Family: Question: Im gay. Should i come out to my homophobic parents today on Thanksgiving?

Question: Im gay. Should i come out to my homophobic parents today on Thanksgiving?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:59 PM PST

im 14 yo boy and i have a girlfriend right now but im actually gay. anyways i was thinking of writing them a letter asking them to pls accept me. btw even tho they are really homophobic i dont think they would ever kick me out or disown me bc we are really close.

Question: Nobody in my family defends me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:54 PM PST

I could go on and on, so i'm gonna try and make it quick. My older brother asked me a question about a channel on TV, and I said I don't know and didn't look it up to find out for him. He says, don't be a douchebag just look it up for me. My parents are in the same roo , they say nothing. This happens a lot and it makes my confidence go down a ton, cause they can say it and no one bats an eye, but if I say it i get grounded. Plenty of these things happen commonly, and it makes me feel like i'm nothing because their my family. Can I be successful in life and not be a part of my family? What should I do just ignore them for 5 more years?

Question: My cousin who I haven't seen in a long time has strep throat. What do I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:49 PM PST

My cousin who I haven't seen in a really long time has come to visit the family. She usually lives about 3-4 hours away, so anytime I see her is a great celebration. This thanksgiving she is coming the family thanksgiving dinner, but she has strep throat. She's still coming. I'm in high school choir and I have a really important choir concert next week. What should I do? I want to see her but I don't want to get sick. My sister is also seeing her and my sister always gets sick so she will definitely get sick from my cousin. Then she'll bring it back home and I might get it. What do i do?

Question: My dad says I'm not allowed to get a job at hot topic and I'm not allowed to apply to Work there I'm 23 years old?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:29 PM PST

I field out a job application by my self I'm a responsible adult and I'm told off all the time all I'm trying to do is make my own decisions and i get in trouble by my parents

Question: My mom is such a spoiled brat?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:26 PM PST

I have a pair of UGGs that I bought myself and my mom is constantly asking to wear them even though she knows I'm already going to wear them and then she gets mad and complains to my dad that I'm so mean to her so he's probably going to go buy her a pair even tho were apparently "hurting for money" and I know this because she does this all the time and my dad always feels bad for her and buys her stuff. Even to the point where I'm charging my phone and she will make me take my phone off the charger (and of course I cant disrespect her and say no) just to charge hers even though she has hers in the next room but is too lazy to get it.

Question: Am I betraying my family?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:21 PM PST

Most of my family has brown eyes but today I'm getting surgery to change my eyes to grey is this betraying my family even though my cousin and mom dyed theyre hair blonde

Question: Which phone would be taller (10 points)?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:18 PM PST

Well there are 2 phones I can choose from, I want a really tall big phone. One is 6.38 inches height and one is 6.4 inches height. Which one would be taller?

Question: Why can't I get over my past?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:09 PM PST

Hi OK when I was 17 tell 20 I been abused physically and emotionally my by my aunt she used to hit me call me names slap me and so much more. She always said I was worthless and disrespectful person and she hated me. That ended 5 years ago. The thing is I hate myself I feel angry and I still cry over it I used to cry everyday but now I cry every time u remember. I'm still hurt and sad what's worse is mom seeing me getting hurt and ignore her. Every time I talk to her about it she tells me to be quite and gets angery and change the subject. I hate myself to be honest I feel like I'm a bad person I'm Rancorous that's what's my sister said. My problem is I feel worthless and I have low self esteem and confidence. Thank you for your time

Question: Do I have a right to be mad? My boyfriend doesn't Seam to think so.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:53 AM PST

My boyfriends parents live near to us, his dad sometimes has to go away for business. His mum is a housewife but has decided on a number of occasions that she can't stand to be alone so has gone with the father away. Their dog, which was brought when my partner was a kid, needs to be cared for and they've decied he can't stay in any kind of dog home and why should he? He's got us just down the road to take care of him. However after a couple of times of looking after the dog i soon became sick of it, it's caused problems and arguements because of a number of reasons. The dog is stressed away from Home so now move out of our house when the parents go away and move into theirs.. a few weeks ago they went Away& I had to live in their home for a week. Now is the second time In this number of weeks that she's decided to go away. Never asked me If I minded. but hey ho. So now next week. I can stay at home alone whilst my boyfriend lives alone in his parents house, or I could move in with him.. Now I can't help but be furious that this keeps happening, were in our 20s and have enough going on, I'm Sick of moving into his parents house Do I have the right to be this mad? Or am I selfish? My boyfriend says his parents do a lot for him so he needs to do this as he works from Home & can . Not to mention he has a sister who won't look after the dog herself because she also works and her and her boyfriend housemate can't be asked to deal with it.

