Marriage & Divorce: Question: How do I save a very closely failed Marriage now in the death throws of divorce? |
- Question: How do I save a very closely failed Marriage now in the death throws of divorce?
- Question: Will you get married?
- Question: I feel guilty my ex husband cannot find love?
- Question: How can I make my new sister-in-law feel at home with a Filipino meal?
- Question: My ex husband is driving me insane, do I pack up and leave before things get ugly?
- Question: Husband and mistress troubles!!!?
- Question: Husband having an affair with his classmate?
- Question: In Virginia,does the man have to keep health insurance on spouse during separation?
- Question: What can a family do to combat mild inflation?
- Question: I'm seeing this woman who only texts?
- Question: Anyone experienced RFE with immigration after interview?
- Question: My brother is very sarcastic and his ex-wife was very sensitive. Could this had played a role in their divorce?
- Question: Any ladies want to penpal/chat with another mom?
- Question: Divorcing because of money? What does that mean?
- Question: Why do I keep reaching out to her only when I am away from home?
- Question: My husband may not be the babys father?
- Question: Is my husband abusive?
- Question: Do you think it's bad to have a crush on someone else while you're married?
- Question: Why do men talk to alot of women? Is it because of they're insecurity or what?
- Question: My wife treats my mother with no respect?
- Question: I told my husband I cannot move with him, should we divorce?
- Question: Is it wrong for me as a diabetic to ask my husband to help me pay for my insurance and medical costs when I am 5 months pregnant?
- Question: Can you really love your spouse and another at the same time?
- Question: I think my husband secretly hates me?
- Question: Am I to horny?
- Question: Wife locks door to bathroom?
- Question: MIL is 71 skinny, knee problems, and can barely drive. Husband is so offended I will not let her watch our 3 month old. What to do?
- Question: Why do marriages end?
- Question: My exes new wife is causing issues, help?
- Question: Husband sleeps til he goes to work?
- Question: My wife has anger issues but she fails to accept this. When I mention counseling, she gets upset. I fear for my children, what can I do?
- Question: Why is my husband using my yahoo account to chat with other woman?
- Question: My husband calls me a neanderthal. Is this a romantic reference that I should be understanding?
- Question: Wife cheated, we separated. 4 months later she asked if we could meet up to "get to the bottom of this" and to find "closure"?
- Question: My husband wants to be friends with this woman..but I'm uncomfortable?
- Question: Does getting a divorce but staying together make sense?
- Question: I almost hate asking this, because I know I will get a bunch of stupid answers from retards with brain injuries, but here goes:?
- Question: Reconciling with husband after separation?
- Question: My wife left me, what should I do?
- Question: I feel sad and jealous :( Help?
- Question: Can I marry her?
- Question: Should my husband be friends with girl?
- Question: I am very stressed out and I'm tensing to argue with certain people. Advice please!?
