I'm 17 years old and whenever I am meeting someone, whether it be a friend of my parents or a distant relative, before I can get a word in my mom tells me to "say hello". It makes me feel like a five year old and I'm not sure if this is normal behavior for most parents. My father does a similar thing but when it comes to acting around the house. For example, I'll grab a glass to get a drink and he'll go, "don't drop it" "don't break that glass". Is seventeen not mature enough to handle these things or...?

I respect and appreciate my mum, but she doesn't respect me. There are numerous conflicts/issues that I could list, but I really just have a lot of problems concerning her that don't have any other solution than to wait until I can move out. Any tips for trying to stay peaceful until then?

I got through it on my own, being the oldest daughter of three, but now watching my younger sisters(16 and 17) endure the same pain I once did is VERY painful for me. He calls them fat and says degrading remarks. I've tried talking to my mother, telling her that his comments are emotionally scarring my sisters. She says she will put a stop to it, but it's been years since our initial conversation and many more convos that followed.This past incident was during my son's birthday party. My parents live 7 hours away but made the drive to see us. After our party was cut short at the local pizza parlor my in-laws invited them to continue at their house. Everyone agreed to meet up at their residence, I heard my mother with my own ears. As we leave the building, My sister asks my stepdad if she could ride with me, he replied "No! we're not going!" My mother then nodded in disapproval and my stepfather replied, "WELL JUST DROP ME OFF AT THE BUS STATION THEN! I'm UNHAPPY with this marriage, the way the girls treat me, the way they argue back, it's because of them I want a divorce!" My mother then proceeded to get angry with my sister and blamed her for causing me stress and making plans to go see me without her approval. He refuses counseling and therapy. I reassured my sister that she wasn't the reason to cause me stress and isn't the reason for their poor marriage. I know all I can do is be their for them, but does this give me a right to stop all contact with my mother?

I am 14 years old and I get very good grades such as A s and B s. I help out my family and do my chores before my parents come. Whenever I want something for Christmas or any holiday, I ask my parents but instead they say I have to work my a** for it and it s not fair. All my friends ask for something and a week later they get what they want. But my parents won t buy me anything I want even though I try so hard. They don t even acknowledge my effort. What do I do Also I am not a spoiled kid, I understand that there kids out there who are less fortunate then us

ok so i am 13 and I have noticed that my mom cries at night... okay so my dad does not beat her or nothin like that... they seem very happy and like my mom is really pretty and in the day she doesnt seem stressful at all. Why is she crying everynight when everyone is sleep. I hear it from my bedroom... i am scared to ask because she told me that childs should stay in a childs place.

The charge is a forgery charge and it is a six month sentence. I am willing to stick by her and not leave her because I feel She made some stupid mistakes but it was out of character so I think she just got herself into a bad situation and make some poor decisions. And I am not defending her or saying she should not serve her punishment. I told my daughter she is rightfully serving her punishment which is the right thing for her mistakes. Main problem I have is she will see her mom in jail clothes and see guards and other inmates that could be intimidating I have a daughter who is 15 and she seems to be handling it fine. I told her right away about it and she reacted pretty calmly. I told her mom did the wrong thing and is rightfully serving her punishment. Actually my daughter does not seem scared but instead seems excited and enthusiastic to visit. This is strange to me. Do you find this normal? They have a good relationship I am not sure. Even I find the jail environment to be intimidating. If I do, how can a 15 year old handle it?

tomorrow i have to go to practice from 3:00-6:30. but then i have a performance from 6:30 to 8:00. i dont want my family to go to my performance. its embarrassing for me, the bottom line is that i just dont them to come. they asked me when my performance was a couple weeks ago and i said that i didnt want to tell them bc i didnt want them to go. and then they said, well i'll find out bc youll be missing lol. but if i lie about where i am tomorrow, theyll never know it even happened abd by the time they notice it will be too late. its not very believable that i would be at practice from 3:00-8:00.

