I want to say that I'm coming to Yahoo Answers to ask this simply because I feel I cannot confide in friends or family about this situation. My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We are together every day, fall asleep on webcam together every night, and he treats me better than I even thought was possible. I have a background of getting cheated on and hurt. He was raised in a very strict Christian family, strict as in: couldn't watch porn, had little to no friends, only ever had one girlfriend. I was the one he lost his virginity to. Up until about 2 and a half months in or so, I completely had full trust in him with everything he said. He told me that he never gawked at women, however on his twitter he was following tons of dirty accounts. I blew it off because, well, I feel that's a common thing for guys at any age (he's 18.) Prior to this, one time we were on his Facebook account when we were both at his computer and he had no weird messages. He had very few, one from a girl from a long time ago, but I didn't care. I did do something wrong. One day, I was playing with his phone and was on his Facebook. I checked his messages and saw all of them except for his brother's deleted. I have a horrible gut feeling, and he's REALLY defensive over this particular thing. I can't get over it and have no idea why. It feels like intuition but I have bad insecurity issues. Should I be worried if there are no other signs? Just thing one thing that doesn't seem right?

I am a freshman at college and commute from home. I work at a major retail store near my house. I'm a sales team member, so I get judged by how much revenue I bring in for the store. There's this super nice girl (who reminds me of my crush sooo much... And they even have the same name lol). Long story short, she always says hi to me and recently she has been giving me credit for the sales that she rings up. (She doesn't get judged by her revenue... ). She also always smiles at me! :) She is a few years older (still a college student though). And I know she has a boyfriend. Why is she doing this. She doesn't do it to anyone else. Btw. Even before she started doing this I was #1 in terms of revenue in my department, so its not like she is doing it to save my job lol. I was also employe

Me and this guy have been hanging out for a while. We like each other even though we're not "an item". We've never been too heavy on the messaging but today we kissed and idk I just want to talk to him but idk if it's weird to text him even though I just saw him like 3 hours ago. Does it seem desperate or needy? Thanks

Do guys admit that the like a girl to their friends? And if the girls friend asks, would the guy be honest?

My best friend and her boyfriend for a year and 8 months now. She was waitress at this fancy island themed restaurant. My best friend is very curvy and attractive. She has a beautiful shape. So, the minute he saw her, she became very flirtatious. I thought that she wasn't going to give him the time of the day because for a minute, she wasn't saying much to him. She would just smile. But then I find it was because she was waiting for him to turn 18, because he was only 17 and his birthday was coming up around the time they met. About 1 month later, They starting eating together at the place that we worked and then as months went on. He starts coming to our apartment at he time and she'd go to his, He lived with his family but their complex wasn't too far from ours. Then about the start of this summer, They move into their own apartment. She claims its because they want to have late night sex when it's raining and not disturb me. I think he is rude. I often hear him mumbling curse words under his breath and huffing and puffing when someone asks a simple question nicely,like "Can you please take off your hat." He got mart with her Father one time saying, "I wanna know why you don't like me. I've been wanting to know..." All rude. My best friend forgot who I even was. If we make plans, she cancels them because something came up with him. When I see them kiss (a lot) It kind of hurts my feelings. It's just ridiculous.

How would you feel if your texts weren't responded to for days then over a week...but then once they get back to you they want you to be close. How would you react to that?

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So I really liked this girl a lot and she like me back.I still like her, but I do not know if she does anymore. I met her two years ago, back then we talked a lot as friends, but I was too shy to ask her out on a date. After a while I think she gave up on me and thought that I did not like her, so she just hinted to me that she did not want a relationship. After that, we talked occasionally, like once every month. We stayed friends though. Now, we have been talking, she invited me to a couple of events, to some parties she threw. We have mutual friends, her and I were both invited to their place one time, I went there and left early. the next day my friend told me that she got upset because I left before she came. Weeks later, I have been told that she got upset again because I left a party without saying bye to her. Such signs indicate that she likes me, but they could be false alarms too! I do not know what to do. Should I ask our mutual friends? or should I just talk to her myself? I do not want things to be akward between us, I want to be friends with her even if it turns out that she does not have a thing for me.

its annoying me because every dude i say is cute she always be like call him over here.i am not that type to approach dudes first they got to approach me. The thing is that she always feels like she needs a boy to make her happy, and me i am looking for a NFL, NBA, a guy in the military, or a doctor not a thug or hood boy. Help me out!

