I am a 19 year old guy and while I've never lived out of country, I've moved around a lot. I ended up having attended 6 high schools by the time I graduated as well as more elementary schools than I can remember and 3 middle schools. As a result, I have become a rather introverted and lonely person. I've also found that friendships can be a lot of drama, so, 2 or 3 years ago, I swore off any sort of relationships beyond friendship because if I can scarcely handle the drama of friendship, how could I handle the drama something more. There are 2 coworkers in particular I've grown rather fond of, We can call them Jane Roe and Joe Bloggs. All of us at work are friends, but I'm very keen to become good friends with these 2. In the last few months, I've noticed I've begun to develop feelings for Joe. Joe quit a month ago and I've started meeting him and Jane outside of work. Joe is gay, so that isn't the issue, the issue is he is one of the first real friends I've had and I don't want to mess up this friendship. Joe and Jane are people I want to be in my life for years to come, I don't want to lose anyone else. So, there is only 1 option, I must terminate these feelings. How can I do this? All the guides I've looked up say one must tell the crush, but I refuse. I was fine before, happy even, being alone, friendless and without desire or need of a relationship before, but now I'm unraveling and everything I use to love, my job, my schooling, ect., I'm beginning to hate.

I e-mailed my volunteer coordinator 10 days in advance (11/20) if I could volunteer today (11/30), because I know she is terrible at replying back. She ended up replying just 2 hours ago! This has happened before, and I simply apologized and replied back that I cant make it. The next time I volunteered, she gave me a lecture about how I need to keep my word because the kids were expecting me and stuff... How should I reply back this time?

So I was born dirt poor in a third world country. Imagine something like Vietnam, Haiti, etc. I was able to go to college because I was living with relatives. However I'm extremely shy and have a bunch of mental traumas from bad parents. So I'm working as tech support earning 40,000 a year and I support my mother. I feel that in order to make it I have to behave, act, dress, etc like someone well off, I think that's one of the most important things in jobs, if they think you're poor, they just don't give you a job which is kind of ironic, but I guess they think you will be drama. So I try to dress well and just not let my "third worldness" come through, but everyone around me (family, acquaintances, etc) is third world, uneducated, and they act as if I'm a milionaire. They say I got a nice job and make good money because either they don't work or make minimum wage or close to minimum wage. I've gotten to the point of me hiding from almost everyone I knew otherwise it is a battle to try to avoid them ripping me off in some way or another or trying to leech. I honestly feel poor, the fact that I may dress well to try to impress at work doesn't make me rich but they don't seem to get it. They act as if I'm Justin Bieber millionaire. Have you ever had this problem and what do you recommend me?

My mom and dad know and the uncle apologized but he still wants to talk to me and I want to make his life hell. What do I do?!

He is in the army. we recently broke up but we are good friends. I was thinking about a army pillow with his name on it. Any other good ideas?? Is the pillow idea too dull?

Tired of trying to get along with her and she pushes me away in her subtle ways that it seems like I'm the only one who sees this.

My friend's aunt has been calling me to do some work around the house for her. I fix things such as electrical,mechanical,carpentry etc. I recently installed a ceiling fan in her home and when I was installing it, I noticed the way she was dressed. She was wearing very low cut shorts (like the ones worn when playing volleyball). She also wears a thin tank top that shows a lot of cleavage. I am attracted to her and want to make a move on her. She is not married,no kids same as I. Several times she comes to where I am at and will begin a conversation wearing skimpy clothes.She pays me well (always cash),but I really want her in bed.Should I make a move?

If they found out that I went out with my friends, they would constantly threaten me by texting and calling to make sure I come home. I can't even enjoy a night out with friends. When I see them, I would get lectured about how bad of a person I am, that I am evil, and mean. I have gotten a punch in the face before and my stuff broken just because I had stayed late at my friend's house for New Year's. I tell them I need my space and they are controlling me and all they say is that I am not a good person. I see myself as a good person. I work and go to college. I don't rely on anybody. Everything I do is always wrong to them. I haven't been feeling myself because of this. I just want to leave. Tell me if I'm wrong or right.