Question: I think my relationship with my brother is ruined?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:51 AM PST

Awhile ago I caught my brother vaping (he is of age but I still don't want him to ruin his life) and anyway I was going to tell my parents but I decided not to because they would be very upset at him and I didn't want that. So I kept my mouth shut but now, everytime I see him I just ugh idk I always start fights with him now and he just annoys me and I don't think he hates me, it's more of me not liking him, and it's all because of his nicotine addiction. When he leaves the house for the military he is usually gone a couple weeks at a time and I don't even miss him, I just get mad when he comes back, everything he does annoys me now but I don't sleep hatred against him, just irritated that he is such a dumba$$ and isn't a man

Question: My parents won't let me watch Attack on Titan, but everyone else in my school is watching it and I feel left out. How can I convince them?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:34 AM PST

Question: Classic teen problems?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:33 AM PST

I am writing a sort of funny story, and the main character is a male teen. So, classically, what are some teen things to do, and things that teens fight over with their parents? Anything helps! Thanks and happy thanksgiving!

Question: My family is telling me to Pay the house, but I am under age?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:18 AM PST

Hello I am really stressed in these days because my family just told me that I must pay someart of the house and other stuff... I am 17 years old, so i have like almost a year to be 18, and i got a Job last week, so they are abusing for my money to pay the rent. I want to start investing my money in my studies after I graduate, So i dont know what to do, I'm just gonna be earning like 300$ a month if I do that. So is there something that I can do for it? I am really confused and stressed now because i think that is abusive to take my money, and even my sister has a job, but she is 25, and she is also pushing me to pay the house?! I dont understand what is wrong... Please tell me what to do or what should I dp, before i was happy that i will be going to earn money for my studies, but now if feel bad and frustated. I will appreciate your answer! *Sorry about my English, is not that good.

Question: What should I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:15 AM PST

My brothers threatens to kill me. As I'm writing this tears stream down my face, i don't know where to begin but I"ll start off with how old I am and my background; I'm an 18 year old girl living in the u.s for a couple of years now, under a family military visa. I'm originally from Saudi Arabia, I come from a very strict brainwashed family. I have 5 brothers who thinks they have the right to control my life which ever way they like. I've been physically, verbally abused. I'm not allowed to leave the house unless I'm with a family member. The only public place I'm allowed to be on my own is college. I met a (Refresh page to continue reading) Muslim American guy whom I've became very close to and we fell in love. I know that my family will never accept him although he shares the same faith as I do. It's more of a culture issue than religion. My lover (prefer to call him "lover" than bf haha sorry) suggested I should move in with him. And so far it sounds like a great solution how ever, I'm afraid that my family will come after me and him. Honor is a big deal to them. When I say my brothers threatens to kill me I'm not exaggerating trust me lol. I'm not writing this just to vent. Although, it does feel good to unbottle my feelings haha. I'm mainly here to get opinions and answers from you guys. If I were to ever run away can my family get in touch with the police to find out where I went? Can I leave a fake suicide note for my family before I leave so they won't bother to look for me? I'm terrified but I don't wanna spend the rest of my life living miserable. As much as I care about their reputation and honor I have to make a move. At times, I feel selfish for thinking of my self. I love my family but I can't live like this any longer. I feel as if I don't make a move now then I blew my chance and that soon I"ll be sent back to Saudi and have an arranged marriage. I won't be able to respond to your answers or questions unless you attach your email.

