We're really in a bad place and this thing is just the tip of the iceberg. She stayed in bed all day because she said she was sick. This morning, she made the ultimate drama about the coffee and walked out. My kids need to go to school and I have a full time job. I can't take them to school because of this. She says she's not happy and she's sick of staying home anf that she no longer cares what I do, I love her but she's a brat, Not many women have the luxury of staying at home. What am I doing wrong?

Even if their serious girlfriend/wife gave them frequent, hot sex? Or even filmed porn for their partners themselves? I've just never felt comfortable with my husband watching porn, but I'm scared its too much to ask.

A guy from china wants me to marry him for 50k. Will it effect me when I go to school or work and do I have to put im "married" or pretend I'm single. How will the divorce work at the end as well?

Today my fiance who I have been dating threatened to "**** me up" twice during an argument. This is not the first time he has joked about hitting me, or threatened to hit me. We were driving with two of his friends in my car. The person in front of me broke hard, so I laid on my horn and broke hard. He then turns to me and starts complaining and criticizing my driving. We have had numerous conversations about us criticizing each others driving, as it always turns into a fight. I asked him to stop talking, he continued, I told him to shut up, and he got louder, and when I told him to shut the f*** up. He said If I raise my voice to him like that he will **** me up, so I asked him who he was speaking to, and reminded him he will never put his hands on me. And he threatened me again. Several weeks prior after we made up on a different occasion he told me he was about to punch me in the face. He also does not see much wrong in hitting women, If men are disrespected. I feel It might be a anger issue, but I know my worth and I would never let a man hit me, as I watched my father hit my mother. I want to give him a chance to get help. But I want to know If I am blowing this out of proportion. I dont think he would, but that's what everyone says until it happens. I felt I was disrespectful, but I have never threatened to put my hands on another human being, as it is the utmost disrespect. So I expect the same.

Everything was fine until yesterday when I surprised her by coming home early she had 3 men in bed with her. There was alcohol bottles in that bedroom. And I thought I would take control of the situation and get revenge so I got in bed with them and stated sucking their penises and letting them f me. I felt like it was revenge. So we are even now.

just wondering :)

My husband is cheap as f. I'm working on my doctorate and he STILL expects me to work part time. I see SO many women with boyfriends or husbands that pay all their bills and let them stay at home and not work. Most of them don't even have children so thats not the excuses. So where do women find these men that are okay with their wives or girlfriends doing nothing? I do all the housework and cooking too. I have the job of housewife along with a real job and school. I never sleep.

He reached out to her through HIS friends fb. Well the ex gf sends screenshot msg to his wife. He told his ex gf he is unhappy with his wife. He's never been able to get her out of his mind and all the bs. Well my friend is planning on leaving him how can I be there for her and give her advice.

She is divorcing him and bad mouthing him and it makes me hate my Mom. On one hand I love her on the other hand I hate her. I am 15 and she divorced him and it hurt me. Now she is making it hard for us to see him (though the judge said we had to be able to some). She is making us travel at Christmas so we won't see him. Am I just in hating her?

I feel like my wife is cheating she's a secratary at a enginneering company and she all of a sudden started wearing garter belts and thongs and push up bras to work as long as showing a lot of cleavage she comes home at normal times so do you think she's cheating

