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- Question: Why does my friend try to push me out and what can I do differently?
- Question: How to deal with people talking crap/teacher embarrassing me?
- Question: Why is it easier to make friends when you're younger?
- Question: Why are people so easily annoyed nowadays?
- Question: Why are germany and croatia so close?
- Question: Trustworthy friend issue?
- Question: Why have I been feeling lonely all of a sudden?
- Question: Why did he do this?
- Question: If you invited someone but realise their brhavior is horrible how do you uninvite them?
- Question: No job no money no house and no freinds or family to help. Living in woods for 2 months now. Any advice is appreciated.?
- Question: One of my best friends didn't invite me to his party just because there will be alcohol?
- Question: When a girl does this stuff?
- Question: How to get a guy best friend?
- Question: Is it better to report being bullied or to not do anything to stop it?
- Question: Embarrassing or funny middle school stories?
- Question: Anyone want to help me prank my friend on instagram?
- Question: I need help with something. How to surprise my friend with Disney trip? How to Tell her? Please help me ��?
- Question: Why are some people negative towards me? What did I do?!! :-(?
- Question: I m in grade 11, and having troubles with friends. help?
- Question: What do I do if I was rude to a friend?
- Question: How to accept the way people view me and move on with my life?
- Question: Why are people offended by my suicide joke?
- Question: My friend is a jerk now?
- Question: Facebook issue...Need advice because I have tried to ignore ongoing problem, but think we need to put it behind us and move forward?
- Question: My friend is a jerk now?
- Question: Am I being negative or is my friend being negative?
- Question: My college roommate is mean and always has her boyfriend over and I need to move out but am afraid of hurting her feelings. What do I do?
- Question: Do you think muscular guys are more arrogant than other men?
- Question: I accidentally hit my biology teacher!!!!! Help!?
- Question: Please Help!!! I'm really concerned for my friend?
- Question: Why would it be okay for a married person to have any sort of friendship with the opposite gender?
- Question: Friendship? Please Help!!?
- Question: How do I make friends?
- Question: Funny pee stories?
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- Question: How can I get closer to a group of girls who are already like "bffffs"am only "bf s" with them, but I want to be great friends. How?!?
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- Question: I stood up to my mom when she was bad mouthing my friend, and she yelled at me for it. She always has something bad to say, help?
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- Question: Was their idea of a prank cruel?
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| Question: Why does my friend try to push me out and what can I do differently? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:55 PM PST I am a male college student (junior) who has two very close friends (call them Friend A and Friend B). When with them individually, there are rarely any issues. I usually get along best with Friend B, but I am fine with both. However, in group situations (whether just us or a larger group), Friend A sometimes looks for ways to leave me out and even exclude me or ditch me altogether. It will start out that Friend A tries to just talk to Friend B and leave me out of the conversation. A then begins to look for ways to further alienate me, such as criticizing me and trying to embarrass (sometimes this is done in good faith and sometimes it is not). Then, he may take it further and try to incite me or start a fight that will make me look bad. If he is able to frame this moderately well or able to succeed in getting me angry, Friend B will take his side and also look down on me or to get away from me. Due to events from many months ago, it makes sense why Friend B would fail to give me the benefit of the doubt, even if I do deserve to receive it. In just an hour, a situation where Friend B and I invite him to go somehwere can turn into a situation where they are now hanging out without me. This is something that is never the case if we are hanging out in a group where not both of them are there. While I am still friend with both of them and this is not ALWAYS the case, this makes me prefer non-group situations. Should I try to give them space or do something else differently? |
| Question: How to deal with people talking crap/teacher embarrassing me? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:54 PM PST A year ago in my science class my teacher accused me of cheating bc my phone lit up during a quiz. Our teacher told us all to put our phone on the desk so we won't cheat but mine lit up bc someone texted me. Anyways my teacher took my phone and said I was cheating and I told her I wasn't. After that so many rumors went around about that I'm a cheater, and I allegedly cheated off of this kid (which is impossible bc we sat away from each other) and so on. When I found out my teacher told other kids I asked to go to the bathroom and I cried. When I was walking out the principal was walking past in the hallway and asked if I was okay. I said yeah but he kind of made me tell him what was wrong. He's the principal, I can't lie to him. So I said what happened and what my teacher did and he takes it upon himself to talk to her about it after I begged him not to bc I did not want any trouble.Anyways flashforward to today. I actually really do study for tests, do my hw etc. it was so hard last year and now bc all people do is like to talk about how much I'm a cheater. I studied so hard for the SATS and was close to a perfect score. This one boy who was in the same science class as me got a 1900. So this girl mentioned how I did really well and he says I bet she cheated to get that score- she's known for cheating. My friend who's in the same class with those kids told me. I'm sorry but it's been a year and I still feel the embarrassment like it all happened yesterday. what should I do? |