| Question: How do I save a very closely failed Marriage now in the death throws of divorce? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:24 PM PST I have to live with the likely consequences of a divorce.I do love her. I fail to listen to her sometimes. I know now to listen, but I feel that she is too far pushed back. Now we are legally separated. I want to be back to her and make it right. What do I do? Been reading a book about it and watching videos on what to do. How do I reassure her after so many disappointments? I remember the times we once had when we first started. It's a very sad feeling knowing you failed to get it back in that direction. |
| Question: Will you get married? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:21 PM PST I don't want to get married, i don't think i have the capability to handle a family, especially a family with kids. I want to live a more personal life. Am i scared of the responsibility? |
| Question: I feel guilty my ex husband cannot find love? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:07 PM PST I was with my ex husband since I was 14 because of life circumstances we moved in together had our daughter when I was 17 and stayed together for ten years. Now broken up for 3 years I have found a man I love and want to marry. I love my ex husband but not to be married with him I wish it could work but I have come to term it can t. He however feels I robbed him of happiness that after ten years I can t give up and I m selfish for finding love. I gave him full custody of our daughter and I see her with no problems but she lives with him and that is his world. He is an amazing man and I want him to find love he deserves it but I can t give it to him. Now I want to get married I got engaged and I am afraid to tell my ex because it will devestate him. Basically I am holding back on my own love and future happiness because I feel guilty my ex has not made as much progress in the dating world. At times I even consider giving up my happiness to go back and make him happy again. But how is it fair to my fiancé? I am stuck guilt is eating me alive. |
| Question: How can I make my new sister-in-law feel at home with a Filipino meal? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:02 PM PST My brother recently married a Philippine women. Before they got married, they stayed with us for a couple of days. Throughout the days they visited, she showed us how she was learning our language and bits of our culture. Now I want to return the favor and show her that we too want to learn her culture. And I want to start with making a meal on the day she comes for the Christmas break. So I am wondering what dish to do? And if there is a special Christmas dinner or desert that is made to celebrate it. |
| Question: My ex husband is driving me insane, do I pack up and leave before things get ugly? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 07:18 PM PST We have two young children together. He has become extremely harassing and hateful towards me. A harassment charge does not change anything. He has now resorted to dragging my name through the mud and is saying very nasty things to everyone in the town we live in. We have joint physical custody so I feel very stuck and very, very depressed over this. I don't know what to do anymore. I want to runaway but can't since I can't take my children with me because of the joint custody. I have a friend who lives hours away and has told me to come stay with her until I figure everything out and get in the right mental state, but I am afraid of what will happen with the custody of my children if I leave without them. I have never been so depressed or felt so stuck. Can anyone please give me some advice? |
| Question: Husband and mistress troubles!!!? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 07:16 PM PST My husband left me almost a year ago for his mistress. Our divorce will be final in a month. I have let him go except for the fact that we have two children together. Lately his mistress has been trying to taunt me by throwing up Facebook pics of all of them and my kids?? Why?? If things are so great why does she still try to pit me and my ex hubby against each other. I have never tried to interfere with their relationship, once he left I let her have him. He moved in with her after a couple of months and he seemed happy then but doesn't seem very happy now. But I don't know. She won my husband why does she care about me so much can't she see I do t want him back. Why does the mistress do this?? |
| Question: Husband having an affair with his classmate? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 07:13 PM PST i have been married 10 years since I was 18 to my husband and we have two children. 8 years old and 6. He told me he really likes his study/lab partner, kisses her and stuff. He wants a open relationship. This girl has been to my home (when i thought they were studying) and I guess they have fallen in love. I confronted her and she said she didn't mean for it to happen it just did. Sh doesn't know what she wants. I had him choose, and he says he wants to try for the children. But I know i read texts he sent her telling her he misses her so much he can't think during the day. What should I do? she said they haven't had sex. Should i be worried? |
| Question: In Virginia,does the man have to keep health insurance on spouse during separation? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 06:20 PM PST |
