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- Question: Does he like me?
- Question: What should I do with a college freshman friend who came back over break?
- Question: I have a friend who is doing drugs help!?
- Question: I hate being around people, is something wrong with me?
- Question: I'm worried my kid is going to run away?
- Question: My best friend expects me to listen to her problems and help her and then completely blows me off when i talk about mine. What should I do?
- Question: Is there an app I can use to watch movies/shows with friends online?
- Question: Tell me what does it mean. Am I looking for something that isn't there. ANSWER.?
- Question: Why was my friend acting like this..?
- Question: Are these kids perverts?
- Question: What would you do if your classmate made you fall into a trap?
- Question: Why is he so sexual around me?
- Question: Does "she will be loved" bring back any nostalgic memories?
- Question: I can't relate to people my own age, and I'm beginning to feel more and more lonely. Advice?
- Question: Okay , so I m planning a trip for all my friends?
- Question: I dont want a sweet 16?
- Question: My parents won't let me sleepover?
- Question: My anxiety ruins so many opportunities to make new friends. Any tips?
- Question: HORRIBLE IMESSAGE MISHAP?
- Question: 4 weeks at new school-No friends?
- Question: Would you kiss your best friend's little sister?
- Question: Do you think I have annoyed my friend somehow?
- Question: Did I lose my best friend?
- Question: I feel like I'm drifting away from my friends?
- Question: Why does this girl hate me for no reason?
- Question: I just lost my best friend. I apologized but she didn't accept it. How can I save this friendship? Details in the comments?
- Question: If you found out your best friend has a crush on your spouse, how would you handle that?
- Question: Should I be upset at my friend?
- Question: Trip with people I barely know?
- Question: I give so much to people as a friend?
- Question: How to find a best friend?
- Question: Stuff for typical teenage guys to do during the weekend?
- Question: I want to be supportive of my depressed friend but it's exhausting?
- Question: Why does it make me mad when my friends seem to be squeezing me in their schedule?
- Question: I feel completely lost. Lonely. Don't know how to fit in?
- Question: Am I really worth anything?
- Question: My friends are losers and hate me?
- Question: What does it mean when a girl twirls her hair whip looking at you?
- Question: Should I tell him to get help before its too late?
- Question: My friend is overweight??
- Question: My friend doesn't share friends?
- Question: I want to have an internet friend to skype and talk to and share personal things and be there for good times and bad where can i find that ?
- Question: Any advice ? Thiers this case , 4 were charged in strong armed robbery. 1 of them happens to be a friend , now my friend was not at the?
- Question: Is this mean?
- Question: Live alone in 1 apartment or share apartment better for student?
- Question: How do you call people who like to belittle achievement of other people, to possibly feel better themselves.?
- Question: Is it weird to get my best guy friend a gift for Christmas?
- Question: Can someone please help me so that I won't be depressed forever?
- Question: I told my friend that we don't need to talk everyday and she got offended?
- Question: Why doesn't he want to be my friend anymore?
- Question: Husbands female best friend... Don't know how to feel?
- Question: Will my life actually get better after high school?
- Question: I hung out with the wrong people in high school?
- Question: How do I fix my mistake with my friends? RESPOND ASAP?
- Question: What would happen if an anxiously attached individual made their best friend their safety net?
- Question: If my couchsurfing host didn't leave me a reference of any kind, does it usually mean they forgot or they disliked me?
- Question: His 'teasing' is out of hand... Why does he do this?
- Question: I feel completely lost. Lonely..Don't know how to fit in?
- Question: Why do women scold?
- Question: What am I doing wrong?
