I know someone who is married. Unfortunately they don't have kids yet. The couple had themselves medically checked and it found out that the wife has no problem. It is the husband's sperm that is weak. Added to the problem is that the wife has lumps in her breast that, according to her last check up, could lead to a much complicated situation, like cancer. The doctor advised the couple to work on having a baby, asap. Since it is her life that is at stake, the wife is contemplating on "doing it" with someone else, which, understandably, against the will of the husband. The couple does not have enough money to spend for alternative means. The doctor who advised them to have a baby asap added that it is the best way to get rid of the lumps, naturally.

I am getting a divorce and don't want the house, but my name is on the mortgage. We got married and have only been married for 8 months. It just turned out to be something bad. He has 3 kids and I am perfectly fine with them staying here and me finding another place. I bought the house about 5 months before we got married. How would that work with him keeping the house and me getting my name off the mortgage? Thanks!

He's always so threatning . It makes it so hard to give him visitations. Right now I don't cause I moved to another state. All he dose is mentally abuse me and is I'm going take my daughter away forever attitude .

She is 19 and I am a handsome 52 year old Jewish man. I look good for my age aside from my balding head and look about 15 years younger. She always closes her eyes during sex and refuses to kiss me and acts repulsed. She always talks about her infatuation with male celebrities like Justin Biber and Shane Maleek. Should I dress more like them? Before anyone says she is just a gold digger- that is not true. I am not a rich man. She acted attracted to me when I was visiting her in the Philippines but then as soon as I brought her to Israel and she discovered young hollywood heartthrobs like Justin Beber and Shane Maleek, she lost attraction to me. Could it be because I am Jewish?

she is not into it so i don't do it very often.

Basically, you can't do anything anymore without your wife's permission? What if a guy wanted to climb everest, or spend a month in Japan, or go to Africa to volunteer for a while? What if a guy wanted to buy a PS4 or watch a game at a bar?

I've been happily married for a few years now and have relized that anytime my husband goes down on me I also need him to rub my nipples at the same time or I can not climax. He never complains but I am worried it may be to much at the same time. Am I asking to much of my husband? Do other females need this as well?

An opportunity arose for me and my husband to move in with his demented grandmother (95 years old) who he doesn't have a relationship with. She not only is demented but also sufferes from anger management issues. Out of good intentions, we moved in so that she wouldn't be placed in a nursing home. She has home aides that take care of her in 12 hour shifts while we do the evenings. It's been a long 6 months with ups and downs and from time to time it gets really stressful. I found myself being the one to manage basically everything from managing the team that tend to her case at her recreational center, to the home attendant agency, and the aides that come for their shifts. Plus, making sure bills are paid, errands, maintain the house, laundry, etc., and yet I feel underappreciated. After listing all the things now for the first time of all the things I do which I'm perfectly happy to do, is it wrong for me to expect my husband to step in my defense when she acts up and calls me names and treats me like a servant? He has tried a handful of times, but his excuse is that she will continue to forget and i have to stop putting in so much work. The problem is that I care too much. I don't want him to sound like a cold-hearted person because he absolutely isn't. But I can't help but take it personally when I feel like all the stuff I do for his grandmother is completely overlooked and I'm not acknowledged for all that I do.

I am American and have fallen for someone who is Indian. How do people view other couples who marry/date outside of their culture

as of late me and the wife are not at all getting on fighting all the time so i told her best friend who is also unhappy with her husband and we ended up kissing now were deep into this affair and we both really like each other but i dont want to leave my wife as we have kids and her friend still wants my wife as a friend so is it wrong to be in a secret affair with my wife best friend

So I am a research junkie and studied psychology in school. I don't know everything, but I read an research constantly, whereas he doesn't- he watches sports, researches his nfl draft and that's about it. He gets angry at me sometimes when I know things (I try not to get argue with him or be pushy). Recently it was as simple as me telling him he may not be able to use the phone his aunt gave him because I remembered the way Verizon phones work is different than AT&T. He got all annoyed with me and asked why I don't just trust his word for it "as your husband" and accused me of being a know it all (he was yelling...I wish I were kidding😕) so I let it go and said okay I hope that's not the case and it works. Anyway, I don't think I know "it all" but I do know a good amount thanks to my reading and research. I am open to hearing about things he is knowledgable in. However I'm feeling incompatible because he doesn't seem to have a hunger for learning, as I do and jokes that the book I gave him "feels like homework". I'm starting to feel like he is juvenile in his comments and ways he yells and wants to fight. Is it my fault? Should I just keep my mouth shut and nod?