| Question: What can a family do to combat mild inflation? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 06:04 PM PST |
| Question: I'm seeing this woman who only texts? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 06:01 PM PST I know she's not married, she happens to be a widow but she will not talk on the phone and when I say things on how I feel she reply's (oh that's sweet) I feel like I'm on egg shells and its not the way I operate but she is a widow its been 5 years she says she needs time I feel something is up My tuition is to move on but what if I'm wrong. she's been a widow for 5 years not texting for 5 years *** wipe! |
| Question: Anyone experienced RFE with immigration after interview? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:42 PM PST My wife and I went to our green card interview and the officer asked her so many questions and there were only three questions he asked about our marriage such as how long we dated and if my wife knew when's the last speeding ticket I had n she forgot the answer. We had joint income tax, bank account statement n pictures of our small non lavish wedding. He asked for more financial n at that time we didn't but here what I have now......he said he'll be sending RFE 1. Joint bank account 2. Joint tax return 3. Utility bill with both names 4. 401k statement shows spouse as beneficiary 5. Health insurance policy with both names together 6. Same gym membership 7. Life insurance policy with both names 8. Receipts of us going to movies and buying stuff for each other here and there 9. Pictures of us at major events n parties 10. Text n phone log conversations of us with date n time we basically call everyday when we're free since she's full time student n I work three jobs. 11. Our IDs match current address 12. 5-6 affidavit notarized letter from closed friends n family proving we are married for real. We plan on moving to our own apartment so that will show growth in our married. She can't have kids because she's HIV positive and I love her because she's my wife, my best friend and we're trying to get to work something out around that so does anyone know if we have a chance of getting a conditioned since it's less than two years of married? Please help thanks |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:34 PM PST I would never ask him but just curious. His son is now sarcastic also and his ex tells the son "quit acting like your Dad" so the sarcasm is noticed. |
| Question: Any ladies want to penpal/chat with another mom? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:31 PM PST Just curious if any other moms out there are interested in having someone to chat with! And yes I m willing to prove to you I m a woman! Contact me yahoo mail sarao822 |
| Question: Divorcing because of money? What does that mean? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 04:49 PM PST I heard a common cause for divorce is because of money. What does that mean? |
| Question: Why do I keep reaching out to her only when I am away from home? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 03:31 PM PST I have been married for a long time and I have an amazing family. When I am home I am happy with my life and my wife. There is this girl I've met years ago, I liked her since the first time we met, we are just friends though. We email or msg echother from time to time just to keep each over updated on what's going on in our lives. My problem here is that every time I am away from home I reach out to her and can't get her of my mind. She has always been there for me in a friendly way. To make matters worst we became Facebook friends and she looks even better than I remember. Her beauty keeps hunting me. Why do I keep reaching out to her every time I am away from home? |
| Question: My husband may not be the babys father? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 01:11 PM PST my husband and i have been trying to have another baby. however, things kinda took a change in plans bc the marriage has seem to be a little rocky lately. well i slept with another man in the midst of this and so now i don't know if my husband is my baby father or the other guy. i am stressing so badly as to what to do. my husband is so happy about the pregnancy and i cant stand to break his heart in any way. at the time i cheated i felt like i hated him but i see how he has been making such a huge effort in our marriage now and i know i was wrong |
| Question: Is my husband abusive? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 12:54 PM PST We've only been married for a couple weeks now, I'm asking this question because sometimes he gets annoyed at me when I tickle him or agitate him (just playing around) and he's grab my wrists and left marks, stabbed his fingernails into my arms and also left marks and today he hit me 4 times in my legs and side and it feels bruised, all this is because I tickle him or play around or joke around, that's just my sense of humor. He calls me stupid, ignorant, and dumb on the daily basis as well, does this seem abusive to you? Any advice? |
| Question: Do you think it's bad to have a crush on someone else while you're married? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 12:37 PM PST This doesn't apply to me. |
