Family: Question: What should I do if my dad stole 420 dollars from me? I am 18, and I am finishing up high school. I live with dad, but I earned the money?

Question: What should I do if my dad stole 420 dollars from me? I am 18, and I am finishing up high school. I live with dad, but I earned the money?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 01:34 PM PST

Question: Girls mature question?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 01:34 PM PST

I was at school with this gorgeous girl. We barely talked and she had plenty time to do something back then. We now graduated and she barely added me on ig. She's liked lots of my selfies and has liked me meme post such as one that say's "i need a babe and at the same time i don't need a babe". One time she even said "Happy bday and hey we should take out our cars soon and wow i like your new exhaust *in love emoji face*". This second time she bought a new car (car girl fan) and she was trying to get me to drink beer with her to celebrate her new car purchase. I had many gfs in the past so i'm not ugly. Does this girl like me or is she just being friendly? She's friends with my guy friends and when they asked her about me she said "he's a cool guy"

Question: How can i cope?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 01:22 PM PST

No rude responses please I just need some help and some good positive responses. Anyways You know Christmas time is coming up anyways i asked my mom and dad could they get me a galaxy s6 edge plus which all my family members and i got into a huge argument on how they cannot afford it anyways i got really upset and left because of that fight. Anyways i was wondering even if i didn't get it how can i learn how to be grateful for the stuff i get? I don't understand how people do it how did you do it? Like if you're parents couldn't afford it and they said no.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 01:14 PM PST

So I moved to my mom and stepdads house about two years ago so that I could get away from my abusive father. I thought moving here was going to mean that I would have a permanent home until I was eighteen, but I was wrong, my mom and stepdad got a divorce and my he is making us move out of the house. He hasn't set a specific date yet, but my mother has been seeing this other guy and my stepdad isn't happy about it so he told me if she kept seeing him he will set a date to when we have to leave. I am very scared about this because my mother is unfit to take care of me on her own. She has a history of abusing her prescription medication, she can't financially support me because she doesn't know how to handle money, she is in thousands of dollars in debt, she has a bad habit of hanging around people who do drugs in hopes of "fixing them", yeah sure that's why, and I truly believe she cannot provide for me and keep me in a safe environment. I cannot/will not go back and live with my father, I'm not very close to any of my family members and I can't live with any of my siblings because two are in jail and one lives on campus at their uni. I don't feel safe living with my mom, but I don't have anywhere else to go. Can anyone give me advice on what I can do about this? I'm 15 by the way.

Question: I have no friends or family?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 01:10 PM PST

I have a stable relationship. I put myself through college, and I'm financially responsible. I have many people around me speaking to me like I'm a loser. I am terrible at speaking softly and extremely blunt. I try my best to learn to be calm and always know what to say, but no matter how much I prepare, on the spot, I speak too bluntly, and I don't like people who look down on me or judge me when they don't know me, so I ended up losing/cutting off all my friends and family. I feel so depressed, but when I welcome those people back in my life, they oversteps their boundaries and they only look at my life or listen to me as if they are just looking for something to use it against me to make fun of me. Why are people so judgmental and thinks whatever the glimpse they had about you is all there is, and think they know everything about you, and feel entitled to judge you and criticize, make fun of you, or give you advice.

Question: Is being responsible apart of being mature?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:58 PM PST

My sister is one year older than me and ALWAYS argues. I feel like punching her in the face because she is so STUPID. She was eating on the sofa when my mom wasn't home and I told her that she can't do that. Then, she said I'm such a snitch. And then I said , yea I'm going to tell on you but you wouldn't even be eating on the sofa if you were mature. You have to be responsible. She said NO THAT IS SO DUMB, JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE MATIRE DOESNT MEAN YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE. Now I want to slap a good comeback right on her face. She's so weird... Wish she wasn't even my sister . **I mean to say MATURE instead of MATIRE I'm 14 and she's 15 And my mom tells me to keep an eye on her because my sister is not very trusting.

Question: I'm 16 a female and have a dirty mind.?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:56 PM PST

Question: Why does my grandmother keep buying into bullshït?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:48 PM PST

She just sent my brother and I this link about how drugs (including marijuana) cause or make mental illness worse. We both smoke. I've been smoking for 5-6 years now and it started out just for fun but now I am more serious about it and buy different types and know what strain I get and I go to a dispensary. I was in a car accident and broke my back and damaged my spinal cord. It helps me feel so much better, from curbing my migraines I get from my TBI I suffered, the chronic nausea from the TBI, my back pain, spasms, my anxiety. She keeps sending me links from random websites with zero credibility, spouting reefer madness. It's like we talk, have great discussions about how it's a much better alternative to being on narcotics and it's one medication that takes care of multiple issues. About the major benefits etc. Then she simply goes online and somehow finds the dumbest articles. Help?

