One of my favorite teachers died in a car accident (well, ATV, but I think that's a car) almost 2 months ago as I've said, and to be honest, I'm a little worried that I'm soon going to die in a car accident! I know I shouldn't feel this way, but part of me wants to get hit and get it over with! I haven't told anyone because it's embarrassing! I know I need to seek help, but I just.... can't! Also, I thought about her frequently almost a year before she died. For some reason, it's just felt like she's always with me. I keep feeling like she's with me, but I know she's not with me (well, maybe spiritually.) Also, I frequently think about the last two memories I have of her. She walked into our room during math (they were always going into each others' rooms) and to mess with her, when she walked in I said, "Leave us alone!" "Leave you alone?!" she said in surprise! When she was talking to my teacher, I could just hear a voice in my head saying "Don't say it Sarah! You'll regret it if you do!" I said it anyway "NEVER come back!" She just looked at me and said "Girl!" That was my second to last converstation with her and I just feel like God took her away then to punish me forever for saying that! How to stop thinking this? (BTW, the last converstation we had was the day after I told her to go away. We had a blood drive when I had told her to go away and I felt like God was saying I wouldn't get to give blood if I said it, and then I didn't since I couldn't find my parent permission form! I told her what had happened at the blood drive and that God had warned me and she said, "See? That's what you get for being mean to me!")

A lot of things have happened lately and due to them my 14 year old cousin is now living with me and my parents, her father is in prison and her mom is not fit to take care of children. she has been here for about 6 months now and things where going well until about a month to a month and a half ago when my parents began fighting pretty badly. One thing led to another (my mom cheating for about a year that we know of) and my cousin wants to leave for a while to get out of the house. Both my mom and dad go to her with their problems and continuously bad mouth each other while only my dad comes to me. My parents will most likely be getting a divorce and god only knows what will happen to my cousin then, my dad is the blood relative and yes he does have guardianship as of right now, but due to the past my cousin (who is female) id honestly better off with a female figure in her life, but my mom being the way she has been I honestly do not believe she should have any say over my cousin. October 2017 I will be 18 and I want to know if there is any way I would be able to attempt to get custody of my cousin. If things continue to go downhill the way they are I DO NOT want my cousin being trapped here. She grew up with her parents being extremely violent and abusive to each other and she should not be going through that all over again when we had to practically save her from where she was. When I turn 18 I will be a senior in high school as well. Will i be able to get guardianship? Also, if I would be able to get guardianship what will I have to do?

What do I tell her she won't let It go :/

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She is NINE years old. She was innocent but I guys now she is not... I am freaking out and am super dissapointed in her. I am 15 years old, and I was horrified over what I saw in her search history. She was looking up hentai and videos of people talking about having sex and inappropriate things about it. She is 9. I didn't know what sex even WAS until I was 12, let alone her watching sex. I want to somehow disable her from watching this. All of it is on safari. I noticed she was doing some sespicious things when she would beg for headphones and switch apps whenever I came near her. She will be home in an hour. She can't know I have her passcode. Please help. This is not right. She should be playing with toys at 9.

It was his birthday yesterday and I told I'm going to make you dinner and cake with kids .But my sister in law told him to come by and she made him dinner and a cake .My sister in law is one of those person where she things on purpose. I had told her I wanted to do a little party for him and she me too I spoke to him this morning about it and he that was fine this was before thanksgiving so I asked my husband about he said I never spoke to her about that. So and she like I will invite a couple people over and his kids and well you also and than she like I don't know what to make for dinner .So anyway Im calling his cell he doesn't answer he come home at 9pm kid where all waiting falling a sleep and walks in with the leftovers of his cake and I snap and he gets mad and walks in the room and the kids where so happy to sing happy birthday and it was all ruined . The cake left on the table with the candles and the kids went to bed. I got some air . Sorry for the bad grammar Lol

Nelson is a 16 year old black boy. he's 5'4, has long dreadlocks and light brown eyes that glow when he's really happy. he loves reading books, chasing after butteries and planting flowers in his garden. nelson giggles often and loves cuddling with his mother at night. he has a very clean version of sex. he thinks people only have sex to make children and nothing else. he doesn't even know what a orgasm is. he gets boners at school and says oh, i'm so sorry and tries to hide them. he was offered sex by a girl. he felt really happy and said. ohh, you want to get pregnant already? you must think i'm wonderful! The girl stopped talking to him. Nelson doesn't have any friends. he asks out a lot of girls. he makes them cookies, hugs them in the hallway. he even runs his fingers though their hair and tells them how pretty they are but they reject him and call him a freak or too short. Nelson feels confused and a little sad. what should he do?