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 05:06 PM PST Yesterday I was going to my locker and my friend lulu was standing tere and I didn't realize Drew was there. Lulu said something about a 'punching shoulder fetish' and I go 'oh you know me, I have a shoulder punching fetish.' I look up and Drew is staring right at me. I blush and get my stuff an look up again an he's still staring a me. Idk if he heard me but still Okay so today I went to go get a book for my friend Abby. I come back into class and My friend Dominic is like 'can I paint ur nails' cause for some reason he had nail polish I go 'um no?' It's completely silent and I start walking back to my seat and drew goes 'Auri wait' I turn around and he's like 'how do I get to the revision thing? (The thing we are doing' HE WAs ALREADY ON IT. I look at him an go 'http://turnitin.com ' he was about to say something when our teacher screams 'FLIRTATION STATION' and oh omg do you think he likes me?? he always stares at me, and takes my glasses and wears them |
| Question: What should I do with a college freshman friend who came back over break? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:58 PM PST So, one of my female high school seniors who graduated last year and went on to college is coming back for the Thanksgiving break in a couple of days, and I really want to meet them again. On one hand, I can easily get in touch with them and ask them to hang out, not so bad. On the other hand, I have no clue what to do with someone who's lived in this town their entire life too, and who I'm not super close friends with. Any ideas? The movies are out of the question, btw, as is shopping. A student with no car, two years her junior |
| Question: I have a friend who is doing drugs help!? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:54 PM PST Hey people of Yahoo answers, so I have this friend. Let's call him *Pete. Pete is my best friend in the whole freakin world! He is hilarious in every way, he is a gentlemen and always kind and willing to help. He used to be my role model and he is a great example to his little sister, or he used to be. The thing is... Pete's dad died when he was little and lately Pete has had a REALLY hard time with it. He has started to hang out with bad people and has started to smoke and do drugs. Pete is only 14! He is to young and I don't want him to get hurt, yes I have feelings for him, but am i just over reacting. Is it normal for a kid his age to do these things. What should I do to comfort him and help him get Through this tough spot in his life? |
| Question: I hate being around people, is something wrong with me? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:28 PM PST i basically hate everyone at my school except for one person so i have almost no friends. I also hate being around people and they annoy me so much. I've never had a crush on anybody in my life and people just disgust me so i stay in all day and surf the internet and i just hate being around people and i hate everyone i meet. is there something wrong with me? because the only friend i had lately pointed that out and said that its not healthy.. but? |
| Question: I'm worried my kid is going to run away? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:23 PM PST My child is in her late fifteens, and never listens to me. Once I bought her tickets to an amusement park called Silverwood three states over, and she refused to go. Lately she had been hoarding chips, water bottles, and any non perishables. I caught her buying a brand new backpack when she just got a new one. The only reason I can think of her running away is that me and her dad recently got divorced. I've always been... sorta gay and I know she had something against gay people. Last week I found a girlfriend who I love dearly, but my daughter hates her. Is she going to run away? What do I do? Please help! Had should be has as in had something against. |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:08 PM PST For example i was talking on the phone with her today about something really important but as i was talking she secretly put me on hold to talk to her other friend. Should i stay friends with her? |
| Question: Is there an app I can use to watch movies/shows with friends online? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:07 PM PST When I say "with friends online" I mean friends that are in different places, not in person. |
| Question: Tell me what does it mean. Am I looking for something that isn't there. ANSWER.? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:03 PM PST There's this girl I know at a studio I go to, to record my music. There's a basement there with a microphone and a little stage. I was practicing. And a few people were sitting on the couches watching me. One of them was a girl i like. I sang a song from john legend for fun. When I looked up at her I noticed she was twirling her hair a bit and grooming it with her hands while looking at me singing. Do you think she was doing that cause she's into me or just coincidence. And I talked to her afterwards and when I left I gave her a hug and tickled her for a second and she let out a little laugh/squeal and said "hey dont tickle me!" But in a playful way. She wasn't mad or uncomfortable by me tickling her. It was a positive response... |
| Question: Why was my friend acting like this..? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:02 PM PST I was sitting in a room with a friend of mine. And I was trying to tell her that we should put on the a/c since it was too hot. Her boyfriend who I didn't know was her boyfriend bc I never met him and was on the other side of the room was there so I simply asked if he thought it was hot in the room hoping he would agree. After answering that he was fine "no I'm straight" which I thought was kind of ghetto I looked at my friend then just dropped the situation. Then she was just giving me the death glare and introduced him still holding it. And she does stuff like this regularly even if there is any type or interaction between but not with her other female friends who she invites to go places with them... I'm not really flirty at all but I know she's envious of my ability to stay in good shape without really working out a lot |