Question: My mom gives me dirty looks when I hold my baby sister?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:39 PM PST

And then she gets mad at me when I tell her she's giving me dirty looks and she denies giving them. Why is she giving me these looks and then getting mad at me?

Question: Where should I put this letter to my parents?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:27 PM PST

I ve been depressed for a pretty long time and I ve finally decided that I need to tell my parents. But I can t tell them face-to-face because I just get to uncomfortable. So, I wrote this letter to them explaining everything and the only problem is that I don t know where I should put it. They need to read it when I m not around and I won t be back home for a while (like school), so they won t press me about it and actually think about what to do. Both of them have jobs and leave in the morning at the same time I do.

Question: How can I save $5,000 before August 2016?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:25 PM PST

I have two jobs. I get paid biweekly around 350. Should I get another job? I have a lot of stress going on. I just want to get out of this abusive emotionally controlling home. I'm 20. Have no license (I'm working on that please don't judge) I have no family either. I cry when I get home after working around 12 hours a day (some days). I currently have around $550 in my savings. All the help and advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank You. If you have stupid comments and remarks please keep them to yourself. I've been manipulated and controlled my whole life to the point where I can't even to a place without my dad harassing me on the phone and making me feel guilty all the time..I don't need anymore negative comments. THANK YOU.

Question: How to cheer my mom up?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:22 PM PST

So I don't know what to do because my mom is really really upset. She was fine until she started cleaning and then she got all mad at me and my sisters and my dad and told us to clean up and she was just in a really bad mood. After a while I did what she asked but she like freaked out on everyone and started crying and saying that all she does is clean and none of us do anything and then she stomped off. I went in there and tried to hug her but she was still mad and didn't hug me back. I said "I'm sorry." And she just said ok but you could tell it was just to shut me up. I said that I will do anything that she needs me to. I said I will do anything to cheer her up. She said "Everything's already done" and that its just going to be another "shi*ty day" and I said mom it's only 1:00, lets turn it around and she just said no. I asked again what I could do and she said go away and let me be alone. I did what she asked but idk what I should do. This is our last day of thanksgiving break and I just want to enjoy it with my family. What should I do?

Question: What should I do in this situation?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:14 PM PST

My family is crazy My dad is a physco angry person, no one ever understands him, not even me, and I try to understand everyone. Btw he live in NYC and me and my mom live in Fl The rest of my family basically aren't really family to me. I'm forced to live with this because I'm 16 (male) What do I do my family is so irresponsible, I have more common sense. Please help Ok so right now I'm living with my mom(in FL), she kind of is unstable right now, emotional, mentally, and physically. She tends to turn to alcohol with her problems. She lost her job because of drinking. Now my question is should I give my mom a break for her to realize what she's doing by moving to my dads(in NY) or should I stay and do what??

Question: Is my dad a abnormal parent for taking me to a shisha bar?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:08 PM PST

I mentioned wanting to do it a couple times so he took me. And I realized shisha is nasty as hell. I mean the pens are OK but the big pipes are nasty and stink. Anyways my grandma (moms mom) called him abnormal and irresponsible and weird LOL. Is it true?? I was pretty surpirawd he took me. He took me to Amsterdam red light district recently too. I don't know what's going on with him

Question: Dad acts annoying and is unemployed?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 12:04 PM PST

M dad always eats loudly, making slurping noises and noises with his mouth. He is unemployed and always watches idiotic videos on YouTube very loudly which were most likely videos designed for kids. It annoys me a lot during holidays when I'm at home because I can't get my peace and quiet when trying to study or do my homework. I can hear the laptop 3-4 rooms away even with the door shut. How can I control this habit of playing videos VERY LOUDLY and get them to do something more productive? Note: My mom is usually at work during the weekends. My dad does not always acts annoying, but his behavior is very weird like not allowing me to cook my own food and yells at me for that. He says that I try to make arguments too sometimes.

Question: How can i put this into words?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:59 AM PST

So being around people makes me very uncomfortable and my parents know this. However they are part of a motorcycle club and they often throw get together at our house. Usually i throw a fit but i ve come to realize that they let me stay home when i dont want to go somewhere so i wanted to somehow thank my my parents and sort of apologize but I m not too sure how?

