They don't even bother to go to the courts, they just give custody to the mother when they get divorced. They could at least try to get partial custody! But they don't.

I know I'm gonna get all the "it's your body" stuff but is it preferred? do most people do it? is it gross if you dont?

I've heard that many men hace mistresses because they can do all sorts of sexual things with a mistress. Shouldn't you be able to do all sorts of things with your wife? Isn't she the one you trust the most?

So I see videos sometimes that are like women sticking their fingers up their vaginas and rubbing their pee hole and I just wonder ...does that feel good? Or why do they do that? Does it make you pee more or something? re there any other vagina "tricks" like this? Videos or links are appreciated... or just an answer...

I had my period about two weeks ago today i wiped and seen clear discharge with blood streaks??? Since then i have went to the restroom again and havent seen anymore???

My husband has trust issues which is extremely annoying. He wants me to stop talking to all of my guy friends (I only have 2) which I have. I recently changed my number and he told me to give it to 3 of my friends and family. Whenever we are out hes always accusing me of looking at other guys even when I'm not. So from now on I just look down or the other way when a guy is approaching our way. Today is church (I haven't been to church in like 2 months) I was excited to see everyone. During service, I would say hi to people and he got really annoyed. He said I wasn't showing him any affection or paying him any attention. whatever. He tells me I dont give him to same effort. He literally devotes all his time to me. Which sometimes isnt a bad thing. He goes through my phone, instagram, facebook and etc. I dont do it to him cause I dont feel the need to. He tell me he doesnt text anyone because he doesnt want me to think anything. Honestly I dont think crap. I just dont get it. I dont know what to do or tell him. We've had talks about this so many times.

What do you do when you have been with a person for 6 years, married for 4months and you just cant take it nomore. My husband love to play, make jokes and be and his phone or outside with friends. We have two girl and a baby on the way. What i dont like is i tell him quit with his jokes cause i dont like them. It nakes me feel like he dont care. I ask for attention and gets nun. I work 5days out the week 8 hours shift so when im off i want to rest. He will wake me up send the kids to wake me he want keep a eye on them i mean he is no help. N i feel like he there for nothing im 5months and all he does is stress me out. He lazy dont wanna do nothing but sit and his phone. He work and he will spend his whole check on bill me and the girls but some i just cry n question myself is it worth it or is it cuz im pregnant i just feel like im backed into a wall with no one to talk to no one to listen to me and i just breaks down.

My child's mother is engagrd. She said she will marry him . I found out he was in a hospital before because of depression. I told her I will get full custody ifshe Marrys him. She said good luck, his doctor can give me a letter on how well he's doing. Can I get custody?

My husband use to have a "porn addiction" earlier in our relationship. I thought we were over and done with that phase. Well last night I just so happen to wake up to him watching a movie with a lot of nudity in it. I asked him about it, & he gets very defensive! Basically he plays the victim. He knows how I feel about that stuff and he suppose ably as seen this movie several times ( that i was unaware of)so he watched it by choice. I'm so tired of him shutting down my emotions and not takin responsibility for his actions, instead he puts it back on me. He wouldn't watch this movie with me so why watch it behind my back? You guys can call me insecure but no woman really wants her man to look at naked women, willingly. It degrades me as his wife and makes me feel not enough, which I have dealt with these feelings a lot in our relationship & he is well aware of it. I just don't understand why he would feed these feelings. The moral of the story he doesn't think he is wrong, and even threaten to leave me because he says "it's my own insecurities"

I asked for it and signed an agreement. I am a little bad at domestic life and so a while back I gave my wife authority to give rules and consequences; It never ruled the relationship but eventually spanking was almost eliminated. She uses the ability to take the lap top and will load me with chores. No matter how difficult at times I feel like I just ha to, it's been so long. it's things like not having my bill money or hanging up on her. I guess there's still a turn on for me, after the fact. it does help my behavior at home. Just have doubts because it's so unorthodox.

