Marriage & Divorce: Question: My wife is no longer interested in me? |
- Question: My wife is no longer interested in me?
- Question: Upper-caste Hindus rain bullets on lower class Dalit & minorities in India. Will these Hindu casteists ever learn?
- Question: Have a husband who goes to strip clubs looks at hard and soft porn etc...payback...your hurt feel pain..feel crappy?
- Question: Can I list my boyfriend as father on birth certificate?
- Question: My wife is demanding i change dry cleaners. should i just go along with it?
- Question: Does "love thy neighbor" mean it's ok to have an affair with my neighbor's wife?
- Question: VA BENEFITS.?
- Question: Does your ex husband have the right to know when people stay over at your place?
- Question: False motion in show cause filed against me what should i do ?
- Question: Should I marry him?
- Question: My wife read my journal. Should I feel disrespected?
- Question: How old were you when you met your husband/wife?
- Question: Wife s Friend?
- Question: I've been married for 30 years and love my wife very much but she has lost interest in sex and I haven't what am I to do?
- Question: Can a marriage being too stressful for you, make you lose love for your spouse?
- Question: Suicidal because husband wants a divorce?
- Question: Should I suggest watching porn with my husband?
- Question: I had an emotional affair with a friend. My wife now knows about it?
- Question: Wife takes credit for husband's accomplishments?
- Question: Why do women get like half of their husband's money after divorce? What if they have seperate bank accounts?
- Question: Should I get a prenup?
- Question: Need validation - Ex-wife really mad at me because son left his basketball at basketball practice?
- Question: How can I get my wife to come back to me?
- Question: Should you put a husband before....???
- Question: Should a man cuss at and disrespect another man's wife?
- Question: Am I wrong for sharing this with my soon to be husband?
- Question: Has your husband embarrassed you in public?
- Question: Husband molesting me and jacking off to his mother?
- Question: My husband and I have been sexting text/pictures to each other. Is that dangerous? Is it OK if we keep going?
- Question: My wife had our baby girl three months ago and she still doesn't give me any attention?
- Question: Marriage climate in the US very hostile to men? why get married?
- Question: Why do overweight people only marry other overweight people?
- Question: Dinner time Trouble?
- Question: My husband and I are fighting a lot?
- Question: Why do men have a life time mistress, and why do they cheat their wives?
- Question: Is this a fair compromise?
- Question: How do I get a divorce if spouse refuses to leave?
- Question: How can you love someone knowing you both married? All we do is just text each other nothing is else.?
- Question: My husband attracts everyone?
- Question: Can a wife slap her husband because he cheated on her?
- Question: Why does my wife need me to change the way I dress in public,we just got married and she imposes her will ?
- Question: Why sex instead marriage?
- Question: I dont understand my husband?
- Question: IVE BEEN MARRIED TO MY HUSBAND FOR 14 YRS, 3 YRS AGO . I FOUND OUT HE WAS WITH MY BROTHER IN A SEXUAL WAY. WHAT TO DO?
- Question: Alcohol issues?
- Question: How do I hide money from my wife?
- Question: Why would my bankruptcy be reported to my ex husband ?
- Question: Why is he choosing his step son over his biological daughter? & a woman who he is constantly fighting withm over the mother of his child ?
- Question: Husband and I have different bed times and its ruining our marriage what can we do?
- Question: Is it normal to not want to have sex until married?
- Question: Dating narcissim for over 2 years. !!!!?
- Question: How is porn not cheating? In my mind, the thought of him imagining having sex with another woman just breaks my heart. It s so realistic.?
- Question: Opinion on relationship between younger and older?