Question: I m sick of my life I can t buy anything I want?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:41 AM PST

OK so I m 15 and I can t buy anything I want. I get sallery but it s not enough I spend it mostly at food. And like I need new shoes and clothes they tell me to buy it my own money. Like in supermarket like Walmart I want to buy cereal they refuse because they think it s expensive. I m sick of it I can t do anything or buy anything. And when I complain he said I should live with it if it wasn t for him I won t be having money right now

Question: How do I forgive my mother for never letting me see my brother as a kid because he had drug problems?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:39 AM PST

I want to forgive my mother but I feel so guilty all these years later that I was 15 before I could see my older half-brother. At age 7 my parents stopped letting me see him as my mother (his step-mother) couldn't stand his drug addiction. She was very bitter about him and insulted him nonstop. She got mad at any family member that would try to stick up for him and say things like "he is reckless with drugs but still family". She says she was protecting her two kids (my own brother and I) but I feel her anger was the main issue as he was never violent so there was no danger to us as long we weren't alone with him. So my question is this, how can I get past this as I want to as my mother was wrong on this but good in so many other ways. How can I train my brain to forgive her? I am now very close to the half-brother and he is no longer using drugs. However, I have a fear he thinks less of me having not seen me as a kid but he knew his mother's kids from her 2nd marriage (my Dad's ex wife).

Question: I'm 12 and my Dad is on my page to moving in with my aunt but I need help to convince my mom ......help?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:38 AM PST

Question: How should I deal with this situation?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:34 AM PST

Everytime my extended family gets together, I'm always the family babysitter. I am almost eighteen years old and it's so annoying. I have a five year old cousin and she acts like such a little brat. She'll go into my room, take stuff that isn't hers, call me her maid, sometimes hit me if I say no, etc. And her parents, who are my aunt and uncle, don't make her mind because they're too busy drinking with the whole family to give a ****. I talk to my mom about this all the time because we have family get together s quite often, especially in the summer and now that it's getting close to the holidays then their are a couple parties that we have. I just get so frustrated because I can't sit and hangout with the adults. I have to sit and play with little kids, it's the most annoying thing ever. The five year old cousin also grabs whatever shirt I'm wearing and bosses me around. I'm kind of shy and I know if I yell at her, her parents will be pissed. I find it so ridiculous. I feel like saying, if you can't control your kids then don't have any. I know that will start a huge fight though. Am I over reacting and if not, what should I do? I kind of feel like leaving for the christmas party....

Question: Advice about how to deal with a rude family member?? Is it abuse?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:28 AM PST

My grandmother drives me absolutely crazy. I live with her, my mom and my grandpa. She calls me horrible names, says I'm lazy constantly (I do sports everyday, yeah my grades are dropping to b's , and some c's but I'm trying, I spend a lot of time in my room, I've never gotten in trouble or done anything bad), says I'm a disappointment, blackmails me to do what she wants, threatens to slap me if I don't do what she wants (thought she's never got physical), calls me stupid, always plays the victim. If I try to defend my self to her, she just so gets meaner. In public she is nice anday acts like she's perfect. My mom doesn't have much money so my grandmother is the one who buys me food and takes me most places. And she never let's me forget it. She says her life would be better if she didn't have to drag my **** everywhere. She makes me cry and has not once apologozed. I'm going crazy. I cannot stand to live here anymore ( I'm a 15 female). I'm tired of being treated like ****. My other family members see this and don't stick up for me and just tell me not to take it personally. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells at my house or she might explode. I'm so tired of this. I also feel very depressed and I have low self esteem and she just makes it worse

Question: Parents think that spending time with friends over Thanksgiving break is unreasonable?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:24 AM PST

So this thanksgiving break from college I went ice skating with friends for two hours on Saturday. My mom is now very pissed that I did not spend enough time with her, event though I dedicated my entire Friday and most of Saturday and Sunday to her. (Thursday we had a thanksgiving party, in which she invited a few of her friend s families over for dinner). My dad is now saying that I shouldn t ever meet with friends over any break, as my first priority is to spend every minute with my mom. I felt so suffocated when I heard this, as I am now an adult and used to being able to make my own decisions in college. Do you think that my parents are being unreasonable?

Question: What should I have done in this situation ?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:21 AM PST

I was deep into my homework the other day when my mom walked into my room. She goes "I need you to iron my hair." Normally I wouldn't mind doing her hair for her, but it was about 10:00 at night and her hair is never long and curly. I told her "I cant right now, I'm busy." Most of my assignments had to be done electronically and they all have deadlines, I would like to keep my grades up. I was using my moms laptop because I don't have one. She got mad that I couldn't do her hair so she said "fine then give me my laptop back" and she took it away from me. What I want to know is: where is the sense in that? She wanted me to drop everything and take the zeroes, just so that I could do her hair? What was I supposed to do? Now shes mad at me and she wont even call me by my name anymore she calls me "kid" now. She said that I was "no help at all" and that I'm "evil".....I'm confused, what should I have done?