I am too young to date but I want to be his friend at least. (Who cares about friend zone!) We hang out at school a bit, but not a lot of the time. One of his friends has a crush on me but I just want to be his friend (Don't say get with him please) He is much nicer to me then all of the other girls but is still not SUPER nice. We are going to middle school next year (I know I am too young to like him but whatever) I only have 4 weeks until we never see eachother again! :'( What can I do?

I'm in eighth grade and there is this girl I like. I really like her. We were dating a while back but she broke up with me and I got really mad and we got into arguments. But I cooled off and now I want to get her back but she hates me now, because I acted like a jerk after the break up. What can I do to get her to be my gf again or at least my friend. (our only contact now is DM on instagram) PLZ HELP

Okay so i'm 14 and my neighbor David moved in about 2-3 years ago (we don't go to the same school) and we have known each other ever since then but we just started hanging out over the summer. It stared kinda small, David invited me and my friend Kendall (who was at my house that day) over to have a fire in his back yard with some of his friends. that was the first time we actually hung out. Then like that night he asked for my number and we like started texting and we just casually hung out a few times like it his house or mine and whenever we like go meet up with some of his friends they always tease him about me like when his friends are joking around and kinda being ***** he always stands up for me and tells them to stop, they always tease him about standing up for me and its really funny lol. Anyways, like a couple weeks ago we went to a haunted house just the two of us and like he payed for me and it was super cute then when it was over he walked me to my house and he gave me a hug and he's just so sweet to me. Does it sound like he likes me? Does he like me?

You see there's this girl I've known since high school and were now in college (im a sophomore she's a freshman) the difference between now in high school is, that my 3 years knowing her we never really interacted.. Not until this past week that is. I don't want to wait too long because 1) that's dishonest and 2) That can result in friend zoning. Should I do it really soon? By the way I work at Dave and busters and I think its the perfect to take her their

He does it almost everyday. He comes here, sleeps the WHOLE time, then goes goes home at like midnight and stays up all night. He's not even spending time with me if he's just sleeping the whole time. Why can't he hang out with me while he's here and THEN sleep at home like a normal person? It makes me wonder what's so important at home that he sleeps here to stay up to do whatever at home? Sorry if that was confusing... lol

He sits with me and we talk and laugh. Once our friend sat next to me and my crush told him "she said she wants me to sit next to her not you" When he sits next to me it s hard to get out so I ask him to move but he tells me to just climb over him but I don t. When class ends he waits for me to walk with him. Once he poked my thigh and I told him don t touch me but he still did. He looks at me in the mornings and in lunch. I have a boy best friend and my crush asked me if I dated him. Once he walked in my class and kinda looked for me. I think it was to see me but it was maybe for his friend. He told me I make all my pants look tight and not many girls can do I thought he was calling me fat but he said its a good thing. He always asks me if I m gay or straight and that s something I keep to myself because i feel like it shouldn t matter (I m straight) so I tell him that and he still asks me if I m gay or straight. When we text he finds ways to make the conversation last longer and sends 3 messages at once. He notices the small things like when I get my eyebrows done lol He offered me his jacket and let me use it next class. his friend used to like me and called me pretty and he asked my crush if he thought I was pretty and my crush said "she s alright":( I think he could never like me. He s a 12 and I m a 3and someone as attractive as him couldnt like me :/ Do you think he likes me? His birthday is tomorrow should I tell him happy birthday at 12:00 or in the afternoon?

Do you think they are (for the girl)

I really don't get it. My daughter's father and I have been getting together a lot recently but he does have a girlfriend. He has told me that he really wants me though and not her and that he will break up with her when the time is right but it's been a month and he still hasn't done it. But he says that he loves me and even gave me a necklace recently. So I don't get what's going on. Does he want me back or is he just lying to me?

If you are flirting dirty talking with a guy and you know he has a girlfriend are you the one that's cheating

So there's this boy who I've gone to school w for 3 yrs and he's SUPER hot and sweet but he's REALLY shy. It started the middle of last yr when things starting getting weird like when I walked in the room and he was there ppl would laugh or whisper and he would turn rly red and embarrassed. A few months later he asked me to slow dance & then one of my best friends told me that the entire grade was aware he had a huge crush on me. Anyway after that things got really awkward. Like he started avoiding me in the halls and we never talked (even tho we didn't talk all that much in the first place). Now it's a year later and literally EVERYONE in all of the grades in my entire town seem to know about our "thing". Since he's literally the most sought after guy in my town (literally girls 4 yrs younger than him and 4 yrs older r obsessed w him) wherever I go ppl seem to glare at me... They're always like "is that the girl *(I'm not using names for obvi reasons) likes?" Or "why do he like HER?!" and my bff even overheard a couple mean girls in my grade plotting to like blackmail me into telling him I don't like him...? So I'm a little worried. But I REALLY like him and I want to show him I like him and mayb get a relationship going but he's so shy and we never talk :( I'm also worried he's gonna end up w some other older girl if I don't make a move soon... I'm also a little concerned about my safety tbh

I'm suddenly cμmming this much in one ejaculation and still staying hard afterward for the next round.