~Verbally abusive ~ Accuses mu mother of cheating all the time and thinks we help her and her lover rendezvous. ~Mean to us (his kids) especially my brother. ~ Makes fun of our mental illnesses. He thinks mental illness is a choice. my* ~He once humiliated my mother in front of our neighbors by vandalizing our car. ~He likes to swear and throw around f bombs and other vile language, but my mom can't say the word crap. ~ He is very controlling and does not like it when my mother applies for jobs or obtains a job. ~Extremely jealous. My mom is hot so guys tend to hit on her a lot. She is a very modest woman though and covers up her body. Apparently, since guys find her attractive that makes her a "cheap whore". I don't know what to do. My fathers mother was in an abusive relationship so he is just repeating the pattern. My mother says it's not my problem, but as long as I live at home it is. Even if she had all the money in the world she still wouldn't leave him! I know it for a fact! He has convinced her that no one would want her.

I am 26 years old will be turning 27 in months. I have lived in Los Angeles all my life, I will be moving out of state to Colorado by the ending of December and I am having a difficult time coming to terms with this. Where I work, I have been there for 2 ½ years pay is around $12. No raises since I started & no future promotions or moving on up in this company, can't go to school because I work full time 830-5pm and when I asked for a day off for school manager said I should just quit and focus on school. I can't because I need $ for other responsibilities. Recently I got a opportunity to move to Colorado & get paid weekly, work is new but will get trained, will live with family, will be able to pay off debt I have, but feeling I will miss my family and home, Los Angeles and friends. I feel this would be a great move for me but, I feel scared as well. Suggestions? I know by moving i will be better financially, and gain more experience too. at the moment i have nothing holding me back, no kids, no partner..

My ex and I broke up earlier this year. He got married during the summer. We share our son who is 5 and righ tnow he spends 1 wk with me and then another wk with his dad. His dad however has never introduced me to the wife and seems to hide her. I do not want my ex back by any means, but others have told me that this is odd that he seems to be hiding her. This Thanksgiving, I did not even get to spend time or talk to my son. When I texted the father asking to speak, he didn't respond. I then called my son's grammy who ignored my call. I brought this to my ex's attention and he said my son didn't want to talk to me. I have to go weeks w/o hearing from my 5 yr old. My son's father wanted me to move back in with him around Thanksgiving of last yr. I told him no, not until I see some real changes. He was very unstable going from job to job and then he wanted to have another baby. I told him we could not afford it and his response was for us to get on welfare. I am just wondering why he goes through so much to hide her from me. My main cause of concern is that when my 5 yr old comes back from a week with him he is always very dirty. He also has been saying things about them fighting and was saying the word abusive. I asked him where he heard this from and he said the wife asked his dad this question. Also one time I had to come by his apt. to pick up my son during the exchange bc my sons father lost his car keys. SO I drove over and instead of me coming upstairs to get my boy, my ex drug my boy outside so we could meet in the parking lot.

Is it weird that I hate to see interracial couples, but LOVE to watch interracial porn For some reason I despise seeing a white woman and a black man in a relationship But I love to watch them **** For some reason seeing white women get ****** by black men is a HUGE turn on for me And I really dont know why, It is not really a turn on to watch white girls **** asian guys or **** mexican guys but then again, I could really care less if I see a white woman dating an asian guy. Nothing about that looks wrong to me. But a white woman dating a black man looks completely and morally wrong. And if we are all honest with ourselves we would concede that it is wrong. But for some reason I love to watch white women get ****** by black men so much, that I am thinking about getting my wife to have sex with one so I can video tape it for my own delight. I know this is weird, especially seeing as how I fantasize about just about every white woman I am attracted to getting ****** by a black cock. I think it goes along the lines of me liking to see white women get defiled

I lended my ex's sister and wife $300 around the same time we broke up about 2 months back. They gave me the sob story about them and their 3 kids getting kicked out of their house unless they somehow came up with the $300. Now, the sister and wife are in the process of a divorce and I tried to stay out of it and not ask for the money back right away because of that. Anyways, both my friend, sister, and her wife have unfriended me on facebook and not responding to texts about the $300 owed. What are my options of getting the money back?