60 to 70 percent( depending on location) of the divorces. The current marriage and divorce laws speak "fair treatment for both genders" the current "outcome"(the numbers) of these laws show me that divorce laws are "anti male". As a man and strictly going by the numbers why would I risk putting myself in a position that's statistically against me? Numbers don't lie.

Of course somethings are unacceptable, but things like role play, some BDSM, foot fetish, CFNM, deep throat...etc, is it wrong to try them with your lovely spouse!!

My husband (21) and I (20) have been married for 3 years. We have two kids together. But the last 1 has been really hard. He hasn t been able to keep a job for more then a month or 2. We have no money and had to move back in with his mother. I m not happy at all. I ve noticed that I m only happy is when I m out with my mom with or without my kids. But as soon as I come back I m sad again. I don t have a driver license yet so I have to have a ride where I go. All I want is to be happy and know that my kids can have a roof over their heads and food on the table. And not have to live with my mother in law. Should I think about getting a divorce with him or not?

do call your self swinger or that a derogatory term? how do you negotiate boundaries and rules...do openly talk about sex related things?

My wife is friendly with her ex husband even though he's got major issues we won't even go into (basically he's not a good guy and can't even be around his kids unsupervised because of it). My wife is somewhat friendly with him and has even told me she will always love him because he is the father of her kids. She even brags about his career sometimes. She only says good things about him to me, never anything bad. I wish she would have some bad feelings towards her ex considering the things he has done but she does not and whenever I question her about him she gets mad and says I always make her feel like she's done something wrong and I make her feel bad. Is it wrong for me to be resentful towards my wife because of this?

For an April fools joke, I texted my husband prentending to be one of his ex friend. I knew he always liked her, but they stopped talking 2 months before we got married. I thought it would be a simple conversation as "how you been and I am married now" but instead he started flirting and asked her out for breakfast and lunch. Then he lies to me and deleted the text messages. He doesn't even tell her he is married and lies that he is with his brother. I know he won't cheat on me but he just lied to me. I don't know what to do now.

I've been married for the since 2012. I thought me and my wife are happy in the marriage despite the occasional arguments that are solved moments after. However, a few days ago, she admitted to me that she fell out of love because of years of neglect due to my busy schedule and I have failed to lend her my ears whenever she tries to communicate. Looking back, I think she is right. I thought I was loving and giving her my attention wholly but recalling everything, its the opposite. She demanded that we separate and that the next time we should talk, it should be about separation. I don't agree with this and I am constantly wooing her ever since she admitted her feelings. There was point when she said, recently, that I am suffocating her. Should I let her heal first before pursuing her again? She is a faithful wife and there are no third parties involved, so far. I didn't paid much attention to her when she tried to communicate her feelings to me and now I feel so guilty that its killing me that all I wish now is for her to forgive me and give me a chance to make up for all of my shortcomings.

So im married to a "preacher" who is the biggest LIER and manipulator that's ever graced a pulpit. I'm 26 and he's 42. He has 2 other children, He's on child support, and he does nothing for them. We got married because I was pregnant and he was also lying to people about how far I was in my pregnancy to make it seem as if my son was conceived in the realm of marriage. Since we've been married, we never lived together. He doesn't even have a home. He lives with a relative. After my son was born, he provided for him but as soon as things started going south, he stopped. He has been emotionally and physically abusive to me the entire relationship and for my sake and my son's sake, I filed for an Absolute divorce. He doesn't give me diapers, wipes, clothes, etc for him. He doesn't call much to see how He's doing but when he does, it's 9:30-10:00 at night. With that, he says that he wants to see him that night....that late at night! I ask him why so late, I'm not bringing him out in the cold because he won't come to my house for whatever reason. When I tell him no, let's schedule this during the day, he gets mad and says that I'm keeping him away from him. Now, He's filing for joint custody! He says I'm making it difficult and I'm not! I don't have a problem with him seeing his son, just not at those crazy hours in the middle of the night. What should I do? He doesn't deserve joint custody. I'm in NC. Thank you so much.