| Question: Why is it easier to make friends when you're younger? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:38 PM PST I graduated high school last year and it was much easier making friends then. People actually WANTED to talk and be silly and they were a lot more open. Now in college people aren't as open to friendship. I'm 19 and most of them are a lot older than me. They don't wanna talk. They just wanna mind their own business and get put of there. The most they ever do is make small talk. Why is college atmosphere so serious and heavy hearted? |
| Question: Why are people so easily annoyed nowadays? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:25 PM PST I swear almost everyone in my class gets annoyed for every small thing I do (eg. Asking what time it is, etc). Just talking to them for a mere 5 seconds and they would immediately label you as 'annoying'. Some of these people have the audacity to call me 'annoying' when they have what it takes to annoy others. And one of my classmates made a tweet on twitter about how being called 'annoying' is quite hurtful and other people shouldn't say it when he himself dares to call me as 'annoying' in real life for every small thing I do. Oh the irony... |
| Question: Why are germany and croatia so close? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:19 PM PST why do they have such good relations with each other |
| Question: Trustworthy friend issue? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:14 PM PST I have a friend who constantly criticizes me. She also talks about people behind their back, and I'm afraid she may talk about me, too. She has said "OMG, how weak are you?!" And "You're so slow!!!" She doesn't really understand me. She makes fun of me when I don't want her too. Is she a trustworthy friend? How do I get her to stop being my friend?? I'm not the type of person who just "talks it out", I don't do that. |
| Question: Why have I been feeling lonely all of a sudden? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 04:11 PM PST For the last couple of years I haven't had any friends to hang out with, but I used to be fine with that. For some reason for the past month or so the loneliness has finally gotten to me and has been making me feel rather depressed. How do I feel comfortable with having no friends like I used to? Also please don't tell me to make friends because I'm too socially awkward for that. |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:44 PM PST I was about 7 or 8 years old and it was really hot so I was innocently wearing a matching suit, shorts and a belly top. I was playing hide and seek with my 2 friends from school when this boy from my school saw me, he took me into the very small forest behind my house and told me to lay on the ground, and I refused because it was muddy, so he did and told me to get on top of him. Obviously I was 7 or 8 so I didn't have a clue was sex was, and I was kinda scared and confused so I did it, he started kissing me. (little kisses on my lips and cheeks) for about 10 minutes when I heard my dad calling for me, when I said I had to go he said one more kiss, I reluctantly agreed. The next day in school he gave me a few glances. Why did he do this? I'm 13 and this is a memory I cannot forget. I don't think about him, I haven't seen him in a few years. |
| Question: If you invited someone but realise their brhavior is horrible how do you uninvite them? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:29 PM PST |
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| Question: One of my best friends didn't invite me to his party just because there will be alcohol? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:20 PM PST Well i am really pissed off because one of my best friends i have known for a while now is turning 16, and he is having a pretty big party, but is not inviting me, and i talked to his older brother, and he spilled the secret that the only reason i am not getting invited is because there will be alcohol at the party, and they plan on getting wasted. I also know for a matter of fact that some of my other good friends will be there. Now i have told my friend who is turning 16 that i do not plan on drinking alcohol because i don't really see the need too. I have high goals for myself, I am a smart dude, and i don't want to attempt to ruin all of that over alcohol. I don't know...what do you guys think? He doesn't want to invite me because i have told him i will not be drinking for while, but he is not going to share a wonderful moment of his life (16th birthday) with one of his best friends over ALCOHOL!!!! ugh thanks! |
| Question: When a girl does this stuff? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:18 PM PST Okay so today in class I was doing my work & I looked up & saw the girl I like looking at me & smiling then she looked at me up and down while smiling. But then I just looked away |
| Question: How to get a guy best friend? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:12 PM PST Im a 15 y.o. guy and all I have are girl friends, but I dont have a best friend. And I really want a guy best friend. The problem is that where I live there are a lot of stupid guys and none of them would hang out with me (Im kinda nerdy and dont really like sports or stuff guys my age usually do). So I was wondering, how to find a guy best friend? And Im also gay. Thanks in advance |