Question: I am wrong forcing my mother to replace my headphones she broke and should feel bad about it.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:10 AM PST

Awhile back my mother and I were arguing. And some point it escalated where she broke my headphone which I paid for out of my own money, where she refuses to buy me new ones. I feel like it not fair that I have to pay for something that she broke with my own money again. where I feel bad even though I know it not my fault in any way. Lol yo guy are funny internet commandos. I'll just promote you to CSM of the United States Internet tCommandos

Question: I really feel bad please help?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 11:07 AM PST

I'm sorry if it is long So I have a friend of mine I know her for 7 years she got depressed recently and she always cries to me and complain how miserable she is the thing is I been depressed for so long for 3 years and Im trying to be positive it been so hard on me I had a really tough life I used to be depressed alone but I haven't told my friends I was scared to be teased all my life I been bullied I'm just trying to be happy and she didn't support me when I needed her she ignored me I used to cry nights for days not because of her because I'm depressed and when I finally healed I mean finally smile and be a little positive I went through so much I always felt unloved by family and she comes along dragging me down with her negativety she's too depressed and negative I cry because of her she's making me worse so I been ignoring her lately I'm scared to be depressed again and I hate myself I have a very low self esteem and confidence all my life I felt like I'm worthless I know it's bad :( again I'm sorry if it's long I didn't meant to ignore her

Question: My brothers threatens to kill me.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:59 AM PST

Question: My sister is ruining Thanksgiving?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:55 AM PST

Today is supposedoing to be a wonderful day that you spend with family and fill with love. My 13 year old sister has done nothing but disrespect my parents and yell at them, destroy all my other two younger sisters property and physically fight with me because she is too selfish to let the family enjoy one day in peace instead she needs to cause a scenergy for attention. how do I forget this so I can enjoy the rest of the day and black Friday shopping with my friend tonight?

Question: What's it like for a guy to grow up with a sister..?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:41 AM PST

Question: Gift to make doing housework easier?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:37 AM PST

I'm looking for a gift for my sister to help make her workload easier around the home. I'm not looking for something creative and innovative. *I AM LOOKING FOR SOMETHING CREATIVR AND INMOVATIVE

Question: Should I buy my moms boyfriend a Christmas present even though I barely know the guy?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:19 AM PST

My mom has been dating this guy for a few months now and things are starting to get more serious with him and her however I have only met the guy 2x when my mom brought me over to his house so I could meet him and spend time with him. I barely know the guy outside of the 2x I came over to see him at his house. Do you think it is appropriate to be buying the man a Christmas gift? Or is it too soon? They have been going out for just over 3 months here.

Question: I said something really stupid and now I feel guilty?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:11 AM PST

I accidentally said without thinking and realized that its not true after I said it but I said that I was more excited for black friday than Thanksgiving but I meant because I would get shopping done to give stuff to people. But it sounded really bad and now I'm embarrassed and I tried to cover but ugh. Idk what to do help?

Question: Is it fair he treats them like me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 10:07 AM PST

I am 14 yo. My brother is 24 an is in the navy. we have different dads. my dad ended up in jail. his dad remarried. his stepmom has a son from her 1st marige. then they adopted twin girls who are 9 yo. he is stationed in chicago which is like 3 hours away but doesnt get to come home a lot because he is working a lot in the navy. but he was able to come home for tg and last night he is here b4 mom gets out of work and we went for lunch at wendys. then he asked if i wanted to see the charlie brown movie and i said okay. so that night i think we are going but he goes over to his dad and picks up the twins. he didnt tell me they were coming alone with us. but i don't say nething becuz i dont want 2b rude. then their older bro who is in the af is there and my bro asks him if he wants to come and he does. so instead of it being just me and my brother its me and my brother and his dads stepson and two adopted dauters. then when we get in line the af guy says you pay for your sister and i'll pay for my sisters. then my brother said theyre all 3 my sisters. that made me so mad but again i didn't say nething. then before the movie starts he ignores me and talks to the af guy about what they do in the af. is it fair he treats me who was his ister since the day i was born like his kindof sisters who he only knew for 2 years? i told mom and like always she took his side and said i need to grow up. but is it fair that he treats them like me??? ive been

Question: Why did my brother move out and never try to reach me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:30 AM PST

Question: I'm short but the all my brothers and most of my sisters are tall? :/?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:26 AM PST

I'm an 18 year old girl and I'm 5'4 and 108 lbs. My mom is 5'9, my dad is 5'8, sister is 5'11, my brother is 6'5, my other brother is 5'10, my other brother is around 6' and I have another sister that's 5'1 but she's the only short one. My niece that is almost 18 is 6' and my other niece is 14 is 5'6 or 5'7 and my other niece that is almost 12 is 5'4 like me already. It makes me feel so weird :( I'm so short and they're so tall and everyone always asks what happened to my height and it's weird because I eat really healthy and they don't. They play sports and I don't but I exercise. What happened to me? I wanted to be a model because everyone always tells me I'm beautiful and I have the looks for it and the body but I can't because of my height :/