They've always been there for me in hard times and always looked after me and provided me with everything I needed. But they've rarely spent time with me and they've spanked me and punished me severely when I was a toddler from the age of 3 up to the age of 13. I think they're really good people but somehow I can't lookup to them and somehow we always have these arguments. They grew up in the time of communism and they tell me their parents and grandparents did it all the time. I never start arguments first unless I feel I'm right and they're wrong. But from their perspective I'm always wrong and they're always right because they're my parents. Even if it's their fault for starting an argument I'm always blamed for it. I know they only did that to make me a better person but I can't get over the fact that they don't value my opinion. They say I don't have my word until I'm 18+ and I'll always be their child no matter what. Sometimes we have silly arguments about the things I love to do. I'm a good student I don't have a boyfriend and I've never dated or kissed anyone. I don't go to discos and I don't smoke but they still manage to find flaws about me but when I tell them that I accept them for who they are regardless of their flaws they get angry. For instance we had an argument today I'm 16 and I make my own money about $60 dollars a week and I've saved up on a metal detector but they argued with me and belittled my hobby and told me it was dumb. Why don't I respect them?

Ok this might sound so stupid but I really don t like my little brother. He s dirty, he has no manners and he gets off so easy because my parents dote on him. He always gets into trouble and I get blamed for all his ****. For example, he was caught looking at porn and my dad blamed me for not watching him! I mean it s not even my fault! And literally right now, my dad yelled at me because my brother left his plate and "I'm supposed to look after him." Who do you think I am, some housemaid? I refuse to do his chores and clean up after him because he's not a baby anymore. He should be responsible for his own actions but nooooooo, KAIYA gets blamed because "she's meant to look after him". Please if anyone says that's true in the answers, I suggest you **** OFF. I will defend him IF NECESSARY (e.g. in a fight) but other than that HE DOES NOT EXIST TO ME. If I see him at home, I walk straight pass him. He shouts stupid things like, "KAIYA! FATTY" and I just block him out. If my parents tell me to do something for him, I flatly refuse. Then they say, "I don't treat you like that." But are you my sibling? I think the **** not. My parents always say I don't like all the attention he gets because I was technically an only child for 7 years. My older sisters were at uni when I was born so I had my parents to myself. But I just think it's coz my parents would let him get away with murder. What do I do to stop him being so annoying?

I found out my dad cheated on my mom. I didn't say anything to either of them. Even though my mom found out and they are divorced now, I still feel very guilty that I didn't tell her. What do I do? Should I tell her now, even though it will reopen old wounds? (In no relation to the question, can you guys believe the other woman had the cheek to invite me on Facebook?!) Anyway, what must I do?

For instance you accept your parents for who they are. But they always critique you about your hobbies and interests. You ask them why you accept them for who they are but why can't they accept you for who you are? Would you be in the wrong for arguing with you parents despite being right? Or would you be wrong because according to your parents you don't have any rights until you +18 and you'll always remain a kid to them.

he thinks i'm 2 and i need to be taught how to do everything is this normal ?

Parents if you didn't accept your childrens hobbies and they had an argument with you about accepting you, but you not acceptingg them for who they are. Would you be in the wrong or would you be in the right? Is it wrong to not accept something they like and bring them down or compare them with someone else in the past? The hobby this question relates to is scientific research and metal detecting. I'm 16 by the way and I make my own money so I can afford to buy a metal detector but my parents are against it stating I have weird hobbies and that you rarely find anything - overall making my hobby sound stupid.

Is it right for parents to want something in return after their child grows up. Is it right for them to want their child to take care of them and provide them with money? Is it right or wrong? Would the parents be using their child if they wanted their children to provide for them financially?

My extended family is very close, but live very far away from each other and don't talk much. My 35 year old cousin is on her death bed after fighting cancer for a couple months and we will all be gathering for her funeral. Should I tell my aunts, uncles and cousins my good news before, during or long after the weeklong gathering? I'm only one month pregnant. I know that most "announcements" aren't until the second trimester, but I always thought that was more for announcing to ALL friends & family and social media and coworkers and didn't apply to close friends/family which is why I've had the dilemma. My thought too was that it might be good to bring a little piece of joy to have a reprieve/distraction from all the grief, and I wouldn't want them wondering later why I didn't tell them when we were all together & it could have helped ease some pain.

She s so dirty. She leaves bags of garbage in her drawer where her clothes are at. I didn t find out until today. She also eats food on her bed and doesn t throw the bags of food out unless someone tells her to. I know she sleeps with bags of food in her bed because I ALWAYS see food on her bed. I told her MULTIPLE times to clean her ******* room but I don t know why someone has to ******* tell her for her to actually do it? She s 13 for God s sake. So sorry for the language but it s really grinding my gears.