So, I have been married for 10+ years. I have never been a suspicious person, and have always felt my husband was very honest and trustworthy up until about the last year when my intuition kicked in, so much so, that it brought me to tears. He began starting fights with me over minuscule things, and storming out of the house early, then coming home late in the mornings after work. He would come home and either shower and go straight to bed, or just go straight to bed stating he was tired-no hug, no kiss, nothing-which was totally out of character for him. He stopped texting and calling me from work, and told me not to call, text or come to his work for any reason. He would spend the majority of his time alone in the bedroom while at home, only coming out in time to shower and eat before leaving early for work in the evenings. He kept his phone on him at all times, even taking it to the bathroom. One time in particular, he was in there for a very long time, I knocked at the door, got no answer, knocked again, and nothing. He then came out hiding something behind his back. When I asked what it was, he pulled out his cell phone. He was coming home from work late every morning, and he would smell of perfume, and his jacket was covered in long blonde, coarse hair, to the point where you couldn't miss it if you tried. It looked as if a woman were wearing the coat. He first stated it wasn't there, then said he had a new locker, and and then changed it to, he must have dropped his jacket where everyone else hangs theirs-and I said so, the same pile of long blonde hairs just happened to be lying right where you dropped it right? One morning he came home, and upon walking into the kitchen, the smell of a another woman overtook the whole room. He hung it up and told me he was going to bed, and I was left awake in tears with the aroma of his nights secret escapade. I had to wash the jacket to get the smell out of my home. I did confront him, and I thought it was a specific woman at his shop, because it is a small shop, and she is the only one with long blonde coarse hair. He became very agitated and angry with me. He deleted her from his facebook, and stated he could not believe I would think he had anything to do with her, she is fat, ugly and stupid. They were friends on facebook for over two years prior to me confronting him, and he deleted her within two days of my questioning, later telling me he had deleted her a long time ago. She is quality and he is supervisor at his shop, and I feel like they would be able to carry out an affair without being noticed, because they are not tied to a line of operation, and both can go outside whenever, and it would go unnoticed. He said he deleted her because he realized how stupid she was, and all she does is post selfies (which he did 'like' her selfies while they were friends.) If I bring her up today, he defends her, saying she is a nice person, and that I have no reason to bash her, she has nothing to do with our relationship. He also told me that he told his boss and another coworked about my suspicions, and that during a morning meeting, it was brought up, and everyone was laughing about it. All the supervisors, maintenance men, and who knows who, were in attendance of this meeting. I feel so betrayed. He would spend weekends at home with me and our children, and would wait until Sunday night to shave and put on cologne before work. I had to ask him to wear cologne at home for me.I found his dating profile by accident, as he was linked to zoosk on facebook. When I confronted him, he stated he must have been hacked. When I accessed the phone bill, I saw that numerous calls and texts were coming and going, but I never saw or heard him on the phone. Everything was deleted off his phone, and he stated that the phone company must have something wrong with their system. He threatened to divorce me for looking at the bill. He kept me locked out of his computer \ stating he did not want our children using it, but never gave me the password. I never really cared until all the other stuff started popping up. I found a live webcam app on his phone, which he chalked up to a male coworker must have installed it to "get him in trouble". He never leaves his phone laying around, so I don't believe it, and he stated that he does at work, I honestly do not think a person would do that, as they had nothing to gain from it. He denies having done anything wrong, and says that he thinks this is all in my head, but I feel it is right in front of my face. I have no concrete evidence, just a strong feeling, and a lot of coincidental signs. I am not sure what to believe, any thoughts, and what would you do if this were your situation? Am I over reacting, or do you think he is hiding something? I did go to his shop on three occasions, two of which, he had no idea. I was curious. The first time I went, I saw him come out and get into a car with a woman fitting the description of the one I accused him of cheating on me with. He denied it saying it must have been the maintenance man. I was so shocked, I froze, and was unable to get out of my car to confront them before they pulled out of the parking lot. The second time, I saw him come out and hold the door for her, they went back into the shop, I immediately texted him, and he never responded, he came out 15 minutes later, and said he was in the office playing candy crush and did not see my text come through. I don't know how it works, as I do not play the game. Both times, I let him know I was there after witnessing what I saw, and he was furious-screaming at me in the parking lot. The third time, I told him I was coming, and he was fine, as long as I came at a specific time. I just don't know what to do. I am a full time student trying to better our lives, and I just feel like I am fighting to keep our marriage going, but am doing it alone. He told me that now that it is getting colder, he knows the hair is going to start showing up again (due to wearing the jacket), and that if I fail school, he will divorce me. He then retracted the statement. I feel a bit selfish saying this, but why should I stay if I graduate in that instance? It is infuriating. This is just a mere touch of the surface of our problems.

My husband dated a girl for 2 years until both were 19. She apparently left him without a real reason and moved with her family upstate. They never spoke after that and we married when he 31 and I was 24. A family member of hers who stuck around recently passed and she drove down here for the funeral bringing her 16 year old daughter. We paid our respects and as we left she invited my husband out for a private conversation. Her daughter was in fact his that she had kept secret, believing he couldn't have been a reliable father. Now both my husband and I are unsure on what to do. We are distant towards each other at the moment. Despite him not knowing I feel sort of betrayed. We have a child of our own and this makes me see my husband in such a different light it's hard to want to talk to him some days. What can we do?

I ve been divorced for 6 years now. my ex husband is remarried and hasee a family of his own. His childhood best friend just asked me to date him. He also said he asked my ex for permission before he talked to me about it. He is the opposite of my ex but I feel he is off limit. What should I do?

What should I do? Thanks

The woman's complaint was her husband wasn't there for her and this other guy felt her emotions better and was her soulmate. My Mom says they had an affair and that is why the divorce happened. The ex-husband was crushed and his only flaw was he was so consumed with work and then golf on Sundays that the wife felt alone with the 3 kids. He agreed to counseling but not until after the affair was discovered. This was 6 years ago. Now the woman is with her soulmate. So is this morally wrong or fine if the person is okay with it? I still see my Mom's cousin sometimes but my parents avoid the boyfriend (though we met him once). He apparently has no remorse (the boyfriend).