- Question: Threesomes in a marriage?
| Question: My wife is no longer interested in me? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 09:29 PM PST She gives all our focus to the baby. The baby is 7 months and still nursing, so always with her. She stays home while I work. We have sex once or so a month now. Before the baby it was 3-4 times a week. She says it's because of her body and being tired but it can't be that hard. She gave birth 7 months ago, there's no way her body is still messed up. I miss her and when I try to talk to her about it she gets mad and says I'm dumb for being like this, help. |
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| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:52 PM PST Do the same thing he did...not a big deal right...get ur body in shape...strip at amateur night ...look...and do exactly what he did...go to a giy place and look...no big deal ..look at pics ets....it all changes ....believe me ....oh but your my wife.....right.... |
| Question: Can I list my boyfriend as father on birth certificate? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:50 PM PST I have been separated from my soon to be ex Husband for over a year, but just recently filed for divorce. My current boyfriend and I recently found out we are expecting. My divorce should be final by the time the baby is born, but in the state of GA if a baby is conceived while you're still married you have to list the husband (even if divorced during birth) as father. So my question is can I simply lie on question form about the divorce date by a couple of months? |
| Question: My wife is demanding i change dry cleaners. should i just go along with it? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:14 PM PST my wife and I's finances or separator, but we have separate accounts at the same cleaners. I brought it to he attention that they charge double for a women cotton dress shirt than they do a mans. she started a crazy fight over it. wants me to boycott them. they do a good job..they unseen the buttons, then hand clean it and sow them back on. She said that all 3 the dry cleaners she went to did the same thing so we both should just have one of our maids clean our shirts for us. auto repair? i love my wife. she's was a virgin when we married, she's independently wealthy, beautiful and 21 yrs old. I'm 35. I don't know why she's so mad. she's says its not right for these low class immigrants to try and rip off upper class ladies. |
| Question: Does "love thy neighbor" mean it's ok to have an affair with my neighbor's wife? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:41 PM PST |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:25 PM PST MY FIRST HUSBAND AND I WERE MARRIED FOR 24 YRS THEN DIVORCED. AFTER THAT I REMARRIED ANOTHER MAN, THAT TOO ENDED IN DIVORCE. I HAVE NOW REMARRIED MY FIRST HUSBAND AGAIN. WILL I HAVE TO RE ACCUMULATE THE 10 YRS NEEDED TO RECEIVE HIS BENEFITS OR DOES THE FIRST MARRIAGE STILL COUNT. |
| Question: Does your ex husband have the right to know when people stay over at your place? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:07 PM PST Does your ex husband have the right to know when you have people stay he night at your place f you have children together living under your roof that you are raising pretty much without any of his help ? |
| Question: False motion in show cause filed against me what should i do ? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:02 PM PST My ex filed a 2 false show causes against me because he i didnt let him get our daughter after his visitation time. Let me explain ... He is supposed to get her every other weekend from friday at 7 pm to sunday 7 pm. He never comes to get her for his weekends and thinks he can pop up and get her when ever he feels like it. He popped up today at 9 pm threatening me to give him my daughter but his weekend is up. He told me he was going to file another show cause against me... He has already filed 2 (all of which are false) because he never shows up for visitation. Is there someone i should report to directly to keep him from making false reports on me? What should i do ? Im in the state of Va btw... |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:57 PM PST I love him and I want to marry him, yes. But I also need opinions of other peoples. I don't want to make a mistake like many girls do, and then they say "I should have known".. I'm not making my mind based on other peoples' opinions, I just take their opinions into consideration, and it makes me think more clear about all. The wedding is in three months, so yeah, I am overthinking everything. Please understand me! So, I'm 23, and he's 26. 6 years together. Here are some pros and cons of our relationship. Pros -He's always there for me. If I told him I needed a heart, I think he would rip his chest off to give it to me. He's always there for me in need. And not only for me - for everyone- which is wonderful. -He's not the typical ''macho'', but at the same time he is. We live together, and he helps with the house stuff a lot. -We have the same beliefs, attitudes, children goals, etc. -Loyal. -We're like best friends! We share secrets, have code names, inside jokes, etc. -Sex is great. Cons -We fight about little things once a week. We don't disrespect each other during our fights, it's just that our arguments are very loud and endless. And aggressive (not in an abusive way). -I hate his sister. She's an annoying idiot. Like, REALLY annoying. -He has a history with heroin and meth. Was an addict in the first two years of our relationship.:\ But he quit it. -We can both get VERY jealous. So? |