So I have a full year to plan this. I d be going to Georgia from Florida which is a 7.5 hour drive. I d be going by myself to meet a friend I haven t seen in years. 1 year from now, I d have a license and a car, possibly being in a local college. Do I draw up plans or what?

to live with her in another state but yet he didn't want to come stay with you don't you find that wrong

first of all i love my job and love going to work everyday. i also have a degree i do not use and have disliked the jobs that I've had using it. i make decent not great money. however because it is not a career or big title i find it hard to tell women what i do for a living because they do not seem interested. the last woman i dated got her job through her mother and had a better title than me and always told me how many of her friends and family were doctors and lawyers etc. what should i do

6 months ago,I found numerous emails sent to my husband from his ex.It didn't bother me at first since last time she and I spoke, we were on good terms. It was until I read what about her "concern" for my well-being and my marriage (I was about to move in with my husband after 2 years of long distance- he's stationed in A****) I was relieved to see that the last message he sent was telling her that this was wrong and goodbye.Since then, my husband doesn't mention it because he's moved on.I, for the most part, still have to remind myself that confronting her personally would make things worse. In the end, I know the right thing to do is avoiding drama, and by drama, I mean her. I still don't regret reaching out to her years ago, since her life apparently was filled with dark times and tragedies.I told her that she was more than welcome to contact my husband and myself if she needed a friend.I guess I should've been more clear. My dilemma is that she was seeing someone at the same time she was trying to get with my husband. This man that she's still with, from what I've heard from mutual friends, is a caring and nurturing guy. I can imagine that he makes her happy. But he isn't aware that she was unfaithful. This is where I ultimately don't know what to do. If they were to stay together this long, I don't feel I have the right to take their happiness away. Should I reveal the emails to him or let it be?

I have weekend visits with my kids and one of my sons friends called me asking if he was at my house, and he wasn't so i said no but he will next week, then he says "Well why ain't he at your house mother f.cker?" At that point i got mad at him and said, "I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOUR DEAL IS BUT YOU DON'T NEED TO BE CALLING AND TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT". And then he says, "I can talk to you however the f.ck i want" And then i just said Don't call me again and hung up. Do all kids today act like this? Im surprised he had the balls to even do that. I don't know what grade hes in but his voice sounds like hes in high school, my sons a junior. What should i do about this situation? Should i let his parents know what he did?

I am a 25-year-old living a shitty life and wasted all my teenage life.

The point being, when I first arrived, when we met, i was broke... it be better for our budding relationship if I wasn't, and didn't depend on you financially, that was a strain on our newly hatched, baby chick relationships... They should have had this fund raiser for years ago... it be 5 percent too... Now it's ten because they are C U N T S Ask your God John, it's his idea... I wouldn't have asked my new lover I know a week weather to accept the raised moeny or to let him provide for me, I'd accept the moeny... That's why i didn't run it by you, please don't' be cross... Spank me if you are, I have to do this... Better yet, spank me but support me...Don't say I shouldn't coz, I have to then not do it, coz I messed up 4 years of our life...But plz don't make me give this up.. They owe me that moeny, those filthy animals... Plz John can I have demand my fund raiser? Don't make me not demand it...Please... I have to do this...It's my money, or do they think they are here on holiday? Plz let me know is the fun raiser on? John plz support me on this, plz. They need to learnt why they are here, or walk away and show me clearly they are not here to do their job anymore. We could also use that money...Seriously I did not send this **** holes here, your God did, for once they ought to make themselves useful. PLEASE? Don't make me beg you...Back me up... baby are you 22? Plz John- John don't make me give up my claims to my fun raiser money, these animals need to start being useful for a change...OK these leftover angels... I love you so much John, you can *** on my face anytime you want.. I just dunno WHY...why on the face haha No kidding, you can do it... I love you...Thank you for not giving up on me....You are the best thing that can happen to anyone ever..Can't wait to remember you secret name again... i bet it's very angelic :D