She alienated me from family as a kid because of her own bitterness. This caused me to feel like I was not as good as the extended family on my Mom's side. This belief remains to this day and I can't seem to change it. Thus, I am always trying to impress. How do I heal this bitterness towards my mother who is otherwise a good mother (I am an adult now).

I am 22 years old, i live with my mother with no car or drivers license but do have a full time time job by getting a ride from a family member to and from. My mom wont allow me to practice driving or allow me to move forward in life because she doesnt care about anybody else. What should I do? Just wait things out? I have no friends or anyone that is capable of helping me out

So on Thanksgiving. My an it made a joke about me. So made a. A joke at me I said. Ur mad because I voted for trump I was joking so I look at like I was crazy or I said so. I was talk to my cousin. She told why ur talking about it a left so I told her later on i was joking so if i offend u I'm sotty when I was talking to everyone. But she star raising her voice like crazy. I went to see what happens so a argument happened. Between mom boyfriend and cousin. When I tried to get info even if i said somthing I was told shut up buy my anut but my cousin can rant that not fair and she told me not to talk about it so why she taking about it but. I found out she called my moms boyfriend kids stupid and biggots it not fair how u say don't talk about but ur still going on about it. When I went to asked my a anut for a apology she wrote lol sarcastically and to me get educated

My parents are miserable and emotionally abusive. I grew up physically and emotionally abused and still am mistreated at 21 years. I've got a year and a half left until I graduate from a top university with a top degree. Those three semesters will cost about 65k, which my parents are funding, but only because of the family name--only for bragging rights and so that our image will remain preserved within the Asian culture. Their emotional abuse has gotten so bad that I'm on medication now because of them and cannot focus on school one bit. I live by myself but am under an incredible social evaluation by the other Asians I go to school with who know my family and will notify them of any wrongdoing I do (if I dress a certain way or have a non-Asian boyfriend). I worked so hard to be where I am, but I am thinking about switching schools and paying for my own tuition elsewhere to get away from them. People tell me to think about the long term and that it's only a year and a half, but I have never been this depressed in my life. They're controlling and manipulative and to be very honest they can choose not to pay for my education at any moment. It's just as much of a risk to depend on them as leaving will be. I don't want to think like an impulsive 21-year old and cut loose of them overnight. Do you have any advice as to what I should do? My parents pay for tuition but we have no money. They pay for big homes and shiny cars and a very expensive education but we don't actually own any of those things--leases, rent, credit card debt. That's why I'm afraid they won't pay because I know it will eat them alive. We went from paying 25k/yr to 45k/yr recently because of a tuition spike and an increase in household annual earnings.

So most of my family loves far from me and I have to live with my sister. However our relationship is not great and we don't get along. She is very controlling and also called me names and horrible things. As a result, I now tend to isolate myself to avoid that conflict. When I am home I spend time in my room with s closed door and go down to eat only when sfe isn't there. But I am normal and am not isolatong myself rom others. I love to spend time with my friend and love to stay in college for a long time to stay away from her house. Anyway what do ou think am I doing the tight or wrong thing? Also it sucks for me because I don't have my own car so she still drives me to college but we do not talk

Whenever we went to visit my dad's friend (we went weekly) his 16 years old son would get me in a room in their basement and tie a piece of fabric around my eyes and do sexual things (i dont remember him raping me but he did alot of sexual stuff, for his own pleasure) I remember him telling me to get down because the door "won't open" to see if their was anything underneeth it and when i get down he would like, hump me. I was 8 at the time i didn't know anything about sex and stuff, but i felt like something is wrong, i always told him to stop and leave me alone but he wouldn't. He did that everytime we visited them. He even did it when they visit us, he would make me lay on the stairs, my legs would hurt so bad i still remember the pain. One day he grabbed me to get me in the room i told him no, he was forcing me, i was wearing a scarf on my neck because it was cold, he grabbed it and pulled until i was choking and crying. and when i told him to leave me alone he called me a whore and a b*tch. I forgot that happend until 1 year ago and it never leaves my mind. I feel like sht for what he did. Now everytime a man looks at me while walking down the street or going to school i think he's gonna follow me and rape me. Im 14, the guy is 22 or 23 now. I think he know that i know what he was doing because everytime we see each other when our family and his go out together its really awkward between us. Does this count as a sexual assault?