Question: My dad and I are in the car and my dad is sort of angry with me he has not talked for 45 minutes. What sould I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:24 AM PST

Question: Why does my mom yell at me all the time?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:15 AM PST

So today is thanksgiving and my brother and dad are being such jerks and lying and it's just really hard to explain so my mom takes away my phone and I got upset because I didn't know why I was being punished because she told me she was on my side and I start to tear up because I'm a really sensitive person and she knows that but she starts screaming at me saying she's not mad at me but she's screaming about my brother and stuff so I go outside and I find one her shoes because the dog took it outside and I give it to her and she throws it across the room because she's mad . So I get upset because I was trying to help. Now she's saying that she's going to leave the family in thanksgiving and leave me here with my mean brother and dad ( not abusive just plain rude ) and I'm crying again so she's screaming at me and I just don't know hat to do.

Question: Why are my parents still treating me like a child? Why are they still living in the past?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:08 AM PST

My parents tell me not to do this or do that! But come on I'm 23 years old and still being grounded! I'm too old for this! What do I do about it!

Question: Sister annoys me and embarassed just now.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:07 AM PST

So yeah I just arrive in UK then my sister and my mom picked me up first she annoyed me then I remained silent even though im having a jetlag then after that for some reason she knows something that embarasses me BTW I wont state it since its an PRIVATE Stuff, anyways after that I was so pissed not because i like to but because of my jet lag I was pissed I even told her what is the point of discussiing such thing why in front of our driver I said, then after that I told her why should you be an idiot embarassing me in front of our driver anyways , here comes the part my parents even thinks im the one in wrong here even though I explained to them. So yeah i was feeling so hot in my head that I scratched the heck out my hand that it cause it to bleed. I told them that i have headache duee to jetlag

Question: I am annoyed at my grandpa. Is it a sin?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 09:01 AM PST

My grandpa came to visit us from mexico. He is constantly here at the house sitting down. He always wants my mom or my sister to feed him. My mom works a night shift and comes super tired from work so it makes me mad that he does that. He goes from the couch to the table, from the table to the sofa. He always criticizes my mom about everything and tells her that we don t know how to do anything. He is always says that my moms food is bad or that he doesn t like it but yet he still wants to eat it. He make my mom feel bad. For example he says that he doesn t like salad because he is not a"rabbit" but the other day he told my mom to make him one. We can never talk or do anything because he always has to say something negative about anything we say or do. He also dirties the house a lot. He never puts anything back. He is also very stubborn and never admits his errors. I get so annoyed of him and i feel guilty because i feel im sinning against god. He is my mom s dad and he took us in to his house when i was young. So we technically live in his house eventhough my big sister and mom pay the bills now. I feel so ungrateful to him because i feel annoyed of him. My big question is " is it a sin to feel annoyed of him?"

Question: Why is my mom so controlling? She doesn't realize that I need freedom and independence now that I'm a teenager.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:58 AM PST

My mom has been so controlling lately. I have to run everything I take from the pantry to eat by her, my bedtime is way too early for my age (8:30-8:45), etc. Plus she always makes me (and my sisters) hang out with her and my dad: quality family time almost every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. I'm not a bratty teenager who hates her family: I just need more freedom and independence now that I'm growing up. I don't want to have a heart-to-heart conversation with my mom about this because then I would get into a huge fight with my her if I told her how I feel about this. Thanks for answering and reading:)

Question: My grandpa called the cop s on my mom . .?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:43 AM PST

parental drug ring . . they have me on drug's . . file false police report . .

Question: Do you think that I should do this ?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:38 AM PST

Ok I am 26 and do you think that I should start cursing out my mother when ever she says things to me things to me that I dont like

Question: My brother is so selfish and ungrateful?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:23 AM PST

Ok so im an 18 year old girl, my brother is almost 15. I also live with my sister, other brother and mom. But my almost 15 year old brother is so ? insane? He is such a problem in our house. He's obsessed with video games. He was using our family tv and huge couch all for himself for like 6 months. Our family stopped watching tv in there bc he would get mad and yell and get violent if we asked to use it? He made the couch so messy it has old socks and food and forks and gross stuff in it, and under it. I asked my mom if we could give him a different tv and couch so everyone could use the nice tv and couch again. She agreed and we did it, moving our nice tv and couch into another room. When he got his own tv he was so ungrateful he said it was bad quality and the couch is uncomfortable. SO now he comes into the new living room and starts using the nice tv again, blocking out the windows with blankets so its dark and making messes and not letting anyone use the tv. I got mad and told him he couldn't play his video games in here and he starting punching me? He always gets violent and mad. I think it's bc our dad was abusive so he thinks it's ok, but it's not. He's so selfish and unreasonable. I just want to watch tv but he won't let anyone and he sleeps there? on the couch every night and destroys the living room! its so ridiculous! i try to reason with him but apparently im just dramatic.