My husbands father has been living with us for almost 2 years now. When he first moved in it was great; he helped with bills, cooked dinner a few times a week, helped with home repairs, etc. But for the last few months he has done NOTHING... He won t help clean, hasn t cooked... Doesn t help with bills, eats all of our food, smokes all of my cigatettes, makes messes and leaves them for me to clean. For instance, a few months ago he spilled something on the carpet in his room, said he would clean it up. I got some resolve for the stain and told him I was gonna clean it since he hadn t done it yet, he tells me he would... Well the stain is still there months later. We also have 3 kids who have to share a bedroom since he uses one (3 BR house).... And basically all he does is sleep all morning, watch TV and sit out back playing on his phone while smoking all of my cigarettes. He s also mean to my kids... (He tried to ground my autistic son because he didn t want to do jumping jacks!!!) And he s very annoying, won t give me any privacy, comes into my room all the time, bullies my kids....AND doesn t have a car so he uses mine and smokes in it... Which I don t allow smoking in my car since my kids ride in it. I could go on. And I can t talk to my husband about it because he gets mad every time I say anything to him. Please help!! I am very close to filing for divorce because his father is literally ruining my marriage and making my kids very unhappy.

I'm American (Minnesota) and I work in Asia. In high school I was awkward and a virgin until 33. Now I am 35 so just 2 years ago I lost my virginity. It was only until I was in my 30's that I became confident and felt like a real man. The reasons for this is something that I cannot explain in a nutshell. Maybe I let the confidence go to my head, but as an experiment I wanted to see if I could seduce my high school crush. She is a part time nurse and works evenings and weekends. Her husband has a white collar 9-5 job. I did not think I would succeed in seducing her but I did...... We met at her house for an innocent visit (her kids at school and husband at work) and then I invited her to my hotel for a swim. We went to the bedroom to "talk" and things went along from there...... She told me she noticed her husband sensed that something was not right that night and she wonders what to do. Now I'm back in Asia and I figure the only thing I can do is to forget it and not tell her what to do. I feel bad about it now. If she tells her husband it may cause them big problems. They have little kids. I admit I made a mistake and I should not have tried to seduce her.

I was looking at pictures of nude women to masturbate to. I found a beautiful older lady. When I looked closely I saw a rock on her left ring finger. I know that tells you that she is married. Now why would a married woman even pose nude? Also isn't it not a good thing to fantasize about someone's wife? Wouldn't the woman get sex from her husband? I know many beautiful married women and I don't think any of them would pose nude even though I would like to see them nude. Isn't the only person that should only see a married woman nude supposed to be her husband?

Other bathroom usage should be private of course. But of husband wants to take shower and wife wants to fix her hair or do her makeup, do they have to share bathroom? Or is it too much to ask for privacy? It has nothing to do with insecurity but I find it odd sharing a bathroom, since I've never had to do so in my life with anyone. WE have multiple bathrooms in our house and I use the other bathroom while she uses masters bathroom. I don't appreciate sharing bathrooms with her for certain things and have communicated about this. She finds this strange and does not appreciate this. She has stated, "this makes us feel less of a couple" and I have told her, "I have the right to maintain my privacy." This led to an argument where I gave up.

We just bought a car together we have been sharing a car since my car broke down last September. I just got hired at a car dealership and they gave me a great deal on a 2012 chevy Cruze, and since I haven t had a car for over a year and now will have the money to make car payments I went for it. He consigned with me, we are about to get married so no big deal so I thought. The same day we bought the car his boss promoted him and he now travels 40 minutes to work everyday. He takes our new car everyday, says to save gas. But I make the same drive everyday to go to classes, they re in the same town, so either way the same amount of gas is being used. I feel like he s stealing such a big accomplishment from me. I asked him about it and asked to drive the car, but he took it again this morning. He wouldn t help me fix my car for over a year, but now he s driving our new car around like a big shot, while I drive his 2002 Truck that s missing a window!!! I feel like this is really unfair and it s causing me to have feelings of resentment towards him. What should I do!