Question: Please please read I'm feeling very I think I'm getting worse?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 11:12 AM PST

I have two sisters. My sister Amy is driving me insane. I'm depressed and she makes me feel worse she always tells me I'm black hearted, pathetic, stupid, asshole and failure. She yells at me for being depressed and she tells me she hates me wishes I was dead or gone. It really hurts me. I always cry because of her. She goes to my older sister and tells her that she loves her. And hangout with her and it's like I'm not even there. She always likes to see me hurt sad. I can't take it anymore I'm feeling very low. And i hate myself because of her. I had a rough life I was abused physically and emotionally by my aunt. For years and I felt worthless.My aunt stopped 5 years ago. My sister said I deserved it. When I talk about it to everyone she says I'm pathetic I have black heart and attention seeker I'm not trying to be and I'm annoying I should leave.I'm seriously hurt I don't know what to do. I feel like I'm alone in the world no one support me. I tried talking to her she made fun of me.She's commenting on my behavior and actions I can't fight with her because dad is sick he can't handle any stress or argument.In my grandma's house when I talk to anyone she tells me to be quite I'm annoying.I'm not even trying to be annoying and she calls me childish all the time. She always commenting on my move . She's making me feel very low my parents won't listen.She always making me look bad by the way she's 19 I'm done I'm depressed I want to end my life but I don't have the courge to

Question: Leaving to my dads?? Should I?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:57 AM PST

Ok so right now I'm loving with my mom(in FL), she kind of is unstable right now, emotional, mentally, and physically. She tends to turn to alcohol with her problems. Now my question is should I give my mom a break for her to realize what she's doing by moving to my dads(in NY) or should I stay and do what??

Question: Mental Disability?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:46 AM PST

I have an aunt (she is 62) that has to have some sort of mental disability. It seems to be getting progressively worse. Can someone please read some of the examples below and tell me what this may be classified as. What can I do to help her? If/when I point out something she has done wrong she things I'm being a know-it-all. She ordered a cake And wants me to drive by the house to have a slice. I arrive and she walks outside with the whole cake uncovered sitting in her hands for me to take. We were having a discussion about taking a cruise and I said I don't like to be surrounded by water. She then says I love water because I love to shower and bathe stay clean The car is parked and we are about to get out. The doors are locked. She pulls the lever but the door doesn't open. She then starts pulling the lever very hard and yelling I don't know how to get out of this car! My sister (8) breaks a glass in the kitchen. Shards of broken glass are all over the floor. My aunt sees the entire thing going on and tells my sister to be careful cleaning up the broken glass. She gets a call from someone who was having trouble hearing her. She then proceeds to yell into the top (listening) portion of the phone instead of the receiving end In a funeral service. She is causing a distraction because she starts going through her large purse looking for candy. She then proceeds to loudly open the cellophane wrapped candy. People were looking at us like why is she doing this

Question: Why is it a completely different experience to be a father vs. to be a mother?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:32 AM PST

Question: Irresponsible parents??!?! I have no one to go to! PLEASE HELP?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:30 AM PST

My family is crazy My mom is always unstable and never settled, she drinks and is always emotional unstable. She lost her job because of drinking. My dad is a physco angry person, no one ever understands him, not even me, and I try to understand everyone. Btw he live in NYC and me and my mom live in Fl And I don't want to leave to my dad just for my mom to get worse and drink more The rest of my family basically aren't really family to me. I'm forced to live with this because I'm 16 (male) What do I do my family is so irresponsible, I have more common sense. Please help

Question: Would accept/forgive your dad if he had basically abandoned you a long time ago, but came back when he learned you were left with a?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 10:12 AM PST

terrible abusive mother to try and give you a better life or better remainder of your adolescent life

Question: I can t stand my parents?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:57 AM PST

Okay so like I really need help my mom got married to this guy and before that I was not living with my mom much. I was attending boarding school and when it was time for me to go to high school I started living with my mom and my step dad. Ever since I came to live with them my life has been like hell. I can t even go to parties and I m always that one person that has to leave at 18:00. I don t even have sleepovers.So I decided that I ll do whatever I want because I m gonna die anyway. So I get myself a few tattoos and piercings which obviously they don t know about. One day we went on vacation and my mom hit me right infront of everyone and it still haunts me that she did something like that because I was sitting with a boy just watching the moon(I really love nature and everything and she often makes fun of me for loving nature and being a Buddhist and it s as if it s the worst thing that ever happened on earth(being a Buddhist)) and my cousins constantly call me a devil worshipper... So my step dad has always been behind my moms decisions when I first moved in... There was an invitation to go to a valentines ball and all my friends were going and then he told my mom that I shouldn t go and stuff and now it s always been like that all I do is stay in this boring Josue and there was a day I went to go visit my friend and when I came back my mom hit me like I can t stand it can someone please help me

Question: I think I'm gonna be suspended. My mom still doesn't know it. I'm on a star section, please help me!?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:52 AM PST

I have three minor offenses because of tardiness and I'm gonna be suspended. I don't know what I'm going to say to my mom. She has a lot of expectations to me. I wish I could go back to time. Help me!