My husband has this thing where he feels that we have rights to my son's new daughter. He's 22 and has been a bit of a problem child for the past few years. My husband tried to straighten him out when he was younger but my son was a bit on the hard headed side. Well, now that he has a 7 month old baby my husband and I have been spending a lot of time with her and buying a lot of stuff. Lately, my son has been getting her on the weekends. For the first few months of her life we were her primary weekend caregivers cause he moved out of the city. Now that he's back he wants her every weekend. The baby's momma doesn't have a problem so she drops her off at our house and we take her to him. We use to take her to church on the regular and now that my son is back in the picture more my husband is a little upset that he won't allow us to take her to church once in a while. My son wants to take her to church with him every sunday now. Ok, several weeks ago she was sick and I went and got her from my son cause he couldn't handle her. We, my husband and I, got her feeling better and I took her back to my son that sunday morning. Last night we had to drop my husband's daughter back off at college when my son text me to say that he still had the baby and asked if we could come take her home. We did. Now my husband is of the mindset that since he won't let us take her to church once in a while then why do we need to keep doing all the transporting and purchasing of clothes, formula, pampers, medicine, and getting her better when he's sick only to take her back to him when she's feeling better so he can go show her off at his church? This little girl loves my husband to death and he spoils her rotten but it kills him when he asks can we take her to church once in a while and my son says that he wants to take her to church with him. My husband says that since he wants to show her off then let him buy the pampers, formula, clothes, and figure out how he's going to get her and take her back home. Am I wrong to side with my son? That's his daughter, not ours? We use to take her to our church when she was a newborn and now the people are asking how she's doing and when they can see her again. Husband says it's not going to kill my son to let us take her to church once in a while. How do I settle this argument, which really isn't an argument at this point. It's more of a concern from my husband. We kept her several hours Sat afternoon when her mom dropped her off at our place because we couldn't find my son. He was out playing ball with his friends in the neighborhood or something. My husband said that my son wants to be a dad when it's convenient for him. But when she's all dressed and pretty he wants to show her off. When she's sick he calls us.

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I left my husband of 28 yrs. My youngest daughter 20yrs old. Is mad at me and won't speak to me because I didn't tell her the truth. I'm now dating and when she asked me to my face what is going on I lied.

When my Mom passed away my only living Brother and his family disowned me over inhairitance. He and his family have been spreading rumors and lies about me to mutual friends. Should I post a statement on social media to all of our friends defending myself or should I ignore it? It hurts that people might think badly of me when it isn't true. What should I do?

Me and my family used to life in one house , but this year they moved to a new house that i didn't like and was away from my school so i kept in our old house alone and they told me they gonna put some cameras in it to make sure if i study or no and know what things i do , and thats not cool because they will go throw my private things , i feel i will be in jail . i don't know what should i do i am dying.

So, I am 22 years old, and last thanksgiving my mom found out my dad had been cheating on her with one of her friends for the past 5 years..which goes back to me being 16. Now I was the first one out of 4 of my siblings to find out and I was crushed. I mean my dad was everything to me. What really pissed me off was that the woman he cheated with was invited to many of our family gatherings. Even one of my birthday dinners that I did not invite her to. Anyways, It has been a year and my parents haven't done not one thing about their marriage. My dad promised my mom that they would get counseling and that he would get back in church and stop cheating. Well they haven't done any of that and my mom is so miserable all the time. She is grumpy and impatient. She's gaining wait..She is short tempered. I don't even want to have my son there because I feel like she is going crazy inside. Now my dad is a prideful man and doesn't want anyone to know from his job that he is in counseling. That is his excuse.. so Yesterday we got in a huge fight and I told him that he needs to get counseling for his marriage and stop making excuses. The truth is that I am the only one who will ever be honest with him. My mom wont say anything in fear he will cheat again..But to be honest I am almost positive that he is still cheating and that he isn't changed.

