only time I get to do what I want (even if for a little bit) because during the day, I'm trying to complete homework while going places and doing things with my family How can I get my parents to turn back on the wifi? Or how can I show them I'm responsible?

Question: How to deal with annoying little brother?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:28 AM PST

He is 7 yrs old. He cant stay put and he makes loud noises all the time. He also grabs my DS without permission and I really hate when someone takes my stuff! My dad yells at him constantly so it is even more annoying. I don't live with my dad, he divorced with my mom when I was a baby and he had my little brother with another woman. I visit him sometimes and he forces me to stay overnight even though I only like single-day visits. So I have to stand my little brother for like 3 days. I'm 14 and with Asperger's btw. So yea any tips?

Question: My grandmother is mad I can't come to my uncles day after Christmas. How do I diffuse the situation?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:23 AM PST

I am with her Christmas Day and seeing the uncle at Thanksgiving. Even though my dad has died I would still like to be able to see my relatives on his side. They're having something the day after Christmas so I am going to that. What do I say to calm my grandmother and for that matter my mother who is also angry on her mothers behalf?

Question: I saw my cousin naked?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:19 AM PST

Today I was at my cousins house and she was getting ready for a training bra photo shoot. She asked me if she wanted to come, I said yes. My dad drove us to the place. She took me in the dressing room. She got undressed. I saw her nude 10 times that day. All of the bras she tried on we took home. She gave me five bras. She kept five. I put the bras in my dresser at her house. How do I talk to her about it. How do I ask her if I can come to more photo shoots

Question: Was my mom right to yell at me??

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:15 AM PST

So I just got out of bed not too long ago this morning and I went downstairs to say good morning to my mom, and she had a bad attitude with me because the air was on all night and it was on 60. First off. I was out all night last night and didn't get back home until 3am. The only thing I could think about was going to sleep when I got back home. I turned the air on like I usually do but I was so tired I didn't pay attention to what temperature I put it on. So when I went to her room to say good morning she chew my head off. I told her that it was a mistake and It was my bad but she continued to not hear me. I told her I was just tired and wasn't paying attention and it won't happen again. She still kept yelling at me. At that point I'm annoyed because she won't listen to reason and I'm trying to tell her it was an accident. She tells me to get out of her room, and now I'm pissed off because she just ruined a good Sunday morning with this crap. I didn't yell back at yer or anything to provoke her so I'm pissed off. What should I do???

Question: How long is proper for family to be guests?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:14 AM PST

Question: Are second cousins your blood relation yes or no?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:04 AM PST

Question: Am I blood related to my first cousin and share some genes with them yes or no?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:04 AM PST

Question: Is it wired to have a sexual relationship with your first cousin yes or no?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 07:03 AM PST

Question: I really dislike my mother-in-law but love my boyfriend. Any tips to cope with this until we can afford to live together?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:54 AM PST

Because his mom is always nagging about something and sometimes even insults me. It's not really nice to be around her at all.

Question: Does it sound like once my mom gets her hernia remove that she would want another baby or not be as safe? Please read?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:47 AM PST

My mom would say in conversations that my youngest sister is the last baby, or how she can't wait we are all married (joking), when I ask her she yelled at me and said let me be or something, also she said like I'm far from it (about thinking to have another), when I ask my grandmother when she did the needle and thread thing if it only showed 3 and when I told my mom said I told you (to make me feel better), she has a hernia from her other pregnancy and I'm scared once she gets the surgery to remove it she will change her mind and want another, or won't be that safe, but then again she looks at people or her friends that have all their kids grow up and the friends are back to how they us to be and my mom sometimes looks at that and gets sad because she's 41 and by the time my sisters grow up and stuff she feels like she would be old, on like her friends that all had their kids close in age and are only 39 or close to my moms age and already living life, she takes care of sick father (my grandfather) we have 3 dogs. I try to help but at the same time I see that I am already 17 and haven't even been a teen or enjoy it because I have no life from all the extra help.....