My best guy friend asked me to wear a low-cut tank top and a specific bra... He told me I could ask him to do something too if I wanted. What can I ask him to do that would be similar to what he asked me?

So my fiance and I had a 3sum and she had sex with the guy twice when I was at work we laid ground rules saying it s cheating if im not ther she says she is sorry and Idk if she would have told me if I didn t catch them cuddling one day when I came home early I knew he was over at our house because he was there when I left (my best friend) oh and we have a kid together

We are both in college and the girl i have a crush on is in two of my classes; biology and chemistry. I am usually shy around girls and the first few weeks we hardly talked let alone acknowledged each others existence but after my bio midterm i went up to her and used my chemistry test as an excuse to start talking to her and maybe get to know her a little. Before she used to sit on the other side but after we started talking she changed seats and sits next to me now. I have caught her occasionaly staring at me before she changed seats as well and even now she will stare at me sometimes during class. We also have a lot in common and get along really well and ive noticed that she sometimes avoids eye contact although she does try to maintain it for as long as she can before looking away. Also if i ever miss class she always sends me her notes without me even asking and i have noticed that im the only guy she talks to as well in class sincr she told me herself that she is shy/socially awkward sometimes but around me she is oretty talkative whereas she mostly blows off other guys who try to talk to her, mostly has really shirt conversations with them whereas we talk for ages. Also she oretty much laughs at almost everything i say whether its funny or not. The only reason i am hesitant to ask her out right now is that she has my number but she never texts me and i always have to. Sometimes she replies instantly while other times she takes a while but we dont talk much through text, even i prefer talkung face to face but i am not sure she could be the same or maybe not interested.

I m turning 21 soon (just so y all don t think I m a freshman in high school crying over little boys) and I m abstinent until a relationship. I ve been told by two people today that I will not find a relationship with someone if I do not want to have sex with them before said relationship is officially established. Is this true? Will guys not ask me to be their girlfriend if we didn t have sex beforehand?

Okay, so here's the details. I dated him for almost two years. When we first got together we were so perfect for each other in every way possible. Well, about half a year down the road my relationship with my parents became borderline emotionally abusive because they couldn't stand my ex and started forbidding that I saw him which put a lot of strain on our relationship. My parents and I were always super close so this really messed me up mentally. Eventually him and I got an apartment together so I could be with him without my parents interfering. At first it was completely fine living together. Then reality began to sink in to me that I lost my entire family. He worked all the time and I spent a lot of nights by myself. I had nobody to really talk to, and I started becoming depressed. I began cutting myself and my life truly took a turn For the worst. I have never been so low in my life like I was at that time period. Well, here's the thing. Being that my ex was the only person I had to talk to, I expected him to drop everything for me and be there 24/7 each time I broke down. Physically he wasnt able to do that which led to lots and lots of fights and stress in our relationship. Eventually, one of my coworkers had began talking to me, saying he noticed the cuts on my arms and expressed his desire to help me. So we became close. I always knew he kinda liked me, but I made it known I was taken and I loved my boyfriend so no boundaries were crossed. That is until one night I decided to get drunk and send him a racy photo. Now, this picture wasnt "graphic" so to speak, but I had on an oversized flannel shirt that I only wore a bra underneath. The only thing that could have been considered bad was the massive amount of cleavage. And I admit it was completely wrong of me to do what I did. I shouldn't have gone looking for attention elsewhere, but sadly I wanted to be told I was pretty. So I caved in. This situation happened about ten months into my relationship with my ex. He found out about nine months after the situation had happened. He told me at first when he found out he would attempt to forgive me and move on from it but eventually he came to me and said he needed time away to forgive me truly. Him and I have been separated for about two months now. He promised me the day we broke up that he wouldn't rule out getting back into a relationship with me. Well, now at this point, every time I see him he's all cuddles and affection towards me. So I thought it would be wise to ask him for my second chance now. He's finally agreed to consider getting back together with me. He's giving me a night to sit and talk with him and by the end of our talk I have to have him convinced I deserve another chance now. How can I convince him that I want to make up for my mistake?