So my boyfriend has never given his second mobile number which is of a smartphone (I am aware that he has it! and has used it around me, so its not a secret or anything), anyways that's where he actually uses whats-app on. I have told him to add me since I only have his other mobile which is (just a small little phone nothing modern) where he has family members me and I don't know who else, but every time I mention it he seems reluctant or the topic changes right away (Poof!!) and I stay with the same doubt over and over and over again. The point is, that 1 year and a half have passed by and I still don't have his second mobile number (which happens to be the smartphone) for us to communicate on whats-app, Which I believe is pretty normal for boyfriend and girlfriend now a days right! What in the world can this 37 year old men be hiding from me, Btw I am 28 years old, if he has not given me his second mobile number in which he actively uses Whatsapp on!!, I don't get it, and even if he had something to hide and does not want me to know , how in the world would I figure it out through his other mobile number and Whatsapp, its impossible so what is he so afraid of, I don't understand Really...

Ok I'm not trying to move in with my boyfriend so soon in the first place we've only been dating since august ( 4 months) but he took it that way anyways I'm 22 and still live at home & hes 31 and lives alone with his dogs in a big house of his own I've met his whole family he spent the whole thanksgiving week with me he invited my family over for thanksgiving dinner at his house and now I know his whole family and they approve of me ! Anyways last night my mom found out about my raunchy YouTube channel and went crazy threatening to kick me out and I told him about it and joked saying if she did I'll sleep in his backyard and he didn't take it as a joke at all and said " if you think your gonna live here if they kick you off your wrong that's absolutely not happening!" I was shocked & speechless since he cleared out a spot in his bathroom for me bought me body wash & lotion so I could shower at his house and he was bragging to his WHOLE FAMILY about me just last week & I asked him if he sees a future with me he was like "hell yea why wouldn't I?!" Anyways I'm completely confused should I just leave ?!?

I have a micromanaging COWORKER who is a male. I am a female. Ironically, I used to work with his wife for a number of years in another division. She makes it clear that she "wears the pants" in the family so his aggressive micromanaging seemed to stem from that. I have spoken with our boss regarding it and asked his advice on what I could do differently in the situation since I've tried to just talk to my coworker calmly about it multiple times. My manager says "hmmm....I don't know"

So this guy I used to love, who acted like he didn't reciprocate my feelings, called me out of the blue after 4 years. He left a 7 second blank voicemail. I texted him and asked if he meant to call me. He said "Hey, sorry, must have been a mistake. Hope all is well!" Do you think he meant to call me after all this time, or did he just butt dial me? Why would he keep my number after four years anyways?

I can't make something up easily on the spot, I need time to think up a good story. Also, I have a bad habit of smiling and/or laughing while lying. Any tips? when I try to pretend I am sick to get out of going to school, I have trouble keeping a straight face

This guy and I live very far away from eachother. We talk mostly on Skype, and message eachoter. We fight constantly but always get past it. I cry constantly over him either trying to kill himself, or me getting yelled at because I "hurt" or offended him and he goes off on me. I have pointed out his flaws numerous of times, I've pointed out that I love that about him though. I try to tell him how I feel but it ends up making him feel like I'm attacking him. He feels as if when I wear my band tees (a band that he really likes) I'm shoving it in his face that I had money, or says I'm a rich snobby *****. When I was picking out a shirt to show off my boobs because it was slightly tighter and looks nice but he took it in a different way. This month we have been together for 1 year, and I'm fighting so hard for us. He always makes me laugh and smile, being his goofy childish self. He makes me feel attractive and like I'm everything. I don't know what to do though.. What can help me understand how he feels? He's poor, came from a bad life, depressed constantly.. ive been poor but he rejects everything I say.. help..

Calvin lay there in bed, next to his tiger. His fourteenth birthday was tomorrow. He was getting older, puberty striking at his mind, voice, and body. He kissed Hobbes on the cheek, puling him closer and thanking him for being his friend. Then it happened. It had been happening often since he was thirteen and he had no control over it. His erection tented his boxers, pressing against his friend's rump. "Stop.." Hobbes mumbled with a growl, pushing him away. Calvin turned onto his back, pulling his under shorts down and revealing his standing pillar, about five inches. Average, he figured. He shook Hobbes awake. He didn't wake easily and grumbled and growled, but eventually sat up. "What, Calvin?" He asked angrily, wanting very much to go back to sleep. "I love you." "I love you too.." Hobbes said awkwardly. 'What is this about?' He wondered. "Do you really love me?" "Yeah, why?" Hobbes sat up further, sleep forgotten. "I want to mate with you.." Calvin blushed. "Wait! What? You're movin' with your auntie and uncle in Bel Air. I whistled for a cab and when it came near the liscence plate said "fresh" and had dice in the mirror. If anything, I could say that this cab was rare, but I though "nah, forget it, yo home to Bel Air"! I pulled up to the house at about seven or eight, yelled to the cabbie, yo homes, smell you later. Looked at my kingdom, and I was finally there, to sit on my throne, as the Prince of Bel Air.