| Question: Are these kids perverts? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 04:02 PM PST There's three or four kids in my grade (fifth grade) who always talk about sexual things. One kid at lunch always takes juice boxes, sticks the straw i and out of it, and says to people, "you don't get it do you?" He also says other sexual related things, all of them WAY worse than the juice box thing. He says he got "the talk" from his older brother in second grade, and he always talks about 50 shades of gray. His friend does similar things, and says the movie is worse, while the original kid says the book is. The second kid and another kid always talk about masturbation. (They are all boys.) One day it snowed and they were talking really loudly about how they masturbated in the snow and it felt really good. They also use other sexual references. There is this other kid who always uses sexual references and asks people "You don't get it, do you?" We haven't had sex ed, although we will later in the year. Please don't ask how I know sexual things, because it is slightly embarrassing. The last kid I mentioned has been doing it since fourth grade. (Kinda confusing because because I'm trying not to use names.) This isn't a normal thing for fifth grade boys to do, is it? I've known all these kids since second grade and they never used to act like this until this year. It started with a main kid, and spread to the rest. |
| Question: What would you do if your classmate made you fall into a trap? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:53 PM PST I met this girl in my chemistry (college) class a few months ago. She seemed really nice at first. I gave her my number to talk about school and one day she asked for my email address so she could send me "stuff". I gave it to her. I got an email and when I opened it up there was a copy of our next exam inside. And it had all the answers on it. She didn't just send it to me, she sent it to a couple of other people in class. Instead of causing drama I decided to keep quiet. But I studied on my own and passed the exam without cheating. Now that same girl tried copying off my quiz this morning. She even texted me and told me that she wants to sit near me for the final since she doesn't have the answers to it. I've been ignoring her since then. But my friend told me to be careful because that girl is the type of person to throw people under the bus even if she has to throw herself under it too. Now I'm afraid she'll tell the professor I had the exam answers. I opened the email not knowing it was in there. I didn't know. If you were in my position, what would you do? |
| Question: Why is he so sexual around me? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:52 PM PST Today my guy friend (who is 26 and very good looking) gets very sexual with me. He starts flirting with me and touching me on my thighs and then kisses me on my neck. He's made remarks to me like "We can go upstairs and chill out" or "I would so date you for sex and have a very hot relationship with you." I don't know how to respond to him, but to just say compliment him. We hug which isn't a problem. We have gone upstairs to chill and he's gotten undressed down to nothing, but says that he's not pressuring me to do anything sexual with him, when he's acting sexual towards me. Why is he so sexual around me? What should I do? I told him that I was a virgin and he says that he respects me but then I said why do you act so sexual around me then, then he didn't say anything. We do everything together from ATV, Snowmobiling, Amusement parks, Walks, Grocery Shopping, Camping, Boating, Swimming etc. He just has been acting really sexual lately. I told him if we had sex, it would ruin our friendship and I didn't want that. He told me that I was just scared of pain and that I was also afraid of losing it. I just looked at him and said maybe we shouldn't be friends if you don't want to respect me or my virginity. He texted me a long apology for being an asshole and asked if we could talk. We went to lunch today and he was flirty but not sexual and I asked him if he got laid or was okay with me being a virgin and he said that he was sorry for being sexual, but he thought I would like it and I just said well I like you and I love spending time with you, but when you get sexual like that I don't know how to take you. We talked about it, then it got sexual again. We left and hung out with one another, but then it just got awkward with him kissing my neck. |
| Question: Does "she will be loved" bring back any nostalgic memories? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:49 PM PST And how old were you when the song came out? I was in the 4th grade at the time. I remember listening to the song and loved it. I fell in "puppy" love for the first time. I had my first kiss with this girl. We held hands. I remember when i asked her "do you wanna be my bf" and she was like "sure" even though we didnt really know what that meant. Just being kids! But everytime i think of 4th grade and my first love i think of this beautiful song. It was a good time :) |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:44 PM PST I'm currently a teenager in high school. I'm not very close with my family due to differing ideological and political beliefs, and these differences resulted in severe emotional and a little physical abuse. I have suffered from depression and eating disorders. That's all to say that I've been through dark times that many people my own age have not (and hopefully will not) go through. I've never been able to relate to people at my school or my own age. It's admittedly difficult to explain, so I'll do the best I can. Sometimes, I can be in a room with dozens of my friends, but I still feel so isolated. It's not that I'm nervous of judgment or have social anxiety. I'm just more mature than they are at this point. It's easy to have casual conversations but I'm just so sick of small talk. I want more than surface level friendships. They're still growing up, but I feel like I'm beyond that stage and am now developing who I am as a person. Honestly, I want a real, unconditional relationship that I can rely on even when things get tough. I want to trust someone and know that he/she will at least try to understand me. I really just want a shoulder to cry on and somewhere to go when it's rough in my house. Of course, I would do all of that for the other person as well. Does anyone have any advice about this? Maybe some personal anecdotes to share? Thanks for reading. |
| Question: Okay , so I m planning a trip for all my friends? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:37 PM PST Okay , so I m planning a trip for all my friends to come down here in April for my birthday and were planning early , they don t have bus tickets available right now . I m wondering if anyone knows where I can pay a person or a company with a bus to bring them to Atlanta and take them back , where should I look |