Question: How do I get my mother to let me see my father again?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:44 AM PST

Question: How do I forgive my family and keep them in my life, when they are selfish?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:19 AM PST

Question: Difficult mother?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:15 AM PST

I'm 20 years old and I have lived with my mother all my life. I recently started living between places to help myself grow and hopefully with the help of a family member go job searching. However, I can't get one day to myself without my mother hounding me about something.mevery other day she will want me to spend the night. She constantly wants me to find a way to town just to get her a soda from her favorite vendor. Then when I don't do something right and other people are around she will openly criticize me. I went to a friends house with who I've been living between and the next day she told me she spilled a drink and broke her cup which is what I think was a subtle guilt trip to get me to come back. I get her soda, ice, cigs, and anything else she needs on an almost daily basis and I don't own a car so it's embarrassing asking friends to get a ride to town just for what she wants and not needs. Every time I leave the house she finds some reason for me to come back or she will play the depression game and make me feel guily about no being there. I feel like I won't be able to live a full life without her constantly on my *** about stupid ****. If she doesn't get what she wants she will argue and play more guilt trips on me. I feel like I could go insane sometimes. I just want to know what I can do. I need space and boundaries and some time to enjoy my life and not get her a damn soda everyday. I swear she's addicted to the ****. Please help For the record I am not mooching the friends I have been staying with are like my second family we all help each other out so it's a mutual thing and as I said in the question I am currently job searching..

Question: Parents haven't been getting along for about 7 years (married for about 20).?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:14 AM PST

We moved awhile back when my dad lost his job, and ever since then he's been different. He has lost his job at least 4-5 times in the past 7 years, and he just isn't the same anymore. He's ignorant and rude to my mom, will not let her spend anything. Needs to know where all the money is going. He keeps opening up all these new credit cards and no one knows why.. I don't understand why he won't just find a job... I know he's been looking for one, but this has gone on too long. He acts a different way to me and my other siblings, seems to be acting like the cook/mom lately since he's home a lot. We have a larger home, and my mom only works part time, so clearly we do not have much money coming in... I can just see right through him. I want to tell him to shut up every time he acts nice to me in front of my mom. I'm sick of the fake guy he has become. He has no motivation to do anything and doesn't even take my mom out on dates, EVER. He has aged so much...in such a short period of time. He looks like an old man, when he rly isn't. He never works out. My mom doesn't even wear her ring anymore. This morning they had a huge, terrible fight about the money and bills and credit cards again... It makes me rly nervous and shaky inside and I don't know what to do.

Question: My sister says my mom is evil?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:14 AM PST

Question: My parents had a big fight last night and I am wondering whose side I am supposed to be on?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:04 AM PST

My mother nonstop tells my father "I need this", "I need that", "I need this" "Give me this". So my father resorts to just saying "okay" but then never gets it done and thus is lying. The fight started with my mother complaining because my father worked all day Friday and Saturday despite the holiday weekend (he works Tuesday through Saturday). Somehow it turned to the "you don't do what I tell you to" fight. My father said "your losing your mind" which my mother found disrespectful.

Question: How do I forgive my mother for never letting me see my brother as a kid because he had drug problems?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 09:00 AM PST

I want to forgive my mother but I feel so guilty all these years later that I was 15 before I could see my older half-brother. At age 7 my parents stopped letting me see him as my mother (his step-mother) couldn't stand his drug addiction. She was very bitter about him and insulted him nonstop. She got mad at any family member that would try to stick up for him and say things like "he is reckless with drugs but still family". She says she was protecting her two kids (my own brother and I) but I feel her anger was the main issue as he was never violent so there was no danger to us as long we weren't alone with him. So my question is this, how can I get past this as I want to as my mother was wrong on this but good in so many other ways. How can I train my brain to forgive her? I am now very close to the half-brother and he is no longer using drugs. However, I have a fear he thinks less of me having not seen me as a kid but he knew his mother's kids from her 2nd marriage (my Dad's ex wife).