2 teenagers who are about to be 20 are in love. One has business license, one works while in college, one is white, one is black, both have been best friends most of life, now have fell in love. Parents don't like it, but the teens love each other. I love him more than life itself. I only feel loved and only feel safe when he is around. Can my parents legally stop me from being with him? Can his legally stop him from being with me??

Im not ugly so I that's why guys don't choose to approach me I feel it's because they think I'm stuck up,every guy I have dated I talked to them first and after talking they told me they thought I was stuck up at first and even most of my friends told me they thought I was a b**ch until I talked to them though I am very nice, I don't know what to do I guess this is mostly due to having a resting b**ch face some would call it but I can't help it it's my face... please help I want all of this to stop

Ok... We have known each other for 10 years. We started dating 3 years ago.. At first it's all great between us.. He fuked up on probation nd went to jail a few to many times.. I was ALWAYS by his side every dam time he got locked the *** up... I went to jaill August 24th 2016.. He got out 5 days after I went in.. He accused me me of cheating on him... Cause I ran my mouth to some nasty dude wen he was in.. I never ***** cheated on him.. He believes Me.. Or at least says he did... We squashed it... But then bout 10 minutes ago,, he fell asleep nd started talking to some ***** named Jess.... That's NOT my name for the record... But I thot nothing of it. The weird part is he knew exactly wat he said... I went back to watching TV.. Then out of no where he said something bout him messing around wit some ***** named Jess while I was in jail.. Nd he started calling me names nd nd ****.. Idk wat to think.. He's my world... Please help me..

So on Monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then today In class i heard her saying " i don't know why he looks at me".

Lo que pasa es que tengo una amiga y no hace mucho estabamos platicando y comenzó a salir el tema y le dije que me gustaba, entonces hasta ahí lo dejamos, pero volvimos a platicar y me preguntó que por qué me gustaba y yo le contesté. Desafortunadamente se tenía que ir, pero me dijo "mañana seguimos hablando de esto". Entonces tengo esa duda. Cabe decir que ella fue la que después de unos día quiso seguir la conversación de esto. Gracias por tomarse la molestia de leer

I'm so confused. I've been in a horrible, abusive household for years now. I finally turned 18 and got my license. I got a car and I got a place to move to. But only one issue; I'm genuinely scared to move. I'm not for sure why, but the thought of it makes me want to have a panic attack. What can I do to overcome this?

Lately I have been having conflict with my brother's new wife. I blew up at her a few weeks ago at their house and have since ceased contact with them. Both my brother and mother believe I am "overreacting" and that my brother's wife meant no real harm. What do you think and what should I do about this situation? My husband is a recovering alcoholic. He had been sober for 12 years before he went off the bend after our daughter's death in 2015. He is now 3 months sober. But whenever we get together, either at their place or ours, my brother's wife makes it a habit of bringing or offering my husband alcohol. To support my husband, I have also stopped drinking. I have politely asked her to stop but she doesn't. I lost my daughter (Emma) at 32 weeks due to the umbilical cord strangling her and all I can say is that 2015 was a god awful year for us. Anyway, my brother's wife will make comments about it, such as perhaps my hips were too narrow to carry my daughter to term or that my diet is too poor and I eat too much. Although I am in a much better place than I was last year, her comments truly crush me. I don't want to be angry with my brother, but I am upset he has not stood up for me.

So I had a sub coach for gymnastics. (I'm a girl he's a guy) well I've known him for years and trust him. He was subbing for Coach Mark. Well after practice my sub coach told me we will be practicing somewhere else now because a group of men kept staring at me in a NOT so nice way. (I was in a leotard) so I texted coach Mark about what happened and he said "don't assume the worst, maybe they were so amazed by your talents" why would he say that? It's obvious they weren't.