Me and my husband got together Sep2015 , 2 days after he broke up with his ex who had recently had a miscarriage and also has a rich father The ex won a large sum of money and dropped him off at the bus station and left him. Thats when me and him got together.. he would make it known that he was used to not having to want for anything . and he would feel like crying after we would have sex In his bed room. He didn't throw the picture of her in his wallet away until months later , he wants 2 move back to the exact luxury apartments they used to stay in when we get our tax money, and when we argue he makes hurtful comments about when he met me I was just working at a 7.25 job and I'm very lazy. We got married Aug 2016 , and i had our son Oct 2016 , I can tell he thinks of the child he almost had when he looks at our son, he makes comments like I'm glad I didn't have a darkskin baby by that girl .. I recently found a video of him her having sex, which was dated literally a week before me and him got together. Along with other videos and pictures them (he looks very VERY happy) he sometimes says he is emmbarrsed or ashamed to be with me , and I do my best to ignore it. But every since I saw that video I keep thinking about (which I know is creepy) I have a lot of flaws and I try to be confident but ... I guess my question is does my husband think about his ex , did we move to fast, and if his ex tried to come back in his life will he leave his family for her .

My wife and I separated in August of 2012, while living in California. Because of costly and time consuming divorce requirements, and the fact neither of us intended to remarry, we decided to not file for divorce. However, I now live in another state, where the divorce requirements aren't as detailed. I'm wondering, for legal purposes, would I be wise to file for divorce now?

So I'm starting to look really fat now. I am taking proactive steps to reverse this by eating right and starting up the gym. But tonight she told me she will not post pictures with me whilst I'm fat. So all of her colleagues can see her posing with everyone else but never with me. It's like in her social circles I don't exist. I'm worried about going to her Xmas party and expect she may change her mind so I don't embarrass her. This hurts me deeply because I have always loved her for more than her looks. It seems the world is shallow. I almost cried in the bathroom after being told she doesn't want to be seen with me until I lose weight. She broke the promise of marriage and I think she would know my pain if something happened to her and I said I didn't want photos with her anymore. My heart screams divorce and stop wasting my life. But I'm already 34. She is all I've known since my mid 20s.. Suggestions on how to handle this please. Thankyou everyone. I have decided to go and have a good talk with a counsellor. On Monday I will book in and try to see one this week. Just quietly to discuss my unhappiness and uneasiness. Most importantly, to discuss my uncertainty about finding another partner. I will do it for my own mental health well-being. Oh and it took a bit of complaining to get her to say that she will have some photos with me at her Xmas party next month.

Me and my husband just recently got married and celebrated our 1st year anniversary but we are not living together since I am working in a diffirent country. We have to do some sacrifices in order to achieve our goals in life. I just can't feel he's still into me because he's not that sweet and romantic guy anymore. He often refused sex video chat etc. He just don't want to exert any effort to please me. I am frustrated also because he doesn't have a job there in the country where we got married and he is also very demanding in asking money from me. When I ask him if he still loves me, he will said yes but doesn't took any effort to show it. Thus I feel alone, down, depressed and even easily gets attracted to some nice guy that is completely opposite with my husband's attitude. I don't know what to do...

This isn't a new thing I have to deal with we are married 6 years and by now you'd think I'd be used to it but this time feels different and I'm struggling to deal and not cry knowing he'll be gone. I work in the fashion industry and have done for 8yrs, it has always been my passion but I work incredibly long hours something my H hates but accepts because I love my job and I want to be the same way for him. He leaves on the 14th till Dec 11th so this is my last weekend with him but my boss has told me she needs me to work all day Sat so I only have one full day with him before he goes and I am beyond annoyed about it, I asked if I could swap days with another only to be told that she needs me far more than husband does and that given my crazy schedule I should have thought twice of marrying. I love my job and worked hard to get were I am but I love my husband more and I've thought multiple times about quitting but never follow through because of how hard it was to get where I am. All I want is to be with my H but I feel torn & I don't know how I'll cope. Any opinions/advice guys?