| Question: Why do men talk to alot of women? Is it because of they're insecurity or what? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:56 AM PST I have caught my husband talking to other women recently, either in a different country or state or even same state as us but he never meets up with them he just talks to friendly. I have heard men do it bc they are insecure of them selves. I don't understand why he needs to if he has a beautiful wife at home that fu fills his every needs... And adding on to those women they are very ugly lol. |
| Question: My wife treats my mother with no respect? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:54 AM PST I mean for god's sake. If she can't respect her because she's my mother. At least, respect her because she's elderly. I've seen it. Whenerver my mother comes to visit, she's like an unwanted guest! No consideration whatsoever. I do my best to tolerate her parents when they visit. Even if I wish they both drop dead sooner than later. So how to deal with that? My mother is very sensible. If this goes on, maybe she'll never visit again. |
| Question: I told my husband I cannot move with him, should we divorce? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:50 AM PST My husband was offered a very good job in another country. We have been married for 3 years now and I have a 7 year old son from my previous marriage. My child's father sees his son once a week for a couple of hours and although he pays child support, he pays very little, not enough to help out much. My husband has done more to help with my child financially than his father has and definitely done more of them raising. My husband was recently offered a great job in another country making a lot of money. I would love to go but cannot because of my sons father. What should I do? |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:44 AM PST I had to quit my full time Mon-Fri job due to complications in the pregnancy and my husband now says he won t pay for a dime for my disease. The problem is I can t afford my medical costs on my own. Am I wrong in expecting him to take responsibility since this is his child and we are married? |
| Question: Can you really love your spouse and another at the same time? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:24 AM PST My older brother says he loves his wife to death, they have been together for 22 years. She is a very nice lady, from what I can tell. Yet again he has been obsessed with some other lady for 16 years, he says something drew him to her since the first time he saw her! He hasn't seen this lady for 15 years, but they have been communicating through emails and social media for all these years. He insists it's only lust and infatuation, I disagree though, in my experience they don't last this long. When I told him this, he just keeps saying he loves his wife and he has a happy marriage. I am a little confused here! I don't won't him to lose his family for this lady. Please, help me understand. |
| Question: I think my husband secretly hates me? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:21 AM PST my husband has been regularly looking up these Youtube on Youtube directed toward the empowering of me, which is perfectly okay.....but these videos he watches are mostly about the bashing of women. They say that women just want to manipulate men and men shouldn't allow it and that women are sneaky, liars, attention seaking whores more or less. Being he is a married man and keeps telling me it has nothing to do with me is making me wonder bc why else would he be watching these videos? Any ideas? im just confused as to why he is worried about how women supposably just want to get over on men when he already has his woman in life and claims its not about me |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:17 AM PST When me and my husband first got together and we started having sex it was like every night and then one night he was like "I am not your sex slave!". I didn't know he felt that way and I was confused. I thought he wanted it as much as I did. Then our sex life kept getting less and less and now we are lucky if once a week and he is the only one to get to initiate it. If I do I always get rejected... I feel like its the worse feeling in the world. I went to bed crying everytime I was rejected and he was like "Whats the big deal its just sex." Its not just sex to me I like being close to him. Our daughter is due any day now and I'm afraid its going to be completely non existent. I want to feel wanted and desired and he made it feel like it was a chore for him. He still cuddles, hugs, and kisses me and everything. I just want to feel sexy I guess. Even at 38 weeks preggo. I just don't know what I am feeling is wrong or not :/. |
| Question: Wife locks door to bathroom? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 11:03 AM PST My wife insists on locking the door when she goes to the bathroom. I'm concerned that she's doing things in there that she shouldn't be (you know what I'm talking about). I want to respect her privacy but I think she's being disrespectful by keeping the door locked (and yes...not only do I keep the door unlocked while I'm in there, I don't even close it). Yesterday I removed the bathroom door from the hinges and she went completely nuts. I'm trying to find some common ground here but she's making it very difficult. How do others handle this? I didnt ask for a bunch of radical feminists to come defend her... I asked a simple question |