Question: Girls have you ever driven barefoot and not bring your shoes if you are not getting out of the car?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:41 AM PST

I do that all the time. I always drive barefoot and if I am not getting out of my car or going to visit my parents I always drive barefoot and I never bring my shoes.

Question: Should I give my son money for food?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:38 AM PST

Here's the thing, my son is homeless and lives in a Hostel where he works there in exchange for free accommodation. He had a job for a bit and got 600 pounds out of it til they fired him. He has now signed up for unemployment benefits and is supposed to be getting his first paycheck in a week, however he phoned me up yesterday saying his 600 pounds has run out and he won't have any money for food for the whole week. I spoke to my husband and we both agreed that he got himself into this situation he can get himself out. His brother thinks we are being stupid not helping him out and that apparently he hasn't eaten anything in two days already, and that he has resorted to stealing from his register at his hostel and or shoplifting in the grocery store. Should we give him $100 for the week?

Question: My Mom threatens me to cut off my penis, what do I do to make her stop?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:35 AM PST

i am 17 now but still my mom always yelling and complaining about my work, but she is not so harsh with my older sister, she hardly gets happy what ever i do, though sometimes she threats me to SPANK me like she would be doing some year back, and most freaking, she sometimes YELL like mad on me saying, she would CUT OFF my penis !!! if i do this wrong !! this makes my sister laugh on me, i do not know why she yell me like this, and if she is normal otherwise she would not threat me to cut my penis !

Question: My mom won't let me get social media?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:34 AM PST

So I'm 14, and in 8th grade. My mom's favorite shows are crime shows, and lots of episodes have to do with social media. As a result, they've given her an exaggerated view on the dangers of social media. My dad couldn't really care less, so at least there's that. I have a Pinterest and a Facebook, but that's it. I love Pinterest, but none of my friends are on it, and lets be honest, modern day kids only use Facebook to change their profile and cover photos. I really want tumblr (since the posts are featured on Pinterest a lot...like, A LOT), plus Snapchat and Instagram, I guess. My mom's big rule is that i can't share my face online. Which kinda ruins the point of Snapchat. I don't think she realizes there are simple ways to prevent danger, and I'm a smart person. I'm not gonna give out my address, or my phone number, or anything like that. So yeah, anyone have any advice?

Question: How do I lock out a locksmith?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:27 AM PST

Help! My father knows a good bit on door locks and can easily unlock them from the outside without an issue. Problem is- he doesn t take into consideration my privacy and tends to barge in all the time either without asking, or seconds after he knocked without giving me time to respond. He doesn t even think about what I may even be doing if I have my door locked. Countless times I had to yell at him that I m getting dressed as I rushed to a place he can t see me while I m half naked or completely naked. He won t listed to me when I ask him to knock first, he only gets angry and then threatens to take my lock away, sometimes even my entire door. I want to be able to get dressed without having to worry about him barging in and the most inconvenient time. How to I lock him out? Is it possible to lock out someone who knows everything about locks??

Question: How do I get over the hurt of my parents divorce?

Posted: 13 Nov 2016 06:08 AM PST

My Dad only sees us a little now and we never get to see his family because my Mom won't let us go to holidays with him. We saw his family last two years ago at a wedding and they live 45 minutes away only. My Mom says they don't want a relationship with us kids anymore but she declines to let us go when our grandmother asks us over in the summer. Meanwhile my Dad won't fight in court for visits the way my friends Dad did. So we see him on occasion but maybe 2 or 3 times a year only. My Mom says he doesn't want to be much of a Dad anymore but she might just be making that up. She cuts him down all the time (it is her passion). Meanwhile the holidays are almost here and it hurts me so much I wish I could die (not that I am suicidal). I am 15 and this hurts. My Mom is hurting me trying to get my Dad back but she says I need to see the pain he put her through. I heard my mother say "alienation of affection" was the reason she divorced him but I don't know what that means. He did not cheat and my friend who gets to see his Dad, his dad even cheated and got someone pregnant so that was a lot worse. So what do I do? I hate the holidays again like last year.