He doesn't show emotion to me . No interest in sex. I feel like he just with me because I'm the mother of his daughter and society makes him feel force to be with me . I feel rejected and it's painful. I feel unwanted.

I use to be involved with wife's older sister. Before we were even together then her sister moved. Her sister recently moved back and she has a son who as I just recently discovered is also my son. My wife never knew in all honesty my relationship with her sister was purely sexual. We even made some sex tapes together. However I would be lying if I said I didn't have feelings for her I mean I know it was supposed to be no strings at the time but like a fool I fell hard for her. Anyway my wife found out about this past chapter of my life and now she's pissed. Most likely because while at thanksgiving (where all of this went down) she walked in/overheard a conversation with her sister where I asked if the kid was mine and got a yes. Then I asked this question "Look I loved you okay I'm not going to apologize for that part of me will always love you but I have to know did you love me to and why did you leave me?" and she said "Because you said you didn't want kids. Which apparently was a lie because after you married her you had three with my sister." I keep saying "You and I weren't even together at the time!'' I mean when I was with her sister I didn't even know her but she is still mad yes I had a kid with her sister but I didn't know about him until recently. I found out like a few days before she did. How can I fix things? Will she be mad at me forever? It's not like I'm being malicious it's just I only wanted closure on the past and now my past has spilled all over.

She left me for a man that makes way more money than me. After we split up she let me see my son anytime I wanted. Now that I have a new girlfriend she keeps moving further and further away and making it really hard for me to see him. She even took me to court to get child support from me when she let me see him I would take good care of him. She was the one that kept moving so far making it hard for me to see my son. Now I have to drive 4 hours just to see my son when it's my turn to see him. I have him almost half the time and I pay her $300/month. Should she be getting this? Her husband makes more money than me and she doesn't work. I work full time and have my own family just like she does.

I make $7/hr more than him and get bonuses, everytime we go out he never lets me pay or at least let us take turns. I have never made it an issue about what he makes or what I make. I was even willing to combine our income to 1 so we can both just pay our bills no matter what it is. He has never asked me for money. Everything we do he pays his part even for half of my mortgage and the utility bills. He says he is uncomfortable combining income since he doesn't make nearly as much as me. We are married now I don't care about what's his and what's mine. Has anyone had his issue?

He started seeing one of his old ex but now that he relizes he misses us he wants us back. He spent thanksgiving with me and everything was good he said he was gonna talk to her so they can break up but tonight he has his phone of and no sign of him what should i do im stressing out

I knew he has anger issues before we married I didn't know they are this bad. I didn't live with him before marriage. I ask him to spend more time with me. He claims he too tired to stand up & it's my fault if I don't watch TV shows with him. I ask for only 2 days out of week & Saturday. I ask him why he always blows angry at me & yells & why he rolls his eyes when I ask for hugs or kisses. He used this awful tone if I keep talking with him at times or will make mean comments. We cleaned up our apartment all day & he was irritable. I been holding everything in. So later when he said something I exposed, start crying, & talking about everything. He claims to be happy in our marriage, but I am not. We have some good days, but a lot were getting unbearable to the point I resent him. I tried to talk with him he went in our bedroom & started throwing things. Then I did all the talking & making up. I admit I do nag, but I don't a wife that doesn't. I do talk a lot & get emotional. He doesn't bother talking when he upset. When I cry it gets worse because he hates it. I don't know what to do anymore I poured my heart out telling him how I feel. He just sits there with a blank face then exposes like a volcano when something is said he doesn't like. I asked to please try do better & compromise for the both of us. If anyone has any advice. He was not like this when we're dating. He would listen & comfort me.

I am a full time student and mother of 2. I also work 1 day a week. My husband has a full time job. We agreed, I would quit my job before starting school to devote all time possible to my education. I study on average 4 hrs a day, after I get out of school. This doesn't leave much time for house work and mother duties. I do every thing around the house. Including yard work, managing our in ground pool, grocery shopping, laundry, taking out the trash and recycling, cooking, cleaning, paying bills, careing for our 2 children, and much more. He watches our youngest while I'm at school 4 days a week and works 8 hours a day. He does NOTHING else. Is it to much to ask that he help? When I do ask for help, he freaks out, gets mad, or acts like a child who just had a toy taken away.

