My husband likes pics of younger and or very sexy women daily on Instagram. He doesn't even compliment me. He's not affectionate. I've always accepted him for who he is. He's never been negative with me about my weight or appearance either. When I bring up maybe dressing sexier he's agsinst it, says he doesn't want his wife dressing like a slut. I'm confused because those are the types of pics he likes. I'm I just insecure? I feel like I'm getting mixed messages.

and his previous wife 'Jennifer aniston" I have always thought is very ugly really . and as good looking of a guy as Brad pitt is why he has had bad luck in marriage?

Friends of my wife took us to a sauna this older guy had in his backyard. Before I had any warning, my nude wife was getting a massage from our host. I didn't want to make a scene and if I did my wife Karen would say "It's just a massage, you've embarrassed me." So I kept quiet knowing this guy was groping my wife's breasts and nipples. He glanced my way a few times. I think he enjoyed me watching him fondling my wife. As he worked her breasts his fingers seemed to caress and pinch her nipples. I didn't know how to tactfully stop it so I did say. But it went further than I expected. My wife seemed to be enjoying the 'massage' or whatever he was doing to her. I didn't like what I saw but I kept quiet. As he caressed her breasts his fingers pinched her erect nipples. When he glanced at me it was obvious our host enjoyed me seeing him fondling my wife. So I turned around which allowed me to enjoy looking at Bonnie who was still nude and has great breasts. Later my wife admitted that a few time he slid his hand along the insides of her thighs and he didn't stop! He cupped her mound and let his fingers stroke the lips of her vagina. She said she didn't want to make a scene or upset her friends so she didn't say anything. Before we left Karen and her friend ran outside nude to cool off. He must have enjoyed telling his buddies about the two nude women running around his backyard. Particularly the one he massaged, fondled and fingered while her husband was in the same room.

My wife is pregnant with our son I love rubbing her belly and kissing it. Is that normal ?

My wife's spent the past 3 nights at our neighbor Phil's home. He's not married as far as I know, and she says she needs to spend a night away every once in a while. One night I heard shouting or something? I'm not sure someone tell me what's going on.

They have hurt us by their fighting and are now ruining our family for good by divorcing. I am an adult and they are divorcing after 32 years. If they had divorced after 5 years I'd understand. But they are not doing it for us kids, we saw the dysfunction and are now away from it. But they are divorcing now and tearing apart the family they made. We are now broken to. They have done everything from alienate us from Dad's half of the family by Mom, to a smashed whole in the wall by Dad, to cereal knocked over on Mom by Dad, to causing my sister to run into the arms of a scum back she had a child with and now a low life she had a 2nd child with and married and is now divorcing, to our mother dumping on our aunt for no reason to our father talking to our Mom like she is a piece of dog waste. I would not speak to a dog the way my father speaks to our Mom. I understand the divorce but they are doing it after all these years which is what makes me SO MAD. It will bring nothing but pain to us kids and their grandkids. They will never be "friends" as a divorced couple. Both are the type who once they hate you they REALLY hate you. So why do couples with kids divorce after over 30 years and how do I get my parents to see the pain they have caused me by doing this? drip: I am mad that they are hurting us by divorcing. When I refer to what they put us through I am just noting it is not like they are divorcing for the kids like the lame excuse my Mom's sister used.

she also said she wants to keep each of our cars in our own names, keep separate bank accounts, separate checking accounts, separate credit cards, keep all our finances separate and file taxes separately. she even wants separate bedrooms. (she said i snore.) is there any point in getting married? she said she intends to take separate vacations without me, too.

I have been dating a man for 3 months and he's talking about marrying me and moving in together. He hasnt proposed yet but I feel hes going to sometime soon. The only problem is that Im not sure if hes the right guy for me. He makes snarky rude condescending comments sometimes, unprovoked, just while we're having conversations. We see each other every weekend and it happens at least once every time Im with him. He makes a lot more money than me and he'll insult the type of car I drive, when he just bought himself a brand new truck. Things like that. He's a military "alpha" male type of guy who is very outgoing, likes large groups of people, and I'm a shy quiet female who prefers to be alone. So I dont know if we're really compatible. His rude comments have made me lose a bit of physical attraction to him, because instead of coming across as the alpha male he is, he just sounds like a spoiled brat. I worry if i stay with him I'll turn into a doormat or something. I dont feel those intense blissful sparks of passion when Im with him...but Im also 26 yrs old and this is the closest Ive ever come to marriage, so If I break up with him, it may take me years before I find another special person to marry. I dont know what to do. Any advice for me? What would you do? Thank you

I'm assuming careers, kids, etc...? Were you able to get it back?