| Question: I dont want a sweet 16? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:32 PM PST In 2 years ill be 16 and my parents want to make me big, lavish party in a restaurant or at home for me. They are gonna invite all of their friends(they have alot). I think its sweet of them to do that, but the problem is that I dont want to celebrate it. I just want a small, little birthday party as usual. I dont have many friends either or many people im close with(the only person im close with is 1 of my cousin.) I dont have any close friends except 2 good friends. I feel annoyed with too much people around especially if im not close to them. I dont want to tell my parents that i dont want one because they would be mad. They will say negative things about me too like how its bad that i dont want one or how much of a loner i am.. |
| Question: My parents won't let me sleepover? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:30 PM PST My close friends party is Dec. 5 and it's taking place at a hotel, where we'd get our nails, feet, hair, face done or whatever. I already got an invite, and I know my mom and dad would NEVER let me sleep over. I don't understand why? They would definitely let me go to the party...But no sleepover? Should I ask my friend's mom to persuade my mom into letting me sleep over? What should I do?? I really hope that I can sleepover because I feel a little left out that I won't be able to join in with my friends.. |
| Question: My anxiety ruins so many opportunities to make new friends. Any tips? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:21 PM PST |
| Question: HORRIBLE IMESSAGE MISHAP? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:19 PM PST I ve been trying to text my friends all week. But every time I do, they turn green and say "sent as text message" on the bottom. And my friends either never get them, or get them and then can t answer because they won t deliver. What can I do to fix this! |
| Question: 4 weeks at new school-No friends? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 03:04 PM PST I just started a new high school in a completely new state and don t have any friends, like I talk to people but I m in junior year so everyone s known each other a while whilst I know nobody so no one makes as much effort as I do and the person sitting next to me never talks to me first it s always the other way round. At lunch and break I kind of just hang around with some girls but the worst times are the periods before lessons when everyone s messing around IN class because I just stay in my seat all quiet whilst everyone talks I only have 1 number and I don t even text that perso much.. I really need some advice? |
| Question: Would you kiss your best friend's little sister? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:57 PM PST If she's in high school-college would you do anything if you know she likes you and you like her? And what if she makes the first step? Brother would probably not like this except if maybe he thinks that I would be good for his sister and wouldn't hurt her. He has dated her best friend. Well ex best friend. They used to hang out a lot, then not as much aannd then they started dating. Now his sister and his ex don't hang out very much (if not at all). What if we never tell him. I know its bad but it would be very awkward. Just imagine the situation. Mine would be the worst where I'm close with the brother and the sister. With that said, I'm not the best friend but it was easier to explain this way. |
| Question: Do you think I have annoyed my friend somehow? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:57 PM PST This friend is one of the greatest people I have ever met. She is like my big sister, and I look up to her a lot. We met last year while she was a senior in high school, and I was in 8th grade. She has been looking out for me ever since. She gives great advice, and even though she isn't at my school anymore she made sure her mom and sister make sure I am okay. She even planned a surprise for me, and came home to see me as the lead in my first high school show. At the beginning of the year she would text back every time. She would call me if I needed someone to talk too, even if she was traveling with her soccer team. Here is where things change. Last week (Thursday) I sent her a quick text telling her about something that made me think of her. She didn't reply. Then my friend took my phone and sent her a video of me singing off key on purpose. She didn't reply again. (I kinda get that one though) It is just bugging me, because I want to talk to her. I don't know if it is too soon though. I don't want to be clingy, and make her hate me. I asked her if she promised I don't annoy her when she came to my show. She just laughed and said "Darling, don't worry about it!" Should I be worried? What can I do? |
| Question: Did I lose my best friend? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:56 PM PST Hi my best friend female we are good friends, I help her get off drugs I take her to nice places surrounded her with good people when she was hanging with the wrong people and even bust my butt to help her get a job. But things changed when she started dating her boyfriend when didn't talked much which was expected, but she changed she started making up lies and when I try to talk to text her just to say hi and how you doing she ignore my txt 95 percent of the time it's like she don't want to talk to me anymore and I already know our friendship is fading which is expected but not like this. What should I do? |
| Question: I feel like I'm drifting away from my friends? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:52 PM PST Half of my friends are a year older than me, and half are my age. But all my friends went to the same secondary school but I went to a different one. Now I feel like I only see them on the weekend and even then sometimes we can be busy. Also they all live in the same estate but I don't. I do live in walking distance but it's not the same. I haven't seen them in three weeks and I won't see them this weekend because they are all going to a dancing competition that is 3 hours away so I can't even go watch. Yeah we still text and stuff but still I feel like I am drifting away from them what will I do I don't want to drift away? |