| Question: Is it better to report being bullied or to not do anything to stop it? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:08 PM PST I'm being bullied at school. This started happening more and more this semester, I went to the dean to let him know and told me to call security and report it to him if it keeps happening. People see me and talk smack and do it right in front of me. It seems like people who do it are getting other people involved. I have 2 classes where this is happening. And there are lots of people all over campus who do this and they usually do it in groups of people. I don't feel comfortable anymore. I try not to pay attention to it but honestly they reached my limit and I'm not putting up with it anymore. I went to the dean like i mention and the dean told me to let him know if they kept going. it's just very uncomfortable and annoying. I'm tired of it. I don't want to fight because i don't want to mess up my education. I have a clean record. And i'm trying to prevent this from happening. I want to get this to stop. I just feel unsafe, and uncomfortable. I can't concentrate on my work, because i'm just thinking about what they are saying and them mocking me. What would you do? i need help.. I don't know what to do anymore. I'm worried if it will get worse if I report this. The dean said that he can suspend them and later that if they continue to do it, he can expel them. What's bothering me is because they do it in groups and if I report it, what if they get revenge and get their other friends to harass me even more or what if they don't stop? Or what if they try to get some type of revenge on me? I did absolutely nothing to provoke them and it is repeatedly happening. Please no negative comments, what do you think is the best to do? |
| Question: Embarrassing or funny middle school stories? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 03:06 PM PST One day, my friend wore tight black yoga pants. The only problem was, everyone saw her blue panties through her pants. |
| Question: Anyone want to help me prank my friend on instagram? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:40 PM PST |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:40 PM PST Can you give me ideas? My want friend have great birthday. I Don't want to buy her friendships 😢😢😭😭😭😭please help with cherry on top |
| Question: Why are some people negative towards me? What did I do?!! :-(? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:36 PM PST |
| Question: I m in grade 11, and having troubles with friends. help? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:26 PM PST This will be a long story but please read: At first it was fine but now I m excluded from group chats, picked on, and they like to do embarrassing things to me (for example at our lunch table). One of my girl friends recently made an account of me on Instagram of me being "high" and drunk with embarrassing pictures of me. I forced her to delete it. They got mad at ME for this. Embarrassing things towards me include throwing food at me, taking embarrassing photos even like saying private stuff loudly. My friend group is a mix of girls and guys just so it s clear. The guys call me names under their breath. I know, i know it sounds like grade 5 s on a school playground. They like to blame drama/ everything on me as if I m the one starting it, but I m always the one telling them to stop and act more mature. - About group chats, they started one without me obviously because they don t want me in it.. I haven t asked why though. My name is mentioned in it. - Being excluded includes like today one of them asked me if I was coming out for lunch I m like " well no one invited me" she s like "oh" and no one even said anything.but they still went out - As of right now I m just really down. Two years ago I had the option to go to a different school or not. I chose this school and every year and I somewhat regret my decision. Now it s too late to change. Please don t judge me for this I just need someone to listen and advice would help completely xoxo |
| Question: What do I do if I was rude to a friend? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:26 PM PST Basically, my friend told me this morning if I wanted to see a movie with her. I said my mom just needs to know the time, and she said 5:00. She thought I could go, it was just that I needed to know the time. SAhe came to pick me up, but I declined because my mom said no. I wanted to text her that I couldn't go, but my phone takes hours to charge and my mother wouldn't let me use her phone. My mom got so mad at me because I was rude for making her drive to my house to pick me up and declining. O courwse I will apologise, but what do I do? |
| Question: How to accept the way people view me and move on with my life? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:10 PM PST I've NEVER had a boyfriend before. I already know I'm not very attractive and my personality isn't interesting for a guy to take interest in me. My family use to tell me what man would ever want you. Lately, I've been realizing my family's right because if I ever displayed a subtle level of interest in a guy they would start acting odd with me and avoid me. I would describe myself as a bit shy and quiet. Personality wise ppl would describe me as easy going and amicable. So I gave up completely. Anyway, I was on an escalator once, by myself, minding my business and this one guy further up in front of me saw me, nudged his friend, pointed at me and they both start laughing with each other. I felt so terrible the whole day someone who go out of their way to do that. Guys are VERY mean to me. They constantly use words likes "unattractive" and "ugly" when they refer to me. Even my friend's boyfriend referred to me as the "heavy friend" not even by name or anything else. Another time a friend of my classmate mistaken me for this other girl in my class who is MUCH shorter and heavier than me. If a man takes interest in me its because I'm LAST option or its men in their late 30's to 40's who are mostly married. I know I will never be seen as beautiful, even though I try VERY hard to be seen as different, but how to stop expecting and fully accept that so I can move on with my life? Advice? https://www.instagram.com/luna_songz/ I'm just really tired about feeling so down and broken all the time. All the effort I put into trying to be seen as beautiful, the hair, the makeup, the way I dress is just a waste of time. I feel so stupid and embaressed. I already started giving away most of my makeup and clothes and traded it in for plain ole sweatpants and hoodies. I don't even bother to go out. |