| Question: My wife read my journal. Should I feel disrespected? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:57 PM PST |
| Question: How old were you when you met your husband/wife? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:51 PM PST I'm 18 and my girlfriend is 17. We been together for a year. I know we're young and all but there's nobody else I've ever met in my life that come close to how much I love her and want to marry her. I've been told the odds are low that she's the one. But this could be one of those rare exceptions I hope |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:42 PM PST My wife s friend came to a party about a month ago at our house, I was drunk and asked her to make me a cake. Here we are a month later, and my wife said her friend had a dream about baking me a cake? |
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| Question: Can a marriage being too stressful for you, make you lose love for your spouse? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:41 PM PST |
| Question: Suicidal because husband wants a divorce? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 06:38 PM PST He's fallen in love with another woman. He says he's willing to be friends with me, but he can't stay married to a woman he doesn't desire like he once did. Why, though? I've given him my all - my body, my love, my compassion, my all. I'm never going to find a man like him, so the only option I'm left with is death. |
| Question: Should I suggest watching porn with my husband? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:24 PM PST Me and my husband has been together for 7 years now, and about 2 years ago I found that he had been basically addicted to porn for years. Porn doesn't bother me, there's no reason to be jealous over girls on the Internet, but what bothered me is in the past, I would ask him if he watched it and he flat out told me no, and even went on to say how wrong he thought it was and how he never could look at another girl other than me (never believed that one...lol) so anyway, when I found out I was hurt NOT bc he was watching it but because he had lied to me for years about it. When he was watching it, and I didn't know about it, we still had a great sex life. However, after I caught him, he admitted he had an addiction and wanted help so he had quit. He said he knew it hurt me and he didn't want to lose me (again, it was the lying that hurt me) and so he quit. It's been about 6 months or so since he's apparently stopped watching porn but our sex life has really went to hell. It doesn't make sense to me. we went from having sex like 5 times a week to like once a week.. And that bothers me. Maybe he isn't attracted to me and can't have a normal sex life with me without fantasizing over other girls. Should I suggest that I'd watch porn with him or just leave it alone and not bring it up since we haven't really talked about it since? Please no mean comments.. |
| Question: I had an emotional affair with a friend. My wife now knows about it? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:03 PM PST I am not justifying myself for having emotionally cheated on my wife. I rather feel awful for having lost my sense of right and wrong. I had an emotional affair with a friend of mine who I just bumped into online. We were batchmates at college but I never had any feelings for her back then. After so many years we met each other on Facebook. She was warm, friendly, even so flirtatious. We started chatting and we flirted with each other quite a lot. We met twice for coffee but there was no sex, no physical intimacy involved anywhere. However after some weeks I felt this wasn't right and so I suggested my friend that we end this friendship right away. I deleted the conversation but it wasn't entirely deleted. Some major parts of it were still there on my laptop. My wife and I share the laptop and so my wife saw it. After the confrontation I came up with the whole truth and apologised. Needless to say, she is hurt beyond imagination. She has been a good wife to me and I feel so bad for putting her through all this. It's been a month since she knows this. She is now talking of a divorce. But I don't want to lose her. I love my wife. It was a just a lapse of judgement and I stopped on time. I wish my wife could forgive me. What should I do.please |
| Question: Wife takes credit for husband's accomplishments? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 03:51 PM PST I know a woman who has very little employment history. Her husband is an executive in the finance industry and she constantly makes comments like "we struggled and had to work cashier jobs, fast food jobs, etc to make ends meet". She will also say "we bought this house, we made such and such money last year". These are all things her husband has done, not her (except the fast food thing). So, why does she constantly try to take credit for things her spouse has accomplished- while she is a housewife? She tries to give her adult child job advice, but it sounds ridiculous because she has no experience to speak of. She also brags about her chest size and money as well. |