Question: On Christmas how do I get my mother to be cordial to my father (their divorced) or should I just not try?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:59 AM PST

Every year I get disappointed that she is not. She lets me see him the week after Christmas, not on Christmas. I hurt because my cousins have divorced parents and the mother lets the father come Christmas Morning as they open their gifts and she is polite to him. They also get to do Christmas Eve with him since he has family that lives nearby. My father's family lives on the other side of the country and my mother only lets me see him a few days after Christmas (I feel Christmas is over at this point). She refuses to ever let him in her house again as he lied to her about the money he was making at work so they got divorced. This was 7 years ago. So my question is how can I get her to think about me at Christmas or should I just accept it and be sad

Question: Is it considered child abuse?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:48 AM PST

When I was little, my parents would never take me on vacations or on trips. So, I would ask if I could go over a friends house. They would never let me go even though they would stay home and watch a football game. I felt isolated, I remember running away a few times but only to the local park. I have an older sister. My father would treat her horrible along with his family because that wasnt his child. He would have screaming competitions with her. He always insulted her and told her to move out or would threaten to call the cops on her( which he has a decent number of times ). It got to the point were she moved out. I became the main target in the household. All I would do was simply ask for a new blouse or sweater and he would throw a fit. I have become so depresses and delt with alot of stress. He would sometimes tell me he would get the authorities i involved if I kept being a smart mouth . He would always say I was turning into my sister, I was really defensive toward her. It eventually got to a point were I thought of commiting. Since then, the fights have escualated. Is this child abuse?

Question: How can i ask my mom if i can move in with my grandmother?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:41 AM PST

Story: My mom, brother, and i moved out of my dad's house about 2 months ago. We went to go live with my grandma during that time. My mom recently decided "Hey, we should move back to your dad's and give him another chance" As much as i love my dad, i hate it at his house. It doesnt feel like home anymore. The whole reason why we left in the first place was because he drank and when he was drunk, he was rude to almost every one. The last time he was like that, he was yelling at my brother for no reason, so i had a panic attack, called my mom, and we all left. That night, my mom said we weren't going back. Now, my mom said that we were going to move back, to my dad, without even discussing it with my brother and i. I understand that "She is the adult, she makes the decisions," but, shouldnt my brother and i get at least some input on this? All i said to her yesterday was "It would've been nice if you discussed this with [brothers name] and i before you said that WE wanted to try his house again." She said "We're not happy at your grandmothers. You might be, but were not. Your dad deserves a 2nd chance." i didnt say anything after b/c i was crying, and anything i wouldve said would result in her saying "You need to take your medicine" (Anxiety) I already talked to my grandmother about this. I told her that i felt i was happier at her house, and i was getting better. My grandma said shes noticed that. She okay with me staying with her. idk how i (14 y/o) should ask my mom now. (Didnt have enough space) I feel like my mom is ignoring the fact that i care about my mental health, and i'm still trying to recover from depression. I cant recover if im not living somewhere where i can be happy...

Question: Mental Disability Identification?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:39 AM PST

I have an aunt (she is 62) that has to have some sort of mental disability. It seems to be getting progressively worse. Can someone please read some of the examples below and tell me what this may be classified as. What can I do to help her? If/when I point out something she has done wrong she things I'm being a know-it-all. She ordered a cake And wants me to drive by the house to have a slice. I arrive and she walks outside with the whole cake uncovered sitting in her hands for me to take. We were having a discussion about taking a cruise and I said I don't like to be surrounded by water. She then says I love water because I love to shower and bathe stay clean The car is parked and we are about to get out. The doors are locked. She pulls the lever but the door doesn't open. She then starts pulling the lever very hard and yelling I don't know how to get out of this car! My sister (8) breaks a glass in the kitchen. Shards of broken glass are all over the floor. My aunt sees the entire thing going on and tells my sister to be careful cleaning up the broken glass. She gets a call from someone who was having trouble hearing her. She then proceeds to yell into the top (listening) portion of the phone instead of the receiving end In a funeral service. She is causing a distraction because she starts going through her large purse looking for candy. She then proceeds to loudly open the cellophane wrapped candy. People were looking at us like why is she doing this

Question: I need help with my relationship with my Mother regarding grades! Thanks to anyone who responds!?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:25 AM PST

So, I'm in a situation, with my mom. She is never happy with my grades. I have been getting consistent A+'s in math. I had got two A's on the tests. One in september and One in November. After looking at my grades, she said im not happy. Would you ever say good job, and she said never. I then told her youre stressing me out, and she stopped talking to me. An A, she told me to get higher than an A? All my other classes are at an A to A+ and one class A-, so Im an A student. How can I solve this situation.