Question: My step father threatened to beat the hell out of me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:15 AM PST

Hi im 21 and a girl and my step dad threatened to beat the hell out of me because my cat had a hairball and he stepped in it. He said that he was going to take my cat, drive to the middle of no where and just drop it off because he hates it. He said that all it doesn it get in everyones lap, hiss at the dogs, and it is a nuisance. When i told him he couldnt get rid of my cat because they (him and my mom) are living in MY house he told me to shut the F up and if i didn't shut up he was going to beat the **** out of me and the he was going to go dump my cat somehwere. He then turned around and hit his dog because she came over and sniffed him. While he was yelling at me. Then when i scooped up the animals and put them in my room away from him my mom followed and tried to calm me down because i was upset. Well i guess he heard and came barreling down the hallway screaming profanities and i locked myself in my room to be safe. I want to know if i can legally do anything because he threatened me and im terrified in my own home? I havent kicked them out because of my mom. But i feel sick to my stomache and just terrified of him in general.

Question: My moms bf beats her and my brother?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 08:12 AM PST

He punches her in the face and throws my brother down the stairs and whips him.

Question: Any moms going to school and working? How do you maintain?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 07:29 AM PST

Question: Dose know my cousin or seen him please help me?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 07:04 AM PST

my nick name Cree and i am looking for my cousin Howard Wayne Clark he is 51 years old and is either in fairmont wv or clarksburg WV he goes by the nick name solo please if know tell his cousin looking for him thank you

Question: If a 15 year old boy asked a 4 year old girl to touch his privates, but the little girl said no. What could happen to the boy?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 07:03 AM PST

Question: What is the term for Two kids born on same day. a year apart same mom and dad?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 06:55 AM PST

Question: Anyone else hate the holidays?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 06:31 AM PST

Reasons why I hate it Single cant get a girlfriend Parents invite litterly everyone they know over I always get in a fight with everyone and it has almost come to blows on many thanksgiving my dad friend says somthing I pop him and before you know it's a mix of blood and sweat I have fought many relatives because they are very critical Leftovers for 2 weeks after all we have is leftovers I like what my dad does and gives the leftovers to the dogs because leftovers suck and are just awful the next day it's soggy and disgusting and my dog enjoys it more Christmas holiday music sucks People are animals on Black Friday I work retail People always asking for money

Question: Son says he'll quit being my son and and leave me if I continue to have a relationship with another. What do I do?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 04:37 AM PST

My previous husband, God has blessed me for marrying a great man, passed away 3 years ago, leaving me with our son. I grieved, I cried deeply, but eventually I got over it and started to love another man again. just when things were getting serious between us, my son was enrage, calling me names such as infidel and a cheating whore. I tried to calm him down and reasoned with him, but he would not yield. Then he gave me an ultimatum, his exact words were "the moment you let another man in your life will be the moment I stop being your son". And he left our house and hasn't come back since.He won't answer my calls and only replied that he'll come back if I promise to stop seeing anyone.

Question: Why do people judge me for wanting to be a housewife?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 04:18 AM PST

When I marry my boyfriend I want to be a housewife. I just want to stay at home and take care of the kids, and do housework. I don't want a career. I'm just simply not interested in having one. My family and friends have been asking me something along the lines of "why would you do that when you can work? it's a waste", like not working is a fundamentally wrong life choice LOL. I don't like going out and working with people. I don't like interacting with people IRL except my boyfriend and my close friends.

Question: Why is kissing between brothers and sisters a bad thing?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 04:08 AM PST

I would say having sex or other sexual activities between brothers and sisters is wrong because it is incest but why is kissing a big deal? Ofcourse, if you kiss with your hands running all over each other's bodies that would be incest but just kissing is not sexual and it shouldn't be considered incest or bad IMO but why do other people think it's 'sick'?