Our divorce was finalized 2 months ago. After taking a closer look at the signed decree, he disputes the amount of his retirement acct I was awarded, 60%. We both signed off on this, after HIS LDP drafted the papers and a judge finalized it in June. I have already submitted the necessary paperwork to the retirement office for disbursement but it takes time to process. The ex's LDP is asking me to voluntarily waive it to 50%. What type of recourse can they take to interfere with this process?

On my wedding Asian culture girls parents give to the boys entire family and extended family they give clothes bags shoes jewllery which obviously costs loads the boy side are obliged to give the bride in return on my wedding I got absolutely nothing. I know it was silly if my parents to spend that much but my inlaws should have thought about it . It's not like they can't afford they just takers how can I get over this

My wife has had a best friend from high school who has been going through transition surgery (female to male) and this friend is currently married to a male. Their marriage has since become an open relationship and the person is currently actively going on dates with woman and even ******* them. This person has recently texted my wife saying that they should make a date this month. I have red signals going off about my wife hanging out alone with this person. Should I confront my wife and tell her I m no longer comfortable with her going to hang out with this friend?

I'm still ok towards them. I just speak to her regarding advice about my dad bc he's impossoble and my mom is powerless

I hate my father. My mom, dad, and I all live in the same house. Every couple months, I call my friend who is also a pastor for guidance as to how to deal with my dad bc he's an asshole and my mom doesn't give very good advice. She gives the best advice! In their marriage, she is powerless and either doesn't want to see it or is in denial

My husband is the only one working, he makes decent money. He can pay off the house and bills without any problem, I don't really need to work. We have 4 kids who are always with me, he expects me to do all the house work and everything that has to do with the kids. If they do bad in school it's my fault...w.e they do wrong is automatically my fault "cuz it's my job" (according to him). He always says I do nothing. He doesn't like to do nothing on his days off, just watch TV and video games. Never wants to go to the park or anything "because that's my part" or he's too tired, I get very frustrated...but for his friends he has time to hangout.

Ex, "I feel like I would marry the person"

I know this sounds crazy...BUT Hubs usually has his own smell. The family always knows when he has passed gas even if he tries to be funny and blame it on the dog. Lately, he's had to work late a few times and each time he's come home and his gas has smelled unlike anything I've ever smelled from him. Kinda like maybe he had Thai food or something? He says he has only been at work and not anywhere else...but something is definately different. Do you think he's cheating?

Like I hear a lot happen. My mom's friend and her husband didn't make a lot of money for 20 years, and after her husband started making a 6 figure salary, he divorced her and married her friend. Also, there are lot of stories of a couple being married for years and when the husband starts making money he leaves his wife for another woman.

Since we have been together my husband has constantly brought up his ex-girlfriends in our conversations and our arguments. I don't mind it every once in a while but it's OBSESSIVE like these women have got to be on his mind 24/7. Everytime I turn my head I am being compared to them. It's like his mind is on me and them at the same time. He only compares me physically to them regarding looks but not by our characters or mentality. This issue has been going on since our dating phase and we are eight months into our marriage now. I told him while we were dating to stop the behavior and constant comparing but he can't seem to stop and says he doesn't know why he's doing it! We've been married and the issue is still there! He is very fixated and hung up on past relationships and still seems to be harboring hurt and negative feelings toward them explaining everything that went on with them but says he doesn't care about them anymore. I understand every person has some kind of baggage or personal issues in a relationship but I am being hurt and damaged OVER and OVER again by this man who says he loves and cares about me. He apologizes and does it again and says he doesn't mean to do it. After 11 months of being together he has finally decided to go to counseling but the issue is still there. As a result In starting to have alot of doubt and I'm starting to feel very off about alot of things like his feelings towards me and if he's really been fully invested in me.