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| Question: Should I get a prenup? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 03:21 PM PST I love my girlfriend with all my might, and we're both going to be pretty wealthy engineers, but I've been researching it a lot and it seems logical to get one. Her family is very religious, mine is not, but we believe in God. She is VERY family-oriented and I hate hers so I don't understand it. She also definitely wants kids, but I don't know if I ever will. These are the only problems I can foresee in the marriage, but I can see potential in them. I can see it can be a great marriage, but I don't want to get a divorce with 3 kids that I might have gotten pressured into, a nice house I probably wouldn't get in the divorce, things like that. She's very logical and such, I just am the guy, and I don't want to be screwed in a divorce. Any suggestions or thoughts? |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 03:21 PM PST Was with my wife for 17 years. She had an affair with a coworker and decided to divorce me to chase him. We have 50/50 custody of our two kids. I picked our son up from my ex wife's house to take him to basketball practice yesterday. He's 10. She handed him his basketball and told him to take it to practice with. I sat with the parents at the practice and had his coat with me and sweat pants plus a book and my coat. He practiced with the ball and then placed it on the other side of the court. Today, we stopped by my ex's house to drop something off and she asked for the basketball. I honestly think both my son and I forgot about it and it hit us then that it may have been left. His name wasn't on the basketball and with 3 other team practices following his, it is unlikely we will get it back. I apologized to her and told her what likely happened and told her I would buy a replacement basketball. She started yelling at me in front of the kids and telling me I had zero accountability. I apologized. I acknowledged it was likely accidently left at the practice and I offered to try to make things right by buying another one. I'm not sure what more I can do. Is there anything more I should be doing and am unaware of or is she over reacting? |
| Question: How can I get my wife to come back to me? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:52 PM PST My wife and I have been married for only 3 years but been together for 6. When we first started dating she wouldn't be in a serious relationship with me because I drank a lot. I had to slow down my drinking to only drinking beer for her to get serious with me. My drink of choice is whiskey. I went through a long period not drinking very much only drinking beer. Through our relationships I got her out of a lot of debt and paid off her irs debt. I wiped her butt when she had back surgery and did everything for her for about a year most men would have left. She left me this summer because she found out I drank some whiskey behind her back while she went on vacation and I talked to my ex wife. She knows my ex wife is remarried and we've been friends off and on for 10 years, there is nothing there but friendship. Yes I like to drink whiskey from time to time. She has gotten to the point she doesn't want me to drink at all anymore. Its not fairn, she goes off to her little vacations once a month all I want is to be at home and enjoy some whiskey without hiding it. I pay for all her trips and supported her financially. What is wrong with me wanting to drink occasionally esp when she gets to vacation? I don't want to stop drinking period but I want her to let me drink sometimes. I could cut it down if she didn't put so much pressure on me. How can I get her back? She will not come back because her bottom line is for me not to drink at all. I love her. |
| Question: Should you put a husband before....??? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:48 PM PST your career and family? To me, my career and parents and siblings are my life. Why should I love a husband more than my family and carer, which provides me money? Money is a need. So are good parents and siblings. Husbands come and go. And many wives regret putting their husband first. So many men stick to bad women like glue; good men and women both are not appreciated b/c they're boring in relationships, whereas bad men and women are exciting. Why should i put a man before my career and parents? Sorry, but blood is thicker than water. He can be here today but gone the next. And don't give me any religious quotes or nonsense from the bible, as I'm not religious. Men can come and go. Not my career nor my siblings and parents. I love them more and always will. Not saying I don't love my husband much, or that I will endanger him cuz of my career, but I will never think he's superior to these things and people. A husband began as a complete stranger and can end up as one again if our marriage fails. To me, I will always love my parents and siblings more than him. I will always love my career more too. Money is better than a husband. |