Question: Is there a way to make someone a better person?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 03:13 AM PST

My Step Dad is a very mad and angry person. He's stressed all the time and he swears at the kids even though they have disabilities and they don't understand what they're doing wrong. He doesn't have a job even though he is eligible to work. He's also on benefits. He gets everything done for him and he constantly says he's going on a diet because he's obese, but he never does. He puts everyone in a bad mood with his anger issues. Is there a way to make him a little bit happier? It's not that he needs a holiday or a break or anything, he doesn't do anything to need a break. Thank you.

Question: Plans for christmas?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 02:54 AM PST

Question: My stepdad is changing Christmas tradition!?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 02:49 AM PST

We used to see lights, go to church midnight christmas morning, then open presents around 2am, then sleep till noon, eat sweets, admire our gifts and write thank you cards. Also, when we opened gifts we would all sit in a circle and grab all their gifts and go around the circle. Now all we do is treat christmas eve like a normal day! In the morning we get up at maybe 9, eat breakfast, and open presents while it is light outside! Its not fun...and it'd chaotic. People just grab theirs and rip them open and shout and take pictures. Its done in 10 minutes instead of an hour and a half where everyone watches and admires your gifts and people say thank you. Even though I get more gifts since my mom isnt single anymore, I still prefer when we were low on money and had more of a special bonding time. My stepdad says we can't open things at night because his 2 sons still believe in santa. They are 8 and 10! Its ridiculous. I'm pretty sure they know but want the gift...they are spoiled. How can I get christmas back? I wish i coukd just tell my stepbrothers to tell their dad that they dont believe in Santa. I really miss family time. I am 14 by the way.

Question: If you ran away from home how do you tell your parents that your ok without getting traced?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 02:32 AM PST

Question: I feel spoiled...?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 01:21 AM PST

I'm 14, grew up in a different country and we weren't the richest family nor poor, until I moved with my mom and brother. Last year, I saved up for a computer, it was about $600. My parents paid probably like $100 for it, but for the most I used my own money to buy it.... After that I started feeling spoiled, I felt bad that my brother didn't have a computer and I wanted to get him one too. Also, I'm upgrading my computer, I just paid my parents again, with my own savings from school and occasions. My brothers also gonna give me a DSLR camera that's about $300, idk why but I feel like spoiled, I feel like helping my brother get a computer instead of him giving me a camera. What should I do?

Question: How do I get away with this?!?!?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:47 AM PST

One day my dad wanted to buy an item on eBay but he didn't have an account so we used my account but his Debit card (I'm 16). We purchased it successfully. After a week or so, I had forgotten that my dad's debit card was attached to my Gmail account. So I was playing a game on android and I pressed on [Buy a pack of 5000 Runes (Game currency) for 100 Euros!] I bought it and I was surprised because I had 0 Euros in my account (I HAD ABSOLUTELY FORGOTTEN ABOUT MY DADS CARD) I went on eBay and tried buying a game called Skyrim and I bought it! I THOUGHT THAT I WAS GETTING STUFF FOR FREE.....but then I remembered.... Now I cannot refund this money I don't have money myself to pay him back What should I do when he looks at his account and realises 100 Euros are gone. He will imediately suspect me! What should I do if skyrim comes in and he sees me accepting a package??? HE HAS A BAD TEMPER! WHAT LIE SHOULD I TELL HIM?

Question: Thanksgiving family problems. Help!!!!!?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:43 AM PST

Okay... where to start. Okay so my aunt worked with this woman...we'll call her K. Okay K is my aunts friend, well. This K has three bad *** kids and has no respect for my aunt (at least for me) Every day after school her kids are over three to five , sometimes three to eight. My aunt isn't paid AT ALLL. She feeds them our food ( that's limited) and deals with their dumbass attitudes.So this isn't what makes me dislike K. Last year I was working on a history project and I needed everything to be perfect . My aunt was helping, but it seemed like she couldn't understand what I needed. K was ( of course) there with her badass kids. She sighed and all of a sudden yelled at me" STOP BEING SUCH A *****" This broke my heart. I really did trust K.This brought tears to my eyes. Someone I trusted called me a *****. What made it worse was that my uncle was in the room. He said nothing. This broke my heart even worse. I told my aunt. She brushed it off. All I could think about that night was how I was a ***** and for a minute thought that no one loved me. She will be at my aunts daughters house tomorrow and I want to avoid her as much as possible. She takes advantage of my aunt ( who has a heart of gold) I have a bad feeling that something is going to happen. Also, my mother will be there. I don't want to see her face. K and my mother would ruin my first thanksgiving away from my family I know as soon as I see them i'll cry. What do I do. My head is spinning and my heart is heavy.