| Question: Why does this girl hate me for no reason? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:52 PM PST I just moved to South Carolina and there's this girl in my class that hates me when I never did anything to her. Why do you think she hates me so much? I'm a guy and I'm in 7th grade if that helps. |
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| Question: If you found out your best friend has a crush on your spouse, how would you handle that? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:27 PM PST |
| Question: Should I be upset at my friend? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:27 PM PST I don t know if I should, please advise. Anyways, I work at a department store and I figure since my friend is having a hard time finding herself a job, I thought I'd give her a good name at the place I work. It took me a while to do, not to mention the time I took speaking to them. Sure the job is only for the holidays, but I'd figure I'd get at least a thank-you from her part. No, instead it seems as though a ty is not in her vocabulary. And not to mention, I think she now thinks she got the job on her own. Wtf. She didn't even have to go in for an interview, just fill at papers and which associate informed them about her. Am I being silly? I kinda feel used. |
| Question: Trip with people I barely know? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:26 PM PST Hello I am supposed to go on a 3 day trip in about 2 weeks.. I am really concerned because of that as I barely know the majority of the people that are going (lots of the friends/acquaintances that said that would go changed their minds these days).. Actually right now I am friends with like 4 people/2 couples of those that will be there but i can not follow them everywhere they go... I am afraid that it will feel super weird for me, but at the same time I would love to get away from my family for a short time.. Please give me some advice about what to do in order not to feel awkward :d:d *Sorry for my English* |
| Question: I give so much to people as a friend? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:21 PM PST I help my friends when they need help, do favors for them, be a good friend, but should I be upset about getting anything in return? I feel like it's selfish, but it kinda makes me upset. |
| Question: How to find a best friend? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:19 PM PST I am a junior in high school, and every person I choose to be my friend turns out to be a backstabber, I really want a nice friend, that can do everything with me and i can tell anything to, but how do you find someone like that? |
| Question: Stuff for typical teenage guys to do during the weekend? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:19 PM PST Me and my close friends have been terribly bored these past few weekends when hanging out. We usually find something fun to occupy us for a little bit but then we get bored. We are trying to come up with places we can go or things we can do but we aren t coming up with anything interesting really. I m hoping someone on here can give some ideas! Just to let you know we are your typical 16 yr old guys who like the normal stuff like sports, video games, hanging out. We also do not have cars but can usually get rides to places. Any ideas help a ton! (There are usually 4-5 of us when we hang out btw) |
| Question: I want to be supportive of my depressed friend but it's exhausting? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 02:19 PM PST I can emphasize with her because I used to have depression so I feel like a hypocrite saying this but it's honestly exhausting dealing with her. I feel like I constantly need to walk on eggshells around her and she's constantly in a huge fight with someone and guilt tripping them over things that seem really petty to me. She can't seem to recognize everything we do for her. I feel like I can't trust her because she's very emotionally manipulative from how I see it. she's so dramatic about everything and always plays the victim. And so I'm conflicted between emphasizing with her and realizing how emotionally draining it is around depressed people. |
| Question: Why does it make me mad when my friends seem to be squeezing me in their schedule? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:58 PM PST I make plenty of time for our friendship (to get coffee, talk about our lives etc) despite my personal schedule. I always feel at an inconvienence, under a rushed time frame between errands and its not relaxing or fun. I just dont understand why this frustrates me? |
| Question: I feel completely lost. Lonely. Don't know how to fit in? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:51 PM PST Basically me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago. since then I realised how lonely I really am. I've accepted the fact that we're not getting back together so obviously I've been trying to have fun with my friends and stuff and I realised how shitty my friends are. When my friends bailed on me before my ex used to fill the gap so I didn't realise it and it didn't bother me that much but now it's different. A few days ago on my birthday I invited 10 of my good friends out for dinner and a few drinks, only 3 showed up and one had a valid excuse. Her son was at the hospital. One of my ( best friends) told me that she didn't have any money but she ended up going out with her other friends which obviously hurt me. When I confronted her she didn't seem to care. And I'm just having a hard time. I find it hard to fit in, I feel more mature than most people that I'm around and apparently I have a ***** face so people find it hard to approach me, same with guys, they think I'm stuck up. But honestly I'm a nice girl I don't shut anyone out for no reason and I'm not stuck up or anything. I don't like going out all the time and my friends go clubbin all the time so I always feel left out even though it's my choice not to go. I've been trying to find new friends but it's just so difficult, when everyone is in their comfort zone and you're the only one left out.. Any advice? |