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| Question: Why do marriages end? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 10:48 AM PST I've never been married so I am curious. I have had friends that were married for 26 years with kids in junior high and high school just end the marriage. The woman wanted out, neither was seeing anyone else and there were no money problems as the guy was a successful business owner. The guy was clueless. Why would someone end a family mid stream? |
| Question: My exes new wife is causing issues, help? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 10:08 AM PST For one, I am re-married, not jealous, and not looking for a fight. However, my ex has a new wife. She is forcing new rules at his house which is fine. But, our daughter comes to my house and does not want to follow MY rules anymore which aren't really "rules" but more like small "quirks" like: She will no longer eat meat. Meat is killing animals and is sad (her words). She will no longer use bath sponges (the puffy ones) unless they are replaced once a week. She will use as much toilet paper as she wants when she uses the restroom (I walk in to half a roll in the toilet, had to dig it out, and set a limit on the usage. She told her dad and they told her I am "ridiculous" and sent over rolls because I am "poor".) Toothbrushes are to be Sonicare only or replaced once every 2 weeks. I am only giving tiny examples. There is so much more. I tell her this is my house but the new mom just seems to want to stir trouble after 8 years. How can I stop this? She also will not talk to me but talks "through" the child, help? |
| Question: Husband sleeps til he goes to work? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 09:10 AM PST I've been in my relationship for a few years now, recently married but throughout our relationship, he would sleep until between 12-2 in the afternoon. and that's if I make him get up. Don't get me wrong he loves me and he makes time to spend with me but I have no idea if this is a problem with him. Now we're expecting baby #2 and our first born is turning 1 but even if I ask him to do me a favor real quick or to check on our son while he acts like it's a chore instead. I know we had really rough childhoods but I don't know if he's being depressed or what.I personally am but I can't ever sleep past 10am and I could be up til 9am cuz of insomnia. SO could he be dealing with depression in a different way than I am? He also works at Tyson from 3-11or12 but as soon as he gets home we go to bed so I don't think he should be this tired? or am I paranoid? He didn't always work at Tyson either he's been working there for 6 months but the job he had before that was from 5-11 and he was still sleeping like this. Could someone please inform me if I'm just paranoid or if there could be something possibly wrong with my Husband so we can hopefully seek help. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:46 AM PST I am not sure what to do about my situation. My wife has been having a lot of arguments with her parents where she tends to get very angry. This all started few years back and she's been very upset with her father (which I think is the cause of her ange issues). I've tried to talk to her regarding his matter but she gets angry at me as well. We have a 2 year old child and I fear for their safety because she's always upseg. What can I do, recommending counseling seems impossible with her getting upset at me. Last weekend, she has askedme to leave the house and I have done so. All my attempts to restore peace in house results into her verbally shouting at me. On sunday, it got to a point where she actually threw household things at me. I did my best not to reciprocate back and keep it away from our child. I am not sure how I can come to a resolution where she has a habit of getting angry at me. |
| Question: Why is my husband using my yahoo account to chat with other woman? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 08:26 AM PST |
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| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 06:35 AM PST This happened with 5 months of not seeing each other. The day before I got this email from her my mom ran into her during a church luncheon at a restaurant my wife now works. My wife and my mom both started crying, apparently my "wife" still had a ring on her finger. It was a quite the scene from what I was told. Should I meet with her to "get closure" I have moved on, I'm ready to get the divorce. She cheated and asked if I could say I coerced her into marriage. (Which I did not, it was her idea) my question is why is she requesting this now? And why does she need closure? |
| Question: My husband wants to be friends with this woman..but I'm uncomfortable? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:35 AM PST So my husband has been friends with this girl for years they've dated they've fooled around and I wanted them to stop talking because why would I want my husband around someone like that? And so he brings up that he misses talking to her and I don't really know how to take that...I would never want to talk to someone that made him uncomfortable. I mean this girl has tried tearing us apart before. He's cheated on people with her and he gets mad when I have a problem? I mean do I just say okay and sit back as they talk? He's already thinking about it which to me is just as bad as doing it. Am I in the wrong here? |