| Question: Why are people offended by my suicide joke? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 02:07 PM PST I told my friend to kill himself. I was just kidding and he knows that. But then he went around telling other people and they were saying thing like "that's mean." and "that's not funny." And now everyone in the whole grade is talking about it saying that im a "bully". Why are they making such a big deal of it? |
| Question: My friend is a jerk now? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:59 PM PST Me and my friend have been friends for 3 years all of middle school and as we entered high school she moved so we are going to different schools and we still text and we are very close and then a few weeks ago she starts to act different and lie a lot. She would throw major temper tantrums and call me like 20 times, even during class and say "you're clearly busy.. nevermind. Bye." I don't agree with dumb things she does to people and if I say I don't she would send text say "nvm. k.. bye." She smokes cigarettes with this guy that just wants to take advantage of her and is very defensive of him! It's really annoying like is this normal? I feel i don't like her anymore and also feel I don't wanna lose her! What do I do?! Pls tell me! |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:53 PM PST My boyfriend has lots of female friends on Facebook. This one in particular...he has never even met but she has done or said some things over the course of our relationship that has made me uncomfortable with their friendship. She sometimes posts things that I think my boyfriend should skip over and not "like"...as in a picture of herself in which she said she looks busty in this pic... I noticed that my boyfriend "liked" the picture and it made me think he shouldn't have out of respect for me. She also posted about herself swimming bottomless in a lake last summer and silly details about it. I just feel like she is a little too friendly towards him. She's talked about how cute his dimples are under a pic of himself he posted. But the one thing that really bothered me was when he had a hospital stay. I was sitting in the waiting room while he had a test, then I got a Facebook notice that SHE commented "How are you feeling?" under some older random photo of my boyfriend's. .. instead of posting it under my post about his hospital stay, where everyone else was commenting. have really been bothered by that but try to ignore it and my boyfriend thinks she means no harm and we should ignore it. He seems to side with her and not agree with me...that sometimes she maybe is a little inappropriate. There are many other incidences I don't have time to go into... but they have all added up to where we are now. He says there is nothing to worry about and I believe him, mostly...and maybe it's just that she's disrespecting me, indirectly? I see her good aspects but the fact remains...she irritates me and there is an issue I wanna put behind us and move on. How to handle ? I don't think he wants us to block her as a friend...kinda harsh, but at the same time I would like to do that and she would not be in our lives. The comment she made asking him how he feels, under a random photo... it looked to me like she was trying to start a personal separate conversation with him. At least she didn't private message him, I suppose! |
| Question: My friend is a jerk now? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:41 PM PST |
| Question: Am I being negative or is my friend being negative? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:40 PM PST I feel like every time I share a new idea with my friend, she always saying things that is wrong with my plans. Her side of the story is that she's saying that to help me think of how to improve my plan. But my side of the story is that, when I share a new idea, I know it isn't perfect and that is because is new and anything new will need to be adjusted. She said that I'm the negative person because I take what she say about my ideas negatively. So what do you guys think? Who is the negative person here? I like to think of new ideas and I'm pretty excited when I thought of something new. |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:35 PM PST The thing is, my roommate and I knew each other from high school and I thought I could room with her in college bc Im a super easy going person. I didnt see her true colors till now. She has her boyfriend over every day from 5pm- 10pm and I feel uncomfortable around them at times because all they do is fight and make out... weird combo, yes I know.. She is also very rude and disregards anything I have to say, for example if I ask her to put her headphones in while watching netflix or listening to music she gets mad and has a an atttitide about it. She doesnt realizes that she's mean, even if I bring up that I dont like how she treats me she bashes me and calls me overly senesitive. Its horrible because she has no regard for anyone besides herself. I need to move out but she thinks were friends and she will be super pissed off if I move out because she will be assigned a new roommate (I live in the dorms). If I tell her about her boyfriend and how I don't want him in the room all the time she'll say its because Im single right now.. She thinks its normal. Im at a total loss, and moving home would be best and I could just commute. especially because my mom is currently battling cancer and has no one at home to help her. But I feel she will think im using that as an excuse. I also do not see why I should spend 5k living somewher I feel uncomfortable and avoid being half the time.. Im just truly not happy. But Id feel bad moving out because I care too much about others. |
| Question: Do you think muscular guys are more arrogant than other men? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:29 PM PST I have noticed that muscular guys are very arrogant and only like to be friends with athletic people. Most muscular guys never have been friendly to me and mostly only like to associate with other buff/big guys. |