| Question: Am I really worth anything? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:48 PM PST I really don t know what to make of myself. I m 17, getting good grades and getting offers to go to some pretty good universities but I just see myself as so insignificant. Everything I do is belittled by my mother and I don t have much of a social life. Recently, I argued with my best friend which I ve done quite a lot but this time she s had enough and now won t talk to me. I ve begged her to talk to me but she just doesn t believe me when I say I can change and I will change for her. So I ve lost a best friend. It seems like no matter how hard I work it s never good enough, no matter how nice I am to others I think they still hate me. Some guys at a party over the summer even pinned me down and tried to set me on fire. I just feel really isolated, really alone, like nobody cares and I m totally worthless. If it wasn t for being told to do so by my parents, I would just curl up and stay in bed all day |
| Question: My friends are losers and hate me? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:40 PM PST I sit with a group of kids at lunch cause I feel bad for them but idk if they hate me cause I'm more popular or better looking than them or something. I never said anything bad and idk what happened. I think I should just leave them lol They are all Asian with glasses. Not exactly the jacky chans of the world either |
| Question: What does it mean when a girl twirls her hair whip looking at you? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:12 PM PST There's this girl I know at a studio I go to, to record my music. There's a basement there with a microphone and a little stage. I was practicing. And a few people were sitting on the couches watching me. One of them was a girl i like. I sang a song from john legend for fun. When I looked up at her I noticed she was twirling her hair a bit and grooming it with her hands while looking at me singing. Do you think she was doing that cause she's into me or just coincidence. And I talked to her afterwards and when I left I gave her a hug and tickled her for a second and she let out a little laugh/squeal and said "hey dont tickle me!" But in a playful way. She wasn't mad or uncomfortable by me tickling her. It was a positive response... |
| Question: Should I tell him to get help before its too late? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:10 PM PST My friend told me every time he picks up a sharp object or sort, he has this ever needing desire to stab some one with it. |
| Question: My friend is overweight?? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 01:05 PM PST My best friend is overweight. She's only 11 years old. I'm 15 and she weighs more than me. She's always been a bit chubby but she just keeps getting bigger. I worry about her! She could get diabetes or heart problems or something! She's extremely lazy, unathletic (I don't think that's a word, sorry) and she overeats. I try to encourage her and get her to do stuff with me that requires movement but she's not all that great at sports to be honest. I'm not trying to be mean, I love her to death but I just don't want her to get bullied or hurt (she's had issues with her school mates calling her fat before). Her mom tries to get her to eat less and to make more healthy decisions. She's also part of a program called girls on the run and she likes to play soccer but she can't play it this year because she can't do it with the YMCA like she did last year because not enough girls wanted to do it. She can't even fit into most of my clothes cause they're too small and she has stretch marks! I'm not saying she's not beautiful just the way she is or anything, I'm just worried about her health. She's really sensitive though and I don't want to hurt her feelings. How can I help her??? |
| Question: My friend doesn't share friends? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:59 PM PST We're both mid-twenties. If she introduces people, she expects them to only be friends "through her." (They can't communicate by themselves, or hang out without her, etc.) Is this normal?? I think it's so weird! I didn't know this about her until I befriended one of her friends... I'm not even sure how to react. Barry TheLawyer: I think you must be a struggling lawyer to be posting on Yahoo, answering questions in the "friends" section, before 5pm on a weekday. No clients? Figures. |
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| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:41 PM PST she said lol for a mean comment and I answered "What is so funny about this?" Is my comment mean? |
| Question: Live alone in 1 apartment or share apartment better for student? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:38 PM PST Sometimes, I feel lonely during semester although I am busy with part-time job. I really want to make friends,I am a bit shy and planning to move out to a new room but I do not sure what to choose? However I also prefer private life. I don't want to disturb other with silly thing: smelly food, noise... Not sure in share apartment, can you concentrate on studying? Your experience? |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:26 PM PST How do you call people (in one word) who like to belittle achievement of other people (their friends or acquaintances), to tell them they look older than they are, to say their house is not worth that much and at the same time who boast excessively and repeatedly about their achievements, their property value etc. possibly adding a lot of lies and phantasy to their rant. |
| Question: Is it weird to get my best guy friend a gift for Christmas? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST So me and my friend have known each other for 7 years. I started having feelings for him about 3 years ago but I found out a few months ago that he would rather stay friends because he doesn't want to jeopardize our friendship. I was ok with that. Recently we started hang out again. I want to get him a Christmas present but I don't want him to think I still have feelings for him. Would it be weird if I bought him a Christmas present? It's nothing extravagant it's just a beanie of his favorite team. |