I'm really mad. I don't want to give detail. He has moved out and I haven't talked to him in a week but I want to talk things out. I'm not sure if it's a good idea to contact him. He was sobbing when he told me a week and a half ago and saying he made a terrible decision but I would not let him stay with me and I kicked him out. He contacted me two days after admitting it saying he wants me to come to a counselor with him and fix things. I called him by accident crying the next night which was stupid and we haven't talked since then. He won't tell me who he cheated with or what happened. He treated me like dirt since about August so finding out it was because he was cheating was a relief at first. I'm just ready to know what's going to happen.

So my husband cooked pulled pork. It was ready before the turkey that I was cooking. We all wanted to eat the pulled prk because we were all hungry but my husband said we need to rest it for an hour. After curbing our hunger with a little lemon tart, I started making the sudes. Everything was going well until he called my kids and they started digging on the pork. My sides were pretty much ignored and my turkey has about 20 more minutes till it was done. Even my planned gravy was not in the works yet. I got pretty unpset because I was slaving in the kitchen all day (3 desserts); the table was not even set. I just wanted a nice meal where all of us could sit down. My husband's understanding is he figured we're doing things backwards so he thought it was okay to eat what we had made. I know this sounds trivial but when you're tired, you say and do irrational things.

he is also lower class..vulgar and gaudy...she is upper social class like me and all our friends. She called me crying about it. i told her as long as she does not support zionism in any way, and is not with this man who has no idea how to behave in descent society, we will spend time with her. I feel bad but he's just that repulsive. any suggestions to make her feel better? she is really only scared of losing her status, which is already kind of lost. at least thats what i suspect. it was her status that this man was attracted to..that and blonde hair blue eyes. i am not an antisemite..i have some good arab friends. i just go back from 3 years in a swiss boarding school and there were several there..we got on well and keep in touch. Shame on you Staphanie.. they were also very well behaved and from old and noble families. this guy is a loud mouth grease ball with a balding pony tail. me and these men have remained friends for 20 years now.... plus..there are no upper social class or aristocratic zionists. they are all opposed to his beliefs, and the things he supports financially om a moral level. i know exactly what it means and i am a member of several orders of knighthood which oppose it. I also have a foundation in my name that comes into my control at 18 and all the money goes to anti zuionist pro palestinian causes idiot. I bet i am more well read in most subject than you are. I've been reading the peots of early and late antiquity since 9, in both latin and ancient greek. even translated many. i speak 5 languages fluently. and i have travelled to all 7 continents..you f'in low class idiot. i have a 158 IQ went georgetown graduated in 3 years..masters from columbia i could increase the list in many more ways in which i am superior that you..i also come from a family of the ordeal and hochadel. * typo next year when i turn 28 * uradel

I'm trying to save my marriage. I can't accept my hubby's laziness, can't accept hubby not helping with chores and I can't accept hubby living with his parents forever .. Or should I ? I can't accept we have no sex life ether . I'm only 25.

Me and my husband have been,married for about 3 months. We were together for almost 4 yrs before getting married. Lately he has been,telling me that I m a terrible wife and calling me really hurtful things. I stay at home with my 4 ye old son which he is not very nice to and doesn t give him the time of day. I live a hour away,from my friends and family which I am very close to and he yells at me for going to see them and not being home with him. He tells me that if I need something to find someone else bc he doesn t give a crap no more. He s threated to divorce me bc I talked to my mom and sister about the things he says to me and my son. He said I can only see my friends once in a great while or he will,be mad. I find myself scared to talk to him bc he might blow up. He tells me not to talk when he s talking bc what I say doesn t matter. He wants me home 24/7 and I don t want to be home. Idk what to do!