I am 17 years old; I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder and depression. I live with my dad and my stepmom, and it's just us 3 in the house. I go see my mom every other weekend. My dad and stepmom work shift work at a factory and are rarely home. I am a senior in high school taking college calculus and English and I have a part-time job. Recently I've noticed my emotions toward my home life and family to be rather negative, honestly they always have, I've never favored being with my dad. When I think about having to go back to my house where my parents are I become very upset and distraught. They are not abusive, physically. But they seem to lack understanding when it comes to my mental state. I have been grounded in the past for 1 bad grade, and I brought it up; removing the grounding. However, I had an anxiety attack during my last quiz, bringing my grade way down again, causing me to be grounded again. My dad is mad and grounding me because I am going to lose my good grades discount on my car insurance and because I failed my quiz. However, he saw me studying for the quiz. It's not like I didn't put forth any effort. I studied for many hours, my mental state just got in the way and he doesn't understand that. Is there any way (legally) that I could move in with another family member, or on my own, for personal safety? Thinking about having to go to my house with them there makes me very upset and nearly suicidal.

I passed entrance exam in best institute in my country last year. i think , i was just lucky. I did it because, since first grade of senior high school ,I focused on the entrance test , instead of school subjects, Because of that , i always got bad grades in my school, and often got last rank, I used this strategy, because i know, that i am not smart, even if i learn all day, still i am sucks, I knew that , if i focused in school subjects, it would be no significant changes in my grades and rank, (my experience in junior high school), thats why i tried something different My parents didnt know that i used this strategy, they thought that i learned the school subjects and still got bad grades (just like when i was in junior high school) I always got bad grades, my teacher didnt know that i was always studying all day, he thought that i just played all the time So my parents often got called from my teacher to met him, to tell that my grades are bad, gave advice to them and asked them to make me study, my parents that knew the truth (that i studied all the time), didnt tell it to my teacher, they just accepted his advice I always feel bad for my parents that they keep coming to school to met my teacher, since i was in junior HS But they never give up on me they always tell me to keep struggling, and they put too much hope on me But now, in college, everything is harder, but they keep doing the same, what should i do, i dont wanna make them feel sad

I have text evidence of her threatening me not to go back to the house where i live at with my boyfriend his mom and step dad and our son and his step sister and her kids. This all started cause Over words, no threats, and then the step sister took it to another level and threatened me via text and then threatened me while I had my baby in my hands saying she will f**k me up and to watch out..She has even bumped into me a couple times, and one time I was washing my son s bottle her daughter started to shove me out the way to wash her dishes and then told her mom "I just want to f**k her up mom" and the mom (step sister) said "do it but make sure her baby isn t around " and last night she bumped into me really hard on purpose while I was next to my 1 year old making him a bottle and again threatened to hurt Me. Later that night she started calling me names while I was making my son another bottle. Question is can I take legal action against her , I am scared she will eventually hit me and I can t live life really cause I have to be on my toes.

Im 22 years old and I'm used to sleep naked in my house,but my 10 year old brother just moved in with me,is it normal for me to be naked around my 10 year old brother(we are very close as a family)

He hasn't been there for me when I needed him, and I am financially dependent on him and barely asking for anything, and he's rich.I only ask for money for food. And I relied on him for life choices and he either didn't help or really hurt me. I only want to depend on him financially. I think he's clever and he's making it so I don't ask him for money, and I'm have to be strict with demanding. I am 21, and he left when I was 3. He remarried and had 2 kids. And his wife wasn't very nice to me. I have seen him every 3 months (sometimes less) for most of my life, and I wanted a relationship as a daughter. I have been hurt again and again with all the sudden financial things that he did, and lack of support (except financially). Not being there when I was having a serious problem, sick, or an abusive mother. I want to give up on relying on him in any way other than financial, but that hurts as well. I wanted a father. What do I do to separate him helping me in any other way than financially? Not rely on him except when it's about money?