| Question: Does getting a divorce but staying together make sense? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:35 AM PST My husband and I have been married for 4.5 years. Last week he told me he didn t want to be married anymore but he wants to stay together. We both agreed that we got married young. He was 19 and I was 18. He says he wants to stay with me, learn each other again, and maybe get remarried in the future. I m not sure this makes sense. I mean I kinda understand it because being married is different then just dating. I m not sure what to think. |
| Posted: 16 Nov 2016 05:28 AM PST For married people (or those in long-term SO relationships) - If you spend some time making a list of the aspects of your marriage, and spend more time ranking those aspects, when you get to the point of crowning one aspect as 'The One' - what is it? In other words, what is the one thing about/from/because of/ your marriage that makes it? As in "take this thing away or out of my marriage, and there is no way that I continue" |
| Question: Reconciling with husband after separation? Posted: 16 Nov 2016 12:44 AM PST Reconciling with husband after separation? My husband and I are married 5 years / separated 10 months after I decided to walk away from the marriage. We married 11mts after meeting. Our relationship was powerful, I can honestly say I never thought it was possible to love someone so much. We were so wrapped up in each other, rarely arguing, rarely without the other and a lot of sexual contact, it was so intense that I began to struggle. I grew up in social care moving from house to house and I eventually struggled to accept my H loving me and showing no signs of leaving me, I kept expecting it and starting living on edge. It got the better of me and I ended up leaving him instead. I travelled around Europe alone for 9mts, I worked on my security, balance and happiness. Since I returned home He came by my job and asked now that I got that out of my system can we get our marriage back?. He asks like I never left and when we talk he never brings it up, changes the subject if I do. I love him and he is my best friend but I'm wondering should I give this marriage another go or is there a reason I left - should stay away? Any advice/opinions on what I should |
| Question: My wife left me, what should I do? Posted: 15 Nov 2016 10:25 PM PST |
| Question: I feel sad and jealous :( Help? Posted: 15 Nov 2016 07:46 PM PST My husband married another Muslim women and she is more beautiful and curvy then me. My husband already had sex with her and got her pregnant. I feel very sad and jealous. Will Allah punish me for feeling like this? |
| Posted: 15 Nov 2016 07:43 PM PST I am 68 year old Muslim man. I waited my entire life for a beautiful Muslim women who is Islam intelligent & my age.I pray to Allah NOTING happen. But I'm 68 now and I'm old. But there is this beautiful young girl who is 18 in my neighborhood she is a Muslim. I been dreaming about her a lot and how we got marry in my dreams. I feel this is Allah sign I should marry her. Can I ask her father for her hand in marriage? |
| Question: Should my husband be friends with girl? Posted: 15 Nov 2016 05:05 PM PST My husband and I met in highschool and were friends before he became friends with this girl. This girl referred to him as her best friend and they talked a lot. But he loved me and has no attraction to her. She did and they parted ways because it was becoming difficult for our relationship. Well they're friends on FB (Im friends with her as well) and every so often he'll bring her up and talk about her. I trust him, but several years ago when I mentioned her he would look irritated. So it took me by surprise to hear him mention her. Logically there's nothing between them (for him at least) but emotionally I feel like what if something could happen in the future. He said he'd unfriend her if that's what I want. But I dont know what I want. I don't want him to resent me. |
| Question: I am very stressed out and I'm tensing to argue with certain people. Advice please!? Posted: 15 Nov 2016 04:38 PM PST wife lives with me and shes pregnant so there's a huge rush understandably to find a house. However, I don't want a house I want a home. I am not happy with my state and I have no luck here people are ignorant and kids grow up to in my opinion not the right atmosphere here and I concerns me very badly for my child. Now I'm by no means a dummy I still attend college and do have my jounreymans plumbing licenlicense I wish to go to Tennessee and start my own business however it's very hard under my circumstances and my mother constantly telling me I can't do it because it goes against her self interest she wants me to move West of my state to a area that I KNOW I wouldn't be able to find work she's even offering to pay me 40 hours as long as I'm trying to find work shell even let me take a brand new work truck which cost 800 a month in financial fees. However she would not help with a dime if I move to a different state I think this is because my sister moved West of my state and shes stuck and regrets it with her new husband's and my mom wants someone to be there for her. The thing is she tells my wife absolute bs, she's printed out things like business, health and car insurance quotes she got from her "friend" that are clearly way off, I got the true prices which are doable however health insurance is a issue bexuase my wife is pregnant so it's a little pricey. She started arguing with me and it got bring up how she can do all that for me if I move West but not anywhere else |
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