Question: What can i do so she understands i dont want her in my house?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:15 AM PST

I have a cousin at 26. We are both girls and shes 26, im 21. Moms in love with her Sisters and brothers, so i cant simply tell i dont want her. I dislike her cos she always borrows my things and never gives em back. She forces me to go shopping and she makes me pay for the buyings, even i pay for the road and mom says i have to do that, since shes a guest. Even if im her guest, i pay for everything again, so moms Just being unfair. Also my cousin always is a guest, no matter if dads sick, lying in the bad. Cos shes the guest and even a sickman should serve her. Its such a terrible thing to do but out culture forces us to behave like this!!! *bed

Question: My sons don't really have any interests. Anything I can get them into?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:10 AM PST

Hi Guys, My sons are 11 and 13 and are video game kids. Everyday after homework and on the weekends. Their playing video games right now. I am very accepting of my kids and I think they have excellent character, but I think there is more in life than just video games. Any suggestions for things they could take up? They are not very musical FYI

Question: Help me please how can I talk to him pleas please help?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:08 AM PST

Hey okay so I know him for a year and we are close friends and I love him so much. I'm depressed and he always been there for me. We both talks about our own problems. Oh yeah he moved far away 3 months ago so we chat. The thing is ever since I told him how I felt toward him he been ignoring me. And than he apologize to me. I was hurt for almost a year because of him he knows. I'm always forgiving him. So at the end I ignored him and it was very hard for me. I'm scared to talk to him I don't know why. He been begging me to talk him and he said he loves me.     By the way I always helped him with his gf and she hurts him. He used to complain to me about her and how hurt is he. I helped him although it hurts me. It was painful To be honest I never thought I would fall in love with him him.     I never cried over someone like that before     I'm hurt sad and I miss him and I'm scared to be hurt.     I love him and I miss him ugh I hate myself for that    I still cry over him. By the way we agreed to be friends again it's just I don't want to be hurt I'm really hurt everytime I remember him I cry    Seriously love hurts so much    I'm trying to get over him I don't know why I can't get over him    we both are ignoring each other I think I'm ready to talk to him. We agreed to be just friends but what do I say like hey I don't love you anymore I don't know please help and thank you

Question: How to do something nice for my dad?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:05 AM PST

I'm 13 and my dads fifty. Lately he has seemed a bit depressed and not as lively as usual. Is there anything I can do nice for him

Question: Please help!?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 08:01 AM PST

My 14 middle school year old brother was being secretive on youtube and he wouldn't let me on the family computer. Just to let you know I'm older than him and in college. I always look out for him, but I never showed it because I'm stubborn. Just now, I just found out he's in a secretive relationship with a "girl". She gave him her number and when he called her, my brother gave our house number to her! House number!!!! Now I don't know what to do. How should I tell or parents. I never been in this situation before.Had you been in this problem before? Please help me. I don't want anything happen to my brother and I don't want anything bad happen to the whole family. Whatever advice you have, please be helpful. It doesn't matter if you had never been in this kind of situation before. Just please help me. If you called me snooping, go ahead, but this is serious! What if this girl turned out to be something else?! My brother hates everyone in our family and doesn't listen to everyone, except my mom, he's a mamma's boy and he never listen to me, my dad, and our oldest sister. What do I do?

Question: Am I wrong to not let my daughters father see her except under my supervision which he has made no effort to do. Please read the details.?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 07:12 AM PST

Me and my daughters father had a bad break he met someone new before we were done so of course me and the new chic don't get along. They moved in together so I won't allow him to take our child to his home. Ok I kno it may sound like I'm the jealous ex but that's not it. Two days after our big blow out the police kicked his door in looking for drugs but found guns instead, his lifestyle is money, drugs and women, he doesn't stay in any relationship very long and I don't trust his lifestyle to let my daughter out of my site with him. I kno I chose the person and except the consequences of my own actions but honestly am I wrong to not want another woman to care for my 4 month old daughter and to be concerned about her father riding around making drug deals with my daughter in the back seat?

Question: My father is an alcoholic and my mother says he loves his alcohol more then me. Is this true or does the alcohol just overtake him?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:57 AM PST

She emphasizes this regularly like when he didn't want a visitor this weekend and I noted to my mother and step-father that I think he is binge drinking. My mother twice this weekend said "I am sorry your father loves his alcohol more then his two kids". So does he love the alcohol more or is it a disease as my step-father said it is not a matter of loving one more but just overcome by the illness. My mother says its a choice but my step-father differs and says its an illness. So does he love me less then the alcohol? I kind of expected he might bail on seeing me this weekend and I am okay with that but hurt that he might love me less then the alcohol.