I been with my husband for over 2 years all together. He got a lot of problems such as he drunk and calls me names like slut , he too lazy to help me with chores like take out the trash . Ever since I married hubby I believe we were gonna have a excellent sex life , get our own places and have great relationship! But I want a sex life with hubby soo bad and to share my life with hubby in our own place pretty bad too .. Hubby will never move out of his parents house. That's bothers me a lot . I can't live with his parents forever or I never gonna learn about paying bills ,living with hubby only and stuff like that .. Hubby even worried he never gonna be the person I was hoping he be .

My wife does not respected my privacy and she tells her mother and aunt every thing... How do I keep her from disrespecting me? Her only excuses is that she would not feel like she can trust them...

I m in my late 20s and still don t have a man. I can not and I mean can not recall a relationship with a man and I that s sensible, stable, and serious. I m very attractive, good career, and great personality, but it seems the men these days don t want anything, but fun, fun, fun. I m starting to give up on men! It seems no one is serious these days, why am I still trying? My family wants me happy, but meeting the type of men I'm meeting is making it surreal that anything is even out there. I haven't been with anyone in 5 years!

When I met her it was very short like a crew cut and she's kept it that the 7 years we've been married. It comes to the nape of her neck and she says she's not going to let it get longer that way but the length all over is now long. She says she's always had curly hair and now it's laying flatter if that makes any sense. I've told her how I don't like it, how it makes her look "girly" (she's butch), how it makes her look older (she's 50), how attractive her short hair makes her look. She says "it's her hair and she doesn't care what I think." But if it was me, I want her to think I'm attractive!! I want my wife to be sexually attracted to me so am I wrong in thinking she should feel the same way? I just don't like the feminine looking women.....

so this is weird. i dont care that my husband looks at porn. its not excessive. probably 1 time a week or less. our sex life is normal. but i recently found out that he looked at bbw porn the last time he watched porn. me being an open minded individual, my mind is blown at how much this is bugging me. im an attractive and fit 24 year old. medium bust. curvy but tight butt. slender at 120lbs. pretty face. hes tall, fit and handsome. we both hit the gym regularly and he tends to even make snide remarks about overweight people. this is why im so confused. when i brought it up for him, he said its because porn gets boring and he hates the "made up" look. which i understand. but fat chicks? he says sometimes theyre attractive? just find this weird since theres SOOO many attractive, but non porn star lookign chicks on the internet. again, porn has never bugged me. so im not sure why this is bothering me so much now. anyhow, just a mans point of view would be nice.

Do grooms let their beloved know how big of an object to get ready for, if it's circumcised, etc..., or is it all a surprise?

Girls and women ,honestly , would any of you leave or betray her boyfriend/husband because of the size of his penis

I don't want to get married, but if I ever do I would want to live separately. I don't want to live with someone, I'd rather live by myself. Why do I feel this way? Is that normal? I'm in a relationship right now, and I do love him with all of my heart. I'm not playing your game, Jay. Get a life, troll. Everyone on yahoo answers knows how desperate you are to get attention on here. So you know what? I'm not going to give it to you. Good day. Please stop changing my category to random things. This question belongs under "Marriage and Divorce." PLEASE stop changing my category! PLEASE STOP CHANGING MY CATEGORY!!! THIS QUESTION DOES NOT BELONG UNDER REAL ESTATE!!!! I reported all of the level 7 users. PLEASE STOP!!!! I'm done playing games with immature people. Grow the **** up. Have fun, because I'm done. Yahoo said they are going to change level 7 rights because of all the inappropriate category changing that's been going on. PLEASE STOP!!!!!!!!!!!!! PLEASE STOP CHANGING MY CATEGORY!!!! I've asked you to PLEASE STOP!!!! I've already reported you!!! You need a life!!! Get a life troll, I'm done playing your game.

I am in my 40's and I initiated a conversation with this guy because I saw him several times in our neighborhood. We joked around quite a bit. However, I made a mistake of making an eye contact. I got attracted to him and here I am. I think about him a lot esp when I'm having hot sex. What to do?