Question: My parents won t except me for ... Being me.?

Posted: 26 Nov 2015 12:06 AM PST

I m an 11 year old girl and let s just say I m "growing up a little faster than everyone else. I am one of those girls who want to die there hair combat boots and red lipstick and I get most of these things I may be too you for. But my aunt and me kind of share the same style and les just say my mom is not really fond of her sister or her style. So last summer my mom says I can die my blonde hair tips blue! And I got super exited so we went and I got it done and then I went home and my stepdad started SCREAMING at me about how it s not appropriate and I have to cut it off and what will our beach club say!! So a got really sad cause I kinda felt like he was trashing a part of me. A part of my personality. So that night I go down Stares to get some water and I hear my parents talking about how they are worrying that I m turning into my aunt. my aunt is one of the brightest most inelegant spunky people a know. yes she may have shaved her head got a tattoo and grew a blonde Mohawk over it. Yes she may have showed up to my tenth birthday party with bright green and yellow lipstick and gave me and my friend bright purple and blue liquid lips. But that s who she is and she is just expressing it!! And they are not letting me express me because of there own fears! They won t let me wear any type of leather, combat, or high top shoes! My mom is a little more accepting but my stepdad treats me like an outcast and forces me to be someone I m not. Help me!!

Question: What are the chances of me being able to be a kpop star?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:49 PM PST

My father is a muslim and hes strict on it so hes dead against me listening to kpop and music and watching korean stuff and my mother isnt a muslim, I dont really know what religion she is going with and Im well agnostic I guess but my family doesnt really know, to them im also a muslim but idk ( my parents are divorced btw I live with my father) My mother is okay with me wanting to be a kpop star and I havent asked my father cuz i know he'll get angry and say no. Other than that, Im 15 and Im mixed with thai(mom), srilankan(dad), I was born in singapore and I have a british passport (idk if this is necessary but my brothers were born in hong kong and I hve stepmom and step siblings from malaysia and i live in malaysia. I can speak english, malay, thai and Im learning cantonese, mandarin and Japanese. I can sing a little , it needs improving and my dance is good enough. I really want to join cube entertainment if I can so like.. Other than my problem with my father what are the chances that i would make it and what should i do about my father?

Question: Who was at fault, me or my mother?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:29 PM PST

So my mom is known to have a temper. I am stubborn according to her. I am a girl, the middle child, and daddy's girl. 20 now. And she was taking us to college (about to get my license) and she started speaking loudly to me (not yelling), telling me that I should put the cable that connects to aux to listen to my music on my phone where it belongs when I am done. She was pointing at it very brusquely as I was grabing it to put it away, so her nail stabbed my finger bone and it really hurt so I told her "ouch! You hurt me" and she just burshed it off so I told her "you're so mean" and started crying and she just remained silent until she dropped us off. Dad picked us up, and when we got home mom started crying, she waited for me to get home, to cry in front of me and dad and make me the bad girl, and started saying that I never do the chores, that I am very disrespectful for calling her mean, and that she is not a bad mother, shes a good mother. That we have no right to tell her that the way she says things to us is mean. Or that her having a bad temper is because she works so hard and is tired.Dad, remained silent (he dislikes mom's temper too) and at the end of mom's rant, dad told us that we should apologize to mom. I did not. I was so mad that she turned the whole situation against me and brought the whole family in to embarass me, just because she couldn't apologize for hurting me, which left a scar by the way. I still am resentful about it, what do you think?

Question: I dont want to see my fiancé s relatives?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:25 PM PST

I had planned on making a small Thanksgiving dinner for the four of us, my 2 younger siblings and my fiance. I m 21 years old and I wanted to initially opt out of Thanksgiving all together because our mother passed away earlier this year and Im still going through some issues with that but I can t deprive my siblings of family traditions because I m sad and reminded of her. So I decided on a meal and got everything ready a week in advance. Now the day before thanksgiving my fiance says his siblings and their families want to come over and eat and then some want to spend the night and I don t know for how long, last time it was 3 days and I rarely came out of my room and it was awful for me even though they are nice people. I have extreme anxiety and I m very introverted I can barely talk to people so just trying to say hello is a huge problem . I don t want to see anyone I just want to cook and go back to moping around. I can t deny my fiance of his family traditions either since he said his family always goes around to see everyone, chat, then grab something to eat and leave. I feel like I m being selfish but I just want to be alone after I finished the dinner I also don t want anyone to sleepover but I have no real reason other than I don t want them to do so this time. I don t know how to deal with this. I m feeling very pitiful because of my issues.

