My husband said he's affectionate every once in a while but it's not a consistent thing.

I found out my husband had been cheating on me when I went through his phone. Nothing physical, he was on dating apps and talking to different woman. I left him because he broke my heart. He could never tell me why he did what he did until today. He had been sexually assaulted while in the field (he's a marine). He said he just wanted to feel like a man again. He was so humiliated and felt degraded. He's absolutely traumatized and is trying to work through it in therapy. He was too scared to tell me and so he tried to feel validated by talking to other woman. Not that cheating is an excuse. But there's serious reason behind it. I don't know what to do. :( Does that make his cheating okay and we can get back together?  We have only been separated for a month! We are not divorced. 

I don't know what else to do, my husband comes home mad most of the time now ever since this virus happened and he constantly says How is it fair I have to work and you get to be home and work from home. I feel like I'm doing something wrong just for being home and when he gets straight home he says he wants to play video game and spend only 5mins and he then complain that I'm complaining because I want to spend more time with him, what would you all recommend? I'm been getting more and more depress 

With this Coronavirus everyone is saying we need to have all of our products "Made in the USA", and end outsourcing our jobs. If we brought all of the jobs back into the US because of the Coronavirus, how many jobs would this add and how would it effect the economy? 

Which would you choose A or B? 

both spouses to exploit, such as wealth, physical appearance, intelligence, et cetera? Marriage or gender studies

married 3 of those years. You have an argument and your husband comes towards you threatening to hit you. And he could kill me with his bare hands. You leave before that can happen. Later, he came home, acted like nothing happened and took a shower. He knows I don't like to touch him when I'm angry and he almost made me hug him when he got home from work. He knows I'm terrified now. Of him. (He has past issue but gained self control and is trying to be a better person. And has been pretty much up til now.)He didn't even address it when he got home. My question is if you were in my husbands shoes and this occurred would the next time you see me would you act like nothing happened? Wouldn't you want to address my fear? If I was the stronger of the 2 of us I sure wouldn't want my husband walking around fearing me. I would want to assure him that I would never harm him and I'll prove it by my actions. Ok. I'm ready for true blue advice. Is it a woman's thing to want to discuss it? Or should it be addressed?

since the virus cannot be sexually transmitted?

marriage

Writing a life story that starts from young adulthood to marriage, children, children growing up, and then divorce. I'm struggling with how to incorporate each element, or if I should just pick a time like the divorce and incorporate flashbacks?

Because if she was able to hide or lie about past sex and other things(chances of STD's, etc) before marriage saying it was her life and her privacy...then will she repeat it after marriage too and give the same reason on getting caught that its her life and her privacy , and her husband does'nt own her and so its her wish what she wants to share or keep secrets after marriage also? 

my husband Is leaving for basic training in may ever time I tell him I want to drive he always makes an excuse to not let me like oh I'll let you drive later but never does now I don't have a license yet do to a medical reason but I got taught to drive at a young age and I'm good at it my husband in the past used to let me drive his car but now he won't let me and my mother was the one who bought us the car I just would like to practice some more since it's been awhile since I've actually driven a car what if something happens to our son and he gets sick I would need to take him I just wish he would be open to teach me That's all 

Hello, I hope and pray everybody is coping well with this crisis. I am in the middle of mattiage crisis, started b4 the coronavirus outbreak. I want to seperate n move, my controlling n possessive husband want me to reconsider separation especially now with coronavirus. The reality i have had it for 15 yrs, he controlling, possessive, jealous n a cheater. I got n apt very close to my babysitter (2 kids), who is their grandma, if i decide to take the apt i have to move out by may 1st. If not I have to b stuck with my husband idk for much longer. I am peaceful when he is not around. He wants to b intimate n tries to treat me like a queen now, but in reality he hates when i have friends, my job, when i try to lose weight, or wear makeup. He always accused me of cheating with coworkers. I had a week off work coz of him, i work in a hospital as n xray tech n he is paranoid that i will bring home coronavirus. I have to go back to work monday, i am terrified as well with this deadly virus, but its my job, its wat i have signed for. My question do i make the move? Or do i stick around n be tortured until after the coronavirus slow down, which cud b months. Thanks for the support everyone. Also the apt i got is a lot cheaper then the normally would go for. 

I had a friend of my husbands come over on Sunday to fix our hot water heater. I offered him a soda we all chatted a little. This morning we got a call from him that his ex wife was in the hospital with possible coronavirus. She's been sick for around 4 days. He told us he had not actually seen his ex wife in 2 months but that he had spent time with his children frequently who mainly reside with his ex wife. He told me his kids all seem to be perfectly fine  at this time. I have type I diabetes so I'm very very concerned and I'm also high risk. Is there a high probability I could get this virus? I have not gone anywhere in 3 weeks and aside from my husband and son he's the only person that's been in our home. My husband seems to think I'm overreacting. I'm extremely anxious about all of this. Any advice?

So I was dating this guy. I just found out yesterday that he's married. Our first date, I was very attracted to him, not just his appearance but his personality. I asked him, "Why aren't you married yet?". He said that he had an ex wife but it was a long story. I didn't see a ring on his finger so I didn't think too much about it at first. Anyway, I found out my so called bf is married. Turns out he was at the beginning of a divorce, and not only was he cheating on me and his wife I found out this guy has another girl on the side as well! Lmfao. He also disappeared one day and I was wondering if he was okay. Turns out the day he was in jail for domestic violence and assault. Now he's "mad" at me for finding out the truth but I don't give a d~mn. I don't give a sh^t, and I don't think I give me a fu€k either. 

This was directly on topic for marriage and divorce it included even a suggestion so share seedy back stories. Why would frequent posters on Marriage and Divorce board get offended by this?  

we got marry on jan last year. i dont know why he refuse to have sex with me. he said that he  has no interest. 

My daughter has bipolar disorder. She is 31 years old, medicated, and has been very stable for the past 11 years. She lives on her own in Texas where she's been living for the past 9 years. She owns her own home, has 3 dogs, works full time (unfortunately she's been laid off due to coronavirus)  With this whole coronavirus, my daughter has begun for the first time in 11 years to relapse. She's become suddenly very very depressed and absolutely paranoid about this virus to the point where it's almost excessive. She was told yesterday that an electrician who came to her home last week to fix a wire tested positive for coronavirus and now she's being told to self quarantine. This obviously has escalated the situation. Her psychiatrist is refusing to see or treat her until her 2 weeks of quarantine is up.  We are unfortunately in New Jersey it's very bad here and we can't leave to be there for her. I don't even think we can leave the state. I don't know what to do. I've cried myself to sleep the past 3 nights worried sick about her. Does anyone have any advice? I'm worried my daughter is either going to get very sick physically or very sick mentally. Any advice.