| Question: Should a man cuss at and disrespect another man's wife? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:44 PM PST When my hubby and I 1st married, we like all couples fought like crazy the 1st year or so. We were in the middle of a disagreement at the in laws that started back @ home and I brought it up. My husband said to quiet down, we can discuss this later. His father then jumped up out of his chair, and began cursing, belittling, threatening, and calling me every name under the sun. My husband's mother even joined in and they made me cry. My husband did absolutely nothing about it. Should a man (family or not) talk to another man's wife like a dog like my father in law did me? He also lost his job shortly after his little verbal tirade against me---- but men, what would you do if your father talked to your woman like trash? Oh and the man did this right in front of minor children as well. Actually, this happened many, many years ago. And our therapist jumped down my husband's throat and said that it was HIS fault for allowing his dad to do this and never to allow it again, he hasn't. Those were not my kids he did it in front of- they were HIS. |
| Question: Am I wrong for sharing this with my soon to be husband? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:32 PM PST Lately I have been on the receiving end of hurtful back handed comments from family which has now lowered my self esteem. This hurts me and I wanted to talk this out, first with the family members but they are avoiding me. So I shared what they said to me to my fiancé and he didn't want to say anything, instead told me I'm wrong for sharing these things with him. That he understands I'm feeling hurt, he would too, but don't talk behind my family's back. He's afraid I'll bring this bad habit about sharing to others in our marriage. By sharing what hurts me I thought I was helping us become emotionally closer but he's pushing me away. Am I wrong? |
| Question: Has your husband embarrassed you in public? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:29 PM PST This may be a minor issue, but we were in a store discussing an item we wanted to buy and the conversation lead to animals and seafood. The salesperson talked about liking seafood. I said I like lobster, except for the fact that lobsters in restaurants are on display in a tank before one is seated. I said lobsters were animals. My husband said, immediately, in front of the salesperson, that NO they were not animals, but "crustaceans." He was all miffed at me and rolling he eyes. I felt embarrassed in front of the salesperson. I lump all animals together under the animal kingdom. I normally don't classify them. My husband gets upset if I don't pronounce words properly and gets a look of disgust on his face. I've always had a hard time with pronouncing words. My dad was the same way. |
| Question: Husband molesting me and jacking off to his mother? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:22 PM PST |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 02:02 PM PST My husband and I have been married for 23 years (I'm 44 and he's 49). We've been doing some things to spice up our sex life. One thing we've done I'm torn about is sexting. Not every text we send to each other is sexual, but there are times during he week we'll have a raunchy or dirty texting conversation. Something I've been torn about is the pictures. My husband and I have recently been sending raunchy pictures to one another. It's really fun, but part of me thinks it's stupid because of the possibility someone could see one of the pictures. At some level that adds to the excitement, but another part of me feels like I'm being reckless and stupid. Should I stop sexting or is it OK to keep going? Am I being really immature by doing this? |
| Question: My wife had our baby girl three months ago and she still doesn't give me any attention? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 12:37 PM PST She says she does but she really doesn't. I work my *** off to make sure her and our baby girl have everything they want and she doesn't even take time to be intimate in any way anymore. I haven't had sex with her since she was 7 months pregnant. I'm a little frustrated and she just doesn't get it. She won't even let me fondle her because she's nursing and blah blah blah. I'm not sure what to do to make her realize that I need some attention too. I understand she loves our daughter but cmon now. |
| Question: Marriage climate in the US very hostile to men? why get married? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 11:35 AM PST I've been pressured into getting married but I fail to see a reason. First of all, this isn't the good old days where men can find a virgin with ease and marry. Nowadays, most women of marriage age in the US have had multiple "partners" which makes them unsuitable for marriage. Men are hardwired to NOT want to commit to such woman so it's not my fault. Speaking of which, since most women now are open to sex after a few dates, why commit yourself in marriage if you can get all the perks without marriage? And lastly, the legal system in the US is heavily biased against men and I don't want to eventually lose half of my net worth or having to pay outrageous child support. I've heard people can live very well without marriage/child and it would have been impossible if they married and divorced. Is marriage just for giving a child legitimacy? I just cannot find a single reason why a man should marry in this climate. Let's face it, men hate tramps. The liberal media will not tell you that, but a poll of 50000 men reveals only 5% of men want a girl with more than 5 partners. Those guys who pretend they don't care about a girl's history is lying only to get laid, or are too afraid to speak how they think deep down. That's why fewer and fewer men marry |