Miren para no hacerles largo el cuento resulta que yo tenia novio con el cual perdí la virginida y el me termino que porque ya no me amaba igual y alas dos semanas ya estaba conciendo a alguien mas eso fue hace dos meces y y como hace como dos semanas conocí aun muchacho que es muy lindo en todos los aspectos me visita conoce amis papas y asi . Yo sigo frecuentando ami ex por un dinero que me debe entonces por ese motivo sigo en contacto con el y ayer yo ayer en la noche le hable por facebook diciéndole algo de el dinero entonces mecontesto y después seguimos platicando y me dijo que si tenia novio y cosas así y que si pensaba en el y finalmente me termino diciendo que si hacíamos el amor por ultima vez y sinceramente me muerto por estar entre sus brazos nuevamente pero también pienso en el chico que estoy conociendo pero el hace como 3 días que no me habla que porque tiene problemas familiarespara mi ese no es motivo para no hablarme alcontrario yo talvez lo puedo aconsejar y me siente muy abandonada Yo se que no voy a querer a nadie igual que mi ex y de verdad no se que hacer extraño mucho ami ex pero se que lo nuestro ya fue pero el hecho de tenerlo entre mis brazos me pone a pensar que volveremos a estar juntos

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About 13 years or so ago, my brother met this lady somehow and lived with her for many, many years. She was apparently already expecting a child from her ex that she was divorced from. However, the ex-husband got custody of the child for 5 days per week and two days per week he is at my brother's place for the weekend. He's a very sullen child who does not seem happy at all. He is used to really big gifts and has been spoiled a lot, yet seems unloved and unhappy. They raised him up like an adult from an early age and he didn't get a chance to really be a kid. One day when we were visiting, he said that he "hates himself". Between my brother's wife and her ex-husband, they have pushed their child to play baseball, football, etc. Conveniently enough, the ex-husband is a coach at the ball park. My brother's wife is in her upper 30's and has worked only 6 months in her life. Her family is all twisted. She was raised by her aunt and uncle, who she calls mom and dad. Her real mom lives about 80 miles away in another city and she doesn't seem to have any contact with her. Her real dad died in some kind of car crash when she was really young (not many details are known about it). Her brother and sister are really her cousins. We suspect that her ex-husband divorced her because she was simply costing too much and never happy. She seems to constantly find ways to spend money. They probably spend a couple of hundred per month on smell-good items for every room in the house. My brother was working another job, but his wife's dad (uncle) helped him get on the path to an Air Traffic Controller job. He eventually got it after going through all of the training and such. We suspect that she lords that all over him that she uncle "helped" him get it. She seems to lord it over him that he "never goes to" any of the stepchild's games. At the same time, she likes to run to them constantly - we believe to see her ex-husband. My brother's has employed the said ex-husband to do work in remodeling their bathroom. The said ex comes to my brother's child's birthday party, but is really no relation to him. He comes over and cuts up with his ex-wife. She puts on revealing clothing and will give him her full attention. He kissed her once when he was over there. My brother seems completely blind to this. She has turned him against his mother and doesn't want her to see her grandchild. He has gone for 3-4 months before and wouldn't respond to any of her calls. He would claim that he was busy. One day he did that and we showed up at his house. It was 3pm and his wife apparently had just woken up from sleeping and was in her pajamas. She text him (he was on the way to work) that she "felt interrogated" by us showing up. He has kind of backed away since. We're wondering if his marriage isn't on the rocks. My nephew picks at his fingers a lot, as if worried. Every time we have gone over there, the last few times, my brother was always spanking my nephew and sending him to his room for some tiny thing. His wife does nothing. Flops around whining about her leg hurting from some accident in gymnastics like 15-20 years ago. She even had surgery still whines about it. He's trying to work, take care of the kid and cater to her. She has turned him against us. He texted his mother that she "never speaks to his wife"...his wife always turned her nose up. Just wondering...does it sound like his marriage is in danger? My nephew hasn't seen us in about 4-5 months and is 5 years old. He's in school for part of the day now. When my mother suggested that my brother's wife should get a part-time job to help out with the bills, he seemed to flip out. She's playing the "going to school to be a nurse" game and apparently did that years ago and stopped after a couple of years. My brother seemed so stressed and unhappy in past visits.