My wife has been going to this church for about 6 months now with my stepson. So one day I decide to go because it is my stepsons baptism. Not one person did she introduce me to. Then I find out she has the hots for the preacher. They ask if anyone needs a special prayer to come up and hold hands with the preacher. Of course she goes up there like a love starved school girl. Would you put up with this ?

My ex-wife and have been separated for a year now and we have a pending divorce. We share custody of a 3year old who lives with me. During her visitations she picks him up on Friday and drop him off on Sunday. When my son came back this Sunday he told me " Daddy, I had to sleep on the floor"; this tore me to pieces but when I offered his mom to help her get her own place closeby so that she doesn't have to stay at people's places whenever she visits; she declines my offer. What can I do? She lives 3hours aw

My husband to be has been best friends with his best man since the beginning of highschool. Well, his best man absolutely hates me, he will cuss me out, push me, has tried to hit and choke me before, and just is all around abusive but my husband to be sees nothing wrong and says he is just playing. I havd tried talking to the best man about why he is the way he is towards me and he just ends up shouting at me even more but he never does it when my husband to be is around, he waits until he is out of the room to start yelling or trying to hurt me so my husband to be has almost no idea what s really happening besides when I finally break down and tell him then he laughs it off and says the guy is a big teddy bear and would never do that to someone. I know it is my husband to bes choice for who his best man is and I know I shouldn t object to it but he got a say so in every single person for my bridal party and even made me replace my maid of honor with his sister so I feel I should gst some sort of choice in who his best man is. Especially since best man has been abusive. I could really use some advice in how to talk to my husband to be about this. Sorry for the rant, I m just really worried he will try to do something to ruin the wedding, especially after nearly (intentionally) ruining my husband to bes proposal and several of our dates by popping in and making a huge scene to get all eyes on him for the rest of the night.

I want to do something really nice for husband to show him how much I appreciate him. I'm low on money so I need an idea that won't cost too much. He does a lot for me and our family and there's not much I have done to show him how much he really means to me. I struggle with severe anxiety and chronic depression daily, something that existed long before I met my husband, and although those things have nothing to do with him, he believes I am miserable because of him. I want to do something really nice for him. Something to show him that he really means the world to me and he's the reason I wake up every morning choosing to keep moving forward and living my life even though I'd rather just curl up in a ball and sleep my life away. Everything I do in life, I do because of him and I need something spectacular to show him because he does not believe my words. Unfortunately, I'm the least creative person I have ever met in my life. Out of the one million+ thoughts running through my mind on a daily basis, good ideas are not one of them. Can someone please help me out here and give me a good idea that won't cost too much. I really want to do something great for him. He deserves it so much.

My husband is a middle aged man and thinks that I am to be his servant because "the Bible says so". He will eat all over the house and leave half full coffee cups, dishes, food, etc all over the house. He also throws his dirty clothes down wherever and when I asked him why he never learned to clean up after himself he said "why should I when I have a cute little Southern girl to do it for me!" His mother also waits on his narcissistic/misogynistic father hand and foot and his dad got in his moms face and cursed her out before for not doing his laundry and dishes to his specifications (my husband told me the story). He thinks that because he works full time and I only part time (and raise the kids) that he "does not have to do anything but relax and watch tv". He often goes 2 weeks without work and uses this time to "catch up on his video game and tv". Am I expecting too much? He also took his dads advice and "cut me off financially" by opening his own bank account and fights me about giving me money for bills or food for the kids and said "you will not tell a man what to do with his money nor will you tell me what to do period! women have no say!" I got an HOA violation letter today for the camper top for his pickup laying in the yard along with the broken dishwasher he left in the driveway, electrical cords, etc. The letter said it had better be cleaned up. Whenever I tell him this he claims that HOA has no right to tell him what to do with "his property" *my family paid cash for the house not him and he ripped him off for the mortgage)

despite that the majority of persons their children meet are from european or african ancestry? @god: are your parents asians who emigrated to the west? are you speaking from first-hand experience, or simply guessing?