Question: Am i sort of untrustworthy for always changing my interests every few months?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:19 PM PST

I always tell my family that i want to become or do something and then at the end i end up giving up my efforts and just start focusing on something else. I turned 16 so I was really excited to get my first job and told alot of my relatives but then a few months later i don't have a job and im not as excited as i was. I also told them i liked cheerleading then i stopped liking it. I tell them alot of things that i want to become and then i loose interest in them. I don't think they will take me seriously if i tell them what i want to become rigt now so i just keep it to myself even though i want to tell them so badly

Question: Are you unimportant to your family?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:15 PM PST

So every time I talk at the table I get interrupted and my voice kinda just fades into the air. It inly happens when I talk, even when I am telling something to my sister and she is the only one in the room, she will bring something up that has nothing to do with it. When I get sick, nobody worries that much about me as they would for other family members. And if I get hurt, they brush it off like it isn't a big deal, as opposed to when my brother gets hurt or my sister. Is like they don't hate me, but they don't care for me either. What is going on? And does this happen to anyone else?

Question: Is it weird for a guy to take pictures of his Nephews and son naked?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:07 PM PST

He took pictures of his Nephews and son naked of their fronts and back after they went skinny dipping. The kids are 9! 13 and 14.

Question: Who do I confront about cousin sneaking in my room?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 11:01 PM PST

When we moved to a new house, my dad got a new isp. Unlike before, it's limited by the month. It lasted the whole month for the first couple of months, but after that, it only lasted for about 2 weeks, then I'd have to wait until it renewed on the 25th of the month.(meaning I can still get on the internet, but it's super slow and I can't watch videos, which I need to be able to do for school because I'm home schooled). So we talked to our isp about it and she said to just disconnect the modem because it sounded like people were stealing it. So I did, and it lasted a solid 3 weeks and some days, so almost the whole month. The problem is that my cousin(he and his parents live with us temporarily) doesn't understand it. He isn't home schooled, but he thinks I'm just hogging it and wants me to leave the modem on because "it isn't mine". True, it isn't mine, but it's in my room and it's what my dad told me to do. So the other day, I noticed it was plugged in, when I knew I unplugged it earlier when I was done. So it was on for nearly a full day and no one was even connected. I noticed the same thing earlier today. We are getting a new isp next month with an unlimited plan because of the inconvenience it causes, but how do I confront this? Our plan was for him to tell me when he wanted to go online and I'd plug it in for him and then when he's done, I'd unplug it. But he doesn't want to. My dad and his parents all share the internet bill, so of course I thought that this would be a good compromise, but I guess not. I am online for about 4-5 hours a day because of school, without including my "free time" which is about 2-3 hours (when I decide to use it which isn't always). He can easily connect when I'm on or just ask if I can plug it in. Do I confront him, my dad or his parents?

Question: Are parents allowed to put me in chastity device?

Posted: 25 Nov 2015 10:49 PM PST

My mom caught me masturbating about a month ago and she told me it was against our religion to do this. She told me there is a cage that they make just for "Sinners like me" . She ordered a chastity device and it came in last week. When it first came in, I had already done plenty of research to make sure that it was safe and I read that it was good for self improvement. Needless to say I put it on when she came into my room and didn't argue at all because I thought maybe I need it to improve other parts of my life. What I didn't know was that she was keeping the key. I put my clothes on to make sure that it looked normal and stuff and then I went out. She asked to see it on and for the key. I refused and then she came up and forced it out of my hand. She's had it for a weak and she says that I get the key every other night to shower . On Thursday (the first day) she watched my movements through the curtain to make sure I haven't been doing it in the shower. She's been doing this all week and I've been without masturbating for a week now and I want to so bad. I've begged her for it but she just laughs it off and says " I bet you regret being disgusting now don't you?" It hurts a lot and I honestly don't know what to do.