| Question: I accidentally hit my biology teacher!!!!! Help!? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 01:23 PM PST OK, so we were doing group work about cells in class and I was paired with these IDIOTIC boys who kept using my stuff and even going as far as hitting me on my back. I was soooo frustrated dat I told them to cut it out, then to STOP NOW!!. Then One of the boys stabbed me with a pen in my back, that was just ENOUGH, I pushed my chair back (a little too hard) hoping he would go away but just hit my teacher right in the arm (however possible!!) I just wanted to go apologize but all I could do was stand there overly humiliated and utter "...Sorry!" Next day which is today, I didn't see her around.. What if the thing I did was serious? The boys keep teasing me and taking bullying too far but I have nothing left to do.. Oh.. What have I done?! My life isn't worth living anymore. I will stab myself using a compass in the next hour or so... I feel incredibly guilty and humiliated! |
| Question: Please Help!!! I'm really concerned for my friend? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:52 PM PST My friend David doesn't know when to stop. Sometimes I even get irritated by him but i tend to just let it slide. I'm starting to think he might not even be mentally all there or he has aspergers or something like that. He's real awkward and kind of dorky, but doesn't really doesn't understand what is socially acceptable. He tends to try to bust your chops in joking matter but doesn't know when to stop. (Even though if you say a joke back he gets all offended and acts like you are bullying him.) Every time I go to a party or something and he tags along it almost ends with him getting the **** kicked out of by someone. Last night we went to a college party. He was doing his usual busting on this dude he didn't even know. The dude said a joke back, then David said "at least my mom isn't a whore". The guy told him a few times not to mention his mom but he kept going on. It ended up to the point where the dude got in his face but David kept going on thinking the guy was joking. David ended up getting punched in the face, knocked to the ground and the dude was on top of him punching him repeatedly until we all broke it up. Then David started talking **** like "you don't know how to take a joke" and the dude went after him again so I dragged David outside and we started walking home. I tried explaining to him that he doesn't know when to stop, but in he acted like the guy was bullying him. It's like he doesn't get it. David is a small scrawny dude also. What is wrong with him He gets beat up all the time but it's like he can't comprehend that it's his fault |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:50 PM PST To me it's wrong for a married person to keep in any non business like contact with non family members of the opposite gender.There's a big difference between being polite with the opposite sex and having the same kind of conversations that a person has with a friend.If a married person want to email about music,sports,life,or anything non business related,they have family members and same gender friends to email about non business related stuff. I think it's very unnecessary, inappropriate,and wrong for a married person to email non family members of the opposite gender about non work related stuff because it will cause issues in the marriage and it will cause jealousy and other things at some point.If a married person gets a email from a non family member of the opposite gender about non work related stuff,they should tell that person politely to stop and tell their spouse.A married person a responsibility to remain faithful to their spouse and having any sort of unnecessary contact with the opposite gender will lead to issues in the marriage at some point.I am also sure that most spouses would not like their partners having any kind of friendships with people of the opposite sex.I personally believe the only opposite gender friend a married person should have is their spouse. Do you see any point for a married person to email non family members of the opposite gender about non work related stuff? |
| Question: Friendship? Please Help!!? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:45 PM PST I'm a very genuine sweet kind person(not trying to brag!) Literally everyone I have ever met always says I'm just a nice person. But the problem is that no one wants be my friend. I mean I have friends but not people Who want to hang out or anything like that. I swear that I don't try to hard but I do try. Why do people just say that I'm nice? but don't try to be my friend? I'm very lonely in my situation and it seems like no one wants to put any effort into friendships. Also I'm always left out or forgotten because I'm homeschooled. I once went to this party(which was very hard to get to but I made it)(I was also invited) but when I got there no one would hang out with me. Once I walked over to my "friends" they left to go somewhere else! And then the next day we were all talking about the party and they all said that they didn't remember me there! This has happened to me all my life.(btw I have good personal hygiene and I have never done ANYTHING to them to be treated like that) What do I do? I need a friend that I can talk to and really rely on. I am prepared to do the same and probably more for a friend who needs it. I just have all this love to share but no one to share it with. Also I am very mature for my age and get along better with people who are college age but I want to be safe and its not really safe or appropriate for a 16 year old(me) to be hanging out with a 19 year old. I also have overprotective parents so even though they agree that I would get along better with someone older than me they won't let me. Also I love being around people! I am an introvert and an extrovert! |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:39 PM PST First of, I move allot, so I had my fair share of trying to make friends. I usually find it easier to make friends with people who reach out to me first, and who invite me to their houses and other places. But now I live in a different place and it seems that there is nobody here who is willing to get to know me. This is a bad thing since I am VERY quiet, shy and reserved. I'm not saying that being alone is a bad