| Question: Why do overweight people only marry other overweight people? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 10:59 AM PST |
| Question: Dinner time Trouble? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:45 AM PST My husband works full time at a city desk job. I'm a stay at home mom. He gets up 30 min before me so he can have quiet time in the bathroom. At 6:30 I wake up our 13 year old & I go down to make breakfast & school lunch. By 7 o'clock her ride is here. At 7 I wake up our 6 year old. I have to physically dress him in his school uniform, feed him, have his stuff together & he's ride comes at 7:45. From that time, I sit & drink a cup of coffee & watch the news for a few minutes. Then I start my work. I clean, do laundry, garden, pay bills, fold laundry, pick up toys, plus whatever else is thrown my way. Some days I "forget" to eat because I'm so busy. I do not drive, so if I get an offer to go grocery shopping I will take it. At 3 the kids come home. I give the little one a snack & then we do homework at 4. The older ones does her own work. At 5 o'clock my hubby comes home & the first thing he does is plops his *** on the couch. Then he asks what's for dinner. At this point, I'm emotionally and physically dead. He would make My life easier if I could open up a bag of battered chicken from trader joes that just need to warmed and add the sauce & make instant potoroos. But instead he wants a full home made dinner. Then when I ask him to barbecue something, he says no because he worked all day. So if that's dinners plan, I have to do it. I never get a few minute to myself and I'm still doing stuff until 8-9pm What Is the best compromise that I can suggest to him. My husband also thinks I do nothing all day while the kids are in school because he's even gold me "you get hours of quiet time while the kids are in school". no I don't! |
| Question: My husband and I are fighting a lot? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 08:20 AM PST My husband and I were together 4 years before we got married, married for 3 before having our baby. Our baby is four months old and this was never a problem before. The first six weeks were challenging being new parents but we didn't have relationship problems. We both got time off, he did all the heavy lifting. When baby woke up for a feeding, he would bring her to me so I didn't have to get out of bed, took over cleaning so I could rest a lot, and the baby slept a lot.I noticed we stopped rituals we used to do. Even though he leaves for work earlier than me, I used to get up early so we could eat breakfast together, and say goodbye to each other in the morning. We used to walk our dog together everyday after work. We used to go out more. Now, I'm too tired to wake up early if I don't have to. He has to cook dinner, I have to change and bathe the baby, walk the dog, feed her. I don't like taking our daughter anywhere in case she starts crying. Our sex life is the same now. We just wait for the baby to be asleep. Anyway, we're always fighting, I don't even know why. We never had bad fights where we insulted each other or swore. Now we'll raise our voices. He slams things, has told me to shut the f*** up. I've called him an a**hole, an idiot and told him to go f*** himself. I'm not proud of that, neither is he. We always apologize. We hire a sitter one night a week which helps remind us that we love each other. We probably would have killed each other by now without it. I've brought up marriage counseling. He said maybe it'd be a good idea. I just haven't made the appointment yet. Going to a counselor will make me feel like a failure after only 7 years together. |
| Question: Why do men have a life time mistress, and why do they cheat their wives? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:40 AM PST |
| Question: Is this a fair compromise? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 07:30 AM PST My wife and I are in our 30's, married for just a few years, and very much in love. She was a virgin when we married and one thing I discovered is that her libido is much much less than mine, I want sex everyday, she wants it once or twice a month. I'm good looking, workout and in good shape, use toys and foreplay and do romantic things, she reaches what she describes as mind blowing orgasms, it's just that it's enough to last her a long time and she doesn't have the same drive. She recently offered me a deal, I have to give up masturbating and give up asking her for quickies, handjobs, and blowjobs (she hates all of them) in exchange for guaranteed sex once a week, but absolutely no more than that. she said she'll be checking me randomly, especially after using the restroom, to see if I've masturbated or not (basically if I'm limp when she caresses me, she'll know - she's very perceptive of my mood afterwards too, she always finds out when I do. If she catches me, the deal is cancelled indefinitely. She says she's sacrificing for me too, as she has a very stressful managerial job and pays all our bills. Is this a fair compromise? I'd really like a female perspective on this as well. She says we'll still have romance and affection throughout the week. |