This is more a question of curiousity and what you would do. I understand that it's her family it's not my place to meddle in their family business and tell them how to raise their kids. However my fiancée brother is beyond control. About a month ago my fiancée and her brother got into an argument. He threw a chair at her and hurt her hand. Had their mother not been there he would have seriously injured her. I was pissed off. I called them to talk to them and see what they will do about this. I understand that my fiancée is good at pressing buttons at times but they can not let this behavior go unpunished. In the past he has had trouble with the police, even recently had a trial, he's involved with gangs, he's selling drugs and I suspect that he is a mule. Which is the dumbest position you can have. While his family speaks off him like he had brains. He's not exactly a rocket scientist. The issues with him go long way back. I spoke to their parents and their oldest son after this incident with my fiancée to ask what they will do. Their answer was: "He's in a bad place. We need to keep him occupied with activities. We'll buy him a gym membership". Yeah, that will solve all the issues. I saw him during dinner a couple of weeks ago and told him he is not welcome at our wedding. He got pissed off but he didn't dare to attack me. I blame their father. He has never been a strong father figure that the boy needs. More of a joker, a friend. What would you do in this situation?

I live part time at college and part time at home. For as long as I can remember, my Mom has gotten rid of vast amounts of my personal belongings (clothes, makeup, hair products, shoes, etc.) WITHOUT ASKING ME. I have yelled at her for YEARS and begged her to stop going through my things and getting rid of whatever she pleases. I came home for break and all of my hair products, lotions, self tanners, etc WERE ALL GONE. She had gotten rid of everything in my cabinet. When I yelled at her she said "she would get me new stuff". Of course, never did. Once I found huge garbage bags FILLED in her car trunk of all of my favorite clothes and she gave me no explanation to why she had them ready to be thrown away or where she was planning on taking them. She drives me completely nuts and I am sick of feeling like some psycho is going through my **** and just having to notice if more and more of my things have gone missing. WHAT DO I DO? She was doing this long before I moved out, she used to wait for me to go out with friends or go on trips and then come home to a ton of my stuff missing.

To be honest my parents r okay. They mostly do the right things and r mostly fair but for one thing. They never believe a thing i say. Example when I overslept last week they got so mad at me even though it was my phones fault as it switched off. They thought it was me who turned it off or something and it really hurt me that they thought i would do that. Rather than helping me, they always moan and compare me with other children and it making me feel like nothing. Sometimes i wonder if they even value me. Please help. I'm sick and tired of this and i dont know what to do. I wish i could talk to them but they dont even like to make eye contact with me. Its really depressing so i would appriecate a lot of help. Thank you.

I'm 18. I have two older brothers (21 and 27) who both moved back home not even a week apart because they were tired of paying rent at their own apartments. My parents are letting them live here rent free. Since being back this house is absolutely disgusting. They have no respect for this house and they do not care to clean up after themselves. I do clean when I can't stand it, but literally within the same day they manage to make it filthy again. Dirty dishes, sticky floors, clogged drains ALL THE TIME, dirty towels around the house, etc.. I've been applying for jobs a lot lately so I can get out of the house and focus on my own thing, but I can't drive because I have no one to teach me. My parents refuse to teach me because they're scared I'll crash. I'm also not allowed to walk or take the bus because my parents forbid me to do so because it's "dangerous" . I don't have friends or other family who are willing to constantly drive me to work either. I've talked to my parents about my concerns. Not being able to drive, work, or go to school stresses me out about my future. And my brothers disrespecting us and our house stresses me out as well. They then argue about how I'm just a selfish and depressed brat. Please someone tell me if I'm being a brat and if so how? Just so I understand my parent's point of view. And can I somehow fix anything I've explained? I feel so stuck.

Hello, in general my parents are fine but sometimes they really annoy me. They never believe anything i say and they. Today i overslept becuase of my alarm. My phone was switched off somehow and wouldn t switch on. The battery was fine but when my parents found out they got so mad at me. It felt so depressing and disappointing. This is only one of the cases. Once my little sister fell down and hurt herself right next to me but i was doing nothing. Some how, they thought it was me. Im 11 and it is stressing me out and making my life very miserable. Plzz help😥

My brother was diagnosed with brain cancer stage 2-4. He has been through 2 surgeries to remove the tumor but both were unsuccessful and they were also not able to remove enough to have an autopsy on it. He s gone through radiation and was currently on chemotherapy The month he got his first surgery his mood started to slowly change and became temperamental. To the point he had to go to the ER. Neuropsychiatrist said he most likely was going thru psychosis caused by the circumstances he was in and was admitted to the hospital for 2 weeks, one week in the psychotic ward and another in the neurosurgery floor. And for 4/5 months he was a totally different person he had anxiety and was easily angry, he thought the government was after him or surveillancing him through his iphone. He would say he loved his grandma, who is his guardian, but then call her a horrible person and would cuss at everyone, but he would always rely on her for everything. Now hes alittle more calm and more normal, also he is off all the psychotic pills he was taking. Mostly because he didnt want to take them anymore. he has insomnia and hardly sleeps maybe 4 hours a night, not sure if its cause of where the tumor is located or something else. How do i help him overcome his depression and help him go back to school or go to a trade school without stressing him out too much, he is a smart person but he did drop out of school and has always syruggled in school.