thing, and I'm not completely friendless, there just isn't anyone who I feel completely comfortable suddenly inviting somewhere or even to my house. There doesn't seem to be anyone who shares my interests. Not to mention that I am completely unreliable with text messages and emails. So how do I make a friend if I can't reach out to others? And please don't tell me to "just open up", do you know how hard that would be for me? I can't even speak in front of the class room without breaking out into tears! |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:25 PM PST Once I had to pee when I was drunk, and I don't know about you but when I'm drunk I can't hold it very long. I was walking home with my friend so we went round the side of a shop and I asked her to stand in front of me while I squatted and peed on the ground. But we were so drunk we hadn't noticed the side of the shop had a glass wall and about a dozen people inside could see me!!! It was soooo funny, and I tried to stop but the more I laughed the more I peed! I have a load more stories like that, and naturally they all involve me being drunk!! haha! Do you have any good ones? |
| Question: Who wants to be my friend? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:20 PM PST |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:16 PM PST I am pretty shy. I m having trouble being outgoing😢 |
| Question: Whats a good pop up site to send my friends? (a secret website)? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:13 PM PST |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 12:11 PM PST I was speaking to an associate about a sporting event. I was asking him if he could provide commentary(for my blog) because I had missed a specific game. In the middle of no where, he tells me the following: "You have been sleeping with someone I know you could have told me." I've since learned that he is friends with my Ex-Husband. I told him, "Well, it isn't any of your business who I am sleeping with. Why do you feel entitled to this information?" I also ended the friendship because I found the line of questioning rude, invasive. It also indicates that he sits and talks ABOUT me which I find weird for a friend. One of my friends told me that I reacted extreme. |
| Question: Why do high school girls do this? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 11:46 AM PST There is this girl about 17 she is a all-star competition cheerleader and chubby. She is kinda socially awkward and girls say she has nappy hair, may have mild aspergers, glasses, she can barely do a back handspring, and maybe a D cup chest. girls make fun of her and talk smack about her saying things like "eww", "Fatty" , "The weird girl", and all types of silly childish names. One of the girls who talks smack about her already has a kid. The girl who is bullied is axctive in youth group, allstar competitive cheerleader (more expensive than school cheer), drives a decent car (2011 or so), and is a nice person. Why do some dumb idiots want to make fun of people? |
| Question: Do girls care if you sleep on a single bed? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 11:45 AM PST Would that prevent you from having sex. There's this girl i like and been talking to. I'm sure she's done and she's coming over tonight to chill. I sleep on a single bed now cuz my big bed broke. I dont have money now to get a new. Even she's down to get it would she change her mind when she sees my little better, or they don't care? |
| Question: Friendship sleepovers!? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 11:05 AM PST My best friends normally stay the night almost every single night, and I am beginning to feel like I am a boring host. I don't eat junk food and I work a lot, my question to you is...What do I do to continuously make my sleepovers fun? |
| Question: Where and who do I get help from now? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 11:01 AM PST I've talked to with my friends about my issues. I've even wrote about how I feel and I've shared it with my friends and my school counselor but they didn't help me at all. I have not told my parents about it because they would tell me unhelpful things. My assistant principal is supposedly trying to fix it for me but I don't know if that is true or not. I have no one to rely on. One of my friends said that I'm complaining which I am but she don't think that it is anything to worry about. One of my friends told me that anyone else would tell me the same things. My friends claimed that they understood my feelings but then they couldn't help. They told me to ignore all of it and then they leave me alone. No one wants to help me. I have been told by my friends that it is impossible to solve my issues. They have all along with my counselor given up on me just because I've told them that It is hard for me to ignore things. I asked them for help and I've said that I need help and they all told me the same thing which was unhelpful. I'm tired of feeling depressed every day and not being able to get help from anyone or anywhere. Is it impossible to help me or for me to get help? |
| Question: Friends tell they're fine when they are obviously mad? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:35 AM PST does this happens to you cause it gets on my nerves!! please share your story:)) so when my friend gets annoyed she ignores me and if i ask her she start yelling saying that i am rude and that her life is not my business and after 2 weeks she starts to be my bff !! that happens like every 2 month!!! one of my friend said that i am being immature cz it doesn't matter if she said hi she doesn't have to and that the other think she is my friend!! is she right?? i mean i get her point but come on.. thanks for answering :))) |
| Question: Moving. Need some advice? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:34 AM PST I moved out of my hometown when I was 11 and I lived there all 11 years. I m 16 now so it s almost been 5 years. I moved to a completely different state. My family is thinking about moving back but what makes me nervous the most is highschool and my former classmates. I keept in touch with a few friends for a while but that kinda fell off, only one of them i still talk to once in while since she was always my closest friend. I have no idea if my class mates still remember me. Will they reconize me, talk to me, what they will they think about me etc... I could use some Advice thank |