Hello i'm thinking of moving up to Pennsylvania for a new start ,there's work there i'm in Florida making 8.21 per hour and some work there i can get 10.00 hr more per hour rent is still cheap..thing is i'm married but my wife is not well i dont love her enough to stay married i would try to help her out i need to move here now by myself then maybe later send for her , medicaid here in Florida is crap and i cant make more then she makes with her SSI but if we move we can get divorced and live together and make 3 times the amount, i'm starting a small business as well, i'm miserable in Florida and her family wants to block me from moving , my daughter says i need to stay here until my wife is better ...she will never be better ,daughter says i have to take care of her until she gets a job ..she is 24 ????? You have no idea ...she has cheated on me she does nothing at all !!! i am mentally strained

It would ruin me and break up my business that i have spent the last 12 years building from nothing. We married 15 years ago while I was still a grad student. she has no education and just spends the income from my company. She does not even know where the office is, or the properties I own are, or the employees. are there any ways i can protect myself from this witch and save my company from her. She was from a welathy family but never did anyhting. she dropped out of school to try to be an actress and then married me. for the first twp years she paid the bills until I graduated and quit my job to start this business. it became profitable within 6 moths and since then she refers to it as hers, as something she built. she does not even know how it works. I have taken most of the income form it and invested it through a trust but the attorney i spoke t said that she could come after half the business, and then it would be finished. I have 32 employees with familes who depend on this company some people are wrong here. sjhe never put me through school, and I paid for my expenses. I just moved into her house..actually an apartment her father had bought her after we married. I lived with room mates at the time. also we never agreed to share anything. she made me sign a prenup so that i would never get any of her families wealth, written by her fathers attorney. they dont have much wealth anymore. At the time I had no wealth. Her father died in 2005 of cancer, and her mother got most of his wealth. Her mom has lived lavishly, beyond her means and lost over half the money when the economy crashed. She refused to cut back her lifestyle and now she has been forced to sell much of it. I kept myself cash strong and debt free during those years, and when the market crashed i was able tp expand my business tremendously

So long story short. I'm married with two little boys were a young couple 26 we both have our professions my husband a paramedic and I'm enrolled agent.we both have a decent jobs but still struggling finacialy. So my mom got offered a job in dallas Texas we live in a small town city in Florida. She wants to go but would not leave without us and the grandkids. So she offered us I guess a deal and told us that if we go with you her would rent a big house and pay out Bill's for a year and we could safe. So we thought about it my husband is not to happy about having to leave his job but we said Yesss. So we leave in 2 months. I had to move in with her for these 2 months bc my lease was up. Well now actually living with her before leaving I don't see her soo happy anymore she acts annoyed with us and sometimes it seems she can't stand the kids. I thought being close with her would be good for her ashes gone through a hard time with my younger brother ending job in prison. But honeslty i don't see her being or wanting to live with is for a whole year and if doing out that her and her friend have a secreat romance. So now I feel use. She really doesn't want me to go she just wants me there in case of the questions people will have if she leaves there with her friend. We both have good jobs I don't know if its worth it. Is it bad to back off now.

Shes always looking in my phone and snooping, I never got in hers till the other day and saw that shes having an affair.She demanded her phone back but i wasn't through reading. She said "Fine" and lunged at me. We were both going for the phone and I have heart/respiratory issues and couldn't catch my breath.She was hitting and scratching face so I just pinned her down til i could breath.She kept on hitting me and I told her to stop. She didn't. I says "You got about 20 free shots to my face next time you do it I'm hitting back. She hit me and I hit her back.She got a black eye and ive not seen her in 5 days. Should I not have hit her? I just had enough

Is it bad to tell yor spouse that you will always love your ex because he's the father of your kids even though your ex might have some issues regarding pedophilia?

Would you be friendly with your ex husband and father of your children if he had issues with child pornography? Would you be proud of him and his career accomplishments and brag about him to your current spouse and would you be on friendly joking terms with him?

I and my husband were trying to conceive a child for man years, I didn't want to hit the age of 35 and feel like an older mother so I asked my gay friend to give me his sperm. He was happy to provide I and my husband a child and we kept it secret. To my delight I give birth to twins. My husband was recently told he was infertile and his parents accused me of having an affair saying their grandchildren didn't look like my husband and then my husband cut contact with them after defending me. I feel terrible. Now my friend who provided me with children is coming over for the weekend, he said he needed a place to stay on our skype call and my husband offered him our guest room. I'm really worried in case my husband sees any similarities between my friend and my children.