My 14 year old daughter who was diagnosed with ASD when she was a toddler daydreams a lot. I only started noticing it may be becoming a problem recently because she daydreams at places that are inappropriate and she escapes into one of her own worlds that are not reality. I think sometimes she's so focused on being a completely different person in a different life that she spaces out in the real world and doesn't realize what's really going on around her. For example, if she's talking to someone and her mind suddenly starts thinking about something else she actually escapes from what's going on into a whole new scenerio and she doesn't hear half the things that her conversation partner says to her. I'm worried that this may start to effect school or even when she's walking home by herself from school and isn't aware of what's going on and that might become a safety issue for her. I've looked for medicine and vitamins that might help her with her attention span more but they're usually for adults only.

So basically since it s cyber Monday I found these two sweaters online that I want. Combined they are $15 with free shipping. It s cold as **** outside and I literally only own one jacket and a bunch of t-shirts. I asked my mom for them and she said "later" but they re running out since the sale is popular. I said "no mom I need them now" and she was like if you ******* bother me again the answer is definitely no. So THREE hours later I remind her again and tell her how they re running out and she s like "well since they re running out I guess you done need them" and then just laughed and looked at her stupid boyfriend and added "why don t you go to your dad s house and leave me alone". What does the hell does she even mean??? So in order to make scene I told her I was gonna kill myself because of her and then slammed my door. I m 17 and I have a job but I put all of that money toward college ( my fam makes me) so who s in the wrong here? And BTW this isn t an issue of money I know she has the money

It's 1 o'clock in the morning. I have to wake up at 6 o'clock tomorrow morning, yet I lie awake because my parents won't shut up about their stupid problems. They can argue any time of day, but they pick now dead in the middle of the night! I'm gonna die of tiredness.

I have a 4 month old daughter who I see every other weekend. I m afraid she won t bond with me in life. Her mother already has a new "man" moved in and of course he s with my daughter everyday. Will she bond with him as her dad rather than me her actual father? What can I do to make sure she knows I m dad and that her daddy loves her very much?

So I'm depressed bc its the holidays and I isolate from family gatherings(I'll go for an hr but leave)bc my dad brings a lot of ppl over and my cousins who bully me live there and he won't get rid.of them. He doesn't care about my feelings at all and Ignores my sad face. I tell him to get rid.of them but he ignores me. I feel super awkward being around a lot of ppl especially since some of them enable the bullies that bully me. I try to tell some ppl why I don't go (bullies and I get so bored) but they act as if they don't know and it pisses me off. I mean come on they can see if I don't say a word to them. Is it my dad's fault?

I am going to be 16 on january 28 and I have been trying to convince my parents to buy a me a nice car for my birthday. They keep telling me they can't afford me to buy a nice car. This is bulls*** because they can afford to go out to nice, fancy dinners and on vacations but can't afford to buy me a new car?!!! I always thought parents put their children first but in case all my parents do is think of themselves and fail to realize just how much i deserve a new car. I'm going to look like a total dork riding the school bus to school. i can't believe this is happening to me, i am literally crying because my parents won't buy me a new car that I really want.

I ruined my mom's dining table and now there's a big spot and she noticed and is mad but I didn't tell her I did it. What should I do?!?!? I really don't want to tell her and I probably won't but she's upset and can't buy a new one, maybe I should just keep it secret that I did it. She's really mad though ugh help me.

My 23 year old daughter has been a pain in my butt. All she does is lay around the house and eat all the food. She does work but nothing around the house. She is always bullying my youngest daughter who is 17. I keep telling her that she needs to contribute to the household via paying for rent, groceries and doing various chores but she refuses. i am on the verge of kicking her out but i am afraid she won't speak to me ever again. What can I do?