My husband and I are going through a rough patch. We had some friends over and everything was going fine. When the friends were leaving, their son broke a chair when he sat on it, it wasnt a chair to be sat on, but it was truely not on purpose and an accident. My husband walked away with such disguest and disappointment and didnt say goodnight. It was very uncomfortable for me and my friend. Should I be upset or does he have a right to be mad and should I let it go? To me it made them feel like they weren't welcome back

My husband has a friend he once worked with that has personal problems. His friend is obsessed with the mother of his kids, who has dumped him, took the kids, but uses him to pay her bills (while refusing to let him see the kids). He lives out of his vehicle in a store parking lot mostly, and gets fired or quits jobs after 2 days to 2 weeks, usually. My husband got him a job at he quit after a few days saying "the job took him away from his home life and wife"(they were never married and like I said, he hasnt living with her in nearly a year). We have took pity on him, and taken him into our home, fixed him supper, given him advice, etc and today- we realized that he deleted me from Facebook. My husband and I have both asked him not to call or text on the weekends, because my husband's job (truck driver) takes him away from home 5-6 days a week and this friend wants to come over or talk to my husband and the kids and I never see him then. My husband and I have both explained, that his constantly calling and texting creates discord between us and is distracting (I get annoyed). I am not sure if my annoyance at him caused him to unfriend me, or what. But, what can I do to get my husband to stop talking to this loser? Why might he have deleted me? this guy's personal problems (delusions over reconciling with his ex have even prompted my husband and his ex boss to refuse to rehire him, because of "personal problems within his relationship impacting his work performance") the friend also made us fight because he sat in my home and flirted with me and made innuendos in front of my husband at me.

Both me and my husband have Facebook accounts and he sends private messages to his female friends and women he happens to meet. Even if it's an innocent conversation, is this acceptable? Because he's doing it in private so I can't know what they're talking about. One time one of his female friends friends with whom he chats with on Facebook even called him on his phone and he never told me that he had talked to her over the phone. I found out because I saw the phone call registered on his phone and he already has her as a contact. She's a girl he became friends with about 6 months ago, not an old friend that he knew even before we were married. We've been married for 2 years. Should I be concerned?

I love the smell of it and sometimes when its not washed.

Even though i hear some people say that marriage is not a guarantee for free sex 24/7. Now i've two women that want to marry me. One is good looking and loves sex. The second is not that great but she's such a sweetheart.. i can talk with her for hours and dont get annoyed by her. And she is smart n funny. Which one should i choose ?

He was on his computer in the living room, and I went into the kitchen to get a drink and make a sandwich. He asked me from the living what I was doing, so I said I'm eating. I came out about 10 seconds later and I walked up to him and he quickly clicked a small box to show up over what he was looking good at on his computer. On the bottom you can see a disgusting girl getting undressed. I asked him what he was doing and took a hard look at his computer so he knew I knew. He said, nothing. I'm kind of mad he would do that while I'm literally 15 feet away. Ugh why....

My husband & I have been together for 4 yrs. We've been married for 2 yrs. It seems like ever since we gotten married our relationship started going downhill. His family does not like me.. they used to like me but that was before they realised that I wasn't putting up with their drama & bullshit. They are always trying to get my husband hooked up with another woman or keep causing unnecessary drama. We been separated for 3 weeks now. I left him bc his family keeps starting drama. He wont stick up for me or our relationship & i caught him in many lies. He's been ignoring all my calls/texts all day then he will text me at like 3am he will randomly text me sayin that be knows I miss & want him & that I want him to f*ck me. He says that he misses & wants our family to be back together. Well I fell for it a few times & let him come over to my hotel. He said he would bring coco our dog & never did. We enjoyed a nice dinner & a good few hrs of sex. After we got done he said his head was hurting, he needed to lay down & go home. Well he ended up staying with me at my hotel then the next morning he turns his phone on & was in a rush for me to check out & check into my next hotel. He wouldnt even help me w/my luggage inside. As soon as i got my luggage out the car he said he would be back & he just took off without a kiss or anything. I havent seen him since then. He only texts me to say horrible mean things to me or try to get me to let him f*ck me. My heart is broken. I don't know

pls help me im only 8 and i want to do it with a 16 year old is this ok??

Every day, when my husband gets home from work or the gym, he treats me like a foot slave. If I don't agree, he makes our 10 year old son do it, so I always end up doing it. He sits on one end of the couch and stretches out. I sit on the other end under his shoes. I am forced to take off his boots. Then, he puts his sweaty socks up to my face and forces me to smell them. The sweatier his socks, the longer this part is. Then, I have to pull off his socks and put them in my mouth. When I refused in the past, he opened our son's mouth and shoved them in. As I suck on his socks, I have to massage his feet. Once he is satifised, I have to go on all fours on the floor as he puts his feet on me. This usually lasts 30-45mins. When we had company over before, he kept telling me to be his foot slave. His friends thought this was great. Between the 7 of them, I spent 4 hours being a foot slave. At the end, they all put their sweaty feet up on me. I was disgusted. I hate feet. By the end of the night, my back was sore from 14 feet on me. When I told them to stop that it hurt, they would press down harder. Why do I get treated this way? I don't want this to happen to my son. What can I do?