Some people have a charm to them and well I just don't. I ordered an Uber to take me to college, I don't take Uber often. I noticed the person who was picking me up was the same guy who gave me my first Uber ride about a week ago. Reason I remember is because I live in the middle of nowhere and I was really surprised Uber came that far. Anyways he was a nice elderly person and we talked the whole way to my location. So I was thinking cool, I wonder if he'll recognize me. I got in as he was saying my name that was on Uber for pickup probably wondering if I was just some stranger who got in the front seat of his car. I said hey hows it going in a tone where I recognized him he said to "this college" I said yep. About 15 seconds of silence later I said, "Yea I saw the picture of my Uber ride and I was like oh I know you because you gave me my first Uber ride from hgfhgfjht a while ago, remember?" There was a bit of an awkward pause and he said "Nestalgia." Wasn't sure what that meant so I kind of laughed thinking oh you probably Uber a lot of people and forgot no worries. Then I looked up the word later and it means, "a sentimental longing or wistful affection for the past." I could care less about this guy I was just trying to be nice and connect on common grounds. I'm not sure if that came out wrong.. I'm not sure why that bugged me so much, maybe it's the way Wikipedia describes it. Anyways, if you're awkward like me do you eventually learn how to not be awkward?

My teacher wanted to call me an annoying nickname and asked me in front of the whole class if he could call me that and I was like no you can call me by my actual name instead. Then my teacher was like wow you shot me down real quick. That was when the guy said feisty out loud about me.

discipline? Also is it teaching them appropriate etiquette and manners in how to behave in public? Serious question. Saying mom or dad isn't professional or formal in the working world, so it's just teaching them to use the right words.

I m a new student in my current school I m in 8th grade. Well today as I switch through my classes I notice I m in classes with 6-7th graders and some high schoolers -_- I m in a public school. My public school has a low budget so can that be why? Is that even possible to be in a class with kids with diff grades? Me and my parents feel like it s wrong

So my boyfriend has never given his second mobile number which is of a smartphone (I am aware that he has it! and has used it around me, so its not a secret or anything), anyways that's where he actually uses whats-app on. I have told him to add me since I only have his other mobile which is (just a small little phone nothing modern) where he has family members me and I don't know who else, but every time I mention it he seems reluctant or the topic changes right away (Poof!!) and I stay with the same doubt over and over and over again. The point is, that 1 year and a half have passed by and I still don't have his second mobile number (which happens to be the smartphone) for us to communicate on whats-app, Which I believe is pretty normal for boyfriend and girlfriend now a days right! What in the world can this 37 year old men be hiding from me, Btw I am 28 years old, if he has not given me his second mobile number in which he actively uses Whatsapp on!!, I don't get it, and even if he had something to hide and does not want me to know , how in the world would I figure it out through his other mobile number and Whatsapp, its impossible so what is he so afraid of, I don't understand Really.

My boyfriends grandmother is in the hospital. they just discovered she has a tumor not sure yet if its cancerous. how can i send my condolences all while remaining supportive and positive as possible.

My brother feels that if his wife isn't giving him sex at least 3 times a week he feels he's within his right to go out and cheat. He's 47 years old and they've been married about 5 years but together some 10+ years. He thinks they should still be having the same amt of sex now that they were when they first met. His wife is battling depression and is on medication for it and as a result her sex drive has decreased. He's now resorting to escorts to get his fix. They are going to counseling to get their marriage back on track and went to a session last night. About an hour ago he sends me a link to an escort site saying he has been hitting this one girl up all day but she hasn't replied yet. Now he's mad at me because I was blunt with him. "Do you want to fix your marriage or do you just want the counselor to say she's wrong for not having more sex with you?" Maybe I'm out of the loop on this one but is there a set amount of sex that should be in a relationship for one to not cheat? I'm of the mindset that you could be getting it every night at home and that still may not be enough to keep you from cheating. at the age of 47 years old is expecting sex a minimum of 3 nights a week pushing the envelop a bit considering that your partner may be battling depression and isn't in the mood. And is their depression and lack of sex reason enough to justify you going out and cheating?

He is a great person just he does not get paid much and he drinks a lot at night so maybe he is what you call a functioning alcoholic so the little money he does get tends to go to his alcohol, food for the family (only thing he provides), and his cigarettes. Would you still accept him like that? I understand that you are all confused about how he is a great husband/father when he is an alcoholic. To me he is an alcoholic because he drinks every night once our kids are asleep. He does not get drunk, he drinks two 24 ounce cans each night and more on the weekends. That is alcoholism to me especially when he does not have the money for that habit. He is a great father and husband though because he treats us great, one does not have to always give money to be considered a good father .(cont) he plays a lot with our kids, spends time with us. He is a family man and I am very family oriented. I work full time as does he. He gets paid less. I pay the bills but sometimes it gets to me that all he does is pay for the food because he doesnt get paid much and what he has is used also on his bad habits. Would you allow this?