| Question: Can someone please help me so that I won't be depressed forever? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 12:14 PM PST My friends have tried to help me with my emotional,mental,and social issues but they tell me whatever and then stop talking to me in a hurry As if they're annoyed by me asking them for help constantly. They've said that they don't know how to help me because they're girls just because they don't care about my needs. They told me to talk to a male. My counselor told me to talk to an assistant principal because she supposedly can't help me. They think that it is helping me when I don't even feel helped at all. In first grade a tall guy teased me. In second grade I was called fat because I was big and someone pulled my chair back causing me to miss the chair and land on the floor. In third grade my teacher didn't get along with me. In fifth grade my teacher got angry whenever I asked for help when it was to hard to understand something in class so she limited me to 3 questions each day. In sixth grade I had my supplies taken from me,my pants were wrote on by someone else,and I was teased a lot so I hit someone and throw someone against the wall for touching my pencil. In middle school I mocked people because I felt that was a way to get revenge for the bullying that I received. A girl gave me a fake phone number in ninth grade. In tenth grade I've been teased by two girls who annoyed me to the point where I threw gum and paper at them,I've been embarrassed by teachers who have asked me to read stuff which got me teased by other students. I'm very depressed and no one can help. |
| Question: I told my friend that we don't need to talk everyday and she got offended? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:53 AM PST Was this wrong? She gossips A LOT and tells me everyone's secrets, even though I've told her that she should keep those things to herself. She used to call me several times a day and text all day, but since I told her that we don't need to talk everyday, she started talking about me to everyone in her clique. Yeah, I probably shouldn't have worded it that way.. But when I tried letting the friendship dissolve naturally (because we have nothing in common anyway), she hounded me even more. |
| Question: Why doesn't he want to be my friend anymore? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:44 AM PST We are 16 & were practically best friends in 9th grade. Over summer we drifted apart (we were very busy with work & family trips). We were still friends at the start of 10th grade but not as close. But now, for the last 3 weeks, he hasn't seemed bothered with me. If I talk to him he will reply politely but with short answers. I start any convo we have. It hurts as he is one of the nicest guys I've ever known, he would go out of his way to do favors for me etc. I really miss him & don't know what happened. My friends & parents thought he liked me in 9th grade but I don't think he did & he certainly doesn't now, so I don't think feelings were involved here but I started to catch feelings for him a few weeks ago, but was very subtle about it.Help? |
| Question: Husbands female best friend... Don't know how to feel? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:30 AM PST Husband has a female best friend. He actually has quite a few female friends. I don't have anything against him being friends with females. Before I married him and while we were dating I knew he hung around a lot of females. However, he loves womens boobs. Whatever again don't care well since being married for 3 years and living together for 4 I discovered some of that he has some nude pics of these female friends. He sworn to me that nothing sexual has ever happened between them. I can believe that to be true but for a man to keep pictures like that makes me believe that he has wanted to be with them. Not only that but the one female friend I can't bring myself to trust hurt him majorly financially before we ever got together but he told me about it cause he is pretty much friends with her whole family. Long story short the whole family is full of thieves and liars. I don't trust any of them but he feels I shouldn't hold anything against this one woman because he forgives her for what she did. Now I have seen some of there conversations the most recent one she is accusing me of not trusting him and that it isn't fair that I don't "let him" hang with her or anyone else by himself. I don't stop him from hanging out with anyone. I get upset that he doesn't want to invite me along or that he makes plans without including me. I am afraid this friendship is going to come between our marriage because it is all secretive. He isn't open about them at all. Help? |
| Question: Will my life actually get better after high school? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:28 AM PST When it comes to academics and sports I couldnt get any better. I hold my school's record for the mile and I have straight A's. Also, I'm only a junior and I have already been accepted into my top choice school for nursing. However, I have a lot of trouble making friends. I'm definetly not hated but I'm basically just that person you talk to if you have literally no one else to talk to. The people on my track team never want to talk to me either. I always compliment them or try to start conversation and they just give a general response and walk away. When people actually give me a chance they really enjoy talking to me but that rarely happens. I'm also very ugly. Im not saying that in a typical white girl way I actually am. I have a SEVERE acne and try everything to get rid of it but nothing works. I also lost partvof one of my eyebrows in a car accident and it never grew back. I also have a square face and im very hairy everywhere and Im saving for college so i cant afford waxing. I contemplate suicide each day because im so awkward and ugly. Im afraid ill never make friends and be lonely forever. Does it actually get better? Be honest |
| Question: I hung out with the wrong people in high school? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:21 AM PST I am 21 years old, I hang out with my true, closest friends, probably about 5-7 kids lol, we have dreams and goals, got each others back, vent, make each other laugh, not in each others business, what normal good friends do, they are quite introverted like I am, which is probably why I get along with them so much haha. In high school, I hung out with the wrong crowd, I hung out with people who were losers, awkward, put each other down, drama queens, made fun of me, controlled each other, the "crab mentality" group, now that I look back, I am so HAPPY I dont chill with them anymore, the only time I see them really is when my close friends play sports with them ,(few nights a week). They haven't changed, I dont deserve them anyway, I am smart, quiet, and never follow the crowd, I always do my own thing, as you can see, I feel good being solitary. I always sit back with my close friends and laugh and those peoples drama, after all, its funny watching idiots right? But then I remember, I was part of those idiots, I was the one they picked on to make themselves feel better, I feel guilty that I was dumb enough to be around them, I think back and the times I could've stood up and walked away and never talk to them again, but I didn't, I just feel so stupid at how stupid I was back then. What makes me feel better is that I won't be near them next semester, bc ill be so busy w going to school following my dreams, and working, any1 else feel me? Have/had this problem? |