I think I honestly can tell. I usually know but something is engrained in me to take extra precautions with girls idk why but I take a long time to come around to a decision. In this case were seniors in hs and we've been friends since 9th grade and pretty much we've been close friends. It seems like she wants to be around me. Everyday I have music tech 2nd period and she's always there in like the last 10minutes. She always comes to me to deal with her issues but when we talk the conversation always focuses around me. She gets jealous. She made a club and wanted me to come so I was really going to and something came up so I wound up bejng coerced to audition for a show by my friend. Now she constantly says oh your friend is more important than me and **** like that. She calls me a beautiful person and an awesome human being her words regardless. She talks to me about anything. These may seem pretty clear but I always look at the situation and think oh she could be doing this to someone else. She even talks about guys she finds attractive. Even today we were talking about prom and she was like you should take (blank). I just don't get it. We've talked about everything under the sun. Last year she brought up porn to me while we were texting. I think this I probably a friend zone situation though

I originally had an Instagram(but I was inactive on it because I just used it to look at celebrities and funny posts) so I used it to dm my bf to see if he really likes me. I made the account all "usual high school girl" and just said hey to him so far and he hasn't responded. I'm doing this because something happened and I want to see if he's as committed to him as I am. I've asked him but I'm still unsure. I know it sounds weird, but I just want to see if he flirts back with some girl because she's pretty. What do you think about this? My friends said it sounded good, but I kinda feel bad about it. Then again, he did something that made me doubt our relationship. I just don't know. Any thoughts or advice?

So there is this guy i really like. I heard he liked me last summer and then this year we had math together. Everyone has been shipping us and I pretend to be annoyed, although it doesn't seem like he minds. anyways, I'm not sure if he still likes me which really sucks :( I mean I always catch him staring at me and like he acts super shy around me.. But my friends say he stares at them toooo.... Also, one of his other friends started to like me recently cause we started to talk. I really don't like his friend at ll and i was scared that the guy i liked would find out his friend liked me and then he wouldn't like me back. and my friend just told me that the guy i like knows his friend likes me... I just really want the guy i like to like me back, not his friend. Do you think there is any chance that the guy i like likes me too?

He hardly ever washes his clothes and he has been wearing his dirty work uniform for the past four days without washing it because the others are dirty too. He always smells because he doesn't buy deodorant until like 3 days after running out. He also rarely showers. He was so clean when he lived at home. I love him so much, and I don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him he stinks. What should I do?

I met this girl at the mall Last Thursday night and I got her number. I texted her the following day and she replied. Since then we have kept up a consistent texting conversation. However it takes her until the evening after the previous evening to respond. She mentions working and studying a lot. I also asked her to hang out and she said " I'll let you know". Is she interested in me?

I met her at the mall last Thursday. I texted her the following day and she replied. Since then we have been texting. When she responds, she apologizes for being busy. And when I asked her to hang out she said " I ll let you know". Does she like me?

There's this guy that's in all of my classes. We're not really friends, but he does tease me playfully about my name and stuff, and I can catch him looking at me. Sometimes out the corner of my eye. I gained feelings for him a little bit after the beginning of the school year, and I don't know what to do. I'm not even sure if he likes me. I'm pretty shy and quiet, everyone thinks I'm mute or something. It's hard to put myself out there. Should I just try to get over him? How can I do that? Thanks :D

okay... so there's this girl at school and we are just normal friends ya know... and we started sitting by each other on the bus and started talking like every day... and she started hugging me when she got off and stuff. well stuff started to escalate and then for a couple days she would kiss me on the cheek and then hug me.. and then one day on the bus she sat on my lap, sorta playfully... and she let me grab her butt a bunch of times, and she showed signs that she liked it. keep in mind we are not dating (I'm not allowed to date because I'm Muslim, even though I'm a guy -.-) and I don't think she like likes me. after a month things kinda died down and we kinda talk now but not much.help?

-we hold hands -hug each other for a long time -he protects me -he kissed my forehead -gave me his sweater -I sat on his lap -and of course very sweet (: But we aren't dating!? I want to be more than friends but I'm afraid to ask him. So what are we??

People tell me he does, but I don't know... In English we all got assigned people to do projects on and me and this person's people are married, and he makes jokes about it and asks "why I cheated on him and he gave me his love"... he compliments me on my hair and things like that but I really don't know what to think...

I'm a 14 year old boy and when I cup my balls with my hand, they fill a little less then one handful.