| Question: How do I get a divorce if spouse refuses to leave? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:36 AM PST |
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| Question: My husband attracts everyone? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 05:24 AM PST My husband is moderately handsome. he is not by any means a model, or the funniest most flirtatious person in the world, but still. i hate feeling jealous because i love him alot, and although i trust him i keep getting myself into scenarios where, girls approach him and start talking to him and flirting with him. ignore it but it is ANNOYING. ive been told im intimidatingly beautiful, from other guys. i dont always get approached right away. sometimes i even find GUYS flirting with him. |
| Question: Can a wife slap her husband because he cheated on her? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:28 AM PST I was wondering because women like to slap when someone deserves it. I know some dude who has married for 17 years. He started cheating emotionally on her a year ago. She found out and told him to leave but she was hitting him and slapping him. She also threw his clothes onto the sidewalk outside. Neighbors came up to the dude and told him one way to control a women is to hit her. The dude nevers hits her but she hits him. She constantly kicks him out of his own house he has to sleep in his own car but his name is on the mortage but the deed of the house is both of their names. Can she slap him or scratch him and cause blood to come out or kick him out? And can she lie to the police saying he threatned her with his gun he works security. Lets say i record her saying she's going to lie to the cops about him threatening her what can happen to her if she told the cops about her husband and i say thats a lie i have proof that the dude is innocent. After that what can happen to her. This is all in Florida Dade County. They're my parents that's why I care |
| Posted: 22 Nov 2015 04:07 AM PST I'm 24,my wife is 31,and she is the type of very conservative Christian.She never goes out in public in casual or sport clothing. She wears only conservative outfits/dresses/skirts,shoes,like everyday is SUNDAY ! We got married 6 months ago,and before that I used to wear very casual clothing (jeans, t-shirts,sneakers,etc). Now she wants me to totally change the way I dress in public,so we both wear same kind of clothing,I mean conservative. Meaning in my case, dress shirts & pants, leather lace-up shoes,etc. I just hate that!! At least not every day! She takes this issue very seriously. Being very stubborn... Should I do the way she wants?? |
| Question: Why sex instead marriage? Posted: 22 Nov 2015 01:12 AM PST I have been no sided if you see,if you look? |
| Question: I dont understand my husband? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:56 PM PST Sometimes i thought he loves me a lot,sometimes doesn't.he never shared me anything he likes or he wanted.always trying to hide from me,now i know why his sister always hate me because he leaks that,what ever i had been done.he has no emotions,everything he thinks ,logically . i was planning to divorced him but he didn't want me to divorced.whatever i wanted to buy,he will buy for me as much as he can afford. |
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| Posted: 21 Nov 2015 11:20 PM PST I really need an advice?, so my husband went to his homeboy house to watch the fight and when he came back for me and the baby,of course he was drunk as f... and so I was like OK whatever I drive but the baby got cold because when I took him outside to put him ln the truck.... so I was like OK I'm gonna turn on the heater and he started to say no, and I told him that the baby was cold and he said he didn't give a f... so here is the deal, when he doesn't drink he's the sweetest man on earth,but when he gets drunk he's a big asshole! And I just don't know what to do anymore? |
| Question: How do I hide money from my wife? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:44 PM PST |
| Question: Why would my bankruptcy be reported to my ex husband ? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:34 PM PST I have a child with my ex husband who I have a very bitter relationship with and who pays me child support. I was assured by my lawyers that my ex would not be contacted about my filing but today I was greeted with a phone call telling me he got a letter in the mail letting him know I filed for bankruptcy and now that he knows I'm financially wounded he wants to fight me for custody because he knows I can't afford a lawyer right now. Why would they report this to my ex? |
| Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:33 PM PST I dated a guy for a few months then found out I was pregnant. I also realized our entire short relationship was a lie. He was separated from his wife for 2 years. She was living with another man and had a kid with him. She left him and came back to my child's dad when I told him I was pregnant. They've been off and on ever since. Every time they break up he asks to meet my daughter and/or take me out on a date. but I say no not until he proves he won't be back and forth with us. He also always asks if I'll have "just a sexual relationship" with him. He said he regrets getting back with her but he loves her too much to leave. He says he wants to adopt her son and never meet his daughter so we won't be split families. I'm ok with that because I don't want my daughter around that much drama. He and his wife constantly break up and have affairs. She's hospitalized him 2 times from trying to kill him. He says she's a horrible mom and wouldn't trust her around our daughter. He says he trusts me to raise her alone. He always threatens divorce. I'm sick of being his back up family. I'm so lost. I know he's not a good guy and I need to let it go but its hard. I can't comprehend how he'd rather be with a girl who sits at home and uses drugs and his money over someone who can take care of herself and kid. Idk y he'd choose a kid he didn't meet for 2yrsrs who was created by his wife leaving him once again for another man. Idk y I just started getting bothered by this after 3yrs.help |
| Question: Husband and I have different bed times and its ruining our marriage what can we do? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:15 PM PST |
| Question: Is it normal to not want to have sex until married? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 10:06 PM PST |
| Question: Dating narcissim for over 2 years. !!!!? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 09:14 PM PST I v been dating Narcissim for over 2 years now , after I realized he s cheating lieng insulting me. Any way I m on my way to dumb him. Doing the gray teck to make easier for me. Today. He did something while I was cleaning the home. Liston to music makes him horney. He told me that before. Then he left the home. He s like telling me Iam going out to cheat. Why he does that. And did he really went out to cheat. ?? Answer please. |
| Posted: 21 Nov 2015 06:44 PM PST I don t think it has to do with insecurity. No, I don t look like a kid anymore now that I m 34 and have had his 3 kids, but I could have easily starred in a porn film when I was younger. I just didn t because I believe sex is a sacred thing between man and wife. We both married as virgins, so maybe that s why I take it more seriously than other women seem to? Am I insecure in the relationship? Well, I am now. It seems pretty idiotic not to be if I m not enough? I m as beautiful as art, I want sex at least once a day (I waited 21 years for it, not one to ever squander an opportunity), I m the sexiest kisser, fun, creative...so why wouldn t he be as loyal to me as I am to him? Someone please explain to me why I need to let it go and get on with my life, because I m acting like someone I couldn t even stand to live with myself (#notsofunanymore). I m just frozen in the depths of despair, in so much emotional agony...I just can t stop obsessing over the betrayal. I don t want to be so merciless AT ALL, I just feel like I m grieving my husband s death. Like he s a completely different person now. I ve pretty much cried myself to sleep every other night since I walked in on him 4 months ago (we still have sex first though, but it usually reminds me of it...). Yeah, I know this isn t sustainable, and my emotions will probably end up causing even more damage to the relationship. I dont see how I could be in more pain if it was a real woman from work or something. Just...advice? |
| Question: Opinion on relationship between younger and older? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 05:25 PM PST Alright. So, I wanted to gather some opinions on my situation. I was 16 when I met a man who was 25. I was not like someone my age; I grew up in poverty without my father. I spent my youth working to help put food on the table for my sister and myself. My mother worked 2 jobs, so the responsibility fell on me to help take care of my physically and mentally challenged sister. I grew up raising a child and ended up taking on a parental role due to the absence of my parents. I as well endured some things that made me more aware and mature than others my age. The man I met was very introverted. He was over 300 lb in high school and endured a lot of bullying. He had never had a girlfriend, nor had he ever kissed a girl. He was very respectful of me and honestly, was the first man that had ever respected me enough not to put a move on me. When we met, he was unaware of my age. We talked as friends in the beginning but it quickly grew into a real relationship. I know people tend to look down on relationships like this due to thinking the girls are being taken advantage of. However, I am now 20, he is 29. We are married and have a son. He is so supportive and treats me better than I ever could have asked for. He's a great guy. I ask for opinions because my husband has been feeling like society would look down on him even now, after all these years, regardless of the circumstances. I was curious what people really thought about stories like ours. Thank you so much! |
| Question: Threesomes in a marriage? Posted: 21 Nov 2015 04:48 PM PST Wife is bisexual and wants to have threesomes with other women. Your thoughts on this? |
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