Question: What the **** do I do?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:44 AM PST

Every time my father and I make plans to go to New York my step mom always ruins it by wanting to do laundry or something then she's like "I never knew we were going somewhere" or " I didn't hear dad say anything about that" or "I don't remember" like it's starting to piss me the **** off because she's always there when we make plans. She's the first person my dad asks if she's going to be busy and the ***** always says no.

Question: Locating my aunts kids. Help please.?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:44 AM PST

Hi how are you all doing? Its a bit of a long story so ill shorten it a bit. A long time ago my aunt lost her kids to social services and lost all contact and information about them. She really wants to see them and im trying to help her find information about her kids, so she can visit them. She doesnt know how to speak english at all and im trying my best to search for different ways to find them. Some of the ways ive tried is searching their name through popular website that people use today such as facebook and instagram. Ive also tried reverse searching a picture through google but had no luck. I only have little information about them at the moment, such as a picture of them when they were little and their name. So if you can please help me find a way to find these kids, it would not only make me happy but a mother that hasnt seen her kids for a decade happy. This would be her best christmas present ever. Thank you very much for the people that are reading this and helping and have a wonderful day.

Question: I have a very very low self esteem please help me?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:43 AM PST

All my life I had low self esteem and confidence I know it's bad but I always hated myself and I felt worthless and I don't deserve anything in life. I don't know why and I always blame myself for everything even if it's not my fault like I blame myself for years when I was abused by my aunt physically and emotionally for 3 years she stopped 5 years ago but I always feel low. Why do I feel this what can I do please help and thanks

Question: I never wanted to have this child?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:21 AM PST

My ex came to me and revealed that she has a baby of me. I didn't know that at all, I never wanted it. we took a DNA test and it turned out the baby is mine.She didn't tell me for 18 month and this baby is 6 month now! She trapped me, she knew that I used to hate kids and did it to take revenge If she had already informed me, maybe I could convince her to do an abortion, but now?! wtf I can do with this ugly creature I hate kids 33% of my salary? wtf!?!? any way to get over? that bit-ch took advantage of me

Question: Why saiyam Verma stole money from his dad lockers ??

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:17 AM PST

Question: How can I get rid of this feeling of not belonging anywhere.?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:07 AM PST

I don't quite fit in well anywhere. I don't have a father and I have no feeling of empathy or concern for my mother. My elder and younger siblings love my mother and they are so attached to her. I don't fit in with my family. I don't fit in , in my office either. Even when I was studying in college, I never really had friends or group to hang out. Even now when I am at my cousin's marriage, I am not a part of any group standing here. I feel like such a loser. How can I feel better about myself ?

Question: My family won't stop being mean to me?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 06:02 AM PST

Everyday they yell at me for little things. Like I could be getting bullied and when I defend myself I get called the bully... BY MY FAMILY. They are always making fun of me. I can't go a day without crying or getting upset. I have even prayed for hours to be away from my family for good. (sorry i'm a christian) I want to know why they won't stop doing this. By the way, isn't it considered abuse? They been doing this what seems like years now to.

Question: I want to study art but my parents..?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 05:58 AM PST

My parents didn't like me studying arts.They said it's useless and I wouldn't get a good job or good salary. My mother hates it when she sees me drawing or anything. She wanted me to be like my genius sister who is currently studying about Chemical Engineering at uni. They want me to be big (l mean careers like doctor and such) but I don't have any interest in those things. Sometimes when I get an A for arts they wouldn't care or they would lecture about art is not important. I wanted to learn about animations and /concept game arts. They also said that I will become homeless and it could be my biggest mistake in life and struggle to have any money at all for the rest of my life. How to convince them to let me study arts

Question: Mum.......?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 05:23 AM PST

My mum almost broke my fingers today,and left a bruise on me. She takes everything I have including money. And my phone,to check on some guys page (her ex I think? She is married tho) she yells when she talks to me. How to stop this? I can't call child abuse hotline

Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way?

Posted: 29 Nov 2015 05:14 AM PST

I invited my fiancé to my nephew s Christmas concert, and he said he had no interest in going. I know he isn t a fan of kids (we decided that we do not want to have any), but I ve tried to explain that my nephew will become his nephew when we get married. He didn t budge, and I dropped it because I didn t want to cause a fight or say what I was really thinking...which is that I don t know if I can marry someone who can t give up 1-2 hours of their time to support our nephew. The concert is in a week so I have time to bring it up again, but I don t know what I should say. I want him to understand how strongly I feel about this but don t want it to be a huge issue. I know he doesn t like kids that much but he is always great around the ones in my family, so I don t know if I m really asking too much of him?