| Question: Does jealousy cause girls to bully? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:22 AM PST Or is that just something people say to make the victim of bullying feel better. |
| Question: How to stop feeling guilty? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:08 AM PST So I had a group of friends which was norrowed down to about just 4 ( 5 including me) In a group.. Everyone turned on me due to a lie that had happened. (using colours to describe) Basically I met up for a catch up with Blue and after her complaining and me changing a topic onto something better then her complaining, we met Purple and red for abit. then A few days later I got stuff spread about me. Since then I had always blamed the person who I had met first on that day. I speak to 2 of them speak and 2 don't.. I just realized now that the one who i've been blaming didn't start anything it was purple.. Although I've spoken to blue and she understands and forgot everything. After speaking I realized I've blamed her for nothing. and I feel so so guilty from it but she speaks to me normal How do I stop feeling guilty for this? (Sorry for doing colours as names. I couldn't think of what names to pick without using their names) |
| Question: Is she a true friend or not? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:07 AM PST Hello, Well I wonder if my friend's a true friend or not. She's a little embarssing sometimes, but has been hanging out with me and talked to me (nobody else does). She's a good talker, and says she's an introvert. I'm depressed, you know, and she's been listening to me and stuff and we've been talking. It's just that whenever I call her to meet up, she says she's busy often because her schedule is tight and she's studying for school, although I can't sense why she would do that SO much. Is she a true friend? |
| Question: Advice on visiting a Sick in American Culture? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 10:04 AM PST Hi I have recently moved to America and I am new to the American Culture. One of my good friend here had undergone surgery here and is now at his home resting. Would it be okey if I drop by his place to see how is he doing because the place where I come from , if a person you care about is sick then you visit his place. Also is there any suggestions what should I take as a gift while visiting. |
| Question: How do I get my best friend back? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 09:44 AM PST A few months ago, my friends got together and had a sleepover. I felt really left out so I texted my other friend asking if she knew about it. Instead of replying, this girl legit comes to my house and rants about the sleepover we weren't invited to blah blah. Here's where it all turns to ****. She got mad salty and decided to snapchat a picture of us with a lowkey racist comment on it (we're black, they're white) and they rightfully cut us off after seeing that bullshit she posted on my snapchat. I couldn't believe I'd lost my closest friends over some bull I could've stopped so I tried justifying myself by saying I was sorry but felt like they were overreacting. Long story short, everyone of the girls in that sleepover forgave me except my closest friend. Now we're back at school, I see her all the time and just think about the fun we used to have and I miss her a hella lot. She seems to hate me with every fibre of her being. I just want my best friend back. What should I do? Just a reminder this happened about 5 months ago. |
| Posted: 20 Nov 2015 09:30 AM PST A really good friend of mine just became a teen mom (she's only 20 though) she's not a skank, she knows who the father is (they're going to be married in summer )and she's super excited to be a mom. I told my mom that I was happy for her, but my mom is one of those traditional types, saying that it wasn't right for my friend to be unmarried and pregnant and that she seemed kind of slutty. I told my mom that wasn't fair, because she doesn't know my friend like that and she has no right to judge anyone, let alone talk like that. She then yelled at me and said that my friend was a bad influence on me and I said that it wasn't true. And she said that just wait till she's moody and she'll turn on me. I told my mom that she was very ignorant for talking that way and that she was moody when she was pregnant with me and my sister (she's told me this). My mom then shouts at me for standing up for my friend and that I don't know anything and told me to go away. I love my mom (more than anything) but I don't like it when she judges people that way, but I don't agree with her views; my dad said I should apologize to her (my mom) but she started it with calling my friend a slut. What should I do? I'm a Christian too but I don't judge people. So I'm just supposed to agree with her saying that all unmarried women are skanks? I know she's my mom and I love her but I don't agree with her views, especially when it comes to religion. I want her to hear my opinions too, and she can't make me stop talking just because she feels like she's right all the time, when she's not. And she feels that my opinions aren't supposed to be heard because I'm still a teenager and it's not right. And when I said unmarried women, I meant unmarried mothers. In her views, she feels that it takes both men and women who are married to make a loving and happy family. Which isn't really true, because I've known people who've grown up with single parents and they've turned out just fine. She (my mom) and dad agree with the marriage subject. I've tried telling both of them that it's not true, but they both shut me down and say it's the Christian way for a Family to be completed. |