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I got pulled over and the cops was lookin for weed. itold him i didnt have any and then told him ijust have my scale and then they searched my car and took the scale...is there any way icould get it thrown out when i only use the scale to weigh my bud when i buy it so iwont get cheated??

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Girls where i live normally has their hair in a small weave or pony tail and wears jeans and a guys t shirt. They dont wear makeup and have thick muscular arms and legs. A lot of times they wear a black tobogon all throughout the seasons, sometimes with a skull on it. You can see these girls with necklaces that has inscribed 'b itch' on them. If you see the car that they drive they normally have placed a frown face i. Marker on the back of the licence plate. They tend to be okay with you up front. But they outrightly warn me and other pepple not to mess with them. They say that they come from a family that doesnt take anything off of anyone. Seems like every girl around where i live is like this Why are they like this?

He is taking all my things to pawn shops, and wants to fight my husband when he talks about his missing items. They keep trash and make a mess inside and outside of the house. In addition, we have information that he is taking his ladies in when my daughter is away at work

My grandmother drives me absolutely crazy. I live with her, my mom and my grandpa. She calls me horrible names, says I'm lazy constantly (I do sports everyday, yeah my grades are dropping to b's , and some c's but I'm trying, I spend a lot of time in my room, I've never gotten in trouble or done anything bad), says I'm a disappointment, blackmails me to do what she wants, threatens to slap me if I don't do what she wants (thought she's never got physical), calls me stupid, always plays the victim. If I try to defend my self to her, she just so gets meaner. In public she is nice anday acts like she's perfect. My mom doesn't have much money so my grandmother is the one who buys me food and takes me most places. And she never let's me forget it. She says her life would be better if she didn't have to drag my **** everywhere. She makes me cry and has not once apologozed. I'm going crazy. I cannot stand to live here anymore ( I'm a 15 female). I'm tired of being treated like ****. My other family members see this and don't stick up for me and just tell me not to take it personally. I feel like I have to walk on eggshells at my house or she might explode. I'm so tired of this. I also feel very depressed and I have low self esteem and she just makes it worse

Okay so my ex and I have been on and off for a few years and well its officially over now. Why do I still think of him though?, its like when I was with him things were okay but I was stressed out with him to. And I'm trying to move on from him because well things didn't go so good when we tried to work things out again. He was disrespectful at times and was so needy and wanted things his way and I couldn't stand it and I don't really like needy guys, i felt like i was doing everything in the relationship and it stressed me out. Anyways why do I miss him still, and wish things would have worked out. But I guess that's just it I answered my own question right? Lol can anyway give me a good way to be over my ex?

I have a thing with a boy and I really like him a lot and he really likes me. we ve hooked up (made out) twice and once for 2 hours! but a few weeks ago he kissed his ex and today someone told me that he kissed her again a few days ago. how do I get him to stop without directly telling him because I don t want drama and I don t want to end it with him. is there anything I could say to bring him back to me? or maybe something to get him to stop without directly saying "stop cheating on me with ____" ?? I really don t want to bring it up I just want him to stop. I confronted him the first time but i don t know if the 2nd is true or not. but I already confronted him and I don t want to again I just want to get him back.