| Question: How do I fix my mistake with my friends? RESPOND ASAP? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:17 AM PST When I was mad at my friend K, I would talk about her to L, and when I was mad at L I would tell K. Well, K and L started sharing screenshots of texts last night, and they both are mad. I know I f***** up, and I want to fix it. I really learned my lesson, and won't ever do it again. How do I fix this? L probably won't ever talk to me again, as her texts said "I trusted you with my life." "Go commit suicide." Rather than K's texts that said "I'm mad, but I don't want to end our friendship over it." I apologized, and told them it was acceptable to hate me, or/and never talk to me again. I feel really awful about the whole thing. Truly, I regret it, and wish I could take it all away because I really hate myself and life right now. Does this make me an awful person? |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:15 AM PST What would happen if their best friend stopped being friends with them because they felt overwhelmed by the reliance that individual has/had on them? How would the anxiously attached person react? Is an anxious attachment the same as being a person with dependent personality disorder? Is it different if it is a best friend as compared to a caregiver? Or is that best friend considered the caregiver in the other person's eyes? |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 11:06 AM PST I left a positive reference. |
| Question: His 'teasing' is out of hand... Why does he do this? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 10:56 AM PST I'm a 20 year old girl, and my 21 year old (fairly new) coworker has started teasing me... And not just 'teasing', but is practically insulting me every chance he gets. Even though he says it all in a joking matter, he's indirectly commented that I'm ugly, I stink, I'm clumsy, lazy, dumb, and the list goes on and on (and I know none of these are true). He also takes things I say and somehow embarrasses me about it. He's even started throwing tiny wads of paper at me whenever he can. Despite all of this, he tries to make me laugh and sits right next to me during our break. Why would someone do this? For a college student, he practically acts like an 8 year old. |
| Question: I feel completely lost. Lonely..Don't know how to fit in? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST Basically me and my ex broke up about 3 months ago. since then I realised how lonely I really am. I've accepted the fact that we're not getting back together so obviously I've been trying to have fun with my friends and stuff and I realised how shitty my friends are. When my friends bailed on me before my ex used to fill the gap so I didn't realise it and it didn't bother me that much but now it's different. A few days ago on my birthday I invited 10 of my good friends out for dinner and a few drinks, only 3 showed up and one had a valid excuse. Her son was at the hospital. One of my ( best friends) told me that she didn't have any money but she ended up going out with her other friends which obviously hurt me. When I confronted her she didn't seem to care. And I'm just having a hard time. I find it hard to fit in, I feel more mature than most people that I'm around and apparently I have a ***** face so people find it hard to approach me, same with guys, they think I'm stuck up. But honestly I'm a nice girl I don't shut anyone out for no reason and I'm not stuck up or anything. I don't like going out all the time and my friends go clubbin all the time so I always feel left out even though it's my choice not to go. I've been trying to find new friends but it's just so difficult, when everyone is in their comfort zone and you're the only one left out.. Any advice? |
| Posted: 23 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST So I have one female friend, she's the only female friend I've had because to be honest I simply think men are less complicated and easy to get along. We are not friends with benefits since I don't find her attractive. We are friends because we're similar intellectually and spiritually and she's demonstrated so many times that she's there for me and I trust her. She has woman issues now and there which are a bit annoying but what has been really taking the cake recently is that she has scolded me twice in 2 weeks. The first time was 2 weeks ago she very seriously told me that she does not want to hear me talking about weed, although she's smokes tobacco all the time. My male friends don't smoke weed and they simply laugh at my stories or don't mind them at all, but for my female friend to tell me what we can and we can't talk about that's just not cool. Anyways, we met yesterday because I had to give her instructions about my apartment which she will be taking care of but before she told me "there was something very serious to talk about" Then she scolded me about something incredibly silly: we went to a bar and a friend of hers invited everyone their drinks and I thought it was pretty cool and wanted to do the same but some other day as I had to leave. Anyways she sat me down and basically scolded me about being stingy and that she has never seen me inviting stuff, although I have invited her one or two things in the past. But why do they feel they have to scold? |
| Question: What am I doing wrong? Posted: 23 Nov 2015 10:31 AM PST I m 1.85cm tall. 75kg heavy and do all kinds of sports (Baseball, Basketball, Soccer, Volleyball, Tennis,...) I m training 5 days per week. I m good at school and my classmates do like me. But at home I m alone. I don t meet with friends or something like that. My friends are my teamates in Volleyball and Soccer. But when I haven t any practice I m alone. My 19th is comming closer. But I still hadn t a girlfriend. I never had sex and I never kissed a girl. Maybe I m not attractive enough? I don t know what to do. I m now in 12th grade. Doing my Abitur . My best friend is at the sametime my only real friend. |
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