| Question: Am I being a ripple? Or is that what I thought about myself? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 09:25 AM PST Its happened at school when I check my exam results on my handphone and I past with flying colours in the exam, I'm too excited for that and I tell my best friend about it. He friends with the girls in my class and trying so hard to be the coolest. I told them that I dont believe it. Thay're sad bcs they didnt doing well in exam. I don't know why, but they sarcasm everyone in the class. They sarcasm me in a group chat and private chat. And then there's my friends ask me do you pass with your exam and then I reply yes and then she reply congrates and I reply thank you :)). I'm too excited for it bcs I don't expect this. They call me a ripple. I hate myself. |
| Question: Was their idea of a prank cruel? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 08:55 AM PST So our friend Dani was celebrating her 22nd birthday this past weekend. The rest of my friends were going to throw a small party at this pizza place and invite Dani. Turned out the "party" was just a joke. They all told Dani to meet us at the pizza joint, but when she showed up no one was there. Turned out they thought it'd be funny to ditch her and go out to a bar instead. I thought it was kinda mean and actually went to the pizza place to meet Dani because she's like my first and best friend really. When no one showed up, besides me, Dani started crying. Eventually she decided to call of the party. My friends actually wanted to hurt her feelings badly. Lastly, outside the restaurant Dani thanked me, then hugged and kissed me (I'm a guy btw). Since then I have been like Dani's one go to friend and we hang out a lot. I also notice she's becoming more attracted to me as more than a friend. Like she cuddles, hugs, won't leave my side. Just really affectionate. What's going on? |
| Question: HELP, HOW CAN MY FRIEND SEE A DOCTOR? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 08:32 AM PST A friend of mine gets sharp pains in her lungs that hurt so bad to a point where she cant move until it passes. (idk if it has to do with her asthma or not.) She cant go see a doctor because she doesnt have the money. Her mom had soonercare, but lost a lot of benefits because she makes too much money. But her mom won t spend any of it on her to get her seen bc she does not care. My friend isn t eighteen yet so she can t go alone or anything she can really do...is there anything that can be done about this? I m really worried and just want to help her... |
| Question: Do people think a minor typo is endearing or something ? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 08:05 AM PST You always see typos on a question of a racy subject as if they're trying like trying to appear cute and innocent. It's annoying. |
| Question: Should I ditch my "friend"? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 07:44 AM PST Well he's gay and I am not... He knows I'm straight but I get the impression that he likes me. He asks to hang out all the time. We were supposed to hang out today but this morning he sent me a message saying he wants to buy me something. Idk if hes just being nice or if hes trying to **** me. Its kinda creepy tbh. So should I ditch him or give him another chance? If I should ditch him how should I do it without telling him anything, |
| Question: How to talk back to bullies? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 07:09 AM PST I am a really nice person, I never talk back to people simply because I am raised that way. But these guys at school use my politeness and see me as weak and they bully me a lot. First they throw stuff at me be it pencils, erasers, and other stuff in class. Secondly they keep finding ways to set me up in trouble, they call me names and whats the worse they did today is that they put up a leg in front of me a few times making me fall down. I am planning on telling my teacher this monday. But still, I wan't to fight back. I am not scared of them, but in the moment I really don't know what to say and i just stare and ignore, and if i say something they keep making fun of me. It's not making me sad because out of school i don't give a **** of what they say, but in school it's just annoying |
| Question: Best friend suddenly stopped talking to me...? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 06:56 AM PST We were best friends for years! A while back he stopped talking to me. We didn't argue. There was no explanation. Nothing. What did I do so wrong?? |
| Question: I found out my daughter smoked weed!! What do I do?? How do I make her stop? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 06:29 AM PST She is only 20 and she just moved out on her own and lives with 4 roommates, 2 girls and 1 boy, which I am not comfortable with her rooming with the opposite sex. I know absolutely nothing about him and what kind of bad influences those people have on her! I am so angry! In a million years I never guessed MY child would get into drugs! She is putting herself in danger and I don't know what to do! She won't answer my calls! How do I know she is okay?! What do I say to her?! |
| Question: I had an awkward run in with an old friend and she told me to call her. Should I? Posted: 20 Nov 2015 06:15 AM PST I used to be best friends with this girl for the longest of times, but then when we were 15 we stopped being friends because she started excluding me, made new friends, and thought I wasn't cool enough for her. She also thought I had some sort of clingy gay crush on her, which I did, but its not like I ever admitted it. You'd think that after 10 years of friendship, she'd respect me more, but whatever. I ran into her at the movies when she was with her friends and she actually seemed really happy to see me for some reason. She even left her friends for a few minutes to talk to me. We no longer go to the same school ( I changed schools after that whole friendship drama) so it's been a long time since we've talked. She gave me her new number because she says she wants to talk (who knows why) but I don't know whether I should call her or not. I mean, we're both seniors now, so maybe I should be more mature? I don't know. |
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